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| 14 | There's plenty of women happy with low effort dates, but even men don't want them. Men want to date the women who demand more effort with the sole purpose of humbling them. You can't make this shit upThis shows that men will always go after someone with high standards (even if they're broke and have nothing to offer) before dating a pickme. So embarrassing 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:40 PM |
| 28 | More PPD DELUSIONS About FDS Lol, I Could Not Even Be Bothered To Embarrass The OP By Asking For Citations...Instead of going after women who align with his beliefs... Another broke delusional male worrying about women who don't want him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 25 | is my boyfriend a HVM?He is not, he sounds like a leech. Men watch porn even when they're taking a shit or you aren't around for 3 minutes, they lie when it comes to their precious porn and they know you can't be with them 24/7 to prove it. He makes you coffee and brings you flowers because that's the bare minimum for him and it throws you off making it seem like he's valuable. Sex/physical connection seems to be the only thing he brings to the table and honestly you can orgasm all by yourself with sex toys/masturbat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 12:38 AM |
| 182 | You what mate?Let me see if I understand... You decided to sabotage your relationship with your WIFE because she believes (and rightly so) that she gets to decide what to do with her life in a hypothetical scenario? So to punish HER you go ahead and have sex with another woman and possibly contract an STD or get her pregnant while destroying your reputation with mutual friends and family just so they can confirm how dumb you are for having the energy to do all this instead of respecting your wife. I doubt thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:56 PM |
| 50 | Scrote 30+ year old targeting young 20 year old girlsI'm pretty sure he's one of those dudes who believed the "Silver Fox" and "The Wall" myths. Reality hurts 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 39 | Men thinking they know how women's bodies work better than women.Ah, yes... I remember how back in August a 30-year-old man tried to educate me about women's odor "down there" (He was talking shit about his ex-girlfriend). He tried to tell me that her vagina smelled because you're supposed to introduce a piece of soap inside with your fingers when taking a shower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:58 PM |
| 13 | Pickmeishas be likeI started with these books when I was 21: Get a Financial Life: Personal Finance in Your Twenties and Thirties by Beth Kobliner The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker The first 2 are a bit boring but helped me make better choices for my future. The third book is a must if you're a shy/introverted person and have problems with trusting yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:27 PM |
| 9 | Pickmeishas be like💗💗💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Movie/series suggestions?I was annoyed at Fleabag when I started the series but then it was surprisingly the funniest thing I've seen. Midsommar was weird but extremely satisfying for some reason 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:44 PM |
| 48 | Pickmeishas be likeIt was hard! I cried a lot and felt lonely on the way to the top. I had to go to therapy so I could stop being a pickmeisha and develop leadership skills. I stopped going out, drinking, eating at restaurants, buying stupid shit I didn't need, etc... I started by selling my old car (it was like new because I took really good care of it) at $10,000 then created a savings account, put the money on hold and take out a loan for the same amount then paying it back from a checking account I already had… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:14 PM |
| 84 | Pickmeishas be like"...A life we cannot provide for ourselves" WTF are you talking about??? I'm 26, I finished my studies, own a house, a car, a business, pay for all my food, clothes, makeup, travel, etc... I'm not married, I don't have a boyfriend, I don't fuck with men. Why is this girl acting like she can't do anything without a man??? She won't get far in life trying to be picked by men who don't even see her as a human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:31 PM |
| 15 | Movie/series suggestions?Women-oriented/Women leads: SERIES Mrs. America (2020) Self Made: Inspired by the Life of Madam C.J. Walker (2020) (Limited Series) Fleabag (2019) Killing Eve (2018) Alias Grace (2017) Gypsy (2017) Harlots (2017) Broad City (2014) Absolutely Fabulous (2012) FILMS Harriet (2019) Midsommar (2019) Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019) The Farewell (2019) Anon (2018) A Simple Favor (2018) Seeing Allred (2018) (Documentary) Suspiria (2018) What Happened to Monday (2017) The Devil's Mistress (2016) Advant… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:35 AM |
| 20 | Husband gets wife DEMOTED from high level corporate job because she’s being “UNUSEFUL” [sic] at home.Wow, what a psychopathic ape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:59 PM |
| 166 | .....Pickmeishas evolvingImagine believing other women want your trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:14 PM |
| 19 | Men get so madProbably degrading and rapey sex without any pleasure for the woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:35 PM |
| 19 | Men get so madWhat is this "adventure" and "fun" they're always talking about? lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:18 PM |
| 23 | Just desserts 🧁🍨🍮This is the funniest thing I've read this morning 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 12:48 PM |
