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Classic strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:26 PM
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Sex doesn't follow the rules of an imaginary market.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:59 AM
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Missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:59 AM
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Nah. It's a service and information economy. Women are better at school. You're living a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:20 PM
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Sorry, not true. Domestic abuse isnt even a top reason
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:33 PM
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You are far below average
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:10 PM
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That's what it boils down to, isnt it? Every guy that posts here wants to be Chad and is bitter about not being Chad. Pretty pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:10 PM
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Capitalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:11 AM
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Did u just unironically call urself a chad 🤣🤣🤣 loser
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:11 AM
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It's funny how your victim mentality just sends the message over your head. It isn't just women you're interested in that will disregard you if you're not immediately interesting. Other men will, employers will, etc. Hell, you probably do the same to loads of other people. Red pillers reallly need to go talk to real, normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:02 PM
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Most things you do is based off how you feel. FOH 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:58 PM
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This behavior isn't exclusive to women. You know what yalls problem is? You think of the other sex as such caricatures that you can't even observe basic human behavior in them without having to analyze it like its foreign/ novel. Jesus plz go interact with real people if you subscribe to redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:34 AM
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Most religious people aren't fundamentalist. Remarrying was allowed for most of that time period you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:35 AM
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I've heard dominant from girls only in a sexual context, definitely not from a girl I was strictly platonic with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:26 PM
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Yeah? She said you were 'dominant'? Stop posting made up shit bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:25 PM
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Maybe all her dates were shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:37 PM
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Maybe all her dates were shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:37 PM
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It isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:29 PM
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You're not an avg guy then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:44 AM
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I don't have to prove a thing to you, internet person. But I'll take my real experiences against your internet forum originating theories any day 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:17 PM
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20 percent of women is a lot of people, yk that right? It's really not that uncommon in my experience. Which is extensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:23 AM
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A decent percentage of women actually do cum with only penetration, more than half of my partners have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:16 AM
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Boo hoo, you need to put in effort. You poor, poor child. Gtfo with that bitch shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:24 AM
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The kid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:31 PM
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Male, cant count
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:10 PM
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Im average, and yeah, basically everything u said 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:05 PM
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Jesus christ you people 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:54 PM
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It really isnt lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:27 AM
7

I feel like ive seen this post a million times
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:11 PM
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Damn, dont know what to tell ya lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:31 PM
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Esp tiktok. Delete Tiktok everyone!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:22 PM
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Every girl Ive been with has been kinkier than me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:30 AM
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Uh... you aren't providing evidence that the majority of Christians and Mormons practice polygamy. Which they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:39 AM
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Wtf 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:37 AM
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Polygamy is outlawed, so I dont get what you're complaining about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:20 PM
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"Philosophers" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:49 PM
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So. Neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:29 PM
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Lol THATS what you took from the movie? Your inability to get laid? Fucking narcissist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:13 AM
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Funny, the scenario your mentor mentioned is one that I dread lmao. Hope we don't go back to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:12 PM
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HYPERGAMY THOO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:36 AM
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Women on average are higher achievers than men, graduate from college more than men. The average woman pays as much taxes as the average man. Fuck you on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:56 AM
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Uh, the culture is worse here. US workers work most hours in the world on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:48 AM
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That you assume you've somehow stumbled upon the sexual motivations of a million women and it's that one thing. It's so fucking stupid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:23 AM
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A lot of them have such loser mentalities. "Women only want hotter guys than me!" It's like, get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:22 AM
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God you're a loser lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:16 AM
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It's advertised toward lonely men. Predatory isn't the right word to use. Men are the very reason sex work exists. No demand, nothing to sell. No, sex work is always predatory on impressionable, often economically needy women. Look who profits the most fron OF. A man (CEO of OF). In old sex work pimps sold girls' bodies for money. Girls who enter the porn industry are promised fame/ wealth but social stigma/ mental damage from the nature of the work never is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 01:44 AM
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Having a kid is an 18yr prison sentence. It's a drain on youth, money, everything. Why anybody would spend their 20s doing this is beyond me. Ppl in their 30s usually become more financially stable, why not have kids then? Birth control was a great invention for society, spread it wide to minimize single parenthood. Also why do you think people partying/ delaying having kids is the cause of broken society today? Stagnant wages, systematic manipulation of wealth by the rich, corporate manipulatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:09 PM
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The society you want is boooooring
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:39 AM
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My mom still asks me to call her every day xD And i do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:37 PM
