shponglespore Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Dear Nice Guy Friend How about this - he sounds smart, so you should school him. Be very careful if you do this. I used to go out with a woman who was constantly trying to explain to me what I was doing wrong, and it did not help. At all. It just made me feel incompetent, which I really did not need, especially then. We were both pretty pissed off at each other by the time we quit seeing each other, mostly because of that dynamic.	/r/seduction	27/02/11 06:19 PM
1	Problems with Eye Contact? any help programs to improve? ( Mini FR) How can you look creepy to her if she doesn't even notice you?	/r/seduction	26/02/11 01:19 AM
8	David Wygant is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME! Everything I've ever read on the subject (which is quite a bit) indicates that introversion is a core personality trait that you can't change any more than, say, your sexual orientation. Anyone can learn to be very outgoing and enjoy social interactions, but a true introvert will find it tiring after a while and need to take a break. I suspect you were never an extreme introvert, and you may have even been a shy extrovert. It happens. I've spent the last few years teaching myself to be more soci…	/r/seduction	23/02/11 08:53 PM
2	Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditors Aw, thanks. Feel free to PM me if you want some more questionable advice. It's kind of fun.	/r/seduction	23/02/11 08:34 PM
3	David Wygant is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME! I don't think that word means what you think it means.	/r/seduction	23/02/11 07:25 PM
2	Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditors Hmm, game characters are tricky because there are almost always reasons for choosing characters besides aesthetics. Back when I used to play Street Fighter II with my friends, Chun-li was very popular just because she was the fastest. Anyway, it seems like you've been a step ahead of me every time I try to give you any advice, so I'm gonna STFU before I tell you to do something really stupid. You know what you're doing more than some stranger on the internet. Go with your gut, and don't take eve…	/r/seduction	21/02/11 11:17 AM
2	Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditors Maybe you've always known what to do long before you had the confidence to actually do it, but your experience is not universal. Acting ballsy without the skills to back it up makes you creepy, not sexy. Getting out and doing maybe be the most important thing, but it's not the only important thing. If it was, there would be no use for a forum like Seddit or any other PUA material because there would be nothing to talk about.	/r/seduction	21/02/11 10:59 AM
1	Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditors Thanks for responding! It's interesting to hear from a woman who is familiar with PU. Why did you decide to learn about PU and what do you get out of it? I assume it's not just to help you write insightful comments on Seddit.	/r/seduction	20/02/11 07:47 PM
1	Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditors Sorry, you're wrong. Lots of guys just don't know what the fuck they're doing. Either they miss IOIs entirely, or they ignore them because they know if they respond they'll just end up having an awkward conversation that goes nowhere. That doesn't mean they're pussies, it means they need need skills they don't even know they're missing because everyone tells them to just "be themselves" with women.	/r/seduction	20/02/11 07:19 PM
2	Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditors Good work! It sounds like he thinks you just want to be friends, probably because that's what he's used to. Fortunately men don't have a "friend zone" you can get stuck in. Arrange to be alone with him for a while and start escalating. You could probably just start kissing him, but since you don't know how he feels about aggressive women, it's probably better to start subtle and work your way up. OR...you can probably figure out how he feels about aggressive women from this taste in TV and movie…	/r/seduction	20/02/11 07:00 PM
2	Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditors I probably shouldn't be answering because nothing I can tell you is field-tested, but what the hell. I'm one of those shy nerdy guys you say you're into, so I can tell you what might work on me. If you're at a bar, club, party, etc., you probably can act like a man picking up a woman. Some guys probably won't like it, but other guys will be thrilled that someone else is doing all the work. I would be. If you're lucky, the guy will just take over from there, but if he doesn't start escalating, ju…	/r/seduction	18/02/11 04:45 AM
7	Female Confirmation from some of the female sedditors It sounds like you're trying to use the same techniques on men that men use on women. That won't work. You have to be WAY more obvious if you want a guy to realize you're interested in him. Men generally aren't expecting unsolicited advances from women, and it's a lot harder to see things you're not expecting.	/r/seduction	17/02/11 11:49 PM