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| 1 | I am a man so I must be a pedophileHonestly, if somebody accuses you of things like this, just be upfront and say I’m watching over my friend’s child. If you genuinely think I’m a predator; we can wait out the cops. In facf, we can both wait here in for his parents to come back. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/22 02:35 AM |
| 0 | The hypocrisy behind blaming all the world's ill on menYeah, ever since someone (call him P) I know l—who also went down this esoteric, right-wing, rabbit hole—and a family friend (Dr K) weighed in on their informal opinion of why P was like this, I’ve been wondering about it for other people in similarly insular, right-wing communities. Because you all act so unbelievably similar. And the thing is these insular, right-wing communities aren’t even close to the norm for the right wing. These communities are so gratuitously aggressive in their critici… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 02:16 PM |
| 0 | The hypocrisy behind blaming all the world's ill on menAlso, this is so fucking strange I don’t think about whether I even do the thing. But you automatically assume you do because they said “men”? you’re throwing your hands in the air and quitting because they didn’t hold yoyr hand and say: Men—specifically these ones—who do so and so and so are awful. Now, I’m not necessarily referring to you. On the note I made earlier with how I’m so utterly certain you’re all suffering from some undiagnosed personality disorder, a part of developing and growing… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 11:49 AM |
| 0 | The hypocrisy behind blaming all the world's ill on menYou're missing the point. Why is the onus on me to be able to "read their mind" and whitewash their viewpoints so I feel better about their bigotry Tbh I really do think most of the men on this sub suffer from BPD or some kind of personality disorder similar because seemingly you all have such crazy issues with permanence. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 11:31 AM |
| 0 | The hypocrisy behind blaming all the world's ill on menOh my god. I’m not going to put in dramatically more work so that you can understand what’s being said. Jesus christ the amount you have your head so far up your ass that you thought it appropriate to go on that tangent. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | The hypocrisy behind blaming all the world's ill on menBud, nobody is forcing you to do anything. Typically women will often say Ugh, I hate it when men do ______ And they say the thing that a population of men do. But let’s say that’s not even what’s said and it’s this vague and nebulous thing you’re talking about. The answer is still ‘do whatever you want’. I’m not going to fight for you to be a better person. It just means a noteworthy amount of people are gonna be too tired to indulge you. And everyone that does get it is going to move on. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | The hypocrisy behind blaming all the world's ill on menIf they get into power. Lol, the entire MRA worldview is predicated on this lingering fear theyll be castrated whenever women get into power. How do we differentiate it? It’s kinda like how we can declare certain actions as criminal acts. Don’t do these bad things and you won’t be a shitty guy. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Having a kid soon, been on a lot of parenting subs and it makes me sick that women think men should have no say in termination of pregnancyMaybe casual sex isn’t for you if you can’t have these conversations with people you’re going to be intimate with. Seriously, if it’s up in the air for you and you genuinely have no clue whether the person you’re hooking up with is willing to have an abortion—then that’s on you. Anyway; yeah, there’s no other option. It doesn’t work like that. Welcome to reality. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 05:53 AM |
| 0 | What do I do when I call someone out for stereotyping men and then they say “I didn’t say ALL men”Alright, hey, it would make sense for you to feel solidarity. Flat earthers similarly have conventions. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | The ultimate groping hypocrisyCool | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 01:30 AM |
| 1 | The ultimate groping hypocrisyCool, sure. Consider the following, the league and the players didn’t do anything to prosecute them. You’re making a fuss for them and they never asked. In fact, I’m so utterly certain that even 5 years from now literally nothing will have changed about this topic on this sub. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityOmg I went over this. I can’t believe there are people as neurotic as this. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 01:16 AM |
| -1 | What do I do when I call someone out for stereotyping men and then they say “I didn’t say ALL men”Hey, to the extent that they feel they’d be lumped on with them—and ought show solidarity—because they believe they’re dealing with a tailored narrative, they should step in. For me personally, I happen to agree that a lot of you are so utterly pathetic I’d never want to be caught dead associating with you. Please though, explain why you think you ought garner support. Lemme clue you into a history factoid about the word “misogyny”. Words don’t get made for no reason. We don’t have a word to des… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityPffft when I replied there was just the involuntary celibate line prior to the edit. Still waiting for an explanation of natural harmony Lmao. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?Fr I forgot how long ago I last came on here and it’s the same shit still. You’d expect there’s be some “progress” but there’s nothing. It’s just CAN YOU IMAGINE IF THIS WERE A MAN?!?!,, | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityHey, you got a point. He described himself as it though , so. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityNo, you got it. That’d what I’m trying to say, sorry. The thing Im asking then is Does it really matter whether they polled just women or just men? It’s going to vary immensely from group to group. The main reason for asking women though was and is because men act “masculine” or strive to be masculine because it’s for women. Am I wrong? I mean gay people exist, but generally speaking you’d want to sample hetero women primarily. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?Yeah and adderall. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?Oh, mate, by far you can go to a priest for therapy. I actually recommend it when people can’t afford a therapist. The amount of people who affiliate themselves with the christian right wing that are completely lost to these institutions is so uncannily large imo though. The fact so many don’t even know that priests offer marriage counseling despite how weddings literally take place IN CHURCHES is wild to me. I mean confession is basically telling a priest your grief. The amount to which they ca… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?Also what do you mean “pushing drugs”???? You know that at any point in time if the medication makes you feel bad, you don’t have to take it right? They can’t force you against your will unless you say you’re gonna kill or hurt people. Nobody, in general, can force you to go see a healthcare provider. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Why is Heightism normalized?Ay, ty for confirming my point. Can you levy that to the guy who thinks it’s pretty homogeneously used across the board? As for Do you talk to people who are right wing Because if you mean in real life, yeah. Don’t make an effort to that regularly, but I’ve met enough. They don’t typically say things like Shitlib Because they’re terminally online though. I’ll admit that. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?Okay. Women who shame men for being short aren’r insecure and short men that berate fat women aren’t insecure either. And also the reactionary groups of the world aren’t basically the same in terms of ideology. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?Republicans gave the same exact argument on TV when they tried to use the skinny repeal to get rid of the ACA during the trump admin. Our goal is to ensure that there’s access to healthcare infrastructure And this was so utterly pointless because the reality is people can’t access it due to cost. What does “access” even mean at that point? Anyway, when it comes to mental health, because there’s not enough funding as of rn, what most dem states do is provide mental health counselors for prisoners… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?Also, actually—what part of this did you think looked bad for “the left”???? Be honest, did you read the article or you just jumped straight at the numbers?? The statistics weren’t addressing the number of people who went to therapy. It was addressing the number of people who, out of everyone who went to therapy, wanted to discuss politics. 63% were democrats, 11% were Republicans. That’s not a good thing for the left. ???? What aspect of it “looks bad”???? That they went to a therapist because … | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?I have no clue how you genuinely aren’t picking up on this as if it’s some kinda gotcha. So you’re really uncomfortable making the conclusion Mental health in general isn’t left wing dominated Despite how 1) 50%+ is the discrepancy between people who are even willing to enter into the field. 2) After talking to their clients who are regulars, they feel they can understand their political leanings—because it was discussed with them. They literally talked about whether the current political climat… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?You can believe whatever you want to believe about what it says about the left. It doesn’t change the fact that there’s a greater amount of left leaning people who indulge therapy and mental health as an institution. Had to recheck the article. Yeah, what the fuck are you nitpicking at? So here’s what Solomon and Barber did. They recruited therapists from all U.S. states. In terms of political party, 62% were Democrats; 7% were Republican; 23% were independent; and 8% were other. Therapists then… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?Yeah, 63% of them were dems. How many were rep? What is the discrepancy between reps and dems in the article? | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?It also means that people who are unstable and generally a risk to others aren’t likely to get treatment. When it comes down to things that could affect a lot of people if one person has an unstable, psychotic break pay for it on your own Is something doesn’t solve for “we have unstable people going on violent sprees”. It’s basically throwing your hands up in the air. Mental health is one of those things that hinges on public funding. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?Yeah, republicans never at any point in time actually undid those things, so—kinda. In fact, generally speaking Republicans are desperately against publicly funded health systems. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/head-games/201912/psychotherapy-in-the-trump-era?amp I mean it is pretty anecdotal. It’s pretty unimportant except in a lay sentiment, unless of course people are going on about how they literally feel dysphoric (like they cant be masculine—so this sub), but opt solely to vent online. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?It’s also a carry over from the reagan administration when they completely shafted psych wards and mental health funding in the US because of the stigma attributed to a few outlying cases. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Why is Heightism normalized?Bravo. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityAll I can think of is how every metropllitan in texas is floundering because they refuse to bring in experts to help design public transport networks. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 11:38 AM |
