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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! I asked my current partner out but go off I guess lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 12:42 PM
2	Most men aren’t evil, patriarchal, chauvinistic, rapists/rape apologists. ....I don’t understand why several people have said this to me. my “numbers” are taken from female friends who have been telling me this stuff since I was 15. the reason I put “about 6” is because I’m certain that many of the female friends I’ve had since high school just didn’t tell me. it is cruel of you to suggest I may be lying. we are talking about rape, a crime that leaves many people with lifelong PTSD. get a fucking grip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 12:31 PM
3	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! My comment was made after I scrolled through the rest of the comments and saw a bunch of people saying women would never date short men, that she obviously broke up with all those guys because they were ugly, that women are liars, gold-diggers, etc. It was not about him, I had no idea it was even that person arguing with her. I coincidentally chose that comment to reply to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 12:27 PM
1	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! Yeah, obviously there are women like that here, but I’d say there’s about an equal amount of women who don’t expect a dinner date. (also depends on the context - if you were the one to ask me out, you pay. if I ask you out, i pay)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 12:25 PM
5	Most men aren’t evil, patriarchal, chauvinistic, rapists/rape apologists. I have no words. I quite literally refuse to believe that someone could say something so cruel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 04:22 AM
5	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! egh a few people in the comments said all women want is money. seems to be a common thing around here, women are supposedly just gold diggers ¯_(ツ)_/¯	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 01:43 AM
4	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! No, I’m not giving myself a pat on the back. I’m trying to demonstrate that the generalizations people make of women on this sub are not accurate. We are not some hive mind who are all after money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 01:30 AM
3	Most men aren’t evil, patriarchal, chauvinistic, rapists/rape apologists. Yeah, that’s entirely fair. You do have the right to stay away from women like that, and nobody can blame you. Also, that statistic seems a bit high. I think the one you might be looking for is that 1/5 college women are victims of successful or attempted rape?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 01:13 AM
6	Most men aren’t evil, patriarchal, chauvinistic, rapists/rape apologists. Well, okay. I don’t personally like the M&M analogy very much, nor am I scared of All Men(TM), nor do I like the phrase “kill all men,” etc. And I also don’t think all women are innocent angels (I’ve definitely met extremely toxic women.) However, I’ve gotta admit that I am pretty afraid when I walk down the street at night, or am at a party, and I’m usually watching out for strange men who might be creepy. And that’s because I’ve been harassed and stalked (for months might I mention), ~6 of my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 12:28 AM
1	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! I wasn’t saying that everyone on here was an incel, I was hyperbolically saying that there were a lot in the comments. if you look at the comments, there’s a lot of “women only want money and attractiveness, you’re all shallow,” etc. One of the “tenets” of incel-ism is the negative generalization of all women as only wanting money and physical attractiveness. it’s not a stretch to say that there are incels on this subreddit. I mean, I cannot tell you how many times i’ve had strangers here tell m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 12:10 AM
4	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! LOL you really attracted every single incel on the sub with that post. For the record, I totally agree with you. I’ve had huge crushes on men that were shorter than me or just generally not conventionally attractive (and for any incel reading this, they rejected me not the other way around), and I’ve definitely dated people not my type. The things I love about my current boyfriend are all personality related. he’s funny, he respects me, he treats me like I’m the love of his life, he’s confident.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 11:18 PM
6	Women don’t really desire a man. They desire money, validation and attention Sure, I’ll answer. You’re generalizing women based on your limited experience with them, and you’re assuming all women are like this, because it’s easier for you to do that than to view us as actual individuals with lives, goals, and most of all, the ability to feel empathy and love towards our fellow human beings. You’re doing this because you’ve probably had a few bad experiences with some women, or because you’ve seen the worst case examples on the internet, and you don’t have any female frie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 03:28 PM
14	Women don’t really desire a man. They desire money, validation and attention Yup. You’re right. I’ve been with my current partner for over a year, and I tell him I love him two or three times a day, and I facetime him often, and I went LD with him knowing it would be a rough 5 years. I did all this because I just want his money and because I’m an attention whore. your argument just comes off as like, “if woman want man....why woman no want ME? i am man??”	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 03:21 PM
