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Means you’re gei
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:25 PM
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It's a shit test but in my experience I try to avoid women like this. They're good for one night stands and anything past that you'll come to learn that they are broken in some way on the inside.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 03:40 AM
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I see alot of friends use their money to market themselves. Most of the time I don't care because they dont have money and just putting up a facade. For friends that are really wealthy, I always warn them to tone it down or they will attract the wrong women. I purposely drive around an old 2009 civic now.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 04:44 PM
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Lol exactly, if you can even find a father that even gives two shits. I've only seen this happens in traditional Indian and asian families. Most of the time they are of the upper class anyways so the women tend to be a little more conservative.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 03:57 PM
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Lol reminds me of an ex that needed a cosigner for private college loans. I have an exceptional credit score because I pay everything on time and started building credit when I was 18. She was angry that I was not willing to cosign 50k/year with a 9% interest for undergrad and we soon split after that. I do check her reddit account occasionally for comical relief because her life has been a downward spiral.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 01:32 AM
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Take this as a lesson and learn to recognize the signs of oneitis. Maintain your frame and dont be anything short of an alpha. One of the biggest mistakes I used to make was disguising myself as blue pilled. A lifetime of romantic movies convinced me that women wanted true love. I would try to act all naive and "confess" my love to girls I was interested in even tho I just wanted to sleep with them.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 01:22 AM
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I haven't been on tinder for almost two years. It's legit toxic lol because there just so many fatties and hb6 thinking they're 9+. The more cold approaches I do in person the more success I find in both my personal and professional relationships. Rejection thickens your skin which allows you to reach your goals without fear.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 01:09 AM
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Leave the girls attached or in your group alone. Don't shit where you eat is the motto so obviously don't hit on your coworkers/friends. The less mutual friends the less drama there is. Women talk and gossip all the time and it could cockblock you later down the road.
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:57 PM
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I agree completely. The more you stay in your head and perfectly plan everything you'll more likely hit a plateau. If you constantly have to repeat "be in frame, show her you're alpha by blah blah blah" you'll always come off robotic. Internalize all these things and then just let go. Success will follow a little bit at a time.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 04:54 PM
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One trick I still do to this day that I learned from some random pickup artist video is that when the night is over and you're moving in for that kiss. Rather than making it super serious and if you're rejected you'd be hurt, I would make it light hearted and say "hey close your eyes, I PROMISE I won't kiss you". She obviously knows you're going to kiss her and either she can reject it or allow you to. Either way is a success because if she rejects you there's no awkward silence and you can regr…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 04:53 AM
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Lol this. This is such a common thing that women do to justify their actions. No matter how much was sacrificed, it doesn't matter because they weren't happy 1 day 2 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 08:40 PM
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I look at Instagram as a tool. It's successful because I can put myself out there and foster a higher smv. I use it to my advantage by putting out a fuckboi/cringy personality. When they meet me in person they find out I have a warm and nice personality. This clash between the two personalities draw women in and they never want to let me go. My recent post was me in my $60k audi but I made my caption sound like i was just posing in front of a stranger's car. It made women I don't know become int…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 01:49 AM
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In the case that you go to college, try to go to a state school. I regret not going to one when given the opportunity. I ended up at a small private school where everyone knew everyone. I definitely fucked around the first few years but I felt like there could have been so many more chances/choices if I was at a bigger school. Girls gossip and I felt that it has cock-blocked me on more than one occasion. Keep it up!!
