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Then don’t date her? People have free agency to do what they want and if you don’t think she has anything to offer than it doesn’t matter anyway because you won’t want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:47 PM
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She should make sure he has given her money that she has in her own account in the case she needs to leave. That’s why marriage is always the best though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:39 PM
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Ok I’m going to be blunt here. Hot women absolutely can get men who pay rent, gifts and dates. Some hot women don’t though because they have been conditioned to believe that it’s “unfair” or something. I think average women are honestly less likely to date as much anymore at all. They go to work, hang with girlfriends, family, pets ect and maybe have a fling here or there with a man but for the most part are staying single. Like what is the benefit to a women being in a relationship with a man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:13 PM
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That’s like life. Don’t be average. Hot fit women have it easier than fat ugly women. That’s just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:14 PM
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That’s so sad for your mom, but at least she was probably married. I think it’s dumb for women to pay 50 percent of the rent to live with a just a boyfriend. I suppose some couples wanna do it that way married but the money is joint then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:10 PM
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A women who marries a successful man and has a family with him in her mid 20’s is like the definition of success in the RP world for women. It’s like you want women to hit the wall unmarried no kids and cats so they feel pain? That’s way more likely to happen dating a young man with no money and no marriage commitment for 5+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:42 PM
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I think some guys in their 20’s date women will really busy/full lives like them and/or date a women who just likes the same kinda tv shows or bars because it’s simply convenient. That guy might live in an expensive city, date a okay enough girl who shares rent and consistently fucks him while taking turns going out to eat and just live in that relationship for yearsssss. If he grows really well in his career he will drop her for a new better chick if he doesn’t he will probably stick with her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:37 PM
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I don’t think a 8 year difference in age means you have nothing in common. One of my siblings is 7 years older than me but we look the same age and talk about the same stuff in our adult life. I still don’t think men truly care about the building with a women. Men want their own empire, at least successful American men, they don’t want to attribute anything success related to a women, especially a women who “built” with them by what, paying rent and cleaning without being married. Men that gain …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:48 PM
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Depends I have a several friends from high school on baby #3 age 24/25. All married for years. I also know people in 30’s no kids single. So it just depends where you live and the lifestyle you are looking to have. I think the national average for the US for first child is 28 for women. So I guess at least 50% want a kid by 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:40 PM
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She cleans the house he pays for it. She cooks the food he buys it. That’s a 50/50 relationship which most couples do. If she is splitting rent and food and cooking and cleaning for just herself that’s what roommates do. This is about couples not roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:36 PM
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It’s all in the appearance. Women need to be better at how they appear to men at certain times. Men rarely can put together the intricacies of things they are men. It’s soft voice, play dumb, pretend he taught you something, tell a feminine compassionate story once in a while. Bamb all done. And if that sounds like too much work than you already know that man isn’t worth the time because they obviously are not offering enough of what you want to play the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:15 PM
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Ahh that’s why it’s probably best to just know men are selfish and only use empathy to their own benefit. It sucks but finding a man who can do the most for you and make your life the easiest regardless of his emotions is what women need to do. Like a man that just messes up the house all the time but doesn’t care, doesn’t clean, doesn’t pick it up, doesn’t put it back ect is much better when you have a consistent professional cleaner who comes to take care of that stuff and he pays for it. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:06 PM
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No. Imagine being married to someone for 50 years but never having sex with them. I don’t feel like that’s a real marriage. I suppose if both people don’t like sex and don’t want to have sex marry each other it would be ok but I wanna say that’s probably rare. It certainly would be wrong to marry someone who wants a sex life and then saying you can’t have that because I don’t want/can’t have sex. The relationship won’t last in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:42 PM
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The average is the average for a reason. Must not ignore that even in some special cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:15 PM
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While seeming I am still, even years later, the only person on this sub that does think the biggest thing men can do to be the best to women is make money and be generous with it to her and also commit legally and spiritually to her. Money really does fit a lot when it comes to dating for men. Women who want a softer stress free life, having a man who can pay for things and not having to worry about the thing most people worry about the most will keep her happiest. Take a women out for a nice di…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:13 PM
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Right. So if that is the case for that 25 year old women. They need to date older men. If they don’t then right they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:01 PM
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Well getting jaded by dating a brokie for years certainly isn’t gonna get most women to their so call newfound “peak value” in 30’s. Wow red pill has really changed it use to be women lost all the best opportunities once they hit 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:57 PM
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All of this is averages. Everyone knows pretty women have an easier time and wealthier men have an easier time, on average. A young pretty women dating a young broke man, who has potential, but can’t commit in marriage = a doing well 30’s man marrying a fat women because she potentially is gonna loose weight because she signed up at a gym. Women don’t need relationship experience. I don’t know what you’re saying there as a red pill man don’t you want the less fucked women? More to relationship t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:58 AM
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That’s kinda proving my point. If you are 25 and you want to have a kid by 28 you gotta date up because men don’t really want to have kids in their 20’s, but men after early 30’s do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:43 AM
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The 43 year old has some money though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:37 AM
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I’m mostly just taking about possible wasted time. Spend 3+ years in a relationship with a man in his 20’s he still might not be ready for marriage. Maybe wants to date others, not sure, hasn’t reached financial goals, friends aren’t in the same spot ect. Women though not a lot of benefit if she spends age 24-27 in that relationship, has to leave because he won’t commit, now she is back in the dating world in late 20’s vs early.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:31 AM
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Last longer doesn’t mean much unless it’s lifelong. If priorities include marriage and kids, better not to waste age 23-27 in a relationship building with a man who might marry you, but also might not, regardless of what he tells the women. A 25 year old women and 33 year old man might be 8 years apart, but want the same things, thus actually be in similar phase in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:22 AM
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A man could “build” with you and leave in the end because they would rather have a younger new girl who’s prettier to have his babies. And right when she thought all those years of building was gonna earn her the ring and family she always wanted. Now she has to start over, more jaded and older. I don’t think the chance to be possibly seen as more equal if you actually get “picked” is worth the chance you take rather than dating a man you don’t have to do all that with. Less jaded, stressed, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:39 PM
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Depends on the 24 year old and the 32 year old. Some might want a house and kids. Some might wanna get drunk and go to concerts. If you are the 24 year old that wants a house and kids in a few years might be better to go with someone not in 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:34 PM
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What are peoples opinions on girls/guys trips? You hear some RP men say girls trips are a red flag, which each to their own, but then also think it’s fine for a guys trip to Vegas?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:09 AM
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Sierra Mist is a vintage retired soda
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:19 PM
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You can't force women to ask you out. If you want to date you ask. If you don't then don't. Not a gender role issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:18 PM
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Why does two plus two equal four?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:54 PM
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Because she doesn't want to ask. Women asking men on dates is like a women buying men flowers. It's lame. And women don't want to fuck men those men because it's not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:53 PM
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Because you could also say that who ever asks pays. But men ask majority of the time. Women also put more time effort and money into beauty for a date. From clothes, jewelry, makeup skincare, soaps, fragrance ect. Men can wear a white t and blue jeans with some hair gel and thats it. I know some men say "oh she does that for herself" but all and all if she showed up to that date with unstyled hair, no makeup, it a t shirt and jeans you would think she doesn't care about the date vs if she have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:16 PM
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If you were a pretty girl born in 1972 and never left the medium size town you grew up you would just never have the opportunity women have today. If you are a pretty girl born in 2000's and up, you have never known life without internet and probably had a phone and social media in middle school. You can actively make yourself more seen and available for life opportunities. Most of the times men pay for dates and it's always been that way. The only reason women wanted to pay their part of the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:38 PM
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If the women makes 30k and the make makes 100k doing full time work, 50/50 would be she pays 30% and he pays 70% and chores go 50/50. But for most men if would be of more value to say, "you do what you want with your money, I will pay bills you do house tasks." That way, if the women is smart, she will be able to save and invest a majority of her salary, which might be useful in the future if the relationship doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:33 PM
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I think RP just loves destruction and want to watch things burn. Kinda like an 8 year old that wants to blow something up "because it's cool". They just never really passed that phase. JustPearlyThings lately, even the rp men are like "uh what"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:02 PM
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Why are women allowing themselves to get sucked into this whole “the next one will be better than the current guy I’m seeing” fallacy? Because they are not happy with the man they are with. Even if that man think he is great, charming, fit, successful or on track to be successful. Does not matter. If she feels she can do better and wants to try to do better she will try. This is true for men and women but I do think it happens more often for women because men have more time and can stay in an un…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:55 PM
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Idk if these are considered "emotionally abusive" behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:49 PM
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Define freaking out?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:13 PM
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Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:04 PM
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Don't do that. Ik it sounds mean. But don't spend your own money more than like $5. Because the second you do it once your boyfriend will start thinking you can do this a lot more. You can do whatever you want, but I would stay away from spending any more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:03 PM
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Hot girls don't have "situationships" unless its on her end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:59 PM
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People can have what ever requirements they want in a relationship. If men want to be with women where they are the girl and she's the boy then that is their issue. Though I think being a SAHH is still fairly rare. I'm the kinda of women where I want things paid for. I want kindness. I want love and attention. If a man can't offer that to me, doesn't mean he is a bad guy or unattractive, I just wouldn't want to be with him because he cannot or won't offer what I am looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:47 PM
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When you think of the history of modern time I think right now is pretty casual. Especially after covid. Work from home people just wear pjs, people wear pjs to school, moms wears lululemon, gym people gym clothes. Unless you have something that requires you to dress up everyday most people go the causal route, not all people, but most. Even business casual in offices, is pretty casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:36 PM
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A first impression can make SO much difference in how people see and treat you. We live in a super causal environment almost everywhere and apart from the occasional special occasion, we live in workout clothes, t shirts, sweatpants, running sneakers, sandals ect. So when someone is dressed in a nice dress, heels, with a friendly demeanor...they just look like a elevated person in life and will normally be treated as such. I think this is true for people that are not even the most "attractive" b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:18 PM
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Then a guy asking a women "what's your body count" and she says 0 but has sucked 200 dicks, because she didn't have sex with them. Still a whore though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:41 PM
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Sounds like you're better off without her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:42 PM
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Yep that typical happens. Men who pay the bills, pay for dates/treats, are emotionally present ect...those women want to sleep with their partner, cook meals, take care of the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:41 PM
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Lying by omission is still lying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:39 PM
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If that particular women wants that and you want to be with her sure. If not then no. If you pay all the bills and do most of the chores why are you with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:38 PM
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A lot of men don't want to be on social media. Or he is at work and the women is a SAHM. I know a lady IRL that makes some nice extra cash doing tiktok lifestyle/mom content promoting products like baby products or amazon stuff, the husband doesn't need to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:22 PM
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Men should plan and pay for dates regularly, men should give gifts, flowers, money for beauty things ect. A lot of men don't do that because they either have no money, or they are selfish. Insecure women/pick me women date these men. Because they think they are getting somewhere with the "I don't need gifts" "I don't need a dinner date" you are my king and I love you for nothing while I pay half the bills cook and clean and you spend all your extra money on gaming stuff or drinks with the boys. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:06 PM
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If you don't pay for her, you don't love her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:57 PM
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So what is the difference between standards and expectations? I personally know a women in her 30's that is really pretty and feminine, still lives at home, involved in church and obviously wants to wait till marriage...but she is 31/32? and the clock is ticking what should she do. It's her standards and exceptions that that man also is willing to wait, she's fit and healthy so I would say he should be healthy too, she's religious so he needs to be at least fitting for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:47 PM
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Same for men. Age range within 10 years is 10% of the population but it goes down even further from there. We have to think how many women are just the "hookup women" to men not the wife material women. The the man has to actually be attracted to her physical body. And those are just the basics and take MANY women out of the running for commitment from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:27 AM
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Men need to offer something like women offer something. In a traditional relationship a man goes to work to provide money and the women uses thus money to buy and cook meals, care for the home, care for the children, and care for the man...on every level. Men need to provide and reassure and comfort when their women is scared, worried, in pain...and if you can do that she returns a much better deal in giving you a comfortable clean home, happy healthy children, and endless love and support for y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:51 PM
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Men need to be what women want just as women need to be what men want to be picked. If a guy is getting rejected and then just sulks he has given up. Get in the gym, get the money up, join some social things and just get better and then you will get rejected less. Wheres that statistic that over 50 percent of men 18-30 has never asked out a girl in real life? How can you be rejected if men are not even trying apart from apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:12 PM
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4b movement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:06 PM
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Final word what? If she says on the date "Yeah I'm looking for a LTR" and he is like "Yeah me too" when he isn't...he is just lying to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:16 PM
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The guys that ruin women also want a "good" wife to have kids with one day too. They play the field till their friends start getting married and have kids then a light goes off where they want a wife and son to play baseball with too. The other group of men you are talking about don't even talk to women so that's a problem they gotta fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:14 PM
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I will always think the issue is in what the guy is telling the women. If he takes her on a date and she has expressed she is looking for a relationship and he runs with that knowing that he will not want that but still goes on to sleep with her then never speak to her again. You can do that, but that is why women loose trust men. So when you're older and ready for a wife and kids and can't find any "good girls" to settle with, just know you actively participated in ruining those girls in your y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:24 PM
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Isn't that what creates strength
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:57 PM
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Wearing makeup is needed because other women wear makeup. If all the sudden all makeup just disappeared from the planet then fine no makeup, but thats not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:55 PM
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Emotional needs too. Women need a strong husband who care of her and provides stability apart from just money. But men are not being very strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:52 PM
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Making it exclusively about sin is also missing the point This should be the whole point. If sex was not meant for only married people because of how God designed it...then it wouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:06 AM
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I did not think feminism was the answer. I think stability is the answer. Yet many women were not provided with stability and they had no rights to become stable on their own. Now women do have the rights to do that on their own if they are not born with it, but that normally comes with the loss of feminine traits, because they have to act in male ways ie job, bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:04 AM
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Even "how many partners" is kinda strange from a Christian perspective. A women could have been with one man she slept with 1000 times over years or a women could have slept with 10 men in the same years only once each. Which one sinned more times? But which one is more preferable to red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:28 PM
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Must gotta look at the photo because they know they will never have them irl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:34 PM
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You want to marry an awkward mute frumpy women over an attractive fit happy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:33 PM
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Men nowadays have a hard time finishing to hardcore porn they aren't following them for that, unless they know them personally maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:28 PM
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Because that shouldn't be information you would even want to know? You could ask how many times have you sinned in a sexual nature, but that would be too many to count for man and women, example men shouldn't even look at a women with lust, even once!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:25 PM
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I should say, HVM don't want a mute handmaiden that looks at the floor. He needs his wife to look good not abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:03 PM
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You really want to marry a women that won't say more than 2 words to you a day? Was a handmaids tale example. No conversation ever? Wears doughty clothes baggy, not really attractive like that Your friends and family will think she's in pain or something is wrong with her because she doesn't speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:53 PM
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How they dress and act IS what makes them attractive, granted they are on the younger side and not fat. Men don't notice all the little things they see the whole package, and seeing is what they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:48 PM
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Nah, you just don't want to marry slutty women. You want to marry an attractive, fit, social, beautiful women that will give you brownie points to all the men who see you. Men don't want a mute handmaiden that looks at the floor and is plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:44 PM
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The fact that men get so bothered by those types of girls. And the ig following too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:40 PM
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You should never ask a women how many sex partners she has had that is not ok. If she tells you voluntarily thats one thing but that definitely is a weird question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:29 PM
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Kinda like how men always tell women they want them to be modest, quite, meek, with no understanding of the world looking only to him to be her light as she just bakes sourdough bread at home in a prairie dress...when men actually want girls in tight clothes, say a fitted dress or workout set, makeup done, nails done, tan on with a demanding hot girl attitude who can party and live so for herself and has her own goals. Men "gaslight" women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:21 PM
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I think the bad was there for some and not for others. If 50/100 years ago a women was in an "abusive" marriage and she had little ability to leave she pretty much was just feared into behaving sweet and kind to lower the chance of being harmed or she was taking the harm to protect her children from harm. Nowadays women do have more resources so they don't need to be in bad marriages, if they choose. If a women comes from a strong upper middle class family, two parents, siblings, extended family…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:08 PM
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Women don't have to wear heels anywhere it's a choice. I am 5'2 and will always be short to most people heels or not. Most heels are 2 to 3 inches tall, not 6 inch stilettos like models wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:50 PM
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Brunches, wedding guest, formals, church, nice date night, professional interview or internship sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:31 PM
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These are traits shown in women who have been and continue to be taken care of financially. mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually ect. Women are told not to act like men but at the same time have to live like one holding a job, paying bills as well as doing the domestic stuff. Some men say "Women fought for equal rights and to work so this is what they get" but the young women of today actually did NOT do that, they were born into it. You can't blame every white man for their slave owni…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:21 PM
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If women are forced to reproduce than would men be forced to pay $$ and care for the women emotionally? For every "single mother" there is a deadbeat dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:09 PM
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I found a man now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:56 PM
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I'm a genuinely religious girl who also likes restaurant dates, gifts, and trips. No problem with that to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:00 PM
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If a 25 year old women is willing to date in the 35-early 40's range he would have money and be looking for that age of women to start a family. Paying rent, nothing to do with if married or not. If the 25 year old women marries the 25 year old guy with no $$, she'll be workin to pay the bills to instead of being in the home having babies. Religious wanna be housewife in her 20's is the best possible situation to be in to land a high income earning man, she should be picky. Only the younger high…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:41 PM
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So if she is 90% traditional does she only need to provide 10% financially?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:42 PM
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Isn't a 25 year old women suppose to be going out on dates looking to find the best possible guy that she can now? Sure she could just be with a dude who can't afford to take her out often and makes her pay 50% of the rent but that sounds like something she should do in her 30's when options are more sparse? Just like if a guy is in shape making good money he is not going to spend time dating some worn out career women with a bad attitude, he is going to date the young hot blonde who smiles a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:33 PM
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A lot of men say they just want a thin virgin/low body count women but they don't JUST want that. They think a girl like that is a blank slate freshly born for just them in the world of dating and they can mold every part of her personality to exactly what they would like...and then if she doesn't fit the mold she gets cut loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:24 PM
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If you don't provide 100% financially then why would a traditional women be with you when she could be with someone that can provide 100% because her kind is so rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:16 PM
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Q4M: Would you/do you buy your girlfriend "just because" gifts? Or if she asks for something specific she wants like makeup or shoes/bag ect. would you buy it for her or tell her she can buy it with her own money?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:35 PM
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Don't you think she might not be able to pay those phd student loans with minimum wage. Or get annoyed having to listen to the people she works with not speak right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:22 PM
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I thought nurses and teachers are the best "caregiver wife material" jobs. Especially nursing because they make way more money for the household and work 3 days a week for full time which saves lots on childcare costs cause she can be home with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:15 PM
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fast food job with a phd in literature? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:11 PM
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life = want, sorry it won't let me edit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:09 PM
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Q4M: What job would you life your wife/future wife to do? Assuming you don't want a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:05 PM
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It might just be the type they are. Because if you are a type of women who is very beautiful the men she goes out with might even be embarrassed to let her pay. Even yourself in a relationship with a women who pays for everything encouraged you to stay with them. So a lot of women want that type of care and it doesn't mean that they all are sucky people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:05 AM
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A christian women needs her fathers approval for marriage. He is not going to permit a marriage if the man doesn't have resources to provide, is overall healthy, is mentally sane and not abnormal ect. So its not just preferences of some women, it requirements from all fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:23 AM
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It wouldn't really be christian women with those standards it would be christian woman's fathers standards. Who are Christian women to decide who they are to marry its the father who decides what man can provide for her and offer her the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:35 PM
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Even if she remains a virgin and becomes religious her background will prevent her from marrying because her word wouldn't mean and much as a religious fathers word would mean to other men about his daughter and she doesn't have an earthly father. With this mindset very few women would ever be able to get married, yet marriages happen everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:22 PM
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You want a traditional women but only will wait a month or two for sex? Thats not long enough for the women to judge if you are of good character and will stay with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:52 PM
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Virginity is not a requirement for marriage though biblically. If a women has been raped she isn't unmarriagable. If a women has been married before and is young she is told to remarry in the Bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:51 PM
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So its really birthright that decides the possibility for a traditional women? Because if a women is born into an unstable home, example raised but a liberal single mom who has drug issues, it really doesn't matter because the world she is born into is seen as low value thus she is automatically low value for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:49 PM
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Only a month or two? She can only take that gamble with 2 or 3 guys before she starts having a body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:49 PM
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6 months? 2 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:48 PM
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So traditional is solely related to sex? But men can't fit that because a traditional man would be a beta not a alpha? So how long should the man wait to be with a traditional women sexually because any high value man is not going to suffer with sexual frustration?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:41 PM
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But is the different between a "modern" women and just a women? Every women alive today is born into "modern" times and thus is modern. You can't be traditional in modern times because women still have to have jobs, bills, hobbies ect?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:35 PM
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Every women is modern in modern time? Doesn't mean she is promiscuous. Whats wrong with a women expecting more than Netflix and chill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:15 PM
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That would be different depending on the women, age of couple, or even geographical location. I say afford as in be able to afford to take her on dates regularly, dinner dates, activity dates. Being able to buy her gifts. Take her on a trip to do an activity you both enjoy. If you are 18/19 years old in college it might mean dinner dates are at Applebees and gifts are some candy and a candle early on, but if you are older than that it's going to take a little more than that college kid stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:13 AM