2	What exactly is toxic masculinity? I have nothing to say except the video you shared was from the perspective of one man (admittedly one who has a PhD or MD or something similar), who is criticizing a well-respected organization. It is the largest organization of psychologists & psychiatrists in america. The article I cited from them has its own references to research, which I assume you did not read. If you can show me that these articles are not peer reviewed and not from reputable journals, I’ll listen. But the opinion of one …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 03:38 PM
2	What exactly is toxic masculinity? I would love to see some peer reviewed research on why my argument is nonsense. given that I have sourced my arguments in my original comment, i should think i deserve the same from you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 03:00 PM
2	What exactly is toxic masculinity? Yes, women are capable of violence. But you fundamentally misunderstand my argument. Toxic femininity does not endorse violence, it supports repression of anger/violent urges. When women express violence, they are going against toxic femininity, because society expects women to be innocent and nonviolent and to suppress emotion. My argument was never that men are the only ones who are violent. My argument was that hegemonic masculinity idealizes violence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 02:36 PM
2	What exactly is toxic masculinity? First, let’s talk about violence. While I agree that maybe it’s helpful to be violent if you’re hunting for food, or when defending yourself from someone, it is in general not a good thing. It is especially not a good thing when idealized. The violence that is idealized by hegemonic masculinity is usually that against weaker individuals. It is more often an “i’m asserting my dominance through power” kind of violence than an “i need to defend myself from this bear” kind of violence. I’m just goin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 12:56 PM
18	What exactly is toxic masculinity? Ehh. I mean, I agree of course that homophobia and misogyny are bad. But most if not all the other things listed are also bad. Promoting and emphasizing aggressiveness and violence for the sake of proving your manhood, or being forced to repress your emotions, or not being able to get emotional support from your homies is quite likely very damaging. Everyone needs some sort of social circle that allows them to be themselves. I’m of course not saying that all men are like this. It’s much less com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 05:01 AM
3	The overwhelming feminist approval, and criticism over conservative criticism over Cardi B and her song "WAP", is evidence that, despite many claims to the contrary, women ARE as horny as men I looked it up and read a few studies on this, because I was determined to prove you wrong, but you’re actually almost completely correct. People who score highly on Sensation Seeking scales like rock, folk, and classical Preference for intricate music is linked to “openness to experience,” while preference for cheerful music is linked to being an extravert On the Myers Briggs Scale, intuitive people enjoy a wider variety of music as compared to people who prefer sensing, and extraverts like mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/20 12:28 PM
9	The overwhelming feminist approval, and criticism over conservative criticism over Cardi B and her song "WAP", is evidence that, despite many claims to the contrary, women ARE as horny as men i think there’s absolutely a difference between liking a song and identifying with it. I like plenty of music - ska punk, classic rock, pop, kpop, jazz....but the songs I identify with are the ones that actually shine a light on my character. I appreciate classical music. Doesn’t mean I know a thing about it. Doesn’t mean it reflects my personality at all. For heaven’s sake, I’m a PhD student and half the time I find myself singing the Sophia the First song under my breath because it’s just catc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/20 05:21 AM
2	Women Are As Entitled As Men (Sorry for the whole-ass dissertation you're about to read here) Ah, okay, you got me. An article in 2014 reporting on data from 2011 is not exactly recent; however, among scientists, I don't think it would normally have been deemed old enough to not be relevant, unless other data contradicted it. Yours did, and you're right. I appreciate you correcting me. I also concede that I wasn't looking at active members in those subs. But 2,200 is still not very large in comparison to the amount of peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 10:50 PM
1	Women Are As Entitled As Men more men are reported virgins later in life I looked up some CDC statistics (summarized here), and it looks like the difference is marginal at best. yet STD rates are increasing almost everywhere, why is that? Just to be a bit petty (forgive me) - the CDC states: "[...]multiple factors are contributing to the overall increase in STDs, including: Drug use, poverty, stigma, and unstable housing, which can reduce access to STD prevention[...]Decreased condom use among vulnerable groups, including y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 09:46 PM
2	Women Are As Entitled As Men I mean, I would argue that r/FemaleDatingStrategy is not a good representation of the female population at all. If you have to have strategies for dating, and you have to get ideas for them from reddit of all places, you’ve probably got some issues. It isn’t a good sample. I would look to r/AskWomen for a more clear representation of women, they have plenty of relationship-type questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 11:58 AM
4	Women Are As Entitled As Men The best of any population is not going to be on dating apps, dude. Go find people in real life if you want to talk about meaningful things, and you want people to give you their time. When i was on tinder, many men would open with things like “actually I think it’s hot that you’re bi” or “want a threesome?” but I don’t blame the whole male population for that. Because it’s just a dating app.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 11:55 AM
