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0	Skill in dating, as a man, is similar to professional sports. Yeah I'd believe this... Everything in life is a gradient and the gradient changes depending on factors. That's an issue too. Young men often see things in black or white, and literally nothing in life is simple. As a famous Jedi once said - "Only a Sith deals in absolutes!"...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 01:15 PM
2	Skill in dating, as a man, is similar to professional sports. It's funny, I think even this depends greatly for some dudes sadly... I dropped about 25-30lbs, while working out steady for a year and getting in the best shape of my life, and was being treated better in public than ever before by men and women. I have a strong jaw line when I lose weight as well so my face isn't terrible despite a large nose and I can hold a conversation although I'm not very funny. For some guys (and gals) they can have the most sculptured beautiful body ever, but if their f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 12:56 PM
2	Skill in dating, as a man, is similar to professional sports. What in the jimminy fuck does this mean? Are women to be ordered to randomly accept any male mate? Is this to have the state setup a dating site with personality tests and once it finds you a match you must marry? Your statement is terrifying and sounds like some kinda incel weirdness. You gave ME the ick and I'm a straight white average guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 12:43 PM
10	Most relationships with the woman earning double the income of her partner are doomed to fail from the start Just sue what century were you born in? This is so blanket and generic it seems ridiculous. My lady and I are equals in every way. We plan things together, pay for things equally, etc etc list goes on. Even in the situation where say a woman makes double a man's salary, it doesn't mean he's not contributing to their financial success. Maybe this is the difference between being able to live in a place in a rough part of town VS better areas where they are more comfortable. Every situation is uniq…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 05:57 AM
1	I feel needed again. Fantastic, you're really coming through for your kid when they need it. My boys are younger but this is exactly where I will be at when time comes. Ready and able, unlike my parents ever were, and unlike my ex.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/24 04:07 AM
3	The Gym is NOT the Answer for Everyone…and Could Even be Dangerous… Go to the gym in this sense should = do something you CAN do, safely, that gets your body moving and starts to burn off some calories. Walk. Hike. Bike. Bird watch after a short hike. Kayaking. Paddling. Basically anything. The exercise has so many benefits in anyway, it should not be ignored. You'll sleep better, and the benefits will all roll in slowly over time...	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/24 12:30 AM
4	Higher earner afraid of losing big in divorce What made me pull the final trigger wasn't just the cheating and lying, and the entitlement and seemingly disconnected from reality and facts... Narcissist extremism.... It was one thought. Can I be happy and healthy here to raise my kids properly? Fuck. No.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/23 10:26 PM
3	Higher earner afraid of losing big in divorce Ah, I need some proof on this, show some links or research. Although I am inclined to agree since I was raised by a shit mother, I am not sure it's the norm or the outlier!	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/23 10:03 PM
3	Separated about to reconcile but wife has told me she slept with someone Couldn't have worded it better... Exactly exactly the case. 1000%. My ex was like this too, I ran for the God damn hills after she cheated and I realized what her true face was. Is. To this day. She goes from guy to guy and our kids are confused about it. Cunt extraordinare!	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/23 04:01 PM
2	How much did divorce cost you? Jesus I don't feel as bad now reading some of these... $7k lawyer, $30k spousal support lump sum payout (came from my RRSP so it was $20k to her, $10k taxes), $5k for new furniture and effects for a new apartment, aaaannndddd if we consider the equity I lost in the house... Another $70k basically but that's not 100% accurate.... All said and done, real money spent it was at least $45k straight out if savings / cash / lines of credit etc... 2 kids and a house, she kept house I kept my pension.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/23 04:34 PM
2	Damn divorce sucks…I miss my wife and kids. Once you give yourself some time, look to your inner child that's still there... You have to redefine your life into somethig that is actually what you want and can enjoy. It'll take time, and effort and I suggest also, therapy!!! Worked wonders for me...	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/23 06:01 AM
1	Get citizenship in another country to avoid Alimony and CS? Oh I'm aware, I was born, raised, served in the Canadian Army, and live in the mighty North here... But we do have an extradition treaty (agreement) with the USA. As do MANY other countries. See here: https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cj-jp/emla-eej/stat.html Looks like it's fairly low volume however and likely only enacted for crimes of a much more serious nature.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/22 06:23 AM