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Seems like a personal choice based on your own ideas of sexual purity, exclusivity or whatever in your case. You think sex should happen only in certain noncasual circumstances not involving friends (even though you would participate in it?). Your rules in your own head, not applicable to the world at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:01 PM
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Usually the sex ends when one or both of you gets into a serious relationship. You cut them off when this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:49 PM
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My experience contradicts that. What's your proof that most friends who have sex aren't real friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:12 PM
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Untrue. Anecdotal, but in my personal life and my friends' we considered them to be good friends. Good friends with mutual horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:30 PM
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You do know what it stands for right? Friends. Friend means there is a real relationship, just not an exclusive romantic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:36 AM
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I think you hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:10 PM
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I consider myself pretty average and I've experienced what you claim to have experienced 5 times over. And they did even more for me than you. Anyone can meet loving people. You people want life to fit into neat little boxes but it never is so clear cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:04 PM
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Doesn't everyone get more selective as they get older?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:42 PM
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There's nothing about humans that isn't malleable. Physically or mentally. Life changes people. Live more and you'll see
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:00 AM
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Definitely so much more attractice when she's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:39 PM
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A lot of broken people are helpless when faced with certain behavior. I'm a man and I feel helpless sometimes in front of those I know mean me harm. The examples you've seen are probably a lot more complex than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:12 AM
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Lol what a stupid narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 04:01 AM
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Yeah, and you ain't got it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:36 AM
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Okay, you. Bitterness is not basis for an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:54 AM
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Lol no you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:20 AM
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It isn't any secret that womens' bodies are commodified to be pleasurable for men to view. This commodification is also the impossible standard that women are held to. Her figure, facial proportions, the fullness of her breasts, every inch of her is scrutinized and criticized, but also sexualized. It is this sexualization that simultaneously dehumanizes the woman and draws the attention (whether wanted or unwanted) of men. Why men (people like OP) think their attention and validation will someho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:19 AM
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Of course it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:29 PM
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And yet it's real. The insecurity about appearance embedded in the female psyche is reinforced in many ways. It is mass produced and sold (beauty industry), voiced by parents, dramatized in media, whispered by the social fabric itself. The individual stands no chance against this type of socialization. Meaning it can't be overcome by personal experience of validation. I don't think I've dated/slept with a single woman who wasn't insecure. And yes, every single one would still get hundreds of mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:10 AM
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OP is talking about physical attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:34 AM
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This is true. No matter how flattering you make the angle, ya can't hide ugly!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:19 AM
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Did you just describe human beings as ripe? Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:47 PM
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Radical RP dudes are usually guys that are mad no one will fuck them. Their opinions have not mattered, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:26 PM
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Anecdotal, mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 09:08 PM
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Or we genuinely don't hate women....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 09:08 PM
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I'd say most dateless guys are woman haters. And the ones who aren't are lumped in. That's just life dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:38 PM
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Do you long for tighter pussies? I don't. I remember who out of all the girls I slept with was the tightest. I don't miss sleeping with her. Genitals are just one part of a person dude. They don't matter THAT much. If you meet someone who IS that fixated on genitals (like you seem to be), well too bad. And too bad for them because they're missing the point of life 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:27 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:56 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:35 PM
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Wow that sucks 😂😔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:52 PM
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It's more than okay, it'd be really awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:32 PM
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I was just saying that I think most relationships start very casually like you used to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:30 PM
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I don't think my situation is that rare, unless I have a very low libido
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:14 PM
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Haha I just said that because I'm a straight guy and so the people who would be pumping and dumping me would be girls. That makes me think though, is pumping and dumping just having sex without wanting an LTR? I'm not a stranger to being on the receiving end of that, but I wasn't hurt maybe because I didn't want one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:09 PM
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I've always found the idea of impregnating someone weird. It's like the Alien movies, except I'm the xenomorph. I would never ask anyone to bear my stomach alien. I'm never having kids. I find the idea repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:01 PM
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😔😔 is it called something else when a girl is doing the pumping and dumping?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:06 AM
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I'm still under the impression that most relationships start like this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:57 AM
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I only have anecdotal evidence, but the girls I've known match or exceed my own libido. So I'm just going off of that. But usually only when they become comfortable and secure enough to fully express sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:24 AM
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Women don't have on average lower libidos than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:23 AM
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I hope it goes well for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:55 PM
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A lot of LTRs have ended due to pandemic stress, as well as mine and a few friends'. I don't view this as a bad thing though. I think a FWB situation in these covid days would be ideal for most people. Don't have the virus weigh emotionally on a serious relationship. No one needs the extra stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:05 PM
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What on earth are you on about...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:27 PM
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All humans possess a darkness. Men and women alike. I think most know and agree. Not sure where you're seeing the denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:33 AM
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Yes No 25 M
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:07 PM
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Not just the similar brokenness, even though that helped connect us, but getting to know each other overall more. I didn't find her unattractive in the beginning either. But no physical attraction to begin with, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:30 AM
