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| 0 | 6 things I learned by approaching 50 strangers in the streetAll I am saying is that this is a pretty "advanced" exercise. How well do you think this would go if you had acne scars, missing teeth, and a crooked nose? Not well at all. And I understand part of this is to "desensitize" to rejection, but if you aren't finding any positive results then what momentum is there to continue trying? | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | 6 things I learned by approaching 50 strangers in the streetNot nearly as cringey as I thought it would be, but it seems like rules 1 and 2 apply here.. for less fortunate men who also struggle socially this would be an absolute trainwreck of an exercise | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 10:15 PM |
| 3 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneIm explaining why people ask the question. Because we all know its the only reason why she would be interested | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 01:31 AM |
| 2 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneTruth is life is much easier when youre attractive. Its simply matter of fact, and while yes you can still get laid if ur fat/ugly, you will need a lot more luck than if ur fit and attractive. The pool for potential mates is way higher. For casual dating &hook ups like in the OP, the mind set can only get you so far, you still need physical attraction | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 11:28 PM |
| 14 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneThats why this entire story is a load of bullshit. Walking up to 2 people eating and randomly asking "are u dating" is the most autistic shit ive ever heard of. Its one of those things you think sounds cool when you play it in your head but in real life it is way different | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Do fun parties loaded with alcohol and hot girls actually exist after college? Are they nearly as good?so the answer is no. | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 03:41 AM |
| 6 | Need Advice: Dealing with your Alpha friends when going outjust beat them to it next time you go out. escalate before they do (in front of them). its riskier but has higher reward | /r/seduction | 22/11/15 07:30 AM |
| 21 | Took the plunge and approached.. what did i do wrong?Don't say pull my finger.. | /r/seduction | 22/11/15 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Approach at workthx | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 06:28 PM |
| -1 | Approach at workstfu | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Approach at workUr an idiot. Use them to meet friends, that's it. | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 01:49 AM |
| 6 | "I'm gonna go now"It's becoming pretty apparent now, yeah. | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 03:36 AM |
| 14 | "I'm gonna go now"/r/theredpill is /r/seduction taken to an extreme. It's borderline a cult. The foundation of /r/seduction is live a healthy and attractive lifestyle. Take care of yourself and seek genuine interest in others to have them seek interest in you. It's promotes a symbiotic relationship with another person. /r/theredpill throws all that shit out the window and says do whatever the fuck you want because we all have the biology to be alpha males. That shit fell apart once civilization occurred. | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 02:57 AM |
| -1 | "I'm gonna go now"You're wrong for thinking it's OK to leave it be. You are guilty by omission. Would the same logic extend to witnessing a murder on the street? Would it be OK to not come forward too? Sure, it's an extreme example, but the same principle applies to cheating to a lesser degree. | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 02:46 AM |
| 2 | "I'm gonna go now"He said he went to school with her before. He's not a complete 1 night stand to her. Fuck, am I the only one who read the post? | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 02:38 AM |
| -5 | "I'm gonna go now"Well, it could be as easy as simply checking her facebook marital status? | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 02:12 AM |
| 5 | "I'm gonna go now"If that was true, I'd think we'd all be in /r/theredpill | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 02:04 AM |
| 5 | "I'm gonna go now"Hmm, I strongly disagree. A very selfish mindset. ...and I'm not worried about anything, just seeing how the community feels about cheating. | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 01:52 AM |
| 13 | "I'm gonna go now"Would you not want someone to tell you if your significant other of long term was cheating? | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 01:13 AM |
| 5 | "I'm gonna go now"The longer their relationship lasts, the more one could argue the boyfriend is wasting his time, and the greater the fallout when the relationship inevitably collapses. Imagine if you dated a girl for 3 years and suddenly found out it had been going on for 2. Wouldn't that be much more terrible than finding out as soon as it happened? You could always leave an anonymous note to not bring yourself personally involved. | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 01:11 AM |
