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| 1 | Girl from 5 years ago wants to meet me again but do I look different now?A lot of things changed over the years. Except your picture quality. You'll be fine, buddy. | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 02:44 AM |
| 5 | Why are dating apps so popular?You can do both, you know. When you go out, you do approaches. Tinder allows me to virtually approach girls while I'm taking a dump or screaming at video games. | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 02:41 AM |
| 5 | Are you tired of searching for a relationship in places filled with people who may not want one? Join this subreddit, r/CondifentMatch.This isn't Craigslist, buddy. | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Yep, there is a true duality between good and bad. You can’t have something good without committing anything bad. Then again, both are subjective😏There it is, the classic I became an asshole and now I'm this cool, deep villain. You didn't get more pussy because you became this mega cool fuckboy, you got more pussy because you weren't the neediest guy on the planet anymore. You also had really high standards for a high who was sifting through endless dating profiles just to get way too invested in a girl you hadn't even met yet. So you lowered your standards to a more reasonable level and had more success. All this guy has is hollow confid… | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Three Months of Building AttractionTouching is more for attraction than comfort in game. I'm assuming as a fellow gym rat that attraction is usually easy enough for you on it's own. What I meant by comfort is that she's reassured that you're a high quality guy, that you've met the standard. Comfort is really achieved through all the intangibles. In your case, she was comfortable through your limited availability, ambition, confidence and non neediness that you were a high quality dude. I know the definition is a little confusing,… | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Im not good at showing girls I like them. What can I do to flirt better and make my interest clear?Then you need to do direct openers so that there is no mistake on the why you're talking to her. An easy way to flirt is through teasing, but there's also much more to it than that. I would look up and find some actual videos explaining it from established content creators. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Trouble getting a girl to qualifyI think you're getting too technical, man. If you've made yourself look like she already has you, and you recognized that you need to chill on qualifying yourself, I think that's the technique in itself. To just chill out. If you want a more technical answer, I would say to throw in some disqualifiers as well. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | A girl is playing aroundThere's no harm in adding her back, but by the looks of it, she's not playing around. She's probably just not that interested and adds everybody she knows on snapchat. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Trouble getting a girl to qualifyPersonally, if she's not reciprocating anything emotional with you, I would make a joke about how all she wanted you for was your body. This isn't really meant to be funny, it's meant to address the topic of a relationship without you looking extra needy. If she's at all interested in something serious, she should respond with something that indicates that. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 09:21 PM |
| 3 | How To Bring Girls Home From The Club, Bar And Dates (+Infield) | Easy Guide For Every GuyThis is actually terrible execution of concepts that are, on their own, reasonably true. Seeding the pull is not supposed to be you telling her that she's going to your apartment to have wine. It's planting the possibility of a location change after you're done with drinks and food. Your example isn't planting a seed, it's just straight up hitting somebody with a potted plant. And I think some people will disagree with me here, if you're getting a lot of objections on a date, you're lacking comf… | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Stop tsking opportunities for grantedThis is a really bad mindset. Anybody can be good at approaching, but you need to put in the effort. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Three Months of Building AttractionI agree about the comfort part, and I think a lot of guys here don't understand what comfort means in this context. It's comfort in knowing that you're a high value guy. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 01:18 PM |
| 1 | How to text girls [Guide + Personal tips]This is a great idea, especially considering if the video chat goes well, you're basically good for a meetup later. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching women while I have a gf?I've done this. Stop. You think you'll pass up sex and dates but you won't. I did the same thing with Tinder and approaches at the bar. Would make plans with girls with the intention of cancelling them, but end up going through with it because I'd justify my actions by saying women always have guys on the backburners and shit like that. Dates would turn into sex, I'd end up meeting up with these girls again, and the whole thing made me question whether or not I can even call myself a good pers… | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Where in Germany are you, bud? I'm an American out here as well and I'm pretty good with women, I'd be willing to help you out if you're by me. You can get numbers by simply saying they're cute and asking for a number, but they won't be solid numbers. You need to have a memorable conversation where you get to know each other a little and some teasing. You can open direct, indirect, it doesn't matter that much as long as you get into conversation. Don't listen to these guys talking about IOIs… | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding gym girl who loves meWhy do you avoid her? Are you afraid you'll blow it? | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 12:34 PM |
| 3 | How to text girls [Guide + Personal tips]I think this is a pretty good guide for the general rules, but I disagree with a couple things. I'm an American who has been in Germany for the past 4 years but I believe this applies to both. Texting them after the first date is usually fine. Something casual like, had a great time tonight and then a little reference to something funny or interesting that happened. At least with German girls, it seems that you not texting them after sex is basically a rejection, and not in the cool, high value … | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 12:22 PM |
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