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simpleguy237/r/askMRP22/07/20 12:37 PM
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By document everything, do you mean recording with a camera? Or do you mean to write something down on a piece of paper every time she does something bad to our girl? I can probably keep some type of record just in case.
/r/askMRP16/08/20 11:47 PM
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depressed She isn't depressed. Anything career-related she's brilliant and is motivated. Anything related to the home she acts dumb and has little motivation. But depression is not the word.
/r/askMRP16/08/20 11:37 PM
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She already knows that her performance is sub-par, though she will deny it if you tell her explicitly that her performance is sub-par. Her favorite thing to do is to act like she doesn't know what's going on. Example: - Baby, who is right in front of her: Mom can you turn on the TV for me? - Mom ignores her so Baby repeats herself 3 times. - Me, who is in another room: Mom your daughter is asking you a question. - Mom: Oh I was concentrated thinking of something else. The best example I can give…
/r/askMRP03/08/20 12:53 AM
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Thanks. Actually your advice does sound like red pill advice. Ignore her, don't try to change her, and do your thing. It's not that she's a horrible parent. It's more like she's no different than a nanny who doesn't care either way taking care of your kid.
/r/askMRP25/07/20 01:37 PM
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The "Nuke your Nuclear Family" post suggested by another member helps in this situation.
/r/askMRP25/07/20 01:32 PM
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We're in different frames. Outside of parenting, she's not great at everything but I don't see it as a big problem because I've seen her attitude change when my situation/ options improve. She's not a terrible person. She just doesn't care about being there as a mother or even a role model. Can you give some examples of good leadership in this situation?
/r/askMRP25/07/20 01:29 PM
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I see how this can be very powerful. As soon as I attend our daughter, I can tell my wife something like "clean the kitchen counter" or something similar. Thanks!
/r/askMRP25/07/20 01:18 PM
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Her attitude right now is that of a person who has a job she hates but can't quit. She does the least amount of work possible. Her quitting/ leaving her kid would be a social disaster for her because she has to keep up the appearance that she's a good mother.
/r/askMRP25/07/20 01:07 PM
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Definitely looking forward to my daughter getting older and being more capable/ independent.
/r/askMRP25/07/20 01:03 PM
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This is the part I was having a hard time understanding. I always expect her to be a good mother so it makes me rely on her for something. But if I take away that expectation. If I just ignore her, she has nothing to hold on to. I like this. Thanks.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 09:45 PM
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I like this. Thanks
/r/askMRP22/07/20 09:41 PM
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She is lazy when it comes to her family. For her work, not so much.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 07:29 PM
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And what is that? Divorce and make life worse for my daughter? Even if it's a 50/50 split, that's still not good for her.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 07:00 PM
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My frame is definitely wrong. I don't know the right one in this situation. Maybe taking it up a level in the parenting on my part might make her afraid of being left out.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 06:56 PM
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This is where I am right now. I spend most of my time filling in where she doesn't.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 06:54 PM
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Good stuff. Thanks!
/r/askMRP22/07/20 05:23 PM
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True. You're not supposed to put a baby in the my-career-before-my-family slut either but it's hard to tell when they're good at lying to you about their intentions.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 05:20 PM
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Thanks. I'll try planting that motivation in her by letting her know that she could end up being like her own mother with our daughter growing resentful of her if she keeps up the attitude. My wife is not on the best terms with her mother because her mother always tries to make her feel guilty. She sees what's wrong with her own mother, but doesn't dare admit it for herself.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 05:19 PM
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You're right. Her mother was a shitty mother. Her mother neglected her as well. It's a form of child abuse. My wife acknowledges this but she won't acknowledge that she ignores our daughter. Always has some excuse when I call her on it or simply says nothing.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 05:05 PM
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