| 28 | "I'm gonna go now"Who here thinks there's an ethical obligation for OP to inform the boyfriend of his girlfriends dishonesty and cheating? Edit: Not saying there is one way or the other, just curious as to what the community thinks and to generate some interesting discussion Edit 2: after discussing it, I do believe the boyfriend has a right to know. OP /u/blueredgreenorange, please ask yourself if your girlfriend or wife was cheating, would you would want to know. That's all there is to the argument. | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Long time lurker (+6 months) What I learned:Introversion as an excuse doesnt even make sense. All it means is that we find large amounts of social stimuli draining. You can be introverted and be the life of the party. The difference lays in how long you care to stick around how you prefer to wind down. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 03:29 AM |
| 7 | Other Red Pills in the real world that would be beneficial to swallow?Can't measure return on investment from children because the only thing that will come from it is happiness built internally. They can be the best thing you ever invested. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/14 03:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Girls are just as shallow - Get in shape"im so much better than people who dont like to let loose the same way as I do" stfu and get outta here with your petty hate, so pretentious. | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 01:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls are just as shallow - Get in shapewell if it was a loss of fat and a gain of muscle then a net loss of 8lbs could make quite a difference. | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 01:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls are just as shallow - Get in shape$40/week that is motherfucking insane. someone out there is making a fuckload of cash holy shit | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 01:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls are just as shallow - Get in shapeWhy arent you allowed legumes? those are natural whole foods.. no? | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 01:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girls are just as shallow - Get in shapedont ever cut cardio in the name of gaining mass especially if you enjoy it, its too beneficial for the rest of your body including heart and mind. Just eat MORE (whole foods). | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 01:45 AM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Guide to Hooking Up with Endless Girls [honest version]race doesnt matter. different people like different things whether its your race, sexual orientation or anything else about you. | /r/seduction | 27/08/14 02:28 AM |
| 14 | Got a number, using a bottle of coca-cola.Well that's a crucial part of the story that was left out. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 11:06 PM |
| 3 | So me and my friend are at Uni, he got a tattoo in his arm and that made him "alpha".Care to explain?Is society so superficial..?Here's your answer OP. | /r/seduction | 16/06/14 01:20 AM |
| 7 | Is there a reason for keeping your professional success hidden? Can it really mess up your game?My point is: who gives a shit about your game in comparison to your career? Because at first glance one would think a successful career would work very well in your favor, so an discussion as to why it may not is warranted. Personally, I think it could work in your favor if you play that card very late and your considering more than just pick up. | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl intentions when saying xxxxx.Seriously, man? Let me assure you there is a difference between pickup and basic socializing. You can not execute pickup without having the foundation of socializing. Of course there are similarities. Pickup is all about treating a girl in just the right way in attempt to get where you want to be with her. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't. Socializing, such as suggesting to eat when one mentions they are hungry, is not pick up. It's basic. social. interaction. If you do not know this, … | /r/seduction | 27/12/13 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Girl intentions when saying xxxxx.I'm sorry but I'll be straight up and honest. This post sucks. This community is for people who need help with the ladies - not basic social interaction. I understand some guys may incredibly socially inept but they need the foundation of socializing first before attempting pick up. This post falls under basic social interaction. Nothing you mentioned helps with pick up and would be better suited in another subreddit | /r/seduction | 27/12/13 01:36 AM |
| 15 | I'm fucking BACK.Damn dude that's an infinitive loop. pretty soon i'll be banging dirt | /r/seduction | 04/12/13 12:54 AM |
| 1 | My therapist told me to check out this video this morningSure, but when a large percentage of a single demographic is struggling with a particuliar problem, you can't weaken its importance by comparing it to "everything can de detrimental". | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 10:11 AM |
| 1 | My therapist told me to check out this video this morningPhilip would observe you standing up for your right, playing the role of a student. Then he'd stop you of course for being unethical. | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 10:06 AM |
| 4 | My therapist told me to check out this video this morningI've spent a large part of my college career playing League of Legends and smoking weed. It's no wonder I don't have a girlfriend and failing grades. The situation has sent me into a downward tailspin of depression. Years spent with this behavior has deeply ingrained the routines into my brain, rooted in simple and immediate gratification. How do I break free of my destructive habits? | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 10:03 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/10/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Ctrl+F, or google. Kino is making physical contact with them to progress the relationship to a more intimate level. | /r/seduction | 11/06/13 02:44 PM |