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Yes, to me if a man doesn't have money to afford himself and me or can't commit with wandering eyes looking for the next women then I would be less sexually attracted to him. Just like if a women was fat and always mad, men would prefer a healthy happy women and be more attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:11 AM
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Women simply have different requirements for sexual attraction than men. Men need want things like a thin body, feminine, happy, willing, no strings. Women want things like masculine, healthy, kind, loving, commitment, ability to provide. The reality is that men and women simply don't want the same thing, which could make dating harder for both genders, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:41 PM
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Whats crazy is that some men can't pick up on extreme flirting whatsoever and other men think that because you're smiling you desire to suck their dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:46 PM
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One girl could experience that 20 times a day from 20 different men. So it only repeated to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:54 PM
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He can't protect me from others who might harm me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:39 PM
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A young women walking down the street to work she shouldn't be subject to a man 20 years older than her asking for sex or trying to touch her. That's harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:38 PM
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Women you know are not working? Maybe they don't want to text every 5 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:33 PM
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Because they are busy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:14 PM
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What is older to you for a 21 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:13 PM
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I can't go knock on doors to the 30 years old that don't go out a pursuing women? Whenever I see 30 year old men complaining that they can't find a partner I wonder if they have even tried looking beyond spending 20 mins on a dating app 5 years prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:39 PM
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I'm 21. I can be in whatever league I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:36 PM
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Maybe work on your physical appearance so women can be sexually attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:35 PM
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OK. Im a 21 year old woman and I think men who are 30 look at me like the food. They want to sexually have me and spit me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:34 PM
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A 30 year old man probably wants to start settling down and start a family Not anymore. 30 year old men just think they are 20 still mentally. They don't want to commit to one women, spend money on kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:23 PM
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Maybe those examples are less true for people in their 30's but guys in their mid twenties absolutely think that way. Not every guy of course, but many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:52 PM
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She's fake, I don't think for a second she truly believes what she says, she wants views, just like how some women use their body, she is using her month to get them. I mean come on she is wearing a t shirt that says "women shouldn't vote" in her clips lately, like what. Also, I think she is probably way pickier that you think. She wants a tall guy that makes some cash because she tall and makes money, and is from a wealthy family. I have a feeling she will get married and have a family one day,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:56 AM
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The thing is that is normally where they found those women, in a club in a tight skimpy dress. These men wants to capture a free bird, only to put her in a cage. If he does not like that a women is doing that his disapproval will mostly push her more, he really should just leave. I am talking about men who flip because their girl wears some leggings to the gym and gets mad because men might look at her ass or a man not liking a guy friend that she has that happens to be her childhood neighbor or…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:50 AM
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The problem is when men try to justify that they can control women because of their internal emotions and feelings. Example being controlling what your girl can wear, who she can be friends with, when she needs to be available to you ect. Or another problem is a lot of men might think a girl with a past might not be marriage material but she might be a nice girl who does sex well so they play her by using her, even for years, when they have no intent to marry her but want to have a girlfriend. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:04 PM
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Why do men want to own women so badly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:52 PM
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Taking a shower and putting on some makeup takes like 30 minutes. Let the kid watch paw patrol or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:40 PM
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I consider myself a traditional person. I don't have a pill that I support.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:26 PM
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That's part of love. Men protect and provide, women support and nurture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:30 AM
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I don't hookup but I do date those men. A man with a nice career and apartment is cool to 21 year old me. I don't say that as I wouldn't date a guy that has roommates/has a regular job not a career, but it does show that a guy is advancing and taking care of himself, and he needs to do those things before he could take care of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:45 AM
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Men who are "genuinely kind" want payment for their kindness. The want to have dominance over their girlfriends life, like in what she is allowed to wear, who she can hangout with, how fast she need to answer the phone/text ect. Men feel like this is justified because they are "genuinely kind" and "just wants wants best for her" when in reality they just want a human that is theirs to own...but hey, they are "genuinely kind" smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:18 PM
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I think women in general look out for the women in a age gap relationship. Like I'm 21 and my friends are juniors in college. What college student wants to take their 35 year old boyfriend to her dorm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:41 PM
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Relationships are built after being acquired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:22 PM
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You not interested because of the lack of value though. Women don't live like that only men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:19 PM
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Communication is fine, it's talking, but it doesn't mean the same as value. If someone doesn't like what you're offering, ie the value, you can communicate all damn day and they still won't like what you're offering. This is true for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:06 PM
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If a women jumps into a mans arms and wants to text all day, does favors for him, sleeps with him...all after he took her out for a dinner date...that she paid half off...he is not going to value that women much, because he did nothing to attain her. He will use her till he gets bored and find someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:03 PM
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Communication isn't value. Actually I never go on there, only know that means female dating strategy from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:58 PM
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Then you got easy ones. Easy ones just take anything. Anything of value requires effort, or it wouldn't be valuable to attain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:53 PM
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Your post history says you are overweight and have a social anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:48 PM
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Not act hard to get, be hard to get. Men think they want easy but they don't. If its too easy the men will think that women is desperate. The man wooing the women is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:43 PM
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The is a difference between being easy to get along with and being easy. Men like some resistance in getting a girl. Not that its impossible to get her but if it's too easy men get bored and may see her as desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:41 PM
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Depends how much effort they put into the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:38 PM
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Lots of men want women who are virgins. But what do you have that would make a virgin women want to be your girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:36 PM
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Guys don't chase anymore? Where did you hear that guys are chasing everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:19 PM
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What have you attained to get a virgin women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:18 PM
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Men will wine and dine some women and not sleep with her at all for multiple dates vs the girl that doesn't have the same perceived value, is younger, maybe insecure..she gets the netflix and chill. Women might sleep with a celebrity right away but make the lawyer wait...why...because of the perceived value to HER. You said in another comment women don't care about mens feelings. Many men and women are out for their best interest with as little effort. For some men they want a women so bad they …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:01 PM
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Men get insecure if they date a above average girl. Unless they have money or fame something to feel ahead or better than her. But normally he can't date her because he will get jealous of her or self sabotage for fear she will leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:47 PM
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This isn't manipulation? Also I don't think that many women even want relationships anymore unless it's to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:37 PM
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Men don't want "cheap" women. Women decide if they want to be "valuable" which means being hard to get, the chase, have to impress her ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:31 PM
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Men only see women as valuable as women see themselves. The girls who are with men and people don't understand why he would be with her, not the she isn't pretty but he could do better, it's because she is so mysterious to him and he needs to know her. She is just another human, but she doesn't tolerate disrespect, cheapness, lack of attention...so he wants her because she has made herself seem hard to get, he plays the game. My point to this is women are with good looking guys (why not) only fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:18 PM
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Yep. So men are pretty picky about what they want just like women are picky about what that want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:18 PM
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You know men could always be in a relationship but they don't want to settle for less than what they want either. Watching porn of a hot women is better than a 300 pound girlfriend to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:55 PM
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I think it's embarrassing to men if their wife works, unless she wants too. It is pretty much the man saying "I can't provide for you" and thats just not going to make me attracted to that man whatsoever. I think the sex thing is more like this. If I tell men from the get go that anything sexual is off the table till marriage on the first date, they are not going to ask me on a second date. I have learned this from experience. In the early stages of dating my ex he took me on multiple dinner dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:38 PM
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Just curious, why are you working at all? With small children and you doing 95% and 75% of cleaning and caring for kids you shouldn't have to work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:02 PM
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2 weeks into a dating someone nobody should assume they are being exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:36 PM
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That is not beneficial to the women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:26 PM
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That contradicts each other
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:25 PM
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Sex work? I am talking about a man asking a women out to dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:22 PM
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If a man says he will pay on the date because he wants to take me out?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:19 PM
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Q4M: Should a women who is a college student and has no money say no to dates from men with jobs who can pay for the dates? Or really should beautiful young women say no to dates if they don't have money to pay for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:23 PM
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I didn't ask for equality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:20 PM
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Were you asking him if it would be weird for his girlfriend to cook and clean at his place? If they were married living under one roof sure, but a women dating him with her own home? Thats a bit of a stretch for anybody to feel like she should be a maid for him. I actually feel like a lot of men would be turned off by that type of behavior and would wonder if she is desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:22 PM
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I wish more women would embrace their femininity and see the inherent value in it I think many women WANT to be feminine, but they don't have the luxury to do so. They may not have a partner that provides for them. Women have to wake up a 6am and go to work all day, for money to pay bills, thats stressful on men and it's even more stressful on women. Even so called "masculine men" want women to pay on dates nowadays? They want her to work and pay half the bills? I actually think the reason men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:07 PM
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Are you any other these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:29 PM
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If an adult man can't spend a few hundred bucks a month on pursuing me then I am going to feel like his priorities are not where I want them in a partner. If he can't afford basic things and wants me to pay on dates how is he going to afford a place for us to live? or baby stuff like diapers and a carseat? Is he going to demand I work up until I give birth or make sure he provides and I can be home? If you had a college-aged son who was serious about providing for his future family, would you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:50 PM
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Maybe he just doesn't care that she wears that? Or you are looking at it in a "I can't believe he lets her wear that" way but he might be thinking "Everyone look at what I get to hit every night that you don't" way. Same reason guys don't want women to go to a club alone or with the girls but they don't mind as long as she is with him. A women wearing, what I'm guessing is a tight athletic style outfit, in the morning isn't her saying "I want to hookup with guys on the side" and most men would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:05 PM
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Im not sure about this one. 18 and 23 is strange but I guess it depends on the situation. 18 and 21 could be a college freshman and a college junior and thats normal so its not crazy far off. 23 and 38 is a really big gap. It's not illegal or anything but just not common. And if that 23 year old is dating a 38 year old, man or women, they are doing it for the resources the older person provides. Like free rent, gifts, money, dinners, trips ect. they are not going to date someone so much older an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:32 PM
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What is young? I think many women want to stay home and have kids. Maybe not at 18 but probably at 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:23 PM
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It's not though. A dinner date does not have to be $500. A dinner date with a women you are dating can be $50 and if you can't afford to spend $50 a week on taking your girlfriend out then idk if you should be dating. If a man was going out to the bar with his friends he would drop some money no problem on drinks and food for himself, might even get a round for his buddies. So why can't he somehow afford a weekly date night and even other things once in a while like a gift for her, some flowers,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:07 PM
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That is very dependent on the lifestyle you want to live. The society of today is prioritizing self image, having a super car or nice vacations, or having an expensive home in the suburbs. If people are willing to prioritize family instead of showy things that can have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:28 PM
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Men don't say they don't care about a womens job or they don't want her to make more than they do because it will make him not feel as masculine but then also hate when she doesn't bring in as much as he does and she does home/childcare too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:59 PM
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The "traditional family unit" was made by men for the benefit of the majority of men. What benefit is there for a women that wants a husband and children to be with men that do not want that? None. If you don't aspire to be a husband or a father you better be at the top or life is going to be pretty lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:36 PM
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Do men never lie to get what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:01 PM
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Because I don't want him to looking at me as "someone to smash" and I think age has a big thing to do with it because most 21 year olds are not thinking about serious relationships so they go into the date thinking "Oh she will be fun for the night" rather than paying attention to anything I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:59 PM
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Do all men never tell a lie? Most men are very comfortable with lying if it will get them what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:56 PM
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Then it would not matter I don't pay for me they pay for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:55 PM
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I went on a date with a 29 year old actually and he was very shocked that I was able to talk about his career in full understanding because he thought I was a stupid 21 year old that he could feed a few drinks and call me pretty and I would want to come home with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:22 PM
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My point is...if you dated a girl you liked thinking she was older and then on the 3rd date she said she was younger would you no longer want to date the girl if she gave the same reasoning I gave. I feel like a 30 year old guy would be thrilled to be dating a 21 year old that he thought matched the behavior of a 27 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:19 PM
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My effort is taking care of my body, having a grateful attitude, looking clean with appropriate makeup, nails, hair, outfit for the date. It takes more time, effort, and money for women to do these things than men. I am looking for a man that has the resources to pay for the date and wants to impress me. If he doesn't want to plenty of other men will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:14 PM
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That is almost like a happy white lie though. Because men like younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:09 PM
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I just don't want to pay for the dates. I don't mind going on them but if out of 20 dates I go on only 1 is looking for a life partner as well and not just looking to hookup then I don't want to be paying for all those dates with trash men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:08 PM
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Q4M: If a younger women changed her age on a dating app to older and you didn't find out till later would you be extremely bothered. My example is that I am 21 and older men do not respect me wanting a serious relationship or really respect much of what I say because of my age. If I changed my age on a dating app to like 27 and went out with like a 29/30 year old do you think that would break the possibility of a relationship later on? In more sense it is to test a theory more than anything. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:06 PM
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I am 21 and I have found that older men (7+years older than me) do not respect me on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:59 PM
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Im a 21 year old women, which is supposably my prime but I actually feel this is a very difficult age to date because even men that are 24/25 years old do not want the family life for another 10 years, which I don't want to wait for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:52 PM
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When men talk about the lack of relationships for them they men lack of ability to be chad. Many of the so called average men involved in RP can find a regular average women to match with on a dating app but the problem is they don't keep her. They want to hookup with her, they want her to desire him, they want compliments from her, they want her to do things for him...but they don't want to keep her, marry her, get her pregnant, care for her, provide for her and provide for the child. Why? Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:00 PM
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The cool thing about a man not wanting to commit is that women can be dating other guys during that time. She could have a date every night of the week cause she's single!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:40 AM
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That means that women would be paying for dates that would be all doomed because 95% of men just want to get laid. If a man wants to pay for dates I'm not going to argue about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:39 AM
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Men having a clean body and not on drugs is becoming a women now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:28 PM
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What should women be doing? What should men be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:27 PM
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Idk what that means but because you're the religious one how do women find a hubby to have a family when men can't even pay their bills and smell like weed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:26 PM
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Men are not working on themselves as much as women are. They are overweight, don't clean themselves properly, don't clean their personal spaces properly like car, kitchen, bathroom, bedroom. They have no advancing career goals, no desire to get married/have kids, video game dependent, nicotine dependent, maybe drug/alcohol issues, porn is a regularly consumed thing ect. How can you possibly become a "High Value Man" when you live like this?? Most women do have a job with a salary, they do have h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:01 PM
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Women will come to value themselves more in the next decade. Not women trying to be like men and women, but women being like women and forcing men to step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:52 PM
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Because men protecting and providing is what make them masculine. Masculine men in society create feminine women to nurture and support. When women out preform men at their own game it means that men are falling behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:09 PM
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Thats not women's fault for not being attracted. Become attractive to the women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:40 PM
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Women are achieving higher is so many things like education and income. Women buy more houses than men in 2023. Even physically there are more overweight men than women despite the pushed narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:39 PM
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I am just saying, women don't want the average man of today because they are not desirable and choose not to become desirable and then say "Be happy that I put up with you women" like he is the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:21 PM
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But it doesn't really matter people will alway go for the best. To an average man and average women won't be hot like a super model and that average man is probably more attracted to super models. Women don't need the commitment like they use to they have jobs. So why should a regular women settle for a guy she does not want for commitment she does not want with that man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:18 PM
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Then women are what they are. Men made those Disney movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:16 PM
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I don't think thats true. Even if majority of women said "We understand you struggle but we are still going to strive for the best and accomplish more than you men as women" men wouldn't like that. They want women to stop striving for their best and to be happy with way less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:12 PM
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So women should make less money and like men they don't like that offers them less than they can do themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:09 PM
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Men can better themselves and make themselves more desirable to be loved. Just like a women who is a overweight and has bad skin can better herself and lose the weight and take care of her body/skin. Men can do they same. They can get healthy, make friends, get a better job and get their money up, keep their spaces clean and welcoming ect. Men are choosing to not better themselves FOR themselves, which in tune makes you better for society and other people like you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:03 PM
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UGH yeah. Why would RP and Trad people push marriage so much if it wasn't because unmarried women who are over 30ish are post wall. In the RP would if you are not married before early 30's you never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:23 AM
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It would be more respectable to a women for a man to divorce a women after ten years than for a man to leave her after ten years. Thats ten years of her prime time in life wasted on a man she thought she would be with forever, at least if it was a divorce she would get some money out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:39 AM
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This is why women should make marriages happen and not just LTR because the dude could date you for a decade and leave you single at 35 for a 25 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:15 PM
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Thats what makes being a women more desirable. Women step up for themselves. Men will only step up for a women. That's why women can be happy with her friends, her hobbies, her job, her dog, her family ect. not video games and porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:32 PM
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If a man under 25 is supposedly doing everything, idk one man under 25 who does any other that stuff, they why is he having more kids and working 3 jobs. Like ik you are not working 3 jobs if you're on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:39 PM
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The share of the housework has gone up only because women work full time. Men do those tasks with a begrudgingly like they are doing a favor to the wife not that it is equally their task to do or else men would not need to be asked to do things/clean things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:36 PM
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Ok...but men a lot of time don't want to do the childcare, or cooking and clean, or general household tasks like shopping and making appointments. So is she expected to do those thinks and work to pay the mortgage as well? Or if she does all those things and he does not need to he should take care of the bills. I think a lot of men would say a SAHM is a burden because she does not financially provide even if she takes care of everything else but they also would say that a working wife/mom is bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:22 PM
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Right so people mothers worked full time but dads never did the cooking 3 nights a week or the grocery shopping or make your ortho appointment. It was always mom who did that stuff. Dad might have took out the trash and mowed the lawn but he didn't to the daily tasks. Like no kid of the 2000's remembers dad getting them ready for bed or ready for school as a 5 year old. So how are men suppose to do that stuff now if they don't want to do it? Like they want the women to do the kid stuff and cook …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:16 PM
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Q4M: Is it wrong for women to be stay at home mothers in 2023? Should she contribute financially and do the home care and child raising as a women? Most women in the 80's, 90's 2000's did full time jobs and did all the cooking, cleaning, childcare, grocery shopping, appointment making ect. So how can men be expected to marry women that don't do everything like their mothers did?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:41 PM
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This is why you don't sign the prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:19 AM
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Your choice. But I don't wanna work like that. I don't know one women irl who makes more money than her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:51 PM
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Maybe she is enjoying it? Thats for him to prove that he is a benefit to her life and someone she wants to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:44 PM
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It is so important for men to marry the women they have children with not just be in a LTR like it's the same thing. Men don't want to get married anymore though so...they are kinda making this the problem it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:35 PM
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Women out earning men most likely will not be in relationships with a man that achieves less than her career wise. She can never truly be happy as a women if she is more accomplished than her man and even men know that thats why they want women to make less than them, so women have the ability to respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:26 PM
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The mans payment for dinner is the company of a women on the date. Getting to talk and have conversation with her and be seen in a public area with her. She should always say thank you after dinner but that is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:24 PM
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The company of a women being out to dinner with him. Talking to him. That is the process of a man dating a women. He is to prove himself to her not the other way around. If he feels that is too difficult then he needs to date down or not date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:20 PM
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That sounds like more of a money issue then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:21 AM
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I am not saying women need to sleep with these men. She could just enjoy her time and respect herself as a HVW. Its not very high value to date a regular man who won't even marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:20 AM
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He needs to support the women for her cost of growing the child, with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:16 AM
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Women can sleep with men they don't want a relationship with though. Especially younger women its more beneficial for them to be single and date multiple men than to just say with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:43 AM
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The only difference is the pooling of assets that occurs in marriage, so you're basically forcing the higher earner/wealthier party (generally the man, but could potentially be the women) into heavy financial risk with a no-fault divorce. Women don't normally make more. Is the man going to pay her when she has children? She is risking her body for his child?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:38 AM
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I suppose some young women have high earning careers, then they would most likely be with a man who makes more or equal to them. Most women still also want to marry in their lifetime even with a career of their own. Young adult women (18-28) don't make super high incomes and may even have student loan debt to pay. Unlikely they are affording a housekeeper and a cook, so she gets to do a career and cook and clean, yippie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:26 AM
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Yes and it the man can't risk his wealth for the women he loves then he doesn't love her and is only using her. Cristiano Ronaldo's girlfriend gets over 100k a month now and for the rest of her life (even if they split) per her contact with him as he never wants to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:13 AM
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I don't think it truly is most men that have a problem with dating. I think it's most men who have a problem not being the "alpha" male with lots of bitches who want to be fucked by him. RP always says "women are the gatekeepers of sex, men the gatekeepers of relationships". Any guy can get into a relationship, probably with a girl above his league if he wanted too, he just isn't attracted to that type of girl and/or wants multiple girls like other men out there get. Another factor is money. Dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:07 AM