/r/seduction02/11/18 04:01 AM
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I mean there are ways to outperform for sure lol. Sildenafil will make you fuck for over 2 hours and your dick can get so numb you either won't ejaculate or your refractory period is so short it doesn't exist. Tell me that you won't be able to outperform 15 other guys in comparison when she can't even stand up the next day cuz you caused her pussy to bleed.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 05:00 AM
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Money is useful only if you know how to use it. The worst trait that I see is when people try to show off how much money they have. In reality, they are actually very poor and take loans to afford their "flashy" lifestyle. My best friend is from a wealthy family but he still dresses like an homeless person lol. He drives 2017 SUV (lower tier brand) but the car was paid in full at the dealership. You wouldn't expect him to be wealthy but he has "fuck you" money. The type of money where models wou…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 04:45 AM
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I was this way for such a long time. I thought to myself that having money and being stable will stop my SO from cheating. Experience with past relationships have taught me AWALT. Women only seek pleasure and their own emotions, logic is nothing to them. That's why I make it clear from the very beginning of my relationships that I am a broke college student and will be for a long time. That even if we get married I will make her sign an airtight prenup no matter what. It's either a prenup or get…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 06:12 AM
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I convinced my FWB to get a copper iud and it's liberating not having to stress if she gets pregnant.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 12:41 PM
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LTR? No lol she just sprung the whole wanting a relationship idea and I'm not down with it
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 04:30 PM
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Women play hella mind games but you have to play it better. This HB7 fwb girl was opening up to me post sex about her past trauma and expected me to open up to her. That's one of the largest traps people can fall into and the best way to keep frame and be vague as possible. Idk how I feel about her because she likes to play mind games. I told her that if she was considering a relationship with me I wouldn't tolerate anything less than what I wanted. She told me that she had deleted tinder a few …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 12:52 PM
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Money wont be able to buy you everything. It can't buy you game and how to make women fall for you. I have friends that are quite wealthy but they have social skills that is equivalent to a rock. They love to flash and flex their money to cover up their insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 04:23 AM
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I feel like you're letting on less than what is really happening. I've been to my alot of college parties and yet my college had one of the smallest undergraduate class in the U.S. Never have I ever been rejected to a party or been turned away. I was not in any frats or clubs. Can you seriously tell me truthfully that you show up to a house party with 3 decent looking girls and they stop you at the door and tell you that you are not allowed to come in? I've will even cold approach a crowd of gir…
/r/seduction08/05/18 04:35 AM
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A million times this. Very sound advice that OP should take notes on. If you lead a life and mentality of abundance she will want you. She's saying these things to wean out the crowd. The beta males who can't play the game and the guys that only want to smash. It's sort of a defense mechanism that she's convinced herself that it will filter out all the "subpar males" even tho she may be promiscuous. If you can win her over she will easily sleep with you and become even more enamored by you. She …
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:12 AM
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I always ask their name even tho I already know them from social media. To them you're a stranger and if you address them by their name their "creep" radar will go off. Play it safe and act as if you don't know who they are.
/r/seduction06/05/18 03:48 AM
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This fact needs to be sidebarred tbh. I can't imagine how hard it is mentally and emotionally being a virgin in your late 20,30,40,etc. I remember how shitty and depressed I felt when I was ~15 years old. It seemed like every guy was losing their virginities and I didn't. Every waking moment you think you're not good enough. It's that little darkness/sadness sitting in the back of your head. It steadly grows and makes people become bitter. It's okay to go at your own pace and lose your virginity…
/r/seduction06/05/18 03:46 AM
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Once you realize it doesn't matter what you say, your life changes forever. If you can say it boldly and with confidence you will have this magnetic pull of the people around you. I went to hang out with this HB7 asian girl at her house. She was legit shit testing me all day telling me like "we're just friends, you're so ugly, etc". And I was like "shit, I'm sad I thought we were going to be best friends". Then I was like "oh shit did I just get friendzoned? I've always wanted to get friendzoned…
/r/seduction06/05/18 03:41 AM
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It's been a crazy week. Here I thought I peaked in first grade after being chosen as a line leader for a day. I split up with my SO of ~6 months a few days ago because her jealously was bleeding into my daily life. I've always been the provider type in my previous relationship. Always paying for gifts and things for my SO just to make them happy. I spent money I didn't really have. I convinced myself that their happiness was worth it. I would never get anything in return. At best I would get a c…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 10:46 PM
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That's the problem with BPD individuals. If you never experienced it before then you can't relate. Even if you read about it you still can't put your finger on it. People with BPD can blend in so well and connect with people so easily and covertly. It's only until they are pushed to the limit is when they explode and destroy you.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 10:49 PM
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Women ain't shit lol because most of those that I've met have yet to impress me. They contribute nothing and bring nothing to the table. Funny story, one of my best friend is this asian guy. His white gf broke up with him a month ago because she felt like he wasn't going anywhere in life. She wanted to branch swing because she thought she had better options. She contributes nothing but a hole. Little does she know he is actually one of the wealthiest people I know. His great grandchildren will n…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 10:44 PM
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You might not think it will get better but it will. Better now to end it at 4 month than to draw out the relationship for almost 4 years like I did. Keep improving yourself and good things will come. When my last LTR ended I was going off the deep end because I built up this perfect image and it deluded my sense of self. When it finally ended I felt like I could never feel the same again. That feeling only lasted a few weeks. Now, I have two dates lined back to back next weekend and I'm debating…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 03:58 AM
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Learn and grow from it. But do understand the problem of just enjoying the chase. The chase eventually ends no matter what. I was exactly the same way for many years.
