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Seems like you’re assuming he’s shallow actually, whereas he said nothing like that. You only want to have conversations with people exactly like you. Thats not narcissism at all right? You’re just as threatened by the ‘other’ as anyone is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:39 PM
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Great input bi guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:24 AM
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Lol give it a rest you simple ass bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:20 AM
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I dont care what you want, I clearly don’t like you. Go fuck yourself and report that too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:58 AM
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I’m not addressing your post, shit you’re saying has been said 100 times in here, im addressing the sentiment behind it. Its so obvious in all your ‘good boys’ talk how much you resent male weakness and failure to adhere to the cruel status quo. Everything about a man like that would be forgivable in a woman, to you. You only allow yourselves humanity, its our displays of humanity that repulse you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:35 AM
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There’s something so indulgent and masturbatory about how you all insist on this point all the time. Everyone knows about the Madonna-whore thing. I think you want to believe that you all are failing to live up to some impossible ideal we have, when in reality, what we expect and desire is humanity from you, but like most people now you’re too stunted and damaged to be human. So you build up this self-flattering narrative about how you all are these fully actualized people with complete lives wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:03 AM
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Holy shit this kept getting worse and then you hit us with “husband” 😂 twisted ass world
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:51 AM
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I know you tried but this doesnt make you sound interesting, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:21 AM
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I do feel that. Feels like you get older and expect less and less from people only for them to still disappoint you. The good people are still out there somewhere I did the same with apps, in my head its more like: If youre super conventionally attractive we already dont have enough in common
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:07 AM
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No. Im sure your experience is for real, and its awful, but its the exaaaact same shit on the other side. Men talk about having this exact experience. Its a reflection of the values of our society right now. We’re shallow, vapid, materialistic, cruel, etc. It’s not really anything about how men or women are in essence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:50 AM
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Aren't you missing something? That world you're talking about is going away day by day. Apps are the default now and we live in hell. OP can't fix all that so stop moralizing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:21 PM
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This is projection. Everything *to you* is about validation and narcissistic supply, that's why you can only imagine that our motivations are just as cynical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:18 PM
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Its useful that feminism allows you all to cloak the fact that you resent the idea of doing anything for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:13 PM
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Part of the truth is that we're just 'living' less. It really is the phones man. Someone can say 'go live your life' but so much of our sociality now is online and mediated by screens, and all our actions/conversations allow us a shitton of deliberation. So, the element of chance, as in a meet-cute or something, is snuffed out. Now we're in this frustrating place where we have to be completely intentional and at the same time, as nonchalant, 'confident', and aloof as we can possibly be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:53 PM
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Mods constantly remove my comments and not the comment of the women whose energy I was matching
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:19 PM
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I want more of like a horseshoe, George Costanza style
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:08 PM
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The obsession everyone has with authenticity these days causes a lot of dating woes. People want to be “true to themselves” (which means nothing) more than they want to be with other people. And they think everyone else should have this same commitment, so they pathologically demand honesty and transparency in everything. People in this sub are the same way because they want the other sex to be “honest” even though that proves nothing and leads to nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:23 AM
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It has to be guardedness for at least half of them i think, just ashamed of their desire for love
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:14 AM
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“47F Mom” arguing with lonely teenagers online lol. Is this for your self-esteem or something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:04 AM
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People who get wound up always end up talking about how entertained they are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:50 AM
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Is making this post and seeing women agree with you on this going to make you feel better about your proximity to this issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:39 AM
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I want to go bald
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:28 AM
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Man i wonder why she wasnt invited
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:23 AM
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mine was so good, best thing was the bosco sticks and smiley fries
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:22 PM
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One of the only good takes in this sub, it was inevitable you’d get the peanut gallery in here scolding you for not only living for treats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:33 AM
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I think theyre mostly these sorts of spectrum-y millennial women who can sort of conceive of people issues in the abstract but were never in a million years going to empathize with the opposite sex’s dating experience lol. Just a twisted reflection of the most hopeless gamer chuds
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:11 AM
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Are you an AI or something, i feel like you saw some words in my comment but have no idea what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:02 AM
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English next time please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:57 AM
