sirmcquade Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
150	"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love & affection." - Buddha		sirmcquade	/r/seduction	07/08/12 03:08 PM
88	The transition from humor to seduction		sirmcquade	/r/seduction	27/09/12 06:48 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	After the opener, some of us freeze up and don't know what to do. What are some great transitions? and eat a couple onions before sex. really boosts the libido	/r/seduction	29/03/13 09:01 PM
30	After the opener, some of us freeze up and don't know what to do. What are some great transitions? watch a lot of porn, it's a perfect representation of what to expect.	/r/seduction	29/03/13 08:22 PM
39	After the opener, some of us freeze up and don't know what to do. What are some great transitions? speak timidly as not to scare her	/r/seduction	29/03/13 07:57 PM
1	How can you be socially intuitive while still "not giving a fuck about what other people think?" Those are two common concepts but they seem to contradict each other Being socially adept = communicating your own thoughts & opinions successfully to others Not giving a fuck = not letting anyone else's thoughts & opinions override/outshine your own. One is speaking offensively, the other is speaking defensively.	/r/seduction	23/10/12 06:59 PM
1	How to treat a girl I met through a University 'DTF' Facebook page? Slam that whore	/r/seduction	23/10/12 06:56 PM
6	A great advice a friend gave me to help me to stop over-analyzing girls. an F-close last night alone. Isn't that masturbating?	/r/seduction	22/10/12 04:49 PM
1	The Often Overlooked First Step to Success with Women My social failures are nature's way of screaming at me that I am not valuable to our species.	/r/seduction	19/10/12 06:58 PM
1	The Often Overlooked First Step to Success with Women I'm done being the punching bag for other dudes' egos. I'm done being humiliated. Fuck it	/r/seduction	19/10/12 06:53 PM
1	The Often Overlooked First Step to Success with Women why should a quality woman want to be with you? They shouldn't. I'm fucking garbage that deserves to die.	/r/seduction	19/10/12 06:48 PM
2	Dear fellow introverts: Introversion is not a handicap. Stop viewing it that way. It's comforting. But honestly, for every moment we're alone "recharging," there's an extrovert out there who's landing the girl of his dreams. Over and over again. If social awareness is the key to pick-up, and social experience drains one group's energy, but restores another group's energy, obviously the group it recharges will have more success every time.	/r/seduction	19/10/12 06:35 PM
1	I’d Rather Die on My Feet Than Live on My Knees I think the hard part is the realization I was probably becoming an entertainment toy for her. She never had any intention to hang with me...like fucking usual, I don't know why I thought otherwise. She just wanted a pitiful boy-toy to chase her.	/r/seduction	19/10/12 06:03 PM
1	The Often Overlooked First Step to Success with Women I've been trying for years & years, yet still do not even have the skills to convince a girl to hang out with me. Years. Nobody fails for years, nobody except worthless fucking disgraces who need their brains blown out. I have fucking trash for DNA, apparently. I'm a weird evolution experiment that didn't work. Survival of the fittest, I'm not fit, so I don't get to breed. My parents are dead too. Defective, worthless, fucking garbage for DNA.	/r/seduction	19/10/12 05:58 PM
16	Dear fellow introverts: Introversion is not a handicap. Stop viewing it that way. If the extroverts weren't out having a great time already, they might've read this and learned something.	/r/seduction	19/10/12 05:40 PM
5	I’d Rather Die on My Feet Than Live on My Knees This just happened to me. Been texting/chatting a classmate about having a study sesh sometime. She was showing real interest but it dropped off hard. Last night after class (short version): ME: "Hey, we should study tonight." HER: "Actually I'm hanging out with my boss, Jack." Sounds made-up, & even if it's not, I'm being disrespected & pushed away...she also flaked on a concert we were gonna go to before this. Now I've officially blown it...I have zero value to her. ME: "Alright. See ya." Watc…	/r/seduction	19/10/12 04:48 PM
3	[FR]- F-closed x2 with divorcee who previously friendzoned me Psssh. Dude wasn't on-call, he just fucked up.	/r/seduction	06/10/12 03:14 PM
3	I don't want as many women as I can handle. I just want one. Someone I can love and treasure until I die. How many other sedditors are looking for monogamy? No offense, but the way all your relatives met are bullshit romanticisations. There was a "look" between them? Yeah, and everyone in history who's ever banged. They weren't part of some cosmic alignment that blessed them with with true love. They randomly collided in time, just like everyone else. Just like you will, and then thirty years later you'll craft an insanely romantic, exaggerated version of the events & retell it that way. TL:DR - Don't expect a Disneyland miracle for your relationshi…	/r/seduction	06/10/12 02:05 PM