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:46 AM
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I've been learning PUA since I discovered it when I was 16 and I have failed so much since then. Let me tell you that some of these fails are out of this world. But at the end of the day each success will eclipse hundreds of your failures. Even to this day I still make mistakes and I still fail but I have gotten so used to rejection it doesn't faze me. A majority of the girls that initially reject me come back to me because my actions doesn't fit their expectations. They expect me to become beta…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 10:18 PM
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One problem I find a lot of people doing is not actively practicing their social skills/PUA. They will run scenarios in their heads and not actually going out to pick up women. When they stumble over their words and fail in real life, they are convinced that their SMV isn't high enough and that PUA techniques don't work. They become bitter and start blaming everyone for their failure.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 09:25 PM
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Cut all contact is the correct course. I could never understand why anyone would want to get back with an ex. She probably fucked another dude and moved on within the day you split up. Set your own personal boundaries and cut toxic people out of your life for good. You'll want to show her up and prove her wrong but its not worth it in the end. I had a toxic ex and I was so hung on the idea of her I lost sight of who I was. It wasn't until my brothers sat me down and forced me to realize that she…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 09:21 PM
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Same shit happened to me before lol. I had really bad sleeping problems my freshman year of college and I was using melatonin to reset my sleep cycle. My fwb at the time wanted some dick and I ended up falling asleep while she was on top. She was pissed but if you just play it off like shit happens and she'll let it go. Don't really sincerely apologize.
/r/seduction15/04/18 09:14 PM
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Fellow asian and I'm from a small city where there isn't alot of cultural diversity. I went to Toronto this past winter and I had such an insane amount of success it was unbelievable. The shit tests that I normally received was almost nonexistent.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 09:06 PM
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There have been certain milestones in my life regarding my own self improvement. I discovered PUA community to become more social and becoming better with women when I was younger. I've had failures and success. PUA only takes you so far and doesnt dwell into how to maintain women and LTR. I just discovered this subbreddit and I feel like I hit a treasure trove of knowledge. This discovery of TRP is my current milestone. I began dating roughly 2 months after my LTR ended. I've had a constant rot…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 11:48 PM
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Normally I would next the girl if she didn't answer my texts. This one girl who I have a date with this weekend got me fucked in the head. Like she doesn't answer my text until days later because she's busy. I'd typically just delete her number and go on with my life. However, she's in a intense BS/MD 7 year program that's highly selective and she has a lot of exams and stuff. I guess I understand but it's kinda the grey area where there's a legitimate reason why she takes so long to reply. Then…
/r/seduction06/04/18 03:26 AM
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I get that packing your schedule will help improve a boring existence. Understand that OP and anyone else needs to have a day to themselves to unwind. I was grinding 70-80 hour/week and I felt exhausted and worse than before.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 10:57 PM
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Lol he is spewing bullshit. Look at his post a week ago. He asked what to do because he was too nervous to talk to his TA about missing coursework because he has bad anxiety. Within a week he changed his entire personality and now he's pulling girls and they all want to worship his dick. Too afraid to talk to a TA lolol. Prolly a neckbeard with delusional tendencies.