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It's a sign of true commitment. The man wouldn't want to get married to protect any assets he would have even if it's not much. He is actually putting something of his on the line like she puts her youth, beauty, cooking/cleaning skills, maybe her body for pregnancy. If a women, especially a young pretty one, is going to be in a LTR with no hope of marriage, she might as well be in one with a wealthy or at least above average man who can offer her more ease in life through nice dates, trips, gif…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:47 AM
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Q4M: What makes a young pretty women being in a committed relationship to a average man "worth it" without marriage? She is disposable at any time while her youth and beauty are being eaten up by a man that will offer her nothing, now or in the future. Example: Man works a job that makes a average salary that is probably what he will make for the duration of his career with maybe some raises, nothing crazy. This man doesn't want to get married legally ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:18 AM
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It kinda make a girl wonder if its smart for women, esspcially young women, to be in a relationship then. Less dates and going out, more staying in doing probably most of the cooking and cleaning while working and paying rent/half of rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:09 AM
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Q4M: What is "dating" or a "relationship" look like to you? It seems like so many men out here want a "girlfriend" but to them a girlfriend isn't someone they take out on dates she's just a hot girl who has constant sex with him and tells him he is great?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:55 PM
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I think to women it show that the man is always keeping his options open and never truly committing to her by never marrying. The exception could be if she was already married before but most women want to get married once in their lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:51 PM
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If her relationship was so committed he would of married her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:57 PM
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She is still a single mother and the child is still a bastard according to statistics. The mother is less valuable/less respected as a baby momma to a alpha than as a wife to a beta. The child will be less respected as a adult for not having married parents in a traditional household.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:11 PM
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If RP says that marriage is bad and to avoid but then men want children they would be having children out of wedlock, making a single mom and a bastard child which is keeping on with the problem they hate, because RP men don't like single moms and feel like they should keep their legs closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:36 PM
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Men "friend zone" women all the time because if she is not attractive to the man physically there is no chance. And yes men are attracted to more women than women are to men but in more of a hookup way not in a way where they are willing to walk around in public with her way. Personality and personal likes/dislikes matter in relationships because you spend a lot of time with the person. If they hate what you love and vice vera it won't work. Even little things like one loves scary movies and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:18 PM
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But women can live at home and not pay rent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:30 PM
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Men are just not pursuing marriage as much anymore. They don't have any money, but the little money they do have they are afraid of spending a dime on someone else who isn't perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:59 PM
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Beautiful women would have the same type of problem..."Is this man with me for my personality or because I'm hot?" And men know it's more because she is hot than anything. How we look, our values, our money/resources and lots of other factors determine who someone is. If a women liked you when you had money and one of the reasons she liked you ways because of thus money it's the same as a man saying a man like a women because she was thin with soft skin. If the man loses his money or the women b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:13 PM
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Maybe they get offered 300k a year later and they may want to spend some time there for the time being?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:32 AM
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I think people don't have to accept something just because others may call them names for no doing so. Why are men mad that women are so called "delusional" or "insane"? People can do whatever they want and men forcing "YOU WILL BE CONTENT" down women's throats isn't going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:31 AM
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Jobless vs 200k, most people will choose the 200k but not be happy because they want 1 mil. Does the employer offer 200k really want a employee that is settling for 200k knowing they will jump to a higher offer the second they get one? Probs not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:28 PM
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But people can't be told to be content. It happens naturally in life. Some want less some want more. Each person as to make their own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:03 PM
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You could jump to the 200k until you get a better opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:21 PM
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Who defines what is realistic for ones life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:45 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:31 PM
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But what does it matter if the women is being realistic to a man, or anyone? Is it realistic for a women to have 70 pairs of shoes when she really only wears 7? Is it realistic for a man to lease a brand new nice car at the dealership when he can barely afford the bills he has now? Realistic is essentially being practical, but what is practical to some is not to others. I actually believe that a lot of the "lonely men" are not settling, or being practical either. They want the thin hot cheerlead…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:29 PM
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200k is 4x better than 50k, but if you want 1 mil then you will never be happy with 200k? So why would a man think by telling a women she just NEEDS to be happy with the 200k because she only makes 50k is going to change her mind about wanted 1 mil, no matter if it is a slim probability?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:20 PM
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You are saying that deadbeat fathers are men who women are getting pregnant with in the first two weeks of knowing each other as well as using fake statistics based on...personal assumption? What if instead of 2 weeks it was 2 months? 2 years? Would that change the landscape? Because deadbeat fathers are men of all kinds, even married men. It is not just the men that get some girl knocked up from a few hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:16 PM
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Q4M: Where will all the women who "had fun in their 20's" go in their 30's, 40's and 50's? Will they truly suffer and die?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:37 PM
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Men don't want women to settle for them, but also want them to settle for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:35 PM
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Nobody is obligated to do anything or marry/date anyone. Don't you think as a young women I am not doing my duty as a women to marry and have children? If I wait and wait for mr price charming to come I may one day wake up and be 30, unmarried and childless. Based of statistics alone, between the ages of 18-40 of single people, 70% Christian women to 30% Christian men. That is telling young women who are Christian, "most of you will never marry and will have no children" but nobody wants to talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:32 PM
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Do you think women should be picky about virginity in the man if he is picky about theirs? Also, I think at some point with virginity men only want virgins later on if they themselves are a virgin because the can't live with the thought they the women they married had more "fun" than they got to have and didn't suffer in the same way. Even if she had repented from those ways she's still "damaged" in the virgin mans eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:53 PM
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She isn't demanding payment he is willingly doing it. Wouldn't that be the mans fault. He could keep it fair and just say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:09 AM
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Why would he pay for her food at all then, because its like like he is paying for sex? If sex is a mutual benefit then he shouldn't being paying for anything. If she said "I will only come over and have sex if you pay" and he does it isn't he paying for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:05 AM
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Or is the meal for sex worth the cost of the meal. Like if she went not with the intention of free food but to go on a date and he pays knowing that she will sleep with him isn't she still in his debt because sex is mutual?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:56 AM
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But she many not have sex with him either way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:54 AM
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Neither people are getting paid in either situation. He might pay for streaming services which she is watching, or take a shower with his hot water, or sleep in his bed with a roof over it for the night that he paid for. It could be parasitic for her to do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:34 AM
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Is a women going on a date for a free meal the same as a man asking a women to come over to Netflix and chill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:53 PM
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Thats part of it though. Really beautiful women who want a man and could be a good spouse are being spat at for not being for a man that might be a good fit, but never will marry. Of course they feel sad! You have men telling people to get married or they will be unhappy single cat ladies passed up but only 10% of men want to marry anymore, and most don't have the resources for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:47 PM
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Q4M: Should men who are unmarried/and or don't want to get married be complaining about women who are staying single. Because it would be dumb for a women to date a man who never wants to marry. Statistically she is single and past the wall, if she has kids she's a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:28 PM
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There are no longer enough devoutly religious men willing to wait for marriage. Leaving a lot of women single eternally. You could say oh marry any overweight incel type guy out there because he will wait..but he can't provide anything, no house, car, money for kids ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:22 PM
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Why after 3 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:32 PM
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Q4M: This is somewhat part 2 to my other question, but How long should a women wait to have sex with a guy that she wants a relationship with, to lessen her chances of being ghosted/used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:36 PM
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Q4M: What are some big factors that a man wants to be in a relationship with a women vs just trying to attain sex then ghost?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:28 PM
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Women don't need to bring anything to the table and men still want them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:33 PM
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Men need safety and peace in the form of having a clean home, having a warm meal to eat, knowing their children are being cared for by their mother. Masculine men don't want women to financially provide for them because it takes away their purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:18 PM
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If a women cheated on the man the man would have NO PROBLEM getting a divorce and everyone would support him on it. But if a man cheated on his wife and the wife wants a divorce she's still the problem because she needs to endure his infidelity or something? She's not breaking up the family he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:08 PM
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Why do people say this. If he cheat on her and she flies for divorce she would not of done that if he did not break marriage vows? Like who is causing divorce her. If the women are filing more its because the other person is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:33 PM
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I as a women would rather live a fugal life and stay home with my kids and take care of my home and husband than ever go work a job to bring in income to have a fancy life with eyelash extensions or whatever. It also so curious to me why men are so upset that women don't want to work a job and work at home. When a man loves a women, and men love their mothers and daughters and sisters, they DON'T want them to have an ounce of struggle in life. They want to provide them safety and give them peace…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:28 PM
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Q4M: If the majority of men no longer want to be legally married doesn't that just make the majority of women single cat ladies or single moms. Because its marriage that makes them not part of the statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:01 PM
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So when is "the wall" anymore? I mainly hear 25 or 30, sometimes 35. But then I also hear 18-25 is the most attractive so what happens to people 26-29? They are not under 25 but also not yet 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:58 PM
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That sounds like an assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:32 PM
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Because its hard and difficult to do that. Men who love the women in their life don't want them to HAVE to struggle. They want them to be at peace and not have stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:20 PM
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Also are you saying that people should write off any adult that has divorced parents, or maybe single parent, or homes with trauma like someone died of illness? You are not going to find to many people who don't have some level of dysfunction or trauma in their home. Even the super rich kids of the Upper East Side and Beverly Hills grew up in dysfunctional families, they just have money to patch the parts that don't look as nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:37 AM
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Maybe you grew up poor with a single mom or maybe you grew up the the jones style family in the suburbs that looked perfect but actually had no love and your dad have a drug addiction. That poor kid with the single mom might have been so envious of the kid with the jones family, but that jones kid got yelled at all the time, hated by parents, mentally struggled. While the single mom kid, may have not had a dad, yet had a mom that loved them. From a RP viewpoint, the outside looking in, the kid w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:27 AM
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I am not a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:10 AM
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I promise, its not a special case that women will pick up more plates than men today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:09 AM
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An alpha can't be married unless he has a wife he wants to disrespect which means he does not love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:08 AM
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Pull their weight in household duties is saying you want your wife to provide for you finically and take care of the home. You are asking her to do more or equal to labor then what she was doing single. What is the benefit to being married to a conservative man that would make a women work? Thats anti conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:08 AM
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When a man truly loves a women he would do anything to make her life easier, including letting her staying home if that what she wants. Men don't want the women they love to be stressed at work. The only men saying this are men that will never earn enough money (like under 50/60k a year) to let their women stay home. I bet some peoples dads worked two jobs so their wife could stay home, because that kept her sweet and soft. The workplace forces women to be providers, no wonder she can't be peace…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:01 AM
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You know lots of men don't mind being "beta" men. They most likely don't even know what it means. They like having a wife and children and going to church and doing thinks for others. They don't obsess over chad, or height, or get mad that women get stuff men don't because they are hot. They just live life, enjoy holidays, participate in the community ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:53 AM
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Just because it is not my experience does not mean its not womens experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:55 AM
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I am a conservative women. You must not be a conservative man because you want your wife to work and do household tasks. Conservative men don't want their women to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:55 AM
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Conservative women don't work 40 hour work weeks to come home and cook and clean? They stay home and cook and clean. You cannot expect a women to do all the domestic work if she works a normal job. You are working extra by choice. If you want domestic work done tell her to quit her job and do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:41 PM
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Never been my experience. I wouldn't tolerate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:34 PM
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Paying for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:34 PM
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Could you say the same the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:33 PM
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You teach kids to put their toys away so you don't step on a lego? You teach kids to not leave snacks out so ants don't arrive? I hope you have a clean home for your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:32 PM
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Is it normal to flush the toilet after you go to the bathroom in it? Or is that just a "different state of cleanliness"? If take a dish out, put food on it, eat off it, how is it going to get back clean to use again if you leave it on the table for the ants meal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:30 PM
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Being a pick me is not settling. It's being feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:27 PM
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Why are you working a 80 hour week? Hire a cleaning person. Your wife is tired from her normal work week. You are choosing to work extra and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:17 PM
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The post title was too many women want a father not a husband. My CMV is that men are children not husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:55 PM
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I don't mean they will be a HVM or anything. But a man. They could have someone marry them for a green card if they just want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:34 PM
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What does this have to do with what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:32 PM
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Unless you are like a 2 you could always settle in a marriage if you wanted to. Women get married in their 40's even, or do second marriages in their 50/60's. Women get the carefree fun lifestyle in their 20's and even early 30's if they choose to and then when they are older they could settle in a marriage if that is truly what they want OR stay single, focus of the career. They won't be alone in at as the high majority of women will be "single" along with them. Also its not the validation of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:00 PM
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This is more commonly seen by men and women who are in a 50/50 relationship and living together yet the man just feels like "Oh im done eating im just going to leave this plate on the coffee table" rather than picking it up and putting it in the dishwasher. Do that enough times and the girlfriend gets sick of having to go pick up his plate at the table to put in the dishwasher and she asks "Why can't you do this" and he thinks she is being naggy because "Its just a plate" Thats why when men say …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:46 PM
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Women on their own do better than men do on their own. Also single means unmarried, they could just be in a LTR just unmarried and childfree. Women who make much more than the man wouldn't likely WANT to marry him because in the case of divorce he could be the one coming after her for alimony. Should an average women do an average job to marry an average man to have an average family if that's not what she wants if she has the ability to become a high income earner and do what she pleases with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:03 PM
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You want her to be 20-25 but not have a full time job? How is she to pay her bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:44 PM
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Q4M: Are men naturally leaders?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:43 PM
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I don't think people understand that this statement is saying you want a tradwife. Thats how the christian blogger wrote that article years ago. She advised women to do no college, no career, stay at home daughter till marriage. Which means you pay for all the dates, marry her before sex, be the sole financial provider for life....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:51 PM
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I remember the Christian women with the blog that wrote that article "Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos"...now its a freaking meme for red pill men -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:16 AM
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They wouldn't be having sex with you till marriage anyway so you might not know till youre together forever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:33 AM
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Can someone make a interesting post or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:25 AM
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Its really not. What if the girl wants to date you but all be called a whore while fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:23 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:19 AM
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Yes but men think that's how they work, somewhat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:13 AM
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Its just a regular question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:56 AM
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Would you date a girl that wanted that or want to call a girl you date that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:52 AM
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I want another purge
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:48 AM
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You shouldn't desire to sleep with other women when you are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:57 PM
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Women having hoe phases is not the reason for divorce. Thats what RP men tell themselves. They would say their wives hoe phase 20 years ago was the reason for divorce even if he cheated because her hoe phase caused him to cheat so its still her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:47 PM
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I mean with the internal desire to want to sleep with her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:40 PM
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That is really strange. Men think to much about dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:16 PM
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You only know what she tells you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:15 PM
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I mean 29 year olds get married and have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:13 PM
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Does this men every man can be labeled a cheater because they looked at a girl sexually, watched porn, talked to a girl ect. while in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:42 PM
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Whose pussy is more stretched...the one who has sex 20 singular times with 20 different men or the one who had sex 200 times with two different men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:40 PM
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Yeah maybe she wants marriage and family life or a long term committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:38 PM
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I kinda feel like women is that situation just should not say anything? Like unless she is super close to her college friends and lives around them maybe. But 10 years goes by, different city, different friends...why should she hurt her chances at marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:36 PM
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Maybe she was just young and was doing what her friends were doing and after a little while decided it wasn't for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:27 PM
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It would deff be wired for a 35 year old women who is married with kids to say she is promiscuous though because of what she did at 19. OR it would also be strange for a women who hasn't had sex in 10 years to call herself promiscuous too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:26 PM
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Q4M: Is a women considered promiscuous for life if she has a short hoe phase? Like if a women has a lot of sex for like a year in college and then has no hookups for like a decade or something is she still promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:16 PM
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Thats it the chromosome one thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:12 PM
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Idk there is this feminist women sub that men don't like here. I have seen in a few times on here but I forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:07 PM
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Whats that subreddit that feminist women are on that men here hate I forgot?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:01 PM
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PPD says that women only hookup with men for validation though? I have never seen a man say that women do it for personal enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:53 PM
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What if she just enjoys sex with hot men because she enjoys it not because she needs approval from anybody? Does that not count?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:45 PM
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Example being like "Women sleep with Chad because they want validation" But they might sleep with Chad because they want to enjoy sex with a desirable man? So are they looking for validation or just doing a activity they enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:41 PM
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Why is it toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:01 PM
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Validation is essentially social approval from others, while sociopathic is anti social and not social approval, so I don't understand how those can mean the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:00 PM
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Why is that a concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:58 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:58 PM
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Q4M: What is wrong with a women wanting validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:06 PM
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Men with money don't care if they pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:01 PM
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If a girl is thin and wears no makeup/light natural makeup but plain Jane clothing like regular jeans and a shirt, she is seen as less attractive than the girl who is thin wearing ig style makeup, manicure pedicure done, lashes, tan skin, fitted tight outfit ect. The crazy thing is it could be the same girl that guy doesn't even notice when she is plain vs when she is all made up he thinks she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:29 PM
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Then why do men say clothes, shoes, makeup, nails ect. all don't matter. That women just need to be thin and this stuff is all done for other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:07 PM
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Is that to say that man who has casually slept with 20 different girls in his 20's will not be suited for marriage and family life because he will become restless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:43 PM
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But why is it a red flag? Like she has slept with 20 guys that doesn't mean she doesn't like children or want to have a husband? It doesn't mean she can't have a job, clean the bathroom, make the bed, wrap Christmas presents ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:24 PM
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men who go grocery shopping = unattractive got it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:21 PM
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So overall men just don't want women to enjoy life as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:19 PM
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She live her life to the fullest at the age she was at the time and the lifestyle of that age. Men hope to live their life to the fullest in their 20's and also hope to live their life to the fullest in the 30's, 40's, and 50's when they get married and have kids. Different times in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:16 PM
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Then why would women wear ugly unattractive clothing that does not attract men or is cool to women? Do you see that it's a stretch that because a women gets her nails done she causes another women to not go out to the club? Like what.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:07 AM
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No it's just 2023 now, not 2003.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:04 AM
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Ok, that response is all I need to know about how you answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:53 AM
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Many women wear the same thing out. Shop at the same stores. I wore a black dress, she has a black dress and that other girl does too. If its something super niche and we have the same brand, print ect I might go up a say "twining" and I might make a new friend. It's cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:52 AM
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So you don't want your daughter to have fun as an adult but you would want your son to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:48 AM
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You could say women like wearing yoga pants because they are comfy and don't over heat them like sweats would. Or a women might wear heels because the length of her pants are a little long and she doesn't want to step on them. Why do 80 year old grannies still put on their makeup and wear heels on Sunday to church? Are they looking to sexual attract men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:46 AM
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That still could mean her body count is over a dozen by the time she meets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:31 AM
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When women get their nails done guys say that girls do that for them and that men could care less about your nails and that's something women do for themselves. Yet that can't be true with clothing? If she said that about a loose fitting normal t shirt it would be OK but if she says that with a mini dress its now not OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:29 AM
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What are women wearing that makes men upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:23 AM
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If a womens sexual past was pretty much normal but she had a few month "hoe phase" in college but you don't meet her for several years after that. Does that mean that the past is everything or only the part you don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:22 AM
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Bikinis have been around for a long time. I think people wear what is appropriate for the activity. Why do you think it is because they want to show off their body? Is it only because they look good because if someone was overweight or older that wouldn't be thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:18 AM
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That may have been more true in previous decades, but now in 2023 where we know so much about peoples lives though the internet/social media platforms, idk if it is. Women who marry/or LTR at a younger age may feel later on in life like they "missed out" on their youth and now they have a bunch of kids and don't have their body anymore, they may become bitter about their situation. While women who lived their life to the fullest taking any opportunity they want to take, including sexual experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:13 AM
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The sex is probably better with a more experienced women. Chance of divorce rises because people don't need to be committed to people or depend of them financially. I have also heard men say that chance of divorce rises if the girls parents got divorced but that isn't known, its not a real statistic, it just sounds real because it fits the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:41 AM
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How does this correlate? The stranger on the street has no idea, just that that person drives an overpriced car? And probably the person born rich, because they wouldn't be wasting hard earned money on a fancy car. The one who worked their way up should value their dollar more than that, because they worked hard for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:35 AM
