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| 35 | Was with a girl I managed to get for 2 weeks and it was the best time of my life but she left abruptlyThey come, they go, Stay on your path, and focus on your future. That never goes away. Let it go dude, focus that energy on a sure thing, and enjoy the ride when it's your turn. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Is there any way we can archive/back-up this whole subreddit?Let them have it. Weak people deserve each other. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s?It's easier when you're fit, have money, and have direction. That's when it's easier. Get in shape. Find a career. Decide how you want to live your life. edit: these guys are right, also develop your social skills. | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]start with getting a fuck buddy who's got a decent group of friends. Don't get serious and communicate what you want. I bet it wouldn't be too tough to make it happen. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Keep doing what you're doing, she clearly likes you. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Nah, you're fine. :) You're young, so even if you make a mistake, it's ok. You gotta do what you're comfortable with. (that goes for your partner too!) You'll both get more comfortable with each other, and yeah, maybe push the envelope a little bit more. Get closer while watching the movie. Is she getting closer to you? Is she talking the whole time? It's not gonna be perfect, but that's part of growing up. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Random women who follow you on instagramWhat is the game plan here bud? Are you hoping yall strike up a lovely internet conversation so great that you both decide to meet, and lo and behold, she's a cute and funny chick that you happen to have great chemistry with? Good luck with that. Dude. Go out and meet new people. Not on the internet. Sigh. I mean, keep adding people, cause why the hell not. What I should say instead, is that don't waste your energy playing this online game of trying to craft this perfect message to woo this one … | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | I met this girlWell that did not last long. lmao | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She's playing games, if she's interested at all. Keep her on the line, but find other girls to work with so that you're not hung up on this one who is only semi interested. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 07:34 PM |
| 4 | How do you feel about people flirting with someone you’re seeing?It's part of being attractive. You need to be secure in yourself but you also make the rules for yourself. There's a balance between your partner being flirted with and being railed on a Thursday night. You gotta draw the line and find someone who will respect your boundaries. If they don't move on, because you have self respect. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Difficulty getting close to women.A therapist. There is stuff here that needs to be unpacked. You may find it helps you connect with your partners. Can't get close to them till you get close with yourself. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 07:17 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Yeah. Not gonna read all this. I wouldn't worry about the other people on this sub. I brush off the bad attitudes, cause it's not worth the worry. It's the internet, too many people on here not living out in the real world. I enjoy the good takes from the good people who genuinely want to get better and leave it at that. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | For this of you familiar with the Aziz Ansari sexual drama, do you agree that his seduction technique was just a total fail? How should have he done it differently?Yeah. He let the success get to his own head. He would have been way more successful playing it cool and relying on his charisma. I'd wager if he was acting anything like his characters, he was coming off as cringe and desperate for top women. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 07:32 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Don’t let other people dictate your happiness. If you’re not happy without her, then you need to work on that. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 10:05 PM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]Better to be rejected and know where she stands then to pussy foot around and pretend your friends | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 09:27 PM |
| 0 | how to get over oneitis?If you slept with all the women in the world. Would you still care? I talking the most gorgeous, kind, cute, stunning, intelligent, funny, charming, etc. all those women. There are so many incredible personalities and asses out waiting for you to explore. Imagine the possibilities | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 02:07 PM |
| 31 | Date night went great, we got naked & rolled around in bed for a while! .. Advice is awesome on this sub!Glad to hear it TalkShit247. Enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 04:23 PM |
| 5 | I need your advice friendsSounds like she's flirting with you? | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just no. This is not the place for this question. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 08:29 PM |