2	Women Are As Entitled As Men Completely agree. Also, it’s not even just low quality women on dating apps. A lot of the time it’s women who are not showing their best side, because it’s a dating app. I used to respond to mostly everything when I was on Tinder but it really took a lot for me to be interested in the conversation once it started, much more than it would IRL where you can see the person face to face. Dating apps are not usually the best place to get meaningful interactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 11:52 AM
1	What is your definition of cheating? I think if it’s an emotional connection you can tell by the way they text the person. In high school, when I was 17, I was stupid and I emotionally cheated on my partner. I didn’t realize it was cheating at the time, because it wasn’t physical. But looking back, if you’d looked at our texts...oh boy. He was telling me I was hot, I’d complain about my then-boyfriend to him and tell him I’d be breaking up with him soon, we’d text each other all day and I’d try to hide those texts from my then-boyf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 01:42 AM
1	What is your definition of cheating? Yes, respect for the other person, but also for the relationship. Not cheating is one way of showing one is loyal and values their partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 01:39 AM
1	Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women? An important distinction, I think, should be made between withholding because you are not up to it, and withholding because you want to negatively impact the other person. My (LDR) partner and I sometimes don’t text all day because we got in a spat and are taking a breather. We aren’t getting affection, but we aren’t being manipulated, either. We are just taking a break for a second to reflect and cool down. My mother used to withhold affection from me as a child, if I did something bad. She wou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 01:36 AM
1	Marriage isn’t worth it to independent women either. Ah, that’s interesting. I didn’t think to look to research for that particular issue. I should be a better scientist haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 02:10 AM
2	Do you want to be loved for your abilities, accomplishments, and achievements by someone you're dating? Well, I definitely think the things you listed are part of it. But I can’t say it’s not extremely attractive when my boyfriend talks about his research, or when he cooks for me, or when I watch him bench/DL/etc. Those things are part of him too. Would I say I love him because of those things? No, because love is hard to define and in the end is just oxytocin (okay and other neurotransmitters but you know what I mean).	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 11:12 PM
1	Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's? ??? I did not mean it like that, I explained myself in the next sentence	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 08:04 PM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread As I said, the girl’s family were paying for all the baby’s stuff. But I do not personally agree with her choice to keep the baby in the first place. In an ideal world, a 15 year old should neither have to be a parent nor have to pay child support. And to more specifically answer your question - I do believe that the government actually does support babies born to minors in some cases, and in other cases it’s legally stated that the baby’s father’s parents pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 06:10 PM
0	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Legally, he is a child. He is not even at the age of consent. Where is he going to get the money to pay child support? I personally think it’s fine to ask him to help raise the kid, and put in time. But the girl clearly did not need help with money. her parents were very involved and much more capable of financially supporting her than a 15 year old who has a shitty part time job at best. Children of any gender should never have to pay child support. Edit: downvotes are for unproductive comments…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 02:08 PM
3	Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's? I generally think people do not have high enough standards for dating. I see way too many unhappy couples where one person is begging the other for some sort of empathy/sympathy, and the other refuses to give it; where one person wants more out of the relationship and gets angry when their partner doesn’t read their mind; where one person does all the chores; where one person is being mistreated/abused and thinks it is normal. I think this is because a lot of people have a general misunderstandi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 01:26 PM
0	Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's? Perhaps they are meeting that standard, but for different people. “Entertaining” is a vague term that people define very differently. My brother is an engineer and finds that very interesting, but it puts me to sleep. Regardless, I think you should keep looking. It’s hard to find the “right” partner, but when you do, it’s very rewarding. Edit: downvotes r for comments that don’t contribute to the conversation, and in any case are against the rules on this sub lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 01:23 PM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Eh, I’m in a blue state and my sex ed skipped everything LGBT, we had a guest speaker who yelled at the girls and basically told us it’s our fault if we get pregnant (“to protect you”), and my teacher said nobody should ever do anal (to be fair she gave decent reasons IIRC). There were two teachers, and one of them was supposedly extremely transphobic. It wasn’t the worst, but there was room for improvement. At least we learned about rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 12:46 PM
