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So you just see everyone naked 24/7?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:11 AM
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I was telling you your comment isn't on topic. The post is about seeing everyone naked all the time, not seeing your spouse naked a few times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:34 AM
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Do you see them nude all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:51 AM
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Nudity is exciting because you don't get to see it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:53 AM
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Sex would be way more boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:41 PM
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Not only are they as separate as can be, they are opposed to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:14 AM
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Do you want them to like having sex with you, or like having sex with other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:38 AM
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One, I still don't understand the reason you want a non-virgin. It sounds like you want someone who likes the same things you do, and I don't see how them having sex with other people would help that. Two, you're baffled people want to keep sex between them and one other person? Like do you actually not understand or are you just arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:54 AM
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Your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:23 AM
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I completely lost you. I could kind of follow you up until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:00 AM
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Anything can be a fetish. Preferring a non-virgin is inherently a fetish. We're human and we have emotions. I wish the best to people who have to deal with a non-virgin partner. All we're saying is stop promoting it because it causes a lot of problems and pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:04 PM
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There is no reason to not want a virgin unless you have a fetish or you enjoy being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:46 PM
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So you understand why someone would want a virgin then? Especially if you're going to be with this person for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:19 PM
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No. Saying this makes every woman die inside. Women are expressing fear that a man will commit a crime against them, and men are like "What do his facial features look like?" We can't even SEE the man's face when we're scared of him most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:14 AM
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Why does it matter they have it with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:47 AM
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Moody vampire boy is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:55 AM
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Yup. Same for women. She's a psycho bipolar manipulative attention-seeking daddy issues hysterical bitch on her period if she expresses any sort of emotion. I'm always a little amused when people say men can't show emotion in society. At least men have a whole support system of "Awww, men can cry!" while women's emotions are so mocked they're prevented from even holding important jobs because "women emotion bad."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:25 AM
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So you want your boyfriend to have sexual compatibility with another women? You do know having sex with multiple partners decreases satisfication?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:25 AM
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So you want positive qualities and your boyfriend/husband to have genital contact with other women? Why not just good qualities? Is it a fetish? Yes obvious women in real life think virginity is good. As I said before, it's only reddit/tinder who acts crazy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:23 AM
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"I want my man to have experience thrusting another woman's vagina." Why? Are you sure you don't want other qualities? Is genital contact really the standard? That's bizarre. Just say you want [other quality]. Saying you want them to have sex with other people is strange and pitiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:20 PM
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Is it because women are so terrified of crime they'd rather play it safe with a guy who's (probably) not a rapist/murderer? I can't find any other reason for wanting vetted men. Especially when women are so biologically jealous with a man's resources she'd surely want him all to herself. If an attractive man says he's a virgin, women find it amazing and adorable. I think it's a huge bonus. The purer the better. Imagine if Justin Bieber in his prime said he hasn't had his first kiss yet (saving i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:17 PM
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The non-virgin doesn't know what he's doing with his partner; he knows what to do with his ex partner. How does that help? It probably makes it way worse, since it's almost certain his new partner likes different things, and he has to break all the bad habits. It's better to learn with someone so you know what you like. I imagine a non-virgin being less ready to explore, because they've already done it a specific way with another partner. If you have a non-virgin partner he'd just be doing it th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:13 PM
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How many people have you had sex with? Unless it's in the several hundreds, if not thousands, your sample size is WAY too small to know anything about different people. A study would be more objective. People are out there having 20 partners thinking that makes them a sexpert without realizing that's a miniscule sample size. (I'm not even going to get into the fact that no one can truly fully explore themselves in a hookup/casual relationship, so you wouldn't even get to see people in their real…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:12 PM
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I assume if someone is a virgin, they are by choice. Even the people who complain it's not by choice for them, they sincerely don't even try that hard to flirt or get sex. Ask an "incel" how much effort they put into asking women out, and you'll find they're not even going out places to meet anybody. I assume if an older person (35-40+) is not married, they probably put in effort, didn't find anyone, probably had some serious relationships that failed, thought they had the one and lost them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:09 PM
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Yes. It's infinitely harder to be a first world woman than a first world man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:05 AM
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Why when men say women have it easier it's always about obtaining sex? Women worry about getting raped when they go outside. Who cares about worrying about a partner? Even if that's important to you, as a woman, have fun finding a partner who isn't a porn addict. Believe all women was never a thing. It's called believe women. It became a thing because women were taken so unseriously that they were often not believed until there was a dead body. Men are WAY more likely to be raped (even when you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:03 AM
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Neither are attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:54 AM
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"I want my man to have experience thrusting another woman's vagina." Dude that's definitely weird. Wanting "experience" is a major red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:42 AM
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People who think virginity is a red flag are the red flag. I'm not saying that as a gotcha, but it's literally true. People who are mad at virginity have issues. "He has not had a failed relationship or pumped and dumped a woman yet! Deaaaath sentence!" Literally this person has mental problems. I have never met anyone like this in real life. It seems like a reddit/tinder thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:37 AM
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Never. Virginity isn't a milestone. It's something you do after you love someone. Not having children/being married by a certain age would be the weird thing. For example, I think it's weird and sad that Leonardo Dicaprio isn't married. I think it's outside his control, and he wants to get married but can't (because he has shallow relationships due to his fame). If he was a virgin now, even at his current old age, I'd assume he was normal, did it by choice, and just wanted to be celibate... prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:34 AM
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Is it a problem to not have children by 25? Sex is no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:33 AM
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It's better to have no husband than a non-virgin husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:18 AM
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You're asking to treat women like holes because of something you heard online that isn't even true. This is how fickle men's empathy towards women is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:28 AM
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Women will be happier, because now they don't have to be sad their husband had sex with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:23 AM
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There are no hot 30+ men lol. I'm nearly the same age as you and young boys look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:17 AM
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True. Mac Miller, Pete Davidson, and Post Malone are younger than Brad Pitt and Ryan Gosling. Done. Women like young men, no matter how much older men reee about it. In their peaks: Elvis, the Beatles, Justin Bieber, One Direction, the list goes on. Society doesn't care for 25+ men. Even a guy who is young and ugly but kinda cute and has style will always do much better than an older gigachad. The gigachad will be in blockbusters and magazines promoted to older men to sell watches. The young guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:14 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:15 AM
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https://www.focusonreproduction.eu/article/News-in-Reproduction-Miscarriage-2#:~:text=Thus%2C%20fathers%20between%2040%2D44,before%2013%20weeks%20by%2074%25. This here says, "Similarly, when the paternal age was over 45 years the risk for pregnancy loss before 20 weeks was increased by 43% and before 13 weeks by 74%." I may have misread or misremembered, I thought it said 75% overall. So it's more like a 1 in 2 chance, not 3 in 4. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3809297/ Women with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:32 AM
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Seriously, do you actually believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:09 AM
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Just because guys get a woman who is willing to have casual sex doesn't mean the guy is worth anything. Casual sex is not an accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:40 PM
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Onlyfans as an example. Why don't women pay men to see photos?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:15 PM
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Yes. Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:14 PM
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These women get husbands easily. Many men marry single moms, even with black kids. It's sad but true. Those women should be getting no attention of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:13 PM
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I agree. I'm just saying until menopause, women and men are the same. Men are practically infertile after age 60ish but sometimes can manage to get it up and not miscarryfrom bad sperm. So we shouldn't be acting like it's so different for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:12 PM
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Thank you for the photos compliment. The age of consent (18) is actually several years earlier than the age we reach sexual maturity. Being attracted to teenagers isn't weird because it's illegal, or even only because their brains aren't developed. It's also weird because their bodies aren't developed either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:07 AM
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I'm very sorry to ehar that. I hope you're doing well now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:41 AM
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Women who whine about being single have outrageously high standards. Take Charlize Theron. She's beautiful, and even with her adopted black children that are a massive turn off for normal men, she still has millions of guys who would pay HER to lick her feet. Then she whines "why is no one sucking it up and marrying me?" Because she rejects every guy who wants to. Women have zero problem with getting any type of attention from men. Men aren't socialized to whine about relationships and admit the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:10 AM
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At age, 45, men have a 3 in 4 chance of having a dead child due to bad sperm causing miscarriage. I see no conversation here about men needing to settle down early to prevent this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:05 AM
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Kids who are 20 have not yet reached full sexual maturity. I wasn't talking about mental maturity at all, I was talking purely about looks. I seriously cannot see how a 20 year old could be legit hot. They still have that kiddy look that prevents them from being fully attractive. I personally think neotenous features are the most beautiful, and I still don't think early 20s is the hottest age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:04 AM
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I don't care who is an adult. 40 and 20 is not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:36 PM
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Every woman gets commitment. Acting is promiscuity. It's promiscuous men who struggle with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:35 PM
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I think the exact opposite. Hot 20 year old girls really can't be hot yet. They still look like kids. They're cute, but not truly attractive. A 31 year old woman will blow her out of the water. There are a few very mature looking 20 year olds that can pass for 30 year olds, but they're hot because they look older and mature. I've never met or seen a mature 20 year old like that in real life, I'm just talking about a few rare exceptions like actresses (who look like kids when they take their make…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:59 PM
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Yeah, men like these aren't even worth considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:52 PM
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The 31 year old has over 20 years left if she wants children. Women can have kids until menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:49 PM
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I'm a 23 year old woman. Everyone thinks I'm 16, maybe 17-18. I've gotten 14 and 15 a few times this year already. I'm not boyish or short or anything like that whatsoever. It's just my overall look and face hasn't changed since I was a teenager. I have no idea what this "women are less attractive past 18-22" crap is. Bro can you even tell? 18-22 is freakishly young too. I still feel like a kid. Where I work I serve hundreds of customers daily. I assume moms with teenage/young adult daughters ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:48 PM
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Where are you hearing that porn stars, prostitutes, and actresses are not in relationships? No reward is worth promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:37 PM
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No. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:34 PM
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Only women can make huge money BY being promiscuous. Women do not ask men to do nude scenes in blockbuster movies, for example. Only men want that for women. Men work every single day to make women more promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:34 PM
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None of those things come close to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:35 PM
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Women don't reward promiscuous behavior. Men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:35 PM
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100% yes. That is very obvious. When one hundred men circle around and rape a woman, they know she's a woman. They reserve their sickest sadism for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:46 AM
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Men are only tortured en masse by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:39 AM
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Women are tortured and killed in masses every day by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:34 AM
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No one said anyone deserves to die. Men's oppression is caused by men. Women's oppression is caused by men. Men use men harming men to get angry at women which makes no sense and is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:35 AM
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Studies show attractive women are less promiscuous. Many men just enjoy promiscuity. I don't think it's natural for men to be like that. I think it's brainwash and emotional issues, but it's definitely true men like promiscuous women and women hate promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:23 AM
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Nice job completely changing your question after you were debunked. Doctors are demons on earth. Nothing to brag about there. Women are cooks and chefs and farmers as much or more than men. I don't care about outer space. I want men to stop terrorizing women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:18 PM
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If the politicians were women, you'd say it was a gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:16 PM
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The only reason a woman would do that is if she is a non-virgin and she can't bear for virginity to be praised in any way, because she is not one. Virgin men are always preferrable. Men mostly lust after extremely promiscuous women. Women hate promiscuous men way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:15 PM
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I'm not going to "admit" to things I clearly didn't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:58 PM
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Why do you ask? The answer is prostitution/porn. Which is insane because all dangerous male jobs are made by men, and the dangerous female jobs are made by men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:57 PM
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Same gender that started the war I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:52 PM
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Yeah, you're definitely mixing my comment with someone else's. I never said any of this. You're a misogynist using slurs against women. Funny how slurs against women are fine, you can even have subreddits that have bitch in the name, they act vile to women and every post is about harassing and insulting women. But something as innocent as r/waterniggas gets banned. Society doesn't care about women, and you're wondering why women are tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:33 AM
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Women don't have the physical strength to do so. This isn't some moral battle between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:17 AM
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You must be confusing my comments with several other comments, because I didn't say a single thing you claim I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:09 AM
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Most strangers don't die for people. Some people do risky jobs so they can get paid (and statistically they'll almost certainly survive these jobs). No one is even asking men to die for strangers. Just don't expect to be treated like knights and heroes who get special honor and respect when men aren't really like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:03 AM
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Trust me. I know what you're talking about. I used to believe it myself. This is nothing new to me. It's incredibly difficult for a society to twist that the gender that commits only 2% of violent crimes to be bad, but they somehow do it. And it feels like hell for every woman who has to experience it. No matter how much I lied to myself that society sent messages that women are wonderful and men are bad, reality kept hitting me until I admitted it. Society treats women as subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:58 AM
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Guys with high n count are notorious for being bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:59 AM
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You're staying a bachelor. Only non-virgins want non-virgins. To the rest of us, non-virgins are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:58 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:57 AM
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I'm a person in real life. I only respect men with an n count of 0 or 1. It's evil for men to have a high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:57 AM
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Yeah, the woman probbaly just has depression. The man is probably a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:54 AM
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It's called morality. Very sexual moral people hold onto it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:52 AM
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It's not ok for a guy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:51 AM
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The most normal take in this entire thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:51 AM
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Don't come back with the point. Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:50 AM
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They don't. Statisics prove this. Men dying for strangers is pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:07 AM
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Why do you think men are terrible and selfish? It seems like your article proves not all men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:01 AM
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(I have another point and I don't want to edit my post, so this is my second comment.) Women do not like taken men. For some reason (I don't even know why), some men really wish this was true. People believe what they want to believe. I've literally seen guys on here claim their instagram post getting more likes when they post a picture with their gf is proof that women like taken guys. It's hilariously delusional and desperate to prove a false point. 1) A cute relationship photo is nicer than a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:01 AM
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I have no idea where you're seeing this. Unless the woman already legit liked the guy and is emotionally upset that he's with someone else, finding out he's taken is a total turn off. Maybe you're talking about a certain type of person who wants a guy to be soo into her he leaves his gf for her? Because she's narcissistic? I think this is rare though. Most people aren't that rude. I've never seen a woman turned on by the fact a man is having sex. Men get turned on when a woman he's attracted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:44 AM
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Women and children first is not a thing. It was popularized by the movie Titanic. As an exception to the rule, it happened on the real Titanic because the captain said so and forced men to obey (which the men were obviously not ok with). The captain had to die anyway, so it wasn't even a selfless move. Analysis of disasters show men do not put women first. It's a pop culture phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:27 AM
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Society does not have a message that says women are good. Society has a message that says women are worthless if not for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:54 AM
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Past one means if you have two partners in a lifetime, you're out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:13 PM
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HVM have one woman per life. No exceptions. Every woman past one ruins his value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:11 PM
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Ah yes. Human biology is to have much sterile sex with many males and females, and then only mate once with a random one. Great, men with loved ones and families stop being violent. How is this bad again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:59 PM
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So female sexual strategy is to get as many men as possible. Men are designed to have their mates (that they already mated with) stolen by men. Men who are not stronger or better or anything. Just men who had sex second. Or third or fourth. Or fiftieth. After the women had her many many partners. It's common sense that males producing sperm at any time means men are monogamous. Imagine how much cheating and polygamy there would be if you had to match up your fertility cycle with a woman's. How c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:19 AM
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True but when people say "Brad Pitt" they imagine him in some old movie they saw. Most people don't imagine what he currently looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:00 AM
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You are claiming that female sexual strategy is to have sex with as many men as possible. So many men, in fact, that she's having sex with man after man within mere minutes of each other, while his semen is still in her and ready to get scooped out by another man. You believe men's sexual role is to be a cuckold. You believe men producing non-stop sperm, which ensures monogamy, is somehow a reason for polygamy. (You didn't even attempt to explain that one.) At least you admit men who are not des…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:34 AM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:35 AM
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Males and females of a species are not supposed to be competing against each other. That is detrimental to survival. Men and women both have monogamy as a reproductive strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:15 AM
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>Men biologically are inclined to want to procreate with many women. Not human men. You realize the only reason people say this is because they're confusing human males with other animals? Yes, some animals (both male and female) have a strategy to mate with many. Humans are not like that. Human men are biologically created to mate with one woman and stay with her to protect her and their babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:12 AM
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Women have higher standards than men because women are less promiscuous than men. The fewer partners you want, the pickier you'll be. When men complain about hypergamy, they are complaining that women are not sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:05 AM
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Who cares what men think though. I'm saying I want to be older so I can be prettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:35 AM
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I'm a straight young woman but I find older women much more aesthetically pleasing too. I work at a service where I have hundreds of customers daily. I often see moms with teenage/college daughters, and I nearly always think the mom outshines the daughter. Their faces and overall look are prettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:48 AM
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Virile, energetic 20 year old guys with bright, youthful features who look like Greek gods cannot compete with 28 year old balding men. OP made me realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:41 AM
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Every point here is wrong. It's mostly younger women shaming older men for going after young women, because young women are the victims of it. And the age of the woman doesn't matter, because what she's saying is correct anyway. You randomly threw out "hypocritical" and didn't explain why. "Most" men do not go after younger women. The vast majority of men are dating women their age or a couple years younger or older. Women do not age faster. Older women are significantly more attractive and way …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:38 AM
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At least you admit porn is a fight against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:13 AM
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Porn is going to be banned by then and all pornographers executed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:29 AM
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It's not a conspiracy because it's not a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:59 AM
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Men made the beauty industry, and they know it's physically and emotionally painful and a massive waste of time and money to be a victim of the beauty industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:56 AM
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People want to be beautiful. Men have always put a lot of effort into their appearance. No one is THAT desperate to be beautiful unless they're bombarded 24/7 with ads and media.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:33 AM
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I didn't try to shame Hugh Hefner... You're projecting. I don't even know where you got that from. Obviously he SHOULD be shamed for his immorality, but I didn't even think of that. Hugh Hefner didn't even know me. I've never met him. But of course you thought I thought he was living his life to please me? Ok dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:52 AM
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You're right. I'm attractive. I'm not insecure. I care more than anything that my husband is a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:48 AM
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Women are propagandized with trillions of dollars to care about their looks. No one would naturally care that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:45 AM
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The 18-22 year olds would rather have an 18-22 year old than a 25 year old lol. People who believe they'd want the 35 year old are just lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:29 AM
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Hasn't the age gap in the US always been 2-3 years? I remember the stats from 100 years ago were the same. And it's nearly as likely for the woman to be the one who's 2-3 years older. Age gaps have never been popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:28 AM
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Wanting a non-virgin is insecure. Have some standards for yourself, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:25 AM
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And most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:25 AM
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In current society, most people past 30 are too jaded to care about much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:25 AM
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Most women care very deeply about n count. To the point of being physically nauseous when thinking about their boyfriend being with someone else in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:24 AM
2