| 6 | Confession of a PUAWow. great to hear someone preaching the truth. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 03:59 AM |
| 1 | I usually avoid texting and call, but I have a situation I have not encountered before. (deaf girl)I'm a helluva a lot more curious as to how you got her number. What was the interaction like? | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 05:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] house party then first time in a night club, how to calibrate kino in club setting?I feel like I need to take a big breath after reading this. Please put some effort into the quality of your post. Anyways, good job desensitizing yourself to rejection. Maybe you should start breaking down each set and determine where you did good, where you did bad, etc. and that way you can learn from fewer sets. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Seduction Essentials: The Qualms of Being an Attractive GuyI don't like taking risks because they have rarely paid off. 'Cause you don't take enough of them. Get outta your head, man. Have fun with that girl. | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 12:45 AM |
| 8 | How do you get into the "sarge zone"Living your life everyday like you can have any girl you want, obviously without being an asshole.. The idea is to be the person who you want be every day, not just when picking up girls. To kick it up a notch, Me and my friends will predrink and blast some party music. Working out will help you in many other aspects of life including seduction, so theres not much of a reason not to. Theres people over at /r/nofap who will actually tell you NOT to fap but apparently the benefits will only kick i… | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 05:43 PM |
| 1 | After you break the ice, what then?You left out the key part - it's how you open. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Tonight I was a total AFCYou probably got too deep in your head man, get the fuck outta there and live in the moment. As others have said, have fun. I wasn't zoned for it This doesn't make sense. You should be in the 'zone' 24/7 so that it no longer becomes the 'zone' and it becomes you. Start living your life every single day as the confident individual you are. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 08:35 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Little to none I would say. The only thing to be concerned about is crossing the age of majority line - that is, hooking up/dating someone under 18 when you are older. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 08:27 PM |
| 11 | Five Ways to Fail with WomenYeah and it made it super confusing. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Good things to say when approaching girls at a loud clubNot really sure, but try to get her to a quieter spot, possibly another floor. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Good things to say when approaching girls at a loud clubWhat does this mean? | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 08:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How to overdo push/pullDamn, wish I had the ability to pull shit like that off. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 08:11 PM |
| 4 | How does one "fix themselves" before they go looking for girls?PLEASE someone tell me why it is a bad idea to do COFFEE/MEAL SITDOWN. I have a first date with a very attractive girl who's number I got at the bar with little to no interaction, and guess where I invited her? Coffee sitdown. Assuming she doesn't bail, why is this a bad idea? | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How does seduction works for attractive guys?I don't, but I'm sure you can find some around here - check sidebar. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Abundance and self-security. When to set boundaries.I think hes speaking more generally, not with just one girl. If a girl flakes on a date, then another girl gives shitty text responses, then another girl straight up rejects him before he has a chance to open to her... At one point should he begin to take it personally? It's a good question that I've been wondering myself. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How does seduction works for attractive guys?Not if you pull em off properly. That goes for all of us. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Met some girls in a ClubYou gotta get RIGHT in there RIGHT away along with your friends if your gonna hang around with them. I find if you wait too long, I get too deep inside my head and will feel awkward suddenly coming into the conversation. If they aren't feeling you, either 1) dont give a fuck and keep having fun or 2) go find some new girls to open to. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Too much confidence?This is what we are all told to have though, when we struggle with it. People on Reddit always tell those with low self-esteem "Fake it till you make it". | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 07:15 PM |
| 6 | [FR] First attempt, first success.I sure as hell wouldn't but hey, I guess thats why I'm here. | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you transition from grinding into gaming?The way I find a girl on the dance floor is usually go up to a group of girls (that have NO guys) and either dance in rhythm with one side to side, if she follows rhythm or gets closer to me as well, i'll get behind her OR I simply get behind a girl and tell her into her ear to give me one dance hoping she'll stick around after it.. After a few songs and shes still around, I turn her around and dance face to face. This where things happen - i have yet to run game on a girl i've found on the danc… | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 05:07 PM |
