shushravens Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Feel like a creep trying streetgame or daygame If you go out looking to fuck, you probably won't get fucked. But if you go out looking to meet new people, you can definitely meet new people. And if you are confident and charismatic, they may want to fuck you.	/r/seduction	23/06/26 09:57 PM
6	How should I approach girls in public and how can I flirt with them with out being creepy Women know you want to fuck them. The point is to not make that the only thing. But are you really interested in them? Do you like what they have to say? What if she has opinions and views that don't align with your own. You won't know until you talk to her. The best way "do it" is to get the experience of talking to a woman you thought was attractive and realize you absolutely do not like her. Maybe she is crude, or treats the waiter like shit. Maybe she is a bitch. Once you experience that, su…	/r/seduction	21/06/25 07:37 PM
20	How should I approach girls in public and how can I flirt with them with out being creepy Don't go in with any intentions besides you want to talk to this woman you find attractive. Remember, she has to prove she is worth your time. Your goal is not a number, your goal is to find out if she would be fun to hang out with. Mindset is important. Stop leading with the request for a number. You only ask for that once she has proven she is interesting and engaged in the conversation.	/r/seduction	21/06/25 04:04 PM
1	Are black pillers and incels taking over this sub? found one	/r/seduction	05/04/25 11:52 AM
2	Are black pillers and incels taking over this sub? They always show up. Like crabs in a bucket.	/r/seduction	05/04/25 11:52 AM
1	I created a platform to practice game exercises inspired by Todd V's recommendations - https://wittifyme.pro/ login isnt working for me. "Requested action is invalid"	/r/seduction	12/01/25 08:38 PM
4	Getting yourself out there post break-up Well I can tell you not to go out and try to find someone new right away, cus if they break up with you it makes it a lot worse (going through it now). Take the time to heal and get your mental space back in order. Clean, workout, rearrange your living space, focus on family and friends. Reach out to people you haven't talked to in awhile.	/r/seduction	16/12/24 05:28 PM
3	I want to learn how to get my sex life starting? My only experience is with Models, that's the one that worked for me. There are lots of recommendations in this sub, and as the other commenter pointed out its all going to be similar concepts. Concepts like framing your mentality or inner game, abundance mentality, treat the women as a fallible human being not some statuesque idea of woman, etc.. You just need to find an author/book that you vibe with. Books will only get you so far. Its one of those 'the books will only show you the path, you …	/r/seduction	15/08/24 08:56 PM
18	I want to learn how to get my sex life starting? You are going to have to start working at it, and it might be some time before you see results. But if you stick with it, you will see results. Step 1. Start working out. Notice I did not say get ripped or get fit, you can literally just do pushups and situps or go running or any activity that will keep you active. The goal is to get your testosterone producing. It is a natural pheromone, makes you feel better, gives you energy, which you will need for the next steps. Step 2. Start working on yo…	/r/seduction	15/08/24 05:01 PM
6	Should I tell a woman I’m dating my body count if it’s low? Nothing good ever comes from talking about body counts	/r/seduction	26/06/24 04:40 PM
1	What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive??? Something I worked on that helped build natural confidence is work on my small talk. Practice entering and exiting quick conversations. Say hi to people at work or school (I had to force myself to but it gets easier and soon you will do it without thinking). You make eye-contact with someone give them a 'hey hows it goin, nice day ' or something like that. It doesnt matter if its a woman or man. Walking into a gas station say hi to the attendant, say hows it going at checkout, try to crack a qui…	/r/seduction	02/06/22 09:39 PM
1	What is the fastest way for guys to get better with women? Step One, learn to talk to people. Practice having small conversations, make yourself say hi to people at work, train your brain to say good morning, hello, how's your day. When a greeter says hi you say hi back. Then learn how to get into 2 minute conversations. Quick easy conversations about mundane things, and then most importantly practice ending the conversation, find out how to remove yourself from it respectfully and politely. This should become second nature to you. You want to be able t…	/r/seduction	20/04/22 03:40 AM
3	Wtf am I, a pretty lady, doing wrong? Those are just examples, if they aren't your style don't force it. But find something where you can meet people you don't see in your daily life. Approach guys you find interesting, talk to people. Finding someone to be in a relationship with is hard, but you are young, you have time, don't give up. It is a numbers game, the more people you meet the better your chances of finding someone will be.	/r/seduction	13/04/22 01:30 AM