| 0 | The ultimate groping hypocrisyYeah, it’s something morally wrong, but seemingly the league and those guys groped by those women didn’t care | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Why is Heightism normalized?Yeah, in general—people don’t go to therapy, but I have only ever seen it used by the right wing to confer they think someone is irreparably broken or of weak mind. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 11:36 AM |
| 0 | The ultimate groping hypocrisyYou focus on these rape cases among men, right? You know how new york post will give articles with headlines like Ex airplane stewardess, now teacher, has sex with 13 year old student. And the comments will always include creep guys saying Heh, I’d LOVE IT if she did that to me. Like basically saying Oh man, please rape me. i’m so desperate and lonely I have no clue what love or affection. ??? Because what I find is that generally there’s an asymmetry here where men will go out of their way to s… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | The ultimate groping hypocrisyDoesn’t mean we should let them It’s up to the league and the players. It’s up to the victims of the groper to decide. Litigation is expensive and tedious. Most people don’t bother because they might not be bothered. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 05:26 AM |
| 0 | The ultimate groping hypocrisyUh, I don’t grope people—in general—so no I don’t have those thoughts. I’m saying in the instance of a woman groping me, I’d probably only ever be concerned if she was morbidly obese, in which just the sheer mass alone would be a risk to me. I wouldn’t personally care to press charges because it’d still be a very rare occurrence and honestly if she was just escorted out, that’d likely be the end of it. And so—I mean this sub loves going into statistical distributions for the general image of wom… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?The global right wing is all reactionary and p similar. The Christian right wing in the USA is the same shit as ISIS—who is basically just a warmer version of the Russian right wing, etc. Insecure men are everywhere because people, in general, are insecure for similar reasons because people are similar. Edit: when a woman short shames, she does it p likely for the same reason a guy feels the need to fatshame. They’re both insecure/entitled. They’re new to this whole thing and so they’re bejng in… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Why is Heightism normalized?Nah lol. See, the difference between right-wing communities and left wing ones is that left-wing ones will have users that actively recommend they go to therapy. At the end of the day, you have to be proactive about this stuff for your own peace of mind. If you do nothing new, then nothing will change. The right-wing of the USA is so belligerently against therapy or mental health because they see it as an admission of failure—like that there are failure centers you go to to outright say you’re w… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 03:29 AM |
| -2 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsMen are to blame for their behavior. “Sounds like victim blaming” Lmao, nobody can ever comment or levy any action as bad because in some capacity all of our behavior is influenced by prior behavior we were conditioned to abide by. Jfc, victim blaming is saying the person who was abused—encouraged and instigated the abuse because of things they failed to anticipate or prevent. If someone is an abusive person, then the goal is for them to realize why they’re abusive—so this would be upbringing—an… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 03:14 AM |
| 0 | Why is Heightism normalized?Yeah, I’m just here because I often need a reminder of how men on these subs address the argument Most of these issues are precisely because of the right-wing and their performative “masculine” image. Women get alimony and custody most of the time because you all say women are predisposed to being good caretakers. It’s just a product of what you all peddle | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 03:08 AM |
| -3 | Why is Heightism normalized?Okay, generally speaking—when it comes to “mens rights”, the people who post here lean pretty solidly right wing, mate. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Why is Heightism normalized?Hey, it isn’t normalized. In fact, fox news to this actively comments on women’s weight and seldom had commenters talking about the height of men. That in mind, none of it is okay to say—in general. Having a “preference” is fine. It literally only matters to you though. Saying I find X Y Z attractive qualities very seldom will actually help you land someone with those qualities. It only will if there’s some with those qualities that also thinks you have qualities they like. People who vocalize i… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Why is Heightism normalized?By and far, you are free to say you don’t like obese women. News stations like fox, to this day, will openly levy the weight and figure of women. Never have I ever seen news media bring up a man’s height though. In fact, women are free to prefer tall men. I have never once seen any woman not immediately berates for saying short men are unattractive though; however, this could be confirmation bias since I’m tall and don’t really notice short comments. Generally, criticizing other people by saying… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 02:43 AM |
