sithrowaway2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way?		sithrowaway2	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/21 03:59 PM

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1	She Waited 6 Weeks I would like to share a very subtle suggestion that really helped me. If you insist on keeping social media you should unfollow your ex and her new boyfriend if he's on your list. This way the only time you are going to see what she's up to is when you are looking for it. Its subtle but being blind sided by this stuff while mindlessly scrolling makes it hurt more. And as the posters here have already said its been more than 6 weeks. It sucks but focus on you. I promise it gets better. While you …	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/21 05:49 PM
2	Still struggling with thoughts of infidelity. This sounds a lot like what I went through. I posted here a few months ago and got some great answers. Sharing because maybe they can help you too. https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/nxjcqq/i_am_not_sure_if_i_was_cheated_on_or_not_but/ The big take away for me was you don't need proof. If YOU feel like you were cheated on then you were. Its YOUR definition that counts. Its so much easy to hide in the uncertainty of what ifs but its so much better to confront it head on take the hit an…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/09/21 03:04 PM
1	STBX wants divorce, told me I can keep the house.. please help I was in a similar situation but my ex was not a STAHM. We didn't get an attorney together (which I think is in her best interest, not yours) but we did go through mediation. I got off pretty easy compared to the stories on this sub with no child support or alimony. She made slightly more than me so I would be the one fighting for it but didn't want to go that route. I knew I was getting a really good deal here however until I had that finalized divorce letter in my hand I wasn't rocking the boa…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/21 01:40 PM
2	Do the arguments with the ex wife ever stop? After four years the argument today was about me getting them the Covid vaccine. It just never stops, any chance she can attack she does. If you must reply, set a 10 minute time limit when you see a text from her. Don't open it until that time is up. This really slows their momentum and they lose interest in causing trouble.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/21 06:30 PM
1	I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way? Nah he already fucked up his 3 marriages. I guess he needs to go mess with mine now.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/21 01:12 AM
1	I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way? 50/50 split was my hill to die on. Compared to the horror stories I've read on this page I couldn't have been more lucky with the clean break I got.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/21 01:11 AM
3	I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way? I love this sub. You guys are seriously the best.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/21 01:09 AM
2	I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way? This is good advice for anyone going through a similar situation but I am happy to say way are way past this step. Divorce has been finalized for months.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/21 06:24 PM
6	I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way? My therapist says I was apparently gaslit a bunch. Apparently this caused me to doubt the validity of my own feelings. Either way I have zero interest in making my marriage come back. I suppose it really does not matter in the end. Thank you for the response.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/21 06:11 PM
2	I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way? I think this is the way to go honestly. The way you laid it out here makes a lot of sense. Co parenting is my big worry. I don't want to subconsciously project anything onto our child and have them resent my ex in someway. I have been to therapy the last few months siting this as my biggest concern. I have been on the self improvement path since I moved out and don't plan on stopping anytime soon.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/21 06:08 PM