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I don’t think women or men have to get all cynical and “honest” about themselves being average and to seek out averageness. You should at the very least call someone you want to be with beautiful/ a 10 regardless of whats “technically” right in your mind. The problem is what a low opinion women have of the human form in general, theyre icked out by humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:56 AM
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Who tf cares whether you believe that or not? It’s an impossible hypothetical you just came up with, if you want to feel oppressed within it too then that’s your right. If women accepted men sexually as quickly as men do women that would be a drastically different world but we live in this one where we are different and have different expectations of each other as a result
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:44 AM
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I’m good actually
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:30 AM
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^ very normal human experience that definitely says something about manhood
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:24 AM
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This is performative
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:15 AM
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The amount of posts in here talking about logical fallacies is so funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:11 AM
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Agreed, its very clear that the moderators of this sub are not committed to keeping this community interesting. I feel like my most thoughtless comments/posts get guaranteed engagement and what I put the most thought into gets nothing. Which means the only thing this sub is good for is fighting but only one side is allowed to. What's also infuriating is the pedantry with approving/disapproving posts. There was a post the other day that was a bit bare-bones but genereated interesting discussion t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:29 PM
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It's a good point. People forget that sacrifice is tragic and meaningless if its not on behalf of others. Like the way people get sentimental over that 'sky king' guy really bothers me, he left a family behind. To embody your role as dad, husband, citizen etc is much more noble. And there's sacrifice in that too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:33 PM
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That's pretty cool, we need more wingmen out here!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:18 PM
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Mods are so afraid of redpill/blackpill takeover on here that they allow the nastiest people on the bluepill side immunity from the rules. It's ruining the discourse on here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:16 PM
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Definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:12 PM
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Do you always perfectly understand your intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:03 PM
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I think regardless it’s either 0 or 1, if you can’t be monogamous then you shouldn’t be anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:08 PM
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I haven’t been on that sub much, not into the rating thing but what you’re saying there isn’t surprising. I imagine if you’re rating someone less than 5 on there, there’s something obvious enough that you assume most others are going to rate the same based on how they look. When you start rating higher it’s more… psychological. A very highschool-ish thing with dudes that’s common is rating a very conventionally attractive woman a 7, almost like negging. Or they’ll rate someone who’s just not con…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:03 PM
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That’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:33 PM
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That’s why self esteem is important, at some point you start hurting other people with your poor self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:18 PM
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Well done man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:58 PM
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Truth nuke
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:32 PM
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I see women in the foreveralone and femcel subs do that sort of thing, though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:22 PM
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I can get why she responded that way because it takes a little vulnerability to send off a DM like that and he's like 'nah i don't believe you'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:20 PM
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The destructive legacy of Barney Stinson lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:50 PM
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I'm really thinking about how to answer your first question but I don't know exactly why. I think being lonely and lacking relationships makes you more attached to fantasies you develop when you're adolescent. I imagine mines about fear of rejection, my abandonment issues and such. Maybe a bit of both as it regards overcoming, I had a bit of a situationship with a girl like that who just wanted to hook up when my dork ass obviously wanted more, plus other more marginal things, spurned crushes, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:47 PM
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I'm thinking about a way convos about looks always go wrong here. A gender says that B gender are only attracted to the most conventionally attractive people of the opposite sex. Someone replies, "not me, I'm into average-looking people of the opposite sex!" The original poster usually then takes some tact that shows that they can't believe this is true, whether it's that they don't know what average is, they're being performative, etc. The problem is, when you're attracted to someone, clearly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:29 PM
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Iran and Hezbollah are actual warriors, US and Israel are cowards who can only fight women and children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:55 PM
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I think what they want will reflect where there at. I'm biased but I don't think you're doomed to be a stunted person if you struggle in dating. You still get older and understand life better, and at some point you should arrive at genuinely wanting to be a boyfriend/husband rather than just wanting a girlfriend/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:40 PM
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Well said. I think the obsession with authenticity these days is sort of understandable given the inflated phoniness of social media behavior, etc, but its also kind of a ghost people are chasing. It's hard to gauge what "being yourself" actually means
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:28 PM
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I'm not sure it's just conventionally attractive women who are like that, just immature women in general. The thing I have to remind myself is there's a mirror to this in men's behavior. "need me a bpd baddie to ruin my life" or whatever. I can look back at my less mature self and remember that I was drawn to maladjusted women. I think you either have life experiences that make you question that or you just start to question that desire as your values change from maturing. I think if we're force…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:15 PM