| 0 | The legal system vs unwed fathers seriously needs an overhaul because it just doesn't work properly...When did it become the role of your family and friends Clearly, your partner is fully on board with that considering he literally left the state to get assistance from his family with raising the child because that’s what their involvement is meant to be. We have a support system without marriage No, he has one. That’s what you said in your OP. The reason why it sounds really fucked, which is what you were curious about is because typically the fucked scenarios occur because they lack certain th… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 01:48 AM |
| 0 | The legal system vs unwed fathers seriously needs an overhaul because it just doesn't work properly...What does that even mean at this point? They literally don’t live together. She doesn’t have any idea what she’s entitled to know about the child she just birthed. He’s in an entirely different state rn. Having a rough spot after having a kid, with the disposable income from someone to rent out a motel, and also a home for themselves, and then just dipping is really way too generously attributed the term “rough spot”. The situation, in general, isn’t “rough”. It’s bad and generally about the wor… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 01:46 AM |
| -1 | The legal system vs unwed fathers seriously needs an overhaul because it just doesn't work properly...Mate, your idea of “great terms” doesn’t really match up with most people’s standard definition for great terms. In general, when you go to a lawyer about parents of a child—it’s pretty much always because there is some huge dilemma. Also, you haven’t answered this. What became of your goal to know what happens with your child??? Like insofar as he has custody and you’re fine with it while you do your thing, but you’d like to be clued in. What became of that? Edit; Like, insofar as there’s no po… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Knowledge Production and Epistemic Injustice: A sexual harassment survey from 2018 gendered every single question towards women, and then unsurprisingly found that twice as many women had been harassed as menSee, the thing is—if someone called me a rapist for no reason at all, there’s nothing more I can do other than leave or just ignore the person calling me that and let them make a scene. As someone said in the comments I’m convinced this is a tactic by traffickers to lure men away from children. Your priority is watching over the kid. It shouldn’t matter what people think of you if you think the disposition you have is needed to ensure the kid is safe. But also—The fact that I seldom see men call… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.My intuition about that is more of the form Have you spent any time with a person that’s like this? They’re the type that wants the guy to pay for everything and their ambition is to become a housewife that raises kids. There is no ambition outside of that. They’re unbearably boring and I cannot imagine they have the mental maturity necessary to raise a child considering their life’s struggles ended with high school and possibly whatever time between graduating and getting someone to marry them.… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | The legal system vs unwed fathers seriously needs an overhaul because it just doesn't work properly...Also, what did the second lawyer say then? Because, and just going off readily available info online from the ABA, you literally have no proof of your status as the mother versus someone that’s potentially just a surrogate. Insofar as you’re genuinely upset your husband took your child to another state without telling you—you have very minimal legal ground past considering this child abduction from someone that wanted to use your body to bear a child. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 11:54 PM |
| 0 | The legal system vs unwed fathers seriously needs an overhaul because it just doesn't work properly...Okay, having kids and not being married is really strange considering: You only have kids with someone you’re assuredly on very good terms with. It provides tax benefits and credits that make raising a child easier. Marriage involves signing a lot of legal documentation assigning both of you as an entity, which is really useful when any government doc comes up dealing with who is responsible for the child. Also, if you can’t handle the institutional and legal responsibilities of marriage—you’re … | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 11:45 PM |
| -3 | The legal system vs unwed fathers seriously needs an overhaul because it just doesn't work properly...You met one lawyer, and it’s 10000000% understandable why they’d give that advice. Secondly, at no point in this has anything changed for the betterment of children or anybody. Everything is still the same. What was even the conclusion of you wanting to know what happens with the child? Did you drop it the moment you talked to a lawyer? Thirdly, as for a reoccurring issue among unwed fathers, the issue is because they’re unwed fathers. Who has a kid with someone they’re not married to? The only … | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityOof, the rejection sensitivity of insecure right-wing men strikes again. Literally incapable of even reading it. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 10:29 PM |
