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So you've done absolutely nothing in your dating life and don't even have basic socialization outside of your home? I will admit that I don’t make much of an effort towards dating so that might be why I’m not in a relationship yet. I guarantee if u even made the most basic efforts(dating apps, going to a bar, going out everyday) you'd easily get laid and have the opportunity for a bf. Meanwhile men have to initiate everything for women from dates to proposing. And with an abysmal success rate to…
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 08:33 AM
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So a woman using Tinder for a hookup will not be going for a man who just wants to love someone. They'll go for the most attractive male they can get, if he wants to love some1 they'll tolerate it With that being said, women having options doesn't mean anything. most women don't like having tons of options. Well I'd love to trade places, must be nice always ignored their myriad of "options" because they simply didn't like those guys. Women having options doesn't matter in the long run because mo…
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 11:58 PM
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My love, you need to work on yourself and your self worth You think I haven't been doing that for years? that means your platonic relationships and family too right? Excluding my family ofc a genuinely good guy who I would go on a date with if I was single because he is nice, well dressed, polite not convetionally attractive and doesnt date lol that explains why he's still single Work towards that and giving up on this warped ideas. They're not warped, they're just human nature. Women will alway…
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 11:36 PM
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I'm not saying it's worse though, I'm saying don't you think they get sad? I'm here to tell you they are. That's bullshit, they still have the option of finding a partner if they sort through long enough. Or they can do nothing and get approached irl by a stranger or friend. They can't even fathom what it's like for men. In my entire life, I haven't had a SINGLE girl admit she was attracted to me. I haven't had the chance to go on a SINGLE date. I can count on my hands the amount of compliments …
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 06:12 PM
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I know women who end up alone because they have different types of psychological issues That's a choice. Women always have a choice to date, men don't. They can easily get dates on an app or w/ their guy friends if they wanted to However easy doesn't necessarily equate to quality or goodness. Ik that. But men receive little to no matches and terrible quality. Thats a lot worst than many matches of terrible quality. Also, you're exaggerating how bad the matches are. A lot of the matches are good …
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 10:05 PM
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you don't think women get sad about having to sift through so many bad options? I don't. Not having a preferred food is MUCH different than outright starving. ​ Go to a woman's sub reddit, they will tell you what women want. That doesn't help at all. What women say that want isn't what women actually pursue. That's why the redpill was formed. It's why the women will say she wants a nice guy and then date an asshole bc he's hot. Women have no control over who they find sexually attractive, which …
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 09:52 PM
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Both
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 07:43 PM
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https://www.sscnet.ucla.edu/comm/haselton/unify_uploads/files/Gildersleeve%20et%20al.%20meta-analysis%20in%20press%20Psych%20Bull%20PROOFS%202.23.14.pdf As long as the relationship is not long term, women prefer more masculine, dominant and attractive men in their ovulatory phase
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 07:41 PM
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I would recommend doing some earnest research into these subjects. I've done my research
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 07:37 AM
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The "men need to be aggressive" trope is only a small part of the red pill beliefs, and is not a central tenet in their beliefs. I don't know why you took the comparison to lions seriously, I don't think they did either. According to actual evolutionary biology research in the field, they have been able to deduce traits that make women sexually attracted to men naturally. Leader of Men. Simply meaning a man leading others around will trigger attraction in women. Being aggressive towards others i…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 07:22 AM
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It's already been tested. I'd refer to research from David Buss and Jeffrey Miller. Both of them have well conducted research on Sexual attraction. Of course, there are many more researchers out there that exist, including women, who corroborated with their findings. There have also been multiple independent field tests on women before and after ovulation, and found that they prefer masculine muscular men when they ovulate.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 07:18 AM
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wouldn't it make more sense for you to be angry and jealous of those men? Not at all. They didn't force women to be attracted to them, women chose them out. In face I admire them. The truth is you aren't jealous or resentful of women, you just feel entitled to women you are attracted to (because I guarantee there are women in your life you don't even look at or notice because they're not attractive to you). Nope, I'm def resentful towards all women. ​ You are withholding love and romantic attent…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 10:53 PM
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Those women don't count then. If she's like a vampire and doesn't get out of the house to socialize, then she's probably not looking for a partner anyway. I'd probably never even see her. I'm talking about the women who have actual social lives and I see day to day. Even I force myself to get out of the house no matter how depressed I am. Those women all astronomically have bfs.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 04:58 AM
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no, that's $12,000 not 12. Your math is incorrect. It should be 12,057
/r/ExRedPill10/07/23 04:58 AM
