shortyman920 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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17	Here’s my report, I pulled a top heavy girl & she’s already love bombing me! … how should i handle this? Buddy she’s treated you well, don’t fucking ghost her. It’s rare to be able to build a consistent relationship these days with ladies. If you are not feeling comfortable with ‘I love you’ that is a perfectly normal human emotion to have. You should not be ashamed of it. So just communicate that, and how you communicate it is what you should be focusing on. Don’t wait too long, but you definitely want to man up and talk to her about. You can say stuff like, ‘love is a big step for me, and I don’t…	/r/seduction	07/07/26 05:59 PM
3	I made a group of women laugh and it's something I still remember fondly. The more positive interactions you have with women. The more you will learn, build confidence, and also find what kind of woman you like. Not every interaction has to end with flirting and dating. I’m their age now and I guarantee you, I’d enjoy the random interaction like that on the subway just as much.	/r/seduction	12/01/25 10:40 AM
1	Do you pay on the first date? I’m fine splitting on the first date. But if I really like the girl, then I insist on paying because I had a good time and to please indulge me this gesture. And then agree to split on the next one if they really want to pay their share and feel fair	/r/seduction	08/01/25 07:09 PM
5	Best cities to find a wife My thoughts exactly. Women here are ambitious, a lot of them with high paying jobs, a lot are pretty, and a lot of girl power. They don’t really settle for relationships. They’re looking for perfect fits and that makes it pretty damn hard when there’s also the ‘big pool’ mentality	/r/seduction	13/11/24 09:43 PM
5	Dating influencers isn't all its cracked up to be I have a college homie who’s an influencer, and he’s basically turned off all of his childhood and school friends. I was the last holdout, but I’ve now broken off contact too. The level of narcism, neediness, inability to enjoy the moment, and judgement of others is intolerable. It’s not enough that you are their genuine friend who cares for them and does stuff with them. I was scolded for not putting in enough effort, and the effort is defined by his standards, not by how I can show commitment …	/r/seduction	08/07/24 09:59 PM
2	How do I finally drop the soft nice guy personality and become a bad boy? You don’t. You discover your own values and beliefs, learn to accept yourself and your flaws and strengths. You grow them, become a better version of yourself, and over time people and women will see you differently because you’ll be more confident, authentic, and self-assured. And that’s badass. Anything else is just pretending and acting out. Focus on your long term gains brothers and it’ll pay off	/r/seduction	10/04/24 10:44 PM
2	Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itself Once you have a good life, the women will come. The other way around tends to attract unhealthy situations for both.	/r/seduction	25/10/22 03:32 PM
412	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Tbh this sounds exhausting	/r/seduction	11/09/22 10:46 PM
0	PSA : you DON'T have to go for a kiss on the first date (this is how I fumbled 2 hotties) Well, 3rd time’s the charm buddy. It sounds like you have what it takes to get dates with hot ladies and keep it flirty and fun, so you’re already ahead of the game. Next time maybe try sticking to the cheek kiss if that’s what you’re reading from her and see if you get that second date.	/r/seduction	01/09/22 03:33 AM
5	How to politely tell girls that you don't want to stay in touch? True, and I wasn’t even thinking of this, I was just thinking of a way to be considerate and respectful so OP can hold his head high. And by doing so, they can probably get a reconnect later for sure!	/r/seduction	15/08/22 01:43 AM
7	How to politely tell girls that you don't want to stay in touch? I like the approach here. This beats ghosting, is super upfront and is sensitive to their feelings. Unless they’re wacko or developed unhealthy attachment, this is the most mature and respectable response	/r/seduction	14/08/22 11:53 PM
2	Missing the girl I enjoyed this read. You have a talent	/r/seduction	12/08/22 05:16 PM
1	How to get over lost time? Yeah for men, prime is probably 30s. Women date older men all the time so that’s not even a concern honestly, you’re aging like fine wine. There’s a lot of attractive qualities for men in their 30s. More financially stable, more direction in life, more life experience so more emotional intelligence. Maturity. These things will impress women in general and younger women. I’m 30 and I still find I can get dates with women in mid 20s without much issue. And I’m like you were I spent a lot of my 20s…	/r/seduction	08/08/22 03:45 PM
3	I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked? Yeah you’ve already done the hard part and made an impression on her and have her number. Just ask her out now. You got this	/r/seduction	06/08/22 02:39 PM
3	Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about. On a less cynical note, I think it’s just because they want to be seen as an independent person and not as a couple, at least until it’s a confirmed relationship. Otherwise everyone will wonder whose the guy, and if it doesn’t work out, people might ask what happened to that guy	/r/seduction	04/08/22 05:58 PM
0	Lower your standards, sleep with some fun women, and your abundance mindset will become real, and hotter girls more accessible. If the focus is just about sex and comfort with sex, then I agree about lowering physical standards. But some standards you should not lower, and those are your values and what you value in a person. I for example cannot sleep with shitty people. Not unless they’re like a 9 or 10. At that point it’s not much thinking, but it’s far more enjoyable woth someone you connect with and that’s what’s worth all the effort for me anyway. I know most 9s and 10s are way out of my league anyway and I don’t h…	/r/seduction	26/07/22 04:47 AM