shortyafter Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHING I would also add that society shames men who aren't sexually experienced or viable. It's not necessarily that sex is some awesome ticket to having "made it", though I suppose that may be true to an extent. It's also that we are bombarded with messages that we should be having sex and if we aren't there's something wrong with us. If I was 16 years old and going on dates with girls, having fun with them, having trust / emotional intimacy, holding hands, and maybe some kissing and making out, then …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 10:20 AM
1	Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHING What he described was very similar for me. That was 10 years ago mind you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 10:15 AM
1	Some of the best advice you will hear 100%	/r/seduction	14/04/22 02:25 PM
1	Some of the best advice you will hear I don't think you need to banish insecurity from your mind, but rather examine it and figure out where it comes from, and perhaps even share it with the girl you like. We're only human.	/r/seduction	12/04/22 06:23 PM
1	Some of the best advice you will hear Imagine if you did that from the beginning.	/r/seduction	12/04/22 06:22 PM
1	Is it weird that as a musician I haven't had much success with women? How have fellow musicians on here fared? I'm not really sure what to tell you. As I said in my comment, you've got to figure something out. It's not easy, no, but it's doable.	/r/seduction	10/04/22 12:57 AM
1	Is it weird that as a musician I haven't had much success with women? How have fellow musicians on here fared? I'm not sure, I mentioned standards in my other comment as well. Something's got to give. If something isn't working for you, then you've got to try something else. As for girls not caring, I think honestly most guys don't even care how good you are at guitar, lol, unless they too are guitar players.	/r/seduction	10/04/22 12:47 AM
1	Is it weird that as a musician I haven't had much success with women? How have fellow musicians on here fared? Just my experience but maybe check out that "leftover and undesirable" thing. That may be what the typical "desirable" women think about you... you're leftover and undesirable. Do you feel that's your case? If not, then is it fair to think that's the case for the girls who tend to get passed up? I'm not saying you have to date fat or date ugly, but what really broke the barrier for me was realizing that I had my standards set way too high. There's lots of more "normal" and humble girls who are a…	/r/seduction	10/04/22 12:46 AM
1	Is it weird that as a musician I haven't had much success with women? How have fellow musicians on here fared? I don't think that's true at all! Maybe there's a speck of truth in that most "basic" girls want a sort of Dave Matthews bro musician, lol, I could see that. But I think the right kind of girl will absolutely admire your passion for your music. It's been my experience. I'm not sure if you realize but girls are pretty screwed up, just like guys. They are trained to be superficial, just like men. It's not your fault they don't appreciate you, it's theirs. All you can do is break out of it yourself…	/r/seduction	09/04/22 10:26 PM
1	Is it weird that as a musician I haven't had much success with women? How have fellow musicians on here fared? Yeah I don't necessarily mean cold approaching like is talking about on these subs, but taking some risks, you know? That might mean cold approaching. That might mean continuing with the apps. Might mean hitting up a girl you haven't talked to in awhile. You really have to take some chances with it, it's the only way. There are no rules.	/r/seduction	09/04/22 10:25 PM
1	Is it weird that as a musician I haven't had much success with women? How have fellow musicians on here fared? Hmm, not really sure what to tell ya, if you can invite the right girl into your world I think she'll admire what you do, but you don't fit the profile of the typical "musicians are hot" thing IMO, which is probably what you're picking up on. Who cares though? The music is for you. Entwistle is dope. I dunno. I think staying in your pocket is good, but maybe with girls you have to be a little proactive, take risks, be vulnerable, talk to them, ask them out. Just my 2 cents based off what's worke…	/r/seduction	09/04/22 06:21 PM
1	Is it weird that as a musician I haven't had much success with women? How have fellow musicians on here fared? It definitely depends on the genre. If you're playing post-rock or something then yeah most women find that kind of lame and boring. If that's what you like though, then screw 'em. It also depends a lot on your stage presence. I'm not saying you should hype it up or anything, that's not really the point, but if you really get into the groove and own the performance they absolutely love that. I play guitar and sing, it's not pop by any means, but it's melodic rock / punk, and the way women treat …	/r/seduction	09/04/22 07:51 AM
2	Whenever I try to be dominant I end up laughing So what? Drop the act and enjoy it.	/r/seduction	09/04/22 07:46 AM
2	I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girls I agree that we should be trying to make the most of our lives, yes. I also think our society puts a lot of pressure on us to have the best job, the best car, the best appearance, etc. Some striving is necessary, yes, but I think most people take it too far. I wouldn't say I spend every day trying to be the best person I can be, but I do try to do always do the right thing, which includes trying to find joy in life. That's just me. I'm glad y'all are being open and honest and all of that, that s…	/r/seduction	08/04/22 04:47 PM
1	Have you ever crushed on someone only to realise their sibling is actually a better match? I can kind of see that but I get the impression most guys didn't dig through her history before reacting that way. What she shared IMO is still not an issue in and of itself, but yeah if you think you can just treat people as disposable or something then it's kind of messed up.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 04:43 PM
8	Have you ever crushed on someone only to realise their sibling is actually a better match? Yes, that's also ridiculous. I agree.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 02:38 PM