2	Marriage isn’t worth it to independent women either. that’s really cool! and thanks, I took like 2 classes on it in undergrad and do a little digging on my own sometimes and now I think I know everything	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 11:05 PM
1	Marriage isn’t worth it to independent women either. Got it - edited the comment. What’s a salivary amylase copy number? And what do you mean by rice cultures - like humans that eat rice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 08:07 PM
2	Marriage isn’t worth it to independent women either. This is definitely a subjective answer but differences are definitely more pronounced in peacocks, the Triplewort seadevil, elephant seals, some species of ducks, lions, orangutans.... I think we notice differences more because we are actually human, so we get a lot of time to stare at the other sex and notice the differences. But an alien species may look at us and say well, sure women have boobs and men have more muscle mass, but the height and mass differences don’t seem to be that drastic. “…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 04:31 PM
2	Marriage isn’t worth it to independent women either. I said we aren’t “very” sexually dimorphic. What I meant was that we don’t display the same levels of sexual dimorphism that some other species do. Men don’t have rainbow skin. The argument I was making was that since we show low levels of it, it’s less likely that women would display money-seeking behavior as an evolutionary trait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 04:06 PM
2	Marriage isn’t worth it to independent women either. Sexual dimorphism is the degree to which sexes vary within one species. This is easily observed in, for example, birds: males typically display much brighter colors than females. It’s less obvious in mammals, but one example that sticks out is lions. Males have manes, and females do not. Humans DO show sexual dimorphism, don’t get me wrong. Males are on average larger and stronger as a result of testosterone, and they have adam’s apples, to list off a few examples. and they do not have boobs or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 03:38 PM
3	Marriage isn’t worth it to independent women either. Plenty of working adults maintain healthy relationships while working full time jobs. and even if only one works a full time job, that still means the couple does not see each other often, because they’re apart for the same amount of time lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 02:32 PM
6	Marriage isn’t worth it to independent women either. Women up- or down-marrying is not an evolutionary trait at all. First, it takes tens of thousands of years to evolve anything in large mammals like us. One of the quickest examples of evolution i can think of off the top of my head is the slight change in gorilla feet over the last ~10,000 years. (species that reproduce quickly are different) Evolution is a fairly random event, but it also is not something that is always maintained if the evolved specimen happens to reproduce. Natural selection …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 02:27 PM
0	Marriage isn’t worth it to independent women either. Well, men do on average make more money than women. source	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 02:13 PM
3	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Teenagers are hormonal and they are going to be having sex. They’re at the age biologically when they want it more than ever. I’m personally of the opinion that these things would happen much less if sex education in the US were better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 11:33 AM
2	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are I think things are for sure changing. Men professing love for their friends probably wasn’t as common even a decade ago. Now we have a lot of push towards men being kind to each other. Regarding women and affection - yeah there is obviously going to be variation. I did find a research article that studied this and found women do tend to have more emotionally intimate relationships, and tend to prefer them that way. There’s also a chapter that discusses a variety of evolutionary and social sex di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 11:13 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread The father is 15 years old. He is a child himself. I feel for the mom, it really sucks, but she also made the choice to keep the kid. It’s entirely valid for a 15 year old to try to back out of raising a child. plus, the girl had said herself that her family was committed to helping raise the kid! they had bought her a closet full of baby clothes, all of which matched! so it wasn’t as if she was in a dire situation. Not to mention the language surrounding the situation. Most of the “make his poc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 05:34 AM
4	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread When did anyone say they wanted people to be rude to them?* Lol i’ve literally never heard of that would love some specific examples if you have some *aside from in BDSM lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 02:06 AM
5	What are your thoughts on Bella Thorne making $1 million USD on onlyfans not for straight men as actors in porn, but definitely for straight men as CEOs	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 09:52 PM
2	Why do you come to PurplePillDebate? Literally. It is somehow incredibly stimulating. the rare occasion I get to cite sources to back up my arguments is 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 09:51 PM