-1	I'm beginning to think that logistics is the biggest determiner of if you are going to get laid, anyone else? A fraternity is for socially inept manchildren who can't build a normal social life by themselves.	/r/seduction	06/10/12 01:47 PM
8	[FR]- F-closed x2 with divorcee who previously friendzoned me my work called and interrupted. Why would you answer that? Wow.	/r/seduction	06/10/12 01:44 PM
3	Im a little confused.. Good, at least her mom's not gonna totally blow it for you. Overall the night wasn't a catastrophe, so don't feel too bad. You need to start talking to tons of girls though, don't put any one on a pedestal. Options, options, options.	/r/seduction	29/09/12 03:00 PM
29	The "hopeless romantic" archetype and seduction... It often leads me into terrible fits of depression, because I base my happiness on someone else. That's your whole problem right there. If you rely on somebody else to make you happy, they never will, ever. You have to make yourself happy by doing things you love, and never being ashamed about anything. Easier said than done, sure, but the point is people will desire your company when you're happy. No girl wants to "fix" a lonely guy's life...but they do want to "participate" in a happy guy's li…	/r/seduction	29/09/12 02:52 PM
5	Im a little confused.. Yes, you are overthinking. Pro-tip: Any thinking is overthinking. So if you're thinking about overthinking, you've gone waaay too fucking far dude. It's a mistake to talk negatively about other dudes, and not just because you accidentally offended her. Avoid it, because: You're whining about something instead of being positive. Shows that you're easily irritated, this is the opposite of what girls want. You'll sound insecure when you try to talk shit about other dudes. You want to appear totally…	/r/seduction	29/09/12 02:40 PM
4	[FR] Number close/K-close, would appreciate some advice/criticism Although this is right, don't consider your night a failure. That's a valuable night of experience. Learn from your mistakes this time, so in the future you can avoid them.	/r/seduction	29/09/12 02:22 PM
3	Which do you think are the most attractive skills in a man? Why? Let me tell you something useful. I've played guitar for 7 years, and without being too egotistical I'll just say I'm pretty damn good. Guitar is supposed to be the all-time pussy magnet, right? Well I don't think I've ever gotten laid because of guitar. In fact most never heard me play a single note. We want to assume that being extremely talented at something is guaranteed female approval. But it's not - you have to sell yourself, not the activity you're doing. TL:DR - Don't just demonstrate h…	/r/seduction	29/09/12 02:15 PM
1	The transition from humor to seduction This guy.	/r/seduction	28/09/12 10:07 AM
46	AA is nothing. Escalation Anxiety is what needs to be overcome. Here's, IMO, how. where you are talking to a hot girl and having a good conversation and you just don't want to FUCK it up That got to me hard. I'm finally realizing that's the worst possible thought a man can have. The more you think about fucking up, the more you fuck up.	/r/seduction	28/09/12 10:03 AM
1	Failure with women is fucking with my overall life... Do it. Hire the escort, fuck her brains out. Ignore the rest of the bullshit advice you're about to get in this thread. People on here always talk like confidence is so easy. They'll tell you retarded things like, "go downtown by yourself!" even though no normal person does that. They'll spend five paragraphs telling you "looks don't matter, it's all personality" then demand you go to the gym if you want any shot with women. A lot of suggestions on seddit are useless, contradictory bullshit. So …	/r/seduction	25/09/12 06:18 PM
6	what to say when people say they don't recognize me? Keep the attention centered on you for as long as it's natural. Don't be a modest little bitch - if they want to focus on you, by all means, let the memory of you sink into their heads. Especially when it's obviously positive reactions.	/r/seduction	17/09/12 06:43 PM
4	How do you use wealth/success to better attract women? I rather enjoyed this about your post.	/r/seduction	17/09/12 06:38 PM
2	How do you use wealth/success to better attract women? If you're successful and wealthy, being unforgivably retarded is the only way to blow your chances. You know why poor guys still get laid, right? Because they're arrogant pricks, that's fucking why. Quit worrying about your self-image and flaunt your success. They eat arrogance out of your hand, like it's the sweet nectar of the gods. It just works, don't ask why. Just do it.	/r/seduction	17/09/12 06:37 PM
0	To all of the 13-16yr olds on seddit. This. So hard	/r/seduction	04/09/12 06:43 PM
1	27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my story I would not, my ex was that way... my ex Sounds like you eventually canned him for someone better in bed. Am I wrong?	/r/seduction	04/09/12 05:30 PM
10	27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my story You know what you should do? Hear me out, scrawny asian man. Learn martial-arts. No, fucking seriously. I don't care how stereotypical it feels, because women will fucking love it. There's nothing a girl falls for harder than a stereotype. Look how many retarded rednecks get laid. When you embrace a stereotype, such as "redneck" or "asian ninja," girls don't detect it as a stereotype. They detect it as "hey, that guy has found who he really is, and he's perfectly content in life." But seriously,…	/r/seduction	04/09/12 04:32 PM
