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When I mentioned being lucky about finding TRP I also meant more in the pick up / women sense. I definitely think that this sub kind of pushes that hustler / workaholic mentality sometimes. Everyone is just so different too, I think defining what we want out of our own individual lives is the best thing we can do. For me, simple living, trying to work 40 hr weeks average, and staying healthy is at the top of my priority list. I’m sure you’d agree. With women, I’ve been really successful so far a…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 09:57 AM
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I’ve had extremely similar thoughts to you since graduating. I did engineering and feel disillusioned watching so many of my peers work those 60 hr weeks and feeling like they’re so fucking important. Meanwhile many of them barely work out and are beta like your friend. It amazes me that they missed those marks so clearly when they’re pretty smart otherwise. My boss is beta as fuck too and sounds like your friend in some ways. He’s not very good with women and has beta tendencies with them. He’s…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 09:30 AM
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He’s not even in crazy good shape. But he does work out and he’s on the decent side for sure. 5’5 might seem really short to you but most girls are even shorter than that.. and I’ve seen him date girls even exactly his height. At your age I had no idea what I wanted to do either. I changed my major around 5 times in college and ended up graduating with engineering. It took six years.. try to be-careful with that and be decisive sooner rather than later. Engineering is amazing. You’ll land a good…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 08:16 AM
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I have a 5’5 friend that pulls plenty of girls. Just make sure you enter a good career and work out. And just don’t be a goober when you talk to people and you’ll be okay.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:00 AM
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You sound annoying ngl
/r/askTRP31/08/20 01:12 AM
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I really agree with this too. I knew I hated the sight of blood and shit like that so I didn’t go into the medicine field. So I guess try to go into something you at least know you won’t hate, is also, employable, and pays decent. It’s a rough thing to optimize. Especially since we make these choices without knowing what it’ll actually be like
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:59 PM
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I don’t really have blanket advice but I can tell you of my own experience. I had fucked up high school but there was one state university by me that I pretty much begged to get into when a recruiter came to my high school. He recommended I write an essay (even though it wasn’t required). I was surprised I was able to get in and I’m convinced he pulled strings for me. I saw all my friends get into “good schools” blah blah. This was the only school I applied to. If I didn’t get in I was just plan…
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:00 PM
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I appreciate that thought out response. Tbh I didn’t know shit about it like most people. I just know I don’t want it. I’m glad it hasn’t affected your life greatly though. Does it ever go away?
/r/askTRP21/08/20 02:48 PM
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Speaking from experience?
/r/askTRP21/08/20 11:21 AM
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I think I’d take a bj from a fat bitch with a cute face. You did good by not fucking her. I’d call it a success tbh. Unless she was really atrocious
/r/askTRP16/08/20 04:23 PM
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I find it hard to believe you read all that in just a month. And even if you did it could take literally up to a year or more to actually digest what you read.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:06 PM
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I had a friend in high school who went on a break with his gf of like 3 years during winter break. When they got back together he later found out she got analed by some random guy at a party during their “break.”
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:00 PM
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I think if you’re gonna do business stick to accounting or finance
/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:32 AM
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That’s a good one too actually. Probably not as high paying as computer science but it’s extremely in demand and significantly easier
/r/askTRP25/07/20 06:46 AM
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Education, business, engineering, computer science. All are in extremely in demand. Good question man, you’re already miles ahead of most people your age. Military isn’t a bad choice either
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:23 AM
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Get a job or volunteer. Get an audible account and listen to books.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:43 PM
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I’m confused when you say “a degree like mechanical engineering.” What degree was that? Also did you pass the FE exam? Having an EIT certification (from passing your FE exam) could prove you digested what you were supposed to learn in school. It’s also a pre-req for getting your PE license later on so you can stamp plans. Experience helps but passing the FE shows that you can think like an engineer and didn’t just happen to land an internship or technician position in a company. A new company mi…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:43 PM
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Is she hot?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:09 PM
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I’m a “white passing” Hispanic raised in the USA. It’s been crazy how far I’ve come along despite being raised by a single mom that can barely even speak English lol. I’ve realized that a lot of people I grew up with and most of my friends are extreme cucks. Extremely liberal, have little ambitions or goals, consumed by weed and video games, and let girls do whatever the fuck they want to them. I feel like most white men will put up with those hardcore SJWs. I don’t think anyone else will put up…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:20 PM