1	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are To your first part - I think both men and women experience that “will they leave me if i do [x]” in the first part of the relationship. (though that is the reasonable ones; i know plenty of people of both genders who think they are entitled to the other person and think they can do whatever they want.) also yeah, i don’t engage in it but still wanted to express some sort of sympathy ¯_(ツ)_/¯	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 09:44 PM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I’m not gonna say never. but today I saw a tiktok of a 15 year old who got pregnant by her boyfriend, who later broke up with her for that reason, and people in the comments were saying to file for child support and to “make his pockets hurt.” he was also 15. so it’s not uncommon for women to be shitty to men. although i think this has been the way things are for decades - both genders are terrible to each other in unique, creative ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 09:40 PM
6	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Well, it’s deffo not negging, but it’s also not a fantastic conversation starter? Like “hello my name’s John what if I was better than you at painting” is not exactly amazing regardless of whom you’re talking to	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 09:38 PM
3	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Could you explain more what you mean by “the past doesn’t matter”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 09:35 PM
1	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are Dude. the literal original post that started this comment thread was saying that men need to settle for unfulfilling relationships because they need to have sex. My original response to that specific argument was that even if men did need sex that much, there’s no reason somebody should suffer through an entire relationship just for some sex, because it would be much easier/less time consuming to just hook up with girls. I never compared gendered experiences in dating in the first place. That wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 09:23 PM
1	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are Sorry you have to put...effort? Into getting laid? We all do. Have you not seen how women dress up to go to bars? I would say 60% of that is just because we enjoy looking nice, but 40% is to attract other men and women. Yes, I concur that it’s much easier for women. But nobody puts “no effort” into a relationship unless they were platonic friends before falling for each other. Regardless, you’ve missed my point. It is significantly more difficult to get into a relationship than it is to get a on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 05:27 PM
2	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are ...I still don’t get it. How is it easier to be in an unfulfilling long-term relationship than it is to find a one-night stand? There are even apps for this Also FYI - just treat us like humans. That’s all we ask. the bar is extremely low in terms of emotional support. I feel like people kind of overestimate how different the genders aee	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 04:15 PM
1	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are I completely agree. But I was mostly arguing against the original thing that this person said - that men need sex, and that it is worth being with a partner with whom your relationship is “formal and anxious,” just to get sex. Being with someone like that is probably more damaging in the long run than those long stints of unwanted abstinence. One small point that I haven’t mentioned yet is that, while sex itself is important, it’s probably also much easier for someone to deal with not getting it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 03:09 PM
2	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are Then I would say that should depend on how close they are with the woman. If she is part of the friend group, the change should not be significant. If she is not, then....why is she there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 12:14 PM
1	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are Ah yeah I was being a bit hyperbolic there. I do not kiss any of my friends goodnight. But we do hug and show each other positive physical/emotional contact fairly regularly. My male friends have said they do not receive this kind of thing much at all. And I agree that it all varies depending on the person, that’s why I try to emphasize the words “on average.” This sub is meant for generalizations, so I’ve mostly given up with the “(but not everyone!)” addendums.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 12:09 PM
2	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are YES! In high school I had a mixed friend group of guys and girls, and although I’m sure 70% of the reason we all showed each other affection was hormones, my male friends also expressed that they really enjoyed any positive physical contact. I’ve talked at length with one of them about this and he said he did not get affection anywhere else, and it was so sad. edit: to be clear we don’t do this anymore because like, no longer horny and it’s not socially acceptable to cuddle with friends. But it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 12:08 PM
5	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you eventually find close companions of any gender that you can talk to. I know you say you can hide all your issues from other people, but it still must not be fun to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 12:05 PM
4	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are Yeah, like I said, I’m not a man so I would not know. I’ve definitely heard from men that they desire sex more on average than women do (of course I do have female friends that are extremely horny, and male friends that are decidedly not, but that is off topic) I was more so just speaking from a psychological perspective, because that is what I know best. Also, if we’re on this topic, it’s good to clarify that there is a difference between what someone perceives to be necessary, and what is actu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 11:57 AM
