shouldergirdle Archive

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6	Should I go to my first big work assignment, or a funeral? "Hey work Top Guy, I'm going to show you where my commitment is and what I can do......see ya!	/r/askTRP	21/06/21 04:31 PM
5	How do you guys find the time for women? You are always busy focusing on yourself. You focus on self improvement. You prioritize Bros over Hoes.............. This gentlemen, is how it is done. This is the correct attitude to have in your early 20s. Additionally, this is the attitude that is most appealing to women. Well done!	/r/askTRP	29/04/21 02:22 PM
2	LTR wants to meet up with guy friend on our trip. How to respond? As a high value man, you are confident, charismatic, interesting and adventurous. Of course you want to meet this dude in the new city. Meeting new people in new places is the adventure of travelling. Meet with him early in the trip. Invite his girlfriend and/or his friends too. Have a few drinks and talk about the interesting things to do in his city, interesting places to go, what to stay away from, safe neighborhoods etc. talk about what you are doing, the the travels/ life experiences you ha…	/r/askTRP	23/04/21 04:25 PM
1	Young guy looking for post-uni job hunting and general networking advice If you: Show up 10minutes early and stay 10 minutes late everyday, try your hardest (best efforts) everyday, keep your fucking phone in your desk drawer, be pleasant to your coworkers, I guarantee you will be top 10% easily and separate yourself from everyone else. The CONSISTENT application of the noted behaviors are outside of the capacity of most people. The fundamentals of working are simple, but most can't do it.	/r/askTRP	16/04/21 12:15 PM
1	Young guy looking for post-uni job hunting and general networking advice When looking for your first entry level job you need to show three things 1. Intelligence 2. Enthusiasm and 3. Honesty. This is how you do it in an interview: Smile, be upbeat but not too upbeat Use proper grammar when speaking, not street slang (your question above was pretty well written) Dress professionally( get a $400 custom suit that fits well but not too slim or fashion forward, see hoe Kevin Samuels dresses). Groom yourself ie. Corporate haircut. Look the part. Practice interviewing. Dow…	/r/askTRP	16/04/21 10:53 AM
1	How do you find other folks who are business owners? As a business owner you find other business owners by owning and running your business. As a business owner you have to generate revenue. Cold call businesses, talk to the owners, form a relationship and do business together. As a business owner, you rely on suppliers. These companies call on you, you form a relationship with the owners and you do business together. As a business owner, you are involved in the greater community. Attend all those golf tournaments and charity event that you are co…	/r/askTRP	15/04/21 05:39 PM
1	How to develop leadership character? I have the same problem. This is what I have done: 1) Never hire friends or family. Don't become friends with employees. I take this to the extreme and I try not to talk about anything personal with staff. All business, all the time, as much as possible. 2) Crete an Employee Manual that spells out vacation, sick days, days off, maternity policies etc. Then, when employees come to you with their sob stories about needing extra days off because of a unique tragic situation that would only ever hap…	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 06:06 PM
2	RP Careers? I agree with your comment. i.e. learn a trade, acquire competence in that trade, go off on your own. I think this is the path that most entrepreneurs take. Once you have a trade and are working in the industry you are able to see opportunity all around you. At that point you simply have to take a risk and go after the opportunity. Also, make sure that you can scale up the opportunity and you are not just trading time for money. This is the path that I took into business ownership. I have a trade…	/r/askTRP	11/12/20 03:27 PM
3	international student 1) Your host country has rules about international students working while still a student and they have rules about international students working after they have earned their degrees. You know these rules. All international students know these rules. If you don't know them , find out. 2) Who gives a fuck what your friends are doing. You are on your own path. 3) Who gives a fuck that your LTR is getting "bothered by it". You're on your own path, man. If she doesn't like it show her the door. Kno…	/r/askTRP	30/07/20 08:17 PM
0	Do I tell her? Or do I just continue to stfu, lift and read the sidebar Kick out the single mom and her two small kids. We all know that whatever positive qualities she has today will decline precipitously over time. The sex will fade, her looks will fade, work ethic will fade, respect for your kids will fade any respect she has for you will fade. She is looking for a baby and marriage to lock you down. Don't let it happen. It is the path to long term misery. You want the thrill and excitement of multiple partners. The reason you want this is because it is a natural…	/r/askMRP	29/07/20 07:04 PM
4	Failed to protect my girl’s honor. She lost respect for me. Getting married in 5 days. The "flirting and loving texts" was her love bombing you to trick you into believing that is what you could expect from being married to her. In fact, the reality is that a marriage to her (or anyone else) will more likely consist of her behavior over the last couple of days i.e. getting the cold shoulder for not reading her mind and not anticipating her needs, emotions. You were just being you. You have nothing to apologize for. She is the one that fucked up. She was pretending to be a nice, lo…	/r/askTRP	29/07/20 02:35 PM
1	Cycle of failure Your problem may be the demographic that you are pursuing. 28 to 32 yr olds are under severe time constraints before they hit the wall. They are on the fast track to LTR, marriage, baby before their time runs out. Try younger 18 to 22 girls in their party years. Alternatively, consider 40+ cougars. They may be more willing to get plated.	/r/askTRP	28/07/20 02:33 PM
1	Became good looking. Stuck with my old self. In order to improve your mindset and social skills you need constant practice and immersion. So get a job that forces you to interact with people all day such as a sales job, waiter, bartender etc. I would strongly suggest a sales job since "Sales" is a skill that will help everyone throughout their entire life.	/r/askTRP	24/07/20 02:08 PM
3	Self Esteem is a bitch. Early childhood struggles have been used as "fuel" or motivation for many successful men. In their need to compensate for a lack of self esteem, they push themselves to higher and higher levels of achievement. Use your childhood pain for good. If you are creative, musical and uncoordinated consider taking dance lessons. It might be a natural fit for you and allow you to work on your coordination. You lack a sport and a connection to other men. Consider BJJ. It will address both of these issues a…	/r/askTRP	22/07/20 07:14 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 07, 2020 Our current relationship is that we are the two most senior in our office, so we spend a lot of time working together and discussing projects, clients, and our other team members. This sort of action on my behalf further strengthens this relationship, the ‘you and I are in this together’ vibe that I wish to continue to foster. An excellent description of the Captian/First Officer dynamic. Perhaps this approach might work at home, especially if you take on the Captain role. Throw in some kino, sp…	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/07/20 01:28 PM
