sisterjack44 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	When the “wife goggles” are taken off My ex is still beautiful to people who only see her exterior. I learned more about that woman going through divorce than I had in 20 years with her. She ugly as fuck to me now.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/25 06:58 PM
9	They create a world of lies just so they can justify greed, theft and evilness. She claimed my drug use was the reason we were divorcing and her affair had nothing to do with it. Made me take a hair and fucking fingernail test - 18 panel, just to see my kids. Pretty sure her narrative crumbled in front of her eyes when she saw both tests were negative across the board. Tell me more about how the affair is not related, because thats what made me move on pretty quickly. I have a new romantic interest who doesnt have the cognitive dissonance of a toddler. Life gets better. Han…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/06/25 06:09 PM
2	Parenting Plans I think its Our Family Wizard - a coparenting app. I'm thinking about getting it worked into our final orders so i only have to communicate with my stbx through that. I'm wondering if its common to have this written into the final divorce orders	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/25 09:44 PM
5	Update to: 8th grade graduation tomorrow-changing the tone in public with my ex-it worked very well I'm the same way. She was always a stranger. Makes it easier to treat her like one now. The person I email about my kids is someone I've never met and don't want to know. I think of that person as a very primitive version of chatgpt that can only answer simple, mindless questions about my kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/25 06:05 PM
2	Has anyone on here reconciled with their ex? My boss was divorced from his wife for 8 years and then remarried the same woman. They had a daughter and I think she convinced the mom that he had really changed. They've been married for the 2nd time for probably 20+ years now. They had another daughter when they got remarried and she is in college now. Its a rare success story, but it does happen. I can confirm that he's an incredible guy now - I have no idea what he was like the first time they were married. I would lay down in traffic for t…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/25 04:55 AM
1	Any of y’all relieved when wife filed for divorce? Sometimes people will ask me if the divorce is getting ugly. I'm like "No, its absolutely beautiful."	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/25 07:10 PM
4	Starting as friends This is just her keeping a monkey branch within arms reach. Don't accept an invite to the pick me dance. Get out there and start meeting people. Let her see you've moved on and enjoying life and she will probably start reaching out harder. If you caused the destruction of your marriage you may have some work to do on yourself first. Theres no rule that says you can't meet new people while figuring out who you are and what kind of person you want to be with. But don't be an idiot and use the emai…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/25 01:02 AM
11	Guys who've had the worst divorce, do you regret meeting her? It's impossible to say I regret meeting her because I have 2 incredible kids that bring me loads of joy and happiness. At the same time I have a feeling that she is the worst thing that I've ever brought into my life because she caused me so much pain and heart break. My regrets now center around my kids and their future. This isn't the life I wanted for them - they deserve so much more than to have their mom give up on our family and pursue her own happiness with her AP. I have made a promise t…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/25 01:48 PM
14	Do you all get your children’s mother gifts for Mothers Day? I am dying to give her a mirror with a note that says "So you never forget who matters most." But I'm also trying to show my girls the right way to treat people, so I've held off.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/25 03:34 AM
3	Am I too nice/friendly to my ex? You're a better man than me. I'm in the middle of a divorce and considering giving my STBXW a mirror with a note "So you never forget who's most important to you."	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/25 07:14 PM
3	Should I block her number after all this is done? I'm in a similar boat. Ive been contemplating asking my lawyer about one of the coparenting apps that limit communication. I don't even want that bitch to know when ive got whatsapp open.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/25 09:26 PM
2	50 something yo Divorced Cougars picking up 30 year olds Your ex sounds like my stbx. They need that narrative to justify their shitty behavior. Mine is a classic dismissive avoidant and had to re-write the last 4 years of our marriage in order to live with herself and her poor decisions.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/25 09:21 PM
9	A different perspective on why women initiate divorce more often and monkeybranch Men will typically sacrifice their own happiness for their partner and family. Women will typically sacrifice their family/relationship for their own happiness. Im not at all surprised the lesbian relationships have the highest divorce rate.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/25 06:42 PM
6	A different perspective on why women initiate divorce more often and monkeybranch This was exactly how my wife ended our marriage and initiated divorce. Her rationale is basically she did it because she dis not think I would find out about the affair. Her order of operations was 1. Affair 2. Divorce 3. Therapy (hasnt started yet but claims she will soon). Its completely the opposite order I would have gone about things but I also could never cheat on a partner. Ive learned more about her in the past 2 months than i had in the 20 years we were together. Whats even more sad is …	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/25 06:40 PM
4	Never enough This has been the case with my ongoing divorce. She was already completely over me before she asked for a divorce. It hurts like hell.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/25 01:29 AM