6	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are Nobody is forcing anyone to spend money on sex. Where are you residing that such laws exist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 11:33 AM
2	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are I was wondering if someone would bring this up while I was typing my comment, lol. But the reality is that my boyfriend is not a liar, nor is he manipulative enough to tell people things just to gain something from them. Everyone’s dated people they don’t feel 100% themselves around, and so when you do find someone like that, you want to tell them these kinds of things every day, IMO. I fully believe if he didn’t feel comfortable around me in this way, he just would not bring up the topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 11:32 AM
22	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are Do women not need sex? Oh gosh, have I not needed sex this whole time? Also. Men don’t need sex. They on average (there’s outliers everywhere) have higher sex drives and desire it more. But it is not a biological need for everyone. Emotional support is more necessary than sex. When humans do not get it, the consequences are disastrous. This is why being with a supportive partner that does not induce stress should be the priority over being with one who will put out. Speaking as a psychology rese…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 05:40 AM
11	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are You are clearly not holding your partners to acceptable standards. The current emotional expectations most people have for partners are, IMO, much too low (and conversely the expectations for physical attractiveness are much too high). I hope you one day find someone around whom you can be completely comfortable around, like my partner and I are around each other. Also...bruh, my partner certainly has homies. You have never met him, nor will you ever meet him, so you could not possibly presume t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 05:11 AM
0	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are He has a few very close friends, but he says the expectations for how to behave are not the same. i.e. kissing the homies goodnight, while a nice joke that breaks down stereotypes, is not actually realistic yet. The expectation for men is typically not to show a fuckton of affection and vulnerability, and to my knowledge, friendships where you can get together and talk about the loneliness eating away at you, or your depression, are on average less common in men than women. Correct me if I’m wro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 04:52 AM
28	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are You...what? How? Why? Lol It is better to be alone than to be with someone that causes tension, stress, and anxiety. Speaking from experience. Hold people to a higher standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 04:46 AM
18	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are Have you ever met a decent woman? Because honestly it sounds like everyone you’ve been dating has been a scumbag, and I promise you not everyone is like this. The expectation for relationships should be higher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 04:42 AM
31	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are My partner has told me this straight up. He does not trust many of his closest male friends with any of his issues. He also does not like that, for lack of a better term, “male culture” discourages emotional support and affection. He says he is most like himself when he is alone or around me. So there is at least one man like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 04:41 AM
11	[Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really are There’s a shift in personality no matter whom you’re talking to. You’re going to act differently around your best friend, your coworkers, the boss you hate, the person you love, the female friend, etc. Many psychologists call these personalities “social selves.” They should not change super drastically, but they will change. In fact it’s pretty worrisome if you act the same exact way around your boss as you do your spouse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 04:39 AM
2	If you are not a traditional woman do not expect to be treated like one, for traditional dating. Agree. It took over a hundred years of women fighting for their rights, for us to be able to do the same basic adult things that men have always been allowed. During that time, dating conventions were not the main issue at hand, so of course they got less attention. And now they are being pushed back against by many people. Societal changes do not come quickly and we should not expect them to. Part of this might be the fact that there are still a lot of religious (sorry OP for mentioning religio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 04:00 AM
1	Do left wing men or right wing men have more sex? Furthermore, do atheist men or religious men have more sex? something something it takes a village I remember taking a history class where I read basically a book about women’s social lives in the ~1800s and apparently their social circles were very close so many women ended up raising their kids “together”	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 06:09 PM
2	Do left wing men or right wing men have more sex? Furthermore, do atheist men or religious men have more sex? Oh, that’s for sure. I agree that fathers are an incredibly important part of a child’s life, and so are mothers. But this stance, if paired with a total lack of research on homosexual relationships/marriages, and with a biased report on the dangers of single motherhood, becomes a little sketchy. I mean, what about lesbians? What about single fathers? Nothing is said about these. And yes, pornography can be harmful, but the article I read seemed to dislike it on principle. “The theory that porn …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 02:13 PM
