shy_dude_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
173	Kinda a rant about male sexual repression. NSFW.	General	shy_dude_	/r/MensRights	20/03/21 12:13 PM
155	Growing up with an abusive mother and dealing with the American education system as a man. Caution: long post	Social Issues	shy_dude_	/r/MensRights	21/02/21 06:12 PM
119	Update: I have filed a Title IX case against the things that happened to me in college.	Progress	shy_dude_	/r/MensRights	23/02/21 02:10 AM
24	Update 2: going forward with my Title IX case	Progress	shy_dude_	/r/MensRights	03/03/21 07:00 PM
18	Felt awkward due to an interaction with a female who made me uncomfortable by touching me.	Activism/Support	shy_dude_	/r/MensRights	13/02/21 02:06 AM
12	Update on my title IX case part 3: Failure	General	shy_dude_	/r/MensRights	11/03/21 01:57 PM
7	Found this “gem”. Far from the worst posted here, but still not a great catch.	Social Issues	shy_dude_	/r/MensRights	19/09/20 12:47 PM
1	One of the female friends (who happens to be pansexual) posted this on her story. This would be received totally differently if I had posted it. She posts it and it’s empowerment for her. I post it and it’s bigotry. (Not only that but it’s just straight up heterophobic)	Discrimination	shy_dude_	/r/MensRights	20/10/19 06:31 PM
0	Awkward	Activism/Support	shy_dude_	/r/MensRights	13/02/21 12:10 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why do men downplay their own experiences or sexual assault or rape? I think part of it is fear that by not downplaying it, they will be trying to compare their suffering to that of a female, and trying to get sympathy they don’t deserve, resulting in backlash. Part of is probably due to past trauma and ignorance. Many boys are made to feel like they are defective and that there is no real way to fix it, which results in severe depression. If they are defective, why would or should anyone care. Their purpose in life is to be useful and then die, why should anyone…	/r/MensRights	04/04/21 03:40 PM
12	If you want to complain about men's mental health and "male violence", look at how society is treating them first Well said. Find it amazing that people are mad at men for acting “out of line” and they just “need to cry for once and throw away their toxic masculinity” and realize that does nothing to help. When you treat men like the disposable ones and invalidate all of they wants and needs as well as emotions, they are going to live depressing lives and turn their back on the world.	/r/MensRights	29/03/21 05:01 PM
4	Is there such thing as toxic femininity? Like others have said, I don’t think feminity itself is toxic. There are traits/ actions that are feminine or commonly done by females that are very toxic. One that I’ve seen is not caring about male struggles or just saying that it’s all men’s problem and they need to stop being over dramatic, yet they constantly scream for people to feel bad for them and their problems. One other thing is what I call angry neurotic lesbians. I have NO problem with a woman liking to have sex with another woman …	/r/MensRights	25/03/21 06:20 PM
2	Kinda a rant about male sexual repression. NSFW. Definitely. Guys talking about sex in public are labeled as jackasses and show offs who need to stfu. If a guy has a fetish that isn’t readily accepted, he’s a freak and a loser as well as an embarrassment to the human race. The thing that really gets me is the snarky comments some women make in public when they think no one but their friends can hear them about how no man will be good enough to satisfy them or how their boyfriend is a stupid POS, yet when he comes around she is super nice to hi…	/r/MensRights	21/03/21 08:53 PM
12	Good :)	/r/MensRights	19/03/21 04:38 PM
2	I was refused service today in the U.K. because I’m a man Jeez that sucks. Way to overreact on their pet. Kinda feel conscious about saying stuff like “I’ll take my business elsewhere” since I usually hear that from old guys who walk into our store and are either pissed off that we ask them to wear a mask or won’t give them a part for dirt cheap because they don’t wanna pay full price. I work at an auto parts store so we see plenty of that.	/r/MensRights	14/03/21 12:00 PM
5	I was refused service today in the U.K. because I’m a man Agreed, not trying to sound too boomer, but maybe make a point to tell the owners that you found a place that is better and doesn’t harass you, so you won’t be doing business anymore.	/r/MensRights	14/03/21 12:10 AM
3	Update on my title IX case part 3: Failure Thank you. Just feel like if I had prepared by getting a lawyer, things would have been different instead of me assuming it would be ok.	/r/MensRights	11/03/21 06:58 PM
