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1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? They mentioned playing games, not video games, hanging out with friends, being ready chill ect. He didn’t mention “this guy does nothing meaningful to him.” Because meaning is all relative. Someone can be unemployed and someone can find that job to be meaningless while the person working it finds that to be meaningful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 06:08 PM
0	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? I mentioned a counter example of two women who are divorced who had husbands who had additional funds after marriage and aren’t poor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 04:18 PM
1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? The OP didn’t mention the the scenario that they wouldn’t be doing something they view to be meaningful…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 04:10 PM
0	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? You’d just get a large chunk of the assets that have been accumulated after the marriage began.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:42 PM
1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? The difference would be that the person has shown the ability to earn and generate income compared to someone who just inherited money. That’s a pretty important distinction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:40 PM
1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? I don’t even tell women when I grind. I’d also say that the advice of being careful what you disclose basically is relevant to any situation a man can be in financially and work wise. I talk more about the general concept of what I’m doing on an emotional level and don’t really get into hard facts. I agree, I definitely wouldn’t say, “I live off of a fixed income,” but I also wouldn’t say, “I grind and do x, y, and z.” Just a general overview that is honest and based on an emotional level is usu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:39 PM
1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? They can also completely collapse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:36 PM
1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? That’s an issue with pretty much any decision. If you decide to work at company A instead of B, get an education, or build a product, it is a gamble. Reddit, the platform you’re using now, was a gamble, like every other company/job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:36 PM
-1	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? At that point you wouldn’t necessarily work. It’s unknown how a human will respond to never having to worry about actually making money again. Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates may have had wives who assumed they’d be working until 67 too, and then they did work but not in a traditional sense. Mainly non-profit work which opened up p,entry of opportunities for leisure and travel as well since they didn’t have to actually make money. I’m not saying that’d be you, but given the scenario the OP mentioned y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:30 PM
2	Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income? By having passive income like the OP highlighted. An example would be interest income from a savings account; although that’s a very basic example. The OP mentioned aggressively investing in income-producing assets, so that could be real estate, and then at a certain point the individual can just let their money work for them even if they don’t currently have a job. This means at one point they likely had a job or inherited wealth. Assuming the funds came from their own savings; they wouldn’t be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:24 PM
1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" I do want to throw in that I don’t meet these women via dating apps. I think that if you do that it’s not possible and the proximity issue does factor in. However, if you’re actually around younger women it isn’t hard. You’re viewed differently than some 19-year old dude who’s a hookup. I was 19 once and see the difference. I won’t go into detail, but I have confidence that I was viewed as more of a hookup at that age than a serious person to have a relationship with, and for good reason. I see …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 03:11 PM
2	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" This is my experience since I’ve been in my late 20’s/early 30’s. It’s easier to date a 20-year old now than when I was 20. I was mainly just engaged in hookup culture in my early 20’s, but the women that age obviously see me differently now because I am different. And that’s all wall theory says. It’s not some revenge fantasy. It’s just simply what tends to happen often based on male and female preferences in the sexual marketplace. People like the OP seem to mistake that for some cult of men g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 05:56 AM
0	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" That can be your opinion, but again, it’s based on sexual market place value specifically. You’re getting into how you feel about that, which is really beyond the scope of wall theory. Wall theory is simply from a male perspective in terms of sexual marketplace value. It doesn’t say, “this person has no value after this point and time and should feel bad about it.” The idea that it was “created by a genre of men that seem incapable of recognizing that women do not constantly dwell on inherit sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 05:50 AM
1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" What you mentioned could be true and doesn't really get into wall theory which is just the theory that women are less desirable at a certain point in time in the sexual market place. By all means wall theory doesn't say women might be excited by this. That's beyond the scope of wall theory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 09:29 PM