| -1 | incredibly weird subWell there is a specific group we are attracting here isn't it? We have to remember that by the nature of this communication format we already limit our group to a certain subset of people. I'd venture out to say statistically, we have a bias. Good looking, rich, or successful people I'd say on average, don't spend a lot of time here. ON AVERAGE does not mean that excludes those people. We have to have nuance here. So of course we'll have more laziness, complaining, boo-hooing, and general lac… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | incredibly weird subJust cause you play doesn’t mean you’re gonna score. You got a point tho. Yeah you can have all the basics down and still stuck at the game. I think this sub does a decent job at providing various levels of instruction for different skill levels. I also think it gets overloaded by younger or inexperienced bucks asking the same question on the basics. At the end of the day I do commit to supporting other men. Being honest, and realistic, but not being a dick about it. I would expect the same from… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Shower thought: How would you try and seduce your homeboys??“Yo dude, wanna go suck each other later?” “Sure man, lemme go take a dump first, then I’m bout to be vac’in up some flute.” | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:08 PM |
| 74 | 7 tips on how you can confidently approach group of girls!I always talk to the fat and ugly one of the group. Asserts her dominance physically over the rest of the herd. Then I give her a good slap on the rump and yell “Heyyah!!!” To get the group moving to the other pasture. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 6 | incredibly weird subBeing realistic is not shitting on people. How can you talk about “seduction,” when you are unable to have a basic level of attraction as a baseline? It seem cruel. But being a fat, poor, antisocial person is unattractive to pretty much the entire world. So you gotta start by getting better. Then you can discuss attracting people. Indicators of interest. Push and pull. Wit and flirting. Game and approaches. Can’t teach football to someone who can’t walk dude. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Today I succeededIt's a numbers game. Keep asking other people you connect with. I appreciate you being able to take a polite rejection gracefully. That is a testament to your own confidence and manners. Good work dude. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 10:33 PM |
| -1 | Easily bored by everyone I meetOh yeah for sure. I agree, that's why I decided to get a life sized sex doll. They are awesome. I named mine Mandy. She's always in demand if you know what I mean. But it fixed all of my intimacy problems. I highly recommend them! Good luck you king of awesomeness. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Is there an ideal time to ask out girl from class?Have you talked her? Do you have any rapport? Does she enjoy your company? If yes, ask. Then you know and can move on. If she says no, then don't be weird about it and move on. If you don't have any rapport with her, and haven't really even talked to her, it would be weird. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 10:10 PM |
| 3 | A girl has immense chemistry with me in class but…Hang with her and do your thing. She will have to make her decision. I wouldn't go behind the other dudes back if it comes to that but everyone gets to choose their consequences. If she does fool around behind his back, it will tell you a lot about her character. Comes down to what you both want. Does she know how you feel? Is there tension? Have either of you crossed that line? Or are you just a great friend who she enjoys the company? She might move on from that dude or not. I mean maybe she… | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 10:04 PM |
| 16 | Confessing my feelings tomorrowGo for it. You're going to learn a lot from doing it. Be prepared for the answer either way. Remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea if she's not interested. I think it's great you're being upfront with how you feel. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Guys, do you intentionally look for a woman's face to flirt or you do this subconsciously?Eye contact can mean that she is interested. If I get friendly eye contact that lasts more than what seems like normal and if I am interested, I'd go talk to you. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Lost all my confidenceClearly, you have found a magic book of confidence. I suggest reading that book as much as you can. Learn the book so that you can read it when you are apart from this magic book. Remember, if you do loose the book, you will also loose the confidence. I would stay away from water and fires, so that you do not soak the book or catch it on fire. If you keep the book with you, you should be able to woo this girl easily, and she will laugh at your jokes again until she falls in love with you. Then y… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You’re welcome. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 08:57 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]It’s ok to fail too. Be willing to give yourself grace or you will turn into a sociopath. It’s a balance. I left that part out. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 08:55 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Yeah, I work really really hard, every single day, so that I'm so good at what I do that I know I can do it. So that when other people question if I can do it, I know I can. Hope that helps. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 08:13 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Well. I would say they are matching with 10/10, 9/10 dudes. Hundreds of them. So unless you can compensate for that competition. You're going to have a much harder time. They are looking for validation. Or something exciting. So yeah, they're opening the door to see if you're someone more engaging than the rest, but because you're not a hot dude, they're not going to put any work in. Especially online. They'll match you, and you might get a shot if you have a fire opener, a solid follow-up and… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 07:57 PM |