6	Update on my title IX case part 3: Failure Basically, when I was a freshman the university I attended had talks on sexual violence. They didn’t mention male victims of sexual violence. It made me feel alienated and unwelcome at the university. I decided to file a formal complaint against the university and as you can see by this post, it was a failure.	/r/MensRights	11/03/21 02:41 PM
6	Growing up with an abusive mother and dealing with the American education system as a man. Caution: long post I think I might take some action.	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 12:51 AM
5	Male Modesty in Medical Settings: "They (females nurses) made it their objective to do everything that they could to ridicule me, embarrass me, leaving me exposed to the hall (uncovered so everyone walking down the hall could see) I even heard one of them say that will teach him who is in charge" Those “nurses” should be stripped of their medical licenses and fired. Absolutely zero reason for that behavior. People wonder why some people refuse to got to the hospital or other medical institutions at times.	/r/MensRights	12/02/21 06:38 PM
2	What do men want from women? To be loved and accepted without restriction and prejudice.	/r/MensRights	25/01/21 06:45 PM
1	Found this “gem”. Far from the worst posted here, but still not a great catch. The fact that she says guys who don’t like to eat her out are pussys.	/r/MensRights	20/09/20 01:00 AM
3	Male sexual assult victims what is something that you had to go through that would have never happened to a women while telling your story/other peoples reaction to the event I was assaulted in my sophomore year of high school. I was on the wrestling team and in the locker room, one of my teammates (who everybody hated) squeezed my testicles to get me to drop my soap on the ground (dropping soap in prison thing). No one around did anything, I didn’t tell anyone for a while because I figured it was something that just happened when on a team. A few years later I came to grips with the fact that I was assaulted. This happened to be during the rise of very vocal feminis…	/r/MensRights	06/07/20 12:39 AM
1	Men get sexually assaulted to I was assaulted in high school. I was on the wrestling team and one of my teammates squeezed my testicles in the locker room and thought it was funny as shit. No one around did anything. I was scared for my life. He did it again a few weeks later. I thought it was just something that happened to guys. To this day it angers me when women say men will never know what it’s like to be sexually assaulted. You are not alone and it’s not acceptable that it happened to you or others who have gone throug…	/r/MensRights	04/07/20 12:14 PM
1	That is not a pancake Kid F	/r/MensRights	06/05/20 06:10 PM
3	Feminist here with genuine questions (not here to fight) I have not read all the comments so sorry if I repeat anything. First and foremost, thank you for not coming here to start fights. My goals are to make the world a more welcoming place for men. Growing up, my mother was verbally, emotionally and psychologically abusive towards me, my sister and her husband. It frustrates me when people pardon my mother and other mothers for the behavior she had because “It empowers her” or something like that. It breaks my heart to see that many kids of my time …	/r/MensRights	11/02/20 01:57 AM
72	Reminder: It's been one year since Gillette released this misandrist ad. Don't buy from misandrists, don't buy Gillette True mark of a coward.	/r/MensRights	27/01/20 04:00 AM
6	Frustrated. People don't want to hear about feminism's abuses For me it’s the little stuff. I’m in college and my friend group consists of a sizable amount of girls, some of which are hardcore feminists. Call me overly sensitive, but they do stuff like wear shirts and have accessories that glorify women. Not to mention that they also want to punish all men for what happened in the past. It’s mainly the little bigoted comments that get me, like encouraging empowerment of women (which is usually in response to a woman beating or killing a man) and making hat…	/r/MensRights	17/10/19 10:41 PM
6	If men died out I’m no women but I imagine many would become severely depressed since the ones they love are gone and that they get fertilized via leftover sperm cells in sperm banks.	/r/MensRights	31/08/19 08:06 PM
1	I'm a woman and I'm curious: What are the disavantages of being born a man? I don’t know if this has been said yet, but I’ll tell what I know from living with an abusive mother. My mom psychologically abused me and my sister and her husband and gave me emotional neglect. What I’ve gathered from life is that if the man fights back or is the perpetrator, then he is a monster and needs to be dealt with. No one seems to care about mother’s being mean and abusive to their spouses and children. Currently in my home, it’s clear that my sister has relaxed expectations and seems…	/r/MensRights	30/08/19 03:02 PM