| 23 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalOH GOD, the secondhand embarrassment... Why would they do this to themselves??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 09:55 PM |
| 81 | Thank you sir who is 15 years older than me and completely ignored the first line of my bio that said “No hookups”, very coolHello sexy momma, you mind giving me some pu$$y with absolutely nothing in return (maybe an STD)? My name is Sam 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:44 PM |
| 10 | Whenever a guy asks me to “hangout” I immediately “bro out” with him and they always hate it. 😂 OLD is basically one big joke nowadaysMale logic: Woman who fucks me = slut Woman who won't fuck me = slut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Why attractive women are single?It has been! and it doesn't help that I work in a male dominated industry because of family business. I'm surrounded by the most misogynistic men everyday, all day being aggressive for no reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 11:34 PM |
| 33 | Why attractive women are single?Most men are straight up aggressive towards me and touchy (Standing behind me and putting their hands around my neck while talking to me, grabbing my hair, touching my arms and waist when near me, getting too close to me so I have to back up, telling me I shouldn't work because it will ruin my physical appearance, telling me I'm a whore when I keep walking and ignoring them, one told me to "JUST FUCKING BE NAKED IF YOU'RE GOING TO WALK AROUND LIKE THAT" when I was wearing a crop top with jeans a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 12:08 AM |
| 15 | Is this a red flag?I'm sorry about that but this is exactly how you should feel about red flags. You know something is off about this guy and you're right, so is your mom. He's seeing something in you that you aren't that aware of, be it control of you or things you have. He tested your boundaries and succeeded. Listen to your gut, this is NPD M.O. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:20 PM |
| 22 | Is this a red flag?So he kept bothering you until you gave up and then proceeds to lovebomb you in just a few days? All I see is red flags and he sounds dangerous tbh. Who in their right mind would repeatedly cross someone else's boundaries like that? You told him more than once, directly, that you weren't interested! but he kept doing it and apparently it kinda worked because you gave him the opportunity? Would you spend this kind of money on someone you've met a few days after being repeatedly rejected??? He wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:41 PM |
| 33 | Does this seem like a red flag?🚩 "Not just hookup and not set on relationships only" then proceeds to bitch about girls who don't know what they want and describe relationship activities then add "without drama" in there. 🚩 "Great girl, interesting, gorgeous. The whole deal" He's describing to you ANOTHER girl he dated because...??? You talked about your experience and he responded by describing the other woman to you before sharing his experience with OLD. 🚩 "And I'm not possessive or jealous but I don't want to share my gir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 08:59 AM |
| 3 | Pickmeisha is messaging girl to rub it in her face that she's dating this guy. HVW is unbotheredI searched for her insta to see the guy and she's single now 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 11:25 PM |
| 42 | Getting a ring is too much work now and pickmeisha agrees at the top commenterI don't know of any woman irl being okay with this. I'm absolutely convinced that all of those upvotes must be from males and pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 06:37 AM |
| 12 | Two individuals in a marriage... Poor womanWho would've thought... men feel empathy... for other men exclusively. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:08 AM |
| 27 | My top FDS learned phrase I will use in real life and cherishI was 😂 I had to throw "balding" in there so it reached a wider audience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:00 PM |
| 157 | My top FDS learned phrase I will use in real life and cherishThe confidence of a short, fat, balding man in his 50's looking for a hot barely legal teen to spread his seed, LORD. 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 07:13 PM |
| 48 | 32 ? His triple chin says 52😂😂Look at that smirk, he's so sure of himself 😂 Men are embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:54 AM |
| 9 | I'm frustrated with how little effort my boyfriend makes with his appearance.If you're not attracted to him now, you probably won't be attracted to him in the future. This happens in almost all relationships and it's always a good idea to reevaluate what you want. It will probably keep bothering you and you'll start to feel contempt when he doesn't meet your expectations. It seems like you're making life choices based around the belief you won't find someone like him. Yes, men are trash but you're missing out too. Isn't the idea to meet HVM? They aren't like LVM at all, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 02:31 AM |
| 38 | Don't even know where to startThat's because they're the leftovers and only date each other 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:19 PM |
| 10 | Gaslighting is an absolute thingAre we the same person? 😂 I had to stop telling people about it because they would look at me with this weird doggy face... "Aww, you would've been a great mother" NO STACY, I NEVER WANTED KIDS! It doesn't affect my life at all. I had an ex who removed his condom and came inside me because I was taking birth control as a treatment, can you imagine my wrath? I felt violated! You can't tell people anything smh. My gynecologist put me on Tri-Sprintec and Synthroid but told me that I couldn't have c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 10:12 PM |