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Nailed it
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:26 AM
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All three rational male books The richest man in Babylon Enjoy the decline Never split the difference The game The truth The millionaire next door
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:51 PM
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A monthly audible subscription. Over the last 5 years I’ve read around 50 books cause of it
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:28 PM
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RIP
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:15 PM
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If you were a woman you’d do the same. It’s nothing personal
/r/askTRP21/06/20 04:10 PM
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GET THE BRACES. Trust me man. I got them right before I turned 23. (1.5 years total). I know 32 is obviously older but it still hurt having them at 23 and starting my career. The whole time I’m gonna be honest, it was rough, and I felt like I looked like a little kid, and got some weird comments. At work I could feel my clients doubting me sometimes. Still managed to do a great job. As far as women go, I managed to get a gf, fucked another girl, and have at least two random make outs, and I mess…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:43 PM
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She sounds like a toxic cunt. Have some respect for yourself man. I know it’s hard and most of us have been there but you need to fight out of it. Think of it like a graph where time is on the x axis and your progress is one the y axis. You may have ups and downs but over time it keeps going up. Until eventually it passes a threshold where you’re FREE. Don’t let those down moments confuse you. You’re a man on a fucking mission. Don’t let this vile women have control over you and confuse you from…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:38 PM
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I was lucky enough to find TRP before I got in an LTR. Before trp I had slept around in college a bit. Not too savage but I was at a pretty decent body count for my age. TRP helped me screen girls that could potentially be a gf even though I wasn’t even looking for a relationship. In engineering school I ended up meeting someone right before graduating that didn’t really have red flags and had a good home. Shes open to girls too and even though I know AWALT she is actually a healthy girl and we …
/r/askTRP19/05/20 10:56 PM
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Never trust a deal unless it’s in writing A promised higher paying job won’t always make you happier than a job you can achieve good health and happiness at.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:49 PM
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Nailed it
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:29 PM
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Man it’s crazy that all this shit was here waiting to be discovered. I’d kill for someone to have shown it to me in ninth grade lol. And you’re so right about those people. I’m friends with many of them.. it’s like video games and anime sucked their fucking will to live out
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:24 PM
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Thanks for writing all that out, it was solid advice. Man you nailed it with the dad bod thing. Before I got redpilled I was still decent with women, especially around high school and college but I never went to the gym.. I fell for them saying they didn’t like muscular guys. Years later I’m skinny fat at 24 years old and I regret not working out so badly. My diet has been trash too. I’m extremely thankful one of my best friends showed me the rational male and now I’m lifting. I hate my body but…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:00 PM
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Some people need that repetition but I agree the book is extremely basic
/r/askTRP20/08/19 11:48 AM
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Dave Ramsey is the best! Watch him on YouTube
/r/askTRP19/08/19 08:21 PM
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You need to get your hands on a book called “The richest man in Babylon” by George S. Clason. Try it on audiobooks if you don’t want to read a physical copy. Please just trust me and read it. It’s about financial literacy and can literally save your life from poverty
/r/askTRP19/08/19 08:20 PM
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Read a book called “The richest man in Babylon” it’s a beginner book for financial literacy, it’ll give you the right mindset to make sure you never fuck yourself over financially or let yourself become poor.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 12:25 PM
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This is why I don’t believe in the first rule of fight club. Sometimes you gotta try to unplug people cause it can seriously help them and change their lives. Pick your battles wisely though. I’ve had trouble unplugging some of my friends but others still thank me to this day
/r/askMRP16/07/19 01:49 PM
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I was actually honest about this right from the start and told her I wouldn’t be able to date her otherwise because it’s just who I am. She reluctantly agreed to it and we just agreed to not talk about it. She made me promise to still have enough energy for her and to try to keep it to a minimum. It’s been a year and a half now. I actually haven’t fucked anyone else even though I’ve tried lol. Only make outs here and there... I don’t know how she’d take it if she found out. She says she would to…
/r/askTRP14/07/19 01:29 AM
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Thanks for posting this cause I’m having a similar situation too and it’s conflicting for me. I really like my girlfriend and she’s actually wifey but man sometimes we need something on the side too. I don’t want to suppress it
/r/askTRP13/07/19 11:32 PM
