silva297 Archive

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1	Watching how dating works for my friends has been black pilling me Every communication is manipulation. Even now, you are trying to manipulate me to see things your way, and I am doing the same. AWALT: said nowhere in the red pill. you're talking about MGTOW maybe Alpha/Beta: basic ways how women can see men (can, but don't have to). there can be one of the two, none of the two, or both. it's a versatile concept and just a general guideline. if she gets the feeling that she owns you and you're pathetic, you're seen as "beta". if she sees you have self-respect a…	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/24 02:10 PM
1	Watching how dating works for my friends has been black pilling me I'm engaging with you and other people in a discussion. I am unsure how that would be antisocial behavior. Yet again, another personal attack instead of an argument. Then, more of your opinions. "Red Pill is a grab bag of ugly mind games." Interesting framing "ugly" and "mind games". In that same way you could say that a steak knife is an ugly murder weapon. Hardly a productive point for a discussion - indeed, rather something you use to shut down a discussion. Clearly you should monitor your ow…	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/24 10:33 AM
1	Watching how dating works for my friends has been black pilling me The red pill, at its bare bones, is a tool for understanding contemporary psychology. You can certainly make red pill into a theology and an ideology as well. But that would be foolish, because then you lose the ability to learn.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/24 05:00 PM
1	Watching how dating works for my friends has been black pilling me I read your first link and it literally mentioned the point that I told you. I can't make it any clearer. Quote: "PTSD may be diagnosed more in women in part because of the criteria used to define it. Cognitive and emotional responses to traumatic events make a diagnosis of PTSD more likely. So even though men may experience more traumas, they don't seem to have the same emotional responses to traumatic events," said Tolin and Foa. It's about the emotional responses that you diagnose, which does…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/24 08:05 PM
1	Watching how dating works for my friends has been black pilling me Your data really doesn't refute Rollo's point. Women are naturally higher in trait neuroticism, so it is questionable whether diagnosis criteria for PTSD should even be the same for women and men. Also, it doesn't really matter what the underlying diagnosis is. It's a basic fact of life that in almost all cases, after a breakup, it will take the woman mere weeks (if that) to find a new guy, whereas the man may take years to find a new partner. Whether that is then perceived by the woman as a goo…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/24 08:31 AM
1	Watching how dating works for my friends has been black pilling me Women move on from relationship trauma a lot faster than men do. Other areas may be a different story. But we are talking about relationships here. And this is most definitely true, and yes, it has an evolutionary basis in that when her man dies, she can't waste her youth not having children just because of the trauma. And yes, we see that mirrored in the modern world, and it's not less true just because you personally haven't experienced it. The thing with dread is not only perfectly true and r…	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/24 04:16 PM
1	Watching how dating works for my friends has been black pilling me that's why it's a praxeology and not an ideology. because it can change according to the observations. if the whole of western society became christian overnight and developed morals once again, the entire red pill paradigm would change. also most red pill concepts are just basic human biology. to say that they are bunk is just like saying men don't like big boobs or women don't like fit men. it's just biology	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/24 02:36 PM
2	Divorce Thanks for your elaborate reply. Sounds like you used that lemon to make lemonade. Respect man, good on you for using that experience for maximum growth. I still think it's ridiculous that a man has to be absolutely perfect and see every sign, otherwise he may just be cheated on. It's like you have to constantly work on yourself and on your life, and then also take on the responsibility for the family and the relationship. Then what's the use of the woman really, if she can't even help you grow …	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/08/24 02:33 PM
1	Watching how dating works for my friends has been black pilling me never read more nonsense. redpill is a praxeology, meaning a set of observations about female behavior, that you can do with whatever you want. you can use it to be a good husband or you can use it to sleep with many different women. the red pill doesn't tell you to do one or the other. it's not an ideology, neither is it a theology	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/24 02:25 PM
2	Divorce Great story with a lot of important lessons. At the danger of sounding naive, I do think that being a good earner, good father and being in good physical shape should be enough for a woman to be happy with you long term. Yes I know, red pill and all. But with 3 children and a quality husband it really takes an ungrateful little sh*t to suddenly start going out partying again and getting super drunk. I agree that mistakes were made and lessons were (or should be) learned but I'd also like to lame…	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/08/24 07:15 AM