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I'll assume you mean visceral, physical attraction when you ask how I measure my attraction to this person. Initially there was none(from my side). BUT sometimes in life you encounter kindred spirits and it can lead to very intimate platonic or romantic connections. And yes, eventually I found everything about her to be beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:12 AM
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To start, I'm not someone that can totally disregard looks. They do play a part for me. It really depended what I needed in that phase of my life. In high school and soon after I wanted a mother figure (this is in hindsight and I wasn't aware enough back then to say I had mommy issues 🤣) so I dated 2 really strong (physically and mentally) girls who were really responsible, etc. In a very vulnerable and broken time of my adult life I was drawn deeply to a girl who was also broken in similar ways…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:30 AM
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Oh please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:37 AM
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4 out of 5 relationships I've had were with girls I wasn't immediately physically attracted to. My attraction to people is VERY specific to them so it's hard for me to list just qualities that aren't attached to a very specific person. It feels like trying to admire a disembodied body part. Like I could enjoy a pair of eyes but only if they were on a specific person, you know? When I like somebody they just have their own special place in my mind and this makes their physical, emotional and spir…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:29 AM
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Totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:12 PM
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No one should shame anyone, not for participating in hookup culture or for refusing to. Sorry others have made you feel like something was wrong with you. There isn't, of course, and I've met plenty of people who have trouble being sexually attracted without a meaningful emotional connection. I've had a mix of ltrs and hookups and enjoy both. But I would never forgo LTRs for just hookups. I have my own complaints about hookups but it's def a good ego booster when I feel shitty 🤣 But yes, emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:09 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:02 AM
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Stacy's moooom
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:44 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:11 PM
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You sound like me ex 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:09 PM
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You can't be serious. Sexual conflict has been present from the dawn of breeding. Female animals and humans alike have resisted breeding, many coerced into breeding. It IS natural. Add to that the feminist movement and more women rejecting backwards social definitions of womanhood and becoming freethinkers. More women than ever are aware of the risks and less-than appetizing details of having a little parasite of a human in their bodies for months only for them to claw and split open the most se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:41 AM
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I love the phrase "the complexity of the red pill". It's never been complex enough to explain human sexual behavior. It's just not that sophisticated a worldview.. So the only thing you're right about here is that its narrative never has been the whole picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:15 AM
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I might be in the extreme minority, but all of my relationships, hookups, fwbs have started as friendships. Edit: I do admit most of them were flirty but platonic before anything official happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:43 PM
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Hope one day you can view frienships as less transactional and more as opportunities to experience other perspectives on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:35 AM
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It isn't naive to believe in human connection. I've known all kinds of girls and guys from living in 5 countries all over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:28 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 08:09 AM
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It's such a stupid way to view friendships. Whoever you are, you can make genuine connections with fucking anyone because we all share the experience of existing as human beings. Who cares what genitals someone has? Make connections, make friends and listen to their perspectives- no matter who you come in contact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 08:01 AM
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At least it was one of the first steps to get us away from the stuffy, nauseatingly socially conservative society of the 50's. It may have been flawed (in some opinions) but I'm thankful that it happened. It allowed for better birth control methods (thank god) and deeper understanding of women as more than baby- producing housecleaners. That is a win in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 04:46 PM
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Very insightful! I still have reservations about comparing human sexual interaction with how currency, goods, value are exchanged, but I think you've hit on something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:51 PM
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Sadder that you had to google it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:43 PM
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Lack of self awareness probably? I think women are better judges of their own appearances because they're reduced to their looks from a young age, but boys aren't. So a lot of men don't know they're unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:03 AM
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The hoe phase can happen after many LTRs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 10:58 AM
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Sound plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:33 AM
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It's really difficult to vet people this thoroughly unless you are a serial monogamist. But one should. It's just really hard
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:53 PM
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Ive never had sex with a woman i didn't deeply desire There's no good reason to have sex with someone you're not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:02 AM
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So funny to see someone unironically refer to themselves as a "hot chad" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:32 PM
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If one was to exist solely to attract sexual partners, that would be a depressing life. I'm not even speaking hypothethically. There are actual studies that show putting emphasis on external values (material things, approval of others) instead of internal values (spirituality, deep fulfillment of human emotional needs, etc.) leads to profound unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:30 AM
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I got out of an LTR at the end of last year and the couple months I was single was very peaceful. I felt like I could focus on myself and center myself. Being single is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:36 AM
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Honestly not a lot. Serial monogamist here, with friends who are also. Some infidelity here and there and some hookups but nothing like what some folks think it's like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:59 AM
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Your first problem is that you have no compassion for "poors and dumbs" (your words), which make up a majority of humans who are that way not by choice and cannot change by individual choice either. Your second problem is that you assume your privileged world (which largely didn't come through your choices- rather you were born into it) is the norm. You aren't rich and educated because your ancestors were better, smarter and made better choices. They pushed risk onto weaker people, took from tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:33 AM
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You're right, humans are more nuanced than OP suggests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:59 AM
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Idk if this was already said, but a significant amount of people that go into sex work today also do so out of financial desperation. I mean, more than 50 percent of Americans didn't have emergency funds of 500 dollars and this was PRE covid. Bottom 50 percent of Americans own 3 percent of wealth in America. Why would anyone, never mind women, enter a job market that is increasingly exploitative, underpaying, life (and soul)- sucking when they can potentially make more by being naked on camera? …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 09:20 PM
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