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Good job man. I just ask that you pay this forward and whenever you have a good friend that’s confused and deserves to be redpilled, unplug him by showing him the rationale male and this community. Help them be a free man if they deserve it
/r/askTRP13/07/19 04:04 PM
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It’s not necessarily contradicting, I think they’re more situational
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:20 PM
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You need to leave man. Toxic families are a common thing and you shouldn’t feel guilty about it. Your life is separate from their’s and they’re only gonna drag you down.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 11:28 PM
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“Bully lesser men” he probably felt so powerful writing that
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:32 AM
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I understand the stomach thing, this happens to me always too. I know it doesn’t logically make sense that they made you a target for not going out, they were just being dumb drunk bitches but that’s the type of stuff we gotta deal with. There’s still time to save the trip and have something crazy like that happen again, just try to keep the mood light and if they say stupid shit don’t show a reaction or say something bad back. Just laugh it off and pass their shit tests. Don’t even bring up wha…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 02:43 PM
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I think the two girls that your friend brought picked up on the fact you weren’t too happy about them going in the first place. Then you decided not to even join them on their night out, cmon man. They can sense the bad vibes, next time eat light meals and just be ready to have fun. Overall it seems like you have an “I’m too cool for you” attitude towards them. Just tag along and try to have fun with them. When they came back I would’ve said, “don’t worry guys I’m ready to party now.” I would’ve…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 01:59 PM
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I think university is worth it if you pick the right major. I think you’ve realized that. Finance sounds great, I did engineering and found a well paying job immediately. I think finance will serve you will, especially with your mentality. Just make sure to get an internship before you graduate and work on your public speaking skills as much as possible. I’d suggest joining a club too in order to network. Women will always be around, a high paying job means you can go out more and find them at c…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:12 PM
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I would definitely do the extra year at school. It’s gonna pay off man, I know your living situation must suck but just put up with it a little more. 10k a year is a big difference. Just work out and go to school for another year and you’ll thank yourself later. You’ll still be really young and have all the time to bring girls over. And more money to fuck around with too. Stick with it
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:55 PM
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I’m in this exact same predicament. I’m also 23 years old and just graduated from college. I was even considering posting about it on this sub too. It’s messing with my head cause I’ve been with enough girls to know that when I wifed up this one she was a “good girl.” Shes obedient, studies engineering, has goals but is still really wifey. She really is great and attractive too (maybe a 7 or an 8 / 10) but I can’t help but lust after other girls too. I’ve actually told her about this from the st…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:51 PM
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That's good then. Although I do think girls can pick up on it lowkey just by the way you can behave. LMR is a bitch to blast through sometimes. It really will take experience. Keep hitting up girls on tinder and putting yourself out there. I myself definitely still have a lot to learn too. LMR is the worst
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:27 PM
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Good job man. It might not have been a full home run in one go but it's an excellent start. I will also commend someone willing to self reflect and learn more too. So I think it's a great thing that you're doing exactly this. I think she definitely wanted to fuck, but your inexperience might have put her off. Next time don't mention your past sexual history at all. Good job though man, keep at it.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 02:59 PM
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Can you please elaborate on never arguing with a woman?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 07:03 PM
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this has happened to me too man. Sorry you went through it, sometimes it happens man. Just don't think this is a problem with you. I am 100% sure every guy goes through it. There will be more hot girls and other opportunities. This is just one bitch. I know it feels terrible though lmfao
/r/askTRP31/05/19 12:04 AM
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This exact thing has happen to me too! She finally wanted to like at around 7am and we had stayed up all night + smoked weed. I couldn't stay hard and it traumatized me ngl. But don't worry man, usually girls understand and actually think it's their fault anyway. If she thinks less of you then she's not someone you'd wanna hook up with anyway tbh. But yes I know it sucks. The girl it happened to me with ended up fucking me a few weeks later anyway, so no long term damage or anything. We didn't e…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:27 PM
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I really agree with all this. Especially considering a trade school. Don't even bother with college if you're not gonna pick something employable.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 10:35 PM
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Let us know the outcome of this please
/r/askTRP14/05/19 12:45 AM
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Read the rational male by rollo tomassi and find out
/r/askTRP13/05/19 12:48 AM
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Why don't you wanna tell us what your major is?