| 4 | did she bail? or am I impatientYeah cold feet. I'm a dude and I donno if I'd be down to run up to some strangers room randomly. I imagine a woman would have an even harder time doing that. Should have met her at the bar. Side note: Badoo was prreeettty rough when I tried it. I deleted it after a week or two of rough candidates. I don't recommend that app. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Most of you have way too much shit to work on before you can even think about pursuing "seduction"I think all men should be welcome. Men need more spaces to encourage one another. Yes. We must be honest with those who are struggling. But I believe we should try to raise those guys up. We gotta be there for each other, cause no one else will. So I advocate for those guys at the bottom. They may never rise up, but god damn, I’m gonna encourage them everyday that they show up, cause we all start some where and some of these assholes didn’t have a good male role model. So good on them for at lea… | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 02:19 AM |
| 197 | [deleted by user]Hell yeah! You should hit the mom up bro | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:32 AM |
| 10 | How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager?Life is strange and rarely works out like a sitcom or movie. Do your thing and enjoy the ride. Chase what you want but don’t force it. Some people never have a sex life and find happiness in other places. Some folks have some weird, awkward, funny and cringe social interactions chasing intimacy… it’s part of growing up figuring that shit out. Best of luck to you my little dude. Don’t stress too much and enjoy what you do have. Chances are, someone has it worse than you. You could spend a lifetim… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | I need some guidance on how to do it right.Actions speak louder than words. If she's feeling shitty, hug her, by physically present for her. Create a space for her to relax and feel safe in. Somewhere she is removed from all this pressure she's been feeling. You do that, by doing that. Plan a vacation. A romantic night. A fun day out. and keep it that way. Don't go and create a space removed from her struggles just to bring all that shit up while you're there. Keep it removed. If she brings it up, give her a hug, remind her that you wa… | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 07:38 PM |
| 8 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?We disagree | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:57 AM |
| 6 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?I mean, sometimes they do just want some dick. It depends on how they are feeling. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | How to prep my (m29) place for a woman coming over?Doesn't sound very comfortable. haha | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 12:49 AM |
| 6 | How can I get better at building tension through text? Finish this convo exampleThis is gold. Well played | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 12:46 AM |
| 35 | How can I get better at building tension through text? Finish this convo example“Why, what would you be doing? watering your plants, making coffee? X I hope you wouldn’t be a naughty boy 😡x” "Is touching the artist during the drawing considered naughty?" "Teehee hee, oh oni-chan, you're so funny. You're not supposed to touch the artist when she's working." "I'll just have to pose nude then, I hear the best art is nude art. lmao, jokes aside, just be playful and focus on what she is imagining in her mind. NOT YOURS. Dudes are always like, "Damn, you got some big boobies for … | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You're going to be great. Wishing you the best. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 10:59 PM |
| 5 | How to prep my (m29) place for a woman coming over?Make things comfortable. I know it's summer, but do you have random blankets for the couch? Tissues around somewhere? How about wet-wipes if yall get dirty. Hand towels in the bathroom. Nice glasses to drink from? Some snacks/wine/food in the fridge ready. I mean, you're 29, so you should have a decently adult place, and her expectation will be the same. Adults have those little things that are a comfort to guests. So consider those things. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Nah, don't give up dude. It's just not quite yet the time. You deserve happiness. Remember that. This place should be a way for you to find ways to that. It's not necessarily only about sex and dating, but also, growth and development. So yeah, it's tough now. It will be difficult, and you'll get pushed down. You have to stand back up, move some weights, drink less beer, channel your inner future, and keep moving. You have to find your passion. That thing that drives you. Find that, and it will … | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 10:50 PM |
| 5 | [Field report] Finally able to talk the cute Latina at the gym.Yeah, they are subtle. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 07:52 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]lmao, if she is saying it playfully, your right. I skimmed and didn't really read that part. I do sound like an egotistical asshat in that context for sure. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 29 | [Field report] Finally able to talk the cute Latina at the gym.Always introduce yourself if you're talking. It's classy and it makes you an acquaintance, not a stranger. I'd skip the waiting and just make a move next time if she initiates with you again. Does she move to use machines around you? When you are lifting, can you see her looking your way? Be checking for those indicators or interest. If they are there, introduce yourself and invite her to a coffee, something casual. If she bails, move on and do your thing until she approaches. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If your interested, yeah you can start a friendship, but if they don't feel the same way.. You won't know. So yeah be cool, but also put yourself out there. Rejection is part of what we do here. