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| 1 | This subreddit is 9 years old. How has it changed?Lol I remember you fool 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.Some hoe on a hook-up who knows exactly what she signed up for and what the purpose of it all stands to everyone on it...got teary-eyed and that made you broken-hearted? If anything that should redouble your efforts in that regards...make it your life's mission to chastise the hook-up hoes of your time and take no prisoners! Aaaaggghhh young 'uns are soft nowadays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?Constant backbiting/gossiping about others. American white women are especially prone to this. It's a heinous character trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterIn a lot of European countries the age of consent is on the lower end of the teen years, and hardly anyone bats an eyelash when middle-aged European men sleep with girls who would be considered minors in America. Source: I've lived in France. Noodle on that one for a while and 'cultural differences' regarding attitudes to sex in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menAs a bona fide red-blooded heteronormative male who's been around other men on a continuous basis for damn close to 25 years, I can assure you that the dorky Adam Sandler-esque 'shooting-his-shot' with someone out if his league trope is severely lacking in everday evidence...the vast majority of men dumpster dive when it comes to females. Most can't even get a word in with their SMV equivalent. ...now women however...oy vey...I've seen legions of women in my day go for top dog types so far outsi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menI was being facetious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menQuite the opposite actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 05:03 PM |
| 26 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menNot necessarily. Short women still carry with them those untermenschen genes themselves which they'll conceivably pass on to their sons, regardless of their tall partners (and short women fetishize height even moreso than avg height women). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Ar what age is being unmarried a red flag for M&W?Lol, "quality women" in the 30+ age bracket my rear end...most of the gremlins I see at that age have gone off the deep end... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Ar what age is being unmarried a red flag for M&W?For women who want to be married, if they're 28, 29, and still single, doing things casual, situationships, tinder/hinge-hopping, etc etc...they should be in panic mode. By early 30s, absolutely it would be a red flag to be unmarried for a woman who desires a husband and kids. For men, again assuming they want to be hitched in the first place with kids and the white picket fence and 2.0 kids and the whole shebang..if they're early 30s and still single they should be in panic mode...By 35, 36, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him?Your argument is moot because there is a natural antipathy and antagonism that exists between the genders and vis-a-vis gender dynamics in general and no healthy woman would ever want some random strange male to experience sexual satisfaction at the expense of members of her own gender. You seem to think females have an altruistic notion or end-goal of divyying up sex equitably amongst all men when it is the opposite...most women want men to fuck off and die barring their own partner and (maybe)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 04:14 PM |
| -3 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.It's definitely extremely degrading and puts you in a submissive role vis-a-vis your partner, which can lead to loss of admiration and respect for your masculinity by your partner over the long run. There's a pretty good reason why lots of guys refuse to do it. It's just a very degrading (to one's latent inherent sense of masculine pride) thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Men don't age like wine. Stop being delusional.Of course you wouldn't. It takes astrophysics level of intelligence to deduce that younger women have more sex appeal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | The other sex really is the opposition."Lower class men" encompass like 95% of all men who have ever existed since time immemorial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 05:30 AM |
| 7 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.I've seen these things myself. Years and years ago I saw my then roommate bodyslam his gf to the floor so hard that the downstairs neighbors in our apartment complex called the cops...and then she defended him and refused to press charges when they showed up. He would scream at her and hurl the most vile insults and she would come back and f*** him for hours that same night, almost like she got off on it. She would snoop through his phone, find evidence of him texting other girls, and become hys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 05:21 PM |
| 3 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?I've definitely met women who've dissuaded men from potentially improving themselves. They exist; they're a subset of women in general but they're there. I have a theory that some women find previously unattractive men transforming into sexualized beings represents a deep-seated fear that their own 'metric' for measuring men's sex appeal may not be trustworthy... And I'm not talking about the clichéd "oh you're fine the way you are don't ever change anything about you" empty platitude bs that so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?Lol 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men doLol, not at all. The Midlands (Middle America) is the ground zero of American gluttony | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 12:36 AM |
| 6 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?Tell that to Lolo Jones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 12:33 AM |