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(This seemed like a digression from the other passport bros convo in here) Do passport bros ever consider just staying in the country they travel to? I know that's not what they want to do, but there's a lot of anxiety about the LBH thing and green card marriages. Wouldn't the best way to filter those women out be to remove that as a possibility entirely? Aside from that it just seems more ethical to me, because even if you find someone abroad who's legit, you're still removing her from all she'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:52 PM
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What a crock lol you’re just flattering yourself. Its sad you need this feminine mysticism to hype yourself up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:20 AM
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Chivalry is a very loaded word. Modern people live with a caricature of it that’s just about being deferential to women, but it originally was a martial system imported from Islam in which gentlemanly behavior was one part of a system with commitments that women reflected. Since we don’t live in that system, we just have the concept now narrowed down to the only relationship it still applies to, as a value a man might hold, but what those men want subconsciously is to bring back the world of chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:37 PM
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I think there is a significant group of men spanning teen boys to old goobers that legitimately think there is a chance of them having some sort of relationship with the ‘model’ in question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:53 PM
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It isnt and we see the same cynicism from you all too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:21 PM
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Their depravity has no bounds
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:15 PM
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Its because there really isn’t a solution to these topics we can reach by debate. We live in a culture that’s going to keep reproducing these problems unless there’s some history-making intervention. We’re all mostly here to blow off steam
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:12 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:00 AM
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[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:29 PM
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That’s fair enough. I spoke too sweepingly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:22 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:51 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:41 PM
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Any more quotes Confucius?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:59 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:05 PM
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Why tf are we talking about *submission* we just want dates lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:36 PM
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They saw this post as the perfect opportunity to once again tell us all their little story about how great they are and how much leverage they have in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:32 PM
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RP came about as a reaction to culture. We’re in an incomprehensible and miserable cultural moment, and RP’s strength is interpreting that moment with an easy-to-follow, logical system of thought. BP is the conservative position as it seeks to apologize for the hellworld we’re in. It’s a position that seeks to get people to believe in the status quo again. Its strength comes from simply being that status quo, which the affirmation of women represents. RP falls apart when it goes beyond the mind …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:28 PM
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The response you’ve received here should tell you something about each sex’s relationship with courage. Women don’t value it in themselves because they’ve never needed to be courageous, and for men its the part of this whole problem we have trouble acknowledging because its the hardest part about dating. It is just true that cowardice is the root defect of modern society. I think as men we first need to acknowledge our cowardice and forgive ourselves for it. There’s not much about life right now…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:27 PM
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Absolutely agree, kindness is becoming rarer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:32 AM
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There’s a tendency to overcorrect in this sub since we’re talking about such personal stuff. I’m just as guilty of saying charged, sweeping stuff in here but i think half the time people in here are reacting to their experience not being represented in a take coming from ‘team men’ or ‘team women.’ Can’t speak for anyone else but that’s where my OC was coming from. The elephant in the room is its obviously just comforting to believe the other sex is shallow or monolithic because then you’re not …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:23 PM
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We’ll just go to Jupiter to get more stupider
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:50 PM
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Throwing my two cents in: Does it even necessarily follow that libidinal changes for sexless men can only be a response to desperation? What we want and expect in a partner changes when becoming a more mature person regardless. While there’s definitely a form of arrested development you have to deal with if you just aren’t hitting that milestone, it doesn’t mean that you aren’t growing or changing at all in the meantime, and how you see the opposite sex and your future with them hopefully change…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:41 PM
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It’s so often repeated on here that “men fuck anything”, “men are desperate” yada yada. While that definitely describes some male behavior, why must it be desperation to see beauty beyond the conventional standard? Its constantly assumed that if a man wants to be with a woman that isnt conventionally attractive that that’s a reflection of his self worth or that he’s solely concerned with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:47 PM
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We’re not animals
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:58 PM
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I think you only ‘unlearn’ that attraction when, in time, you get smart or mature enough to realize your type is not what you thought they were and that they can’t do for you what you thought they could. I don’t think you choose that though, you just grow up enough that you get disillusioned to it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:37 PM
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Well yeah it sounds silly when you apply it to something entirely different
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:14 PM
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Q4M here: Do you like to cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:31 PM
