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They’re probably rejecting you because they can tell your intention is to take them back to your place. You’re not trying to get to know them. And they can tell
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:41 PM
5

Well what exactly are the dates ?
/r/seduction28/12/25 05:41 AM
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Aren’t you supposed to be courting her ? Why not be honest and say you wanna get to know her better or take her out
/r/seduction24/01/25 03:30 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction15/01/25 11:19 AM
2

This has happened to me before too, a guy cold approached me when I was walking home late at night in london. Maybe I would’ve spoken a bit in the day but at night in my own is just terrifying
/r/seduction18/12/24 01:50 PM
5

Back when I was a stoner, if a guy would say ‘wanna come back to mine & we can smoke ?’ I used to always given in . Now that I don’t smoke anymore I stand on businesssss
/r/seduction04/12/24 01:28 AM
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As a woman, I only consider dating guys who are athletic / gym goers. Don’t need to be shredded, or roided but as long as you take care of yourself & health
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:50 AM
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This is the only correct answer. Don’t listen to all the others saying go with another girl , you’ll lose her that way
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:01 AM
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Ahaha I only ask because 1. Your situation is characteristic of someone who consumes porn and 2. You expressed you get into porn very intensely. The two factors are typically highly correlated. As a woman who has watched porn, I used to feel hornier and think more sexually when I was watching it frequently. When i don’t , I am not as sexuallly driven . I think most people can relate to this. 95% of our mind is unconscious . Only 5% is conscious. Therefore, it is not irrational to suggest your pr…
/r/seduction27/11/24 07:29 PM
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Hm. Don’t you think it’s a cyclical pattern, maybe once you watched porn to remind you of someone and now the porn is also subconscious influence? Think that might be worth reflecting on
/r/seduction27/11/24 05:49 PM
1

Don’t you think your tendency to fall for beautiful women is probably largely influenced by your porn consumption?
/r/seduction27/11/24 02:27 PM
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Do you watch a lot of porn? Once you learn to view beautiful women as more than just objects of lust and attraction , you can practise a healthy detachment. Attachment is the root of all suffering . Also , be careful. as a girl who’s considered conventionally beautiful , this weakness is easily taken advantage of to get our way with certain things. I’m not a bad person myself, but there are other women you may fall for, who could do worse
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:28 PM
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As a girl, i probs wouldnt feel a vibe at a cafe date lol. You’re supposed to court a woman. Cafe is giving friends
/r/seduction16/11/24 12:48 PM
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Personally. The suggestion of a coffee date would’ve made me air
/r/seduction08/11/24 02:06 AM
0

Exactly!!!
/r/seduction07/11/24 01:47 PM
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As a sociable girl . This is a key answer. Plenty of guys I like (but not attracted to) that my feet may be facing, I’ll tease back, have a laugh and smile at etc. but I’ll be looking at them in a friendlier way. But if I truly like them, I’ll probably be looking at them unconsciously in with lower eyes, a certain gaze. Theres also an unsaid tension / energy that you can’t really describe.
/r/seduction06/11/24 03:36 AM
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Personally . I’m used to being having guys be attracted to me . So when they seem like they’re not, my ego is like ?? Hello. now I have a bit of a challenge
/r/seduction02/11/24 03:50 AM
3

True. Status vs leadership attracts different types of women for sure . Both together is a dangerously sexy combo
/r/seduction31/10/24 12:43 AM
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As a woman, id only be interested in a man with status (but not leadership) on a superficial level. at the slightest inconvenience they’re easier to discard, I’d lose interest quicker. It’s shallow. If a guy has natural leadership / aura, they catch my attention on a deeper level. They don’t need to flaunt their status or what they own, they just exist and a whole room gravitates. I have caught feelings for guys like this , even if they’re kinda broke / questionable people, you can’t look past t…
/r/seduction31/10/24 12:21 AM
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Not necessarily, some men have everything on paper but no real ‘leadership’ or ‘influence’. It’s basically having aura. When he enters a room, do people turn and listen to him, if he says to do something, do people follow? How do others speak about him when he’s not there? Is he respected?
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:54 PM
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This is the best answer. The pics don’t have to be perfectly shot on a tripod / photographer either, just look good and have a good vibe going tbh As a girl, I’ll match a guy based on looks, profession, height, at least 1 shared common interest eg . Music. Could be a super attractive guy but if the other boxes aren’t somewhat ticked I don’t bother
/r/seduction23/10/24 12:30 AM
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Tbh reading your response made me realise this definitely varies on a lot of factors but including the age. I’ll elaborate on what I mean. I’m F22. There are different ways looking ‘older’ can be perceived. On one hand, it could mean looking more mature , in a good way. But I’ve also met guys and told them ‘I thought they were older’ because they do look older. Not necessarily be cause they’re attractive, but because they show signs of aging. I’ve also met guys that I thought were younger, not b…
/r/seduction18/10/24 11:33 AM
4