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But you can? Because many women had that sexual fun in their 20's and still became wives and moms? Also they probably have jobs and are not a housewife who stays home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:28 AM
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Q4M: Why do men think women having sexual fun in their 20's fun makes them bad wives or mothers? Man make make a statement like: "Women who had fun in their 20's aren't wife/mother material."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:23 AM
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Wdym? I shouldn't take care of my husband and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:49 AM
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I am not saying men don't fine them attractive I am saying men find hot club sluts to be more useful for crazy wild sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:55 PM
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That screws up the madonna whore complex. One girl for making love to (respectable, modest, mother of your children) the other for fucking (hot, sexy, free, confident, expensive)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:53 PM
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You could say the same with women. Men want a "tradwife" type for cooking, cleaning, child raising. But when they want to go out on the town or travel or have crazy wild sex they want the fun confident crazy hot girl with the makeup nails and tight dresses on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:31 PM
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Thats what Mr Andrew Tate says.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:21 PM
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Maybe you are only defining "women" as women you are attracted to. Because I am sure that there are girls in libraries who are introverts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:55 PM
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The men on this sub believe that men own their girlfriends. So if she makes money from the deal he probably believes he is entitled to the cash because he temporarily owns her pussy till he decides it gets too old and discards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:57 AM
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Amoral. Like redpill men saying redpill is amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:06 PM
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No amoral. Men say that redpill is amoral. But it seems women can only be put in the moral or immoral category. What is amoral for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:06 PM
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Q4M: What is amoral for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:50 PM
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Why do men get mad that women can make money from their sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:14 PM
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But they are like that to traditional women too. Or they "respect" traditional women but don't want anything to do with them because they are not a fun whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:29 PM
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I am not saying he his not struggling with sadness and being lonely. But he isn't going to find help on this sub. He need to seek out help from a mental health professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:18 PM
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You think that women live to do labor for men or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:15 PM
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You can still see skin texture though. And at the end of the day if his goal is to play her he doesn't care about it. When guys like girls IG photos they have makeup on AND they are edited, yet they still do it when they know in makes their parter insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:14 PM
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I don't want to have sex with someone that makes me pay bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:59 AM
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Thats a reach because most girls don't wear push up bras or heels anymore this isn't 2005. Makeup but he probably saw her with no makeup as well and most girls wear natural style makeup. He might be wearing shoe lifts and claim to be 6 foot when he is really 5"10? Don't know till later.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:55 AM
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But if their husband does leave all the housework and childcare on them and they want a divorce they get blamed for that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:03 AM
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3 months that's it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:02 AM
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This is a traditional arrangement, not a sugar thing? Also, women don't want two jobs, work job and home job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:20 AM
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I love a man that makes enough money to not make me work two jobs, work and home job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:18 AM
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What pisses off men the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:21 AM
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I again already knew who wrote this.... Dude please get help. You have to realize how privileged your life is compared to billions of others when your biggest life sadness and stress is lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:17 AM
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If a women has to work after being married she might as well stay single. What is the benefit of the man if he is unable to provide for you to take care of him and the kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:15 AM
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Dating a women, her telling the man she is looking for a committed relationship, him telling her the same, him contacting her daily to talk and plan next date, ect.........sex happens, maybe a few times..........he stops talking as often, doesn't have the time for a phone call or to go on a date..........he stops talking altogether and just ghosts. Man does this over and over again to multiple women. That is how men deceive women into sex. He lied. She didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:50 PM
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That women is going to be with her family on Christmas, not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:18 PM
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Im going on what is common nobody bat a eye compared to a really big thing you don't see happen as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:04 PM
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Pretending to desire a relationship with her is the big one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:57 PM
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Men can change after 30 years. Men can change, cheat, become abusive, run away ect. and they never planned on doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:53 PM
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Most men don't want to be fathers. So that's why their are single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:51 PM
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There is not enough men willing to be quality men and make enough money to repopulate. Not everyone gets a father anymore because men are lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:44 PM
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So if a spouse is not pulling their weight is it reasonable for the other spouse to want to divorce because they are not upholding the promises they said they would?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:40 PM
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If that's what makes you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:43 PM
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But which one is more common?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:42 PM
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People change over the years. You might get with someone at 25 and at 35 they have different wants. Maybe that man wanted kids but did not understand the amount of work it would take and just checks out. Maybe he likes to cause his wife pain. Maybe he just stops caring. People get selfish and change all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:02 PM
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Men change. Men lie. Men will baby trap too. Men will say what they need to say to get her where he wants her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:43 PM
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They don't do it though. So then the women gets sick of caring for a husband that does not pull his weight as and adult in the home and wants divorce and he complains how she is taking the kids away from him...but then does not want 50/50 custody because he doesn't want to cook and clean for the kids 50% of the time....so he pays a few hundred in child support and whines that she is sucking him dry of his hard earned money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:42 PM
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If they are unwilling to save up are hire a cleaning person it just falls onto the women and she does it for the sake of the kids and then men will just say she chose wrong. That a big divorce factor. Women go back and forth in their head being like...will life be easier for me single than married. And many times it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:39 PM
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If she is willing to settle with the hard life maybe. In 2023 most women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:55 PM
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But that means a women is not getting the best. Like women want their man to be able to provide for them. But the man is unable to do that. Most women today would need to desperately be attracted to and love that man to be with him if she has to work and do domestic labor. But this man is average so that's unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:50 PM
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But if you only make 50k a year and are average looking. Then you can't afford a house, your wife has to work, childcare is too expensive when the kids are young. Its like why do those podcast people try to push women to be with men who make 50k a year because if they get with them they have to work outside of the home all their life AND take care of the house, kids, husband. It's too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:41 PM
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Only the richest of the richest men could have multiple women and not be shamed by society and keep their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:36 PM
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Ok, but you have to create more family members because people don't live forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:35 PM
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Q4M: Are most men at the wall all their lives? I saw a tiktok that men start at the wall and most end up staying there. Because they are average/ugly and only make 50k a year and can afford a wife and kids with a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:34 PM
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And they get in trouble and shamed for it and pay alimony in the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:29 PM
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Because when you're 40 and have no partner your going to be lonely and want someone to spend Christmas with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:29 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:27 PM
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There are even women who are pro choice that say they would not get a abortion. It is something that will follow you mentally for the rest of your life. Also I don't think women need to make their choices based on what the man wants. If they created a baby together than that's the reality. You can't force women to abort because you don't want to be a father. Maybe she wants a kid on her own even if the father is not there. I have even been hearing of passport pregnancies. Where women go to other…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:50 PM
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I want men to want more for themselves. Being called a fuckboy is literally being called a slut, for a male. So when a women calls you a fuckboy she is saying you would make a bad human to meet her family, or that you would make a awful father because you have no respect. A fuckboy is what women mess around with and then they get married and the fuckboy is still at the club at 35 thinking he has all the rizz but in reality he just never grew up and accomplished anything. And being a fuckboy is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:45 PM
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Thats like embarrassing to think that men think that's appropriate and that women should settle for that crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:32 PM
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Yes but she also doesn't have a full time job on top of it. The keeping of the home is her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:30 PM
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Their faces and overall appearance...and the fact that they don't know basic info about their partner. The third one was my except one, because she is very big and below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:23 AM
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But birthday? middle name? wedding date? You would never blank on your own middle name you shouldn't on your partner either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:22 AM
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But the men are crappy they don't know basic things about their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:12 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:38 AM
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Tiktok These guys don't seem great yet they are with average women except one. Any comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:38 AM
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Most men don't feel this way? What do you think of stay at home moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:11 AM
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Have you ever touched a women? Because this seems like a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:04 AM
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Then men would need women to work the same jobs at them that are high income because that's the only way they would be able to make equal money. She won't make what a lawyer makes if she is a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:47 PM
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Maybe my mind is just calculatingly smart. I think people are busy with their own jobs and lives, they don't have time to do a background check on who is who from 3 years ago. They look at who someone is now, and maybe their resent past. But how are you really going to figure it out? Dming randoms on ig that she might follow or follow her being like "Who did this girl get with sexually do you knowwww" Like no. Maybe he family really doesn't have any idea either, because they don't talk about tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:45 PM
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Would you be willing to live to her lifestyle to spit the cost evenly? Because would never want to work, have to pay into a lifestyle I can't afford anyway, and come home and do all the domestic labor. Like I would just choose to be in a relationship with someone who does not make me do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:54 PM
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Many men in this same thread have responded that they girl down to sleep on the first night is no go for a relationship. But you are saying she needs to sleep with him right away to "lock him down"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:34 PM
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You are thinking of a wanna be celeb living in a big city or something. Girls body counts are way higher than you think and with private social media who are from a farm in Kansas and went to church on Sunday too. Normal young women who have girly jobs like teacher/nurse, loves kids and babies, sweet feminine appearance. You are thinking the only girls with the high body counts are the girls that have long stiletto acrylic nails and have a bunch of cosmetic stuff done with a tight mini dress pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:29 PM
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Girls sleep with the mediocre guys without care because she won't care if its just a hookup because she never really wanted him in the beginning. She makes the guy she wants wait because she would be hurt if she slept with him and they he ghosted her/played her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:58 AM
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Probably. I think most people do it because they want to compete with their friends. Guys and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:54 AM
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Women only have a "hoe phase" that will possibly hurt their reputation if they post about it all over the internet/socials, talk to their friends all about it. If you don't tell anybody or act in a particularly over sexual way in attitude or appearance, then nobody really ever knows about your personal sex life, and nobody needs to know either, because it's personal to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:51 AM
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Men should ignore women that are willing to hookup with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:43 AM
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Haha no. As a women, many women sleep with the guy they know they don't like because she won't care about if he leaves or wants nothing to do with her. If she just wants to hookup, girls pick the guy that doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:51 AM
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Men always say that women shouldn't make the guy she actually likes wait for sex if she has had sex right away with other men. But if she does really like a guy she doesn't want to cause herself pain by sleeping with him right away as he may just be telling her what she wants to her to get her in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:12 AM
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I would say if a traditional women is doing all that she should not have a job. Society is on her side with that one. Very few women are going to fit this type of traditional because, at least on here, most guys think the second you have a hookup or if you have been to a club/bar you can no longer be fit for home labor and child raising. With the other thing. I don't think most modern women are sex worker who don't cook food. They just do a regular job, go out with friends, have a nice boyfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:59 PM
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2000's the office core
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:36 PM
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If I job hop every 2 years to make more money for 16 years, can I be upset if an employer doesn’t want to hire me because they don’t want to invest in someone who is likely going to bounce in 2 years? I would not out all 8 jobs on my resume. I would absolutely lie. I would not tell the man I marry about my past sexual experiences. Why? Because he does not need to know. I don't need to know about his either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:17 PM
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People should have sex when both people are comfortable. Maybe she needs to build a connection to the man before having sex so she can bond. Hookup sex is normally alcohol driven and also its less about the women complete enjoyment. If she had a few hookups does that mean she is forever suppose to give sex to a man she is talking to right away because its not fair to him that she had those hookups years ago? If a guy really like a girl, and I mean really likes her, he will tip toe around the sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:14 PM
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Do you think that God was wrong in doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:56 PM
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You can't say God doesn't when God did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:40 AM
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The dating coaches I see online are married, with kids. I think people assume dinner mean $$ when in reality it could just me simple food. I just don't want to waste my time when I could be doing my own thing, especially when I don't know if he is a relationship guy or some dude looking to play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:40 AM
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My point was you don't get what you want. You do what God tells you to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:06 AM
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Secular studies don't mean anything with the power of God at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:05 AM
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Hosea married a prostitute, because God told him to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:55 AM
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You don't think women can change their lifestyle though. You could be a overweight unhealthy person, then choose to become a healthy person and loose weight. Others might see you as have no idea you were once a fat unhealthy person based on how they know you. People can change their life for the better. Your frustration is because you sexually suffer and you feel like you want the women to go through the same amount of sexual frustration you do so its "equal".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:22 PM
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Women are only sluts by appearance to men. If you are a curvy fitted dress girl with fake nail and lots of makeup...you might be preserved as a slut or treated like one even if you are a virgin. Yet the thin girl with the natural look and a cute little sundress is perceived as sweet and innocent, men assuming she's a good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:15 PM
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I have seen that research. Just because some says they are a Christian doesn't mean they are living as one. Christians who follow Christ don't believe in premarital sex, abortion, gay marriage, and a list of other things. I am not sure why the term "Born again virgin" is such a problem. They are saying that they have had sex, become a christian, and now practice absence. God does not see "body count" as the sin, He sees every time you engage in pre marital sexual activity as a sin. So the women …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:12 PM
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She was made as a helpmate for Adam. I know my bible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:05 PM
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My OG comment was about how most women who use the term use it because they become a Christian later in life and did not have the privilege of being raised with Jesus in their life. Women who are raised Christian rarely use the term born again virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:12 PM
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but that is an absolutely shit deal and a complete perversion of what god dictates for what marriage should be, and I think it’s completely within the right of Christian men to call out these deceptive tactics for what they are. You are saying its a bad deal because you are looking through human eye. Women are not a deal to get. They are not a prize for men for being a "good Christian"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:53 AM
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Idk about you. You're RP so RP men don't really want to get married. Lots of men elsewhere marry women without making them do labor to prove their worth first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:44 AM
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Look pretty, be desirable. Men who actually end up marrying women who live with them, cook/clean for them do so because of pressure from the women and worry that if they don't propose they might loose them, and all the resources they bring to home life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:28 AM
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I’m just saying that the lifestyle related to sexual restraint and treating women right and being kind doesn’t seem to be worth it. So you don't want to treat women humanely because they have/had sex? This is more of a issue with envy. Contempt for women because they get what you want leads to a very bad path for your heart and mind. You would most likely feel the same even if it was non consensual because she would be consider "used" rather than new. ​ This isn’t to say that I don’t believe in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:24 AM
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Women should wait till they get married before cooking, cleaning, sleeping with, living with ect a man. If she does all that crap she might wait a decade for a ring and then get replaced at the last min. Don't do wife shit with a girlfriend title.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:45 AM
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Born again virgins say born again virgin. Normally Christian people have a testimony. You don't live as a Christian because you are going to get what you want on earth. You live as a Christian because you die to self to serve Christ your savior, which is the best deal of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:42 AM
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I think it's more of a mental thing for Christian women who have made a choice of purity after being redeemed by Christ. In saying that you won't engage in that act till marriage now that you are a follower of Christ. This is the case in some women that did not grow up religious and didn't really have a guilt factor in sex pre marriage because they were not Christian yet. So once they are saved they start their life anew in Christ and don't have the dwell on those choices because they have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:43 PM
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I started reading this and already knew who wrote it, thus I don't need to finish reading. Anyways...you know they make drugs that lower testosterone. You should inquire about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:33 PM
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Omg women with trauma are wayyyy nicer that women without trauma. They are accustom to being beaten down so they see it as normal. Women without major life trauma are the confident ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:29 PM
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It's a gamble on the girls part
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:26 PM
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She's going to be cooking the rest of her life. He should take her out. If she really likes cooking as a hobby maybe then it might be different, but for most women this is not a hobby its labor. Being desirable is all women need to focus on in the dating relationship. Cooking, cleaning, wife stuff. That is only going to let you get taken for granted in the end because when you stop doing that stuff because you are tired the guy is going to be like what's up with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:08 PM
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It's just so funny that guys wants to split on dates but then want the girl to be cleaning his place with a happy smile. Like if you find a women willing to do this she has trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:01 PM
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Extra labor in exchange for a relationship means you will never stop doing that because it becomes normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:59 PM
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What is normal? Why are "normal" women suppose to be with men who are not? Like men who have autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:56 PM
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Actually marriage is to me. Why buy it if you get it for girlfriend price?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:39 PM
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He is still going to match with real women but he is not going to entertain convos with them because they look ugly. But if he is ugly that's what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:38 PM
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They should be swiping no on bot accounts, OF people ect. They don't even look at the profile or picture before they swipe they just swipe right on everybody so the bot mix with the real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:12 AM
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I am a Christian, and I know that for religious people it can be seen a little differently depending on background. But for many MC and UMC people the two parents working and "splitting" chores end up falling on the women, as she is mom and wife who's gender is suppose to take care of that. If she doesn't it appears that she isn't doing her best or she doesn't have the strength to rock the marriage/wants to keep everyone in a calm mood. I don't think they choose if for themselves because in a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:40 AM
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I don't think women should be cooking and cleaning for a man she isn't married to, does not live with, does not sleep with? She has a job and friends and her own food to make and place to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:00 AM
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Lots of men just swipe right on every women and only talk to the ones that match. They end up being bots and then they complain about the amount of bots of dating apps when its how they are choosing to use the app. I don't spend a crazy amount of time of apps and most women are not going to either. They pick the best ones. They are not going to match with ugly guys all day. Also, if you are a pretty women. Out of those 15 matches a dozen might be talking to you and it is overwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:49 AM
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I've seen many men concede that mothering the children justifies a woman staying home. Ive seen many say 50/50 but the dad doesn't pull his weight. He doesn't fold the laundry it just sits in a pile, he doesn't pick up after himself, he doesn't know what time his daughters ballet class is ect. Essentially making him another kid to care for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:41 AM
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I am not talking about daily mental breakdowns. I am talking about how women have to walk on eggshells to make its seem like everything is perfect when its not. Many women of the 70's and 80's did everything. They went to work, they were mom at home cooking, cleaning, doing all errands, they took care of husbands needs. They did it all because that was their only choice if they didn't want to fail. If she's not interested in making them happen the way he wants them Women who are "wifey" material…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:34 AM
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That means, no pain or tears, no showing real struggle, ect. Someone who is there to serve at all points of the day, no matter how she feels, because that's what wives do. The fight though the pain of struggling to make Christmas just "happen" out of thin air. Most American women I've known behave like they were born in a barn I don't even know what this means. I think that modern American women do there best with how the world is today and what works for them. You don't get any special brownie …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:10 AM
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Q4M: Why is a women having a bad relationship or absent relationship with her father worse than men who don't have a relationship with their father?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:52 PM
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Being the type of girl who is "marriage material" or "wifey" isn't really a compliment. It pretty much means you are an obedient person who always puts others before yourself and stays presentable in public and private, ie a doormat. Men loooove to gaslight women because it works, women are emotional, and it cuts deep if you are sweet. So by telling women they are of less value to men for having life experiences, it cuts her own self worth. Women with less self worth are way more likely to accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:33 PM
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Tbh this isn't a thing. The dating layout changes so fast and also this is something everyone needs to figure out by themselves in their own time. Men can't have their mommy do everything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:18 PM
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Q4M: Would you tell the girls you are interested in that you have RP beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:46 PM
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I am not a feminist sjw or anything. But same as men telling a new possible partner that you wear cheating on, makes them feel like they can do the same. Man or women, don't tell new people you want to date that someone has cheated on you, was the one to leave you, abused you or anything else. It makes you look weak or un confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:31 AM
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I just made a comment on daily chat the other day asking if normal women are suppose to be happy being with autistic men in a relationship. Even when he is difficult in social settings and can do things or see emotions in a childlike way. I think that is giving the women a demanding task that her partner takes more than he gives, and him treating her as almost parent like sometimes, expecting her to calm and sooth him. If you put RP beliefs into all that you take a man who does not understand em…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:58 PM
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I don't think autistic people are a good judge of understanding the social dating world and really need to stay away from any type of rp/bp thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:42 PM
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This isn't about autistic women. This is about grown men who are on a autistic spectrum and don't do well understanding emotions or sometimes even start seeing their partner more like a parent. It is simply not practical or fair to the women to have a childlike partner, even if they do have a career and whatnot. Also, regarding children, she would up her chances of having autistic children herself when if she was with someone without it if would be a decreased chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:31 PM
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I don't own a credit card and I have never had a mental illness? My close friends are same and we are 20/21.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:38 AM
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I am talking about a non medicated, no therapist, no mental illness, financially sane normal young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:13 AM
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What color nail polish should be allowed for the females because I know men are picky about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:23 AM
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She might just lie though and most men think women would lie about this, even if it was true. Also it might turn off a women because you have this view even if she is a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:51 AM
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Maybe they don't want the hoes because that's dependent, but they don't want to marry a women anymore because she might take everything in a divorce or they don't want the forever commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:36 AM