1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" The concept of the wall wouldn't fall apart. You are leaving out that men have a preference towards dating younger women. So, at a certain age, a woman is less desirable than previously. For men, the opposite occurs. They're more desirable up to around 37 than they were at 20. It basically flips. The mistake is in thinking one sex is winning over another. That's not the reality. It evens out. Most Red Pill men I know acknowledge that it isn't really better or worse from either perspective. On av…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 09:22 PM
1	Don’t. Ever. Fucking. Quit. Securities in terms of equity as an asset. It wasn't that I gave up on it, but in the process I stumbled upon software engineering because I didn't give up on trying. One day I was like, "wait a minute, I could just build an entire platform to manage finance," and then that just snowballed into actually starting a startup.	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/23 12:55 PM
0	CMV : The reason you think lots of average men are in relationships when actually they’re not I'm not sure how we are defining average here? I'd imagine that it'd be more common FOR THE AVERAGE GUYS to be in relationships; which is likely why you see them walking around with women. They ARE THE ONES who are in relationships. I believe that a lot of studies have shown the ones who aren't average or the main ones single along with those who are below average. I see no evidence that average guys aren't the primary men in the 18-30-year old range who are getting in relationships. As they app…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 12:15 AM
5	Don’t. Ever. Fucking. Quit. I've personally been through this. Around 2017 I decided to start programming so that I could get a job as a securities analyst. I had no background in engineering and only a limited background in finance. People generally made fun of me for working like a maniac to learn, my GF at the time eventually left me and called me a bum, and I was generally depressed. God allowed me to not quit, and years later I got a job as a software engineer; which wasn't even my goal. Now I'm starting a startup and…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/23 11:39 PM
3	The first rule about power is you do not talk about power I tend to agree with this and think this touches on some critical issues that might be more subtle. Having a higher purpose and actually being passionate about things will remove the need for needing to display power explicitly. It probably shouldn't even occur to a Red Pill man that his wife/girlfriend is following him because that isn't the point. That is a natural byproduct of living for your purpose. For me it is following God with whatever I do. For some it is something else. But the point …	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/23 11:31 PM
2	Redpill is simply patriarchy Which Red Pill activist has implied that their main fight is to uphold modern gender norms? I'm not saying you are right or wrong, but what are the specifics because I find it interesting. I've never seen them simply fight for gender norms. Many are attempting to explain the current world we live in and how humans currently behave. I've never heard anyone say, "It must always remain this way and I want to fight for this to remain this way."	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/22 10:43 PM
7	Women aren't attracted to 'nice' This means people want to be treated well to a degree, but they don't need "niceness" to the HIGHEST degree. This is why dudes who are jerks still attract women. It's because they're not ALWAYS jerks and can treat a woman with some baseline level of niceness, even if they cheat on them and do other things from time to time. The fact that they're not ALWAYS jerks and can treat people with a baseline level of kindness is enough for some women (or vice versa with some men being attracted to women w…	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/22 02:56 PM
7	Women aren't attracted to 'nice' As others have mentioned, people just want to generally be treated well. This is why we see people who are usually jerks attract women, along with guys who are generally nice attracting women. The niceness doesn't particularly matter, and women/any human can usually sense when someone is only being nice to get something in return. As a man, I can see when women are being "nice" to get something, and women can see when we are being "nice" to get something. So the niceness is just a baseline expec…	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/22 01:43 PM
1	The Number 1 Mistake That Majority of Men Make. I was exactly in this situation a few years ago. Stressed every day trying to have "success" in the eyes of society and my ex girlfriend. I actually took the advice that I knew deep down all along; to actually do what I wanted to do and utilize logic and I'd be fine. I started just randomly coding because that's something I always enjoyed. She called me a bum and left. I stuck with it anyway. Years later, I make about 3x what she makes, but do not care because I'm not doing anything to please ot…	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/21 07:06 PM
1	Ex Boyfriend blows up a new plates phone You’re both right on some level. Men do need sex, but the extent to which we need it is overblown. Guys can focus and get things done, and have sex when they need to, without obsessing over it. It’s called balance. Something that other guys have told me, and what I live by, is to not devote more than 10-20% of your time towards women. If there is a seriously urgent matter (like an illness in the family, or career opportunity of your lifetime) you might have stretches where damn near 0% of your t…	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/20 05:44 PM
1	Ex Boyfriend blows up a new plates phone Spinning plates isn’t supposed to be a lot of time and effort though. Somehow guys who are pulling in 80 hour weeks and building real shit manage to spin plates. Elon Musk like just had a kid and the dude sleeps in the office. I’ve never bought the argument that spinning plates is that much work. If a plate is work, she can obviously be nexted. From my experience, when people say it’s too much work, they’re really just investing too much time in something that doesn’t require that much time. Man…	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/20 05:39 PM