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Started a conversation with this girl I find attractive and when I flirt or compliment her she lowers the tone of her voice.Yeah, if it's an international situation. It could be super different. Typically, we see a lot of American/Western situations on this sub. You might be playing a totally different ball game here, without more information, this situation could be anything. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | did I fucked up or still there hopes?No. You're trying to hard. I bet you really like this one, but you gotta think long term, there's way too many women in the world for you to waste time on the one you like. It's a numbers game. Don't waste energy, go find another one you like that will like you back. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | did I fucked up or still there hopes?He's young. Go easy on him. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | did I fucked up or still there hopes?Good job dude | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsI'm getting more of a prey than predator vibe here. I'm sure it was fun. I would keep it casual and date women your own age though. Also, make you're practicing safe sex there dude, an STI could really fuck you up mentally. God forbid a child at your age. Cheers. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:12 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I like this answer. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 05:35 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Psh, screw that. Ask her right back. "Why should I get to know you?" She aint perfect either dude. Don't stoop to letting her treat you as an commodity. If she isn't interested or doesn't see your value, that's on her not you. You would need to have that real value though... Edit* didn't realize she said it playfully. I read this as shit testing. Even then, you could say it playfully and I think it still works. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 05:34 PM |
| 3 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsAh, probably coming off as too eager maybe. Play harder to get and see how that works. Play it cool, real off hand, ya know? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I mean, she likes you right? Like as a person? Cause if someone cares about another person, they probs like to see you happy. Especially if you're nurturing each other and growing together. If so, then yall should want to share each other. I think this would be an enhancer, yeah there is potential for addiction, (just like you watched too much porn, right?) so just trust that she can handle that, and if not, voice your opinion and try to work through it. But if she's healthy, it should be an iss… | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:57 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]This does not sound healthy. I would say that in a sexual, kink, or playful manner. That yes, this might be up someone's alley. But if this a actual thing, serious, "I'm Obsessed with you. Haha, isn't that crazy!?" Then yeah, that's not healthy for anyone and I think you need to mature emotionally. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:53 AM |
| 8 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.Ehh, I mean, you can mention it offhand. But I wouldnt go into detail about the sessions. Even if she asks. Like it's your personal business, not hers. It think mentioning that you go is fine, but I think it's healthy to keep that part of your emotional housekeeping private. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:48 AM |
| 3 | She's a homebodyIt sounds like you really like her! That's great! Go ahead and let her know how you feel. "Hey, I think you're pretty cool and I'd like to hangout sometime." If she's into it, she'll make it work, and if not, you get to move on to the next one. That's what I would do, that way your not obsessing over someone who isn't really into you. Don't get hung up on one person who isnt into you. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:45 AM |
| 25 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsI've always heard that girls will bend over backwards for dudes they really like and find attractive. Maybe those muscles just aint big enough yet. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Umm, I have no idea how to ride dudes. Anybody else got some ideas on this one? Try doing what your best at! Everyone has their owns gifts right? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Everyone deserves love. Even you buddy. You give up, you die. Fuckin' circle of life right there my dude. Fight on brotha man, it's supposed to be hard or else it wouldn't be worth it. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don't really like games, so if I ask if they want to hangout and they flake or fart around I tend to lose interest and move on. I know people who love playing those games, who they ignore the people they like and go full out psychological warfare on people they're attracted to... But its no fun when the games don't stop, you know? Hard to love someone when you have to figure out if they're fucking with your head. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Girl pretending to not like me, but does?Just go for it. If it doesn't work out, you'll learn a lot from it. If she's crazy, you'll learn something. If you fall in love, you'll learn a lot. Anyways, what I'm saying here is, go with your gut, you're young, live a little!!! My advice, don't get too wrapped up in all of it. Keep it simple my little dude. If it's fun, have fun, if it's not fun, find someone else you like. I'm sure she's not the only girl who thinks you're a catch, so if she's a pain in the ass or confusing, move on. A lot … | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | So guys are out here killing innocent people because they can’t get laid?I bet it's really hard living when you're alone, with no outlet for your feelings. I'd figure a small minority of people dive deep into darker areas of the web, with darker ideas, and without other