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It's just sad that young men do not want to marry young women anymore because they want the hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:31 AM
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Q4M: Should not autistic women really be happy with autistic men? If she is "normal" but he is autistic, maybe he is smart, has friends and a good job but still on the spectrum, how is she to feel comfortable with him not understanding things or his almost childlike behavior pattern, especially in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:29 AM
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Isn't this just the naturally way of things? She is using her resources
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:23 AM
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I don't think a women should ever tell a man she was cheated on in a relationship. Women do this in hope that the man will be empathic about her relationship worries but men see it as this women allows and puts up with abuse or being treated less than. Women should always be confident with men, especially a new man, in their lives because he will see that and treat her well because she knows she's valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:16 AM
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But she does not need to and most men just don't care and like to spend money on pretty women because they have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:17 PM
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Because everyone only cares about what benefits them. If I cared about benefiting the man more than myself I would be playing the mans assumed role.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:25 PM
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Then men are narcs too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:51 AM
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Damn out of all the crazy posts I see on here... Idk maybe lack of choice? Socialism breeds some sort of happiness that everyone is forever miserable rather than a miserable person having hope to not be one day in a capitalist society. So many people come from socialistic societies to western capitalist nations ie the US for a level of personal growth, largely by wealth, that you can't get where they are from. SO...if you are forever stuck, so is everyone else, and you don't know any different..…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:24 AM
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But women are people so they have there money and just use mens money for what they want and then men have less recreational money so women land on top in the end pretty much. Women have youth and looks and get taken on dates that's really normal to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:15 AM
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Maybe the guy wants to go to a steakhouse and she can't afford it. The guys actually might choose a place near by his place and he can get to easily but she has to pay for her own transportation plus her own meal? She just spent more money than him for the night. I know its a desired dream from men to expect beautiful women to pay for themselves, but it will never be reality because there is always a guy wanting and willing to pay for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:25 AM
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Idk who that is but this type of guy doesn't need to be anywhere near red pill. He would get more girls or a LTR by having nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:19 AM
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Maybe her father wants her to state home and not be in the workforce? Or maybe she was raised to work for low low wages because she is just a women and has to hand over her money to family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:39 PM
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Why don't mens eye look at the fat women in sweats walking down the street vs the polished blondie in a dress? Even career wise why do men like a women in scrubs vs a women in a business suit? To men, appearance is what you are. Because men don't care what you think or is in your head he cares what he thinks you are and what he assumes you think in your head. These women want the very best for themselves. So they will become what they need to be to get that with the most ease. Thats normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:38 PM
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If a young beautiful pure sex appeal women has no money should she still go on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:33 PM
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I am not bitter I am happy. I love going on dates and I am glad I don't have to pay for them. Maybe the are looking for a relationship and want to be a gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:17 PM
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Why just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:42 AM
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They why should I pay if he is? I don't want to pay and don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:58 PM
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Oh well then I am good because I rarely like guys enough to end up on a 3rd date with most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:18 PM
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They way you write it though is if I am sleeping with the man it is ok for him to pay for the meal because I get something he gets something. Thats transitional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:17 PM
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Q4M: Are you envious of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:40 PM
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I have been being called a prostitute for two days on this sub for saying the asker should pay, which is normally the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:39 PM
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Chads and HVM always pay on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:35 PM
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But I don't have to so why should I? It is taking away a mans masculinity to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:33 PM
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Is every girl who does not split the check on a first date disqualified too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:32 PM
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Why? That is very transitional and that is not the relationship I am looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:31 PM
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I think its envy. Men want the life of a women but they can't have it so they try to make her feel shame for normal things. I will not pay for dates I am invited on by men because that is inappropriate and takes away a mans masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:29 PM
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So you are the man in your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:30 AM
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So your a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:45 AM
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If that is what they want to do sure. The person staying at home to do the domestic work should have access to the money though. I feel like some like to restrict access or prevent their partner from using the family money because only one partner made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:31 AM
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Ok then that's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:20 AM
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Don't go on dates with women then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:20 AM
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They would have to live on less than needed then. Because if one makes 50k and the other 150k and they both need to contribute it can't be similar amounts because of the difference in salary. You have to look at marriage and family as a life partnership. Not whoever makes less works 24/7 to make it up and have no free time and can't have any spending money like the other partner does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:19 AM
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Maybe the guy just wants to make a good first impression and actually wants to pay for the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:15 AM
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I have never had a man ask me to split?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:44 AM
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Limited mindset attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:43 AM
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Men don't care if women have money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:42 AM
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If a man pays for a date he is a fool?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:38 AM
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I don't have money to pay for dates. So if a man really wants to go out with me enough he has to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:33 AM
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Why are men on this sub called Christian girl me a prostitute for not splitting the check on dates that men ask me on? I think they are gaslighting me. My brain is tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:30 AM
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Are you bothered spending $50 on a date? Because I have been being complained to all day by men on this sub responding to men saying I am just looking for free food because I am not depending to split the bill on a date HE asked me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:25 AM
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But I don't want to pay for a date he asked me on. I actually had a guy really bothered that I even offered because he thought I didn't want to see him again. Again most of these men are under 25. They aren't sugar daddies, they are college students and in early career. I haven't found one living in red pill land where I need to fight and fume to pay the check for approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:22 AM
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I am a Christian. And every man knows that I am before taking me out. If they think they can convince me or think I am a one in name only and will hookup with them then that is their assumption and they will be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:17 AM
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Once you are married with kids you pool the money together in one bank account to pay for life. If she makes 50k and he makes 150k she would be working 24/7 and not be able to make up the difference. This could be said the same if the women was making the 150k and he was making 50k. Is he going to be willing to do all the childcare and housework along with his job just because she makes more?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:14 AM
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If two people are both with full weeks it does not matter if the man makes double the household and childcare work needs to be shared. If the wife is a SAHM that's when housework and childcare is put more on her because that is her full time job, to run the home. Bringing home a paycheck is not enough to leave a working wife to take care of the house, children, and you. If she is working a full week, doing house stuff like appointments, cleaning, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping. Then kid stuf…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:37 AM
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Mods stooooop deleting the fun postssss, pretty please. I like to read the crazy stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:06 AM
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I guess we both have risks and that's dating. I am still going to go for my best option as an human would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:59 PM
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You like ugly slutty women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:58 PM
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A lot of men don't want women dressing a certain way only when she is not with him. If they are with each other he wants her to dress sexy so other men can see what he has. Like on a dinner date if she wears a dress with her boobs out, hair and makeup done looking hot. He would love that she dresses sexy for him. But if she wears the same dress out with to her friends birthday party that you are not at its now a problem because men are going to look at her want want her and you are not with her.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:45 PM
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Because it does not mean much. A guy can say he is looking for a girlfriend just to sleep with you and then say nvm or its not a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:32 PM
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I feel like the people I have been responding to all that on this sub have such contempt for women that they think women should not be taken on dinner dates without paying for themselves. Like these men that want a traditional women how are you going to get that if you want her do be doing the mans jobs?? Oh and then if sex doesn't happen right away she's a tease and just wants free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:31 PM
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Then I think you need to work on yourself and your dating perspective. First impressions are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:27 PM
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Not every man puts that on their profile anymore because they know girls are looking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:25 PM
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Men also fly women to Dubai in a private jet with no guarantee of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:56 PM
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Why were men not complaining about paying for dates as women just wanting free meals back 10 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:53 PM
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I am actually dating to find a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:50 PM
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Yep I do things that work for me and are worth my time. Dinner date with a man I think I might like yay. Walking in the park, which I don't get offered much at all, nope. If a obese girl asked you out for a walk in the part on a date would you go and spend your afternoon doing that if you did not want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:37 PM
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You could have great compatibility with a fat girl but you might be only attracted to healthy fit girls so you don't go on dates with fat women. I might be looking for a fun date with a guy that's wants to take me out to dinner because he wants me to have a good time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:28 PM
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It is to much effort for me to take time out of my day to get ready and go on a date that I don't want to go on when I have better offers. Thats like saying "What wrong with the fat girls"? Why do you only want healthy girls? It's to get to know somebody not about what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:24 PM
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But I give no sex? What benefit am I doing for myself if I demand I pay for a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:08 PM
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I have actually offered to pay quite a few times. I try not to do that but I have never actually had a man say yes to the offer. I would say every man that I go out with goes into the date knowing that he asked me, he choose the restaurant, and he is paying for both meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:06 PM
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I don't know places that sell food that cheap expect fast food but I don't eat fast food. Most ask me what kind of food I like and then plan something from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:58 PM
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You said you're going on dates with men you're not even attracted to. I never said this I said I gone on dates for the fun of being taken out which is normal. I can't attach myself to a man after a first date. I don't go on dates with men that are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:53 PM
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I just said in another comment I think somewhere around $50 for a date in total is about the price point of the dates I go on. Some a little more some a little less depending.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:41 PM
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I have never gone on a $300 date and tbh I don't think I would as a first date. The dinner dates I am going on cost under 50 dollars total depending on the place. I just don't want to spend my time going to coffee or for a walk because that does not feel like a date to me nor is it worth my time and energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:38 PM
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If a man wants to pay who am I to tell him otherwise? That's like talking back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:32 PM
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I like a place I am comfortable in and can have good conversation. But I do like dinner. So when I get off of work in the evening and have a date scheduled, I don't need coffee caffeine I want something to eat and someone to hang out with. I don't know what you consider expensive but I think that is up to the guy asking. Should I just assume any man taking me on a date that their only sole goal is to fuck me and get out? I will not sleep with him right away I should not go at all? Then I would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:27 PM
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If you only want sex stop the dates. By dating her you are duping her into thinking you want a relationship. If you just want casual no strings then say that right away and put it on all your apps. The women that want to fuck you don't need cheap coffee if they actually just want sex only you can just invite them over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:17 PM
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That is a personal belief not fact. I love going on dinner dates and I am 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:13 PM
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Your view can't be changed if you're just bitter. You're looking at dating not even glass half empty, but just empty. I don't think you are even going to have fun on the coffee shop dates because you will be annoyed that you spent $5 and that this bitch is making you talk to her and isn't just opening her legs saying fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:40 PM
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A dinner date does not not have to be expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:36 PM
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Maybe he paid for 20 $20 bowls of pasta but the 21st ended up being his girlfriend who he loves and ends up marrying, having a family with. The $400 he lost before her was worth it because he found her. Dating life people, it's how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:30 PM
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But other men will, so in the end they will win. You might think oh he's a cuck because he paid for her pasta. But society as a whole does not feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:14 PM
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Happy relationship > Single > Bad relationship If women does not find a man that she wants to be with she is happier single than in a difficult unhappy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:11 PM
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If you think this way truly then you are useless to women who are either beautiful or have money themselves in any way. Because beautiful women will get better date offers that you give so they will not accept your offers and women with money won't either because they don't need yours to do what they want. The only women who will accept this treatment are ugly poor women who are only looking for sex. And you got to watch out for them they might have stis or try to baby trap you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:05 PM
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But I don't want to go to coffee. I can make coffee at home or pay the $5 myself. If he wants to spend time with me he has to make it worth my while that does not mean I am not looking for a connection. If I was desperate for dates or not getting offered dinner dates or drinks at cocktails bars maybe I would do that. But if I am getting a better offer, its stupid of me not to take that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:01 PM
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Don't go on dates if you can't put in the same amount of effort that you do before going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:56 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:55 PM
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I am 21 and the men I date are around 24. I am not going to yell and scream to pay for a dinner that a man invited me for. I am a Christian and do not sleep with these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:55 PM
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Just because its a dinner date does not mean its expensive. Actually in large cities a simple dinner can be less expensive than drinks at a cocktail bar. Lots of male dating coaches actually advise women to stop going on the cheap dates like coffee because it shows that he wants your time for a cheap as possible. I would never demand a man take me out on a dinner date. But I probably won't accept his coffee date because another man is willing to take me out on a dinner date that I would enjoy mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:52 PM
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It's not free stuff it's call common sense. When a boss invites the team out for a work dinner they don't split the check a dozen ways the boss pays because its his dinner. When men invite women out out on a date he pays because he invited her. If you don't have the cash don't date. How do you want your future daughter to be treated by men one day?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:38 AM
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I feel like if men are not married they can't make the single cat lady with wine jokes? Women will always be single if men don't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:04 AM
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I don't think women would go for that in long term. Also if he is a SAHF for 20 years and wants to leave he gets the alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:01 AM
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I think men would rather act like animals as a conglomerate and then try to shame women for being single (cats and wine) in hopes that it will force their hand to accept them and all their behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:35 PM
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Men who ask women on dates, pay for the dates. If you don't want to pay for dates or get ready for them do not ask women on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:22 PM
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They don't see the point at 20 either then. Im 21 and want to get married. I think a lot of women want to get married in their 20's they just do not get offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:28 PM
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Y u so dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:26 PM
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Men don't wear makeup? If it takes a women a hour to get ready it takes him 15 mins, maybe. How do you think dating has worked? You ask the girl on the date and she either gives you sex or pays for her own meal? Thats a new concoction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:16 PM
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I don't know anything about the men when they ask me. We probably exchanged a few msgs. Are they not taking advantage of my naivety if they, a man older than me, wants to take me out with the goal of hooking up with me? Dating apps are normally for do you find this person attractive and do you then have some good banter over msgs and then he either will ask you out or or you stop talking. Thats how the apps work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:08 PM
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Its like so not that big of a deal that a guy wants to buy my meal on a date? This isn't lobster people its a burger and milkshake. Why should I be demanding to pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:48 PM
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I never said anything about a fancy restaurant. I don't go to fancy restaurants? You said expensive dinner not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:42 PM
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I do see it that way. I think the age demographic I am in right now is not conducive to LTR in 2023. I am 21, and most 24/25 year old guys I am going out with are just starting out with work or maybe still in school for an extended degree. Overall, if a guy asks me for drinks or dinner and I want to go what is wrong with that? Should I be saying oh no no no lets go on a free walking date instead? Why would I do that if I want to accept the dinner offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:39 PM
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Which is why men reduce the risk by vetting on a simple date. I don't know what the problem is here? If a man wants to take me out to dinner and I accept then what is the problem? Maybe that is simple to him? If you don't want a women to have makeup on or wear nice clothing and she accepts a free walking date than go for it. You will get what you put effort into and that's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:31 PM
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That is the risk you take in dating. How do I know I will enjoy my time with you? Will you pay for the makeup on my face or the dress I bought? If you don't want to pay for the meal of a women you invite out to dinner then don't invite her out to dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:18 PM
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Uh no. Guys don't tell women they are not looking for a relationship like that. We just talk on the app and he invites me out for drinks or dinner to spend time with me. These aren't old men, they are 24/25 year old guys in early career or grad school and I am 21 years old. Also, its not expensive dinners its just a normal regular restaurant for like pasta or tacos or something. Normal stuff for normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:13 PM
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It's not free dinners. It's him taking me out to dinner to spend time with me. Thats my payment. My time and conversation. I am looking for a relationship I can't help that he just wants sex. Dating never was nor is being taken to dinner means you get sex in return. It means a man takes a women to dinner to spend time with her and enjoy a meal together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:47 PM
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That has no correlation because men find more women to be attractive than women find men. If she is conventionally attractive and has the confidence to be that type of hot women but chooses to devote her life to one man, that is a win on that mans part and other men know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:42 PM
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You could make this claim for men to women too. Men want women that are attractive enough to be a hot OF IG slut and be desired by all but stays pure only for that one man and only sees him. He would feel like quite the prize and other men would be jealous of him with gives him value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:56 PM
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As a women online dating has been great. I use the apps regularly and should use them more but sometimes they get overwhelming because of how guys speak there. It amazes me how many men go on there thinking women are as horny as they are. Most men on those apps that I am attracted to are not ready to settle into a relationship yet sadly so I mostly go on dates just for the fun of being taken out. I have been more picky about where he takes me lately because if I'm going to do my hair, makeup and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:46 PM
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It is exceedingly rare to find a married man who's been given the honor of fatherhood that I wouldn't consider a good husband See this is someone women don't have the same view on. So many women watched their father cheat on their mother and she either tolerated it for the sake of the family/stuck financially or she left and was the talk of the town. A man getting married and procreating does not make someone a good husband. If it was that a women getting married and having a baby automatically …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:46 PM
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Most women are shorter than men. If she is 5'4 and he is 5'9, he is still taller. Women care about weight. You have never heard a women say she wants a healthy man? Tbh I don't even think women see fat men. Its like men to ugly or "post wall" women. They just don't get noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:54 PM
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I don't think it matters to most, but, it is really strange to me how many men want to make things "traditional" or something similar yet have completely checked out of doing anything to make society be that way. Another reason is that men have this increasing long window of adolescence vs women. It is legit going into the 30's and 40's where men don't have it figured or not wanting anything serious. And at the same time thinking women have to be married and pregnant before 25 or they are loosin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:38 PM
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Here I will fix it Men, you are so so smart. Women, you are so so smart. *spoken like kamala harris with all the hand gestures too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:25 PM
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I got a reddit warning for saying men are stupid yesterday? Is that really promoting hate because I thinks that's kinda tame tbh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:22 PM
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Ok cool, just wanted to know cause my generation has a lot of violent men so it might be a choice one day if I want regular beatings or the single life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:10 PM
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But this post is advising that men should not marry. I see it all over RP stuff other men saying marriage is a scam. Even fresh and fit guy has requirements like be 35+ and slept with 50 women before getting married. Like what. Also, I don't think passport bros are living in the masses of men. ​ What is a good husband? Because recently a semi viral post was on social media about this women and all the things her husband asked of her while she was in the middle of LABOR. Things like "Whats for di…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:07 PM
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To a man, is it more respectable for a women to be single or for a women to be in a marriage where her husband hits her? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:49 PM
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I mean if men collectively decide that they don't want to be husbands anymore except maybe 5-10 percent then women can't be wives. Even in LTR that's not a wife with legal rights and she could be replaced after 10 years and if she has children she is a single mom if not married. So mens cure to making this whole thing is make more single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:47 PM
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Do women get to escape the cats and box wine jokes if men don't want to marry them anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:35 AM
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Now, it's not men's fault if most women have little concern about a man's weight. Most people don't want to be with fat people because fat is not healthy. Men who are overweight complain about the women not being thin enough yet don't care about their own weight is just being a hypocrite. And again, men who actually want their partner to be attracted to them should be in good physical shape to a degree. Women don't like fat men just as much as men don't like fat women. And I am not talk about da…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:07 AM
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Normal men see red pill men like normal women see sjw feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:26 AM
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There would be nothing without a women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:53 PM
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I feel like the men powering economies don't think about sex as much as the men on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:51 PM
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Women who do skincare routines have beautiful skin though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:52 PM
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Dry crusty messed up ph skin is what that creates. Exfoliation scrub, shaving, body wash, body cream are at minimum and that's not including hair care and face skincare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:13 PM
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Do you think men want sex more because of how men has made "be accomplished" or mens approval based on how much sex you get with how many women? Because I don't think 30 years ago before reddit and social media men just sat around complaining that they don't get sex as much as others to the degree men do today. Like do men wanted to get validation from women or do they want validation from women so they can get validation from other men more?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:07 PM
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I feel like 30's and 40's would be good if people acted like a 30/40 year old is suppose to act. Like with maturity and a family and stuff. Not party people. It's the 35 year old that thinks they are 18 that looks dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:01 PM
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Whats better tan or pale skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:58 PM
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Y'all body care items are so expensive. Like for me to have good skin and smell nice not including makeup there is just so much that it takes to make women "feminine" The guys get the 3 in 1 body wash and shave their face that's like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:57 PM
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People on the internet make 21 feel so old but I don't feel old. Then the 30 year old people all say their 20's were awful and 30's are better and I don't know if that's real or if that's just because they have to tell themselves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:53 PM
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Im a little unhinged today so you can either ignore me or argue with me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:44 PM
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Men are so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:43 PM
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I would say the normal size body you see on tv is normal for women. Fat might be normal for women across all ages but for dating demographics ages 18-38 its just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:38 PM
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Muscular men is not the number one body type women prefer. Men think that is the body type women prefer. But it is actually more lanky or normal size body men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:14 AM
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I think women have a really hard time understanding what men mean by thin. Because when men mean thin they mean healthy not boney and that's what women think of when someone says thin. So when you say chubby I think of someone who is like 5/10 pounds over that 21 BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:40 AM