11	TRP has improved my life significantly, but I can not fully swallow the Red Pill What you have experienced in high school is perfectly normal. Most men have had similar experiences and are similarly scarred by that time in theirs lives. Here is how it works: You enter high school at about 13yrs old when you are just entering puberty. It's a time when a boy starts to become a man. You are on your own in a situation where you must sink or swim, just when you are most vulnerable. You want to be a man, you want to be accepted by your peer group, you want to be desired by girls. …	/r/askTRP	26/06/20 07:07 PM
4	Finding a balance in solitude? 27 year old recently moved back home after bottoming out. This looks like a good life plan. Now, proclaim it to the world with confidence. Execute your plan with confidence. But most of all, truly believe in your plan and truly believe in yourself. This is how one develops an iron frame. Now, once you believe in your plan and believe in yourself, you will be able to meet women and not be embarrassed about your living situation. You can confidently represent yourself to women without thinking that you have to justify anything. In fact, if you are secure…	/r/askTRP	25/06/20 08:38 PM
5	Subconsciously I know that I must drop out, but what could I do? Switch majors to accounting/business. It requires some math skills but it's less rigorous. Accounting is a marketable skill and it's transferable around the world if you ever want to leave your country.	/r/askTRP	24/06/20 02:39 PM
3	Game in small towns due to Career Let's assume that you are a dentist working in a rural area making a lot of money. The dentists and other self employed professionals that I know are able to set their own office hours. Additionally, many high income individuals have a weekend or second home such as a cottage or cabin. So this is what you do: buy a condo in a large, easily accessible city such as Vegas, Miami, Chicago. Since you already live in a rural area your weekend home is in an urban setting instead of a rural setting. Sch…	/r/askTRP	20/06/20 11:54 AM
6	Plate asks me to bring her and her friend coffee It's a shit test. Agree and amplify. " Good idea. Why don't I hold your purse and rub your feet while I'm at it."	/r/askTRP	11/06/20 02:53 PM
10	How do I unfuck myself? The good news is that you are at rock bottom and have nowhere to go but up! Improving your personality is hard but improving your physical environment is easier, so start there. What I mean by physical environment is: Lift, improve diet Habits: eliminate/reduce smoking, drugs, drinking, porn, computer use Get a proper haircut, shave, brush teeth, other proper hygiene Improve wardrobe, start by throwing out your worst pieces Get a job and keep it. Work hard at it, have a good attitude at work, le…	/r/askTRP	11/06/20 02:21 PM
2	Career Advice You got a degree that has some usefulness. The next step is to get a job. The next step is not to get another degree in something else that you have no idea if you will like or not. Move to the mainland, get an entry level engineering or computer job or whatever job that will have you. If you are lucky, the job you get is in a high margin business. Work your ass off to learn on this new job. Currently you know nothing. Next step is to learn on the job. You should work hard, learn, have a good at…	/r/askTRP	08/06/20 09:36 PM
1	I can order only 1 book that teaches me about getting rich, which one do I choose? "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. It is, in my opinion the best self help book ever written.	/r/askTRP	02/06/20 08:00 PM
14	Does it get lonely at the top? All your friends are getting married and now you have fewer dudes to hang out with on the weekends. The girls your age are desperate for commitment. Don't do it, man. Don't fucking get married! Secondly, rent don't buy. It keeps you mobile and increases your opportunities. Further to that point, don't get a dog. You are free to travel without pets.	/r/askTRP	01/06/20 10:58 PM
18	Does it get lonely at the top? 1) It is normal that you try new things and it's difficult to get into the flow. As you try things you are adding to the toolkit. Keep trying, keep learning and failing. It's part of the process and you have to get the momentum going. It's not easy but you can't skip this stage in life. You have no responsibilities or commitments in your 20s so this is when you do it. It's harder to do in your 30s. 2) Mastering your trade first entails finding something, anything. Then set out to be the best in …	/r/askTRP	01/06/20 10:47 PM
2	Does it get lonely at the top? Not Vistage. Same idea.	/r/askTRP	01/06/20 10:33 PM
15	Does it get lonely at the top? Agreed. I would much preferred to spend my career playing in the NBA. But alas, too slow, can't jump, no handle, can't get my jump shot off against the big men.	/r/askTRP	01/06/20 06:41 PM
39	Does it get lonely at the top? Most Useful TRP Teaching: A man must be selfish and live for himself. Tips for Your 20s: 1) Don't get married, 2) Don't get anyone pregnant, 3) Spend your 20s finding, learning and mastering your trade. This will set you up for success for the rest of your life. If you skip this stage and spend your 20s drifting, the rest of your life will be miserable.	/r/askTRP	01/06/20 06:34 PM
108	Does it get lonely at the top? Mid 50s selfmade multimillionaire International business man. Lifting for over a decade, 16% BF. Is Your Life Relatively normal: Yes. You don't become successful overnight. It takes decades and when it happens, you don't feel successful. During the time when you are working your ass off trying to make it, your life is normal. I take out the garbage, cook half of my own meals. Wife bitches at me, kids disrespect me. All normal day to day life stuff. Do you feel isolated: I own and run a big compa…	/r/askTRP	01/06/20 03:57 PM
1	How do you respond when women bring up the "double standard" between men being celebrated for being players and women being slut shamed for sleeping around? Agree and Amplify. Betty: Hey Physconovox, there's a real double standard and it's not fair blah blah men celebrated blah blah but women are slut shamed for sleeping around. Physconovox: I think I agree with you Betty, you make a good point. Women that sleep around a lot are sluts.	/r/askTRP	29/05/20 02:40 PM
2	Ask her for hotel? You: "Hey Suzy, I'm partying at the Holiday Inn tonight. Bring a bottle of wine and a bathing suit and we can check out the awesome hot tub. The cocktails in the lobby bar are amazing." The above invitation to Suzy is in your FRAME of "I'm doing this fun and exciting thing and I'm going to have fun with or without you." You are offering fun and excitement to Suzy. Girls are dependent on men to create the fun. They can't do it themselves. The Hot tub and cocktail bar offer Suzy plausible deniabil…	/r/askTRP	15/05/20 02:50 PM
1	FWBs - do you have any criteria for when u take them out ? Does she act and dress appropriately on the date? Nightclub, pub, fine dinning, beach, baseball game. These are all different "date" venues which require a different way of dressing and acting. Does she know the difference. Does she appreciate the date? Is she fun on these dates and you enjoy her company? If you answer NO to any of these perhaps she is just a "sucker and swallower".	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 05:58 PM
3	How how to handle insults from other men Whenever a group of men congregate a natural hierarchy is established with the most capable and dominant at the top and the least capable at the bottom. If you are getting picked on and made to feel beta it is because you are. The group is putting you into your rightful position. The only proper response is to STFU and become a better man and move up the hierarchy. It's a long term move but it's the only move you have. I was in your position 15 years ago. This is what I did: Became very successf…	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 03:18 PM