| 27 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?😅😆🤣😂 those character traits listed immediately brought forth a visual whoosh of "who's who" top dog slayers from my teens and twenties who plowed more women than King David of Judah....I graduated from the 'school of hard knocks' growing up and "lack of empathy, emotional immaturity, lack of accountability, and aggression/violence" were exactly the qualities that gave my homies triple digit n-counts before 25...many of these guys are dead or doing life in prison... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men doWow! You're a 205cm tall woman?! That's insane!! 😁 ...and Americans are just fat. Obese fat. It's really ugly. It's not as bad on the coasts (Seattle down to San Diego and Boston down to D.C.) but when you go inland in this country you see it in its humongous glory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men doI highly disagree. As an older man nearing 40 and with a massively reduced sex drive resultant to my age I can view youngsters of both genders with a clear-eyed objective lens free from the skewed bias of being young and horny...and clearly see that young men and women have objectively similar levels of beauty relative to one another. I'm 100% hetero but I can appreciate youthful male beauty and I see NO difference in the ratio of attractiveness between the genders...there are equal numbers of h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 05:13 AM |
| 14 | Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men doThe average weight for a man was 162-163 pounds in the 1960s. Today it's nearly 40 pounds more. And it's not like men have more testosterone these days which they can utilize to put on more muscle. Testosterone levels have been in decline for decades. That extra 40 pounds is pure added fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | What are the silliest/funniest/most ridiculous standards for traits in a partner that you've seen?I know. I'm 5'10 (real height not boosted for vanity's sake) and I worked with a woman who was 4'11 once many moons ago and she looked tiny to me in comparison, and I'm dead average in height basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 09:26 PM |
| 4 | What are the silliest/funniest/most ridiculous standards for traits in a partner that you've seen?In my experience, short women have been extremely height conscious to a degree unseen in girls of avg or above avg height. It's almost like they're projecting some deep-seated insecurity onto the men they size up as potential dating material. It's one of those 'constant variable' patterns in sex that I continuously saw time after time again, such that coincidence was out of the question as an explanation for it. When you're 5'1 and your boyfriend is 6'2 you as a pair look ridiculous...you look l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Yes, by gosh, you're right! Mine eyes have been deceiving me! All these years...I've been arisen from a deep slumber to find that everything I've known and seen first-hand..to be false. 'Tis but a phantom...this, this this...casual sex thing... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?"There is no evidence that women have a hoe phase and the cock carousel doesn't exist"... ...😅🤣😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Yes I saw that too. You can see the bitterness just oozing out of her post. For a strong independent woman who seized life by the horns and managed to succeed at a career - thus subverting age-old tropes regarding the passivity of her gender - she sure has an old-fashioned POV when it comes to courtship and sex ("pursue me damnit!! Pursue me!!"). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?The ideal age range for marriage is mid-20s to mid-30s. That decade is the true sweet spot. Once both men and women get past 35/36 or so they should take a good hard look at what they think they'll get out of it ('it' being marriage and kids) and whether it's really worth it. By 40 - I'm going to go out on a limb here and be brutally honest as someone nearing 40 myself - I would daresay marriage wouldn't be worth it for the majority of people still unmarried at that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:59 PM |
| -5 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?Sex is inherently an act of domination by a man over a woman. Men do the penetrating, women get penetrated. A man imposes his will forcefully via the inherently violating act of penetration, ideally after mutual consent has been reached (which you dissimulate into meaning like there is some sort of parity of sorts between parties, as if consenting deals or agreements cannot have a clear overriding power imbalance), but sometimes very much not...imagine what horrors early (wo-)man experienced at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 10:32 PM |
| 21 | If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor?My very first gf, upon our first real make-out session commencing in the guest room of my house, broke off mid-kiss and said, "u/sjamad_oc, please don't pressure me to have sex with you." I shrugged my shoulders, said, "of course, I respect you and your boundaries," and withdrew my hands and fingers from the roaming around on her body which I had been engaged in up to then. To this day the look of frozen shock and mouth-agape surprised displeasure on her face has always stayed with me. I always … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Women of Purple Pill debate. Where do you feel like the current dating climate is right now when it comes to men and women?Sperm is cheap, eggs are precious...men are disposable, women are more valuable...most women would rather die alone/without issue/a chief's concubine rather than be forced via societal diktat to accede to an average male...innumerable men must fall by the wayside and lose their chance to mate - if not die off - for one man to prove his mettle and become equal to an average female... ...it's the nature of the game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Women of Purple Pill debate. Where do you feel like the current dating climate is right now when it comes to men and women?Not sex itself, but the dance