| 0 | What do I do when I call someone out for stereotyping men and then they say “I didn’t say ALL men”Uh, don’t consider it a stereotype of all men? Don’t be that stereotype? You do that because you genuinely feel solidarity with the group called “men”. The thing is, for me personally, I have way too many experiences with incredibly embarrassing men to ever think that something they say is describing all men or even me. When any of my friends say something of the form and the thing they describe men doing is something genuinely embarrassing or unnerving, I take that time to reflect on whether it… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.Like holy shit. You paid 1k to women for their time? My fucking god. Imagine someone went on chaturbate and did that. You’d think they had a legitimate problem. No, she said my username. She’s definitely into me. Y’all need to learn how to be people. Goddamn. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityOh, but yeah—the idea that natural harmony is this rigid prescribed gender roll is a right-wing belief. It’s also incredibly wrong. Hunter gatherer groups even had women on the hunt because hunting predominately involved tracking rather than combat since animals die more easily from exhaustion since they can’t sweat and aren’t bipeds. Farming has historically been done by both women and men. Industry and factory settings have had women in them because the concept of machinery, in general, levels… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.Yeah, it’s a red flag 100%. I feel in this day and age, the people who indulge it are insecure men who genuinely think their value is in their income—because otherwise why else would you do it? It’s 100% born out of the ideas that guys genuinely believed 1) it was an etiquette thing since women didn’t have employment back in the day. 2) Insecurity—because paying for your date necessarily assumes you think they aren’t getting out of the date what you’re getting. I enjoyed this date with this woma… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityEdit: lemme preface this with holy shit lmao. I came into this thinking right-wing, men of your stripe are genuinely some of the most insecure people on the planet. And I came out of this nothing short of validated. Firefighters PROTECT people It’s really deranged how people go into these transactional positions where they’re paid a wage, but they also expect people to hold them in reverence—like they can’t exist without a pat on the back. Women must beat men Men are dangerous predators Dude, if… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to die in warBecause men are fools that bought into the idea they were sissies if they didnt | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:48 PM |
| -2 | The hypocrisy behind blaming all the world's ill on menWhy does anybody need to be thanked to do good things? Why do men need to be thanked for making houses? And also—considering you touched on this, why do you feel such a huge attachment to the idea of “men”? Why don’t you see it like how I do? When feminists refer to the shitty things shitty men do and speak in generalities—they’re talking about men who are more pathetic than me. Because certainly there are men who are more pathetic than me and I don’t like to associate with them—in general. I do… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How to rally people and start a movement?Just don’t join the draft. Just go to jail or come up with a medical excuse. Vote in people who are against war. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:41 PM |
| -5 | Mother to father: That's MY child!I feel this is par for the course in any divorce proceeding because you divorced for good reason. Idg what the issue is here though. It’s a pretty esoteric thing to hyperfocus in on. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:39 PM |
| -3 | I am a man so I must be a pedophileInsisting to who? | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:37 PM |
| -6 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.Okay, well—stop being such a pushover. They seem entitled because you probably really wanna go on a date with them. At no point do you have to do that. Literally nobody imo is worth $150 for a night with them. Jfc. There’s so many women in urban populations. Just move on. Either do that or accept you’re looking for right-wing women who expect to have it paid for or women who just want a meal. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:30 PM |
| -11 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.So—here’s the thing, I’ve literally never been on a date where the other person wasn’t fully willing to pay for her stuff. It kinda comes with the territory of being in a left wing town and among progressive minded women. This isn’t something I have to do or wonder about. It’s a genuine non-issue for me because the institution of paying for a woman’s time is born out of men being nothing more than wallets to support a family and women not being ablento find employment. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | The legal system vs unwed fathers seriously needs an overhaul because it just doesn't work properly...I read it wrong, mb. Ignore this comment of mine. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:27 PM |
| -6 | The legal system vs unwed fathers seriously needs an overhaul because it just doesn't work properly...Yeah, so—marriage basically expedites the course of legal institutions. 15 years knowing each other and having a kid is more than enough to confer the same legal precedent as marriage and divorce. It’s kinda like how if I live in a motel for a month, I’m now a tenant. I can also just sign a paper making me a tenant. Either or. It’s a very serious issue So then what’d you end up doing? Did you go to another lawyer with a more blunt explanation of your goal and intent? Things can change very quick… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Maybe odd question but. What are your opinion on the anti work movement. And do you think it will improve working situations for men that work long hours in dangerous jobs?Guys who pride themselves on working hard are losers. Anybody that works and doesnt try to maximize how much they ought be paid is a chump and basically a cuck. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:13 PM |