1	Made a post about meeting up with my ex-LTR recently. Initially agreed but after receiving advice from askTRP have decided not to. Best communication option moving forward? Ghost	/r/askTRP	13/11/20 01:15 PM
2	Why Are We Forgotten At College? The office determines if there was a violation and a staff member and other faculty make the decision. This is in spite of actual law enforcement concluding that there isn’t enough evidence for a criminal charge. That’s due to Title 9 which lowers the burden of proof. This disproportionately leads to male students being expelled, even in cases with highly questionable evidence. That process needs to be ended, and will be ended. Those offices won’t be around in 10 years.	/r/MensRights	09/11/20 09:57 AM
2	Why Are We Forgotten At College? I find it odd that the Office of Diversity and Inclusion is essentially saying something that 99.9% of people in the world know and understand. That people can be sexually assaulted... The amount of young men who have been expelled due to decisions levied by Diversity and Inclusion offices around the country lead me to believe that they have an ulterior motive. For example, several football players at the University of Minnesota were expelled in 2016 for a case that didn’t have enough evidence f…	/r/MensRights	09/11/20 09:06 AM
3	Why Are We Forgotten At College? I don’t think those policies have much hope as we shift to a gig economy. People can leverage technology today without actually going to a physical job location. There are many ways to curtail the rules and simply engage in work relationships based on merit, not quotas. This will obviously depends on enough people not complying with the rules or paying attention to the propaganda from the Biden presidency. I’ve always thought that approach was the most rational way to avoid a political quota sys…	/r/MensRights	09/11/20 08:56 AM
2	Why Are We Forgotten At College? The general value of education declined when the higher education sector became funded by governments instead of the colleges actually having to provide a good service to make money. This gave room for initiatives to begin that aren’t relevant to enabling individuals to think better or gain marketable skills in the labor market. Some of the initiatives are related to feminism and gender wars, as you noted. This will continue to be the trend if schools aren’t required to actually depend on provid…	/r/MensRights	09/11/20 08:53 AM
140	Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egos Many younger men don’t value themselves due to many factors in our modern society. They’re deprived of female attention and have been told by Disney fairytale movies that inflating a woman’s ego is the only way to attract a woman. It’s common and has been common for 3-4 generations, while men become increasingly beta. Your feelings are normal for someone who’s awakening to the Red Pill.	/r/askTRP	09/11/20 08:38 AM
1	jealous and envious? You prevent these feelings by putting your self interest first and either living the lift you want to live or working towards it. Every guy has been there and most guys get over it the same way... Focusing on what’s in their best interest and developing the kind of life they want to live. I was in this situation like three years ago and felt the same way you do. Then I started making moves and had to work around 16 hours a day to become successful, and then build a new social circle and build re…	/r/askTRP	24/09/20 01:12 AM
1	I am very resentful about missing out on the reckless "fun" of college/early adulthood My view on the situation is that you have to left yourself up. I was in a similar situation a few years ago. I had to lift myself up and bring my own energy. I wasn’t dependent on other people bringing it for me. I found sources of information, inspiration and highlighted the things that mattered to be. I perused those things with great effort. I welcomed other people if they came along for the ride and wanted to be uplifted, and I ghosted the people who did not/dragged me down. That’s what I’d …	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 07:11 PM
1	Money & game I have a fairly good amount of money and don’t go around spending it on women. I don’t mention that I have money, but it’s relatively obvious based on where I live and what I drive. I’ve never had the issue of any woman with interacting with being repulsed if I simply treat her like every else and don’t pay for her shit.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 07:05 PM
1	Money & game It just helps your game. Rollo Tomassi has an article on this regarding the time Steve Jobs didn’t pay for a woman to get a new dress. If anything, not being used by a gold digger helps.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 07:00 PM
2	Failing at day game You are telegraphing too much interest, likely showing no traits that show off your SMV and you’re too dependent on the outcome. If they don’t text you back, that’s something you should be ignoring instead of waiting for a text back. You are overly invested. You are ahead of most guys because you at least approach. I’d continue approaching, but I’d highlight my SMV, likely escalate more sexually after breaking rapport and I definitely would drop the act of waiting on them to reply to me on socia…	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 06:57 PM
2	What would you do if you are dating a girl and she keeps meantioning her ex? This is an alpha widow. She’s gone. At this point you can keep her in the rotation as a plate, if she isn’t too much trouble. But yeah, she’s an alpha widow and the comments she directed at you are obviously disrespectful and not worth putting up with.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 06:52 PM
1	I am very resentful about missing out on the reckless "fun" of college/early adulthood Figure out what you need to do to attain the things you want, instead of living in the past. You want friends? Go take the steps to do that. You want a better job? Go take the painful steps towards doing that. Want to move out? Again, focus 100% on the steps to do that. If you do that every day, you won’t have time to dwell on the past.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 06:50 PM