/r/seduction31/03/18 03:51 AM
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Of course and as I said that not all women are like this but alot of them are. It really depends on their upbringing and the stability of theirselves and environment. If they were raised in a strict environment and unable to have freedom, they are more likely wanting to go the opposite of extremes.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 07:24 PM
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I would say that the age range is around that. Simply because college is not the real world. College is almost an extension of high school with a few real world situations thrown in the mix. It's not until women get out into the real world they experience how tough it can be. It is only then they become mature.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 07:22 PM
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I wouldn't commit to a LTR in your early years because it is not a good idea. Many women are trying to find themselves and they believe the best way to do that is to sleep around and party. They don't realize their mistake until after they've been used and thrown to the side. This is not always the case for all women but the general majority is like this. Its a hard pill to swallow that's for sure.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 08:30 PM
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Don't worry about asking embarrassing question. We are here to help no matter the situation. You should know your refractory period which is the time before you can ejaculate again. Before the date, time it right and clean the pipes prior. Jerking off more than once a week may be a good idea because it desensitize your penis when you do have sex. Another way to fix the issue is to buy a plastic pussy toy that simulates a real vagina. Practice on building stamina on that and you are good to go. U…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 08:24 PM
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My largest blue pilled moment was when I was in the end/rocky stretch of my last LTR. I was always exerting my frame and projecting unwavering opinions on my expectations and such. Realizing that I was going to lose her I recanted and completely changed my opinions to save the relationship. It was only a few days later I realized what I did and how blue pilled I became and decided that the relationship was over and I started going out on dates within the week. Don't ever change yourself and conv…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 08:18 PM
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Find a workplace with interactions with alot of people. I found a job in a hospital simply for the large quantity of women there
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 05:33 AM
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How do you deal with the fact that a girl may or may not become fat during the duration of the relationship no matter how well she looks now? For example, lets say you meet a girl who is skinny and athletic and you get married and over time she gets fatter. Or she gets pregnant and never loses the baby related weight gain? I personally believe its best to find a self conscious girl with borderline anorexia tendencies. She will always be self conscious about her body to never go to the fat extrem…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 03:41 AM
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How would you go about navigating this seeking communication stage and not give into the usual predictable male patterns?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 07:13 AM
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Make sure to keep on her so she doesn't become fat.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 04:47 AM
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Another way you can ask for consent is being obvious about it. If you're someone who isn't comfortable or can't easily say aggressive sexual things without breaking frame, you'll likely face LMR. You could phrase it like a joke/shit eating grin and say "can I put my penis in your vagina?" It has worked every single time for me.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:36 AM
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Always trust your gut no matter what. I got into a relationship back in high school prior to going to college which became a LDR. That was stupid of me but she was cute and innocent HB6 who was going through the end phase of her anorexia. She was 17 years old, 100 lb petite 5'2'' girl and had her personal baggage. I was always trying to fix her emotional and other problems i began to transform into a white knight. I fixed her emotional problems and she was confused about her future. She was lazy…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:08 AM
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It's more like OP is overly excited by the fact that some girls followed him on insta. I mean that's great and is a win. But he's sorta setting himself up for failure. By all means message the girls in their DMs. But social media game does not have any substance toward improving OP overall. Every single attractive girl has a ton of guys sliding into their DMs. I don't want OP to get his hopes up and be too excited and when the girls don't reciprocate with his level of enthusiasm. He's going to b…
/r/seduction27/02/18 09:37 PM
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Are you being serious right now? Like it's common sense.
/r/seduction27/02/18 06:56 PM
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Take other people's advice and dodge the bullet before it's fired.
/r/seduction24/02/18 06:26 PM
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This subreddit has changed dramatically over the years. It has always been geared towards the beginner and intermediate PUA community. The only questions that were asked were for complex shit tests and situations. Now I see a ton of questions that are common sense and it blows my mind why they were even asked in the first place. For example, "a girl classmate keeps touching me and pinching me, does this mean she could possibly like me and what should I do?" Like seriously? Everyone in the post w…
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:12 AM
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A related advice for you is that you should not dwell on whether you have improved or not. I understand you have social anxiety and over analyzing every situation/interaction is a common habit. You have to realize that over analyzing every situation will hinder your self improvement. Have you ever been in class and wanted school to be over? You constantly looked at the clock, wishing the hour hand would move but it felt like your perception of time slowed down? Over analyzing each situation is e…
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:00 AM
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Contact her in a week after no contact or unless she reaches out to you first to make plans. Don't make the mistake of acting mad/tight about her not reaching out to you. Come from a mindset of abundance and she will pick up on it.
