siwandco27 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	How to bypass the "i need time to get intimate" BS? The post you replied to was correct mate. Let me tell you from experience the over 40’s have been wayyy wilder overall than unders	/r/seduction	27/06/25 01:15 PM
7	Men in their 40s and 50s, do you still not pay for the first/first few date(s)? M45 here , I will always get at least the first drinks , if we happen to get food after I’ll get that as well. But I always pay attention to whether they offer to get the 2nd round of drinks if they don’t I know they aren’t likely going to be someone I want around longer term. I don’t mind paying *if I choose to but if I suspect they are likely freeloading it doesn’t go past a bit of fun and it certainly doesn’t get to dinner	/r/seduction	06/06/25 06:07 PM
3	When is it time to ask on a date? I’d say ask as soon as naturally possible mate so have a brief chat over text by all means but gear it towards suggesting meeting up. Theres no reason not to immediately say good meeting you be nice to get together again etc.. however you want to word it. Definitely don’t drag it out or you’ll become a penpal while someone else takes their shot! You don’t need to call it anything , go for it man fortune favours the brave good luck 👊	/r/seduction	03/06/25 04:04 PM
3	When is it time to ask on a date? What’s your scenario? Someone you meet in person and exchange numbers or matching online etc ?	/r/seduction	03/06/25 02:02 PM
1	Should I try to reschedule dates with girls who flake? I have a 1 only follow up rule, from experience that’s the only one that’s gotten a positive result any more follow ups than that you’ve given your balls away on a plate. Don’t write hey ‘girl’ either that’s cringey af. Good luck	/r/seduction	23/05/25 03:27 PM
2	Still scared of approaching girls It’s only awkward if you allow it to be so. Keep conversation light hearted and friendly smile and remember to breathe! Don’t put too much pressure on yourself and be at peace with being rejected more than not! Ask questions be genuinely curious listen to the answers go from there. Be present do not get stuck in your own head. It’s all out there go get it 👊	/r/seduction	02/05/25 02:24 PM
2	Still scared of approaching girls What are you scared of exactly? Is it the fear of rejection?	/r/seduction	02/05/25 12:55 PM
3	Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matches 100+ is I think quite normal on a new sign up. Once you’ve weeded out the fake profiles people that live 9576 miles away and people you don’t fancy you’ll be lucky to be left with a handful that the majority of them don’t reply to a message you send 😂 In answer to your question - personally I cringe at the thought of some elaborate tactical or humorous opener. If there isn’t anything genuine to say about their prompts or pictures I just say how’s it going. If any girl is expecting some ridiculou…	/r/seduction	18/02/25 04:08 PM
3	Do I keep pursuing her? This is the only response you need. Fortune favours the brave 💪	/r/seduction	15/02/25 05:49 PM