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I lost the ability to cry from having depression for an extended period of time.
/r/MensRights06/07/26 06:01 AM
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the codswallop numbers from CNN's "online rape academy" headline. To CNN's credit, they did nothing wrong. CNN never spread any misinformation or made a misleading headline. It was other feminist and social justice influencers who spread the misinformation and took the "62 million" number out of context. CNN did a legitimate investigation, and the journalism did raise awareness to a serious issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/26 05:22 AM
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You could be right, but that's different from the term "toxic masculinity" itself being sexist or misandry.
/r/MensRights20/05/26 01:23 AM
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The term has warped and is now used as a catch all for anything a man says or does which a woman doesn't agree with or even takes offense with. People could be using it that way, but in the context of feminist and gender theory, toxic masculinity specifically refers to the social pressures put on men on how to act and what they can and cannot do. If people use it incorrectly, they don't understand what the term means. A man scratching his balls or butt in public? TOXIC MASCULINITY!!!! Lol I don'…
/r/MensRights18/05/26 11:40 PM
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The term "toxic masculinity" is specifically referring to social pressures and ideas of how men should be and act that are harmful to men and result in things like misogyny, aggression, emotional suppression, and violence. The idea isn't asserting that men or masculinity are toxic.
/r/MensRights18/05/26 04:44 PM
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Hooking up or having relationships with people who are the same biological sex as yourself.
/r/MensRights20/03/26 03:26 PM
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If you found someone you thought was the right person, none of this would matter.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 11:35 PM
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I never argued whether slavery/abortion is ok. I'm simply pointing out the definition and the fact that by definition abortion cannot be murder.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 03:45 AM
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No, by definition, murder is the unlawful killing of a human being. Abortion is allowed by law, therefore it is not unlawful and can't be considered murder.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 03:10 AM
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Abortion isn't equivalent to murder.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 12:18 AM
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Dude, are you high on something? This is obviously rape. Tf.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 05:00 PM
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That's not something women as a whole do. Only a small minority. Saying that "women lie about rape" is generalizing. Making false accusations can be for many reasons. If depends on the person and the case.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 12:32 PM
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This is the most brain dead take I've heard. You can be sexually attracted to women and still hate them as a group or as people. The two aren't somehow mutually exclusive. Misogyny doesn't necessarily have to be an outright hatred of women. It can also be the belief that women are inferior without outright hating them. That's misogyny too. You can believe your wife is inferior or that she must submit to you, and that would be misogyny as well. How is there any sorta contradiction in being marrie…
/r/MensRights28/05/25 08:45 PM
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Ngl that's kinda kinky
/r/MensRights24/03/25 04:56 AM
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Idk man in most of my irl experiences, a lot of women aren't like that. I get that it's anecdotal, but I've not had many awful experiences
/r/MensRights23/01/25 04:54 AM
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That's not what happens. I feel like these generalizations about women are way too harsh tbh
/r/MensRights23/01/25 03:03 AM
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"Who said I couldn't find a girl from my own country? I could get a relationship if I wanted, and I think anyone can. If you don't have any standards, you can still date. I just didn't find the type of person I was looking for here, so I went overseas and found someone who was compatible and right for me. I never coerced her into a relationship, and what we have is great and I wouldn't want to be with anyone else. Who are you to say the reason she got with me? Who are you to speak for her? We ar…
/r/MensRights31/12/24 04:29 AM
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Don’t you think there’s a difference between going to a nude beach with a bunch of fat naked people and their fat naked kids and fat naked grandparents and going to a nude beach filled with hot people looking to fuck? I don’t think the advice to find out more before reacting is so out of bounds here… It's a very reasonable boundary to not want other people to see your wife naked. The only real exception to this is if it's for medical reasons. Regardless of whether you agree or disagree, how is t…
/r/MensRights09/10/24 07:26 PM
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This is actually the perfect term that I identify as. I don't like the idea of dating, and even though I really do want to get married, I want it on my own terms and won't ask out anyone or be very strong in pursuing a relationship if I have to compete or "prove my worth" in any way, shape, or form. If the right person exists (this is unlikely, but not impossible) I think part of it would be the fact that to them I'm not an "option" and they genuinely want/desire me without any reservations. So …
/r/MensRights09/09/24 10:35 AM
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I've seen lots of times where that wasn't the case. Not all the time, but it happens enough for it to not be a general rule.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 03:28 AM
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Men don’t care how many women another woman has slept with, but they do care how many men she has been with. As a man, a woman having slept with a lot of other people (even women) is unattractive. It doesn't make them less as a person, but someone who does so clearly isn't compatible with me.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 02:17 AM
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You're aware that dating apps aren't the only way people hook up, right? To add, a lot of the times you don't even have to be that good looking to have success on them. A big part of it just has to do with the type of pictures you put online. I've seen average looking frat boys getting hundreds of matches. People tend to overthink these sorts of things.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 04:33 PM
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for a man he has to become worthy in wealth, looks, body and status Bullshit. If you lower your standards far enough you can have tons of sexual experience as a man. I'm not sure where this idea that a man has to be some sort of amazing person in order to have sex comes from. I know plenty of unattractive men who've had multiple hookups from partying and other experiences. The fundamental exchange between men and women is I give you resources you give me sex. If I can get that sex for free outsi…
/r/MensRights19/08/23 03:44 PM
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I've never seen said disclaimer in my experience...? Any examples?