2	I am very resentful about missing out on the reckless "fun" of college/early adulthood The past does not matter. Figuring out what you want to do TODAY and taking the steps you need to take each day to achieve your girls is what actually matters. The past is over. Be better today and do the things you want. If you put your focus on that and take responsibility for your present and your future, you will not be bitter about the past.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 06:49 PM
1	What does this mean, and what do I do? You have already messed up because, in her mind, you threw away a long relationship with your “girlfriend” for the new girl. The new girl will look at this as you overvaluing her. You shouldn’t even mention that you’re dating someone else unless you don’t want to get laid. She might still sleep with you. You can proceed and see what happens. Follow what I mentioned above in the future though.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 06:46 PM
1	Money & game With expensive attributes because that’ll naturally be a part of attraction. A rich alpha is better off than a poor alpha because the rich alpha has more resources, freedom and is not dependent on anyone else financially. I’m not making the argument that you have to be rich to be alpha or get laid. I am saying that being rich can enhance a man, especially if he leveraged his alpha traits to get rich. It’s similar to the point that looks matter. All things being equal, a more physically attractiv…	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 06:43 PM
1	Let's say you have a woman with medium interest in you. What do you do to increase that to high interest? You need to spin plates and be seen with a social circle. Anything that demonstrates that you’re a man of high value is good. Typically something as simple as posting a good time you’re having with people on social media can do the trick if she follows you on some form of social media.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 06:38 PM
2	Do any of you guys get by fine with just masturbation? Okay, but you’re talking about the CHOICES average people make. The Red Pill doesn’t tell you to be like the average person. To the contrary, it refutes some of the beliefs that “average” people have, which influence their decisions. Someone can choose to be above average, have confidence in their goals and still live a rewarding sex life. No one said the average person makes the choices or has the discipline to do that. The goal here is to not be average.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 05:39 PM
1	Do any of you guys get by fine with just masturbation? You don’t have to sacrifice a ton of time to having sex. For example, we can highlight many men with plenty of children, women and an active sex life, but they’re more productive than most of the population. You can be sexually aggressive and have a sexually satisfying life while living a productive life. If you work 16 hours a day for 5 days a week, you can take a couple hours a week to still have sex and still be more productive than most of the population today.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 05:37 PM
1	Lost cause? Yeah. I would’ve been more specific and set something up. Not sure why you’re beating around the bush on Tinder. She MIGHT hit you back up, in which case you should set something up. There really isn’t need for small-talk when it comes to Tinder. If you are going to use an app like that, get to the point.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 03:46 PM
1	Just tested and proved redpill, could also use advice Don’t mention it and only speak to her when she’s actually there, which is what you actually want to do. Build up a good collection of plates, which is what you already want to do. If she shows up and wants to hangout, it’ll happen. Your car won’t be an issue if she’s already attracted and is down. You just have to focus on being high-value and doing your thing.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 03:44 PM
2	Extremely left-wing teachers Do it. As has been mentioned on this sub before, if you’re even asking the question it is a sign that you WANT to do it. See what happens when you speak out and then adjust accordingly. A huge aspect of the Red Pill is having the courage to do what you actually want to do, analyzing the consequences of that and doing whatever benefits you the most. We can’t do that for you. You’re going to have to go speak out and do what you actually feel compelled to do.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 03:41 PM
2	I wanna throw my phone in a lake I take “Focus Fast”. You can check it out here: https://www.gnc.com/brain-memory-support/451601.html. The reviews are mixed on it, but it works for me. I would advise against taking Adderall. It will help you focus, but it will also mess up your brain chemistry long-term. That’s why I take the vitamins instead.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 04:58 AM
3	I wanna throw my phone in a lake I just make a plan of what I want to do during the day and I stick to it. I also take vitamins, eat healthy and exercise. I take specific vitamins that help with my ADHD as well. Lastly, I turned off all of my notifications. If I want to check something, like Reddit, I do that on my free time. I didn’t want notifications distracting me like that. Occasionally I’ll give myself a limited amount of time to play on my phone. A phone can be a great tool if you use it as a tool to better yourself, for…	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 04:52 AM
3	Frustration / mindset about not getting sex on the first date I’d say that you should be on to the next girl. If you don’t want to hangout with this one, don’t. If you don’t want to hangout with women who don’t have sex with you on the first date, don’t. I also wouldn’t “try” to make her jealous. This is something that should happen naturally if you have options and are spinning plates. You shouldn’t have to try to make someone jealous. It will occur naturally because of the lifestyle you should already be living.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 04:48 AM