| 1 | OK, another question. This one's about people noticing changes in me.there you go pal you are figuring it out on your own. shes dating you, have fun with her | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 11:20 PM |
| 2 | OK, another question. This one's about people noticing changes in me.If your confident then you shouldn't be asking this question. enjoy your weekend with your girlfriend - once I find one that i am really into, i am sure i will forget about all this seduction theory... Everything will come out naturally. You like her, she likes you, you both know it. And you are worried about what... Her not liking you cause you show you like her ?? WHAT? my mind is full of fuck | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 07:58 PM |
| 1 | I want to be more outgoingtrue dat. maybe give a lil splash of liquor in that coffee too. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 07:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Ever RejectionGood job, getting out there and doing anything, especially breaking out from your comfort zone is damn respectable.. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Here is one of the easiest ways to make out with a girl at a bar/club. I present to you: The Gum Trickfair enough, but when you get dressed up to the bars and clubs, guys are gonna come onto you. You are going to feel some sexual pressure. Why else are you at the club? | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 07:38 PM |
| 8 | Here is one of the easiest ways to make out with a girl at a bar/club. I present to you: The Gum Trick"I'll trade saliva with you, but gum? Fuck that" | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 07:36 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Field Report: Coffee shop daytime approach parlayed into insta-dateCan you explain what are some things that were going through your head when you were going back to get your chord? I feel like I would have quite a bit of anxiety during this time - a lot of time to think of what could go wrong. How did you keep your composure? | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 03:31 AM |
| 27 | [FR] Field Report: Coffee shop daytime approach parlayed into insta-dateI honestly believe beauty is largely in the eye of the beholder. How can you turn something inherently subjective into an objective measure? It is hard to rate a girl objectively when you already have gotten to know her. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Misunderstood alphathis sums up the entire fucking subreddit! put this in the sidebar jesus.. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 03:18 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experienceI think it's unfair to say alcohol is in the wrong direction. Especially as a college student, alcohol is everywhere. Learn to enjoy it responsibly and you won't have a problem. It'll be tough to have a exuberant social life as someone who will not drink. There is a reason why it's so popular around here, and that's because it's a social lubricant. When people are buzzed and feelin' good, they have no problem meeting everyone. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 06:38 PM |
| -9 | How I un-friend zoned myself [FR]If downvotes hurt your feelings, you are in the wrong subreddit. | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Opinion's on using the "politician's handshake" and if it's too overt of kinoYou'll be testing our patience then, won't ya? | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 05:37 AM |
| 3 | FR : Babystepping it to success.then what?! | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 09:22 PM |
| 3 | My Personal Summary from the Neil Strauss IAMAHow is it brilliant? Yes, it is a good idea, but I wouldn't go as far as to say it's brilliant. Some of y'all better be careful you don't start to revere this guy as a saint. Bring on the downvotes, I feel like I am telling r/trees that weed sucks. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 01:43 AM |
| 1 | What are your guys' thoughts on male virginity?Not saying its true, but some could argue that you don in fact lose something. It could any sort of feeling.. Like losing your virginity may make you feel more manly. I'm trying to say that you could lose something, it just might be a little abstract. | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Half the work of seduction is getting her to come back. So read this great guide on eating girls out [/r/sex xpost] [very NSFW][It's okay, we're here for you](www.reddit.com/r/nofap) | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 06:27 PM |
| 3 | how get rid of the 'old' ideas/expectations people have of you?easier said then done, thats for sure. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 08:20 PM |
| 1 | We are Simple Pickup AMAHave you ever had a problem with approaching girls? What are you guys pursuing, career wise? | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 04:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Baby steps guys, this shit worksI tried improving myself this weekend, but I ruined any chance by smoking weed too early in the night =( | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 04:33 AM |
| 12 | I'm a little blasted right now, but I managed to bring a girl home (also, I live on a boat)Don't rock the boat baby | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 03:56 PM |
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