-3	Have you ever crushed on someone only to realise their sibling is actually a better match? You guys have issues with women. Some of them are bitches, but we're all broken. It's not an inherent trait to them, it's just the conditioning. And this particular girl hasn't done anything flagrant to demonstrate that "men are disposable". And what of all the players and jocks who screw girls and then dump them? Lots incorrect with what you shared, but I understand that it's not easy for us guys, that's true.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 02:31 PM
23	Have you ever crushed on someone only to realise their sibling is actually a better match? Jesus Christ, people here are off their rocker. I think it's totally fine. But you should be straightforward with the original crush I think. Like, if you start hanging out with the brother, don't do couples-like activities with the original crush. You can still be cordial but things like hanging out regularly, daily text messages, etc... well no. Hell, you could even tell him "hey, I respect you as a friend, but I have feelings for your brother". Depends on how close you guys are TBH. But in an…	/r/seduction	08/04/22 11:53 AM
1	I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girls Fair enough, still sounded pretty hardcore serious though.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 09:42 AM
2	I cant seem to have success with girls at my school? Maybe you have a bad reputation at your school? I don't know. I think "getting numbers" can come off as weird. The guys who have success in high school (assuming it's high school) are just social / popular guys who interact with lots of girls naturally without needing to "get numbers". Or maybe girls just sense it's weird since you go to the same school and you could just be friendly / chill rather than trying to run game or whatever you do.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 09:00 AM
4	I tend to attract black girls. Does this mean anything? In my experience black girls tend to be more chill. White women seem to have a "holier-than-thou" attitude. I never was good with them, I always did much better with Hispanic. Honestly, I think it says less about you and more about the general state of black women / white women.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:59 AM
3	Going on dates with women has made me realize how invisible I am. Is this a woman thing or do I just look uninteresting? That sounds like a pretty big oversimplification.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:57 AM
2	Ladies, Would You Block A Guy If You're Too Attracted To Him or If He's Too Handsome? For being too handsome, probably not. For being too honest, yes. (Not a girl, just my experience as a guy)	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:55 AM
2	I uploaded photos with friends in my story, and she replied with “There’s missing a photo with me 😔” What can i respond to that? then ruin it with the neg lol	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:55 AM
1	Going on dates with women has made me realize how invisible I am. Is this a woman thing or do I just look uninteresting? But it's also a vicious cycle. Not that that behavior is OK, but sometimes men are so desperate that they feel like this is the only way.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:53 AM
2	I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girls Okay, interesting, then use another metaphor. It's like text-to-speech. Just because the computer generated voice is saying something doesn't mean it has any clue WTF it's saying. PS: One of the guy's in this article is my friend's dad, lol.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:47 AM
1	I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girls Ever had a conversation with one?	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:30 AM
0	I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girls I can't find the exact comment right now for some reason, but I believe he said "stop jerking off and playing video games". It's absolutely possible to jerk off and play video games without having hygiene problems and while being in good shape. To think otherwise is silly.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:30 AM
2	I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girls Why the best version? Is it not okay to be human? A girl can't love you the way that you are? Nobody can run at 100% 24/7, it's impossible.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:26 AM
0	How do you stop feeling inferior to women? Men are generally shamed more than women in our society, so this is relatively normal, although in your case probably a bit extreme. I would stop trying to go after "hot" women (if you're trying that) and enjoy some more humble girls, even if it's only as friends. They tend to be a lot nicer and accepting. If you're not pursuing any girls at all, then yes, just try interacting with a girl who gives you a good vibe. Even if it's a grandma. Or maybe a heavyset woman. Or a tomboy. The typical "hot"…	/r/seduction	08/04/22 01:43 AM
1	Set up a date with her for today, she asks “who else is coming?” Is it over? I think you just weren't clear about your intention to hang out solo. It's a fair question from her. Maybe she likes you and this was her roundabout way of trying to confirm if it's actually a date or not.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 01:41 AM
-2	I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girls His advice sounds like a pretty miserable way to live. Talk about having a stick up your ass. Yeah just be yourself, that's really all it takes, but you actually have to be vulnerable.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 01:37 AM
2	I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girls Not necessarily. Guys who say "just be yourself" and genuinely mean it don't go out of their way to look better, impose boundaries, or be a good person but not a doormat. It just comes naturally to them, and if it didn't, they worked on it and did it for themselves, because taking care of yourself is what you need to do to be well regardless of dating. The guys reading it off like an encyclopedia probably haven't really absorbed the heart of it, which is why it isn't working for them. It's like …	/r/seduction	08/04/22 01:35 AM
2	(23F) can anyone out here help me 😩 Hey OP, really sorry that happened to you. This was a horrible sub for you to ask for advice on. Reddit in general is iffy but /r/relationship_advice would be a much better fit I think. Sorry the people here were dicks, too.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 01:18 AM