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While exploitation should be the first frontier of concern with porn, porn is also problematic beyond its production. It sexually alienates the consumer, causes ED, wastes their libidinal energy, encourages antisocial and fetishistic behavior and imparts a twisted, objectifying sexual outlook. Porn habits tend to ramp up in terms of extreme content and novelty seeking which has consequences on relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:28 PM
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Yes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:10 AM
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Considering what we’ve found out lately i think the leniency here is at least in part because people in power are committing these same crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:09 AM
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UK is not a serious country. Lock them all up for life at minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:07 AM
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Cake donut or bread donut?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:01 AM
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Overweight, highly neurotic and oversensitive. Probably below average looking. I’ve lost 30 pounds, in and out of therapy and on meds
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:02 AM
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Mine is a lesbian on top of all those things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:55 PM
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I came here to rage but have ended up having good discussions instead. At this point it’s kind of annoying that the most charged, stupid stuff gets the most attention on here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:53 PM
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Pretty sure there’s an anti-gossip ethic in Freudian psychoanalysis which is also often accused of being anti-woman. I think having people to gossip with is kind of a great thing, makes a lot of life more tolerable and demonstrates trust between people. People who are always indignant about gossip are irritating, they’re often people who don’t get the value of good conversation in general
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:25 PM
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You understand why i ask though, right? The people we end up desiring or being with are often not going to match our fantasies, and we often find out we don’t want our fantasy when its realized. Not that there’s anything wrong with it, ive done the same, but it can’t really be taken as a sign of depth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:16 PM
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Are these freaky men real people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:29 PM
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The red pill is reactionary and the blue pill is conservative. Tightly-controlled window of discourse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:00 PM
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Agree. There’s been almost a generational backlash to self-deprecating humor lately, and part of it is that everyone’s either known or been a person who used it to cry for help, but this blanket assumption that all self-deprecating humor is necessarily that is a very paranoid reading of other people. It’s a bit bound up with hysteria about ‘manipulators.’ Imo what’s replaced it is way worse, this self-aggrandizing humor everyone does now that feels like such a desperate way to hype themselves up…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:13 PM
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I think we need to stop expecting that the experience of sex is the same for men and women. Your post kinda assumes that pleasure in sex should be an individual responsibility, which almost makes it a competitive act. Men and women are different and for sex to be fulfilling one needs to consider what the other wants, which is going to be a bit different from what they want to do. But that’s what makes it a rite of passage to adulthood, being responsible for the other person’s desire while satisf…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:58 PM
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Its crazy how we just accept the fact that the US president can just charge another foreign leader with something. Viva Cuba
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:31 PM
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Going through the exact same right now lol, contemplating just leaving some stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:28 PM
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The new prudishness is the reddit thing of declaring that the platonic relationship is so much better than icky romance as if nearly all art wasn’t inspired by romantic love
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:45 PM
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You got a point dude this is literally “you’re a cat lady spinster” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:41 PM
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I’m not sure how we get off the boat at this point. Like i can delete the dating apps just like i can delete social media to engage more in a world that sucks ass because so much of sociality is happening online
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:14 PM
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I hate especially that economic talk, high value, marketplace, and such. When people talk about a ‘10’ as if its matter of fact theyre imagining you can recognize the same societal beauty standard they do. But at that point, what are we even talking about anymore? Whats even more perplexing is like “he/she’s a 6”. So what are we communicating, that you’re attracted to them but you don’t want them to get too cocky? If you’re just being ‘honest’, then to what end, just negging? You can’t expect to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:06 PM
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That flavor of feminism also seems to come about to exclude an out group, immigrants, muslims, black men, etc, in fact that’s probably always how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:55 PM
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Q4W (clearly inspired by a recent post lol): What makes a man seem like a ‘mama’s boy’ to you? In the pejorative sense. I think of movie examples like the fiancé in Moonstruck or Blanche’s love interest in streetcar named desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:00 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:29 PM
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I should have clarified that I meant liberal in the larger sense, not like liberal v conservative. In that their goals don’t make challenging capitalism a priority. My question was posed a bit cagily, what i more so meant is how can any of these other feminisms be considered radical? I know the labels are sorta rhetorical, but they do seem to think of themselves as such. Yeah, I mean the TERFS are a good case study. If their politics weren’t purely resentment based they wouldn’t entertain even a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:25 PM
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Well i don’t mind saying that either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:00 PM
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All these currents you talk about i often see gathered into either the category or liberal or radical feminism. You said elsewhere that feminism as a system doesn’t challenge capitalism, though, so that granted, wouldnt it be accurate to say all feminisms are actually ‘liberal’ at baseline? The only ones i see diverge from that are the marxist feminists, like i see that radfems are usually anticapitalist but it’s often aside the point of their political project. I read a book by Federici who i t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:55 PM