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:33 AM
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If you don't have the balls to get what you want you deserve to have the girl taken away from you. I'm not trying to be a dick but simply reminding you that the world is a shitty place and does not owe you anything. No one is going to wait for you and to baby you until you get it. Dont be so naive and get over yourself.
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:08 AM
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Don't stress my man. Break ups suck especially if it was your first. I've been through a few relationships and the breakups get alot easier. My first and hardest breakup was when i was 16 and i felt my life was over. I went through another break ~ 4 months ago? (Idk i dont even remember). Shit sucks but was really easy to get over lol
/r/seduction20/02/18 03:56 AM
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Don't think too much into it. Ignore and next her unless she actually engages you and makes definite plans. Women are like this. If you put them on a pedestal and overthink it you'll come off as needy.
/r/seduction20/02/18 03:52 AM
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One thing about eye contact that no one in this subreddit address is the intensity. Every post about eye contact is to have intense eye contact 100% of the time. That is a bad thing to do because more often than not, you look like a weird sociopath or have autism. Obviously don't look at the ground when talking to someone. Use direct and intense eye contact to drive the message home. Use it for when it truly counts. For example, I was flirting with this girl and she just wasn't feeling me too mu…
/r/seduction17/02/18 02:20 AM
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One of my go to tricks that's worked every single time is from simple pickup back when they used to be PUA. Have a shit eating grin on your face like you're teasing her. Tell her to "close your eyes I promise I won't kiss you" if she closed her eyes she wants you to kiss her. If she doesn't and has a negative reaction don't go for the kiss.
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:54 PM
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It's going to take time, but you'll get there. I just feel alot of newbies just try to achieve more than they are capable of. They like to dissect and analyze every situation. Not that its a wrong thing to do, I did it when I was starting out PU back when I was 16. But eventually you will break through a wall and you will no longer need to analyze everything. Once you hit that stage, your confidence will shine through to the women around you. This leads to that sexual spark which will result in …
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:50 AM
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You need to work on yourself first. Trust me when I say there are lots of beautiful women out there. She's nothing special.
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:45 AM
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That's the biggest trap card I've ever seen in my life. This is not what you can consider a relationship.
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:38 AM
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You pretty much answered your own questions fam. The subject of her being happy is not the issue. If you aren't well at sparking attraction and gaming a girl in a relationship, you have almost no chance of getting her. Even if you do get her, is she worth it? She may have just used you for her own self validation. I could be completely wrong because I only have your side of the story to go off of.
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:35 AM
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True. But I'm just saying that like why would his friend have any indication to lie about a fake bf? Just check out her pictures and social media and you'll know if shes single or mention a bf.
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:27 AM
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There's nothing to confront her about. If shes willing to cheat with you shes willing to cheat on you. She has no value as a decent human being. Move on to greater heights, dont let a random hoe change you as a person. Just approach her as you would normally as platonic friends and move on.
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:21 AM
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If a girl is sending you nudes then she's interested in you. Escalate and don't approach the topic of sex directly over snapchat or text. Ask her to hang out and go from there.
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:18 AM
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I've been following RSD for almost a decade. Much of their newer content is just a 20 minute long rambling of a few key ideas that can be summed up in minutes. In a sense, they have made their newer materials less authentic and more business like. Much of their older materials were alot better because their videos made it seem like you were on a journey with them towards self improvement, etc. I mostly listen to Tyler and Julian. The rest of the rsd group fit into a specific niche and the way th…
/r/seduction30/01/18 01:14 AM
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The biggest success in regards to hooking up using tinder is to be straight forward with your intentions. If the girls aren't down, then ignore it and move on to the next girl you match with. I just tell them I want things to be casual. Take pictures and try to find the best ones. Ask your girl friends which ones they perfer and go from there. I'm average looking and i matched with 80 girls within 5 days when I visited Toronto. I hooked up with only 4. Don't let scarcity lower your standards.