Men, your body count matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:23 AM
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Women care more than they're willing to admit too. A lot of women are stuck between trying to appear liberally minded and crying that the guy they want isn't a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:21 AM
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Not especially men. Women have emotions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:20 AM
3

Attractive people care more about virginity/low n count because they can afford to be choosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:11 AM
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Practically nobody in real life doesn't care about body count. People have emotions in real life. It's just insecure people on the internet who are freaked out no one wants them who say that actually having other partners is ok. I care more than anything that my husband is a virgin. I'd die of pain if he wasn't. It's not something I talk about in real life because it doesn't come up. Many friends and just girls I was talking to said they care a lot about guys' body counts, including wanting virg…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:08 AM
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No. A person doesn't have to do anything (except be loyal themselves) to require loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:05 AM
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All of that is completely not ok. There's no point in drawing lines halfway. It's either immoral to be lusting after others or it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:03 AM
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I said nearly all find him icky. No one finds 50-60 year old men attractive. A few women (waaay less than 10%) would be ok with that for a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:01 AM
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I'm 23 and 30 year old women are way prettier and hotter than girls my age (there are exceptions). This is just your preference. It's not a universal truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:56 AM
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You're projecting your thoughts onto me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:54 AM
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That's not an argument. Women caring more about their looks has nothing to do with if men or women age worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:52 AM
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Nearly all 25 year old women find current DiCaprio icky. If only 5% are down for him, that's actually a lot for him to have, 1 in 20. He has so many managers organizing his yacht parties picking up women for him. In his case, getting a lot of women doesn't mean women generally like him. It means a few women like him, and he chooses to be with all those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:28 PM
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Yeah I noticed this "older men are attractive" is so heavily pushed and fabricated by Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:20 PM
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Oh no. Oh no no no. We're not using Hugh Hefner - a man so disgusting that no woman would even talk to him unless he made her a lot of money to merely stand next to him for a photo - as an example, are we? James Bond is a fictional character that appeals to the male gaze. Not female. You know when Hugh Hefner wanted to sell his celebrity mansion, under the condition he could hang around once in a while, no one bought it. LA mansions sell in an instant. Nobody wanted to be near Hefner. To give so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:16 PM
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Everything TRP says is projection. They're mostly dudes past their prime ranting about how women are past their prime and having a crisis about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:09 PM
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I think it applies to men at least quadruple as much as it does to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:07 PM
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The wall is when a man starts getting saggy and/or balding (usually early 20s). The wall doesn't happen to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:06 PM
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Women should stop. Pollution, waste of money, waste of time, causes insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:05 PM
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Maybe try listening to what women go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:00 PM
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No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:40 PM
1

