sibandaud Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? Yes, but what I’m saying is that if the factors leading to promiscuity are treated, the person in question can become more capable of a LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 11:53 AM
2	Vetting Mega-Thread 7 days is a bit extreme. Stress/life happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 01:52 AM
2	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? This. My past is much more colorful than my partner’s, but I was upfront in the beginning that I was a serial monogamist for a while and also had a fair amount of casual sex. It doesn’t stop him from being obsessed with me lol. As long as you’re honest, you’ll find someone that wants to be with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 01:08 PM
0	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? Correlation does not equal causation. Certain mental health conditions and an avoidant attachment style are major factors in someone having a high number of sexual partners. If you remove/treat those factors, someone with a high n-count from past years can become a more than acceptable partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 12:48 PM
2	If all good people are "taken" by their 20s and 30s, why do so many relationships that start early tend to fail? A lot of people hang their hats on the “best available option” when they’re in their early 20s and end up marrying someone that isn’t actually good for them. Plus people change so much between 20-30.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 12:11 PM
1	If a maidenless man is a bad relationship choice because "there must be something wrong with him", then so is a woman who's had a string of failed relationships. As someone who is a fairly compassionate and empathetic person and previously had weak boundaries, I can attest to this. I was an easy target for broken men with untreated mental health issues, mommy issues, misogynistic views, general personality flaws (arrogance, laziness, etc) for years. It was only after I found myself able to set boundaries and dump them swiftly that I was able to find a good relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 05:32 AM
12	Q4All Why do you think it so that liberal wow no refuse to date conservative men even though they are more masculine and chivalrous? Also why is it that conservative men get so upset about this? Why would I want to date someone who doesn’t believe women who have been sexually assaulted?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 12:12 PM
2	What are young women 18-25 like today Turns out when men have more attractive qualities, they are more attractive to women.	/r/MGTOW	31/05/21 03:14 AM
1	Had multiple successful dates. Here’s the pattern that’s working for me. Honestly reading this makes me extra glad that I found a sweet chubby shy guy who isn’t going to be out porking 2 other girls while trying to build a connection with me. I hate this mindset of dating multiple people in order to find the “best” one - I can’t imagine being 6 months into a relationship with someone and finding out they were still sleeping with other people while we were building our relationship.	/r/seduction	08/04/19 05:14 PM
3	Are pretty girls not allowed to be funny? What I’m railing about was what that poster said, not the sub. Some of their points are based off of proven facts, but many of them (men not wanting a woman who is entertaining, charismatic, or easy to confide in) don’t really seem like they’re based on anything except personal opinion.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/18 08:01 PM
3	Are pretty girls not allowed to be funny? I’m not really sure why that hit such a nerve with you, but I think any time you generalize an entire group of people into one pen (such as saying “men don’t like x” or “women don’t like y”) then you present a somewhat cynical view and discourage people from being their authentic selves. I found an older post on this sub about how “high value men” come in a vast array of varieties and thus have individualized preferences. Sure, a high-alpha who makes 6 figures and enjoys spinning plates might no…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/18 07:06 PM
5	Are pretty girls not allowed to be funny? I’m sorry, but it seems like you are generalizing men and putting them all into the same pen of wanting a dolt who lacks any semblance of a personality outside of being demure and submissive. I know lots of witty, entertaining, confident, charismatic women in happy, healthy relationships with men who are committed to, in LTRs, and married to them not in spite of, but because of their liveliness and charm. I myself have ended up in relationships with and pursued by men who found me “easy to talk …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/18 05:15 PM