/r/MensRights11/08/23 08:59 AM
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Neither of us had any prior relationship experience; I think that helps a lot. Why does this help?
/r/MensRights10/08/23 06:52 PM
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Religion is made up by people based of thier beliefs, not science, psychology. Or facts or data. Most Christian are jealous. The Bible in this case also promotes men owning women which is also wrong, I dont really care what religion it is. Completely different discussion. You're now saying religion gives men the right to know someone's past. No, I never said that. "God is a jealous God" and we're made in his image they say. Ok.
/r/MensRights09/08/23 05:18 PM
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Other than insecurity, jealousy And disease, what else is there? Some people are religious about it, as in they believe that that is only something they want to save for marriage, and want someone with those same beliefs. Other people think it's special and should only be there for marriage, with others believing that it's only something that should be saved for long-term relationships. I don't know everyone's beliefs, but those are just a few.
/r/MensRights09/08/23 04:55 PM
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Someone else's life, choices, past are none of your business. Unless they have an std, the only reason he'd be worried is that he might not measure up to her experienced past and jealousy. That's low self-esteem. Do you genuinely think that there can't be any other reason other than insecurity to not want a partner who has gone around hooking up? That doesn't make much sense. People can have different values regarding sex and relationships. Some people don't want sex outside of a committed relat…
/r/MensRights09/08/23 02:56 PM
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Because it's easier to attack your character than actually spend the time to refute your argument in a given context. It's against the nature of redditors to actually concede when a point of theirs is wrong, so the easy solution is to adhom a user.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 05:57 PM
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OP made a sexist generalization about men. Is there any source for 80% of the men in the dating pool being sexist or do claims only have to have a source when they don't suit the narrative of this subreddit? Using banning as a power trip only proves the mods here don't tolerate dissent and discussion. It isn't the "gotcha" you think it is. Edit: Mods like using their power when they know they aren't able to admit when they're wrong. If someone genuinely believes that their opinion is correct, th…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 05:31 AM
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It's bizarre and hypocritical that this sub is unhappy with the sexism of the red pill but are ok with sexism when it's against men.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 03:00 AM
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Its less common now that dating apps are a thing, but if you know a bartender, ask them for stories. Have you found it as something common that happens to other guys?
/r/MensRights28/06/23 10:28 PM
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I searched it up. Don't really see anything?
/r/MensRights28/06/23 02:40 PM
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What sort of stuff have they done?
/r/MensRights26/06/23 06:40 AM
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Surveys don't predict individual opinions. I never said they did. Not to mention, you keep inserting your own opinion as some sort of objective fact. Feel free to hold the survey if you genuinely believe your opinion... I'll take it as you conceding you're wrong if you don't. Besides, none of what you are saying would help OP. I'm not giving OP any advice. Take your incel rhetoric elsewhere. I won't respond further. Personally I don't resort to buzzwords when debating a topic just because I can'…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 08:27 PM
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You don't have to read minds to know common sense. If you genuinely believe that beauty is very subjective, feel free to run a survey on who's more attractive, OP or Henry Cavill. The results won't be surprising. That doesn't make OP less as a person or inherently any less, but attractiveness on a collective level is fairly agreed upon.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 05:37 PM
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I don't really feel like debating this. Ok? Regardless of whether rejection caused his mental health problems or exacerbated underlying issues Regardless? That was the entire topic of cause and effect, it was relevant to the discussion at hand. the dude needs to stop posting this shit over and over and seek therapy and possibly psychiatric treatment. Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 05:34 PM
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Because he's not ugly.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:14 PM
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Anything regarding aesthetics is subjective opinion. There may be preferences between people, and maybe at an individual level there can be subjectivity, but no, for the most part when it comes to the general population, there are fairly objective markers for attractiveness. You won't find lots of people (unless they're living in some isolated tribe) that find someone like Henry Cavill ugly.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:14 PM
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Do you think mental health issues are inherently there, or are they caused by something? We are not born with insecurity and a lack of confidence. It's something that develops due to the experiences we have. Rejection is a normal part of life that almost everyone faces. It's not just rejection. Have you seen how OP has been treated? A girl literally called him ugly while he was messaging on online dating apps. I'd imagine that that wasn't his only experience. He's probably faced it quite a lot, …
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:11 PM
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Yeah which is why I said that I'd think you're lying if you said he's ugly.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:05 PM
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There are certain features that are considered conventionally attractive, so sure, subjective tastes can be there, but at large, not a lot of people would find OP attractive. They'd probably think he's an average guy, but not unattractive or ugly.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:04 PM
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but if we said he looked ugly we are telling the truth No, I would say you're lying as well. He isn't ugly, but probably somewhere around average to below average. It's hard to tell for sure because there's only a single picture to look at, although I haven't browsed all posts on his profile.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:03 PM