Yeah it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:09 PM
1

Yes it is. Life isn't easy for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:49 AM
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So they're doing it to live a free life. Coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:23 AM
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Dictionaries are not encyclopedias. It's not going to say anything about what goes on in these women's lives and how much they suffer. A woman who has sex just to be paid is coerced. She needs the money to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:37 AM
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That's a dumb way of looking at it. Prostitution is a business. It's not roleplay or sugar daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:21 AM
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The ones that aren't being raped aren't usually really prostitutes. If it's not their job, it's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:06 AM
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Consent is a strict definition. You can't talk like it's different for each person. That's dangerous. https://www.rainn.org/articles/legal-role-consent A prostitute who is rich, not abused, safe, not pimped, doesn't need the money at all, has financial independence, their own house, not on drugs, wants sex with the client anyway, and says "hey yeah you can give me cash for that" is not raped. The client is rapey because it's not like he knows her life story and it's not like he cares if she was …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:13 AM
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That not all women who are prostitutes are being raped. You thought I was saying it's impossible for a prostitute not to be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:59 AM
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Let's answer them and get it over with! >I don't wanna date old women (30 and up) but muh society is making me! Nobody is making you date someone older than you. Oh you're 30+ too? >Why does OnlyFans exist and why do I hate it so much? Some demon invented it, you hate it because you're normal. >Why don’t woman like average men? Women are picky which is awesome. Prudeness is based. >Why don’t men like average women? They don't? I'm not sure. >Why don’t men like sluts? No one does. It's immoral an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:24 AM
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I'm glad you agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:54 AM
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Do it for the moral reasons then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:03 PM
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I don't care about women being raped because 2 unverified women claim they enjoy "sex work."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:03 PM
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I think most women who are virgins at 36 are waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:09 PM
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Everyone should wait for marriage. That's the reason I say you should too. Yes it will make it easier for you, but the morality of it is most important. Sex outside of marriage is not normal. Don't worry about it being harder for you to get with bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:47 PM
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Some extremely privileged prostitutes choose just the guys they want to have sex with, even that has an element of coercion (money) though so it's bad. Most prostitutes don't get that. I'm so done with men only pretending to care about women's choice when it has to do with prostitution or dating pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:45 PM
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A 36 year old virgin woman who doesn't want a virgin man has issues. A non-virgin who wants a non-virgin has serious issues too, but they want someone the same as them I suppose. Find someone who's waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:27 PM
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Prostitutes don't choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:20 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:19 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:13 PM
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Are you asking out virgin women or non-virgin women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:13 PM
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Yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:03 PM
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You were making a joke. That's why I didn't answer your "question."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:03 PM
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You weren't talking about prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:48 AM
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At least he has his virginity going for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:48 AM
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Not everyone in the current eyar lives in a first world country, and plenty of those who do are still being abused. >Can it only be consensual when a woman is physically attracted to the man? Why is that the only factor that’s valid in deciding what is rape and isn’t(to you)? This is some seriously demented shit. No one cares how "attractive" the rapist is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:47 AM
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I'm talking about rape. No idea why you're talking about beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:59 AM
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That's not love. That's monstrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:57 AM
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There's no such thing as the coolidge effect. Just say you picked the wrong person and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:56 AM
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Nobody gets raped happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:55 AM
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Virgin obviously. But this is a fake question because virgins until marriage are more adventurous/fun in bed, according to studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:42 AM
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If there were berries everywhere they wouldn't starving. The man attacks her, says I'll rape you and you can have some food, and she just freezes and accepts the food after. Please don't make a joke out of this. I know you think it's edgy but it's really disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:38 AM
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Letting yourself be raped by the man who is keeping food from you so you don't starve, letting yourself be raped by the man who is about to murder you, etc. is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:50 AM
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That's not how it works...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:49 AM
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That's not how it works...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:49 AM
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What's the comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:33 AM
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We love moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:33 AM
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Don't kiss her unless you'll marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:19 AM
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I know. I can see your redpill flair. You guys adore promiscuity. I don't, which is the reason for my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:08 AM
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It's not, and you know it. There's nothing more painful in the world than your husband being a non-virgin. You smugly like to lie and say women want YOU, since you're a non-virgin. As long as men are putting women through this pain, I hope liberal feminism never stops. At least most women won't feel so bad about their husbands being non-virgins when she's a non-virgin too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:56 AM
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Comments like yours are the reason I'm so grateful feminism happened. As long as men think women like non-virgins, I will hope women are non-virgins. The only thing I hate worse than promiscuity is men saying it's not as bad when they do it or that women prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:43 AM
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The issue is marrying a man who loved "sluts."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:39 AM
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Women not wanting to starve so they allow themselves to be raped at men's request is not "women inventing prostitution."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:38 AM
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As they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:37 AM
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I assume you don't have kids? Trust me, loving someone is not a choice. I get the appeal of saying that, and it's helpful for some people, but it's really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:53 PM
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The exact opposite, actually. I guess you're the type to make weird assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:43 AM
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You can make science say anything. You can buy a scientist and tell him to pump out a study with any result you like. Science is lame. It would be cool if it was honest, but as of now it's incredibly lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:20 AM
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All men are better off with women their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:18 AM
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He shouldn't watch porn anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:17 AM
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You sound a bit depressed. Not caring about things like that is not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:16 AM
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I hate this attitude so much haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:15 AM
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What's the difference between romantic love and fuck buddies then? "Basically just two really good friends who like fucking each other" honestly sounds like hell to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:08 AM
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Women are loved because men have a lot of sexual desire for them? How do you think women are loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:07 AM
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Love is real. It's not transactional. And the burning never goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:05 AM
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Love is something that just happens to you. "Choosing" isn't love. That's being a good person, but it's not love. True romantic love is like loving your child, you just love them, you don't "choose" to care about them, you just do because you love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:03 AM
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Clients look like toothbrushes that have been used to clean a filthy bathtub. Cads look like limp burgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:01 AM
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You're not even trying to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:20 AM
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Because men don't care about men getting raped and assaulted. This is a male-caused problem. But yeah I agree those laughing security guards should be shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:38 AM
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Coercion is not consent. Edit: He blocked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:29 AM
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Prostitution is rape. That is my claim. Counter it without just saying "no it's not."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:41 AM
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I'm not a feminist. Marriage is not prostitution, don't be one of those feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:28 AM
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Yeah, FDS is way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:10 AM
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We're not lions. Different species are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:10 AM
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How much have you studied this? You sound like you've never even heard of this before. Anyone who is at least aware of the debate wouldn't by confused why people are saying prostitution is rape, even if they somehow disagree with that. I think it sucks to be a woman right now. But yeah it sucks to be a guy because people tell you you can't rape women, even though you totally can and get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:44 AM
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As far as I've seen from FDS, not many or none. They're simply flipping back what men do to women, or trying to avoid being used. From TRP, nearly everyone there is really really brainwashed, or sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:23 AM
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I don't tell women to stop getting raped. I tell men to stop raping women. Men do not have the right to buy women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:19 AM
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No. Men do not have the right to buy women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:39 AM
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You can definitely care about people you've never met, just not as much as someone you've met. But this is about after he meets you. Most likely you will get someone who is the same as you. But it is possible you'd meet someone you truly loves you and can't just leave when you hurt them, and that would be one of the most egregious things that could happen. He can understand who you are and be affected by it. Most people have also slept around so this hopefully won't happen to too many people. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:16 AM
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The short version is if your life was vivid to him, he'd care a lot. The reason he doesn't care is because you doesn't care about your mind, your perspective, your experiences, your feelings. He doesn't think about you and he doesn't care to. It's selfishness. He dehumanizes every part of you that isn't strictly with him, because he sees you as something that is just giving him enjoyment and company now, rather than an actual person. When you care about someone a lot, their perspective matters m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:34 PM
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Are you dead serious, or are you just saying that? People who actually think like you are usually in jail for their crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:27 PM
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The reason that happens is because we're highly monogamous. Imagine if men couldn't impregnate a woman whenever. It would be so hard to sync up your schedules that it'd be hard to get pregnant at all. It would encourage cheating with someone who has a more similar schedule to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:26 PM
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I find it weird and concerning that anyone doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:25 PM
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That's what prostitution is. Paying for the right to a woman's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:23 PM
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Not human men. Fish "men" sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:16 PM
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You'll go find someone who doesn't give a shit about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:15 PM
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Doesn't change what I said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:14 PM
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I'm glad we agree that there's nothing immoral about having sex. I was starting to doubt you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:13 PM
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You said rape. The definition of rape has not been altered to include groping.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:13 PM
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Are you going to explain, or?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:44 PM
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I'm intentionally interpreting him correctly. Instead of smugly going,"Pfft of course groping isn't rape you idiot, it's actually sexual assault," I understand what he means. It's fair. Yes, groping should be punished very severely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:15 PM
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He's not upset there's a technical difference between sexual assault and rape. He's mad that groping is getting punished severely. Don't just read the words, look at what people are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:01 PM
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Groping without consent has always been sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:16 AM
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If we're going to answer every question with "because I felt like it," then there's no way to have a conversation. It's a non-answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:07 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:38 AM
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So what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:31 AM
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Well yes... Unless lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:00 AM
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Most people are so miserable they don't have time to consciously care about a romance they'll never get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:00 AM
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you do not get to impress it on others. your morality is personal to you and your loved ones. find someone who matches don’t try and force it on others and pretend it’s not about control. im not pushing my morality on you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:59 AM
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Women deserve committment but they couldn't get it because men were not virgins. So women said f*ck it. Men are seriously evil for desiring virginity while being the reason virginity isn't common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:11 AM
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Why would you ask if you don't care? And yes the majority of people have divorced parents so most people are struggling knowing what a normal romantic relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:05 AM
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I don't even have to respond to you. I could ignore you. But I responded. If I said what I said without quotes it would have been confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:03 AM
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It's just not that important to most people. Most people are on pills, have mental health issues, and their life is a mess. The relationship is the important thing. Yes that's why I care about virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:52 AM
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If it's a morality issue, you're going to care about other people's actions. You're pushing your morality on me right now, so forgive me if I instantly write your opinions off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:51 AM
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Stuff like this makes me so glad third wave feminism happened and women are not virgins anymore. Men couldn't care less about virginity, so why should women? Men don't deserve virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:39 AM
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Everything that happens is in the past, except the millisecond that is happening currently. It's not an argument to say it happened in the past. So did everything else. Your spouse doesn't affect you... What a bizarre thing to say. Why are you getting so defensive and lashing out? It says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:38 AM
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Yes, you can't control who you love. It would rip your heart out in sadness though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:30 AM
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People who love another person and don't want to be heartbroken.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:30 AM
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Fiding sex is easy for a woman because men are easy. I don't care how easy or difficult an immoral activity is. If anything, the person who has a more difficult time doing the immorality is way worse, because they're really trying for it rather than slipping into it by mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:29 AM
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Unless they are repressed by religion there is no reason to care about things like an "n" count. Love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:27 AM
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Making less money doesn't change the amount of money the man makes. Being a certain height does not change other people's heights, it does not change the height of anyone you prefer. Having casual sex while wanting a virgin decreases virginity. You can't want a value while destroying those values. It would be like if a woman wanted a rich man but did everything in her power to intentionally make men poor, while complaining men aren't rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:26 AM
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Men can resolve this issue immediately by not having extramarital sex with women. The solution is in your hands, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:22 AM
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I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:18 AM
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You can't control who you love, but he'll be heartbroken by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:18 AM
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Men don't have the right to buy women's bodies. People definitely care about intimacy with the person they love. Anyone who doesn't care about that doesn't care about the person that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:17 AM
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Worrying about n count is wise if you’re a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:15 AM
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People who "don't even feel the need to know their partner's count" seriously have some kind of illness. Like those really impulsive, reckless, broken childhood people who don't want to know their one night stand's name.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:15 AM
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It's not about controlling bodies. It's a basic morality issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:14 AM
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No, it's not. Some people just like love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:13 AM
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No I haven't had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:47 AM
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No, of course not. If you actually cared about this person you'd give them the best you can. You wouldn't give them a cheater. You wouldn't do something so deeply hurtful. Cheating isn't a random "mistake" like oh we got in a fight but I love you. Loyalty is an inherent part of love. You can't have love without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:06 AM
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Yes...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:00 AM
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I'm not sure if I want to know why you think this is "my" logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:47 AM
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Serial monogamy is for species like birds that have mating seasons and then fly far away and then have offspring again in a next mating season. Humans are monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:05 PM
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You are one example. If you dated 100 women, and I judged your looks as good or bad, you would be one example out of the thousands. I'd have to judge the majority of all those guys to be good looking to change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:02 PM
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Let's say you've dated more women than failed dating coaches, like 100. I'm judging the looks of thousands and thousands of people I've seen. Personal dating won't give you more insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:04 PM
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Are you attracted to men? I assumed you're a straight guy. Male and female gaze is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:01 PM
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Will I believe an internet stranger, or my lying eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:35 PM
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The reason women "control" who has sex is because men always want sex. So it's an automatic yes from them, and a yes or no from women. By your logic, men's n count matters more since men are the cause of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:18 PM
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Forever. If this is not your answer, do not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:19 AM
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but since manwhores are often extremely good looking, Lmao where. They usually look like a hamburger that's been sitting for a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:01 AM
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>If you were a dateless virgin in your 20s should you be judged based on that? Absolutely. You should be judged as based and the good standard for all guys. >If your past partners thought you sucked in bed, should you be judged on that? Yes, you should be judged for having partners. >If you were routinely rejected by women should you be judged based on that? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:00 AM
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Saying women who are being raped are not being raped diminishes those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:54 AM
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I'm so tired of people defending rape by saying it's not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:19 AM
3

They are... It's not comparable to rape
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:02 AM
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Coercion is rape. It's startling people don't know what rape is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:57 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:56 AM
3

Women are being morbidly abused in prostitution. I'm fully against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:55 AM
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Do you really think the opinion of either the rare extremely privileged women, or women who are so battered, drugged, raped, and mentally ill that they support their subjugation, is going to change my mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:36 AM
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You clean something without your consent? Oh sucks. You get raped? Your life can be destroyed forever. Stop comparing the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:31 AM
1

I'm not one of the millions of prostituted women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:29 AM
2

No. People need to stop defending rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:27 AM
2

It is rape. Enough with this. When 99% of clients are not men, then we can say calling clients men is "sexism."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:39 AM
3

Prostitution is harmful. Don't ever make up cutesy terms for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:37 AM
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I can tell a man wrote this. Only men think women hate women like men hate women. It's projection. Edit: Your comment, not the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:36 AM
2

Stop talking about "what if the woman consents tho." Talk about the men who rape them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:08 AM
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Don't use the term. It's pimp propaganda to make the reality of what women go through sound like "oh it's just a job, jobs are supposed to suck, right?" It completely ignores women's abuse. You're getting so off topic. Even when the question is about men, without fail it turns back to women. >What if the child consents. What if the woman consents to abuse/prostitution. NO. The question is why do MEN want to rape women and children. Stop making men invisible in this conversation. Men are raping p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:48 AM
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I don't know why you use the term "sex worker." Of course prostituted women are capable of consent. They are not consenting, which is the problem. Again, DO NOT compare cleaning or whatever to be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:30 AM
0

Or they just want to be intimate with the person they love... If the guy is not a virgin I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:13 AM
3

A guy who dates younger women is not mature. A woman is out of luck if both guys her age and older guys are immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:06 AM
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The two main reasons women are triggered by age gaps: They think it's creepy (potentionally dangerous, predatory, manipulative, abusive, scary, perverted, etc) and they don't want it to happen to them. They think it's creepy and they don't want it to happen to other women (their daughters, their friends, their sisters, women they were in the same position as). Any other reason for hating age gaps is an anomaly. TRP doesn't like this because they really really really wish it was bitterness or jea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:03 AM
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For women, age is overrated. For men, age is underrated. There are so many pretty older women. Men, not so much. It's pretty much just as common for the man to be 1-2 years younger as it is older. It's the huge gaps (11+ years) that it's more common for the guy to be older. A gap of more than 5 years MASSIVELY increases divorce. Zoomer women are getting more and more tired of older men. I see a video of a woman in her early 20s flipping off a 30-40 year old guy trying to flirt with her at the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:49 AM
1

When was this about favor? This is about lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:24 AM
1

Women should never tell men they're virgins. Just lie and say your number is at least 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:08 AM
1

With the same person, of course. With different people, I would become awful at sex. It's like having half-finished sex every time. You get really bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:43 AM
0

No I won't. You need to tell me this to make yourself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:14 AM
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You said sex is not rocket science, and now you compare sex to flying a plane. Sex is innate. It doesn't require practice. >People who have sex regularly are comfortable in their bodies. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA no they're not. They're the most insecure people out there. >Why would someone continue to feel uncomfortable doing something that they are experienced in? They're experienced in nothing. They had sex with different people. It's like trying 100 different projects for a few minutes, accomplishing n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:32 AM
1