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That people even find the AI stuff erotic is proof we are getting fried as a species. So uncanny and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:41 PM
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As a frequent barker I’ll sign on to that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:13 PM
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They always unintentionally say that *women* who don’t fit the beauty standard don’t deserve love either when they make those points. It’s only conventionally beautiful ppl of both sexes that get to be “enough”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:54 PM
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I think the moment people arguing on here drag out the gender war discourse cliches like looksmatch, # ratings, “dating marketplace” etc, the convo has lost any chance of going anywhere. It’s just not grown-up talk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:49 PM
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The power games are an attempt to preserve ego in dating and relationships, which is the opposite of what building a relationship actually is despite the shitty reddit pop psych ideal of “we’re just two autonomous independent ppl with strict boundaries that have almost nothing to do with each other!” In a just social order we have structures of belonging and a place in the world which mitigates both fear of rejection and how much rejection wounds us. RP is a ‘rational’ response to that order dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:05 PM
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I look scary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:46 PM
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Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:43 PM
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Doesn’t mean a whole lot though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:42 PM
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The gender war?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:35 PM
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If anything it’s the other way around. The post doesn’t say this but elsewhere i see reference to the “niche odd looking men” and very often they’re….fictional. Which is kinda embarrassing to take as a signal of your depth as if you don’t know how differently you’d feel about them if they were a person you could encounter in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:07 PM
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A lot of people these days seem like they’re ashamed to be attracted to people who don’t match the beauty standard which informs a lot of that kind of nasty talk. I imagine women who get less male attention than most also receive more ‘negging.’ It’s all kind of a juvenile response, kinda like how kids are mean to their crush. I feel like attraction is more personal than people in this sub say. Some people just look a certain way that makes you associate them with someone in your life which may …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:29 PM
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Not very romantic though is it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:05 PM
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We’re debating these charged topics in a frictionless, online space in which no one is likely to change their mind both because we have no investment in each other and the experience we tie to these topics is too personal. So its a bit senseless that we debate here at all but the reason we do is a lack of social outlets. From my end, i think i get a little catharsis from raging at people and also some benefit in working out things people IRL don’t want to hear about, even if i know it’s a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:04 PM
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I’ve been on bupropion a while, noticed a lot of cognitive improvements, clearer thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:28 PM
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The better question would have been about romantic relationships. Why can’t women forgive awkwardness when there are so few reasons to be confident these days? Clumsy and awkward is sort of becoming a default anyway, the coming generations are so poorly socialized that I can’t imagine what their standard for awkward could possibly be. The only women i see marginalized socially as ‘awkward’ are autistic women, who are so often these weird sex fiends that don’t give a shit about love anyway. I’m n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:04 PM
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Dude i tried the same lol I look like Quasimodo though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:44 PM
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Isn’t men’s and women’s beauty really just not comparable? The term looksmatch imagines that men and women can be attractive in the same way and by the same metrics. Also just weird to imagine a future partner is your “looksmatch”, like this is not even a real person yet and you’re already kind of insulting them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:04 PM
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Both the OP take and the replies cheapen the definition of rape culture. Rape culture is *perceivable in real life*, in bars, frat houses, clubs, etc—environments and behaviors that are pretty common and normalize sexual violence. OP is doing a nonsense gotcha and the replies are pathologizing sexual/romantic frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:37 PM
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People are too embarrassed to talk about romance so they cloak it in cynical crap
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:26 PM
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I think its nice. Im not great with kids, guess cause i didnt grow up with little cousins or anything. I admire people that are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:12 AM
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Weird, sounds hustle culture-y
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:02 AM
2

Easier said than done
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:36 PM
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Its weird that you just can’t engage with the substance of what he said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:35 PM
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Good post. From the man’s side i feel like it can be difficult to prove to a woman what you value them for because we each have this preconceived caricature of what each other’s sexuality is like. Everyone saying ‘sounds like men just dont wanna be friends with women’ doesn’t really understand the level of self-worth men attach to women. In their head, when a man ends a friendship over romantic rejection they say ‘i guess he just wanted sex from me this whole time’ and like—its really a lot to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:32 PM
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Yeah okay all that i said doesnt stop being true just because you’re not perceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:57 PM
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Well there used to be a wide array of mens-only organizations, now its like if you didnt do sports or something as a kid you kinda screwed yourself socially in a way because that’s one of the only defined modes of male sociality that is cooperative (even though its competition, ironically). Otherwise the rest of your life is competitive and you dont get that opportunity again until briefly in college and then if you have meaningful job/career, and thats where the unemployment thing comes in