healthy humans to bounce these ideas off of, they slip into darker thoughts. Mental illness is part of it, but I believe it's a products of a life consistently on the outside of popular society. When absolutely no cares about you, wants your company, or even listens to you, because you're just too dam… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Bro to Bros: how do you seriously get over your own insecuritiesI'll tell you what I would tell my friend. Why do you want to be that? Do you believe that being attractive, skinny, or facially symmetrical will provide peace and happiness in your life? Peace and balance come from a space of acceptance. There are some things in life that you will ultimately need to accept. There is a lot that can change in life... but there are other things that will never change. What will you tolerate? My father was a fat ugly man. He also worked his ass off and landed a… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I believe times are harder than ever for straight men. So it makes sense that a larger amount of these individuals are turning toxic. We need to be supportive and honest with them. I really wish we had local communities we could become engaged with. I feel like they are dying for a place they can belong and grow and I am pretty sure it's not going to happen very successfully online.. Good luck out there gentleman. I support yall. Keep up the good fight and respect yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | 7 years seperated from my wife 30M and have no idea how to dateWell thing have changed since the dawn of social media. There was always competition, but it was in a smaller pool and network of people. with social media, there are 1,000's of new people being met on instagram, online dating, and social networks. The pool has expanded and both men and women have access to huge social networks. I think it changed the game. So now standards are higher, harder for the average dude to stand out. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You seemed very focused on this relationship. What are you doing for yourself and the person you are dating more than anyone? If she was gone tomorrow, what would you be focusing on? I tend to get wrapped up in my lady because I start to focus more on her happiness then mine, which makes me unhappy, which makes me be a different person then who she originally chose to be with. It happens all the time. Focus on yourself, and let the right person be with the person you want to be without the fear … | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Missed opportunity on shooting my shot and fumbled the ball, how do I overcome the disappointment?The more confident you are, the more that fear will go away my brother. Don’t hype of these moment into intense trials. You’re just doing your thing, she either digs ya or nah. And if she doesn’t, great, you know now and can move forward to the next one. The lion doesn’t always catch the gazelle. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 09:04 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Make a move. It either works or it doesn’t. Either way, you’ll know more than if you did nothing. Be bold, be brave. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:59 AM |
| 2 | I rarely get an eye contact back, why?Are you someone they want to look at? I’ve been attractive, and well, I’ve been fat too. It’s fuckin brutal, but the world is cruel to ugly people. My own grandma wasn’t looking me in the eye when I was a looking like a beach ball. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Idk, like I get bing polite and all. But yeah, seemed like it was going well. I’d would have at least gone for a number. Hard to know without being there and feeling out the vibe. I mean playing it cool has its own merits too | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:55 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]It’s a numbers game. It’s all luck. There are a fuck ton of “cutest girls,” just hit the ball and play the game. Sometimes you get a single, sometimes you hit a home run. Repetition my dude. You don’t know if you don’t swing. Stay thirsty my friend. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | What does not giving a fuck/not giving a shit mean exactly?It’s not about disregarding your environment. It’s about disregarding the opinions of other actors in life. You are making choices you wish to pursue. That’s it. I don’t really care if you approve or not. I don’t really care if you agree or not. That is your choice. Not mine. By choosing that, based on my choice, I become an actor, taking action, changing my world around me. With that, I gain power and strength. When people are afraid of failure and judgement, they surrender this power of free w… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Aye, this guy fucking got it. The only opinion that matters is your opinion of yourself dude | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Took a PUA bootcamp but it didn't change anythingAccept yourself as you are brother. Then build on that man you already are. You might not be a player or Don Juan who fucks a bunch of females. You’re just you man. You gonna start being who you are? Stop trying to make yourself what you think people want to bang and start doing what you love to do. Be healthy, chase some money, chase those experiences. Don’t let some physical release dictate what you want in life. Ask yourself and decide, wtf do I want? When you’re 80 and dying on your bed, wha… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | he always asks before kissing meHe’s probably not a very assertive or aggressive person. You might not be able to change that. You may need to remember that not everyone will fit your mold of a perfect partner. So you decide if that’s a dealbreaker. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:34 AM |