I didn't ignore you. I told you you're wrong to say being a 36 year old virgin is bad. It's infinitely better than being an unmarried nonvirgin 36 year old. I feel so sorry for nonvirgin unmarried people. At least you're still fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:27 AM
2

Get married and stop hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:26 AM
1

How do you know what techniques the virgin knows? Many people have sex for the first time and already have techniques. I don't necessarily think it's the best idea; it's better to do what your spouse wants rather than what you heard somewhere else. It's pretty obvious a person who waits for one person they love to have sex is more comfortable than a person who has sex with different people, or even strangers. http://cdn.freedomainradio.com/FDR_2899_Marriage_Partners_Study.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:24 AM
2

As expected of frat/sororitiy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:17 AM
1

No, he's going to know how to eat another woman out. Not you. You're getting the sloppy seconds version of what another woman likes. It makes you less likely to consider what you actually like. Sex isn't awkward. People who aren't comfortable together are awkward. Non-virgins are rated according to science as more uncomfortable with their partners (which goes under the "duh" category).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:16 AM
2

???????????????????????????????????????????????????????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:14 AM
1

A lot of people have sex without love. Sex will always affect your mental health and emotions. It doesn't mean you're going to start falling in love with who you have sex with. It means you're becoming mentally ill and unstable and ruining your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:13 AM
1

If I'm 36 and still unmarried, I would only want a 36 year old virgin. The only reason I don't want a 36 year old virgin is because I'm not 36.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:10 AM
0

Studies show people with 0 previous partners are the rated the most fun in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:09 AM
1

Women don't think a lot of partners is social validation. Men think that about other men (sadly). Women don't want their man with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:08 AM
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A person's n count has nothing to do with how attractive they are. A person's n count is their choice. You act like an attractive person is forced to have many partners, regardless if the person wants many or none.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:07 AM
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You have to teach any man how to please you. Communication is part of sex. He's not going to read your mind. Virgin or nonvirgin, you have to teach him what you like. The only difference is it's easier and more fun to do it with a virgin. They're more eager, and they don't have bad habits from past partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:04 AM
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No. You had a presumably avereage amount of options. You chose a lot of girls out of your options. You chose many girls, and your gf happened to be one of them. She's coping. Choosing one girl out of many options would mean the guy has to be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:01 AM
2

The fuck? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:00 AM
1

I only want a virgin guy. I wouldn't tolerate a "near virgin."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:59 AM
1

I can't really imagine that because I don't want him in fighting games anyway. I hate "humiliating" sports and think men are pathetic for participating in them, ESPECIALLY the men who are victorious, and actually brag about doing these things. There's nothing cool about holding a man in an awkward position and hitting him. The man who's "winning" looks even more embarassing. It's gross that some men like these things. Just play normal sports, please. I'd be extremely angry at the guy doing that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:58 AM
1

As expected of people who go to bars/clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:55 AM
1

This isn't redpill or any pill. This is just sexual liberation, and it's a devastating mental illness. Most men engage in casual sex. Men are more degenerate than women, so (some) men weirdly like to have sex with a woman they're not even that attracted to. Women are more normal about sex, more reserved, and more so want a man she's attracted to. There aren't many choices for virgin husbands, so a lot of people are not really getting what they want and just settle for whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:46 AM
2

To the country we made for criminals. Like Australia, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:33 PM
2

As always, the atheist was the one who randomly inserted his obsession into the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:32 PM
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Man, atheists are wack. They hear the word destroy and think it's a religious argument somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:58 PM
2

We'll allow them to prepare for the wedding in jail of course. The jail isn't torture, it's just a slap on the wrist for doing something wrong, but you'll marry them so it's ok now. And yeah those others get deported.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:57 PM
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1 month jail so they can prepare for their wedding if they are their first and only partner. No punishment after that. If they don't want to marry, deportation to a camp country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:39 AM
3

Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:35 AM
5

Yeah, jail would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:28 AM
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Yes. We're talking about casual sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:02 AM
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I think the women abused in the porn industry would have a word with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:01 AM
12

Consent does not determine morality. Consensually destroying our world doesn't make our world any less destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:58 AM
2

No one who is against casual sex is going to care for the word slut. It exacerbates the problem of promoting casual sex while punishing only women for it. The reason why women try to say being a slut is empowering is because men are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:57 AM
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How dare people want to live in a society that isn't dripping with misery!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:55 AM
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If men didn't like it it wouldn't be happening, and women wouldn't ask men. If women didn't like it, it would be happening because men would be asking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:55 AM
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Trillions of dollars of brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:52 AM
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I'm not assuming anything. Keep defending your porn. It just shows how evil porn watchers truly are. Whole thing makes you look like a man hating Men say that hating rape is hating men This says everything I need to know about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:17 AM
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You come to my comment and talk about something I am not talking about. Then you say I'm reaching when I tell you you're off topic and I try to bring the topic back to what I said. I hope you realize how dumb you're being right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:02 AM
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I'm talking about RAPE. I don't have to watch porn and know whatever your favorite fetish is to know that rape victims' videos are getting posted on porn websites. You are sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:16 AM
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So you admit there's rape everywhere on porn sites. I have no idea when cnc porn is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:02 AM
3

Don't marry a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:08 AM
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Porn hub dot com.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:01 AM
1

I'm talking about actual rape. Not pretend rough sex with consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:39 PM
2

What are you even trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:12 PM
1

The wall doesn't exist. Kim is 5'3 (idk I just looked that up) so the difference between upper 5 and lower 6 is nothing. Kim isn't getting into a relationship because another woman (who also dates and marries younger men by the way) gossiped, real or not, about dick size. TRP will grasp onto anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:12 AM
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Women want what other women want. So if a hot chick like Arianna selected Pete, this is setting the the trend for other women to go for him. Not because women want them. Women are just picky so they only select the best ones, and people can generally agree who the most desirable people are. Also they're not even liking him because Ariana liked him. They like him because he's famous now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:06 AM
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Older women have never had a problem getting men, relationships, marriage, sex, younger hotter men, anything they want. Men are so easy it's insane. The wall is a male revenge fantasy. Hopefully their hairline is doing ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:02 AM
1

Men are really surprised when women don't like guys that are too muscular or masculine. Male and female gaze are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:55 AM
1

Do you seriously think women's prime is 27 or below...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:49 AM
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Men masturbating to women being raped should disturb everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:48 AM
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You didn't even give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:47 AM
1

I mean, it's literally functional. It's fixing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:19 AM
1

Because then she can't fix him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:09 AM
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Women want to fix his behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:20 AM
0

Jeremy Meeks was completely memed into reality by black men, gay hispanics, and jewish men. It wasn't women who liked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:19 AM
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98% of violent crimes are done by men. Of course it's harder to find men lusting over female serial killers... Where are the female serial killers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:18 AM
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Women don't lust after criminals. They hope to fix them. Not everything is lust. >If there were more female killers, there'd be more male hybristophiliacs. But yeah I agree on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:15 AM
2

A lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:55 AM
2

No, I hate rap, it sounds awful, and misogyny is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:53 AM
-1

Throw them in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:53 AM
2

Not being sexualized every second of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:52 AM
1

I don't want women in stem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:23 AM
1

No, it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:14 AM
1

How many times are you going to repeat this after I say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:27 AM
1

No I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:07 PM
1

No, I obviously don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:35 PM
1

Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:35 PM
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>What do you think of hookup culture? It's devastating. >Do you see sex as something special? Yes very. >Do you want to lose it with another virgin or someone more experienced? Virgin of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:07 AM
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Stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:16 AM
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Without fail, a man gets mad that hitting women is bad. Every single time. You literally just said the use of "scientific" terms is dehumanizing. You have no problems so you have to make them up. It's hilarious You are a sick pig. And a liar. I knew you were trolling from the first comment you made. You know it's sexist. You just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:40 AM
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No I don't. Your trolling isn't funny. You live in a world without problems so you have to make them up in your head Only a man could say something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:26 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:19 AM
1

I just don't believe you don't think it's sexist. I think you are ok with sexism and enjoy being the type that's "not offended by anything." Why do pro-abortionists get mad when you call a baby a baby? Intentionally using a scientific term for one group while using the normal term for other groups is dehumanizing. Why do you think they're even trying to push ZEF over fetus now? They want babies to sound as robotic and unhuman as possible. That's the reason only misogynists say men and females. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:13 AM
1

I already did, even though I'm trying not to because I want you to prove you're serious first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:42 AM
1

I like the way you're obviously trolling and won't even deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:25 AM
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No, they are not different stages of development. You have failed to convince me you're not trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:16 AM
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Baby and fetus are interchangeable when you're talking about fetuses. This is why I think you're trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:09 AM
1

You know who pro-abortionists get mad you use baby instead of fetus? Like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:58 AM
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It's not. It's when you use man and female in the same sentence. By the same people would would never say male and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:50 AM
1

I don't believe you. I really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:25 AM
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Women obviously. If you could somehow convince me you actually don't understand, you're not politically motivated and showing off how so not offended by things you are, then I'll explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:17 AM
1

It is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:07 AM
1

It's about calling men men while calling women females.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:02 AM
1

No, it's not. Stop playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:59 AM
1

The sub is called men and females. Stop playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:54 AM
1

Did you even look at the name of the sub I linked?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:33 AM
1

Only BLM activists use Latinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:19 AM
1

I assume you're talking about that retarded theory that says things like "uhhh men are taller than women because of polygamy" which no scientist even believes. If non-monogamy was our natural state, it would not cause and be caused by mental illness. ​ And he blocked me haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:37 AM
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Examining these types of people will give you better insight into them than knowing them in real life. You don't know what your freaky friends are hiding. Anonymous confessions and crime reports are more trustworthy. Humans can choose from any animals' sexual strageties. The only one that is natural to humans is monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:14 AM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:01 AM
2

No of course I don't know any "poly" people. Humans are not a polyamorous species.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:59 AM
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They cry themselves to sleep every night and have severe mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:49 AM
1

r/MenAndFemales
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:47 AM
2

Off to jail you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:46 AM
1

Morals I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:46 AM
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That's the goal. So many people miss out on having sex with one person for life, and it makes them miserable. It's the best feeling ever and I wouldn't wish it upon anyone to miss out on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:45 AM
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If a woman thinks sleeping around means confident and in control, that's her problem. I feel very sorry for her too. Anyone with a bit of sense can see sleeping around is insecure and out of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:42 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:42 AM
1

You should feel great that you're not used. You should feel insecure if you were a non-virgin. Imagine having to look your wife in the eyes and claim you love her while you had sex with other girls. Wouldn't that make you feel shifty and insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:39 AM
-1

Save it for marriage, dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:37 AM
2

I think even if a person is a complete "ugly loser desperate incel loner," it's impossible for virginity to be a problem when you're a child. I never see it as a problem, but even by sexually liberated standards, I can't see how an "incel child" is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:36 AM
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I can't see how that's a problem. I try but I just can't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:34 AM
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>would you find it a bit odd if a twenty year old guy you were seeing told you that he was a virgin? I literally can't get over people asking questions like this. Is it odd that a college kid hasn't wasted his life on sex with a girl he'll never see again? Is it odd? What? I would be concerned if a 20 year old was not a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:33 AM
1

"You better be."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:31 AM
0

Women got tired of men doing it. There's no reason women should care anymore unless men stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:08 AM
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It's a fact attractive people have fewer sexual partners. Some get confused that more people wanting to have sex with you doesn't mean you have more sex. It actually means the opposite, because as an attractive person, you can afford to be choosy. Go take a look at the people having a "hoe phase." They're 7s at best, if not 3-6s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:01 AM
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Whores don't exist. >Low standards and low expectations. I assume you answered my question correctly, and you're talking about men here. Women have high expectations and are never whores, which funnily enough, men complain about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:56 AM
2

I'm going to continue hating on evil, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:10 PM
-2

Read some science too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:09 PM
0

Humans are not a polygamous species. That's a biological fact. Since humans are above other animals, we can make choices, and roleplay whatever strategy we feel like. That doesn't mean that's what our species is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:43 AM
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>And the reason women arent clients because if a woman wants sex literarily all she has to do is spread her legs. Hmmm, why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:02 AM
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>99% of clients for sex slaves/prostitutes are men, and virtually all of the <1% of clients who are women are also pimped themselves Oh yeah women do it too, how silly of us not to mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:39 AM
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Despite what anyone says, no one wants the person they love to have been in bed with other people. It's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:34 AM
2