leading up to its culmination most certainly is. Especially for males. There's a reason virtually all animals of importance engage in mutual combat for the right to mate. Humans are no different. The weak lose and are extinguished, the strong win and live to pass on their genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Women of Purple Pill debate. Where do you feel like the current dating climate is right now when it comes to men and women?It is absurd that people ask for inserting humane platitudes and qualities into what is the most base animalistic primal drive hardwired into us humans. Like asking two battlefield warriors locked in mortal combat to join in a sing-a-long of "why can't we be friends." Sex is a zero-sum game, meant to whittle out and erase from humanity's genetic pool the weak, the incompetent, the clueless, the hopelessly naive, the foolishly proud, and so forth, while rewarding the most powerful and dominant an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 05:00 PM |
| 0 | Women of Purple Pill debate. Where do you feel like the current dating climate is right now when it comes to men and women?This should be the top comment right here. I see so many posts that skirt the line of "dating should have more of a middle ground" or "there needs to be more open communication so that you don't waste people's time" or "don't deceive about intentions" or "dating should be more egalitarian.." No it should NOT. This is literally the future generations of humanity we're dealing with here. There is no "middle ground" with sex. There is no compromise. There is no surrender. Everything is about sex - … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.That's nonsense. Bossy/bitchy women might reserve a few grains of sweetness for one zeroed-in particular guy, but their outward demeanor matches their inner character. The vast majority of "boss girl" types are as ugly on the inside as expected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Why do men choose certain women over others as far as to pursue relationships with?The vast vast majority of men don't 'choose' jack shit. They just get what they can get....they are in no position to be choosy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The Wall Mega-ThreadThere you go again with that bollshit. The middle-aged guys I speak of look more along the lines of Hollywood leading-role men with gelled-back razor fades, perfectly-proportioned physiques, affinity for juice bars and kombucha, and starlight-bright teeth. They're in their 30s and 40s and in the prime of their manhood. I see young women in their 20s with these guys every day. Mind you this is Cali though where looking good is mando. Not bespectacled paunchy Bob from accounting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | The Wall Mega-ThreadI can only believe what I actually see with my own two eyes, and what I see very common these days are 4-8 year age gaps between couples. Very very common. So common that no one blinks when my 31 year-old shift manager has a 24 year-old girlfriend, or back in 2019 when my then 36 year-old ass casually dated a 21 year-old, and then a 27 year-old after her...my 41 year-old workout partner is engaged to his 33 year-old fiancee after having been together for a long time, my 38 year-old ex-con 12-ste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | The Wall Mega-ThreadWomen at their peak routinely get with men past the age of 30, I don't know what you see in your day to day life but where I am in southern California it is very common for ladies in their 20s to date guys in their 30s. It's somewhat more rare for them to date guys in their 40s but not unheard of either. Maybe I live in a bubble (southern Cali is its own universe I admit) but I'm witnessing large-age relationships much more often than say 15 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 07:38 PM |
| 4 | The Wall Mega-ThreadEverything you mentioned is correct, but there is certainly a "wall" that exists for both genders. Women hit it in their mid-->late 30s...this is NOT a sexual attraction "wall," but rather the age at which most women who desired a top dog apex male to commit to them long-term realize that that ain't happening, and combined with a bunch of other factors (loss of youth, biological clock, etc) come to terms with "settling" for a 2nd- or 3rd-tier male long-term. For men, the "wall" is the point when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | The Wall Mega-ThreadNot necessarily. Of course every individual is different and that must always be at the forefront of discussions like this but I've known quite a number of people for whom aging was but 'a gradual process' and then all of a sudden within a span of 2-3 years seemingly aged 10! Many were quite considerably youthful looking for their given age and then bam! looked their age or well past it seemingly overnight. I'm close to 40 and have seen this many times in both men and women. By 40 it's rather ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | The Wall Mega-ThreadIn terms of getting top dog apex males to consider them for a committed relationship? 37/38/39. Outliers and exceptions aside, women at this age will have to settle for 2nd- or 3rd-tier men for purposes of comitted relationships. The wall for purely sexual attraction is much much later 55+ (on average). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 12:01 AM |
| -3 | What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast?Brah I can hear the self-pity in your tone of voice clear as a crowing rooster...just learn to accept life on life terms and move on! You're probably young so maybe that's why you sound so whiny but here's a breaking news bulletin: women ain't shit! They really aren't. They shit, fart, belch, have blood seeping out their vaginas, boogers come out of their noses, embarrassing voices and laughs, etc etc. Take it as a blessing that the Lord didn't saddle you with some sow for whom you will have to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingLol, you are a top dog my guy. GQ models, football quarterbacks, and the like represent the creme de la creme of top dogs, the "king of kings...." The kind of sex life you had catapults you into the upper 20% of males by default my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 08:37 PM |