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:23 AM
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Lol you don't sound like a sociopath at all. I've dealt with so many of them throughout the years and you're not one. 99.99% of sociopaths don't realize that they are and if they do, they don't give two fucks. The people actively thinking about their actions and little emotional problems in their day to day lives are the ones who are trying to convince themselves to be someone they aren't.
/r/seduction03/01/18 05:56 PM
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Shit hurts when the breakup just happened. But it's been almost 2 months and I'm perfectly fine now lol. Just been surrounding myself with friends and sleeping around. It doesn't fill the void but it definitely helped alot when it happened. I've started dating a new girl and I dont even remember the finer details of my ex. Life moves on and you've got to experience the finer things.
/r/seduction03/01/18 08:30 AM
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He isn't wrong tho. If you're approaching women that much and you aren't getting results. That means there's something lacking. I spent tonight at a party approaching like a total of 4 girls. 2 rejections but I still made out with 2 others. I am meeting one of them later tomorrow for a date. I've been out of the game for almost 4 years due to a LTR. Don't try to make up excuses.
/r/seduction01/01/18 09:01 AM
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Numbers are an amatuers game. Sure you're getting laid but does it really feel good tho? I hit double digits of women I slept with by sophomore year in college. But they were average looking. The numbers game may be necessary in order to springboard you to bigger heights. You'll feel more comfortable now to approach women that are 9-10s. Best thing is not to remain static. Keep trying to climb to new heights and it's always quality over quantity.
/r/seduction28/12/17 08:17 AM
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It is a trap. One move that I've used and it has been a game changer is to be upfront about your feelings. If a girl tells you that you're such a good "friend". I reply with "I already have enough friends. Not interested in making more". Then you can ask them out later without feeling awkward.
/r/seduction28/12/17 08:12 AM
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I wouldn't fuck around with a single mom. She's going to assume you're in it for the long haul. Eventually, you'll meet her child and what if the child grows attached to you? You'd feel guilty and don't want to end the relationship. If you do end up staying in the relationship, are you okay having to deal with drama with her ex/father? If you end up falling for the single mother can you really look at the father and not imagine him being balls deep inside your new SO? There's a ton of women out …
/r/seduction28/12/17 07:59 AM
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You need to stop using your age as an excuse. When I graduated highschool five years ago, I packed up all my stuff into one suitcase and left for college 4 states away. I had no friends and I knew no one at all. I was a loner by nature and the only way I made friends was when I actively tried to. You say that you're upbeat but the words you say probably don't match your actions at all. You sound defeated and youre making up excuses to convince yourself that you are trying your hardest. Talk to e…
/r/seduction28/12/17 07:37 AM
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Call me cynical but that's exactly what I believe too. It applys to alot of women. They don't care about your suffering or what you have to go through. They want an exciting guy. They want to feel heightened emotions all the time. They don't want to stand by someone and help them through their problems. I'm not saying all women are like that. Like I had a very rough childhood and my ex literally didn't give two shits about it. She acted like she cared and eventually she told me that she didn't g…
/r/seduction28/12/17 07:26 AM
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Exactly this. I went through a breakup myself and you really do have to take time for yourself. You're going to be hurt and vulnerable but you need to focus on yourself. If you try to go out and meet girls right away, they can smell the desperation a mile away.
/r/seduction28/12/17 07:19 AM
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The problem with tinder is that it's a paradox. You want to find a girl and when you find them on tinder you don't want to be serious with them. The very idea of tinder is hooking up. Would you trust to be in a relationship with an easy girl like that?
/r/seduction28/12/17 07:16 AM
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Mhmm good! I see. I used to do it with my exes in the past but I never incorportated it these days because they never used the safe word in the past. I always knew where that boundary was.