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Is it normal that fat men are only wanting thin women? Because it seems odd that so many overweight men are complaining about overweight women when they themselves are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:38 AM
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No benefit to a open relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:36 AM
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What does it mean by approached? In public or do dating apps count. Because 45% of under 25's being hit on in public seems high to me. We all walk around with headphones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:34 AM
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My last two points are good for that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:34 PM
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Because I don't want to that's not traditional women should not speak like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:52 PM
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Why don't you just go to a legal place and pay for sex? Put it in the budget. You could work on your physical health and emotional maturity and mental health too which might make you more likely to find a partner. Don't be as picky with who you want to sleep with or offer something other than your body to the women so it is worth it for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:44 PM
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Some women don't become pretty till later. I have a friend that was almost overweight and did no skincare and makeup when she was in her late teens early 20's. But then in mid 20's she got skinny, grew into her face and took care of her skin and did makeup, worn nice outfits. You could say that the younger version of herself would win if she was pretty back then, but if you have a glow up later, which many women do, then that's not really true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:28 PM
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I only like it when attractive men in my dating range look at me. I think that is very normal for all people though, even for men they just have a wider range.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:55 AM
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Men don't want relationships. They want bitches. If they can get bitches, they settle for a relationship and be "beta"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:52 AM
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Men I am describing are not offering me anything. I can't offer loyalty to someone who who wants me to be a bitch and talks bad about me to his friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:06 PM
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Are you in shape? I feel like so many men who are fat complain about fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:43 AM
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I agree with your post. I want to note that as a 21 year old women getting into a relationship with men ages 22-29 is almost impossible. I could have hookups, FWB, sistuationships no problem. But today, men don't want just one girl in a committed relationship because that looks "beta" and lame to the boys. Also men don't really have the emotional maturity to be in a relationship with a women. Even if a man was only talking to ONE girl he would always describe her as "this girl obsessed with me" …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:10 AM
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Q4M: Are the men who like big boobs and butts not the same guys that like tiny thin women? Because weight wise, a thin women with a larger chest or behind is going to weight more because that is all fat on the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:48 PM
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Romance novels are womens version of porn. It is not real. I would say most women know that also. Women like reading about it but if a guy did that irl it would not be cool. Thats why is has to stay within the context of a fictional story. Now a hot muscular neurosurgeon is dope, think more Derek Shepherd than RP archetype man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:59 PM
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Many people see their life as "how happy can I be" rather than "how happy can I make others" or "how much good can I do for the world". It is always about your wants, need, desires. I think this has been pushed even more with our ability to see the details of other persons lives, most that are better than our own. But more people with less exist out there than people with more so just don't see it. So, the reason people say you need to be happy before you find a partner is more to do with unhapp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:44 PM
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Maybe you are not the type of man attractive women want to date? I feel like quite a lot of men only want sex from women and see them as stupid so that's not new. It is such a limited mindset that you are allowing these stupid creatures who only offer a hole to control your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:30 PM
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Thats a risk just like with everything in life. Is the possibility of a bad thing happening going to prevent you from living a full life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:15 AM
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Men in the US can not afford children
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:59 AM
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C - Get pregnant and leave, get good child support
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:27 AM
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Men doing a manual labor job does not mean they can't wash their sheets weekly, have to be overweight, can't have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:49 AM
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Oh what's something I can say right away on a first date to make them stressed then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:33 AM
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Ok perfect I am within that weight
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:24 AM
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I am 5"2. What weight is thin to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:06 AM
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Good thing I am skinny and pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:55 PM
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Q4M: Same question in reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:54 PM
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l really didn't understand anything about females
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:50 PM
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Wearing a cute sundress on a date is the only way to go in the summer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:46 PM
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Explain? Because I don't know what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:21 PM
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Oh hmm. I think conservative women and traditional women are pretty different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:21 PM
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Today, kids get their values from the culture, not their family. The roe vs wade happened because Trump got to choose so many new supreme court justices during his 4 year term. Also, I supported the overturning of roe vs wade.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:03 PM
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What is the difference between a conservative and traditional women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:55 PM
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Why are overweight men complaining about overweight women? Do overweight men believe they should get not overweight women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:04 PM
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Women are still in feminine roles dating wise though. Women like masculine men who open doors, pay for the date, ect they don't like masculine men that masculinity showing in the form of beating, rape, yelling and swearing at them. Thats toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:03 PM
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For the past 100 years, women have fought to climb to ladder of social progress and freedom from restrictive gender roles, and when it got to men we pulled the ladder away and pressure them to keep playing along to archaic roles. I am not sure what you mean by this can you re explain
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:49 PM
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I see this with older men and socially inept men. Older men just think women will be amused at anything. Strange socially inept men just don't understand anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:48 PM
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Import? If you bring trad foreign women here and have kids with them those kids will be western Americans with western views and values. They will go to American school and be shown a liberal way of life. The daughters may even disown their fathers for being who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:45 PM
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Im confused? You want women to go backwards or keep moving forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:42 PM
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Oh I mean the government. So we can redistribute to women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:40 PM
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Yeah, but he has to look good and have social skills to do that. If he does great!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:50 PM
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Yeah no women should totally use men for their money because in the majority their labor and $$ is the best thing they can offer to society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:49 PM
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So you want to force liberal women to talk to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:38 PM
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That was just me saying 40k after taxes. Men have to pay taxes and so to women. Also a majority on men make OVER 40k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:38 PM
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I find the when I am a perfect well behaved young women guys could care less. But when I don't give a shit and do my own stuff and ignore men they just flock to me. My strategy was always, be the women who would make the perfect wife, and it never worked. Now my strategy is do whatever I please and get what I can, and it has worked MUCH better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:36 PM
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But women value womens opinions more than men. Same the other way around too. So women are not going to value what men value, unless to play on their weakness, ie why women wear revealing or attractive clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:15 PM
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If he makes 40k and I make 40k then I would be better off making the 40k and having a child on my own and getting childcare government assistance and food help with wic. He would be less value than social programs for the poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:00 PM
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All because they are not getting the pussy they demand. How do you expect to force women to sleep with men is my question because that is the supposed solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:58 PM
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More young women just take care of themselves better. Health, fitness, beauty, work, social life, person spaces ect. More young men live like it's a frat house and drink soda all day while gaming. Sure outliers exist, fat women, dirty women OR healthy men, good social life men ect. But women just have a higher standard for living life. So the average women is more comparable to a above average men by comparing womens and mens lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:54 PM
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Women should not be everything a man is looking for if she wants a man. Men like to find free happy independent bird because they enjoy putting them in a cage. Their "masculinity" has made them capture a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:49 PM
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In your scenario the man offers me nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:46 PM
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I think what mens version of above average is average to women. Because womens standards for life are higher. Mens are quite low.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:16 PM
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Hmm. I feel like this stuff is common knowledge. The only men that would have trouble with these things are if the maybe have a mental delay or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:15 PM
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Women can provide for themselves better than a man with 40k. Even the passport women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:12 PM
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I just don't think there are enough men to publicly support a cause that has nothing to fight for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:34 PM
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Nobody wants to subject their children to that type of lifestyle. Women don't want that lifestyle and will not choose men that want to live that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:31 PM
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Can you give me a few examples of masculine things women say are toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:29 PM
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Even without the taxes. 40k can not raise a family well in any US state. It is poverty for a family of four. 40k is enough for a single man in a low cost of living area, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:19 PM
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How would the have nots revolt? It would be interesting to see mass men on the streets protecting for lack of pussy. But again, what would you be fighting for? Because how do you fight for pussy if women don't want to give it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:17 PM
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No. Just don't do things women do. Just like how many men don't like it when women do masculine things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:12 PM
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Thats because women don't want to have kids with unaccomplished men who have no concept of emotional intimacy and respect. They don't want to have kids with men who feel 40k a year is fine because you can't take can of anybody on that. They don't want to have kids with men that watch porn every night rather than bettering themselves. And if they do have kids with these men they are the ones to get blamed for choosing wrong and not vetting well. Violent men are not going to stop being violent bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:11 PM
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This commenter is already in a defeatist attitude. They won't bring themselves to above average because it is too much work to compete for what they FEEL they should be getting now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:06 PM
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There are no advantages to being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:56 PM
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But you can't force women to be attracted to what they are not? Isn't this just natural selection in the modern world. Some get chosen some do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:59 PM
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So don't do girly things? Women like men so don't cry on the first date because of mommy issues that is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:50 PM
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Because this person is glorifying being a women thinking they all just get to have sex and live in luxury all day. Like um job, cleaning, cooking, kids, ect all forgotten about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:40 PM
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Is charity work a job? Idk I am just curious because I am not in college rn. I think the fact that I am not in college makes men think that I am stupid, I'm not, or they think I am dead weight because I can't pay for stuff like they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:36 PM
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That is why they are rare, but still exist. That why women want to date the men on Wall Street because they can offer them this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:21 PM
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I win
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:55 AM
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That would have to be for both genders though. Not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:19 AM
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Do you want to be a women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:34 PM
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Abstaining what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:01 PM
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Why don't men wear condoms or take contraceptives themselves? If a guy does not want to have a kid with a women, he should not cum in the women. If he does that, it is his fault, because she's not forcing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:33 PM
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Men are the one pleading for pussy and if they don't get it threatening to murder. That doesn't sound like standards to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:28 PM
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I don't know if college today makes for an intelligent stimulating person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:25 PM
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Take them out of the school system.. No access to the internet till they are older. Traditional values instilled in them from birth. That gives the new ones a much better shot in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:12 PM
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Kill the child in womb is actually rarely the mens answer. They want the women to have the kid. They just don't want to help care for it. You make a single mother by having sex and creating a growing baby that one parent gets saddled with and the other takes no blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:09 PM
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Teachers and nurses need college degrees. College is where sluts are made.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:59 PM
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Do you like her to have a degree because she had the college experience or because she would make a higher income with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:58 PM
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I am not a feminist so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:57 PM
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I think gen z might consider that to be not allowed anymore. Kinda like the how you can't be a surfer either. Anywhere where men might look at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:56 PM
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That the point though. If you work as a cashier at age 20 their really is not much growth that goes on so you might be a cashier at 30 as well. Possibly a manager or something but that is still a retail or grocery environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:54 PM
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The men here always say women can get above their league for short term, which I guess to the general masses is better than none at all. And it is not a mass problem because there are more pretty women than handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:21 PM
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Maybe the men should step it up and stop making single mothers. It's like the mom is actually raising the kid yet the dad is nowhere to be found?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:13 PM
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Q4M: What is a job that a women has (no degree cause college makes slutty women) that looks good to a man? Men alway say the job doesn't matter, but most still want her employed. What are the jobs that attractive quality women do in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:49 PM
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Any women that wants to get married. RP men definition, any women who is an adult yet has not lived as an adult, and doesn't understand she has adult rights
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:40 PM
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In this sub, men will just say womens delusional dating preferences, are preventing the masses of men from getting their sex, which makes men so angry they will destroy things and people, thus making the destruction of society womens fault for not letting men use their pussy more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:36 PM
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Men who sleep around just have a limited mindset. They don't value their own body by placing it in the "dirty women" and saying it is an accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:18 PM
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With his situation it was because he was not attractive/accomplished/social enough to get beautiful women. If the only naked women a guy was ever able to see in his life was his wife who was a 3, he wouldn't be complaining as much because he doesn't have a 9 because he doesn't know what a 9 looks like. But today ugly guys know what hot girls look like, even though they are ugly, they can't get off with a 4 irl because they are accustom to looking at 8's in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:16 PM
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Nope don't approach me. I do not want to be approached in public by any men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:55 PM
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Men of these last few generations are done for. Some may crawl there way out from the trenches but most will stay. They will not make husbands and fathers that will produce quality men in the future. I think it might be best to put the focus on the next generation of men and make sure they don't have access to the things (porn, social media) that make them see women as sexual objects and make them have anger that they have to suffer with. I saw a post on tiktok about this guy who was mad that he…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:51 PM
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People can change over decades of time. That why you see people who have been married for 20, 30, 40 years getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:21 AM
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You get better people in your live when you level up no matter what. When you see yourself as valuable and deserving of respect you will wait for the man who gives you that, even it it takes years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:22 PM
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I does not really matter if its for a living or a hobby. He dated her, posed in photos, commented on photos, and later changed his views.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:20 PM
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Safe men can change. Safe women can change. It will ALWAYS be a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:12 PM
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They will always live in this form of bitterness though. They feel like they got the short end of the stick and are having to settle with a girlfriend rather than get whatever girl whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:17 PM
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If a man wants to be a HVM he has to make enough money where the women can stay home with the children if she chooses to do so. Even better if he makes enough to hire in some help with cleaning and nanny so she can devote time to personal things like working out, shopping, brunch with friends as well as participate and run charities. Thats at least my definition. I don't think women want to send kids off to daycare to go back to work I think they only do that because they need a break and adult …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:12 PM
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Arn't men always complaining that women don't seem to have hobbies? Or can the hobbies only be like sewing and baking and crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:04 PM
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I think some people had those thoughts. I just really don't think it was the major requirement of the relationship now. Men see a womens body count as "How human do I have to treat her" based on the amount of men she is chosen to feel a form of sexual pleasure with, even if it was years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:59 PM
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Oh I must not be slutty because I am none of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:53 AM
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Oh what are things slutty women do? Also what is considered a slutty women in 2023, very different than 1923
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:45 AM
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For me personally I don't think an extra 450k a year would hurt me. I would totally marry someone that makes less than me. Actually if I was making that kind of money I could cherry pick just what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:43 AM
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Women doing job, house chores, and childcare Men doing job and getting mad about her being to tired for sex She is doing two job and the man is doing one, all because she is the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:39 AM
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So do you really think women should just start telling some white lies? Because if women just tell the cold hard truth then no women would ever get married to a man again according to RP standards. Men lie to make themselves look better to the women so women should do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:37 AM
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Something to check off the list that is a social desire. We don't have the laws of other countries though so even if she got married and did desire to leave one day she can, he can as well if he wants some younger or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:34 AM
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If they are religious they do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:25 AM
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I would rather have the 500k a year than the 50k a year. A man wouldn't give up 450k for a women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:24 AM
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But how do you really know if women lie? Men lie about things for there own benefit, so women lie too. She could be a virgin on the wedding night and he could still cheat. What does she have then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:20 AM
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Women can be unexceptional and still be the girl of men's dreams. But can the guy be the man of my dreams?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:44 AM
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Maybe they have cared, but it was a make or break on if she was a worthy human or if she slept with a dozen guys in college she was going to be a unfit mother 10 years later. Guys care because they want a less used object to own, rather than a more used one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:41 AM
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There are not enough men willing to be betas anymore in RP language. They want to be alphas or not be anything at all rather than a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:16 AM
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I think men get comfy and women get tired. Caring for a house and kids do primarily fall to the wife even when she has a job and everyday is just so long. Married men see sex as 5/10 mins before going to sleep and maybe he is not putting in the time for her enjoyment and/or she is just so tired from the day and knows the baby is going to cry for her in two hours. Men that get comfy in marriages not thinking of wifes emotional, physical, and mental needs because HE feels everything is all right. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:43 AM
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Women in the US would just simply stop getting married. If they were going to be bang-maids that can't leave its better to get a job and have a kid on your own then deal with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:32 AM
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This is a thing that was not a big deal that was made to be a ridiculous deal. Just like body count. 5 years ago nobody in the real world talked like that, now body count is the biggest deal to men about women because of cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:17 AM
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This is the desperate persons fault though. Men say this to women all the time "Don't date abusive men" but what do you do if that is all that is there??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:15 AM
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So having a degree, 90k salary, and healthy is not good for a 35 year old single?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:26 PM
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Maybe, depends where you live, but a degree that gets you a 90k job and you exercise regularly would give you a pretty good life to me personally. Live on a budget and even if that women doesn't find that man of her dreams she could still afford to have a child on her own and become a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:18 PM
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They have money. The just want to use that money on women that will put out fast not want to be in a relationship or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:59 PM
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What about her is exhausting?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:58 PM
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She might be dating a divorcee or widower or something who is 50 when she's 40 and his kids are already in college so he is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:56 PM
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But you can't be for sure knowing that you will find a man and have a family. You have to have protected your own financial future. A women who doesn't do the career thing but her husband does, he can hold it over her head that he providers and she rides on his income. Or in the case that she is unhappy and divorce happens she has been hope with the kids for a decade and he feels that he shouldn't be giving any alimony to her because she didn't work like him. I don't have a career, but I think m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:52 PM
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I don't mean my rent I mean if you start to live together. Also, most dating activities are not free. They want to go out. I am just saying men want a women with a career so they can pay 50% of all life costs. If women don't have a career then she doesn't make the kind of money to live up to the lifestyle men want nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:29 PM
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Men won't date me because I don't have a career. Men don't want to pay for all the dates and rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:19 PM
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Does it matter if they are or are not though? Because if they are doing good financially and are healthy fit and beautiful. Then the man she is with HAS to be top notch. Women like that would not allow a man to cheat or be crappy. She would do better on her own in a city around men that would flock to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:15 PM
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I think she is a really bad example because she is not even posting sexual photos. She is a surfer doing her job that happens to be in a swimsuit. Nobody would date a Victoria secret model if it was inappropriate for women to have jobs that they wear less clothing in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:10 AM
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Thats why men say "She left for no reason" or "She broke up with me because I didn't take to the trash yesterday" or some stupid reason. It's never just that, its a bunch of little things and big things to and then one day she will be no more. Either gender will push to see what they can get away with. But the difference is most, not all, but most women in committed relationships, engaged, married, as kids ect., won't be out disrespecting their partner by cheating because it makes them look like…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:01 AM
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I am confused why her photos were bad? She's a surfer and he knew he was dating a surfer who wears bikinis? I looked them up and they were the most normal happy photos with friends and her on a surfer bored. Not sexualized ig model boobs out photos. He was even IN some of the photos with her in a bikini at the beach, where he was in one as well. Bethany Hamilton, a surfer who lost her arm in a shark attack at age 13, is a devout Christian with a husband and children. She had a movie come out cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:53 AM
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Do you mind if the girl lies to you on certain things as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:26 AM
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If you can get a good one, being in a relationship is better than being single. If you can't atm, then being single is better than the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:17 AM
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What does the women who can't attracted a good man get?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:21 PM
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Oh are you the one with the open relationship husband and young kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:37 PM
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Are you another age gap marriage. What is with that on this sub??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:58 PM
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Why don't you save the world and do that then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:57 PM
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Isn't that the mans fault though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:44 PM
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She is also just showing the world what is happening to men all over as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:31 PM
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This is not a caveman society. We live in a civilized global world. People adapt to fit into the society that is at place. You could say men want a type of women, how does that speak to the men that get with other types of women? Same with women to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:53 PM
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It's more of a warning to other women that this is his behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:49 PM
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I have friends that don't mind if their boyfriends watch porn, like girls photos on ig ect. I think this is more prevalent in young liberal relationships though. If you are married with kids in a trad like relationship, I don't think that's going to go over well. This Jonah Hill situation was absolutely ridiculous and just goes to show the insecurity he had and the desire for control. He got into that relationship knowing she is a surfer. Her photos are not dripping in oil IG OF style pictures, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:11 PM