| -1 | TRP behavior and modern women behavior are mirror images of each otherAbsolutely on point. A man who is an unabashedly carefree bachelor with zero intentions of getting involved with women beyond a casual hook-up will be met with vicious levels of hate from women, especially the 40+ crowd. Every female on the wrong side of 30 knows another same-aged woman (or 2 or 3 or 10) who ended up as a "leftover" with drastically slim pickings from the remaining men in her age bracket...if you show by your attitude and actions that you have zero desire to get involved in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 08:30 PM |
| 6 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingYou are in the upper echelons of the male totem pole if you had that much sex in your 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?Exactly. Sexual submission to a man, while degrading and shameful, is a step above submission to a woman via that most submissive and degrading of sex acts, oral sex. You're essentially nullifying your manhood courtesy of a woman, as opposed to a man (which while shameful can be understandable given male propensity to brute force and violence to get their way). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:36 PM |
| 9 | Where are all the good looking people IRL?That's not very "segregated" if half the people are non-white. If anything, I find LA to be a bresth of fresh air compared to the Bay Area or the Pacific Northwest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:21 AM |
| 9 | New book "Don't Trust Your Gut" summarizes who OLD works for, and who it doesn'tYes. I've posted this before but it bears repeating: some of the most admirably successful men in the realm of dating, romance and sex were straight-up clowns with all the maturity of 12 year-olds. You wouldn't believe the stuff that would come out of their mouths. If a lesser man would say that stuff any females within earshot would've assaulted him. Yet these guys were tall and fit conventional attractiveness criteria for men and were thus immune from reproach. Girls would actually giggle when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.You're still catting off? Didn't I tell you I don't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 3 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.Like I care what you think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 11:51 PM |
| 3 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.Absolutely. Thanks man. I'm 39 years old. I strength train 6x a week. Yoga. Rock climbing and bouldering. Brazilian jiu jitsu. I play chess competitively and am rated in the 1600-1800 rating range, not a prodigy, but I'm a damn strong player. I live out of my camper van. Pick-up basketball once a week with a good group of guys. My expenses boil down to my car payment, insurance, gas, food, and credit card. I go down to Mexico regularly to surf swim bang senoritas and throw back cold cervezas. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 11:37 PM |
| 3 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.Sorry my anonymous redditor, but that's the nature of the beast these days. Perhaps in a bygone time, just a couple decades ago really, you would've had a partner by now and be living the domestic life. But that's the nature of the sexual market these days. It's dog-eat-dog, viciously cutthroat, and winner-take-all. It's extreme late capitalist Ayn Rand-style ethos superimposed on romance and sex. I really feel bad for young people in this day and age. Even the females. If only most people both … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.Yes absolutely. Pride goeth before the fall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 10:53 PM |
| 7 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.Two things I want to bring up. First, I'm not talking about male cast-offs, bottom-feeders and rejects. "A broke man who's ugly as sin and has no social life." Yeah, no. I'm speaking about the mass of a little over average ---> a little under average guys who have a handful (1-5) of romantic/sexual partners in their youth, go through multiple years' long droughts, and generally struggle with finding partners in today's no-holds-barred cutthroat sexual market. Not the guys who are ejected from th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 09:48 PM |
| 7 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.All this shit only matters when you're a young man. Once you hit late 30s and beyond when even the last-minute panicky female leftovers are pairing off the power dynamic shifts 180 degrees and a man who is single and by all signs should be 'partnered away' because he is fit, trim, well-groomed, still has most of his looks, well-spoken, is working (not necessarily killing it but at least has some income), has hobbies, etc etc... ...will be met by women constantly trying to get him to settle with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 08:30 PM |
| 3 | How important is a man's physique to women?You're just not attractive enough in today's market. It sounds harsh but that's all it boils down to. Oil atm is $115-120 a barrel. Just 6 months ago it was half that price. Oil is still oil, intrinsically it's still the exact same commodity, it's just that outside events have converged to make it as valuable on the market as it is now. Similarly, your worth as a partner is no different to what your worth would've been 25-30 years ago; it's just that outside factors beyond your control have conv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 04:35 PM |