/r/seduction22/12/17 09:23 PM
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The problem is that guys new to the game aren't willing to put in the effort. They need to realize that it takes time to get good. I realized that I had to change my social awkwardsness back when I was 16. Started learning PUA materials and forums and after almost 10 years of practice/experience I still feel like I suck ass some days. I have had tons of rejections but a ton of success. It's the way life goes. You can't give up and gotta keep pushing forward. Don't measure success by the numbers …
/r/seduction22/12/17 09:03 PM
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She's basically playing with you. Like she considers you an option but just not her first option. She's going to keep stringing you along until her plans falls through and uses you as backup. There's nothing you can really do about it but to approach it directly. Shoot her a text that produces a reaction. She wants to feel validated and being polarized. Send her a message along the lines of "Let's cut the bullshit, grab drinks/food with me. If not just lose my number". You might think it's mean …
/r/seduction21/12/17 02:31 AM
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I understand its hard. But you have to realize that there's a reason you two aren't together anymore. You still want to cling on to the hope of you being together. Before you get better you have to realize that chances are you aren't going to be together anymore. Shit happens and life moves on. You gotta stop thinking about her and delete all pictures of her. Block her on all social media and don't look back. I was in a 4 year relationship with a toxic person. Like she basically got into the col…
/r/seduction20/12/17 07:43 PM
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Well the concept of cold approaches is all about talking to women out of the blue that are complete strangers. Obviously you cant start asking personal questions about them right away. It's all situational and the example I provided wasn't exactly a personal question. You are simply asking them for a recommendation. It's almost like asking a librarian for a book recommendation. A personal question would be like "how many siblings do you have?". Do you get what I am saying? You're using the situa…
/r/seduction20/12/17 04:49 PM
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Openers shouldn't be scripted because you can come off too smooth or too robotic. Girls can detect if you've been practicing your lines since there's no hesitation for thought. You seem to say the right things at the right time and its not always a good thing. There are some openers you can use. Simply asking a question about the situation you are in. For example, you are at the library, you ask the girl "what are you reading?" Or "what's an author you would recommend?" Then go from there. After…
/r/seduction20/12/17 04:27 PM
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I totally feel you man. You're an introvert by nature and everyone is self concious to a degree. It's just with introverts you tend to over think and amplify the situation. When you go out sarging it seems like you're protraying a positive and energetic vibe/energy. Women want to be a part of it. In no way or possibility are you going to see the same women in the future. No woman you met last week is going to be out with her brother or family and see you and be like "omg hey you're the dude who …
/r/seduction20/12/17 04:19 PM
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I second this. You shouldn't try to date your coworkers unless you work for a huge company. Alot can go wrong lol. This summer I started a new job and I asked two of my co-workers out and they agreed. They ended up talking and realized that they were both talking to me at the same time. They were pretty pissed at me. Luckily my boss was chill and told me to be careful and back off before things escalated 😂😬
/r/seduction20/12/17 04:10 PM
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You pretty much summed it up. You're still in that needy mindset about an ex. You're hung up on her. I was in your position like a month ago. I cut complete contact and was wondering why I wasn't getting laid. Once you start focusing on yourself and realizing that the relationship is over is when you can move on. Once you do that you'll see results instantly! Took like a few weeks for me but its different for everyone. Keep your head up and try to surround yourself with positive friends and othe…
/r/seduction20/12/17 04:07 PM
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The problem is your mindset. I know this isn't something you want to hear and would like to believe. You have this ingrained idea that there is a imbalance in power between men and women. In order to get a woman, you need an advantage. Or you need something to separate you from other men you are competing with. Trust me when I say that the world is big and there are tons of women. Improve on your own mindset and better yourself first. Eventually, you will find yourself becoming a magnet to the p…
/r/seduction20/12/17 06:11 AM
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The best way to gauge the situation is through kino. I went through the same problem years ago and I found the best way is to follow a script in the beginning. Eventually, you'll get better at it and improvise according to the situation. I would ask the girl to compare her hands to mine and I tease her about how tiny her hands are. I don't actually ask but just randomly extend my hand out and say "lemme see your hands". She will place her hand in yours. The idea here is to find any sort of excus…
/r/seduction20/12/17 06:04 AM
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