2	Get citizenship in another country to avoid Alimony and CS? The problem is if it becomes criminal, and a judgement is entered without his presence and he tries to travel.... He could EASILY be caught and thrown in jail / custody or extradited back to the USA to face the charges I think...... But I am absolutely not a lawyer!!! Just another sucker like the rest of us in this sub!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/22 05:31 AM
2	Get citizenship in another country to avoid Alimony and CS? Just wait until she finds the next idoit who marries or common laws her, and then she takes that poor sucker to the cleaners too. Just make sure you never marry again, or tell anyone what you earn unless settled in for the long long haul.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/22 05:26 AM
0	Get citizenship in another country to avoid Alimony and CS? That is just insane! I'm in Canada and on the hook until mine turn 18. I have the same obligations to their post secondary education as the ex cunt does at that point, but at least then I know where the money is actually God damn going!! Fuck those states there it's up to 26!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/22 05:21 AM
17	What should a man expect when a stay at home wife wants a divorce? Most places make you sell/split the "matrimonial home" if you cannot agree on who gets it, and it just becomes part of the split of all assets. Basically liquidate your entire life including vehicles, or spit one each, and if I was you, pay decent money for a good lawyer and do NOT WAIT ON IT.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/22 02:44 AM
2	My ex-wife wants to go back to court 13 years after our divorce Boy are you in did a rude surprise... It's very common unfortunately. My ex can ask for my proof of income every year... Many do. Many love living off us.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/22 05:38 AM
7	How do y’all feel about ever getting married again? Absolutely not. It's just a legal construct to tie you to each other... If you want to celebrate being together, have a celebration with cherished friends and family, like a wedding even, but don't actually get married..... Such a horrible idea. I'll never marry again.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/22 06:48 PM
2	For the Canadian federal government, men are second class citizens. Mine cheated too! Enjoy every bit of the small or large, victories against the selfish c*nts!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/22 03:13 AM
5	For the Canadian federal government, men are second class citizens. I almost started off in a similar situation and am Canadian too... Sorry to hear about the rough go! Its mostly because you let her claim first for a few years... I did the same thing, but luckily for me my ex was stupid and also did not claim divorced status. When I changed my status to divorced it triggered an audit on her file. And specifically in my separation agreement, it's stated "shared custody" with all parental rights and obligations, and an entire section on tax treatment! Of course I…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/22 05:54 AM
1	Do you have any advice for men that haven’t been married? Companionship and more sex. We rarely if ever fight, and by that point it's just about enjoying time and hobbies together.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/22 08:00 PM
2	Do you have any advice for men that haven’t been married? No we stayed living separate, separate homes etc... We both have kids so easier to parent our own way. We'll likely cohabitate later when kids go off to school etc...	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/22 04:04 PM
19	Do you have any advice for men that haven’t been married? I will never, ever, marry again. I have had a loving, solid relationship with my new GF for 5 years now and she agrees she would never marry again either. We're both damaged enough that we won't sacrifice or compromise our independence. Separate bank accounts, separate everything! Only thing we share is time, sex and love and travel costs haha.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/22 05:08 PM
6	If you are newly separated, please heed this advice. 4 months out, here are my biggest regrets and the best things I've learned. After having gone through this EXACT situation a couple years ago, and brutally half fucking myself over while my ex brutally fucked one of my friends, I cannot recommend this enough!!! OP is SPOT. ON. 1000%! Especially get a lawyer. I'd move that to number one. I was such a fucking idiot for not doing that much much sooner... Had I hired a lawyer in the very beginning once I decided there was no reconciliation to be had, I would have saved myself roughly $250k... Good luck folks, protect yourse…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/22 04:55 PM
23	A meme I wish I had seen in my early twenties. This is literally, exactly, what happened to me. I sent it to my ex at one point and it was HILARIOUS to me... She was super fucking pissed off about it. Was fantastic.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/06/21 01:10 PM
1	“I love you, But, I’m not in love with you” Not sure if this belongs here. But. My representation of how a husband & father feels going through divorce. Most people will never understand. Maybe some of you can relate. That was my situation also...	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/21 01:14 PM