-5	27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my story Wow, you're already slipping back into beta mode as we speak. Do you care what random people on the internet's opinion of you is? NO YOU GIVE ZERO FUCKS. Ignore these girls giving you shit for being a player. You are doing everything exactly right, don't tuck your tail between your legs because some internet bitch scolded you! BE ALPHA AND BE PROUD OF IT.	/r/seduction	04/09/12 04:11 PM
3	27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my story You are such a liar. If he was fumbling around the bedroom without a clue how to stick his dick in, if he pre-ejaculated all the time, if he didn't know good positions and didn't know how to finish, you wouldn't be with him, would you? You complain about all the sex he's had, but you'd kick his ass to the curb and find someone else if he was shitty in bed.	/r/seduction	04/09/12 04:03 PM
0	27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my story TL:DR - No man wants to meet the girl of his dreams without having the sexual skills to impress her. If you're "waiting for the right person," you're really just waiting to be extra-humiliated when she sees how terrible and inexperience sexually you are. All the confidence in the world can't save a terrible fuck.	/r/seduction	04/09/12 03:57 PM
-5	27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my story you COULD get your confidence or awesomeness from hobby's, life, mental state of mind and not relying on screwing or flirting with girls, right? Wow. Just...wow. Are you one of those girls who exclusively hangs out with gay men? Because wow. maybe you just want to fuck beautiful women and raise your bar for the sake of bragging about it Men fuck beautiful women because it feels amazing. We do it purely for the chemical reaction. I know you girls think sex is emotional, you might even think it's …	/r/seduction	04/09/12 03:51 PM
1	an observation: do women like selfish/self-centered men? Yes.	/r/seduction	15/08/12 02:55 PM
4	How long does it take to get good at game? Mastery of what? Wooden stick blocking?	/r/seduction	14/08/12 02:10 PM
0	How should a teenager go about overcoming social anxiety and become more appealing? Pro tip: grow up.	/r/seduction	14/08/12 01:57 PM
3	Conversation skills (Especially what to talk about in the first 5 minutes)? I'm not an expert yet. But: Comfort convos = nice guy bullshit. Being polite, friendly, and generally a pushover. When you're nice to her, you tell her "I seek your approval." WRONG. Tension convos = teasing, being dominant. Don't be hateful, but be playfully rude. Now you're telling her "You must seek my approval." RIGHT. This is the game they want to play. Check out the sidebar on r/seduction; look up shit tests. Learn how they work. This will help you wonders, and answer your questions far be…	/r/seduction	09/08/12 05:20 PM
4	Conversation skills (Especially what to talk about in the first 5 minutes)? Skip comfort altogether. Tension is what builds attraction, not comfort. Comfort = friend zone. Tension = fucking. I'll just say this, if you don't put yourself outside your comfort zone (aka if you don't stick your neck out, if you don't take risks), you won't get laid.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 04:31 PM
2	Pretty lady by the pool. Lessons learned. [fr] Judging by her reactions, the only reason you got shot down was so she didn't have to feel like a cheating slut. She was definitely attracted if she wasted that much time with you.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 03:01 PM
3	Pretty lady by the pool. Lessons learned. [fr] Frankly, it's an excellent DHV to suggest she'd be better off in your bed than her fiance's. You could never convince me otherwise that deep down inside, women find boldness 100x more attractive than morality. Especially if it involves fucking.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 02:59 PM
1	Long Story: I fucked a cheerleader from my university last night (solid 9 or 10) Here's my advice to Seddit, looking for some follow-up advice myself too I feel like when I nofap for a week or more, my testosterone actually goes dormant. It's harder to get erect when you haven't been erect for seven days...it's like my dick is out of practice. Once a week's pretty solid - not too self-indulgent.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 02:50 PM
5	Video Example of Advanced Approaching And it worked.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 02:32 PM
1	Met a girl working at the mall, pussied out of asking her out/her number. I am a noobie in dire need of advice! This girl seemed special Those are dangerous thoughts, hombre. Dangerous thoughts.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 02:25 PM