>Disney movies she watched as a child and romantic shows and movies she watches as an adult Wooo can anyone recommend me any romantic movies because I cannot find any. All of them have some adultery plotline.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:33 AM
2

Saving sex and kissing for my husband obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:21 AM
1

You forgot sex outside of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:20 AM
1

It's really not. But you're agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:29 AM
2

Unless the guy is having sex with men, he is erasing the qualities he wants in a woman while wanting those qualities. That's definitely his fault. I'm not an individualist so I think it is people's job to help others how they can, but it's not even about that. Person A is making the unwise decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:57 AM
1

You're right mostly, but impure men who want a chaste woman can just go die. That is also the only trait that directly impacts another person. Wanting a taller man while being shorter doesn't change your or anyone's height. The man who is not pure did actively affect another's chastity, so that example doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:40 AM
2

Do who what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:38 AM
0

Not being pure/loving for your spouse IS evil. Wanting a brave spouse is not evil. How is this hard to understand at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:37 AM
2

I care more than anything how many women my husband has slept with. It's 0 or I'm gone instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:34 AM
1

Catholicism has nothing to do with my views. You asked if I was religious so I answered. It was a random question. What made you start thinking about the whole "No dating after spouses death" thing? Love. You think it's some other reason but it's no. Not remarrying after death is the simple loivng thing to do. Anything else is messed up because it's anti-love. And why do you talk to complete strangers like this is a common sentiment? This is a debate subreddit...? But there's a way to introduce …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:06 AM
1

A catalyst is something that happens before. Not after. I clearly said I became Catholic a decade after finding out the remarrying after death is wrong, and I'm not even sure if Catholicism has rules against remarrying after death. I'm sadly pretty sure they do not. At least you can divorce to their face. The relationship was bad. You mutually separate. Taking advantage of their death to cheat is much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:55 AM
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I became Catholic a couple years ago because it was in line with my beliefs, but the beliefs came a decade before religion. Divorce and any type of having multiple partners is not ok, but it's not nearly as vile as remarrying after death.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:31 AM
1

That's called cheating. No my parents do not believe this. I already answered your question. My catalyst is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:20 AM
0

That has nothing to do with what we're saying. Who cares if cheaters are a minority or majority. It's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:12 AM
0

Who cares what the law says? You know full well you're not single. You're with a dead spouse. I do have a lot of friends but that has nothing to do with what we're saying. We're also not talking about a break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:01 AM
0

You can't cheat on them. Do everything else. Explore. Meet friends. Live your life. Be happy. Heal. Have fun. There's no excuse for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:52 AM
1

Nobody said time stands still. Nobody said life doesn't go on. Nobody said there aren't others in the world to meet and add to your life. Nobody said you can't keep exploring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:43 AM
4

Virgin, kissless, blonde, cute, based, funny, fun to be with, affectionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:34 AM
7

No one actually believes men get more attractive with age. No one wants to believe their peak is behind them, so it's a very attractive option to convince yourself that your prime is as late as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:27 AM
1

A. I literally cannot deal with a nonvirgin. It would emotionally destroy me. As long as he was a virgin because he cares about me and has morals. If he wants to cheat but doesn't, what's the point? That still hurts. And guy B doesn't even like me so... no one is going to choose him anyway. Guy A isn't even bad. I can help him improve his looks and make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:20 AM
1

Women love younger men. All his girlfriends have been older than him, some by like 20 years. Not that that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:17 AM
1

That's lovely. But I don't understand what you don't believe me about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:14 AM
2

You have such a fucked up definition of love. Men are not hardwired that way. You're thinking of fish, not humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:13 AM
1

I think a man who has "experience" with women is not even worth talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:13 AM
1

Who said anything about age? Why do you think being young is a point? You're not "single." The person you love died.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:12 AM
1

Can you tell me what ideology you're coming from that would prevent you from remarrying after your spouse died? Love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:06 AM
1

I really hope you're joking right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:45 AM
1

Because you don't do that to someone you love, or even someone you cared about just a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:27 AM
3

You're literally saying a person who cheats is in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:26 AM
2

There is no objective truth when talking about a person's desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:25 AM
1

Of course you can "move on with your life" after your husband/sibling/parent/friend dies. No one wants you to be sad. We want the person to heal and feel ok afterwards. We're talking about remarrying/dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:25 AM
2

No, men can not do that. That is such an evil selfish definition of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:19 AM
1

Finally some common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:11 AM
1

I genuinely cannot understand what you just said. Oh by 7+ you mean I want an attractive guy. No. I'm not demanding anything. I'm not talking about a guy I want. I said I'm sick of men sleeping around. I don't know what you mean by considered. I'm tired of people's evil behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:08 AM
0

I disagree. A man who has "experience" (nice euphemism) with women is lower than dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:08 AM
1

Can you seriously stop? No one said it's evil or sick to move on from grief. You are a really disturbing person. Of course I don't want people I love to be sad their whole lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:06 AM
1

\^ This is why men need to go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:06 AM
1

I explained this so many times I'm certain you're trolling at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:04 AM
1

I don't have to wonder. Less than a year ago, I was the person screaming that she was a hypocrite and wrong for not wanting attention when she wears that. Then I listened to the other side, and I put myself in her shoes. I changed my gross attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:00 AM
0

What. The. Fuck. I'm tired of men sleeping around. What are you even asking? What do you mean familiar with men's sex lives? If they say they had casual sex I'm tired of it. I got so tired because it's a horrible thing that people keep doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:38 PM
0

I seriously cannot understand what you're trying to ask. I am tired of men sleeping around. I can't make it more clearer than that. Men. Males. XY chromosomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:33 PM
1

That's absolutely sickening. There are no words for someone as evil as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:32 PM
-2

It's really disgusting you think I want multiple men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:30 PM
1

"If anything" means playing devil's advocate. It's not contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:28 PM
0

Dude, I'm tired of men sleeping around. What is hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:26 PM
0

Nearly every category. Women are always abused and crying in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:25 PM
0

I don't understand what you're saying,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:22 PM
1

Dude what??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:21 PM
-1

This is so wrong and sickening to read. Women don't want a used man either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:21 PM
3

Men just need to go extinct then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:20 PM
0

It's a joke...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:20 PM
2

Yeah I meant her husband. Not Cal. She didn't even kiss or touch Cal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:18 PM
0

I'm tired of the guys you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:17 PM
3

Me!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:33 PM
1

Can you stop with this? I said your comment was fluff, and it objectively was. You wrote 4 short paragraphs and didn't make a single argument against the topic. That's fluff. I wasn't "trying to make you feel crazy." People learned how to misuse the word gaslight and haven't shut up since.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:29 PM
2

Religion has nothing to do with the topic so that's a weird question. I don't know why you'd think I'm asexual. It'd be strange to have interest in these topics if I was. Are you unattractive is not a legit question and I'm ridiculously attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:22 PM
1

I'm not going to asnwer that because you know you're being rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:16 PM
2

Sex does not destroy your soul. Whatever you're doing destroyed your brain though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:57 AM
2

That's messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:56 AM
5

Have you ever thought maybe the redpill is retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:56 AM
2

Way to prove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:23 AM
2

That's messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:22 AM
6

I said men and you read hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:15 AM
0

And his first. And her last.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:13 AM
1

It's not attractive. It doesn't attract her. She was already attracted and then this hurt her so she wants it to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:12 AM
2

Notice how you use euphemisms. No one said wanting your spouse to be happy after you're gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:11 AM
2

I'm banned from there for criticizing some woman who had her car running at the beach and spewing gas in everyone's face on the entitled bitch sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:10 AM
-1

That was a long comment for saying absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:07 AM
4

Dude. No one is arguing that people don't get provoked by jealousy into making a move. The trp claim is that women LIKE the fact that the guy they like is/was with other women. Women HATE that. It's painful. I would never say women don't get upset and start putting in more effort if the guy she likes is taken. That's simple desperation to stop a situation that is hurting her. That is not at all what the "pre-selection" crowd is arguing. They argue it's attractive that he's taken. It's not attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:39 AM
1

Everyone is here to argue. The name of the sub has debate in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:35 AM
3

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/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:32 AM
0

You don't win just by doing what you wanted if what you wanted destroys your soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:32 AM
5

Men are telling women what they feel. I'm telling you you're so wrong it's ridiculous. Women HATE when the guy they like is/was with other women. It's painful, it sucks, it makes you jealous, desperate, and upset. You interpret that desperation to take you away from the other woman as her liking the fact that you are with another woman. It's absolute insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:31 AM
2

You responded to the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:28 AM
6

I don't have experience as a woman. I have never tried to get laid. I could not personally tell you how easy or hard it is. I'm using logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:28 AM
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Trying to get laid as a man gives you a sample size of 1. You need to use logic here, not personal experience. I'm not copying anything. I'm not "trying to make you feel crazy." Casual sex is not an achievement. It's very easy to get (sadly). For some people, all social interactions are hard, so asking for sex is hard. That's not the same as sex itself being hard to get. The ease of which someone does something immoral really has nothing to do with how immoral that thing is, though. If anything,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:23 AM
3

Men tell women what they want, then they use that to hurt us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:19 AM
2

Yeah you are. And now you're a coomer on top of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:17 AM
-12

This is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:17 AM
4

You're a man, aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:14 AM
4

Yeah, watching porn is like drinking water... Tell me you're an addict without telling me you're an addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:14 AM
1

Yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:12 AM
-10

Same with guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:12 AM
1

That's not normal at all. That's really messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:43 AM
2

Because he's a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:42 AM
2

Being jealous over a fictional character is definitely weird... unless your partner is attracted to that fictional character. Then not being upset over the situation would be weird. Let's not gaslight. The one attracted to the fictional character is the infantile weirdo here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:41 AM
1

Yeah that's sick. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:39 AM
0

Of course. Attractive guys are more likely to be monogamous and monogamous couples get so much more sex than everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:38 AM
1

You're using the word chad wrong. A chad is an attractive based guy. Slutty men are not chads. Only trp uses the term like that because they're projecting. The rest of your comment has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:32 AM
3

You saying that you currently have a girlfriend so you don't watch porn sounds like you watched porn in the past. Probably when you were young and impressionable, which makes it even worse. Sounds like you need to break up with your girlfriend. If she only wants you because other women like you she's not even worth talking to. Did she tell you this or are you being delusional though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:31 AM
-2

You watch porn, don't you? Your worldview is entirely based on porn and not on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:24 AM
1

Every single slutty man on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:23 AM
3

How dare girls become friends with their friend's boyfriend! Guys are so out of the loop on what women are doing. You do know that men VASTLY overestimate women's interest in them? It's an evolutionary strategy for men to overestimate women's sexual interest/attraction because for men taking the shot is low risk (women don't usually murder and rape men, and can't get them pregnant). These girls aren't attracted to you. They're being friendly with you because their friend likes you. You literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:20 AM
1

I said slutty men, not chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:05 AM
3

Ah so you hate White people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:58 AM
-10

It's not a thing. Men are delusional about what women are actually feeling. You literally think a woman who likes you being upset you're with someone else is pre-selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:56 AM
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Have you ever thought she's liking the photo because her friend/a fellow girl is in it, or it's a nicer photo than your random photo sitting on a grimy couch? Pre-selection is not a thing. You want it to be a thing and I don't know why. There's nothing women hate more than the guy they like with another woman. You're literally misinterpreting women's unhappiness for happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:53 AM
2

Because she wanted to keep you as one of her orbiters then she got mad you weren't hers anymore. What's so hard to understand? This is the opposite of trp. Trp says she liked the fact that you were with another girl. It is clear as day she HATED the fact you were with another girl and wanted you to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:48 AM
3

Virgins have great sex. Porn stars have sex so bad they kill themselves frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:46 AM
4

Everyone wants this. No man would want a woman who wishes she could cheat but couldn't. You cant a woman who can cheat but doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:45 AM
5

I'm so tired of men sleeping around it's not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:44 AM
1

Then you admit she's the victim. That goes against your narrative. You weren't supposed to slip up like that. You only responded to half of my comment. You are a feminist because you are pro-rape, like most feminists. What do you have to say for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:40 AM
1

Victim blaming. Being anti-rape is not feminist. Feminists are pro-rape if you haven't noticed. I can tell you're a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:33 AM
2

Being attracted TO someone, not just seeing that they are attractive, and in this case it's sexual attraction to a body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:05 AM
3

Victim blaming. Your comment is rapey as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:03 AM
0

You're using euphemisms because you know you're guilty. "Appreciate someone is attractive" and "find someone attractive" are not what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:55 AM
-2

It's literally wrong. You know it is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:50 AM
3

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:49 AM
-1

Of course. But those are a lot rarer than slutty men if that's what you're asking. I'm confused why you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:41 AM
0