1	Living with my girl for a month, bad idea or no? Dude, LTR is making her move up to "wife" status. Be careful. Here is how it works: 1) Temporary living arrangement 2) She is on best behavior, cooking, cleaning, pleasant, fucking 3) Joint bank account, you know, for rent, utilities, groceries etc. She actually pays her half 4) Get a pet together 5) One month is up, everything is so great may as well just stay in the apartment together and sign a 1 yr lease 6) She gets pregnant 7) Living together, banking together, pet, baby on the way...may as…	/r/askTRP	27/04/20 03:01 PM
2	Need some career-advice. Really want to become more successful. You should build a business based on what you know so you do not have to start from scratch. Let's take an inventory, you are young, intelligent, ambitious, have lots of spare time, are a teacher and have IT knowledge. You are surrounded by other teachers who largely have no IT knowledge, are lazy and lower IQs than you. This is what I would do: Proceed to take the school's official curriculum for the grade that you teach and automate all of the lesson plans, testing material, marking of tests a…	/r/askTRP	02/04/20 02:59 PM
4	Need some help with the basics - Being the prize The reason that you are feeling a little confused is because you are not much of a prize, and you know it. When you approach women you have very little to offer, while in comparison they are beautiful and have a sweet lovely pussy. She is the prize, in comparison to you. To turn this around and become the prize, you have to do two things: 1) Become the prize and 2) Understand your value. BE THE PRIZE Become a man of accomplishment- Do things. Get a job, build a business, get educated, develop fu…	/r/askTRP	26/03/20 06:31 PM
1	Career/Purpose advice for a 24 year old You are young, in shape, like to draw, like to be outside, like talking to people, experienced in customer service, ambitious. Try landscape architect. You can start small and do a flower garden or retaining wall for your grandmother or neighbour. Start working for a landscaper. Very easy to get into the business. Rent any equipment that you need. Watch youtube videos. No formal certifications required just imagination, and hard work. Learn as you go and slowly take on larger projects as your ab…	/r/askTRP	01/03/20 04:05 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - February 25, 2020 I was in the normal TRT range. I started TRT in November. Now I'm above the normal range. I'm 54 yrs old, in good shape but was experiencing brain fog, difficulty sleeping, low libido, trouble recovering from workouts etc. I decided to go onto TRT to address these issues. Results are not obvious. Brain fog is mostly gone, feel stronger and more confident in the gym, generally I'm feeling really good. Sleep is unchanged, libido is unchanged, body composition my have improved a tiny bit but I stil…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/20 06:25 PM
2	My parents raised me up to be a pacifist and I've been humiliated and emasculated by other people throughout my childhood, teenage years, and adulthood A lot of the advice here is to lift, learn to fight, learn to shoot. However, you are a 30 yr old adult. I suspect that you have spent zero time in your life fighting and that you will have zero fights in the future. Physical altercations should be avoided. You don't want to punch someone and go to jail or get punched and suffer a brain injury. Don't be stupid. Instead, you need to be more assertive in your daily interactions with people. You want others to respect you and treat you seriously. H…	/r/askTRP	13/02/20 05:28 PM
1	What can I start doing to become high value? (18 y.o.) Hey Polarizingpotato, you have asked a great question and you have asked it at the right time of your life. In order to become a high value man...seek accomplishments i.e. do important things. 1) Learn: choose a university major that will result in a good job and study your ass off. 2) Develop your body: lift heavy, eat well, sleep a lot. 3) Stay active: go outside and move i.e. play sports, run, hike, swim, surf, camping, skiing, rock climb, canoe etc. etc.. Anything that is active, outdoors an…	/r/askTRP	08/02/20 10:20 PM
0	How to Combat Nihilistic Feelings? The first thing I would do is immediately stop the boxing. See a brain injury specialist to rule out any physical damage. Stop all recreational drugs and alcohol. Clean up your diet and sleep habits.	/r/askTRP	03/01/20 08:31 PM
4	Hobbies to increase SMV? I'm building a log cabin on a small piece of land that I have near a lake. Invite my buddies to join me on the weekends to work on it. We take off our shirts, work our asses off in the sun, drink beer and eat meat at night. Source of endless social media posts. Women go crazy over this kind of stuff. They want to be a part of it. Women have no ability to do this stuff by themselves. To them, it's unique and exciting. Any activity that requires mastery, skill and testosterone attracts women.	/r/askTRP	03/01/20 07:11 PM
4	Hobbies to increase SMV? Learning manly skills will make you more competent, will make you a more confident person and will make you a more interesting person. This will certain help to raise your SMV. Some manly skills are: shooting, mixing cocktails, dressing well, changing a tire (car repairs), operating heavy machinery, home repairs, canoeing camping outdoor adventure, salesmanship, holding frame, etc, etc. The options are limitless. You can get paid to develop these skills by taking weekend part time jobs. Your emp…	/r/askTRP	03/01/20 06:27 PM
1	How should I describe boring STEM jobs to women? Chicks want to know that what you are doing is cool, involves travel and lots of money. You "I lead an international team, developing AI that will revolutionize the mining and real estate industries." Her: "Wow, really!" You: " Yah, right now I'm working on the acceleration of tectonic plates. We hope to go to market soon. Want another drink?" Keep it vague. Sprinkle in a bit a truth. Use cool buzzwords Software =AI, programmer in India = International team,	/r/askTRP	13/12/19 08:53 PM
8	I'm about to get married, do any of you have any advice for me? Mid 50s, too. Successful family, career, life, marriage. DO NOT GET MARRIED. You can't get through to these young guys like LooksmatteraLot. Their thinking is clouded by hubris/loneliness/horniness. But, nothing that a lifetime of regret won't fix.	/r/askMRP	04/12/19 05:56 PM
3	Has any men here successfully gotten rid of their feminine voice? Talk slower and louder don't uptalk Never apologize never use filler words such as: "Like, I so totally want to go to the mall". Instead "I want to go to the mall." Eliminate that nervous giggle at the end of your sentences. Good posture, shoulders back. Look straight ahead, hold eye contact. Eliminate that head tilt to the side. Accomplish shit in your life which will build your confidence. Lift stop wearing skinny jeans	/r/askTRP	21/11/19 10:04 PM
1	Can't attract girls my age I agree with you that the graphs do not always explain everything. Instead, the graph explains a general phenomenon. Ie. girls have high SMV early with a quick decline. Men have a slow gradual increase in SMV to a late peak and a very slow decline. The dude asking the question here should consider if his specific experience is in line with the general theory.	/r/askTRP	15/11/19 09:49 PM
1	Can't attract girls my age This dynamic is perfectly explained by Rollo when he charted the SMV of men vs. women at different ages. Women peak their SMV at about 22/23 yrs old. Exactly where you are now. Men peak their SMV at 35/36 yrs old. You have to improved yourself over the next 13 years to reach peak SMV and then attract the 22/23 yr old cohort.	/r/askTRP	15/11/19 08:46 PM
5	Feeling tired about 5 hours into the day. How to get more energy? The body works best when it is moving. Sitting around screws up all your bodily systems. To keep energy: 1) stay active. Keep moving. Try to reach that flow state where you are fully engaged in your activity. May be difficult if are are unemployed, under-employed. 2) After working for an extended period I often find that I am exhausted from my labors. Try taking a 10 minute nap. But no longer than 20 minutes. You don't have to fall asleep, simply lay down and clear your mind. I find the results …	/r/askTRP	15/11/19 03:01 PM