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:37 PM
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The thing is it’s kinda like when a woman joins an all-male workplace and is made to feel unwanted and out of their element. There is just something about single-sex spaces that makes it easier for people to find their tribe. I was in a grad program that was nearly all women and felt very much like the black sheep. After that i kinda get male flight. I like to think we can aspire to better but idk what the solution is besides a bit more sex-segregation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:30 PM
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Lack of ready social structures and unemployment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:23 PM
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Same could be asked of women much more often
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:21 PM
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We’re supposed to care about others because it’s just
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:20 PM
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Kim is the goat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:14 PM
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Word
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:10 PM
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I think we should still care about sexual violence/rape culture like we should care about any injustice but i do kinda agree. I think more importantly we need intellectual sovereignty. We keep reacting to feminism, taking it as our reference point, using their language and framework for our understanding, etc. when we need to just think for ourselves and not attach ourselves to it as a political project. It’s so dominant in culture that we don’t even realize we’re accepting its premises most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:52 PM
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Do you have that data? I’ll take your word but that surprises me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:35 PM
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Real!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:32 PM
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Social media does make it harder to get satisfaction from these other things and probs does inflate low self-worth as it concerns romance. Techno-alienation has hit men's sociality like a truck, we're spit out into the void alone whereas women seem to be enjoying the apocalypse with all their friends, teehee. One of the most striking things in getting to know male historical figures is how important and intimate their male friendships are, and in much of the world its still like that. But I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:46 AM
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Honestly every woman seems to want to date an older man if not a much older man. There are a lot of psycho porn freak men that just want very young women but i really dont think it’s as pervasive as people think, many just end up dating younger women because theyre the only ones who want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:43 AM
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To be honest, I don't know man. This is very murky territory. I mean you love your family, obviously. But when it comes to romance, I'd see myself questioning everything in this scenario. Is she showering me with love because she feels guilty about being repulsed? Is there a man she can't get over? Why does she have such negative feelings about my body, what do I need to change? Idk that kind of paranoia has to be bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:15 PM
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She posted that after you dribbling moron
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:39 PM
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Yeah any put-down man who thinks theyre winning in this cultural moment is delusional. When men say they want a woman to be feminine its more murky than they probably realize. Does it mean being a tradwife or acting like a southern belle or something? Because that’s just fetishizing a past social convention. Even if a woman gets into that, men reflecting that commitment is stressed by the economy now. So its all phony. The fact is we’re all being made into these undefined anxious blobs crawling …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:30 PM
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Hard to know until you’re in that situation, but that sounds alright. I’d see myself struggling with lust but if this woman was like ‘the one’ then id roll with it Again i think there’d have to be a good reason, all this ‘asexual’ stuff doesn’t really mean much to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:12 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:28 PM
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I’m being a lil obnoxious with this hypothetical but what about other forms of physical intimacy, cuddling, sleeping together etc? And shes still monogamous? Granted all that id say yes, especially if it was for a medical reason or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:22 PM
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I’d rather not have sex but i think the reason kinda matters. If it’s because she’s repulsed by me or something i don’t think my self esteem would put up with that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:11 PM
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Losing my flair privilege but I’ve had it done to me lol, mostly just kinda tickled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:08 PM
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The anal obsession needs to stop its all porn-induced
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:23 PM
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Be fr, ton of women voted for trump too. Kamala would have won if she just said she was gonna stop bombing the shit out of little children for israel and here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:24 PM
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Pretty solid analysis. There really has been a mass paranoia about “manipulative people” for a long time now. There’s some need for people to believe that others are that calculated and consciously interested in changing their behavior whereas in reality those master manipulators are usually just kinda thoughtless and inconsiderate people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:12 PM
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Uh-huh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:06 PM
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Ik i made it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:43 AM
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You think about yourself a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:36 AM
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Youre the one who wants to feel your desires *are* righteous. You worship yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:35 AM
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Kindness is cheap to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:32 AM
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There’s a reason this all seems like a bit much. This is all sort of a ritual, we’ve been hearing about “nice guys” for over a decade because its a deeply needed construct for women. It tells them that their primal disgust response is not only okay but righteous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:19 AM
