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Because men are not the choosers in the current climate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:53 AM
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I'm not blaming anyone, I'm just stating the way things currently are. Is anything stated above false? By selecting for men who are family-oriented and who want to spend time with their kids as opposed to the hot, exciting guys perhaps? You can tell people's traits pretty well in the dating stage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:40 AM
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Well the subject of the discussion was how the market is not free and the government intervenes. Let's not diverge the conservation, shall we?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:10 AM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:09 AM
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Sure, they are both to blame, but as we know, women are the choosers in the current sexual marketplace, and the effect of bad choices is currently mitigated by the government. I'm not assigning any blame here, I'm just stating the current situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:59 AM
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For context, I live in the UK, and I see it this way: By subsidising women's poor choices in partners via child support and welfare. Single moms here get access to cheap council housing, get welfare payments if they don't receive child support from the father, or if the child support that they get is not enough, etc. This means that the consequences of having unprotected sex and getting knocked up by the hot guy who won't commit are greatly diminished. Women have less need to screen for bad pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:41 AM
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It helped me externalise my thoughts and also achieve more acceptance in relation to the fact that a lot of the things are outside of my control. I believe that the trope of the 'ugly guy with great personality scoring a girlfriend outside his league' is toxic and promotes unfair comparisons, as I believe the vast majority of guys in that situation in their 20s just got really lucky in terms of growing up in a good family (survivorship bias). The toxic aspect of it is that it implies that if tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:16 AM
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People should stop using the 'I know a short ugly balding guy who pulls girls because he has a great personality' trope whenever people talk about not passing the looks threshold, as it implies that improving one's personality is easier than improving one's looks, whereas in fact that person is more likely than not to have had a good family environment which facilitated the development of their personality. This is especially true if the guy given as an example is in his 20s. As I have said, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:59 AM
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The point that I am trying to get across is that men who have shitty personalities and are ugly (incels) oftentimes come from circumstances described in my post. Most of them are that way due to circumstances outside of their control and improving one's circumstances while starting from such a disadvantage necessitates REALLY hard work. And it is especially hard when you get basically no positive feedback from women along the journey, and basically no empathy from society at large. People always…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:09 AM
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It is far from that. There is no alternative to improving and making progress. What rubs me off the wrong way is that people often disconsider the enormous amount of work that has to go into changing one's personality and overcoming a shitty starting situation in life. People just assume that it is very easy and the amount of effort is minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:04 AM
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I have to agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:53 PM
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People talk about personality as if it's something you can change by clapping your hands. I believe personality is mostly a result of your genetics (how you looked growing up - were you handsome, did you have severe acne, crooked teeth, any other obvious defect for which you were bullied, or were you tall, handsome, had a natural inclination to sports, etc) + family environment (was your family abusive or supportive? Did your parents pay for braces to correct the crooked teeth described above, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:43 AM
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Do you have any resources on that topic? I would definitely be interested in doing a bit of research.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 07:50 PM
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There's also the bodyweightfitness subreddit
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 08:56 PM
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Reading the sidebar would be a good start.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 01:20 PM
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It does not seem to be showing up for me. Mind copying and pasting the text in the post and sending it to me in a PM?
/r/seduction23/01/17 12:05 AM
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why did you remove it ? :(
/r/seduction22/01/17 11:46 PM
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I thought of this and I opted to present myself through texting then make her present herself while on date. We'll see how this works. I take it all as experience for college anyways.
/r/seduction09/05/15 10:34 AM
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I've heard that guys are much better at pickup in the UK than elsewhere.
/r/seduction01/08/14 05:48 PM
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This is so awesome. Also watched the girl picking up guys and her success rate was much higher (50 percent!!!!!)
/r/seduction01/08/14 05:43 PM
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Saving this.
/r/seduction09/10/13 07:37 PM
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Saved
/r/seduction21/09/13 02:35 PM
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Have you got any good openers i could use?
/r/seduction19/08/13 06:32 AM
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