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Why is it delusion if it happens? Dating is the time for women to be choosy, especially when young with options. Why? Because she wants to find the best she can. If one guy is missing something she wants then she might look for it elsewhere. Men do this too, at least men not in the RP world. They see negatives all the time of why this girl should be in a hookup category vs a dating category. And to get into a "I want to marry this girl" category it's even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:59 PM
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They might feel entitled so what? And if they get that HVM so what? That is their personal business and choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:50 PM
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It is not black and white like that. RP is not clear vision and BP is not in lala land.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:49 PM
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The matrix is a syfi movie not God and science. Don't want to get those mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:55 AM
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Which gender complains the most? Men or women? and why do you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:50 AM
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Mods always deleting the fun posts. Can we have purge back?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:00 AM
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But men would be willing to be with women that don't respect them more than women are willing to be with men that don't respect them. Sure you will always have some women willing but way more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:40 AM
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Would you rather be wanted by desire or needed for survival?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:53 PM
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But women don't have to procreate with men they don't want to and still have fulfilling lives. Which is what my original comment is about. That if men don't step it up women have zero attraction or desire to babysit men, thus would be happier alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:30 PM
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I mean need men in a personal sexual relationship. Men don't get sexually rewarded for making society go round. Also nothing would be possible without a women. Because women carry, birth and nurture babies, including the future men of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:17 PM
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The whole question is women are at fault because of mens dumb choices? Should slutty women blame men for them choosing to be slutty? Guys like young slutty women so if you want attention from men be a slut. But then later on nobody will want to marry you??? So can they blame the men for ruining their future?? Should women blame men for the time and cost of physical upkeep? Feminine women put lots of time and effort and money that. Beauty treatments, health stuff, attractive clothing, hair makeup…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:53 PM
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Isn't all sex free without being married
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:43 PM
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RP dating strategy is really bad advice for finding a man. I say this as someone who use to think and sometimes still do think that this is how I get a guy. But even I am learning that you get men chasing after you way more when they want to put you in your place. Taming the wild women is way for fun for competent men than having a boring girl who never steps out of place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:30 PM
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So there are more better women than better men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:12 PM
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What about when she turns 31?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:27 AM
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Are you saying that women who sexually reject men causes men to want to take her out more to win her over?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:26 AM
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Poor women still need a 2nd parent? What is a poor women in this scenario because a single women with a bunch of kids gets better money from the government single than if she had a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:36 PM
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Guy buys things he can't afford Blame women -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:34 PM
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But if she has no money settling with a guy that has no money who she is not attracted to brings nothing. She would be better off single where she would get more governmental help and not have to care for essentially a grown up child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:50 PM
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If she was supporting him through all that then wouldn't some of that be hers too? Also if she stood by and helped him and he decided to leave her for someone better/younger/prettier should she get some of the wealth they build together? If he already has built himself up by himself? Got lucky in the stocks or crypto, made and sold a company, worked hard for 20 years idk. What girl deserves him then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:45 PM
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Nah. Women are rising up men are going down. Women know it, Men know it. No need
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:33 PM
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If women is bad at sex and lays like a starfish men complain and say "this is why men cheat'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:32 PM
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Sure, but the things they say out loud are seemingly similar to the intrusive thoughts men irl have, but don't say out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:05 PM
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I really enjoy understanding how other people think, even if it is different that my own I like to understand others brains. So maybe I do hope that something I say makes another understand a different perspective. Sometimes I take breaks from here if I feel like its just a little to much. Mainly I come back because I like talking on reddit about these issues and seeing others questions and answers about this topic. I feel like if I desperately wanted to be in a relationship that badly I could s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:00 PM
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People just don't need to be in unhappy partnerships anymore. Men and women who do not get into a partnership just probably won't reproduce and die out. So I am not sure what the problem is with that. It's sad, but lots of people are child free and don't want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:47 PM
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My motivation was being upset about RP content because I felt like young men, my dating pool, were reducing women to body parts in the masses rather than people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:42 PM
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but sexual rejection places men at risk of parasitic female behavior. What does this mean I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:13 PM
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Women use to need men. Now they don't. Simple as that. I know women still want men. But they want men that are accomplished and competent like they are. They don't want the fat guy who works a part time job and has no friends and complains all day with no emotional comprehension. I feel like guys should understand this? Men sometime complain that women with nothing also want these guys, which yes they do, and even if they don't get them life is easier for them on their own than with a guy they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:12 PM
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You're delusional I can't with this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:37 PM
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The best way for a man to get love is to take sex out of the picture right away. Look at the women for her true beauty not wanting to fuck it up. What is her personality as a person, what are her values, what are the challenges she has faced and overcome, and even look at some daily living practical things like how does she budget her money, how does she take care of herself and her space ect. If you can find out these types of things that fit yours you are more likely to actually love and see h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:36 PM
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Going on reddit to talk about social dating issues is similar to drugs or gambling? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:27 PM
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age (25-35), over 6ft tall, handsome, makes $100k a year, owns a nice house, luxury car, spoils her, and is completely faithful. I have a question. What type of women in your view deserves this type of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:19 PM
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PPD men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:13 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA I be laughing. Men hate virgin blowjobs. Men like pornstar blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:12 PM
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You should ask her if she truly wants people living together unmarried, having babies unmarried ect if that is better and going to turn the world around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:08 PM
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Emotional connection is what will attracte the women though. Unless she just wants to sleep with you and set you free for your body. Women are not mainly attracted to a mans body first like men. Even if his body is hot the personality values emotional connection have to be included and they come first. So men might think if a women has sex with you she likes you, I would not state that to be true in 2023 she may just want to use you, mess with your mind, get off, feel horny, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:07 PM
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Women have to have sex to be skilled at sex. Men also like to assume that womens body counts are much higher than they actually are because a women is beautiful and sociable. Just because a women went to college, wears a bikini, has an instagram ect does not mean she has slept with the whole football team like men seem to think. You will never know how many men a women as slept with. Wether she hasn't said anything or told you the truth or lied to you or whatever. Only she will ever know because…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:36 AM
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I believe what other people use to define femininity is femininity by definition of the word but nobody else would understand it as that so I have to accept the new definition of what others define is as today. I had a role model for the original definition, not the new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:13 AM
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Idk I swipe on them because I see hot guy not bad boy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:50 AM
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Femininity is an old word be femininity and masculinity have only be throw around in culture the last few years after this RP content push. Before nobody really used that word in common speak. Femininity that people talk about today to my definition is an uber expensive expression of material wealth and beauty fit for women. Not things like, women like shopping, women wear makeup, women like children, women like flowers ect which is what I consider what feminine use to be if someone were to use …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:42 AM
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Idk about that one I am talking traditional porn girls/OF girls. And some want a "good girl" who takes care of them and like vanilla sex so he can respect her and then wants the porn side chick to do all the degrading shit with because he could care less about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:21 AM
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Depends on your definition of femininity. The dress up in heels, fancy dress to go out to dinner with a face full of fancy makeup and a designer handbag, no. Thats what most men think of when they think of feminine women. They don't even know they think it. They think she's all natural no makeup but she's actually wearing 25 products on her face to get that look. They don't think of the simple girl without all the beauty products, skincare, hair treatments, a closet full of high end clothes and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:18 AM
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She should just take a few shots and walk up to him. If he wants her then yay and if he doesn't then she can find someone else. Men should take this advice too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:04 AM
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What even is this. You can't just sit like a lump and have women desire to suck your dick. Thats true for everybody not just you. That's not paying that's just being a competent human.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:31 PM
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Love and lust are very different things though. If you are with someone for lust that will almost always fade with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:06 PM
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Women still like sex. Also men like sex so in long distance the man can keep things hidden better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:13 PM
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How do you fix this issue then? Women don't want to give up careers or have to settle to a easier one. Men don't want to pay for all household expenses or if they do they feel like the wife is getting a free ride despite her not. The only way to do this is individual families. The wife has to have compensation from the husband because she is taking a physical hit and economic hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:35 PM
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There are tons of articles and even a old reddit post about women want to be compensated for pregnancy and maternity leave. I personally think in a two person career oriented equal relationship they only way to make that "fair" is to do that. It seems crazy to write about but saying "Lifes not fair women just have to do this" isn't really a good answer and doesn't encourage women to go forward with motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:20 PM
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I feel like guys always tell me they are going to the gym. Do men lie about that to impress girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:15 PM
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Men like complaining. Women like complaining. It's "easier" to whine that do something. I have been seeing a lot about who have it easier in life for all kinds of things. I would also say me want the type of women they see in porn, some admit it some don't, and it costs money to date women and they are not able to afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:13 PM
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We don't know 2 and 3. Why are you shocked that women like attractive men? Why do you swipe right on blonde bimbos in a bikini? Because you are attractive to them and desire their attention and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:07 PM
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People don't have the fear of God anymore. All sides men and women. It's sad and everyone suffers. But if men was to be the masculine sex its their job to fix it rather than just sink into deeper decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:33 PM
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I am describing in the example of 30 years. So in 1993 not every 25 year old women was married and 25 year old women did not look like the 25 year old (pretty) women of today. They were not trying to make themselves look younger and younger and it was actually more of a flex to get to be older and be treated like an adult women. An example might be Pretty Women, Julia Roberts was only 22 years old in that movie yet she dresses how a super modest 35 year old might dress after her she mights the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:59 PM
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Men don't get to define the standard for women though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:43 PM
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Just because she does not want to sleep with you the first few weeks she knows you does not mean she is unattracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:41 PM
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To me RP is fake traditionalist, believes in innate superiority to women type vibe and BP is liberal minded equality, anti true traditionalist type vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:48 PM
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double standard Why should men get more freedom than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:41 PM
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See women place the safe option as a high value man and the lusted after maybe one at low value. So to a women the man who wants or gets a lot of hookups is low value just like when men describe women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:43 PM
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Why don't most guys want that anymore? It never use to be a problem. Men want to work hard, ask a womens father for permission to marry, wanted to have children ect. Now men live in this hedonistic competition with other men. Do men really think single alpha chad is happier being hunger over after going to the club at age 35 with the slutty women that don't want him anymore than the guy with the sweet wife and two kids going out together on Saturday morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:32 PM
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It's crazy that men are not able to see women as humans. Like they only think that their wife and daughters and mother a deserving of basic kindness and others are not their problem so kick them in the dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:23 PM
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I don't believe women truly sexually desire the alpha as much as men think. Men become hotter and more desired with feelings of safety and connection which the alpha does not have. And the man should want to be the stable guy because its leads to better quality of life. You can be a wild crazy high and low drug addict for a few years and then it ruins the quality of the rest of your life. OR, you can not do that and just be stable and be admired by you wife and children for your stoic life. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:17 PM
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I saw another comment that went like this. Some guys take girls on dinner dates as a first date while others just get a coffee. You don't like her as much because she got the coffee date instead of dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:13 PM
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Less attracted. Women sleep with disposable men on first dates just like men sleep with disposable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:10 PM
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A man has more physical power than a small women. He could be charming and sweet but you have no clue what he is capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:09 PM
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Even if they get divorced they might have 40 years together. He will have kids and grandkids. Alpha life is like the life of a drug addict. Crazy highs and crazy lows. He is going to feel pretty shitty at 35 when he can't get the types of girls he is use to and he can't build connection with women anymore because he never had to develop personality and just lived off his looks. He will be like the single women past the wall, mens version.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:07 PM
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The women and the men who delay intimacy are truly attracted to each other. If a man likes a women enough he will not want to screw it up and have sex on the first date he will want to build a connection. If a women is having sex with a man on a first date it mans she would never date that dude other than short term or never and she thinks he would make a crappy father for her children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:03 PM
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How can he know she's a good rescpetable girl if she puts out right away. He won't think it's just with him he with think she does that with everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:01 PM
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What kind of backwards logic is a girl needs to give sex before she get connection, chemistry and commitment? You men want traditional girls but don't want them to be any such way? You use to have to marry a girl for sex and now a drink at the bar should be more than enough to say give over the pussy women or else you're garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:59 PM
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Just know, the ones with the girlfriends and wives, probably jump through those hoops without it affecting their manhood. I just said in another comment, women sleeping with a man on a first date normally means that is not a man she would desire to be in a relationship with. Alpha might fuck, but alpha is going to be fucking lonely because he can't build connections with women and will never have a wife and children that don't look at him with embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:47 PM
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I think if a guy actually like me he would not want to have sex with me on a first date. You can't build a lasting relationship on lust feelings. You need to vibe on personality and values. A guy that actually likes a girl would be nervous bringing up sex like that and would want to make it special. In my personal note. I think girls would more likely sleep with the guy on a first date that they don't care about keeping. If she sleeps with you right away that means she actually does not see you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:42 PM
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Mods I wanted to read that post why did you delete it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:59 AM
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I would never go on a date with a fat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:59 AM
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I am not even going to engage with this, but I will say I saw lots of fat men on dates and I wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:38 AM
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So how bad is it really to say you're saving yourself for marriage if you're a born again virgin and actually still doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:27 AM
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6'1/6'2 is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:18 AM
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More women seem to be achieving the standard than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:12 AM
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Almost everyone does what is "cool" to their own social group, some stand out other don't. A guy being 6 foot is in right now, a women being young is in right now. 30 years ago it was "in" but not to the same degree of today. A 25 year old man wasn't all dooming because he was 5'9 and a 25 year old women dress and looked like an adult not shopping at teen stores. We are living in a different time now and it may look very different in another 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:08 AM
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Women are held to standards as well. They need to pay for things like rent, look a certain way, stay young forever, cook and clean and want child raising be their life happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:02 AM
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Not the case. If she makes an income, some even make more money, she could be paying alimony to you. Also, alimony only happens in 10% of divorces and child support happens because men don't want to take the kids 50% of the time. In 50% split child support does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:59 AM
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They are lacking dating success because women can choose now. Before, when women did not have a choice, they did not suffer as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:57 AM
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How? You can do this with less people. But if people want friends you can't just sit in your room all day and wait for them to flock to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:09 PM
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No because I don't want that many friends its exhausting. But if people are complaining about lack of friends that's a great blueprint to making friend circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:00 PM
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If you are not happy with a women you do not want then don't be with her. You are choosing to settle for that women because you want sex. Trying to say you are "shamed" for your own choice won't go far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:59 PM
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No they are going for sex tourism. And I'm sure the women who are in that line of work take precautions because they don't have child support there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:34 PM
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Men are going down. Women are going up. Simple as that. If women are not attracted to men there is only so much "shaming" you can do to tell her to be happy with a man she does not want. Men need to step up in quality or be less picky about the type of women they want. If you are that average man, you don't all get to have an above average women. You can either have someone closer to your accomplishments or be single. It's not up to the men to decide what woman should accept its up to women. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:20 PM
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You make friends and become the "central" person of friend groups when YOU make them. If you make 10 individual friends and then put together two different 5 people friend groups everybody in that friend groups meets and knows each other from YOU. Later on they might bring in a friend from a different group and when that friend is like "oh how do you know so and so" they say they met them through YOU. That makes that person more likely to want to know you. You can legit make 50 friends and never…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:59 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:50 PM
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This "dual mating strategy" is just so fake because men are not trying impregnate whores. They would actually consider that to be the worse thing. Setting up their own sperm for failure by being with a slut single mother and not having a father because they would not recognize the child. They are using this as a cop out so that they can sleep with multiple women and hope that they have beaten down womens self esteem enough to be deluded that this is part of "mens needs". Men know this. They want…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:17 PM
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Don't overthink it. RP men just want to have their cake and eat it too. They know it, they sometimes even admit it. They feel women do that because they now have freedom as a full fledged human to have their own opinions, feelings, goals ect. and men think that is them betraying what they were made for...to be subservient to a man and raise his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:08 PM
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Your grandmother does not think people should get married anymore because of the way women dress at church? Idk if I believe that. Also, if she was a true Christian and just for show it is biblical to get married and she does not want people living in sin. Just because people don't get married does not mean the sex stops and I think she would hate that more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:00 PM
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Is it more ethical for women to drop their children off at daycare so they can go to a job they don't want to do to pay for the daycare?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:46 PM
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I think it use to be money. Now women make their own money so they can have both and men need to have something else. Which could be looks, personality, values ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:41 PM
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You should go talk to the old people in the world. They have the best stories and it really makes you want to live the true good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:36 PM
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You don't seem to have any though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:34 PM
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So go to a male therapist. Whats wrong with that? What are you self preserving for? Like you won't have a partner? You won't have children? What are you living for I am genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:33 PM
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Robots are going to do the menial jobs soon anyways though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:49 AM
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Personally, I think you should try and get some help through talk therapy so you don't feel that way anymore. You're missing out on LIFE, and you don't want to be 90 one day in a nursing home being like wow I didn't have a wife, children or anything to leave behind because I was so scared of someone or something possibly taking something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:31 AM
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I mean idk if he will do that I just think that every guy sees what he can get away with behavior wise and that determines how they treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:52 AM
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He has life like together and is out of my league accomplishment wise. Looks wise I think we are probably similar me a little bit ahead but that's pretty normal. I don't have the accomplishments but I look pretty but I need something else and I don't know what. I don't want to be overly kind because then he might think I'm a doormat and will be able to treat me anyway he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:23 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:18 AM
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He plays games with me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:01 AM
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Whats the difference between when you bruise a guys ego that he wants to like prove you wrong vs when you bruise his ego he gets mad a rage quits and doesn't want to see you? Like what are things I can say that fit the first one not the second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:50 AM
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Most men do this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:21 AM
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That's very heavy. I can imagine that is average for women under like 25 or 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:20 AM
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You should watch the movie Redeeming Love. It's a "girl movie" but you will cry if you watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:14 AM
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Ha men haven't been doing any cheating? Talking to multiple girls, lying about height, lying about their intentions, omitting that they hung out with an ex, flaking after a promise, lying about their future or talking up career
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:04 AM
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Then by those rules women can do nothing wrong. They can do whatever need be done to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:48 PM
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Why are men not going to college and becoming high income earners? Why are they not healing life traumas if need be so they can be emotionally strong men? Why do men think telling women to do worse in life is what will make them better than just stepping up to the plate themselves. If they stop treating women like equals they are cheating the game which means their "win" isn't a true win.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:32 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:24 PM
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I did not even read this but just by the title alone. No. Hot guys have good social media and tinder and that's how they do good. Exception is being at college or bar/club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:49 PM
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I have no dyed hair, no fake lashes, wear light natural makeup. Is it just thot like because i'm in the US and if I was in Italy it would be oh so feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:18 PM
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But women are human people not toys so that's impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:51 PM
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Yeah so what are they wearing that makes them look less thot like than in the US yet still wearing less for the summer heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:49 PM
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I don't think women who open large businesses like that are fake working. Maybe some. But they are not going to do all that work for no reason just to say they have a job. Especially if they are married with kids, they would have no problem just saying they are a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:45 PM
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Dress scantily and super feminine? How does that work in Italy because in the US if you do that you're not feminine you're a thot?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:38 PM
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They like virgins because the see her as an untouched object that they get to play with first. They might want to settle down with one because they know she has no true comparison of sex with anybody else so if they are crappy in bed she won't truly know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:36 PM
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I feel like men want women to be interested in feminine things like going to pilates or makeup or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:24 PM
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The women that is a cool friend. What makes her not relationship worthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:53 PM
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1) Men don't like women anymore because other men tell them they shouldn't and they want the approval of other men more than the approval of women. 2) Men also don't like women anymore because sexuality is so widely deviated that they grow up really seeing women as sex objects rather than people and its really hard to unteach that. Just think for years many men didn't see a naked women until they got married. In the popular tv show Outlander main character didn't have sex till age 23 on his wedd…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:52 PM
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I love online dating, yet it has its drawbacks. I have never know a world without it so its so normal to me. I do think the "vintage" style of dating where you meet people organically is good but I think men (my age) in public already assume I have a boyfriend, and I don't like the idea of strangers hitting on you because they only are doing that based on your looks not your personality or values as well. With dating apps you can share what you are looking for, your interests, your values ect. w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:18 PM