As a woman. Imo. If I thought a guy was older , doesn’t necessarily mean I think he’s attractive. Like oh you have premature wrinkles / thinning hair / low-key balding ? Anyways. And ESPWCIALLY if I think they’re younger - I definitely do not find them attractive .
/r/seduction18/10/24 12:51 AM
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Exactly !!! Also wanna add: I have personal examples of guy friends who first played it cool, then I developed romantic feelings for later.
/r/seduction12/10/24 09:09 PM
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Well this would be a good opportunity to initiate something . You don’t have to ask her out, could ask her a question related to class to start the convo . You could also ask your mutual friends about her
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:30 PM
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From my experience, theres a chance she might like you but doesn’t want to make it obvious. Because you like her too. Why not initiate some small talk , even if it’s asking about homework etc? And just see how she reacts ?
/r/seduction02/10/24 06:48 PM
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Real af, as a girl there are guys I’ve stared at with no interest & when they approach me im like fffsssssss i wasn’t lookin in that way
/r/seduction02/10/24 01:09 AM
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The question was ‘are girls turned on when they see you with another girl’. As a girl, no I am not turned on. If a guy gets attention from other girls , then that could make him appear more attractive - but it also depends on who the girls are . But being ‘turned on’ ? No .
/r/seduction24/09/24 03:06 PM
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Agreed … as a girl also, the guys saying yes on here have no idea what they’re on about lol .
/r/seduction24/09/24 02:58 PM
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As a f22, I’d rather get with ‘a saint’ than your friend lol.
/r/seduction21/09/24 09:21 AM
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Thanks. you’re right. I’ll only make my move in person … easier than over text anyways. Idk when that will next be, unless I go to this party event if his. You reckon I should? My other friends will be attending
/r/seduction16/07/24 09:41 PM
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Agreed, I’ll probably run into him again soon anyways… That’s how he chased me / wanted to get to know me in the first place. I lowkey want to fuck him but if I do it complicates things. I’ve just been getting to know him (him being well accomplished in music career helps me in other ways…) so I’m not trying to do anything, especially not now. It’s kinda like a game of chess. And you’re right , it rewards his indifference. Thanks for your input!
/r/seduction16/07/24 09:39 PM
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Interesting, thanks for your take! Idk if it adds much but he consistently likes my instagram stories which have me in it … eg. Just uploaded one now with a pic of me and he liked it. Could the consistent likes mean he’s still interested, waiting to see if I make a move or what ??
/r/seduction16/07/24 09:08 PM
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He wants to take me on a picnic date & he’d provide all the food (and shrooms for us to trip together). I first heard / knew of him years ago bc he’s kinda a famous producer/ DJ . But I met him a year ago briefly, as we’ve been in the same places (we are both DJs with mutual artist friends). However I have only gotten to know him the past few months.
/r/seduction16/07/24 08:52 PM
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Thanks for your response. I agree with you completely. I’m confused because he asked me out for a second date, which I said I liked the idea of... but he left that message on delivered & never responded (we’ve spoken and seen each other since). I guess I just would like to know where I stand ? Was saying I liked his idea of the second date not convincing enough ? Do I need to make it clearer ??
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:42 PM
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You gave the best answer so far. I’d like your further thoughts: I’ve been told I’ve been playing too hard to get with a guy . I like him but rejected him when he wanted to kiss me / stay round (I didn’t feel comfortable) . We’ve seen & spoken since and he’s suggested another date. I responded over text saying I like the idea & he’s never followed it up (weve interacted since, just nothing on the date). Should I chase up (I never chase guys) or should I let him chase me?
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:37 PM
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Good answer lol. Thanks!
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:58 PM
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What are ways a girl can play hard to get while showing you she’s interested?
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:57 PM
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Tbf he asked me out again and I said I liked the idea , but he left me on delivered . (We spoke about other stuff online on other platforms). You reckon he was just trying to gauge my reaction ?
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:53 PM
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He has asked me out again to be fair .. but just left me on delivered when I said I liked the idea of his suggestion. Do you think he’s just left a bookmark there to come back to, or he’s just saying that to gauge my reaction?
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:51 PM
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Good point. I hadn’t looked at that perspective. But we have seen each other / spoken since , and he has asked me out again but never followed up on it. You reckon he’s actually interested or playing games ?
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:50 PM
0

Well I do like him . I just didn’t want to sleep w him / kiss him in that moment , he made things awkward
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:36 PM
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Yea that’s what I’m thinking too lol. Another reason why I don’t date other DJs !!
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:35 PM
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Thanks for your input. I’d rather be absent when you put it that way 😂
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:20 PM
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Tbh I do like him, I just didn’t want to sleep with him / kiss him in that moment
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:13 PM
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I think you’re right!
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:12 PM
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Thanks for your input! I think I’ll leave it too & if I see him around, I see him around
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:11 PM
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Thank you!! I thought the same tbh.. liked him a lot up to that point lol
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:10 PM
0