1	LTR is shittesting me more since she went off birth control Hey daddyIwannaeatrp, I think the real shit test is that she went off birth control. Hard next. Problem solved.	/r/askTRP	14/11/19 05:19 PM
4	Girlfriend(28) asking me (27) to marry her Exact same thing happened to me 30 years ago. I was low SMV beta, she was a 5 SMV. I was just starting my career and she was aging out. She really wanted to get married, so we did. Overall she was a good woman, a good wife and a good mother. We have had a good life together. My SMV continued to rise, hers plunged. If I were to do it over again this is what I would do: Don't get her pregnant!!!! Don't get married!!!!!!!!! Keep improving your SMV and wealth. Spin plates until age 45. Then, if you …	/r/askTRP	13/11/19 03:49 PM
3	How to get over a fear of breaking women's hearts THE most important concept that we must all internalize here at The Red Pill is to put ourselves first, above all else. "I am living my own life. It is my happiness that is primary. I am responsible for me and only me. I do not live my life for others and I cannot mange nor be responsible for the thoughts and feelings of others." The above, is an excellent real life example of what happens when you try to live your life for someone else. (scared to hurt someone's feelings). It just leads to mise…	/r/askTRP	08/11/19 04:04 PM
2	How do I get rid of nervousness in my voice Speak loudly and clearly speak slower Speak with a deeper voice Stop up-talking like a 12 year old girl. Instead make declarative statements. Eliminate filler words such as "to be honest", "In my humble opinion", "basically",etc. Eliminate the nervous giggle after you say something. Know what you are talking about. Practice the above. If you do the above, and do it often you will sound like a man. You will develop a presence, especially compared to all the soy boys around everywhere. People will…	/r/askTRP	05/11/19 02:16 PM
4	Alpha Male Role Models Let's take an example of the classic Alpha, James Bond. He is Alpha because he is capable. He is capable in his job and in his everyday life. Some of his capabilities include: Hand to hand combat, physical strength, marksmanship, stunt driving, fashion and grooming, scuba diving, poker, general social skills, pick up, dancing etc, etc, etc. He is an expert in all of these things because he learned these skills by practicing them. That's the part they don't show you in the movies. You have to dev…	/r/askTRP	04/11/19 09:51 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019 Agreed!	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/11/19 03:06 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019 Feminism is simply a gigantic shit test. No one believes that shit, especially the feminists. Women are just as strong as men, Lol, Lol, Lol. Agree ...and amplify. It's great fun. Do it enough and they realize how stupid their feminism sounds. Agree and amplify everything they say. Soon she will have to STFU because she knows that you are on to her bullshit.	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/10/19 11:22 AM
6	Is it possible to be a top 20%-5% man with low income? It is very easy to be a top 20% man. Simply not be fat, not be a drug or alcohol addict, and be employed. Bingo bango, you are top 20%. What you should be striving for, and I think this is where your question is getting at, is being a top 5% man. A man that other men want to be and women want to be with. A man that garners respect and admiration. To be a 5% man looks and game are not enough. You need to be a man of accomplishment. Go outside and look around you. Everything that you see, and I me…	/r/askTRP	12/10/19 02:01 PM
5	To keep your head down and work or to enjoy life ? A top level young man should be able to do it all: Get good grades in school, hold a part time job, lift and party with your friends. Focusing solely on good grades to the exclusion of all else, or solely on partying to the exclusion of all else will result in you achieving less than your full potential. Strive to do it all, strive for greatness. You should note that video games and social media do not contribute to you reaching your greatness. Mostly just a useless time sink. You are young, don…	/r/askTRP	02/10/19 10:46 PM
8	What are the best RP resources on money and career? Look up books by Napolean Hill. "Think and Grow Rich", " The Keys to Success" and many more. He is the seminal writer in the field of self help and success. In fact, I have had both of these books at my desk for the last 25 years. They have worked for me, beyond my wildest dreams.	/r/askTRP	27/09/19 07:10 PM
3	Why am I the one feeling so much dread? Dread! Men don't feel dread. Women feel dread. Dread is a competition anxiety that women feel when their men start attracting the attention of other women. A woman's response to dread is to solidify the relationship by fucking more and better. There is no way that my wife, at 30+ yr old with multiple kids, depreciating assets is going to create a competition anxiety in me. She knows that if she does anything, emotional cheating, physical cheating she would be out the door so fast her head would …	/r/askMRP	27/09/19 02:02 AM
1	"Manning 101" and the MRP End Game Agreed. Just because I might be manning well does not directly translate into Alpha sexual attractiveness. Leveling up from a career Beta to Alpha is difficult.	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/09/19 07:53 PM
3	Emotions are not weakness. Weakness is weakness. Agreed! Women process everyday events primarily through their emotions. They share their emotions with others and seek validation and support for their emotions. Example: "Becky in accounting said Good Morning to me in a bitchy way, today. OMG! She is such a bitch blah, blah, blah." Men generally should take a more logical approach to everyday events: Becky: "Good Morning", ME: "Good Morning". Walk away, never think about it. Men who primarily process everyday events through an emotional lens su…	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/09/19 05:37 PM
4	"Manning 101" and the MRP End Game I believe that Appreciation is a male trait and that most women are largely incapable of it. Women will appreciate a male trait in the moment or when it is demonstrated in the presence of other women i.e. it makes her look good that her man can change a tire. Once she knows that her man has these traits she may or may not appreciate then for a split second and then it quickly becomes an expectation. Example: I make a very good living. This would be very attractive to other women. To my wife, it …	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/09/19 02:58 PM
1	"Manning 101" and the MRP End Game This is a very good list of the minimum requirements of being a man in the modern age. I easily meet and exceed these standards but I have been fortunate in my upbringing, demeanor and the fact that I have been here at MRP for some time. I have made the improvements. I can't think of anyone else that I know in real life who does. Fit and competent guys fall short on the social aspects. Accomplished guys fall short on the physical. I think that the sad truth is that if you meet these standards yo…	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/09/19 02:41 PM
4	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 17, 2019 I told new step-kids that they HAVE to do a sport and music (band, chorus, etc) until 7th grade, This is FRAME. Very good "Good, let's keep them home from school, have them eat ice cream for breakfast, and play tablets all day." Agree and amplify. Very good. I'm in a one-sided open relationship Her job is to lock you down. Step 1. Move in together. Done. Step 2. Get rid of the side piece Step 3. Get Married and Step 4. Get you to adopt her kids. Beware of this and hold frame! Six Kids - You have…	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/09/19 08:54 PM