/r/askTRP21/04/19 08:22 PM
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Damn that was great advice, it's a good a start for sure. Sorry you have to watch your dad go through that. I feel this but with one of my brothers, I have tried redpilling him in the past and he snaps back badly. I realized I had to let him go because it was starting to make him think less of me, he's too far in... Everyone is different though. Maybe your dad might be more receptive to it. It is good that you care about your dad too, that alone is a huge boost to his confidence. Not many sons w…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:55 PM
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Make sure you pick an employable major and it's worth it. If not then you're gonna be in debt and jobless thinking university is useless. Consider doing business, engineering, education, healthcare and you should be good. Maybe also consider going to law school or Med school. Just pick the right major and get internships and college will be worth it.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:01 PM
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You need to picture the life you want to have, as vividly as possible. And remind yourself that a few years of suffering can get you there. Keep studying and focusing man, fight through it, there's a light at the end of that tunnel.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:22 PM
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Pick a harder major and find a good job after graduating
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:51 PM
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It seems like you're self reflecting really well and aren't afraid to see your shortcomings, so that's a good step. I would suggest keeping your hobbies as just that, your hobbies. I think you should definitely work out and learn a martial art. But aside from that, try to build a career. Try to find something you like to do but is also employable and makes a good amount of money or at least a decent amount of money. This is a mission I think you should take and will be the focus of your life. Tr…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:51 PM
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Don't pick an expensive school and pick a good major (STEM, finance, law, education, medicine)
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:58 AM
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..... that was a fucking amazing post
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:27 AM
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Sounds like an excuse cause she didn't like you enough honestly
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:52 AM
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Parents aren't perfect man, far from it. It might be a mixture of you being young and naive and also him being an asshole as you say. But overall I won't reject what you're saying cause I went through something similar with my mom. I would suggest roughing it out until it's time to go to college. Go to a state university and forget any expensive schools. Study something good like finance, engineering, even education. And your life will be fixed. Make sure you pick a major that will actually get …
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:48 AM
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"Just pretend it's a video game"
/r/askTRP21/03/19 12:06 AM
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Dude this same shit has happened to me too, you show up and for some reason her friends are there. It's tough to know what to think of these situations... I think you've already realized that she just wants to use you and doesn't really respect you. Thank you for sharing this story, it all helps to put things together
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:57 PM
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Don't blame it on your college man, just apply like a madman to internships and full time positions. Get involved with clubs and network with like minded people.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:14 PM
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Can you please explain how you fixed being skinny fat? I am going through that now as I'm wrapping up college and have been working full time as an engineer. I've really let my body go the past two years and I regret it. I want to start fixing it as soon as I graduate (1 month).
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:02 PM
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I feel that you're not digesting the red pill material enough. I know you may want to go back to her but I see too many red flags in your behavior.. like the way you were calling it a "date" and trying to get back with her. I'm not against LTRs but I think that some things just have their time and then you need to move on. What I would do is just keep fucking her until you start spinning other plates and eventually don't see her anymore. I don't think she can ever come to respect you as much as …
/r/askTRP16/03/19 01:48 PM
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Damn a perfect example of why hesitating can mess things up... lesson learned though
/r/askTRP16/03/19 01:31 PM
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Let us know how it goes
/r/askTRP16/03/19 01:05 AM
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I don't think you should. It's very unlikely that they will come to understand what you are trying to say and may even see it as condescending since you are their boss.
/r/askMRP16/03/19 12:33 AM
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We were both friends in high school and we would hit on girls and wingman each other, we were actually pretty successful at it. But sometimes he would cross some boundaries, I forgave him most of the time and just let it slide till it was too much. Fast forward to our first year of college and long story short, I was dating a really attractive girl and literally the same day that I ended things with her they hooked up. She actually told me about it a few days later and he refused to admit it. I …
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:35 PM
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I feel this but with my brothers.. unfortunately it might be near impossible to unplug him without messing up your relationship with your dad
/r/askMRP12/03/19 10:52 PM
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I've lost a friendship like this before. It actually really hurt... I wasn't even mad at the girl honestly. Just him. I'd suggest distancing yourself from him. I know it sucks man, but trust me there are way better friends out there that wouldn't do that. Also there are different types of friends, you can hang out with him but watch your back, and never consider him a close friend
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:49 PM
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You can't just go and unplug anyone, choose your battles wisely man. I understand though because sometimes I wish I could open the eyes of all my friends. It's just not possible and it will only bite you in the ass
/r/askTRP09/03/19 02:40 PM
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