3	Q4W: How do you reconcile the following opinions? To add onto this, I think it’s not just a matter of if a woman is “of age.” I personally think that it’s totally fine if a 25 year old is dating a 45 year old. But an 18-19 year old dating a 30+ year old is creepy. The human brain is not fully developed until age 25-27. There are no magical changes that happen after a person’s birthday - those come with years of experience. Also, it’s sometimes worth questioning to me why 30+ year old men only date younger girls. Was the 25 year old too mature f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 01:38 PM
3	Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship. Literally all anyone is entitled to is Basic Human Respect. Some people refuse to learn this. See also: Karens	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 01:33 PM
2	Do left wing men or right wing men have more sex? Furthermore, do atheist men or religious men have more sex? I honestly tried to find unbiased sources about IFS, but given they have no wikipedia page (which is a red flag IMO), these are the only other things I could find about them: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._Bradford_Wilcox https://mediabiasfactcheck.com/institute-for-family-studies/ Apparently Brad Wilcox is a senior fellow and IFS advertises on one of their pages a video he made for PragerU. Regardless of which political way it is biased, after reading a few articles here and there, I’ve not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 01:14 PM
1	Do left wing men or right wing men have more sex? Furthermore, do atheist men or religious men have more sex? I guess I am just taken aback at the jabs at feminism and the emphasis on not just family life, but marriage specifically. I’m not certain if this source is biased or not, but it is the second one that I have found listing IFS as conservative: https://www.sourcewatch.org/index.php/Institute_for_Family_Studies IFS doesn’t even have a wikipedia page.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 11:28 AM
3	Do left wing men or right wing men have more sex? Furthermore, do atheist men or religious men have more sex? Holy shit I did not realize that. I just blindly picked an article and the Institute for Family Studies sounded legit...Ive looked at their about and yes they are	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 02:59 AM
1	Do left wing men or right wing men have more sex? Furthermore, do atheist men or religious men have more sex? I don’t know if you were basing this on research or not but I literally just found an article saying this same exact thing. https://ifstudies.org/blog/sex-in-red-and-blue-america Edit: the link I sent is from a conservatively biased source.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 02:49 AM
7	Do left wing men or right wing men have more sex? Furthermore, do atheist men or religious men have more sex? https://ifstudies.org/blog/sex-in-red-and-blue-america nice Edit: this is from a conservatively biased source oops	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 02:48 AM
1	CMV: Men mate-guard their property, women mate-guard their value. I said this because while I was making generalizations, I wanted to make sure that those reading them wouldn’t assume I was applying them to everyone. Generalizations often do work, we can say that for example most people dislike pain, but everyone has different hobbies and behaviors and cognitive makeup in general. ((But also I’m new to this sub and didn’t know people commonly posted this))	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 02:40 AM
2	CMV: Men mate-guard their property, women mate-guard their value. I haven’t seen anyone in these comments really disagree with most of what you’re saying, OP, so I will put my voice out there. First, I want to assert that every single person is incredibly multifaceted. There will always be men and women of all genders and races that do not fall under any of our generalizations. You’ve admitted these generalizations are not based on any kind of research. They are all anecdotal, but I’ll play along for the moment and do research later. if we are talking in anecd…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 01:47 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (09 August 2020) Noo that is not it. I think partially it’s that many people in general (regardless of gender) don’t understand what it’s like for the person they’re rejecting, and many think that if this were to happen to them, they would continue being friends. (Regardless of what they actually would do!) With women specifically, I think it might also be an issue of misunderstanding the not wanting to be friends, and thinking the guy was just friends with her because he wanted to bone. I personally wouldn’t ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 11:54 PM
1	The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality. Does it though? I’ve literally never heard a woman express that it has ever worked for her. Actually I would like some research on this. I doubt it’s been done, but it would be interesting to get a survey of women who have been catcalled and see which of them liked it and how they responded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 11:44 PM
3	The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality. I feel like you meant succinct but I super love that you said succulent 🌵	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 11:34 PM
0	Why do you think feminists enjoy submissive fantasies? I respectfully disagree, as someone who is both feminist and submissive. Although my definition of feminism differs from yours in that I advocate for human rights in general. Rape fantasies involve loss of control and release of endorphins. Participation in BDSM and rape-play is a total adrenaline rush. More psychologically, those who submit often just enjoy not making decisions for a while, in a world where decision-making is required. Plenty of men and non-feminist women have rape fantasies. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 05:39 PM