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:34 AM
1

Well you thought wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:33 AM
2

It does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:08 AM
1

No but both are fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:07 AM
1

Rage?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:06 AM
1

Ah yes people love slaving away for 40 hours a week at corporations, which is why stats prove that's the vast majority of jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:01 AM
1

Because you can't empathize with young women why they feel age gaps are creepy, so it makes me assume you've never been a young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:00 AM
1

Which is a goal for a lot of people. Most people are under-hydrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:59 AM
1

I'm literally an authoritarian. I am the opposite of liberal. I want to ban age gaps by law. I want sex outside of marriage banned by law. I'm not a "lib" haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:59 AM
2

Liberal feminists are pro-age gap. They're the ones pushing the sugar babies and daddy kinks and using men for their money. I'm sorry you see anger everywhere where it doesn't exist. I didn't falsely believe you were angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:53 AM
0

This is trying to be the right take, and you're close, but still way too perverted. Her wearing those clothes is wrong. Modesty matters. Men looking at her is wrong. What she wears is not an excuse, it's your choice to be a coomer. She could be naked and you still shouldn't act like a coom slave. What is NOT wrong is her feeling uncomfortable around perverted men. What is wrong is wearing the clothes she is pressured by society and corporations to wear. (Try going to the store and finding modest…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:49 AM
9

This is so wrong. Young girls' clothing is sexualized. If you can't see that, you're the one sexualizing the kid by thinking they look normal in sexualized clothing. It's not normal. Let kids be kids. You seriously think a mom who doesn't want her child to wear booty shorts is having pedophilic incestual thoughts about her kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:45 AM
1

Short is cute. Older is just awful. Oh I skimmed too fast and by short I thought you meant like 6 inches shorter. By short you meant 1 inch taller? Hahaha. I'd choose a dwarf over a guy 5-10 years older. No contest. Older men are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:39 AM
4

Being a slut is the goal for a lot of women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:36 AM
2

>men who can bang other women. This is the exact opposite of man who does bang other women. It's a million times better to have a guy who could cheat but chooses not to, rather than a guy who wants to cheat but can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:36 AM
2

The people slut shaming and the people virgin shaming are two different groups of people. Virginity is based. Slutty men need to be put in their place. (Jail.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:33 AM
1

Yes I love emojis. They look cute. Just don't use the rofl cry laugh or cat face ones because those are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:32 AM
1

Try being a 26 year old woman and you'll probably get it. Women are naturally on guard around men who want to have sex with them, and older men are even creepier. (I'm not 26 yet but I can imagine.) The only way it works is if the guy is really childish (in a good way), looks a decade younger than his age (which is barely possible for men in their 30s), doesn't prefer younger women and only likes her by coincidence, would just as happily date a 38 year old, wasn't sleeping around, doesn't hang o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:29 AM
2

Great, so all sides of the table agree you're being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:57 AM
0

One of what women? Why are you not responding to anything I said and just using insults? It sounds like admitting defeat. You could at the very least insult AND argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:56 AM
2

Uh yeah I already read a lot of books on evolutionary pyschology. It's funny you need to pretend someone who disagrees with you is uneducated rather than just disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:56 AM
2

Good thing I'm not a liberal feminist and I don't care about "choice" and "consent." I care about doing what's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:06 AM
2

And he consents to be a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:00 AM
1

No they're not. A woman doesn't give a single crap about a woman's age if the guy she likes is with that other woman. She cares he's with her. Age so irrelevant it's like nonexistent. It's absolutely insane to think women are jealous of age. And older women are way too old to be having crushes and getting upset he likes another woman. This seriously does not happen. You're trying to analyze something you don't understand and push something that's not there. I don't know why it's so hard for men …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:00 AM
1

You clearly don't know what predation is. You don't even know what consent is. There are plenty of situations where saying "I consent" is not valid consent. And the thing is, consent is irrelevant because we're talking about predation. I'm sorry you were used by a creep. It's hurtful and it can mess up your ego for a long time. He doesn't need to do that to other girls though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:50 AM
0

Almost every woman is against age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:43 AM
1

Yes. Now you're getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:43 AM
1

Is that not literally what I just said? What on earth are you asking???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:42 AM
2

Her husband. So the one she married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:42 AM
1

What do you mean move on? The same way you'd move on from a dead brother or sister? It's very weird to call it "moving on" from a death. You don't "move on." You heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:42 AM
1

That's not something you can consent to. That's not how predation works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:41 AM
4

This is untrue. You heard this somewhere and thought it sounded cool. Men are born with their value but lose it very fast. Boys are adored and cared for but then they grow up and need to be the ones to work. It sounds like you're saying women's only value is to be an object for men, which isn't value at all. A man's past is more important than his future. You can change the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:40 AM
2

Honestly no. Women just look a lot younger than men. I am a little confused why everyone looks younger than their age. It seems like we just need to shift our notion of what ages look like down. I think men are tipping the scales because they often look older than their age. We should separate it by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:38 AM
2

I'd be complaining with her. That is creepy. Also this completely dismantles the lie that it's "jealousy," unless you're seriously going to claim she's incestually jealous over her own cousin. It's not jealousy and everyone knows it. A woman is just as disgusted, if not more disgusted, if her brother/cousin does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:32 AM
1

Not an argument. Notice you won't even address what they're saying and just use ad hominems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:30 AM
-1

Ah yes, someone who has never met nor seen your boyfriend in their life totally wants him, and they definitely have no concern for you dating such an old pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:29 AM
1

Yeah 25 and 36 is not ok. It's best to leave her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:28 AM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:27 AM
1

Is it that hard to believe women have empathy for women? I guess it is as a male, since you have no empathy for women. Unless perhaps it's your 22 year old daughter and you'd never want her dating a 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:25 AM
1

Yeah he's a predator. Being able to consent doesn't mean the other person isn't a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:24 AM
1

This is a male revenge fantasy that doesn't happen in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:23 AM
3

Yeah that's White women at 45 honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:22 AM
4

It's not jealousy and you know it. You're acting like women agree with you but only pretend not to. Is it that hard to acknowledge women just disagree? This jeaousy thing is a male fantasy. "All women want my balding ass and the ones who say no are actually just jealous teehee."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:22 AM
1

And how they used a woman who looks 35 for the 21 year old. Put an actual 21 year old there and she'll look like a baby, then this meme will start looking creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:20 AM
1

She moved on from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:15 AM
1

The way you say it is funny but you're right. When the person you're in love with dies, you heal from it and go to friends, family, and yourself to feel better. You don't need another person romantically. If you loved your spouse you'd never want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:14 AM
2

A couple years isn't going to make a difference. You either care about them or you don't. I will never understand psychopaths who remarry after death.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:11 AM
1

The dick bigger than yours thing is bizarre, but everything else you're saying is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:09 AM
2

You need serious help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:08 AM
0

Duh. Does that even need to be said? Loving your spouse is insecurity now? You have serious issues. No one even brought up insecurity and you have to indulge in your obsession with it. People who remarry after death are the most vile people on the planet. Divorce seems tame in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:08 AM
2

Women liked the movie because of the illusion of purity between Jack and Rose. The movie deliberately misguides you into ignoring the fact that Rose has a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:06 AM
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Remember when the young virgin pretty boy btfo'ed the older, richer, taller guy? Now you know what women actually want. And yes Jack being a virgin was canon. He literally said he never had an affair with the French ladies. He was super nervous and shocked when Rose took off her clothes. He froze, his jaw dropped, he couldn't speak, he misspoke, he blushed. He was "trembling" during sex. Women love virgins. It's cute. It's romantic. There's nothing better. Even an over the top virgin like Jack. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:59 AM
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I don't want to look attractive to boys. Beauty is a virtue on its own. I want to look good like a painting. I want to be a high status human. I don't want them to be attracted to me. Boys being attracted to me makes me depressed. I always imagine some other girl has a crush on him and I'm hogging him when I don't even want him. And I don't want boys to see my body for privacy reasons, that has nothing to do with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:53 AM
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I never heard of the movie you're referring to so I can't comment on that. As a side note, attractive women sexually hate older men. That's common. When you have your looks going for you, you won't settle for an uglier older guy. You want the young hot one. In real life, Ariana Grande's husband is younger than her. Almost every single Hollywood starlet in history had a younger husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:48 AM
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This isn't duality. She is pressured to be an sexual object to perv on even though she doesn't want to be perved on. I used to be one of those idiots who thought there was some contradiction here, but there's not. Women are taught to be nothing more than objects for the male gaze, and then when they're uncomfortable with it, they're taught that they're not allowed to have normal, modest feelings because they are just an object for the male gaze. You're not allowed to escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:40 AM
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You're proving my point by looking at "trends" instead of looking at what women actually want. Trends mean nothing. People do things they don't want to do most of their life. You implied you were against age gaps by saying men don't want them and men are just following what women want. Now you're back to being a man who likes age gaps? You should be fighting against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:35 AM
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I don't agree with a word you're saying because you completely ignore women's desires and the abuse women receive, but at least we're both against age gaps. How do you plan to end age gaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:25 AM
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27 and 32 is pretty gross, but at least it's sort of reasonable. I assume you mean the man is the 32 year old? 32 year old men are really rough looking, often cynical, burnt out, totally used. A 27 year old woman who's not dating a 25-27 year old man is probably just looking for money. She doesn't want a guy whose face is sagging and head is balding unless there's something else to be gained from it. Someone can be a victim of a predator at any age. Age has nothing to do with it, and you know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:35 AM
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See, you're admitting it. Women don't like age gaps. Guys simply have it drilled into their head by other men that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:31 AM
1

Your question has nothing to do with the conversation, and you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:22 AM
2

Stop deflecting. This is about predatory men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:14 AM
1

Sweetening the Pill by Holly Grigg Spall The pill uses synthetic hormones, and not in the proper dose that your own body gives you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:08 AM
1

Depression, panic attacks, bone issues, vitamin deficiency, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:45 AM
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Yes. What the literal fuck. How could you even ask if 24 and 36 is predatory? Of course it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:45 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:44 AM
2

Because "incels" hate virginity. They're clearly anti-religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:36 AM
2

Or I can focus on the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:33 AM
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Literally everyone knows it's not jealousy. You use it as an insult to make people shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:50 AM
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It's definitely a thing. It probably comes from mental and physical health issues from being on birth control. I'm surprised there isn't more talk about the thousand pussy stare, which men have too. A lot of teenage boys even have it. You know the way guys tilt their head down a little and dead stare into the camera with their beer can? Yeah that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:35 AM
3

Thank you? What a weird and random compliment in the middle of an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:29 AM
3

And there are the insults when you lost the argument. Women hate age gaps. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:41 AM
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Fuck off, groomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:35 AM
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Uh yeah that's kind of why women hate age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:34 AM
3

So you're one of those perverts lashing out to defend his own behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:34 AM
3

The irony of your statement is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:18 AM
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Because he's a sick Hollywood rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:18 AM
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You are a man. You have absolutely no say over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:18 AM
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Maybe you should try to see the other side for once. I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:58 AM
5

Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:57 AM
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I don't care. Age gaps are predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:57 AM
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Yes, I'm a woman. Women hate age gaps. That's what I just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:56 AM
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It doesn't. They're mostly correct in their assessments. What they say is logical and they show reasonable disgust for sick men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:20 AM
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How can I tell you're a man? Only men misunderstand women this badly. Another woman would never think this, and every single woman on the planet knows you're incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:15 AM
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Like 99% of school age relationships are the same grade or one grade apart (and yes the girl is often the older one). I really don't know where on earth these guys are living that they say age gaps are common.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:02 AM
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Notice how your views on women and age gaps come from personal bitterness rather than what women are actually like? Women hate age gaps. YOU like them, so you lie blatantly and say women like them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:59 PM
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Intelligence has nothing to do with it. What a weird comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:49 PM
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How do I know that you're a man? Literally only men think women are jealous of younger women. Every single time you see someone trying to pit women against each other, it's a man. Men are so delusional about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:38 PM
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>Women in high school will be dating seniors when they are freshmen, 25 years olds when they are 16-18 This doesn't happen. >"Eww hes a predator, eww hes grooming her" Yeah because he is. >Its hypocrisy and jealousy at its finest. No it's not, and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:31 PM
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Every single time someone is against age gaps, it's a teenage girl or young woman. Predatory misogynists invent that it's old women because they find older women an easier target for their bullying. It's so messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:26 PM
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In reality, people don't like predatory men. You know full well it's not "jealousy."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:24 PM
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Ok then as a young woman I'll keep calling out predatory sick men. Your post is sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:24 PM
3

If you're too young for a baby, you're too young for sex.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 06:47 AM
1