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I've watched the video you linked in full, and although it does showcase that following strict concepts of masculinity and femininity are baseless, it doesn't debunk masculine/feminine frames themselves. What I mean is that it never actually refutes the concept that opposites IN GENERAL attract(masculine to feminine), without it being a strict rule. Also, the concept of polarization, or creating attraction through espousing opposite/disagreeable views, is not addressed. Just want to know if ther…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/23 04:40 AM
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I can count with one hand the number of men that I would date because they are really good people, hard working, kind, respectful and not an entitled ashole. Well that's the opposite for me, most men I know are just good, regular people. The rest are asholes or just don't have emotional maturity to have a relationship with (this doesn't make them asholes or bad people, but why would I date a man who I would be picking up after and who won't try to be a better person?) Ok, but how am I supposed t…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/23 04:20 AM
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You probably don’t see women who aren’t in relationships while you’re out because they aren’t out Then where are they, locked in their rooms? Why are all the women I see around me in public in relationships then? Single women still have to interact w/ other ppl, they still have to go to classes and work. So why do I not see them, do they not have friends or hide themselves from view?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 07:51 PM
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So, here's what I'm wondering: is this feeling something you genuinely want to change? Ofc, I'm in therapy for it I am a Nihilist, so there is that, So am I In the perspective of what capitalism, I lack value because I can no longer work, I've never been a likeable person (not from a lack of experimentation), and I've had enough people who seem to disdain me that they haven't had a problem leaving me homeless, putting me in harm's way, or getting me into stressful legal situations. So there defi…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 01:19 AM
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when did you begin to think that women view shy men as "pathetic"? When did I not? I am a pretty shy and quiet guy, and no woman ever was attracted to me so it makes sense. And who primarily fed it: was it from direct feedback from women? Was it from other men saying that? Was it from what you came across in media? All of the above. Even on reddit most women say they are turned off by shy guys. For nice guys they are different, and say if they are genuinely nice, that it is attractive. But again…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/23 05:32 PM
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So 50%+ of men then?
/r/ExRedPill04/07/23 05:17 PM
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For many dudes, being “boring” completely, unequivocally 100% works in every aspect of life until trying to date a pretty woman. There’s a process of tweaking—preferably not renovating—your personality in order to date that is learned through time/trial and error. Thank you. This is one of the only comments that actually admits I may have a point. Can u elaborate more how I can not be boring while still being authentic? Many girls ik are kind of turned off by me bc I'm just friendly and unintere…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/23 05:11 PM
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English is def not your first language...
/r/ExRedPill04/07/23 05:08 PM
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a bad situation you put yourself in No. Unless I "put myself in" this situation since birth Because I still don't understand why I'm doomed to be alone just because I'm "nice" Why women never consider me as a worthy partner but then say I'm a great guy, and then go and fuck the guy they say they hate. Why being nice has been such a turnoff for women my whole life when I didn't do it out of self gain. I don't know who these ppl are that I am supposedly manipulating?
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 10:46 PM
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Ok, well I'm not going to change. I'm nice bc I think people deserve to be treated w/ respect, that u shouldn't hurt their feelings. If that's "outwardly nice", then yeah If no women wants to be with me, then that's also okay
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 06:44 PM
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yes
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 06:20 PM
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What stands out to me are shy men who still try to put themselves out there--they make an honest effort. That's still being assertive imo. No, to most women that is pathetic and uncomfortable. Just look at any women subreddit about these shy guys approaching them. Or when a guy they don't like confesses his feelings to them. It's awkward and uncomfortable. Nobody wants to be with these guys, they are seen as awkward and pathetic. Unless u already have confidence, there is no point trying to be a…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 06:13 PM
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Straight/bi women aren't min-maxing their partners. Most want a guy who has some confidence and charisma but is still nice to them. Most don't want a virgin or a player. They want a guy who has a little experience, but is serious about a monogamous relationship. Well I have no experience and no confidence. Literally no girl ever liked me. So ig I can be black and white, because I lie at the bottom of that spectrum. I'm pretty reserved socially, so I'm nice to everyone I meet. Once I get comforta…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:54 PM
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apologies
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:46 PM
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Are you nice or are you polite? When you do kind things, do you have expectations of some sort of ROI? Because, without fail, every time I have ever heard the "nice guys finish last" trope repeated, it's been a guy who conflates being polite with being kind Since I treat men and women the same, I'd say polite. Ig I'm nicer to women, but that's bc i was raised to treat all women w/ respect, not so i can get in their pants. Pretty common in the South I think You raise evidence of it happening in r…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:44 PM
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https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/bolotnyy/files/be_gendergap.pdf Men work over 2 hours more than women per week Lol women don't face any oppression in society now, this is the 21st century. In fact, women are given more incentives to succeed, more scholarships & jobs for being women
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:29 PM
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Ig u don't have a response for people my age...