9	My wife dread me to level 11, I am barely at level 5: victim puke! Could everyone take a second for a quick aside in order to remind ourselves of some basic definitions. I'm no expert so input and clarification is appreciated. I want to address the difference between DREAD vs, ONEITIS. DREAD: Men dread women. Women cannot dread men. Women feel dread. Men do not feel dread. Women feel dread as a sort of competition anxiety where other women are interested or are possibly interested in their man. She fears losing him. A woman's response to dread is to fuck more a…	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/09/19 03:07 PM
4	Found sketchy conversations on LTRs phone Your LTR is on a biological timeline. She is 31yrs old now. She wants to be pregnant by age 32. She has one year to move in with you, "somehow, I don't know how it happened" get pregnant. Then once you are living together and pregnant, she will suggest that you might as well get married to give the kid a stable family. So bingo, bango, she has you on full lockdown, marriage and kid by the time she is 33yrs old. She has achieved her biological imperative that 1000 generations of evolution have tr…	/r/askTRP	16/09/19 07:54 PM
8	Made over a mill by age 34, now more depressed than ever You are suffering from a lack of social relationships, poor sleep and probably poor diet all directly related to your job. Social relationships including physical closeness (LTR) and friendships are CRITICAL to happiness. Spend more time with your LTR and friends. Only spend time with good friends, cut out the friends that bring you down. Proper sleep and diet are also critical to happiness. The nightshift screws with this. Quit your night job, get a day job. Sleep well, eat well. Travelling: A …	/r/askTRP	13/09/19 03:27 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 10, 2019 Welcome to MRP. I hope this place can help you. To summarize: you are playing at the lodge and playing D&D Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday and drinking 12 beers each night. Then you drink 12 beers on Saturday and then drive your kid around all day. Fridays and Sundays you just drink. Finally, you don't lift, you have no control of you food intake and you have a bunch of projects half started. You have to stop drinking.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/09/19 09:11 PM
2	Older red pill guys. What do you reckon a man in his 20s should aim for by 30-35? Don't get married. But if you do, HOLD FRAME.	/r/askTRP	12/09/19 06:53 PM
2	Older red pill guys. What do you reckon a man in his 20s should aim for by 30-35? Please refer to point #5. Work your ass off and learn EVERYTHING that there is to learn about your area of focus. I'm talking about a worldwide knowledge leader, not just "familiar with the topic area". Once you do this, you will know where to get the financing and not have to rely on the sweaty, hairy internet guy in his basement to tell you.	/r/askTRP	12/09/19 06:52 PM
4	Older red pill guys. What do you reckon a man in his 20s should aim for by 30-35? A man with a stable job with lots of spare time and the right skill set, such as a teacher or fireman, can amass a small fortune in real estate. I have seen this done many times. Buy some rental properties, spend weekends dealing with them, rinse and repeat. 30 years later you have $10 million in assets. Very doable.	/r/askTRP	12/09/19 03:26 PM
4	Older red pill guys. What do you reckon a man in his 20s should aim for by 30-35? If you are in your 20s this is what you should be doing: 1) working out, maintain good diet - this is a lifelong habit 2) Living situation - rent don't buy. You need to be mobile so you can easily pursue opportunities and not be tied down by location (a house and mortgage). Buy a house once you get married. 3) relationship - spin plates or multiple LTRs until peak SMV 35 to 40 yrs. Again, stay mobile don't get tied down. Don't get anyone pregnant. Women will suck the ambition out of you. You wil…	/r/askTRP	12/09/19 02:35 PM
5	Good responces to rejection? Need to bust a nut dudes!! MRP is playing the long game. If you are looking for a set of words that will get you laid, they don't exist. If you are looking for the perfect response to a rejection from your wife, that doesn't exist either. As long as your immediate response to the rejection is not emotional, you are doing fine. Appropriate examples: "No problem", STFU, walk away, continue reading, "OK", "Hmmm", "any bacon left in the fridge". An emotional response will hurt you and unemotional response is appropriate. Howe…	/r/askMRP	11/09/19 06:25 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 10, 2019 I want to see her meet me halfway Women bring different things to the relationship than men. Know specifically the behaviors that you want her to exhibit. I think that splitting the chores such as cooking and cleaning 50/50 is bullshit. From my woman, I want to see: frequent and enthusiastic sexual access, respect, submissive behavior and 80% of cooking and cleaning (homemaking). Your list might be different than mine, but you should know what your expectations are. I don't think that an "equal"…	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/09/19 03:30 PM
6	How do I know when to switch jobs? 1) Never make a career in a low profit industry. They don't have enough to pay you properly. Work in low profit industries only to get experience. 2) The first 10 years of your career, about 22yrs old to 32 yrs old, should be about accumulating knowledge and experience. Are you learning valuable skills? Are you taking on more and more responsibility? The fact that you are overworked and challenged at this stage of your carer, is a positive. If you are not learning, move on. 3) Age 32 to 40 is wh…	/r/askTRP	10/09/19 04:36 PM
4	How to get respect from men/how to have power You gain respect from other men by taking yourself seriously, developing competence and providing value. Here are some examples; Gym: Have a plan, learn good form(i.e. do it well), attend consistently and frequently, work your ass off. Others will show respect by asking you to spot them when they are benching 400lbs. You spot them confidently and competently. All you say is" Good lift". Then walk away, you're busy. You are now known as a serious actor in the gym that helps the big boys. School: …	/r/askTRP	09/09/19 06:05 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - September 03, 2019 rp-d2 beat me to it, I was going to say that I really enjoyed this OYS too! You are making good progress. You are thoughtful and realistic. You are living life on your own terms. Call me up the next time you and your buddy are at the cabin! I want in on that!	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/09/19 05:25 PM
2	How have you handled big disagreements? What is your plan for your kids education? Tell me your plan in detail. If your plan is "Homeschooling-I'm not ok with it". That's a weak plan. Of course your wife is going on about stupid education plan stuff. It's because you have no plan. Here is my plan for my kids education.... They will go to public school. They will attend every class. They will achieve straight As, especially in math. They will never be a behavior problem for thier teachers. They will go to university. They will strive t…	/r/askMRP	06/09/19 08:28 PM
17	Tried talking to girls in a slower speed with a deeper voice and better tonality and received positive results: can someone explain how this works and how I can take it further? Excellent Comments: Some points of clarification... Filler words (which you mentioned above)are words such as "like", "to be honest", "in my humble opinion", "as a matter of fact", "actually". Filler words are feminine. Don't use them. Uptaking: Uptalking (i.e. valley girl intonations, or saying everything as if it is a question) is feminine. Don't uptalk. Instead use declarative statement with a downtone at the end of the sentence. Men know what they are talking about and are confident in sayin…	/r/askTRP	05/09/19 06:54 PM