| 19 | Gaslighting is an absolute thingYes, that's exactly what he told me before telling me to stop whining. He wouldn't shut up about how "normal" it was, he kept blabbering on and on but not even once decided to make tests. I feel so angry that he made me suffer for his misogynistic views. Men really have no business being in medical fields. I hope that you're okay now and found real professionals who really care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:32 PM |
| 7 | Gaslighting is an absolute thingMine told me that every man I decided to be with will always cheat on me. That was 4 years ago and I'm finally happy and love myself. I'm glad you made it out too! 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:04 PM |
| 49 | Gaslighting is an absolute thingThis is a BIG issue. I had my first period at 12 and spent the next couple of years with extreme pain, irregular bleeding, fatigue, passing out, etc... So my mom decided to take me to a gynecologist at 16. I told the doctor all my symptoms and this "professional" told me to stop whining!!! He told me that other 16 year olds can take it so why couldn't I? I was sobbing and didn't go to another gynecologist in years. I kept feeling so horrible, I was having depression and panic attacks so at 19 I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 08:51 PM |
| 23 | Gaslighting is an absolute thingMy ex told me the same! WOW... Plus, he told me that I wasn't a logical person and that my brain didn't work so that's why I thought the concept didn't make any sense. THE NERVE 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 08:31 PM |
| 9 | Advice on how to handle this situation with a guy friendBecause I said so Because that's what I want You could deflect the question back to him like: WHY DO YOU KEEP ASKING WHY??? or just don't say anything at all and cut the conversation. Whatever you say to him is a valid answer that he needs to accept and watch out for annoyance, insistence or anger from his part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:23 PM |
| 16 | Advice on how to handle this situation with a guy friendYou definitely did the right thing to protect yourself. Next time DO NOT explain why you made that choice. I had a therapist who warned me to never explain myself to men, how I made my choice or why and absolutely DO NOT tell him if you were assaulted in the past because in men's minds that means he CAN do it to you too or he will try to get around your decisions because you're giving him the upper hand. He apologized but be vigilant because he wanted you to be at HIS place, HIS territory with H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:59 PM |
| 20 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.He really thought you would chase him lmao. I would've loved to see his face when he realized he wasn't worth it to you, his poor ego... You definitely dodged one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:31 PM |
| 43 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.It didn't even matter that much to him that you rejected him, he's PISSED that you didn't do it the way HE wanted 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:08 PM |
| 6 | I have a question for former pick me or cool girls. How do you come to terms with the things you used to do?Tbh I still cringe and have moments where I want to be propelled to another dimension... but it's not painful anymore. Give yourself credit for finally getting out of a mindset that has been taught to you since birth, you ******* made it even when this society was not designed for you to realize that and against the odds you still did. THAT woman does NOT exist. You are not her anymore. Now you can grow with your own views, beliefs and values! We are here, we support you and we believe in you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 05:52 AM |
| 26 | It seems like men will only settle down with someone who’s absolutely perfect, and I don’t have the energy anymore.I had a male friend who was 400lbs, lazy, porn addicted, poor, ugly and just plain disgusting... He only wanted women who were extremely beautiful and fit because his mom convinced him that he was a catch and a nice guy. He's 27, virgin, lives with his mom and they even watch movies naked in bed while embracing. He tried to rape me too one time I fell asleep at his house and then cried because I "rejected" him. Just plain nightmare fuel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 02:53 AM |
| 63 | It seems like men will only settle down with someone who’s absolutely perfect, and I don’t have the energy anymore.Men settle for women who settle. I used to think like you until I started socializing/being friendly with women who I thought were PERFECT and I can assure you that the men they were with didn't give a **** about them. It didn't matter how beautiful, kind, hardworking these women were or how their relationships looked from the outside, men always thought they could do better and didn't appreciate them at all. TL;DR: Dress how you want, men are delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:41 PM |
| 12 | Reddit User complaining about FDS shares salary unprompted and admits to making his dates pay an ugly taxThen why are you sperging on the internet trying to convince yourself and women that they're not worth it? "Six figures" "Hot girls" "Is up to you" Hmm... You don't make any sense you poor, sad, silly old man. Keep lying to yourself 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:04 PM |
| 30 | A response to a thread asking why should women sleep with LVM, when they could sleep with HVM. Apparently men don’t have unattainable standards for women."fOr mE pErsOnaLly..." When will men learn to stfu. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 09:23 PM |
| 21 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.He looks like a ballsack 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:46 PM |
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