4	"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love & affection." - Buddha There is no "self" to hate. The Second Noble Truth of Buddhism: The origin of suffering is attachment. Because the objects of our attachment are transient, their loss is inevitable, thus suffering will necessarily follow. Objects of attachment also include the idea of a "self" which is a delusion, because there is no abiding self. What we call "self" is just an imagined entity, and we are merely a part of the ceaseless becoming of the universe. There is no "self" to hate.	/r/seduction	08/08/12 02:00 PM
0	So far I'm a failure at life and suck with girls. How am I supposed to be confident from within? Sigh You're not a spoiled faggot. I had a stressful childhood....so sometimes I vent by spitting needless insults at the anonymous horde known as reddit. But anyways, on to advice: Drinking will damage your social life more than being sober & shy will. I promise. Learn to hang in bars without drinking. Or just sip like one beer all night, don't get drunk. It's not as hard as you think to resist the temptation. Furthermore, no one's going to stare at you and think you're weird for not being hamme…	/r/seduction	08/08/12 01:46 PM
1	So far I'm a failure at life and suck with girls. How am I supposed to be confident from within? I've had similar problems. The only advice I get is from spoiled faggots who grew up with mommy & daddy, got everything they wanted, & don't understand real life. The only thing I've learned is, talk to everyone. Not just chicks, but talk to everyone & practice communicating. New friends = improved social life Improved social life = better social skills Better social skills = more confident around bitches	/r/seduction	07/08/12 02:48 PM
-2	Do you ever feel like you are being untrue to yourself when you follow PUA guidelines? At that point you're probably relying on desperate bitches.	/r/seduction	06/08/12 04:32 PM
1	Having a lack of anything to say. The reason you're not interesting is because you're 17. Grow up.	/r/seduction	06/08/12 04:23 PM
-6	Vacation=short time for close... Please help! i'm a senior in HS, if that changes anything. Why don't you just go ask daddy for advice?	/r/seduction	06/08/12 04:18 PM
-1	Do you ever feel like you are being untrue to yourself when you follow PUA guidelines? Listen; any guy who doesn't feel "true to himself" isn't getting pussy, ever. You could follow every rule here to a tee, but if you're guilty/uncertain/aloof around bitches for even one second, you might as well start saving up for hookers.	/r/seduction	06/08/12 04:17 PM
2	Finding out if she has a boyfriend... You know what's way hotter than any of the shit suggested here? If you don't give a fuck and don't ask.	/r/seduction	06/08/12 04:04 PM
8	I look about 7 years younger than I actually am, can anybody give me some tips so I could turn this to my advantage? I have the exact same problem as OP. Let me tell you, beyond a shadow of a doubt, most cougars think its fucking sexy for some reason. Upvote for accuracy.	/r/seduction	02/08/12 03:41 PM
2	I'm really, really tall. Seduction advice. Number one tall-guy seduction tip: Watch your fucking head. Once you hit your head on a doorframe, ceiling fan, light fixture etc. and get laughed at hysterically by every HB in the room, you will understand the importance. Hell, at 6'10" I'm assuming you've done it plenty before. It's a chore to constantly be aware of what's above you, but as long as we're stuck in this retarded midget universe, we have no choice. ಠ_ಠ	/r/seduction	02/08/12 03:35 PM
2	Simply just not good with women. Frustrated and tired People want to lift you up. Hippie bullshit. Seduction is competitive; thus it is you who must lift yourself up. No one's doing it for you, pal.	/r/seduction	02/08/12 03:04 PM
2	Girls don't care whether you "have your shit together" According to /r/NoFap, no fapping helps.	/r/seduction	19/07/12 04:05 PM
2	"Just be yourself" - the best (and worst) piece of advice you will ever receive Exactly...I've always been myself, but a few years ago, myself was a downright shitty person. You have to improve yourself, so that being yourself is actually something special.	/r/seduction	19/07/12 03:48 PM
1	[Discussion] Is it a bad idea to point the ForeverAlones of Reddit to Seduction? Tell them to check out the sidebar links, especially approach anxiety and shit tests.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 02:01 PM
24	What's a good way to disqualify yourself? TL;DR - Be a nice guy, it's unattractive.	/r/seduction	22/06/12 03:27 PM
5	How I got girls to touch me. I saw a man eat his own face...twice	/r/seduction	20/06/12 01:32 PM
6	At this point I've got nothing to lose, Seddit how do I game as a fat guy (Help for a AFC) If a fat guy and a wimpy guy with the exact same level of confidence go prowling, they will both attract the exact same number of girls. Different types of girls, because they have different tastes just like us, but each will get their fair share of HBs. I've had fat friends who had great game. There lots of girls who are suckers for "big teddy bears" and shit like that. Some girls genuinely dig fat, they think its more cuddly or something. Insecurity about your weight is way more unattractive t…	/r/seduction	15/06/12 03:33 PM
2	[FR] Noob breaks his clubbing cherry. Three questions. Didn't matter tonight. I just wanted to go out and hit on someone.	/r/seduction	17/02/12 10:15 AM