7	How do you escalate with a girl on a hike? Hike, after hike you are thirsty so take her to a bar close by. After bar, invite her back to your apartment, which is close to the bar. Make sure all three venues are close to each other so that the logistics works. Eliminate any last minute logistical resistance. Hike: Don't go too far, thick black chick will get sweaty and won't want you to smell her stink so she won't fuck you. Keep the hike light and easy. During hike be engaging, point out silly things, make hiking related jokes. After hir…	/r/askTRP	04/09/19 09:10 PM
1	What should I do with my life currently? (19 years old) Stop dropping out of things Make a plan to move out on your own Lift like your life depends on it Always choose the hard road Your job- arrive 30 minutes early, leave 30 minutes late. Learn everything about your job, your company, the customers, fucking everything. Do the work of 10 men. Know the names of the receptionist ‘s dog, know what time the delivery guy is supposed to show up, know how to program the widget machine. Know everything, get a PHD in your job. Make at least one small improvem…	/r/askTRP	31/08/19 11:39 AM
4	What stage of the red pill am I in? Is this all really worth it?? Your job as a man is to develop/acquire: 1) Power 2) Wealth 3) Sex The Red Pill is a way of looking at the world that helps you to understand sexual the world as it actually is and specifically sexual dynamics between men and women. Red Pill teaches Game (how to attract women), and Frame (how to manage them). "If you build yourself to your maximum potential the opportunities and women will come." Jeff Bezos from Amazon has the Power and Wealth. This is enough to attract women. But he has no Fram…	/r/askTRP	30/08/19 04:54 PM
2	2 weeks to build a 'connection' When I was your age this used to happen all the time. Someone's company would put them up in a hotel. I would get a call the day of, meet up and party in the Hotel room. It was awesome. The awesomeness of parting in a hotel room is enough of a draw that you don't need any other selling features. 1) no need to build connection beforehand 2) the day you book into hotel send girl a message as if you just thought of it and she better act fast or someone else will get the invite... You: "Hey, my comp…	/r/askTRP	30/08/19 03:37 PM
1	Any ideas for a productive hobby beyond work, girls and health - that doesn't require commitment? Go to Toastmasters. A software engineer that can speak confidently to non software people is extremely unique and valuable. It will open up a world of possibilities professionally and personally.	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 08:30 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019 CAREER ADVICE: Teaching requires a 100 IQ. To be accepted into top PHD programs requires at least IQ 125++. Use the excess IQ points to systematize the teaching process so that you do not spend one second extra than is absolutely required, while providing superior results. We all know that teachers spend lots of time on busy work. Don't do that. Your time is valuable. I could provide $50,000 of value in my industry working less than 1 hr per day. Spare time: Forget writing. That's a time sink an…	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/08/19 04:38 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019 You are 24 yrs old with not a lot going on. You should focus ALL of your energies on your mission. Your current mission, as described, includes the words "relationship", "girls", "feeling". These are the things that girls focus on. Men focus on accomplishment and striving for accomplishment. It doesn't matter what your mission is, any productive or semi-productive effort will do. Just do something, laser focus on it, strive for depth and breadth of knowledge and capacity in that area. An unrelen…	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/08/19 01:58 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019 researched executive coaching Look up EOS - Entrepreneurial Operating System. I use it, I know lots of people that use it. Very effective at accountability and getting results.	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/08/19 01:43 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019 In world war 1 they took 18 year old boys off of their farms and small towns, shipped them to Europe, put them in a trench for four years and relentlessly bombed the ever living shit out of them. Some of these young boys experienced such extreme mental trauma that they could not walk or talk Or sleep. This was called shell shocked and later to be known as post traumatic stress disorder. Some of these boys, upon return from the war had to be institutionalized FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVES. I unders…	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/08/19 02:00 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019 SOURCE of MY RECESSION FEARS: First, the media starts reporting an inverted yield curve and lots of news stories about the risk of recession. Then I look to my business to see if I am experiencing business behavior that would support the narrative i.e. receivables aging - check, reduced freight volumes - check, increased new business out of nowhere (competitors cutting off delinquent clients so they come to me looking for a new supplier)-check, decreased sales volumes - uncertain, increased clie…	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/08/19 03:24 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019 OYS#2 last OYS 3 months ago 53yrs old, 5"11", 184 lbs, 16.3% Body fat, Bench 2rm 225, DL 1rm 375, squat 1rm 287, Wife 52, married 26yrs, 2 kids in university TRT- Had my 1st appointment with a specialist in late July. They just took my history and ordered blood tests. Next appointment Oct. I will keep you posted on how this process unfolds. KETO- I started the keto diet 3 weeks ago. I love it, very easy to comply, I have lost about 3lbs, hope to get down to below 15% BF. Lots of fats in this die…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/08/19 04:45 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019 At 5'10", you have 155lbs of lean mass. If you were 180 lbs and retain your 155 lbs lean mass, that gives you 25lbs fat or 15% body fat. You are 240 and need to get to 180 without losing the 155 lean mass, therefore you need to lose 60lbs fat. Remember that part you said about the ego protector stories....	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/08/19 03:45 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019 "Wife and I are in counseling specifically to help decide if we’ll stay together " - I hope this is nutritional counseling. You have 60 lbs of fat to lose. If you lose the fat, it may influence your wife's stay/go decision.	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/08/19 03:00 PM
8	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019 'You're amazing, go have a happy life and I know you're going to be successful at whatever you put your mind to' - THIS gentlemen, is how you break up with a girl, like a man!!! Well done. Excellent implementation of Abundance. Such a pleasure to read. You win the internet for today! " I was the first guy she felt she had such an intense sexual and emotional connection with whom she fucked without protection or BC " - Wait a minute. This is fucking stupid. Don't ever do this again. You're a idio…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/08/19 04:20 PM