Literally what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:34 AM
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I have no idea what you're referring to. I've never seen women attracted to those types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:18 AM
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You spend way too much time on the internet. This doesn't happen in normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:17 AM
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I'd love to live where you live where men are not promiscuous. This also must be your first day on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:11 AM
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The first girl who ever sobbed in my arms that the guy she liked wasn't a virgin (we were 17 at the time) lost her virginity at 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:45 PM
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I don't "think" women cry when the guy she likes isn't a virgin. Women cry when the guy she likes isn't a virgin. That is a fact. That happens. You're probably a male so women don't confide in you for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:33 PM
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>says something you disagree with and have clearly not experienced yOUrE LyINg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:21 PM
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No one doesn't want a man because he's a virgin. They don't want him because they do not believe he isn't an incel. Most men would take any woman who wants him; a man who rejects all other women to save it for one woman is rare. So if you're a virgin man, many women assume you want to lose it but haven't gotten the opportunity yet. Why would you even lie about your virginity to get women as trashy as that to want you. That is just bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:53 PM
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Says the guy who got ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:23 PM
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Yeah this is what happens when you're very unattractive and socially awkward. Read my comment again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:22 PM
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Maybe you just haven't talked to women privately that much about their sexual preferences. I assume you're a guy? I find it extremely hard to believe you'd find any disagreement in what I said. It's so obvious no one can disagree with it. I think you just want it to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:20 PM
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You didn't read a word I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:19 PM
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Ok? My comments are common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:18 PM
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In real life you will next to never hear a woman talking about male virgins in a negative way, or else the other women will give her nasty looks and leave her. In real life, women cry when the guy she likes isn't a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:17 PM
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It's pretty hard to estimate but several thousand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:16 AM
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Astrotufing. Most memes do not arise organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:02 AM
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No. I don't have any feelings about them. They're usually there for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:54 AM
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I wish you were right. Unfortuntely it is the reason normal men get hate, because women have taken men for their word that they will bang anything. So a normal man must want to bang everything but can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:53 AM
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What do you mean when you say feminine? Do you mean pretty boy with girly looks, or like gayish? I don't think women like that latter that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:53 AM
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I'm showing this thread to my German and Croat friends (2 people, married) and they're disgusted by all the people saying that a body count of more than 0 is ok. Americans are so whorey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:52 AM
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So that makes it worse for men. Deliberately being promiscuous is a lot more promiscuous than just falling into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:48 AM
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"No no that's only a thing for women so I'm fine lol," said the man who got ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:48 AM
1

Yes. I only want a virgin guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:41 AM
1

You just described how it's infinitely worse for a man to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:18 AM
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People who make it a competition need help. It's fully bad when either person does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:17 AM
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No I have never worried about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:03 AM
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Yeah, it seems like something certain men want to be true, but it clearly just isn't. I have no idea why they want it to be true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:57 AM
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This applies to everyone of both genders. A woman with attractive women. Men with men. Women with men. Men with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:52 AM
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Women are reacting to the woman, not to the man. Women are friendly and social with women, so they include the guy in her friendliness too when he's with the woman. I think that should be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:50 AM
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It's definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:47 AM
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No, that would be an instant turn off, attraction-wise. As for NOT attraction, I might think of him as a little more nice and wholesome, if that's what you mean. I also understand how women would feel more safe around him if he's with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:45 AM
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>Do women who are into “cute” or “feminine” looking guys exist? 90% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:44 AM
2

You're kidding, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:43 AM
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Someone's opinion does not change what morality is. No matter what anyone thinks of virgins/nonvirgins, it cannot change what virginity is. Virginity is literally the same for everyone. The complete mental gymnastics required to pretend otherwise is just wacky. It's literally virginity. It's the same. The people commenting in your post DO NOT distinguish between male and female virginity, so it literally goes against your point. They have the exact same views on male and female virginity. Male v…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:24 AM
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This isn't a thing. Imagine if 'insert perfect looking guy here' said in his fun, confident, socially adept tone and attractive voice, "Heh yeah I'm a virgin I'm saving it for my wife." Women would be ALL. OVER. that. They'd prefer that over anything. No one wants to share their man. They just have reason to believe that a guy is an "incel" because 99% of men make it very clear they'd bang anything that breathes. It's so rare to find a guy who's saving it that it's hardly an option. Your options…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:20 AM
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Waiting for sex is objectively better than not waiting. Every single scientific study proves this over and over again. The only people who will try to convince you otherwise are either sinister sadistic people, or regretful people who can't admit they messed up and want more miserable company in their mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:43 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:57 AM
1

I very much hope you screenshotted it so everyone can see you're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:56 AM
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Stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:05 AM
1

No. No. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:05 AM
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I didn't say you asked me to apolgize. Stop with the stupid questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:04 AM
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I will not apologize for defending love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:43 AM
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In case you have forgotten, you are the one who said I wanted to shoot people. I never said that. I explicitly said the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:42 AM
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My morals are universal. Experimenting with human beings is evil. Toying with people's love is evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:41 AM
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you’re in a relationship... suddenly stop finding other people attractive. That's... how it works. You’re not involved with that person; emotionally So you don't have a crush on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:51 PM
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Um what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:50 PM
1

No, it does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:00 PM
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Society tells them so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:59 PM
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This is objectively wrong. You can easily control who you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:58 PM
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Desire is absolutely in your control. People who say otherwise have neurological issues that require lobotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:58 PM
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Yes it is... Literally wtf. Of course it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:57 PM
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but no one else has to. I disagree with this. I think others have to live morally. As I am not a libertarian, libertarian arguments will not convince me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:53 PM
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That is an opinion of yours that I do not agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:13 PM
1

And why are you telling me this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:36 AM
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Obviously. I'm worried you even ask that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:17 AM
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I'm sure you are aware that black men are disproportionately targeted by the poice for their crime rate? Meaning the police shoot black people significantly less than every other race when adjusted for population size and crime rate. You would know this if you weren't quick to believe purposely unreliable narratives made up by media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:12 AM
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You save sex for one person. Period. There is no excuse to be a vile piece of shit. And you even victim blame and say it's the person's fault for being a decent human.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:10 AM
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Causing people severe pain can be pretty evil, especially when they are the purest, kindest, most loving, innocent people. No one deserves that. I can only imagine how painful it would be. There is no excuse for it. It's beyond evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:59 PM
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This is why we don't care about "racism." It's your fantasy, not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:57 PM
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Not saving yourself is flat out evil, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:27 PM
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Anything and everything is racist, so nothing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:27 PM
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>How do you feel about knowing that a lot of men will sleep with anything? Nauseated, scared, sometimes sad, empathetic towards these men. >Does it terrify you that you might end up being settled for? No. I'm not touching a non-virgin male. So this won't happen. >Are you grateful that smoking hot guys are willing to be so generous with their sexuality? No, scared. And I feel very sorry for them. >Do you feel guilty knowing that a lot of it stems from low self-esteem and desperation? Why would I …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:18 PM
1

By definition, adultery is sex with anyone other than your spouse, before or during marriage. Fornication with your sprout is not adultery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:09 PM
1

That proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:08 PM
1

Yes? Racism has been meaningless to most people for a while now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:38 PM
1

Sex is definitely not a skill. I can sort of see how people think blow jobs would be since you get used to it being in your mouth. However this takes a short time, definitely not something you'd want your wife doing with other guys (no matter how long it took). And it's very important to learn it with one guy so you learn what he likes instead of learning what other guys like. And not everyone needs to learn how to not gag. Some people already naturally do not gag. If you are that worried, pract…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:35 PM
1

Yeah that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:49 AM
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>When a girl is young, say in that teen to early 20s age range, she’s the most attractive she will ever be. I cannot take this seriously if this is your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:39 AM
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And she's not comfortable that you slept with other women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:33 AM
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Sexism is way too broad/misused a term to have any meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:45 AM
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Women get the same exact "benefits" as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:47 AM
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That is terrible for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:41 PM
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If by benefit, you mean like a heroin addict benefitting from getting more heroin because he thinks that's what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:00 PM
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Blow jobs is definitely something you want to learn with one person. The next guy might HATE the way you learned it with the previous guy. It's very easy to learn how to do, but hard to break habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:39 PM
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You want a virgin if you want good oral technique, because you want to tell her what kind of oral you like, not what her ex boyfriend liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:36 PM
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It's been proven that women with more sexual partners are less willing to try new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:35 PM
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You can get a woman who made past mistakes they regret too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:28 PM
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Wanting money is not immoral. Sex is a moral issue. These are not even slightly comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:27 PM
1

So less science, you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:24 PM
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He found non-virgin women on reddit saying they want a non-virgin man (out of guilt for their own non-virginity they can't admit they want a virgin man), and he thinks that somehow applies to virgin women. It's just delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:24 PM
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I feel the opposite. Virgins aren't awkward around women. They're normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:23 PM
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Don't spread this lie. You'll be EXTREMELY hard-pressed to find a virgin woman who is ok with a non-virgin man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:22 PM
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If a woman wants a non-virgin man I will absolutely ridicule her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:21 PM
1

That's a paradox. Since it involves both genders equally, it must be equally damaging to both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:13 PM
1

Virginity in men should be a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:11 PM
1

It's not hypocritical to be poor and want more money. It is hypocritical to be immoral and want everyone else to be moral for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:11 PM
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Isn't all redpill liberal? There's hardly anything traditional about their views.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:07 PM
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I've never seen a woman talk about a guy she's interested in doing this. They're always commenting on strangers. Not all women are concerned about the women. Some women are too busy attacking the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:36 PM
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In my opinion they are not attractive in the photo, especially not Clooney. They are far too old and manly for me. If other people think they are attractive that's fine. I don't see how I'm dodging anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:16 PM
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You said women criticizing age gaps comes from a place of jealousy and rejection. Women, who are the ones who actually know what they feel inside, know this is not true. Unless it's about a specific guy, women hardly even know what rejection and jealousy feel like because women of all ages have a very easy time getting plenty of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:14 PM
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You don't experience other women's emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:02 PM
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Dude what? That's my point. Even YOU post an old photo of them to show when you think they were attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:01 PM
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It's an old photo, and I literally said they both look old there... Can you not read? Source the date of the photo. "Billions of women wanted to fuck them"... holy shit you are unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:47 PM
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You proved my point by posting an old photo of them. And they still look too old there, especially Clooney who looked like a grandpa when he was 17. >You probably think all women like vanilla sex and prefer emotionally vulnerable men too because that's what makes you feel good about being a woman. I don't think this? Quite the opposite. Do you see how your entire worldview is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:32 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:30 PM
0

So thten you would agree that it is reasonable for a woman to be creeped out by a guy who is so old and interested in sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:06 PM
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So you think the guy is an asexual who wants a lifelong celibate relationship with this woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:59 PM
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I think I'd know what women and girls like a little better than you do. Some women might say Hemsworth and Pitt a few decades ago (not Clooney) look good, but they would be disgusted if these men were to actually flirt with them. Hemsworth and Pitt in their 30s look decent if you grade them on a curve to account for their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:58 PM
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You're joking, right? Almost every single feminist is pro prostitution, pro porn, pro age gap, pro casual sex, pro sexual liberation, pro empowerment, pro blah blah consenting adults, pro do whatever the fuck you want. Maybe about 5% of feminists are against these things, aka radfem instead of libfem. You really need to get off this sub and see. You will find very few feminists criticizing choice feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:18 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:15 PM
0