| 2 | 7 years seperated from my wife 30M and have no idea how to dateGet in the gym. Better be good looking if you’re using online dating, like stupid good looking. If you get any matches on online dating you’ll have to be smart, funny, and interesting from line one. You will have to do 100% of the work. You will have to compete with 500 other dudes. This shit is brutal buddy. Go to the tinder sub Reddit to see the stats on swiping for some men and women. Shit is wild. You got a big pool to compete with. So you better bring it. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:31 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Yeah, go back 10 years before social media and OLD. Average dudes don’t get laid anymore. You just aren’t good enough. Like rats fighting over scraps man. Men gotta say fuck all this shit. Pussy ain’t worth all that work. Like damn, it used to be easy to hook up. EASY bro. A bit of booze, a bit of confidence, and you had a shot. Between feminism and social media, girls either think they’re better than us or deserve “mr Chad thunderfucked in the head but he’s so cool so I’ll bang him why wonderin… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:25 AM |
| 16 | [deleted by user]Email Take the time to plan, to warm her up. Surprise her with an erotic story. Go read a romance novel to figure out how to write it for a lady. When I had a LTR, one of the things that work was the description of what I wanted her to feel. Dudes tend to like graphic material, ladies like that build up and tension of what will happen next in their minds. You gotta finger her mind before you fuck it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | ELI5: KissingWell put. This guy has good advice, but a word of caution. You only learn by doing. So get out there mister!!! | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Need advice. Young Latino Male.You're a cool guy. <3 | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 08:17 PM |
| 0 | What to do when girls are sexually openlolol, just read your question outloud to yourself bro. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What move to make on a milfYou take her when she wants to be taken. Older women don't fuck around. They are balls bare take what they want. So dive in and don't be a coward. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Need advice. Young Latino Male.Don't be a young Latino male. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Going from sexual to romantic attraction?Yeah, be a regular Joe nice guy. Find a girl looking for a security blanket, not a guy who can throw the D. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:28 PM |
| 1 | 10 ways to start talking to women"10 ways to start stalking woman." NOW that's an article I can get behind! | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:27 PM |
| 4 | Don't let women know that you are learning from the PUA community.Fuck that, tell them all. I like a challenge. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Saw a girl at a party, found her on facebook and sent her a message. Have a response, how do I follow up?"Hey, I saw you at that party and I thought you were cute. Coffee sometime?" fuck it, why not right? | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Did I try to go too far on the first time hanging out with her?Yes, you went too far. Sounds like she really likes you and probable wants to see you more than just a hook-up. I'm not sure, but I am sure she did not want to go that far that night. You shouldva just focused on having a good time with rather than trying to get your dick wet. Back off for now, cause I'm sure she's a little put off by what happened. You can ask too, but that's already starting a little bit of drama, just let her come to you. Keep looking for other ladies too. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:20 PM |
| 1 | New to this, need to better myselfBe awesome. Just do awesome things. Be really cool. Have a life, and they will come. Be healthy, have hobbies, cool hobbies, and just do you the best you can. You should do well, as long as you aren't incredibly awkward. Also talk about all the cool shit you are going to be doing. I find nothing sexier in a guy than his interesting stories and adventures. Given that they are my type of stories and adventures I want to hear. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:15 PM |
| 3 | No problems opening, but struggling to build solid attraction. Any tips?Just be fun. Continue to be fun. Fun it good, girls like fun, women like security and crazy bitches like crazy shit. Just remember to think about what others are looking for. What they want out of a relationship of any kind with you. Is it for sex? Is it because your fun? Is it because you're exciting? What draws a person to waste their time with you, that's the question you want to think about. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrongI am the same way. Non-confrontational. So find ways to out maneuver them. Be smarter, be stronger, be wiser, nicer, anything. Have an ace in the hole. I am an incredibly friendly person and make many friends, usually when people talk shit I have a lot of others do the talking for me. So that even if my friend says something stupid I can either refute it or support it. It works. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:05 PM |
| 3 | The whole kissing thing feels so unnatural.Always go for it. The intensity, passion and urge to do it will guide you more than anything anyone will tell you. Experience comes from doing. Get after it dawg. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Beliefs that need to be resolvedGo read the materials. Don't ask frequently asked questions. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:01 PM |
| 2 | I understand if no one wants to say anything, but was anyone else here sexually abused?This was a good post for this sub. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Can People REALLY Change?Survey says? | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 06:38 PM |
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