shumasannin Archive

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4	How to get a threesome Reddit hookup in my country is big (and easier to pull from than any other dating app). The swinger subreddits are also very active. That's where I find couples to join. Some sample posts here There are some content sellers or working girls but fortunately, it's rare. That's because there is also a subreddit dedicated to people who sell their services. And also, I can spot them anyway (usually if the post is too good to be true, they're selling something). Aside from that, there are also swingin…	/r/seduction	13/12/24 08:38 AM
8	How to get a threesome Honestly ive been getting a lot of success here on reddit. There are subs for swingers and hookups, you can try those first. Hopefully there are subreddits like that in your country/city.	/r/seduction	12/12/24 05:38 PM
3	How to overcome approach anxiety? Just wanted to say that you dont have to be extremely good to reach level 9. Sometimes you just have to be good enough with good logistics. Pulled same day before when I didnt even have my own place. Ended up at a motel. The girl's place was 10mins away from the motel. If youve done enough attraction + trust + a place to do it, you can pull.	/r/seduction	28/08/24 08:09 AM
0	hiring a coach or learn by myself? You'll definitely benefit a lot from just doing things yourself at first. I wanted to suggest hiring a coach but it's usually best to do that once you've got some reps in because by then you already know your sticking points and use the coach to help you overcome them. If you hire a coach now chances are you'll get overwhelmed and not make the most out of your money. Another suggestion is to hire a friend. Like, literally just go out and tell your friend to be with you while you're doing cold ap…	/r/seduction	17/06/24 07:24 PM
2	How to handle women scared by my approach That's a very supportive sister you got there. Nice. That also works! And yea, dont worry about framing at the moment. I would say you worry about that when you can already approach and converse consistently. It's like learning how to drive. When we're starting out, all we need to think about is: put on the seatbelt, look in front, check the side mirrors, gas go stop. Thinking about framing at this stage is like driving while talking to someone on your phone. Lol	/r/seduction	12/06/24 04:33 PM
2	I am getting clingy Looks like you found someone you really like. That's a good thing. I wanna ask, what's wrong if you're the one who fucks things up by being needy? If you really are showing authenticity, if that's who you really are, then show it. And accept the consequences. That means, she either likes you like that and stays or she doesn't. And that's okay. Here's the truth. Whether you're needy or not, there's a chance she will leave and things will end. Maybe not today, next month, or next year. But things …	/r/seduction	09/06/24 07:08 AM
3	How to handle women scared by my approach Aside from the tone of voice, and position (not behind but on her side or right in front of her), and other things people already commented, also factor in: personal space. If you're too close (e.g., 1-2ft away) she prolly wont be comfortable. Too far though, she'll ignore you. Make sure you're about 3 or 4 feet away (obvs subjective but feel free to experiment) location. If it's in a shady place, like the corner of a dark alley, then even I will be fucking scared lol. facial expression and line…	/r/seduction	07/06/24 12:49 PM
1	Why is cold approach so addictive? what's your sticking point? (And feel free to dm)	/r/seduction	06/06/24 03:35 PM
1	Why is cold approach so addictive? Do you mean an in-depth explanation of how to get good with approaching? Or good with women in general?	/r/seduction	05/06/24 08:22 AM
7	How to approach in gym. One of my general rules is to treat the gym like my workplace. So, I just want to say be careful when approaching girls in the gym, especially if you (or they) regularly go there. If you both hit it, great. But if not, it'll be awkward because you'll be seeing each other regularly, and in most cases, she will try to avoid you (change her schedule, go in at a different time, or worse, move to a different gym). I try to avoid hitting on girls in the gym, but instead, I would make friends with them…	/r/seduction	04/06/24 04:30 PM
5	Why will women suddenly turn their backs on you? This. It's all about interests. They probably aren't getting any value out of it or found someone who's more valuable. Or... something happened in their life (e.g emergencies, priorities, etc.) Men do this, too. Not just women. Otherwise, we won't see women complain about being ghosted.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 05:01 AM
3	How pickup women when with my girlfriend? Approach the third and make a good connection first. Then, introduce your girl. The third has to feel that it's safe and that she's not gonna get into any trouble. That happens when your gf bonds with the third, like, as if they were best friends. Another way is your girl approaches the third, then introduces you later on. Again the big idea here is to make sure the third feels safe AND doesn't look like a slut. If you can make the third feel like it's casual, no pressure, etc. Then, most likely…	/r/seduction	01/06/24 08:50 AM
3	Can’t stop thinking with my second head There are only a few ways around it: You reduce exposure. Go to or stay in places where you don't often see hot chicks (that goes for social media, too). By doing this, you won't get stimulated or triggered, which prevents you from having those emotional responses. You change priorities. Do something more important in your life. Whether that's making money, pursuing a career, or reinventing yourself, psychologically, this shifts your brain's focus towards what you're working on and disregards an…	/r/seduction	01/06/24 08:38 AM
126	Why is cold approach so addictive? Yeah that's because he's gone past the third level/stage of competence. Most people are still either in stage 1 (unconscious incompetence) or stage 2 (conscious incompetence) Once they've got the hang of it they're probably going to get the same level of excitement.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 03:55 PM
3	Why is cold approach so addictive? You just answered it--the feeling of excitement. So, whatever benefit you're getting out of doing it, that's the reason why you get addicted. Same with people hitting the gym every day.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 03:52 PM
3	How to pickup women that have a type The problem with being her type is that you're adjusting to what she wants, and that's going to come off as needy. If you pretend to be someone else, they'll pick it up. The best way to attract them is to be cooler than her type. Of course, demographics play a huge role here. So for example, if the woman is into black muscular guys, then those guys will automatically have more value than slim asian guys. No question about it. But if you show them that asian guys are cool, too (and yep, this is w…	/r/seduction	31/05/24 12:27 PM
1	Reputable PUAs in 2023 u/norwegiandoggo, great site and blogs! Bookmarked this. Unlike other people who write in this niche (sometimes they sound aggressive or condescending, which makes the content polarizing), I find your voice empathic. On point advice as well! Thanks for sharing.	/r/seduction	01/12/23 04:39 PM
4	Reputable PUAs in 2023 Todd V is still relevant, I had his course back in 2018. Still good but most people would look down on his content because most of it isnt "natural". Really good for beginners and partly experienced (1-2 years). However, I suggest reading Mark Manson's "Models" since it does have a good solid foundation on how to become an overall attractive and non-needy guy. So for principles and foundations (think "7 Habits of the Highly Effective People, but for dating and self improvement) go for Manson. Fo…	/r/seduction	01/12/23 01:28 PM