sirlost33 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What does masculinity mean to you? They get their heads filled with what they’re expected to be as well. I raised a daughter; the amount of expectations from a young age are pretty crazy. But that’s kinda the thing about being a man; you don’t really have to be any certain way. History is filled with great men who identified their strongest characteristics and honed them, not people who tried to ascribe to an ideal of masculinity.	/r/ExRedPill	20/06/26 05:54 PM
1	What does masculinity mean to you? Women can define themselves in their own way. What I’m getting at is a man needs to look internally and figure out what being a man means to them.	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/26 11:56 AM
0	What does masculinity mean to you? Do women have penises?	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/26 04:53 AM
-1	What does masculinity mean to you? To me masculinity is being true to yourself as penis carrying member of society without caring about outside social pressure. Do you, confidently. As a man define yourself, not what other people want to ascribe to you.	/r/ExRedPill	18/06/26 09:09 PM
16	What are some non-hateful alternatives to MGTOW for men who don't want to seek either romantic relationships or close friendships with women? It’s ok to be a straight guy with gay friends. If you’re looking for a “safe” male space of men not interested in women, that’s probably your best bet.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/26 05:21 PM
5	I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enough Confidence is built by doing things and getting good at them.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/26 11:08 PM
7	I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enough Sounds like you’re more in need of a journey of self discovery if you don’t know who you are.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/26 10:23 PM
7	I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enough Yes, it is manly to accept your feminine side and your feminine qualities. Being a man is understanding who you are, the good and bad, and being able to apply your specific skill set to the betterment of your family and society. It’s not muscles, being a lothario, or any other of that fake bullshit. It’s knowing who you are so you can handle business.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/26 09:24 PM
4	I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enough Doing all that is the opposite of being manly. You’re pushing yourself further in the other direction.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/26 09:18 PM
2	Looking for a ex member to interview! Not sure if I count as former “red pill”, but I used to be into pick up artist literature and general misogyny that eventually turned into red pill. (Because I’m old) Happy to help if you need.	/r/ExRedPill	23/04/26 03:09 PM
13	Trying to Unlearn a Damaging Belief About Dating The disconnect there is the term casual. It is true, women have an easier time finding casual sex/relationships. It doesn’t mean that’s what they want. If they’re only getting casual out of a “higher level” person, it doesn’t mean they’ll get the relationship they want. That isn’t settling, it’s being realistic about your opportunities for long term happiness. I can drop my standards and find some random hookups, but I’d rather shoot my shot in my range and find someone worth building with.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/26 06:11 PM
21	Why do older men like 40+ who are “happily married” still spread redpill stuff online? The red pill stuff isn’t new. A lot of us 40+ men grew up being taught this stuff by other men, magazines, and books before the internet. Now that the internet is around they tap into red pill ideology because it’s comfortable for them, and makes them feel superior to their wives.	/r/ExRedPill	13/02/26 02:13 PM
2	Do you think the number of sexual partners matters? Doesn’t matter in the slightest. Why would it?	/r/ExRedPill	11/02/26 02:17 PM
2	What's a good way to get rid of loneliness in life? That’s a tough question to answer. The world is a lonely place and you can be surrounded by people and still feel alone. I’d say search for connection and try to find things where people have similar interests.	/r/ExRedPill	02/01/26 06:05 PM
5	my GF checking out other dudes Honestly, it’s hard to tell. She could just be looking out of natural instinct; like I look at other women when I’m out with my wife. She looks too; it’s kinda natural. Doesn’t mean we don’t love each other or want other people. On the flip side maybe y’all aren’t for each other. And that’s ok. You should talk to her about how you feel.	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/25 09:45 PM
3	How do I move on without getting angry at women everyday ? Honest question my dude, how do you feel about yourself? And what are the things you don’t show yourself love?	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/25 02:19 PM
23	If The Red Pill is wrong, why are so many women divorcing men and so many single mothers? Because they’re in toxic or unsafe relationships and know they would be better off single. Same reasons anyone gets divorced.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/24 03:55 PM
7	As a woman, what signs should I look out for in a man that might indicate whether or he is a misogynist? Ask what podcasts they like, the media they consume, and who their heroes are. That should give you the answers you need.	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/24 06:19 PM
2	How to date women as a soft spoken and quiet man? Then your goal needs to be to become a confident feminine dude. Confidence comes from being comfortable in your own skin. Don’t try and date as someone you’re not, that’s a surefire way to end up in a bad relationship.	/r/ExRedPill	29/06/24 10:12 PM
3	Can short men ever be sexually attractive? If it doesn’t bother you, it’s unlikely to bother them.	/r/ExRedPill	25/06/24 02:22 PM
20	How to stop myself from falling into redpill ideology. The existence of infidelity isn’t proof what the manosphere says is true. Relationships are messy. Really messy. And finding the right person can be doubly so. You might do better researching infidelity and building healthy through psych textbooks than the manosphere. Most women want to build a healthy relationship. But most people (men and women) really suck at communication and how to establish/respect boundaries.	/r/ExRedPill	04/10/23 01:55 AM
1	How can i not be jealous because of other attractive men I hear ya. I struggled with that when I was your age (44 now). It’s just basic insecurity that stems from being sold an idea of what a man is supposed to be and how relationships are supposed to work. I can promise you it’s all bs. You get to define that for yourself. You get to decide the man you want to be. Not based on anyone’s standards but your own. Once you’re more comfortable in your own skin more things will fall into place. Out of all the complaints from women I’ve dated none have ever …	/r/ExRedPill	21/12/22 01:51 AM
5	How do I stop seeing my gf as a slut and resenting her because of it? Honestly bro you’re going to have to work on yourself and your insecurities. I noticed you expressed concerns she might cheat or leave once she gets bored. That’s just your insecurities messing with your head. It’s tough to deal with, I had a hard time with it myself. It won’t get easier overnight. It’s going to take a lot of uncomfortable self examination or going to a professional to work that stuff out. But, you’ll have much healthier relationships in the long run.	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/22 08:16 PM