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Men need to make a baseline salary. I just saw something off that stupid fresh and fit podcast about "why are women not happy with a man that makes 40k." Um 40k might be enough for yourself in your 20's in a low cost of living area, but it is certainly not enough to ever buy a home, pay adult bills, raise a family with children ect. I know quite a few women in their 20's with degrees and careers who's boyfriends work part time jobs and don't contribute to the rent. They do that because "having a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:56 PM
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Should I let some hot guy take me out this weekend and hookup with him. I really hate being 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:58 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:44 AM
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Whats so funny is even the law upholds women rights. Men have to legally uphold women's right even if they don't want to. You are not allowed to go into work and push a women for having a job. A man cop and a man judge will put you in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:44 AM
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I wonder if you have ever even spoken to a women. Seems like its only been a pocket pussy from your tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:05 AM
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Q4M: What do you actually think about born again virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:33 AM
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They now only live in memory. And in books and movies. Extinction is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:27 AM
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Yeah that one guy who has kids and a wife yet thinks they are the scum of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:25 AM
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They hate me here. I'm not a liberal or a feminist but am female.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:24 AM
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You should share some
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:04 AM
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What is high
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:03 AM
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Madonna/Whore is only when men have a deviated view of sexuality. They view women being sexual as a form of perversion rather than how she should be as "pure" and that sexually is only normal and appropriate for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:01 AM
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But single mothers are any women with children not married. So if she has a long term boyfriend who she lives with she's still an unwed single mother with a baby daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:47 PM
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What's a foolproof way to get a guy to text you back if he hasn't all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:23 PM
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But tbh that's actually great because men can make the robot that will make themselves even more useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:09 PM
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6% till equal, which should change in just a few years where women will dominate men in STEM fields. A great stride considering its was only 8% women in STEM in the 90's. Now its 44%. It's hard when you have to wake up in the middle of the night with a baby to feed and do a career because of the lazy men that would just let the baby cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:08 PM
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Q4M: How do you tell the difference between modern women and traditional women? Because even traditional women are modern because they are from now. Family background is not a tell tail because those with strict parents normally just become smart sneaky. It's like guys think, if she is walking in a flower field wearing a modest white dress - traditional, If she is going to the gym in workout clothes after work - modern Even though that is all "appearance" and says nothing about the person. How d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:47 PM
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Just so you know that is a quote from Cher that is on tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:13 PM
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Most men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:02 PM
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I make a lot of comment on here with my Christian viewpoints. Normally comments end when I bring up Jesus because either they don't follow Jesus, or they think that Jesus is actually who Satan is, which is the most common you find here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:01 PM
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Jesus says turn the other cheek. These people want to beat you to a pulp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:34 PM
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My mom said to me "You know sweetheart one day you should settle down and marry a rich man" and I said "Mom, I am a rich man"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:22 PM
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Both are important. If you don't do any exercise you will have frail bones when you're older
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:14 PM
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Ill stand up. Womens revolution style
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:05 PM
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Those are all vibes though. If it's cloudy keeps the sun from beating on you on a hot day, sunny when its cold is so much better than cloudy, and sunny and raining sometimes makes rainbows from God.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:04 PM
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You are legit on a sub where men whine all day because they don't get pussy. Victim complex central.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:59 PM
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Men dislike single mothers yet if they never marry the women the procreate with they create single mothers and make their children bastards voluntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:56 PM
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How did Jesus treat the women at the well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:54 PM
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Ok I cave its more like 5 days a week but I still go outside and that's better that some
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:49 PM
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Whats the delusional part?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:46 PM
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I feel like im the only ppd person that goes on a run everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:24 PM
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I love men, I think men are the coolest. But you don't really need them to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:21 PM
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I think we should just keep the men as menial labors and pay them shit. Women have been caring for others, cooking and cleaning, all these years getting paid nothing. Women can do jobs that use their brain and then we can just replace those jobs with robots eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:12 PM
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You just grouped women together in that comment. Men build stuff because they locked women in cages and did not allow them to. It's the revolution now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:53 PM
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I mean if we are doing repercussions from the choices of others then men got a lot of paying up to do for the last few thousand years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:47 PM
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I've never used or bought makeup primer. I don't wear foundation either I think my face would look and feel caked. Skin tints like the morphe 2 one are better, especially for summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:31 PM
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Im just saying how do you want your children to be treated by the public? Christians are to help others, when others don't help you. Living to a higher standard. Do you not want to treat others how Jesus would treat others?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:23 PM
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This sub is so toxic yet I keep coming back
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:35 PM
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Are you the one with the kids? I can't remember usernames
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:34 PM
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AMA im bored
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:01 AM
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Don't approach women in public for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:58 AM
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I'm in a bad mood
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:05 AM
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Nah yall would trade places with me in a heartbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:42 AM
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It is so crazy to see men cheat on some of the most beautiful women. How in the world do you get men to commit to you without being miserable yourself. You can be everything he wants but he still ghosts or orbits. It's so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:56 AM
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Men need women more than women need men. What good a child having a father that doesn't value women as much as men? Daughter would grow up believing her value and self worth is in being useful to men though sex and labor (childcare, cleaning, cooking).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:52 AM
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What do women truly need men for then? They should keep with the top 20% and have a child on their own if they want one. No use for the masses. If men hate women so much and don't feel like they are worth protecting because they a useless. Then women don't need men. In fact they would be better off without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:20 AM
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Because you can get casual sex easy. Can't get commitment. I don't support hookup culture. Even if 80% of women said no to hookup culture, the other 20% would hookup with all the men able to participate keeping them from ever choosing commitment. It's a small percent that ruins it for the majority just for the men. Off topic but I will say though. Men really need to work on appearance. I see those dating app photos and you guys are looking a mess. If your loosing hair go get some, develop a skin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:05 AM
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Even I mean I would like kids as early as I can get them. Also just because you marry doesn't mean you have to get pregnant right away. And I deff want to marry someone for a stable job so I don't have to worry about poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:49 PM
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Among the younger generation women make more money than men, despite being paid less on average, and do drastically more care and service jobs. Men don't treat women with an ounce of respect in this country like they do in your. Men are embarrassing to all women, even to their own mothers. When you go on a date here men will look at you like a piece of meat to fuck and discard of. Not protect you from harm. How are women suppose to put their lives under the protection of the very predator trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:46 PM
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So if all those examples are dysfunction then everybody comes from a dysfunction family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:44 PM
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The only other one I can think of the Corinna Kopf? when she was younger. IDK these are the girls tiktok says are 10's but as the guys say 10's don't exist because there is always some problem. Like her face is basic and boobs are too small.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:41 PM
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2019/2020 pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:32 PM
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I googled her she's 23 but I think a lot of the photos on google images are from a few years ago. She's a tiktok girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:26 PM
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How about daisy keech. She's a little older now I think so maybe her from a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:02 PM
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A majority of men are not make or break over a dozen bodies like that in the real world. It's very much a red pill thing. They like that she is educated, has a job that helps pay the rent, comes from another UMC family, is socially involved, well rounded. They just don't give that all up because she slept with 7 more people than you feel is ok with when she was 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:38 PM
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She looks old, muscular, has abs, her boobs look hard as rocks? I don't understand how this is a 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:33 PM
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I think it depends on the mans background. If he is a UMC guy with a good career in the city he is going to date the college educated nurse that makes 80k not really caring that she once had a college life vs a girl that never works, no consistent living place, does not make any money, has some credit card bills she needs help with ect. It's just not worth it. Any tbh I don't even know if the guy would believe she only has 2 bodies based on the background. Men tend to think poor women from broke…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:19 PM
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Someone like Brooke Monk or Livvy Dunne
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:12 PM
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Men want a girl that make them look good publicly too. A girl with a respectable career who can hold a convo at a work party is going to be better than the girl in and out of jobs who has no path forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:04 PM
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These women look kinda old and a little chunky? This is 10/10 for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:58 PM
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I still think a lot of MC and UMC women want to be married before having children. Nobody wants to have kids out of wedlock still.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:51 PM
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Men want women who have incomes. Even if its not the best income, but more likely they want them to have similar incomes to themselves so they can maintain a UMC lifestyle in todays expensive world. I really think that a 27-30 year old man would rather be with a women that has 10/15 bodies and makes 80k a year to help pay the rent than a girl with 2 bodies that makes like $400 bucks a month at a weekend mall job while not going to school to move up higher. This is for a HCOL area though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:47 PM
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Those are not stupid reasons though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:37 PM
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21 here and I don't think I would stay with a guy over a year without being engaged. I am also a religious person so he would have to be as well. Why should the years be longer in waiting the younger you are? He would be wasting all the best years to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:29 PM
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Maybe its because they love them. Maybe its because they want to be one under God's law for religious people. Maybe its because if they get in a car crash and are unconscious they won't be turned away at the hospital because they are not a family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:52 PM
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Why do people get married everyday then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:33 PM
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Thats a long time. If someone starts dating that person at like 25 they could be 30 and have to start all over. Thats more reasonable if you are like 18 maybe, but just maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:32 PM
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Sexy bitches love exploiting men. Its so easy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:31 PM
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Ok new question If a women wants marriage, what's a reasonable amount of time to date a man before that, assuming he knows this is what you want. If he does not want to propose and marry how long before its reasonable to say "I need to move on because I am looking to get married and you don't want that yet and I don't want to wait for you to be ready"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:29 PM
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Men love bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:19 PM
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That is certainly not every women. Some women, but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:18 PM
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That's not just a women thing in America. Thats a people thing. Everybody is for themselves her, men and women. That happens in almost all advanced countries eventually because people have to resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:17 PM
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Legal reasons make sense when you doing life with another person. No divorce can be a safety net for women as much as men in your argument. If women have jobs, nowadays even more high paying than the spouse, it does not mean the divorce is a big pay day for her. Also a lot of women desire it. They want a ring, a wedding with their family around, and bridal shower with friends, committing themselves publicly to the love of their life. Why, because its enjoyable, it's life milestones people want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:14 PM
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Being a workaholic died out in America. People would rather be happy not working themselves to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:08 PM
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I think marriage is not desired by men. But it still is for women. Every women wants to have a husband, not just a boyfriend, when she's 42.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:02 PM
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I don't feel like its for monetary gain as much as it is for social acceptance. If you are in a long term relationship with a man who does not want to get married, you will turn 35 one day and he could drop you no strings for someone new. It's still embarrassing for a women over 35 to not be married and even men would agree and say she is not good enough to get commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:55 PM
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The reason foreign women want to marry American men is because they either think of America like what social media/movies show and want him to be the sole provider OR they want the resources of eduction and advancements for their personal life, which deff makes them less likely to stay in the marriage if they want to be future career women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:52 PM
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Men just want a girlfriend not a wife. Why are such a high percent of men single and "lonely"? It's not because they can't get a partner, its that they refuse to commit to a partner legally. Women can only invest so long in a relationship and if no commitment is there they have to be on their way. I said in another comment about how this girl in a tiktok just got broken up with after 7 years in a relationship. She moved cities for him, left her friends and family. All in thinking this was the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:42 PM
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Thats why men are "lonely"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:31 PM
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American men putting foreign women on a pedestal. They might just keep their mouth shut when it goes south cause they will be embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:30 PM
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The thing is American women normally have jobs. They buy their own crap. And if divorce is going to happen anyways might as well have someone that is less likely to get alimony because they work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:28 PM
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Because the PS5 is actually a knockoff that will set on fire when you turn it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:23 PM
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How are guys going to convince women to be in LTR's with them without a marriage commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:19 PM
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21 year old me: Reallllllyyy. In the same tone as that tiktok sound
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:18 PM
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They prob just like that they can't speak English. Don't want them to be able to talk because then they don't have feelings and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:09 PM
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Why are men so cool with overseas women being gold diggers but American women "Nooo they can't like me for my accomplishments and money."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:53 PM
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What is a broken home or dysfunctional family though. Is it dysfunctional if its one parent because the other one died? Is it broken if parents divorce but you are already an adult? Is it dysfunctional because your sibling got cancer? Is it broken because you moved 5 times? Like every family is so different what is not broken home anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:50 PM
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Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate are the most fucking opposite people. Jordan Peterson actually wants people to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:46 PM
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Yeah nobody is coming after you for daydreaming about holding a girls hand. They are coming after you for publicly yelling at the rooftops that your dick deserves to be in womens mouths all damn day on podcasts. Men in aroused states or experiencing sexual frustration sometimes just can't see women as people anymore. We don't live in lizard brain times though and you can tell your brain to knock it off if you so choose. Men just are choosing not to and succumbing to that behavior because others …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:43 PM
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Mods are always kicking my comments. They hate common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:33 PM
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You just mad people like my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:30 PM
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You can't beat God no matter the way you spin it. He is the traditional of all traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:38 AM
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Real traditional people are religious. Hopefully Christian. Cheating is adultery. Not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:24 AM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:02 AM
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They are fake traditional people. Trad use to just be short for traditional but I don't even like to use it anymore because of the connotations it has today. These are porn obsessed, dominate, controlling, I am the king mindset. Any TRUE traditional person is not trying to sexualize anybody other than their own spouse. They look at other people as humans with their unique personalities not if their body would make them get off. In India and Pakistan they have blocks on over sexualized women. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:20 AM
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It is, if you can prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:42 AM
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Your job sounds boring. Do they also discriminate against men who buy OF content? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:34 AM
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I was referring to posting alcohol and being immodest on social media and outside of work. Just like 20 years ago that kinda stuff being posted on Facebook would make an employer not want to hire you. Now that stuff does not matter. OF/sex work (I don't personally support) is just the new thing to "discriminate" against. Once time goes on it will just be less of a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:32 AM
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I feel like as boomers finish exciting the workforce, leaving gen x and millennials in charge, they are not as picky about what you do in your personal life because they do it too. Younger generations care so much less about living for the approval of a company or older person. Employers still have to hire people so they can only be so choosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:20 AM
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What does doing OF have to do with their skills though. The millennials who had like the early versions of social media got told to not even post a photo with alcohol or wearing a swimsuit because an employer could see it. Now nobody cares and everyone does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:02 AM
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I like that meme about the granny nightgowns. Papaw gave her 10 kids and kept all the bills paid. Boycott victoria secret, floral nightgowns for the win. Maybe I should just be a tradwife
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:13 AM
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Because her body doesn't look like it did before he married her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:39 AM
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But he wanted her to have the babies back to back. It's not her fault she has stretch marks from making new life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:32 AM
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Can we ban that one guy yet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:25 AM
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What are you going to say when you future son in law come up to you saying how he hates fucking your daughter because she is 30 and post wall. Ill bet you'll just say that's totally reasonable and that he should just cheat on her cause you know, men be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:10 AM
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I feel like people on this sub are going to disagree that slutty women are more difficult to get than virgin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:04 AM
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Marry what you can get. If you can find a girl who is virgin and you are honest about how you only want a virgin in a non manipulative way and she decides to be with you then there you go. But it probably won't go like that so is it something you are willing to let go of to be in a happy relationship is the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:49 AM
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Are you going to marry her before sleeping with her? I want a 6'3 Tim Tebow christian virgin man but I am not Miss Universe like his wife is so I might not get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:35 AM
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But OF is mutual as well. He pays she delivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:20 PM
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That all falls into my earlier points about the internet. Men who are angry and bitter due to lack of sex need to get off the fucking internet. I don't say this as a "touch grass" diss. I mean this as a clean up your room Jordan Peterson style way. No more reddit, other social media, porn ect. Going for a walk, making a healthy meal, cleaning your space ect. does wonderful things for mental health but I believe many men who are dealing with rage and anger are not taking little steps in life. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:00 PM
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So are regular men who hookup with women skimming off them? Isn't everything kinda doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:48 PM
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Why are men paying them then. I still feel like this whole thing would not be a argument if men did not pay women to do this. Because then women would not do it. No more porn crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:36 PM
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I was going to talk about how the internet and over sexualized culture changed things. Also was talking about the importance of being a healthy person. Not purposely putting yourself in the line of fire to be sad in life. Few other things I forgot about. The reason sexless men are not as happy as sexless women has a very small point in being "horny" and has way more to do with a lifestyles choices women make for their overall happiness rather than giving up because they don't have this one thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:31 PM
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I'm just playing devil's advocate here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:21 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:07 PM
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Is she exploiting others or are they exploring her?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:07 PM
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Read some of your posts titles. You gotta figure that shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:00 PM
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Don't you want your hypothetical daughter to have the easiest life possible? Service/helping people jobs are where women get crushed. Nurses, teachers, cashiers ect are all treated like crap. PS, not a feminist here. Very anti feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:56 PM
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Why should women be helping people when men just want to have cake and eat it too? Where is the benefit for women to help men who would fuck them over in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:47 PM
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You're gonna end up getting banned one of these days
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:45 PM
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Me in the middle of writing my great comment on a post...than a mod locks it for low effort. Can we bring back purge it was more entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:38 PM
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What do you want her to be doing that would make you feel like you succeeded?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:19 PM
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Oh and I just want to clarify this wasn't a diss to people who need medication or therapy. I was just using it as an example that not everybody is perfect even if others think they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:04 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:01 AM
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It's actually crazy to me the amount of college age pretty rich girls that come from the perfect background have mental health issues and are on some sort of medication or go to talk therapy. These are girls have know nothing but comfort and still are not happy. Sometimes life hurdles can be beneficial to you because you will learn how to have will power when other trying things happen in life. If everything is perfect for you when one little thing wrong happens you may just fall apart because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:17 AM
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I didn't see this what did you rate this girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:52 AM
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Got them in the first 48 hours. I have been using hinge more often lately. They cap the number you can see, so it just says 50+
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:09 AM
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Yes, a 4, with my 22k likes on bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:51 AM
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Every guy will rate women differently
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:39 AM
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Not every women gets to date or be married to chad because there are only so many of them. They might only hookup with him and have non chad guy to marry/date long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:40 AM
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I mean when you get food pre cooked it will always cost more. Chipotle legit dumps rice, beans, chicken and cheese in a bowl and charges you an arm and a leg for it. It's for convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:38 AM
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You could say women desire to stay with one man. But rationally know (because they can prevent pregnancy) that they will do better being with multiple men and using their resources while getting to have multiple sex partners that they enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:53 PM
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Those are like staple side dishes. She might have been getting some chicken and wanted a side to go with it for lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:46 PM
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Mentally men would be wired to do this because they want to get her pregnant. He does not want to do that. So it kinda voids its self.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:44 PM
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If he liked the first hole, why does he think the new easier to get hole will be better, so much so that he is willing to risk the first known good one?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:35 PM
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It's summer time. And that wouldn't be appropriate to wear on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:55 PM
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So what should I be wearing so I don't have to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:04 PM
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Attention seeking behavior. That's very feminine of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:49 PM
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Im 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:43 PM
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Dress
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:36 PM
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It's not slutty it has little flowy ruffles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:11 PM
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You don't like matching workout outfits on girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:09 PM
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What about when the guy is fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:03 PM
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Sunday shopping. What is cuter Matching workout shorts and tank top OR mini floral sundress
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:57 PM
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I am not crying about it. Don't approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:56 PM
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