4	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 06, 2019 1st - go see a divorce lawyer and start planning for a divorce and structuring your affairs accordingly 2nd- Communication style, therapy, PTSD, emotional closeness has nothing to do with this. You need to become attractive to women. Drop the nice guy tendencies, focus on your own needs. Improve your wardrobe, get contact lenses, grow a beard, learn game, become fun and start spinning plates. Become attractive to all women and your wife will follow. You should be dating 25 yr olds. (i.e. Half yo…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/08/19 04:34 PM
1	Career beta looking for tips on maintaining frame, without anger, during early transformation "Success builds Experience Experience builds Confidence Confidence builds Frame." Exacta-fucking-mundo!!!! This is the way that I look at Frame: 1) Knowing how the world works - i.e. success and experience 2) Knowing what you want i.e. standards 3) Doing something about it i.e. owning your shit 4) Enforcing your standards i.e. boundaries Example 1: Debt 1) Knowing how the world works: Debt kills, should minimize debt, debt only for appreciating assets, no debt for consumption 2) Knowing what you…	/r/askMRP	09/08/19 03:44 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 23, 2019 You should consider the possibility that your wife is in the middle of her branch swing. Your Wife: 36, probably good looking, ex slutty attention whore, already cheated in your marriage, popular, does crossfit, travels "for work", is planning a trial separation. She wants a separate place so she can screw the new guy. If it works out with him she will complete the swing. If it doesn't work out with the new guy she can claim that you guys were separated and it doesn't count. You should read the …	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/07/19 07:42 PM
1	Surgery Advice bestdoctor.com is covered by my health insurance at work and is to be used in exactly these types of situations	/r/askMRP	25/07/19 05:53 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 23, 2019 Welcome Homebrewd1: You have been Red Pill since May 2019. To me, Red Pill means seeing the world for what it actually is. So, based on your summary you are really into brewing beer. Beer makes you fat. Everyone that you know that's into the homebrew scene is fat. You want to be lean. These two things are incompatible. Because you are Red Pilled, you know this. You can't do both. You believe in a female centric religion. You are Red Pill so you see the world for what it is. Are you sure that y…	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/07/19 03:25 PM
0	How do I start implementing dread. Dear thethundercockroad: Some people cannot be helped and I think you are that type of person. I only know you from this one post, but this is what I know about you: you are a vegan you don't go outside you have never played team sports you play video games a lot and you can recite your favorite lines from sci-fi movies you have never built anything with your own hands and you do not own a tool box you spend more than $200/mnth at starbucks you are not allowed to drop weights at your gym, and yo…	/r/askMRP	25/07/19 02:10 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019 " told me that I'm not an empathetic person and that I'm incredibly judgemental because I disagree with his political opinions. He basically thinks I don't care about people because I'm not a liberal like he is" This is not a criticism. It is a compliment. "Hey, thanks Buddy! Let's have a beer!" A man is judgmental because he has a set of core values and beliefs and judges people and their actions according to those values and beliefs. A man cares about himself, his wife and his twin boys and …	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/07/19 02:17 PM
6	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 16, 2019 Send a text to her father: "Dear FIL: Please come pick up your daughter. She does not cook or clean and she is still a virgin. If you pick her up by this weekend, I promise not to say anything to the community. We can get this quietly annulled and you may still be able to marry her off to someone else." FIL and MIL know that they gave you a dud. Stay firm. Don't put up with this type of bullshit behavior.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/07/19 08:13 PM
5	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 02, 2019 I'm busy at work today and was not going to comment but I can't sit back with a clear conscience and leave this train wreck unaddressed. I know you will ignore everything I say but here goes: Summary: You are young, tall, fat, weak, directionless and have oneitis for a high N count cock carousel rider who won't fuck you. You have to play the long game here. If you follow my advise, in ten years you will be young, tall, strong, rich, single and able to smash multiple, hot 24yr olds. So here is wh…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/07/19 04:16 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - June 25, 2019 Lunch: Mango salad with grilled chicken breast, dressing on the side. Don't put on any of the dressing. Club soda to drink. Dinner: Cobb salad, dressing on the side. Don't put on any of the dressing. Club soda to drink. Lifting: Lift 4 x per week 5 am to 6 am in your garage with new olympic weight set. I think I just solved all of your problems. You're welcome.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/06/19 01:52 PM
1	Text message gaming questions with wife. When I leave the house for work in the morning my SMV is at least 2 points higher than my wife's. My clothes fit, shirt ironed, shoes shines, hair and beard quaffed, stomach flat, muscles bulging. I'm on a tight schedule, but never rushing. I'm going to work to dominate my corner of the world. I'm a serious actor, with important shit to do. I know it and my wife knows it. Why would I ever even think to text my wife. My wife knows this and if she needs me for something important she calls me on m…	/r/askMRP	26/06/19 03:11 PM
10	What is a man's mission? I just finished posting this as a response to OYS at Marriedredpill. Your mission evolves over time. It changes as you learn and grow and mature as a person. Here is how to identify your mission: Identify the people that you see around you that exhibit some positive characteristics that you admire. For example, I want to be as jacked as that dude in the gym with the red shorts, I want to be as confident as the that guy that says hi to me in church, that guy at the bank has the best job in th…	/r/askMRP	23/05/19 07:13 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - May 21, 2019 You are a young guy, with no direction, you are small in stature but have pretty good lifts for your size. You avoid problems, are stressed, struggle with communication, anxious, in therapy and lost in social situations. Here is how to identify a mission: Identify the people that you see around you that exhibit some positive characteristics that you admire. For example, I want to be as jacked as that dude in the gym with the red shorts, I want to be as confident as the that guy that says hi to…	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/05/19 06:29 PM
1	Handling wife's bitchy behavior in public. In the car on the way home BudgetEbb says to MrsBudget: "We are people of wealth and high status in our community. People know us and look up to us. We will always hold ourselves to the highest standard and treat others with kindness and respect, especially minimum wage earners and service workers. This is how our family behaves." This approach is aspirational. It frames the encounter as if you are on the winning team and you are working from a mindset of abundance. Women like to be on the winni…	/r/askMRP	23/05/19 05:04 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - April 23, 2019 "I've always poured a lot of time to learn and practice outside of work to be as good as I can be and the results are there. " The above idea that you demonstrate at work is the key to your success. Simply continue to "be as good as I can be" in all aspects of your life, not just work, and success is yours. You have identified some key areas of focus i.e. lose weight, stop porn, parent your child. Do these things as good as you can and you will be shocked how your life improves. The key is to do…	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/04/19 02:03 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - April 23, 2019 I think you are making an important observation, but I'm not sure what you are referring to. Could you expand on this?	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/04/19 01:39 PM