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Let's not lie. He's definitely not good looking. That doesn't mean he's ugly, but it doesn't help to spread lies about someone's appearance. As for personality, sure it can matter in sustaining a relationship, but what's really important is being able to even get your foot in the door, to which physical appearance plays a big part, regardless of gender or sexuality (in almost all cases). You seem to be confusing cause with effect. Unhealthy attitudes towards dating and life isn't what causes rej…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 01:30 PM
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Most dudes I see talking like this don’t seem to know the difference between being open emotionally and dumping your trauma on someone. In the cases that I know, there wasn't any trauma dumping.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 04:03 PM
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I am 20 going on to 21. While I understand that's pretty young, I feel like that should be old enough for people not to be cheating or doing anything seriously bad.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 04:01 PM
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The key is understanding that it's not with every woman Of course it isn't, but it's far more common than people think it is. Good, high-quality relationships need communication to get beyond the rough patches and into a good routine of knowing what your partner wants because you know them so well. This in turn helps them feel loved and cared about. That's true, but high quality relationships don't seem that common these days, at least for people my age. I know a few of my acquaintances who've g…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 01:33 PM
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You can become closer to a woman by being vulnerable, but from my experience and the experience of other men I know, it definitely comes at the cost of killing any sort of romantic attraction.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 12:16 PM
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I'm not sure where you're getting this idea... I've never seen any sort of activists excuse cheating or suggest that it's ok. At least the number of them that do are definitely not even close to the majority in my experience.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 04:56 PM
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At 47, I can tell you that people are mostly good, regardless of gender. I mean sure, but stuff like infidelity is fairly common in relationships. I don't have the exact statistics, but roughly 20% of men and women have been in relationships end up cheating. It would be harder to provide that assurance given that there's a legitimate reason to worry about it.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 01:17 PM
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I have still yet to come across a show where it was appropriate for an 18 year old male actor to be making out with a 15 year old female actress I don't know if movies count, but at the time when Kick-Ass 2 was released, Chloe Grace Moretz was only 16 at the time, while Aaron-Taylor Johnson was 22. At the end of the movie, they kiss, and I don't recall there being an outcry about the scene itself. I think that's a fairly inappropriate age-gap despite it possibly being legal (I'm not sure what ag…
/r/MensRights13/04/23 08:07 PM
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She should be jailed for the amount of time those she accused would have faced had they been found guilty.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 07:41 PM
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Women are instinctively much more hypergamous than men due to basic evolutionary reasons. I know plenty of cases where women have dated "down". At least in my experience, I know plenty of "low value" men who have had no issues when it comes to dating. In fact, an acquaintance I've had is 5'2", and has been asked out 3 times. He is not someone who is high status in any sense, and he does not have anything that would appeal to or prove the idea of women being hypergamous, yet he's been in relation…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/23 07:36 PM
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I think everyone is hypergamous to some extent, not just women. People want the best possible S/O that is attractive, smart, nice, etc, but reality generally tends to set in when (most) people are older that if they ultimately want a relationship, they're going to have to settle and compromise on their once higher standards, and also learn to be happy with and love their partner. Personally, such a realization and attitude towards approaching relationships just seems awfully depressing, which is…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 01:03 AM
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And do you know why ? Because I admire women. I always considered them pure and graceful. I'm not entirely sure why you would. Women are individuals, and are not immune from being flawed just like men. There are plenty of 'good' women as well as 'bad' women. From my experience, I've seen a lot of both, and this applies for men too. These guys are ruining their self-esteem because they can´t live up to their standards. What standards exactly? Plenty of people of all levels of attractiveness are i…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 11:54 PM
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I think people like buying into the idea that life is a fairytale a lot of the times when it really isn't. While in University, I certainly have met people who genuinely believe that there is someone out there for everyone. Part of it might just be bias from their own experiences and part of it might just be blind optimism towards others and their situations.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 09:23 PM
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There’s someone who will love you for you I disagree. That person might or might not exist. Nobody knows, but that's ok, because it doesn't reflect on your value as a person.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 10:28 PM
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I think the best way would be making him feel like he's being listened to. Generally, people don't respond well even if their hypocrisy is pointed out. It won't make them change their mind unless you do it in a way that isn't accusatory in nature. As an example, instead of directly pointing out a contradiction in his logic, a better way to point out his hypocrisy would be to follow his logic and ask him questions that make him realize that his logic is flawed. This should generally be done witho…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/23 12:16 AM
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