| -15 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.You think maybe it’s because they didn’t like you? Like in general? You could have invested it in yourself. In fact, you should prioritize that rather than brute forcing a relationship by going on dates with random women. Why are you going on so many dates without reflecting on what it is you’re looking for in a person and who you are as a person? Because your aimlessly throwing away money on dates could reflect your aimless idea of self. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:08 PM |
| -5 | The legal system vs unwed fathers seriously needs an overhaul because it just doesn't work properly...So, the reason why it’s assumed this is fine is because Typically you don’t go to a lawyer unless it’s a legitimately serious issue. I just didn’t like how he did it without asking Is something you kinda have to go in very blunt about. Being made to pay alimony to a woman that had your child is born out of antiquated systems. If you ever see someone say Women are predisposed to being mothers, not working. They should be caring for children. Thar is why you see alimony as an institution. Today, a… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | The legal system vs unwed fathers seriously needs an overhaul because it just doesn't work properly...Uh, where are you and what is their name? That’s very much illegal and tbh if you do think there should be an overhaul of the system, then reporting them would be priority #1. That is if this isn’t a very obvious lie. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:58 PM |
| 0 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityWhat was seen as sexist against women? Rote memorization? | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityHey, buddy, I’m gonna clue you into something. Women, in general, are still really afraid of being raped or beaten in public by opportunistic men. If you don’t have somebody to “protect”, then I think it’s more an issue of women not wanting you to protect them. But also—damn—imagine believing this is the essence of humanity: men and women. Women care for kids and men protect their family. So if a woman is infertile, she’d feel like a failure. If a man can’t get married, or has something happen t… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:46 PM |
| 0 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityLmao. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityCool, I’m glad. I like my city and the various amenities I have access to because of the productivity offered via our relative proximity to each other. Being near other people offers a lot of opportunity—in general. Means I can see people often and also do more things—in general. I’d love to give a big shoutout to women. Gj women. Ty. Otherwise, I’d likely be languishing in some rural hell-hole. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:18 PM |
| 0 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityRight, because it’s the standard, paranoid, right-wing, emasculated talking point. I don’t mind that you had a go at insulting me. It’s not lost from me, mate. I get that. I’m saying it’s really pathetic how you had your go at it. The thing is at no point can I really consider Feminism is ruining this country. It plagues our cities. If we were just more MASCULINE, then we’d be fine. to summarize your point To be anything but emasculated. In your world view, there are things that are going to be … | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityYeah on this sub apparently having large buildings is a very effeminate thing. Manly, manly men live in slightly-developed, rural communities. It’s like when railroads first came out there were these expeditions to farms for urban dwelling, cosmopolitan men. They were called ‘dude ranches’. They’d go out onto the farms with other men and do field work in a very romantic fashion and all. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityWhat’s an example of a prospering right-wing city? I’m trying to get an image in my mind that isn’t basically a rural farming community or basically a really sparse suburban area. Because if it is that, then what exactly are you contesting to the success of? | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:00 PM |
| 0 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityAt this point in my life, I’ve just accepted the people who put on a big display and sarcastically go on about how smart I am are just painfully insecure tbh. At no point in time have I ever felt like saying I’m intelligent or anything of the form, but seemingly there’s always a really dumb person that feels attacked in that way. It’s kinda like that community gag with pierce saying I’m sick of you giving me that look like I can’t get erections. And the joke is he’s obviously projecting his inse… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 06:50 PM |
| 0 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityIt’s amazing how cookie cutter schizo, emasculated, right-wing men are. Edit: I take it back. That’s not schizo. It’s more immense rejection sensitivity. Probably BPD. If it was schizo, you’d very likely have your own original, obscure and esoteric idea. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityOkay? | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | I just turned 36. Here is what I've realised in life.Make sacrifices to get gifts Dude, can you imagine giving someone a gift under that pretense? I sacrificed to get you this. How a person wouldn’t feel fucking awful receiving it is WILD. Christians Oh, mate, I PROMISE YOU that I think Christians in the USA are FAR MORE batshit insane IMO. I think they’re insane because they’re like everything you’re on about, but dialed up 1000 times. The fact that I was willing to reply to this thread you made is a testament to how I consider you a person that … | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Knowledge Production and Epistemic Injustice: A sexual harassment survey from 2018 gendered every single question towards women, and then unsurprisingly found that twice as many women had been harassed as menI don’t. You’re right. I also generally don’t meet many creepy guys because they kinda tend to stay at home and away from people—like here in this subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 02:55 PM |
