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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | I made a big mistakeAfter reading, delete this post and possibly your userID. Don't incriminate yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/25 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Do You Regret Your Marriage?You're only 5 months in, give the relationship time to mature. If she's a good woman, loves and respects you, try to appreciate that. Now is the time to create the life you want with her; you get to steer. If there are any major red flags or issues, please give details. As of right now, the jitters are normal and not indicative that something is wrong. I wish you both a long, happy marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Separated about to reconcile but wife has told me she slept with someoneThere is so much truth in the comments... 1 thing I'd add is this: she said this guy was from her past. I'm not sure how long you've been married, but there shouldn't have been any opportunity for old flames to get in contact with her. There was, and she made every attempt to hide it from you. Chances are they've been in contact for a very long time; disrespecting you daily while you were trying to be her husband. Don't be her doormat, and do not reconcile with her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Do I tell the kids even though my wife is forbidding it?Tell them. Not doing so is her way of manipulating the situation and painting you as the bad guy to your kids. She knows that's what she's doing and framing it as "protecting" the kids. No bueno. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/23 03:51 PM |
| 11 | Ex’s new partner ruining our amicable co-parenting by slandering me.At 13 and 10, it's not worth the custody battle. However, you don't have to play by Ed's rules. The best thing you did was show up to the party because it showed his weakness. He's threatened by you and over is overcompensating. Keep showing up and making your presence felt. Don't sit quietly. If you're dating someone seriously, let them come along, too. Your ex is no longer your wife. She needs to do a lot of adjusting to this new life as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/23 01:40 PM |
| 2 | How did you survive your first 2 months after a separation?As difficult as it is, you should use this time to put energy toward the things you enjoy doing. Chances are you've given up a lot of those things while married. Be selfish and focus on yourself. Men rarely have much outside support during these situations, so be good to yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants to moveIt's not a dick move. It's a move that protects your relationship with your children. That's not her priority, but it has to be yours. Imagine what your relationship with the kids looks like having to drive xxx miles every other month to see them for a few hours? Is that what you want? If you move, you will be in complete isolation and primed for manipulation. Take the advice you've been given. It sucks to see a divorce happen, but you're being led to the slaughterhouse and it's clear as day. Sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/23 08:59 PM |
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