6	Own Your Shit Weekly - April 23, 2019 First OYS 53 yrs old, married 25+ yrs, wife 52, two kids in university. My SMV is at least two points above my wife. 5’11”, 187lbs, 13.9% BF, Bench 225 2RM, Deadlift 375 1RM, Squat 286 1RM. Crossfitter. I start TRT in July. Currently trying to get down to 180lbs in order to reduce waist size, which has expanded as I have grown older. I am a long time lurker and I have read the sidebar except for SGM. I’m at dread level 5. Next step is to learn pick up and start gaming women. I am a nice guy and …	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/04/19 09:24 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - April 23, 2019 I really enjoy reading your OYS. I'm in much the same situation as you, a full and accomplished life, however missing one vital component, sex and respect from our wives. I've been at this for a while and the needle has not moved. In your situation, it seems as if you could sink a lot of effort into dread and still have a sexless, unresponsive wife. You have experience with affairs, and you have a go plan, so you are ahead of me. I'm very interested to see how your situation develops. Good luck!	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/04/19 02:11 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - April 23, 2019 To upgrade your wardrobe I would stick with what you currently do and simply do it better. T-shirts: buy some black T-shirts that fit well. Put on a leather jacket over the T-shirt, instant cool guy look. Upgrade 501 to a dark wash that fits well and NOT TOO LONG! Upgrade boots to a fashion boot such as Wolverine 1000 miler. I like western shirts and checkered shirts. Make sure they fit well and not wrinkled. Stop wearing shorts and flip flops. Nobody wants to see fat, hairy legs and feet. Your …	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/04/19 05:15 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - April 16, 2019 I'm sorry to hear about the passing of your dog. My sincerest condolences.	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/04/19 01:52 PM
3	(28m) My wife (27f) says she doesn't feel sexual desires anymore. Was asked to post this here. I'm 53 years old. If my wife said that to me after a few months of marriage and I knew then what I know now, I would get up off the couch, drive to my laywers office, file for divorce and never speak with her again. 28, unmarried with red pill knowledge life would be easy and sweet. No need for the Married Red Pill hardmode bullshit. I would simply live my life alternating between spinning plates and ltrs, moving on when the bullshit starts. But, alas, that is not how my life unfolded. I stayed …	/r/askMRP	21/04/19 06:50 PM
5	Own Your Shit Weekly - April 16, 2019 Style: First, start looking at some pictures on Pintrest to get ideas. Focus on something that you like and break the style down into its component pieces. Then go purchase those pieces of clothing and start introducing them into your wardrobe. For example, I would upgrade your "jeans, polo and sneakers" by upgrading the shoes first. I would upgrade to fashion sneakers such as blue or black leather, simple , classic. Then I would upgrade the polo to a button down. Know the difference between a f…	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/04/19 06:38 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - April 09, 2019 You are fat because you eat out all the time, not because you fail to count calories properly. You ate out 4 times last week but that probably only includes dinners. What about lunches, morning coffees, vending machine during breaks etc. I bet it's a lot more than 4 times. STOP ALL EATING OUT!!!!!!! COOK EVERY MEAL IN YOUR OWN KITCHEN!! COOK EVERY MEAL FROM SCRATCH. PACK YOUR LUNCH. Throw out all packaged food and all drinks containing calories. Restaurants are for fat people.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/04/19 01:59 PM
8	Be a man - Go outside and scare yourself I always wanted a rural, weekend getaway property. I bought one a couple years ago. I paid cash. 100 acres of bush, fields, hills and a lake. It has a 100 yr old farmhouse and a barn. I go there for the weekend, cut wood, shoot, drink booze, eat meat, burn wood. My buddies love joining me. We always have a bunch of project to do such as building a shed, cutting firewood etc. We work all day, come into the house tired and dirty, then drink and eat. Nothing better for male bonding than to do exhau…	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/04/19 03:03 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - March 26, 2019 "This requires that I practice trusting my gut" I don't know what you mean by this but I strongly caution you not to "trusting your gut". The entire world runs on feelings. There is a huge lack of rigorous analysis and reasoning. Use cold reasoning to guide your decisions and you will easily outperform 99% of the rest of the sheep/population. " but it requires a bit of additoinal effort" Don't be gay. Of course it requires additional effort. Anything worthwhile requires additional effort. You'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/03/19 08:56 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - March 26, 2019 Good work on starting to lift, diet, reading, upgrading education, caring for your dog, upping the sex. It's an excellent start. Don't get married. Don't get her pregnant. Your lifts suck, especially your deadlift. I think my 75 yr old mom can deadlift more than that. Probable cause of weak lifts are you don't know how to push yourself, you have crappy form, you work out in an office building. Find yourself a powerlifting gym. They will make sure you have proper form and increase your intensity.…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/03/19 08:21 PM
2	Long term attractive women without oneitis for them You asked for what is the right long term plan, so I will tell you. 1) don't get anyone pregnant and 2)don't marry anyone. As long as you don't do those two things then you can do whatever you want with whoever you want, experiment, explore all that life has to offer. Enjoy the journey.	/r/askMRP	16/03/19 03:55 AM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - March 12, 2019 Improving all parts of your life such as your wardrobe/hygiene is dread level 2. its a lot easier to do this than it is to change your personality or your behaviors. Simply change your wardrobe. I started my red pill life by simply throwing out my walmart tighty whiteys. I bought 6 pairs of silk boxers. She didn't notice. Then I threw out my old jeans and bought a pair of dark wash slim fit jeans. Then someone on this forum mentioned Allen Edmond shoes, so I bought a pair of those. The change wa…	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/03/19 03:32 AM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - March 12, 2019 It seems to me that your biggest issue and easiest opportunity for self improvement is your lack of male friends. You are at home all day, you are intelligent with lots of ideas and no one to share them with. You need male friends to discuss discuss man issues and not get your validation from your wife. I would suggest you think about joining a Crossfit gym. You will learn proper lifting form, meet lots of new people, many of which will be professionals and you will be able to practice talking t…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/03/19 05:33 PM