2	Wtf am I, a pretty lady, doing wrong? Are you working on yourself? It doesn't just mean working out, but finding things you enjoy, becoming a complete person. Are you approaching the kind of guys you think you want to be in a relationship with? It is always a numbers game. If you want hook ups the sub will tell people to go to clubs. If you want something more the sub will tell you to go to libraries, or parks, or talk to people while doing activities or hobbies.	/r/seduction	13/04/22 12:54 AM
7	This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach. Thank you for saying it better than I could. I've noticed the same change and am disgusted by it.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 03:45 AM
3	[deleted by user] Dude what? Friend for life is the cringe part, what were you trying to do there? But it is in the past now. It is not the end of the world. First stop thinking about it, part of learning to accept failure is not dwelling on it. You cannot change it, all those thoughts about what you could have said different will not change it. Now here is the hard part. Walk away from this, move on, find something else. Stop thinking about salvaging it, or fixing it. If she spreads a rumor, who cares, tell peop…	/r/seduction	19/02/22 05:41 PM
2	Any regular weed smokers here? Don't over smoke, if you have a nice energetic sativa than it's fine, but if you get into your head it is really hard to stay focused on the woman. Personally I usually do smoke but I also drink an energy drink, gives me a nice mix so I'm laid back but also attentive.	/r/seduction	27/01/22 09:47 PM
5	Gym and fitness really take things up to next level "ive followed all the steps and am having success, is this normal?" But seriously congrats, your hard work is paying off. It's not just the physical, the mental and emotional work is paying dividends for you as well.	/r/seduction	07/10/21 08:15 PM
9	My crush (20F) ended our Snapchat streak purposely all of a sudden. Should I (21M) just stop snapchatting her now too? You have contracted One-itis. You have now set her as your only focus and subsequently put her on a pedestal, following this road will lead to madness. Stop overthinking immediately. Stop thinking about it, stop putting meaning into silly things, keep being yourself.	/r/seduction	13/08/21 04:33 PM
1	I don’t wanna live like this anymore What are you willing to do to fix the situation?	/r/seduction	08/07/21 01:07 PM
2	Cold Approached Girl By the River Seriously! If you are a photographer then you go ask them first to take their picture, which is infinitely better than taking a picture than holding her ransom with it.	/r/seduction	15/09/20 03:49 PM
1	Girl coming over dont worry about the sex, if she wants it, she will let you know. And if you are sitting there all night contemplating how to get her in a compromising position she will know. Just focus on having fun, be yourself, eat, get a little drunk. If she is having a good time and enjoying herself she will start making subtle hints. Now dont be afraid to be sexual (i.e. make sexual jokes or ennuendo), but dont be creepy, play it cool and let things go where they may.	/r/seduction	30/07/20 09:37 PM
6	Is texting someone I have never talked to before weird/creepy? how do you have her number if you have never talked to her	/r/seduction	02/04/20 06:32 PM
8	They're just people. He wrote a book called Models, it is a very good read and has a lot of good advice.	/r/seduction	05/02/20 01:37 AM
248	They're just people. This sub used to preach more of Mark Manson's stuff but it seems to be obsessed with PUA nowadays. It was about building yourself up and framing your mindset in much the same way you have described.	/r/seduction	04/02/20 11:28 PM
2	Seduction is making me depressed. There is another post on this sub about self-compassion versus self-esteem, you might find it useful. It helped me.	/r/seduction	05/12/18 06:28 PM
6	This Youtube video I found kind of fucked with my head and made me see something in myself that was holding me back a lot. I'd never heard any one else talk about it so I thought I'd share (TL;DR stop chasing self-esteem/confidence in life, instead just try to be as self-compassionate as possible). Thank you for this	/r/seduction	05/12/18 12:30 AM
32	Approaching At The Gym?... When Every Woman Wears Headphones! Dont approach at the gym	/r/seduction	17/05/18 08:32 PM
24	10 Must-Haves for a Bachelor Pad She'll Love Thank you for the tldw, at work and can't watch.	/r/seduction	06/03/18 03:43 PM
3	How do I Close Ask her to do something without her friends. Sounds like you only interact with her at parties.	/r/seduction	01/02/18 06:22 PM
6	How can I make hugs more natural? Hug the shoulders not the waist, it's more informal and less ackward in a non family setting	/r/seduction	03/11/17 04:01 PM
1	I need some wardrobe style tips What is your body type? What are your colors (bright, earth-tones, blues?). My advice is create a list of items you want. The following are just examples: black/brown belt, nice jeans (I don't do skinny prefer boot cut but others like em, find out what you like), polos, button downs, shoes (always important). The most important thing is get clothes that you are comfortable in. If you need to get them fitted them do it. You want to look put together by being put together, put thought into each pi…	/r/seduction	03/08/17 08:30 PM