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Yeah this has been an internet discourse for literally over a decade and women still think they’re onto something with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:12 AM
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Are you being handed your lines or do you really think you came up with this insight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:07 AM
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She started it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:10 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:56 AM
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On second thought probably not but i can find a way to be neurotic about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:52 AM
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Do you desire compatibility or do you desire a prop for your ever-expanding ego
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:49 AM
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Give whoever you like a chance idc, but it’s the moral indignation in what you just said that’s so funny. “I have the absolute right not to be bothered by the filthy rabble!” Are you surprised that we imagine you have never once in your life experienced actual lack, rejection, fear of being alone? Sorry, never going to believe woman’s problem of ‘too many suitors’ compares.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:26 AM
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Bro you are so chillax
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:34 PM
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You’re just taking their word that “all options are shit.” What if theyre referring to you or someone just like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:48 PM
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Yeah, not what I’m saying though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:43 PM
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Definitely not, hilarious convo though. I think its a bit porn-brained to expect anal Think i might be anti-kink on principle anyway its all too premeditated and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:28 PM
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Cowardice really might be the biggest elephant in the room. So much of this is all about apprehension, the thought of people getting one over on you, being abandoned. Us men are in our hysteria moment. You said women are functionally men, i basically agree but it’s more like neither men or women in the west are appropriate reference points for eachother at all. We’re competing in so many domains of life now. It’s not irrational to be afraid of being alone, though. We’re supposed to be complement…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:20 PM
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I think it should be illegal but decriminalized on the part of the prostitute, but put the pimps and johns in prison though The prostitute is being exploited and the whole business corrodes relationships between the sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:16 PM
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I just like to get wound up at women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:12 PM
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I couldnt get past the fact i was looking at him in marty supreme, one of the most repulsive men alive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:38 PM
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Dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:36 PM
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Why do a lot of RP/BP men care about feminism being a certain way, like ‘more inclusive’ or ‘pro-mother’ or something? Why can’t you just not be invested in feminism? You need the mother goddess’s approval?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:35 PM
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Yes, in fact it’s worse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:29 PM
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Two parents, emotionally absent dad and domineering mother but i love them both and it’s more than what many people have. A lot of ppl like that psychoanalyzing thing where whatever happened in childhood determines everything when sometimes its about what did or didnt happen afterwards, what promises didn’t get fulfilled
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:35 PM
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Did Jane Austen create you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:09 PM
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For the most part, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:07 PM
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Do you notice though that you’re allowed to feel all those same ways about men without reproach
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:04 PM
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What the people who dont see what OP is talking about aren’t getting is that, yes, its not like people are going to raise pitchforks when they find out youre not good with women but you are on thin ice. Because redditors especially want to believe that anyone they can relegate to a loser category is an ugly villainous orc who deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:52 PM
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You’re well-adjusted to a sick and twisted social order
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:57 PM
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It means that the point in life in which you graduate to wanting to be part of something bigger than yourself and wanting to love someone rather than just be loved never happens for you. You just go on “discovering yourself” forever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:08 PM
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That’s great
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:04 PM
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Look you are just going to notice men being shallow and shitty more than we do and we’re going to notice women being that way more than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:03 PM
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Because we live in a society
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:49 PM
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I’m saying that you all are shamelessly content with being a kid forever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:43 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:37 PM
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I can see the appeal considering the emotional immaturity of gen z women but i can’t help but feel that any older women who wants an age gap relationship has to be pretty stunted herself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:30 PM
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So basically women want to endlessly consume forever and avoid anything that involves even a little self-sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:28 PM
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She needs to believe all men are mindless horndogs to feel superior
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:22 PM
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Maybe its not the same for everyone, but it feels like you grow up as a man with everything and everyone around you giving this great big promise of romantic life and then you’re told that feeling a lack for life not being even a little bit like that is completely pathological and disgusting. Hard not to feel like women just don’t have this same emptiness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:27 PM
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