Do you think I should go to his party, even if he didn’t reach out directly?
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:09 PM
1

I don’t take a guy seriously unless he invests in me financially tbh
/r/seduction16/07/24 05:00 PM
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No, this is my experience with guys in real life.
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:06 AM
1

Honestly no. Cold approach would only work on me if I found them very attractive (on some level). Even so I’m not into nonchalant /cold guys at all
/r/seduction13/07/24 02:38 PM
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Say you’re spiteful & can’t pull women without saying you’re spiteful & can’t pull women
/r/seduction11/07/24 12:33 PM
0

Tbf was just saying my thoughts on the initial approach But definitely follow up, maybe with a comment of how much OP would like to see her / what OP has planned to paint the picture in her mind
/r/seduction11/07/24 10:17 AM
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As a girl: being asked for drinks is such a general line that all guys kinda say, and doesn’t mean much to me (unless I really like the guy). What stands out is if you are specific about the place, or phrase it like “I want to take you to…” or “be ready at 8”. Not only are you painting a picture which is women love, but the assertive and confident tone is attractive
/r/seduction11/07/24 01:22 AM
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In my opinion, they are making fun of you probs bc they are low-key envious they can’t get girls themselves. Otherwise they’d be your wingmen / supporting you. You got this tho!
/r/seduction10/07/24 05:54 PM
9

That’s the thing with sexual fantasies - almost always better than reality
/r/seduction10/07/24 03:57 PM
6

She probably thinks your ashamed / embarrassed to be with her while you’re in your head like that
/r/seduction10/07/24 03:54 PM
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But this goes for both genders… when I was an unconfident and unattractive girl, guys also wouldn’t give a f about speaking to me. Ppl forget many guys value girls based on how attractive they think they are. But when you cultivate a positive self view and are confident, you don’t go through the world thinking that way. You go outward into the world and don’t even think twice about whether people like you or not… and that energy radiates, people are attracted to that. Bottom line : don’t chase, …
/r/seduction08/07/24 09:12 PM
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As a girl, it’s not this black and white. I’ve met guys who I am attracted to , got to know them, and then realised they are not for me. I have also met guys, not been attracted to them at all, and then after knowing them begun to crush on them. The part where you say “it’s your job to find a girl that likes you”… will you go through life only connecting with people bc they validate you? And reject girls because you assume they don’t like you back when you first meet them? Sounds tiring .
/r/seduction08/07/24 07:06 PM
1

Ngl approach her and treat her as a friend, bc you need to get to know each other still first. Test the waters and make flirty comments , see how the vibe is. As a F22 I have more respect for guys who try get to know me first rather than straight hitting in me (which I get a lot). Gradually build the vibe over time. I have had guy friends who confessed feelings for me and cut me off which was dumb bc had they of just fine w the flow, I probably would have liked them more
/r/seduction04/07/24 12:36 AM
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I’m a 22F who gets a lot of male attention, most of my matches (on hinge) lead to nowhere bc i get so bored so quickly . Us girls have a range of options so it’s easier to look to the next person then try make one average convo work. The matches which lead somewhere / guys I want to see get my attention because they come at a different angle. Eg I hate a “how are you”, I rather they leave a comment that makes me laugh or we have an unserious conversation . I’m used to guys flattering me / asking…
/r/seduction03/07/24 10:56 PM
1

It’s not the age gap, it’s his rationale … he’s a guy mid 20s who wants a teenager because women his age reject him
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:56 AM
0

I’m not even American ??… People on this sub are weird afff. Unsettling predatory comments being condoned and encouraged
/r/seduction13/06/24 11:01 PM
-23

24 year old tryna get with an 18/19 year old girl is kinda creepy … you have literally nothing in common . Are you just hoping they’re naive enough to date you since no one else your age will?
/r/seduction13/06/24 04:05 PM
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If you’re too forward it’s not attractive … us girls can sense the desperation & lust
/r/seduction13/06/24 03:56 PM
0

😂😂 thanks for the laugh
/r/seduction12/06/24 08:59 AM
7

Need more guys like you tbh. Most men these days want to be chased lol. In all seriousness, maybe just give a bit of space by not planning super soon, text / call a bit, but stay focused on you , while learning about them & their interests so you know what to plan next ? I think you have the right approach to dating tho as a guy ngl
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:51 PM
3

Agreed
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:34 PM
3

The way you view women is weird. Why are you trying to “keep track” / “manage” them ? Why do you want to have everyday a different woman? You’re struggling because what you are doing is abnormal. Quality over quantity … wouldn’t you rather have a few good women instead of 30+ that you hardly know?
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:33 PM
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