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shouldidrawtheline/r/askMRP14/12/19 12:50 AM
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shouldidrawtheline/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/19 12:35 AM
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Yeah, I’m absolutely on the fence about this. I totally see your point
/r/askMRP15/12/19 02:54 PM
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I’m struggling with if I should ask her to dispute the transaction or not. It’s a credit card. Feeling very torn. We talked it over and I told her I will let her know. She does seem very enthralled with the program and even seems to comprehend things we’ve struggled to share an understanding on before. Thanks for everyone’s help
/r/askMRP15/12/19 02:31 AM
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Are you suggesting I make a budget? Control what she spends? What actions are you suggesting? I’ve always left her in charge of her own money. I’ve put my credit card on file so she can buy what she needs
/r/askMRP15/12/19 01:17 AM
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I’m answering logically. I do need more own my shit, this is very true
/r/askMRP15/12/19 01:08 AM
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I’ve told her not to worry about looking for work it’s more important to be with kids
/r/askMRP15/12/19 01:06 AM
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Degree no all others yes
/r/askMRP15/12/19 12:54 AM
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Thanks for your comment, we have talked about a lot of other financial plans in the immediate future we are potentially going to build a house and I would like her to be able to continue to stay home with the boys that is why this is such a blow because although she can work and pay it off it delays things and with having small children the time is precious
/r/askMRP14/12/19 06:32 PM
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That’s why I’m here. I’m working on what’s going to happen for me
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:23 PM
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Really?
/r/askMRP14/12/19 01:38 PM
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All debts and income are shared legally when married
/r/askMRP14/12/19 01:16 PM
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Interesting perspective
/r/askMRP14/12/19 12:11 PM
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I do things wrong all the time, I do things right all the time...
/r/askMRP14/12/19 11:32 AM
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Those are things I’ll always be able to improve on
/r/askMRP14/12/19 11:30 AM
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I realize I’ve only got control over my actions. I’m not sure you’re message takes that into account. I do understand how she did this. My frame, fitness, communication are not perfect. Not every mistake of my wife is a reflection of me. I’ve read twotsm, we’re all trying to be better,
/r/askMRP14/12/19 11:19 AM
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She isn’t afraid of me, she’s afraid of losing me. This was very stupid of her. Now we deal with it
/r/askMRP14/12/19 11:14 AM
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The difference in getting to awesome is how to handle these things
/r/askMRP14/12/19 05:07 AM
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Sounds smart
/r/askMRP14/12/19 05:05 AM
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A practical man
/r/askMRP14/12/19 04:22 AM
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I’ll never be innocent. I’m willing to work on stuff. This might be beyond what I can accept
/r/askMRP14/12/19 03:50 AM
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Seeing a prostitute is a cry for sex, doesn’t mean a wife is cool with it
/r/askMRP14/12/19 03:36 AM
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It’s a scream, but I’m not down with this it’s over the line
/r/askMRP14/12/19 03:34 AM
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Feeling like it right now
/r/askMRP14/12/19 03:31 AM
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My wife is her own person and made this decision
/r/askMRP14/12/19 03:30 AM
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I wish I were a troll
/r/askMRP14/12/19 03:29 AM
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You’re right about her feelings on the degree. I throughly discuss every decision with her which is why this hurts
/r/askMRP14/12/19 03:22 AM
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This is now a shared debt as it happened while we were married
/r/askMRP14/12/19 03:00 AM
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Thanks, you make a very keen point and have a valuable perspective
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:58 AM
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Thanks brother, you too
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:57 AM
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You condemn but offer no insight
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:35 AM
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You and I are communicating by writing now. The letter is not the issue.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:19 AM
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Good advice
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:17 AM
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That’s my thoughts trying to think it over fully
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:16 AM
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I’m not clear on what your message is
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:15 AM
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It’s a lot of money
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:14 AM
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I can do a better job of communicating. You are correct sir.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:13 AM
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I don’t get it?
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:12 AM
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How can I continue to be married to someone who thinks it’s ok to spend a good portion of an average yearly income behind my back?
/r/askMRP14/12/19 02:11 AM
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She’s scared of losing me says. We talk about our marriage. I’m hard on her about money. She just graduated an advanced practice program and has been having a hard time finding the perfect gig. I’m part of the reason she doesn’t work more as I want her with our boys. She has a few orgasms a week. We fuck most days.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 01:53 AM
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What’s going through my head right now as a possible path forward is this: we divorce civilly but I offer to let us continue to live together. If she is as committed to me as she claims this should not be a problem. If she isn’t committed to me, this isn’t my problem anymore.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 01:43 AM
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I can tell the person organizing the $9k class edited the letter, I feel it’s a scam.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 01:40 AM
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She has a history of not being awesome with money, not terrible but not awesome. She doe have some impulse naturally but I just usually let it go.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 01:39 AM
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What’s going through my head right now as a possible path forward is this: we divorce civilly but I offer to let us continue to live together. If she is as committed to me as she claims this should not be a problem. If she isn’t committed to me, this isn’t my problem anymore.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 01:36 AM
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I can be intimidating. She clams up. I ask yes no questions she doesn’t answer succinctly. She’s very expressive of emotions she’s a very kind person. In business settings she comes off as disingenuous because she is so saccharine. I like her positive spirit but in the business of running the home she is not frugal with time or money
/r/askMRP14/12/19 01:29 AM
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Lol, that stuff is all already done. We don’t share an account. This is all in her name
/r/askMRP14/12/19 01:20 AM
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I did thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/19 12:54 AM
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