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:09 PM
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Maybe, but I have my doubts that women will magically evolve upon turning 22
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:08 PM
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I am the same way as u, although a man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:13 AM
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Yes, I assumed u thought I was an early teenager. My responses indicate a lack of experience and understanding in the opposite sex, which can be seen as immaturity. Actually I'm 21.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 08:07 AM
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How old do u think I am?
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 08:01 AM
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why?
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 07:57 AM
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Wow, you sure broke me down. Good points
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 07:55 AM
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That's exactly what I concluded from reading it. Those are all the traits of the masculine asshole from point 2. Also, the part where she says she can't be attracted to those great guy friends of hers no matter what comes from my first point. They display no masculine divisive traits, so therefore are unattractive. It's better to be hated by women than to be nice to them in terms of attraction
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 07:01 AM
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I've read that book and found it unrelated to me. Believe it or not, I'm nice for the sake of being nice, not to manipulate others. If somebody is not nice to me than I'm not nice to them
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 06:59 AM
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I think a lot of men also want validation from women - that they are sexually desirable and dateable That's exactly why I want a relationship, spot on. To be wanted for once. and .... You either get to learn now, or you get to learn that later, that that validation cannot come from another person, unless you want that person to have control over and take advantage of you. You must learn, somehow, to have it for yourself. True, but also useless. My therapist said the same thing. I forced myself t…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 01:09 AM
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Gender pay gap is a myth. Accounted for difference in time worked it narrows down to 3% Here's a Harvard study disproving it https://fee.org/articles/harvard-study-gender-pay-gap-explained-entirely-by-work-choices-of-men-and-women/
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 12:00 AM
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Not at all, but younger girls are definitely hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:32 PM
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It actually does
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:22 PM
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And your'e still pretending to treat us as an anomaly... Sorry, but sexless men are the MAJORITY at 18-22. This survey is bs It's been well studied that 1 in 3 young men get no pussy. For college aged men, it's more than 1 in 2 https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-health-sex-idUSKBN23J2LI https://news.iu.edu/live/news/26924-nearly-1-in-3-young-men-in-the-us-report-having-no Most young men are single, most young women arn't https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:35 AM
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It's really not that difficult out there for guys who aren't significantly below average. I hate comments like these. Bc it makes me feel like I'm a freak when I'm not. Like my difficulties don't matter. Like why has no women ever been attracted to me then? Am I hideously ugly & don't know it? Why are all my friends single virgins as well? Are they all ugly also? Women always complain about the lack of decent men to date in college. Well we're all college educated and respectful, so why do we no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:11 AM
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Would a blind man still be happy and content if his eyes were shut forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:04 AM
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You'd be suprised how many girls are out there w/ daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:48 AM
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There are no such things as absolutes. Ik a 5'3 Sri Lankan guy who's slept with 100s of women and has a white gf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:07 PM
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You can look at dating app statistics. Or how females rate attractiveness in males incredibly harshly. I didn't think that the PEW survey could be inaccurate, I'll edit that part out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:48 PM
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Socially awkward guys never having dates is a temporary state. 98% of people have dates (and most of them marriage) before retirement age (most of them by their thirties though and 90% of them have had sex by 25, most of those by age 17). And a vast majority are currently sexually active (US). That sounds awful! I have to wait til my 30s just to get the leftover women who slept around in their 20s! Most men have no access to sex even if they are not virgins. You're right though, I shouldn't rely…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:39 PM
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