I never said men are only out for sex... Are you trolling right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:14 PM
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That's too easy. Because it's awkward as heck to be shrieking over someone who is your equal (the same age), let alone younger than you, especially in teenage years when every year adds a lot to your intelligence. So you'd basically be yelling over a guy whose brain cant even think like yours. You won't see teenage boys doing it either. You want to fangirl over someone who is above you and more mature than you. You want to feel separate from someone you're looking up to. After the teenage years,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:12 PM
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I purposely did not assume anything. I made no commentary about the fact that he is too old, unlike you in age, and sexually interested in you. These facts alone are too much. That's literally a libertarian view. If you don't want to dictate what others do, that's radically libertarian. I am not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:56 PM
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You copied and pasted this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:55 PM
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I disagree. Wanting a certain height is shallow but not abusive. Wanting a younger person is abusive. It's not a requirement or fetish based on gender, that's based on how the person feels about their preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:54 PM
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Nobody believes this. You're not going to convince anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:53 PM
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That's not a traditional view, no. Get out of here with your concern trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:52 PM
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So this man is asexual and trying to find a partner to be celibate with for the rest of his life? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:51 PM
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Yes that's valid. You're so far into extremeist anti-racism that you don't even realize it's perfectly valid to be conscious of a race. It is perfectly valid to judge someone by their looks. They are not entitled to your comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:50 PM
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Why do you feel they are creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:49 PM
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Age gaps are fine if it's by pure coincidence and they're not too far apart. As long as the man isn't attracted to the fact that she's younger, and as long as there are an equal number of relationships where the woman is older, then there's probably no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:48 PM
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>when you call men disgusting you call women disgusting Hahaha that's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:11 AM
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The first two are facts. The third doesn't assume anything. I'm not a libertarian so I couldn't care less about your desire to not dictate what others want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:37 AM
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Sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:10 AM
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Yes they're valid. A man not comfortable with a woman because she's slutty is just as valid as a woman not comfortable with a man because he's older/slutty. Anyone asking someone to be comfortable with either of those is really gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:08 AM
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I know you're joking but men actually say this because they can't imagine someone disagreeing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:06 AM
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>too old for you, unlike you, and coming onto you for sexual purposes None of these are assumptions. >Machiavellian self-interest How DARE women think about what they want when finding the husband they want!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:05 AM
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It's more than fair. It's necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:40 AM
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Age gaps are one of the most basic types of creepy. The creepiness of a man who is too old for you, unlike you, and coming onto you for sexual purposes is a textbook biological reason to be instinctually alert and back away from him. Females are very social and will of course alert their peers to stay away from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:13 AM
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Explain your views further.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:08 AM
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Women would love to date younger men but they don't as often because of insecurity. Sometimes it is social conscience, as you described, but a lot of the time it's just looks insecurity. I was talking to a girl a couple days ago who said the guy she's interested in now was way hotter when he was in high school (we are early 20s), and she wants him now, but she'd rather date the physical high school version of him. Except for the fact that she "doesn't want to look less cute while standing next t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:33 AM
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Thinking something is creepy is absolutely valid. It is a response that comes before fear that keeps you out of dangerous situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:18 AM
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As a traditionalist I cannot tolerate age gaps. There is no way a 30 year old spent his entire life not lusting after other women, saving himself for marriage, somehow didn't get married young and has a good excuse for not marrying when he should have, and then he's suddenly attracted to a college kid way outside his age range for no nefarious reason and totally wants to be a loving husband to her and isn't just being a fleabag. Age gaps are utterly degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:00 AM
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Let's get it out of your head that women are jealous. They are not. They are rightfully disgusted by the old men and empathetic to the women. Normal people don't think about age difference, and they end up always dating someone near their age. Guys consistently hitting on younger women are purposely doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:57 AM
2

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:45 AM
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Proof women who marry older men have issues. (jk but really lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:40 AM
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It's depressing that we live in a culture where saying people should be treated nicely gets you called an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:37 AM
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Because women are nearly never seen as creepy. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:26 AM
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Dude, most men wouldn't even want their 20 year old daughter dating a 24 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:23 AM
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Redpill men cannot see women's point of view if their life depended on it. They can't even imagine it's anything other than jealousy. The funny thing is, it's everything BUT jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:22 AM
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Literally no one actually believes this. You know the reason older men are shamed for dating younger women are because they are creepy, predatory, and degenerate. A man can date a richer, shorter, hotter, higher status woman, no one cares. It's the age gap that people are so disgusted by.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:19 AM
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Women's feelings are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:17 AM
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This but unironically. Only feminists shriek about "two consenting adults" and defend such an obviously sick relationship. Feminism is a gift to predatory men. There are a very small group of radical feminists who thank God have common sense when it comes to being against age gaps, but nearly all feminists are liberal feminists, and they fight tooth and nail for their daddy kink and ability to be a sugar hoe for some perv.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:17 AM
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Nah. Age gaps are creepy because it's stomach-turning that an older person would be interested in basically a kid. That is not someone they should be into whatsoever. Height? Wealth? Who cares? People of the same age have different traits. >i believe the reason why it's shamed is that 30+-year-old women can't compete with hot women in their 20s for the men they want. They're not competing for the same men, so this is obviously untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:13 AM
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Definitely this! Women in their 20s are cute and lovely, but women in their 30s get so womanly and gorgeous. How is 20s-40s considered old? Is the life expectancy 50 or something? 30 is so young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:57 PM
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This, and "incels" used to just be people... it's normal to not have sex when you're young. But then men made it a game to see who can use women the most, and men started getting mad they weren't using women. They became angry and hateful so now they're "incels."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:13 AM
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I agree we need to stop using the term "incel" because it is rape culture and pressures people to have sex, tells men to use women. But it's not women - for the most part - who are bashing guys for being virgins. It's other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:09 AM
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Sure but then same goes for women. Aging isn't a thing if you have money (and don't mess yourself up TOO much with drugs).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:58 PM
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When did I said attraction has nothing to do with love?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:54 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:29 PM
1

Thank you for projecting what you personally would do onto me and convincing yourself that I'm lying because you desperately value money above all else. I don't want to throw my entire life away and get raped daily for money. I don't even fully believe you think I'm "bs-ing." You're just mad that someone wouldn't date those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:52 PM
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I don't think women are offended by the "men can have periods" nonsense. It's the "men should be allowed in girls' locker rooms" part. There is absolutely no excuse to letting a male into women's private spaces, no matter what your politics are. It's the fetishization of female bodies. You'll contantly hear mtf transgenders treating women like a walking pair of boobs. I didn't even believe the second part until I heard example after example of mtf men talking about their "woman's" body they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:48 PM
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I don't know what you mean now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:00 AM
1

This insult is so boring that ironically it makes the person saying it sound like the one who isn't fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:30 AM
1

Braindead take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:55 PM
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It has nothing to do with skill or experience. It has to do if they care or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:23 PM
1

Stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:22 PM
1

Dude. People know what they're doing when they have sex. Sex isn't baking a cake. It's easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:40 PM
1

Yeah I read that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:39 PM
2

Someone who'd lie about that would be a messed up person and surely would have other red flags that make it obvious they're untrustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:38 PM
1

Plough horse?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:37 PM
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It's not a gendered thing. Cheating isn't love. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:48 PM
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There are plenty of virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:42 PM
1

It's not for nothing. It's so you can live your entire life with someone who loves you rather than a "community partner" who was having sex with other men before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:29 PM
1

That's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:20 PM
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There are virgins, but I understand you're hyperbolically saying there are almost no virgins. And I wonder why that is. Maybe stop sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:19 PM
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>Men 30+ should go for younger women 20+ and old women 30+ should go for men who are ready to settle down 45+ You sounds like you're just being funny, but I can't tell. Do you actually want everyone to be miserable haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:17 PM
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>was promiscuous >is divorced As always.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:14 PM
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You mean get one woman, keep her, and make a lot of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:14 PM
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This one part collapses your whole argument. >Most men should go through a wild phase similar to women. This only offers benefit and reduces sexual jealousy of past partner count of your SO. >reduces sexual jealousy Sexual jealousy is caused by promiscuity. So you're literally saying we should make the problem so bad that people are too messed up to care. Everyone should be so bad that the problem just becomes a chaotic gigantic clump that everyone is involved in, and people feel like they can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:13 PM
1

Not even the most impossibly clumsy person needs to practice sex before having it with their real partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:01 PM
1

Then it's not love. It's fine to say 99% of people aren't in love. Romantic love is NEVER conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:00 PM
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I already explained that. Poorly. You seem to not understand the difference between 'subconscious' and 'controlled' Don't pretend I don't know the difference when you simply disagree if it's controlled or not. What does that means "reacting to a person"? Looking at them? Talking to them? What? What? We were talking about how your brain "reacts" to a person you're attracted to. You know how there can be someone gorgeous but they're not your type or whatever so your brain doesn't feel anything whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:59 PM
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Why are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:16 AM
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Of course I would love him if he was deformed... What are you even asking? If it's not unconditional and selfless it's not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:59 AM
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And those men are having promiscuous sex, so there's their problem. There's a reason hook ups/casual dating is so physically unpleasurable. You're not into it and not as comfortable as you should be so you can't act natural. Sex doesn't need to be taught. That's like saying hugging the one you love needs to be taught. It comes out completely naturally. You DO need to tell them your specific preferences anyway, regardless of how many others they had before you. So there's no reason not to prefer …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:58 AM
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No you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:28 AM
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>And why would I fall in love with someone before I have sex with them? If you have to have sex with them before loving them, or if sex is a factor in your love, that's not love. Love is pure and selfless and unconditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:27 AM
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Defining it as trying to cheat But what's trying to cheat? You're still defining cheating by saying this. as that's a subconscious reaction which cannot be controlled Of course it's controlled. If it wasn't controllable then it wouldn't be an issue. Every human brain reacts to sexual stimuli, that's not disloyalty. I'm not talking about reacting to sexual stimuli. I'm talking about reacting to a person. The most common reason that people talk badly about someone is because they think the person …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:31 AM
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Promiscuous people are so weird. You don't have to teach someone how to have sex. Even if you did, saying you "don't feel like" being with the person you love is messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:19 AM
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>would still prefer a man with experience "Experience" is a euphemism for he had sex with other women. I'd only accept 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:08 AM
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No. Not if you paid me a billion dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:53 AM
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Like setting up a date with that person and planning to have sex with them. You seem like you have a personal definition of disloyalty and it's not clear why you arbitrarily draw the line there. The only place it makes sense to draw the line is at the beginning, not somewhere random in the middle. When people tear down other people it's always because of insecurity & jealousy. This is so false. There are a ton of reasons why they do it. Why would you say "always" when it's not even the majority …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:29 AM
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Beeing attracted to an attractive person is not disloyal unless you are a super insecure & pathologically jeaulous person. Explain? Her behavior is the evidence. I assume you mean insecurity is the only explanation for her behavior. You claim her behavior cannot be caused by anything else. Proof of this? Explanation? How can a situation which happened who knows when who knows where and has nothing to do with oneself make you narcissistic. You were saying that talking trash on someone because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:46 PM
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Thinking someone else is attractive is the same as having a crush on them? Nobody said this.... Maybe your definition of attractive includes intent. No it doesn't. Being attracted to someone means your brain reacts to their beauty in a way you wouldn't to a family member. You have a gorgeous sister? You can see she's pretty and you are not be attracted to her. But if you see a person and your eyes/brain feel differently than you would with your sister, that's attraction. You don't have to be att…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:06 PM
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>The bf never was disloyal He was attracted to another girl. >and being insecure and butthurt There is zero evidence she was insecure. >is no excuse to act shitty. How narcissistic do you have to be to think this is "shitty"? >By you excusing that behavior you are just showing that you are a trash person yourself. Oh, but talking trash on people is abusive. So you are abusing me by calling me a trash person. Stop abusing me please. You're being very abusive right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 10:49 PM
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Please explain to me how you can prevent an innate thing like being attracted to someone By not being interested in their looks. By having a crush on someone else. If you are struggling, you can just train your mind to ignore it / denounce it until it goes away naturally. people who are attractive As it's already been pointed out to you, this is a euphemism. Nobody said "people who are attractive." This is about people who you're attracted TO. I love beauty in many things, like art and people, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:45 AM
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He was attracted to someone who's not his girlfriend. That is never ok. If you can't even like someone enough to not be attracted to others, stay single. Do you prefer it when your girlfriend is attracted to other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:30 AM
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and the bf did absolutely nothing wrong, This is why you will never empathize with normal human beings. You can't even recognize how horrible it is. Talking trash is soooooo abusive that you are doing it right now. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:15 AM
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I'll let her respond but you sound ridiculous. Critcizing someone's bad behavior does not mean you are condoning the other person's behavior. Where do you even get that from? Can you show me where she "condoned" it? You're simply saying she did without proving it, and it's obvious she did not. "via saying that not letting her do so is, quote, "abusive as hell."" Yeah.... suuuure.... she TOTALLY said this. She totally didn't say the gaslighting aspect of it was the abusive thing. Yep, she said sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:52 AM
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u/flowerwoven never said that. Please quote where she did. (Hint: You won't be able to because you just lied about another user to make yourself feel better.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:37 AM
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"No one was advising it," people in the comment section are DOING it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:35 AM
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You are encouraging the bullying of an innocent women literally did nothing wrong except simply existing and also being hot because you are an insecurity apologist. Is this comment a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:33 AM
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What's the solution? You do realize they only reason they say negative things about other girls is because the boyfriend won't be loyal on his own merit. The only way to make him loyal is by convincing him the other girls aren't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:32 AM
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This is so wrong it's not even funny. It has nothing to do with insecurity. The reason they "trash" another girl is because they are unable to make their boyfriend be loyal to them by other means. Their only option is to try to say the other girls aren't good enough for him to be disloyal to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:31 AM
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This also reads as a massive "Hope she reads this bro." Hot women don't care if someone says something bad about them. Any decent person would not be bothered in the slightest by it and would go help the other woman. No one has a victim complex THAT bad that they would feel "bullied" by a woman being upset their boyfriend likes them. I would literally be RELIEVED that I actually found out about the situation and I can go help the woman. Most of the time the other woman never knows it. The man is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:25 AM
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