| -1 | I just turned 36. Here is what I've realised in life.Do you face more danger in life? I’m not really gonna thank anybody for working a dangerous job or going to war. Those positions compensate their workers for participating after all. Lol. I bear hardships for my children Dude, lmao—holy shit you must live in such a shitty place with shitty people if you genuinely think this is a normal thing or even something you have to go through. Here’s a roadmap for you Become financially stable Meet someone that is also financially stable Get married and th… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Knowledge Production and Epistemic Injustice: A sexual harassment survey from 2018 gendered every single question towards women, and then unsurprisingly found that twice as many women had been harassed as menThey are gendered, but generally speaking I feel they’re most often deserved tbh. A lot of guys are really fucking creepy and won’t just leave and work on themselves. The fact guys naturally produce testosterone—which amounts to basically steroids compared to women—and linger about despite just being unsettling is in part why I feel it’s deserved. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 02:47 PM |
| 0 | I just turned 36. Here is what I've realised in life.Men go to wars and do dangerous jobs Do you have a dangerous job + go to war? Maybe you shouldn’t do those things. Me personally, I don’t fuck with people who try to guilt trip like that. It’s p pathetic and it just screams they’re insecure. Men have to make compromises. Again, you talk about having kids like it’s some burden they were forced into—like they didn’t even want to have kids or be married to each other, but they were forced to do that. That I would say is the greater dilemma here— ma… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 02:31 PM |
| -1 | The ultimate groping hypocrisyHey, it’s up to the players and the league to prosecute. Me personally, the kind of men that grope women are people I generally don’t like being around. They’re generally pretty ugly and unhinged. Women, I don’t really have an issue with because at no point in time do I feel afraid when a woman is around me—as if she can hold me down or something. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | The ultimate groping hypocrisyIs the only thing to this comment Imagine if the genders were reversed ????? If the genders were reversed what would’ve likely happened is You’d have gotten pregnant in all likelihood. You’d then either get an abortion or the guy would’ve gone to jail once your parents found out. That or he’d be forced into some kind of alimony type deal. Your life would’ve been irreversibly changed from that point forward. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Knowledge Production and Epistemic Injustice: A sexual harassment survey from 2018 gendered every single question towards women, and then unsurprisingly found that twice as many women had been harassed as menCreep, virgin, incel Uh, I wouldn’t really call this sexual harassment on the basis that they refer to a person not having sex tbh. It’s P straight forward. Also for Virgin, Incel Where are people calling you this? Is it IRL or are you talking about your insular online communities? As for Creep Dude, if you get called this, then you prob need to work on either Your appearance and whether you wash and take care of yourself Whether you have a genuine problem of just fucking staring at people or no… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 02:07 PM |
| 0 | I just turned 36. Here is what I've realised in life.So did your mother actually put in more work than your father? She worked until she couldn’t walk properly. Can your dad not walk properly? It sounds like your mother resents the hell out of him because she had to incur a disproportional amount of the load. Being the stronger sex means you have to face danger more often. So, again, did your father actually face more danger than your mother? Also, lmao this is so fucking performative I wouldn’t hesitate to jump in front of a train for my wife and… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityTbh, I don’t really think about “masculine” qualities or whether I adhere to them because generally all the people I’ve met IRL who do just come off as incredibly insecure. Obsessing about whether or not you adhere to a “masculine” image is nothing short of pathetic. It’s kinda like how all the people who call themselves “nice guys” are generally not nice people. You can’t call yourself “nice” because “nice” is something you hope other people think of you when you do courteous and good things. Y… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityLmao. Hey, bud, you forgot to mention how you read a book as a teenager about the fall of the roman empire. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 01:24 PM |
| -1 | A history of misunderstanding masculinityYeah, asking women primarily isn’t even a strange thing to do because you, as a man, don’t have meta-cognition of what unique things you do. If you say there exists a binary—referring to masculine and feminine—then you’d pick one to select for the other. This is of the form Okay, I’m a guy. What is “masculine”? Maybe it’s things that I find unique to women in general. But actually—what even is the issue? Are you just criticizing the mode of collection just for the hell of it? ”They only asked wo… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 01:11 PM |
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