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shygirlasks/r/seduction16/12/18 08:15 AM
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Confident, logical and traditional men who are able to control their lust for the sake of their own values make better "alphas" than men who had to sleep with dozens of women before being able to reach their "confident" stage. Isn't it taught in pua that men have to appear to be less invested in a girl in order to get her to want him? A man who sets his own standards, even if it's celibacy, would be able to demonstrate that really well.
/r/seduction16/12/18 09:59 PM
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I feel like slut shaming exists because men would like to "control" a woman's sexuality, and they feel like their masculinity is threatened by knowing that there's men around who have been intimate with their future wife etc. Women also tend to judge each other based on this, though judgement wouldnt be applied to those whom they consider friends. I think having preferences is fine though and everyone is entitled to that. Despite having my preferences for myself and for men, I don't agree with o…
/r/seduction16/12/18 02:43 PM
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Yes, thats exactly how I feel about it. I consider myself to be a sensitive/emotional person (despite being an ENTP - though I am aware mbti isn't scientific). So I'd like to find someone who is able to share or understand that aspect. Theres lots of different religious communities out there, and also different cultures. I know that East Asian cultures, Muslim cultures and Christian cultures have members who would fit my category. I dont think im unattractive, and I am petite (5'2/158cm). I aim …
/r/seduction16/12/18 02:33 PM
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Well good luck to them. There's plenty of women out there that wouldn't mind dating men with extensive sexual histories. But there's also some, like me, who would mind. Despite society trying to discourage "slut shaming", I know that most men would judge women for having more or equal experience to them
/r/seduction16/12/18 02:17 PM
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You're free to have your own standards and preferences. I view both gender's sexuality similarly. Whilst you could argue that women prefer "alpha" males who slept around as mates, and "beta" males who haven't as father figures... It wouldn't necessarily make sense when considering previous societies across the world where women may have only been allowed to marry one man for their entire lives. In that case, considering they have been faithful (if not, it wouldve probably caused a brutal fight),…
/r/seduction16/12/18 02:09 PM
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I think I'm fine with limiting my options. For example, you have a lower number of previous partners and with your regret over the 2nd one, it shows that you probably believe in selecting partners responsibly/emotionally
/r/seduction16/12/18 02:05 PM
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I didn't read it all but I assume she just enjoys the attention? She's in a relationship and doesn't look like she's leaving that any time soon. You probably like her more because she's something you can't have. She probably does enjoy your company though
/r/seduction16/12/18 01:34 PM
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Dear ..., I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. May 2019 be a successful year! Best wishes, ...
/r/seduction16/12/18 01:23 PM
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Thank you! And yeah, I feel like lifestyles vary and this subreddit is probably oversaturated with guys who want to be above the average
/r/seduction16/12/18 12:16 PM
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Maybe im a bit defective then, since id prefer a guy who hasnt slept around. And im into shy and introverted men
/r/seduction16/12/18 12:14 PM
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Yes that's what I meant! I feel like I didn't word it as well as I should've. Thank you for understanding
/r/seduction16/12/18 09:02 AM
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Yup we can agree to disagree. I find it interesting to see other's perspectives
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:59 AM
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I understand. I feel like it'd still easily filter out some guys who don't fit my standards though, especially since the stereotype is that men tend to over-exaggerate
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:59 AM
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Maybe my bisexuality has an impact. However, I wouldnt date women due to the risk of falling in love with someone my family wouldnt accept. I think my main criteria is that he's someone who is caring and loving. And someone whom I can engage with intellectually. He should also be "cute" looking. My female friends think that the guys I like are "below my league", but I don't believe that. (Otherwise I wouldnt be attracted to them). Sexual pleasure isn't important to me since it'd only be a small …
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:56 AM
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People can lie and that's fine. I can't expect full-blown honesty regarding this topic with everyone. But it would help with making me feel secure or not. Plus guys generally seem to assume girls wouldn't care about higher numbers, so it'd be easier for me to decipher for myself
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:36 AM
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I come from a strict religious background, and whilst I'm more liberal in my beliefs, I still do find sex to be something that should be treasured. I'd rather be with a guy who had a few long-term relationships than a guy who had many short-term relationships or one night-stands. It'd be a better predicter for hoping he'd be serious with me
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:33 AM
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Perhaps, but I'd like to know or it'd be something I could attempt to gauge. If a guy has been with 50+ girls, I'd feel like he's just going to use me as just another one of his "conquests". I'd also assume he has low standards when it comes to women's appearances, and/or low standards of himself. Perhaps my strict religious background contributes to this
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:28 AM
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I agree, but I also find it difficult to digest. I know he loves his job, and if anything was to happen now, it'd be really bad for both him and me. I already believe that I am not a priority as of now, but I was hoping that he'd be interested in me afterwards. I'm not going to put my life on hold, but is it silly to hope for that?
/r/seduction14/12/18 05:04 AM
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I think that might be because I didn't write it chronologically. He mentioned the position of power line before I directly confessed to him. In that conversation, I had just told him that I was worried that if we kept meeting to talk about my feelings whilst I was in a really bad place, that I'd catch feelings for him. He also mentioned the crossing boundaries part in that conversation, saying that he's never felt that I was interested in him in that way. He also mentioned how it had happened be…
/r/seduction14/12/18 04:41 AM
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What signs should I look out for to confirm this?
/r/seduction14/12/18 03:52 AM
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Thank you. I will wait before I ask again, but I am not putting my life on hold necessarily. I worded it a bit wrong. I was just wondering if I should just move on or not, but I guess the answer is clear - I just live my life normally and try not to obsess over it. If it's meant to be, then it'd happen someday (but after the half year)
/r/seduction13/12/18 10:57 PM
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thank you for your input
/r/seduction13/12/18 06:56 PM
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