| 4 | How important is a man's physique to women?Yes, these mythological 'social skills' that so many men supposedly lack and due to which they're cursed to being evolutionary dead-ends is all smoke and mirrors. Anyone who has been around the lady-killer type known as "Chad sp.-Goofballicus" would know that as long as he is physically appealing, a man can get away with saying the most outlandish, cringe-inducing things in front of females and be applauded for their endearing charm and wit. Some of these guys that I've known in my life were str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Does our current attitude towards sex indicate the downfall of civilization?The Taj Mahal, widely regarded as the most aesthetically beautiful building designed by man, is a Persian-style building with classical Persian lines and arches and dome with some added Indian aesthetic elements, such as the freestanding minarets placed away from the main structure and some others. The main archiect was an Iranian (though there were undoubtedly many architects and engineers). Is majestic architecture culture enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Does our current attitude towards sex indicate the downfall of civilization?Honor killings and stoning of women are at about the same levels of those American 'honor killing' variants: the murder-suicide (usually after the wife has filed for divorce) and murdering the wife/gf for whatever reason. I'm from Iran, not to belittle or downplay those things, they happen very occasionally but they're not nearly as widespread as propagandized Westerners would believe. Especially stoning; I haven't heard a single case of that in my lifetime, and honor killings maybe a couple han… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west?How many medalists at the Olympic games do you see in their 40s/50s? How many professional athletes at the peak of their game? How many 40-/50-something ladies' men who have women swooning over them from the moment they open their mouths? It's easy to bring up extreme outliers - the George Foremans, the Tom Bradys, the middle-aged Cassanovas - but the absolute vast majority of men will have lost a bit of pep in their step and be past their peak athletically, romantically, and sexually in compari… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west?Yes absolutely. I completely agree there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west?Sure a man can be in peak physical shape at 45, strength training 6x a week and with an unholy strict diet, but it's where you stand in comparison to your former self that counts. Extreme outliers aside (eg. he was morbidly obese/ fighting cancer/ incapacitated otherwise in his youth and now he's an extreme health-conscious athlete), no man looks/feels/performs better at 45 than at 27 or 32. No man's sexual potency at 45 remains equal to or exceeds his potency in his youth. He might still have q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 06:52 PM |
| 20 | Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west?I've never understood this argument. Compete till they're 45? You mean men will be comfortable and content with finally getting into a relationship with a woman that includes family life (consistent long-term regular sex, kids, lurve, etc) at fuckin' 45? When most men are long, long past the peak of their sexual potency/virility and sex is about as appetizing and enjoyable as a hearty shit that leaves you feeling 3 pounds lighter? So that they'll be a white-haired grandpa-looking schmuck when th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 02:44 PM |
| 4 | did a woman already lose her shit because you rejected her ?Oh hell yeah. I've rejected a number of women in my time and a couple started yelling and screaming at me, one threw a hissy fit and called me gay, others calmly said "ok" when I asked to be just friends and then never responded to my actual friendly inquiries by text, etc etc. They're hypocrites all of them, waltzing around with their heads high up in regal royal fashion like they're God's gift to humanity, the best thing since sliced bread and chocolate cake... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:22 PM |
| 14 | Women, do you know any sexually less than successful men in real life? What are these men like?And if he wasn't 6'2 he wouldn't even get casual sex. He should be grateful for even that. I've known many Pakistani/Iranian men who are drop-dead handsome (I mean it when I say drop-dead handsome) but average height who are thrust into the same category as Greg the goofy permagamer incel and Derrick the dorkmeister just because they had the misfortune to be born in the West and have had their race torn to shreds by the media over the past 20 years. If you've ever been around Iranian/Pakistani m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 03:59 PM |
| 2 | What were you told about attracting the opposite sex as you were growing up?Cock-blocked by ol' granny...that's a new one. If you don't ever have kids and you end up an evolutionary dead-end (no offense just a hypothetical) it would be justified with such womenfolk as your kin. Karma is a bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 05:55 AM |
| 6 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?Lol tell me about it...the number of otherwise intelligent educated women I've dated with atrocious ass hygiene is shocking...as a consequence it's pretty much de-sexualized the female ass to me for good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 04:23 AM |
| 11 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?I was in county jail years ago doing half a year for some stupid shit and while doing my time at the minimum camp (called the "farm") I managed to snag a job at the jail laundry...yeah you don't get paid but you get extra food and a bed at the workers' barracks...anyways one of our duties was to sort out the laundry from the different parts of the jail, the lockdown barracks and the women's side of the jail adjacent to the men's side being some of them... I can't begin to describe how utterly fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | The One Standard That Fixes Modern Dating😅 3? That's nothing I've known guys with over a dozen ex-girlfriends who all cheated and monkey-branched to perceived "higher on the pecking order" guys consecutively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It is nowadays Men, not Women, who are held to unrealistic body standardsIf you're 125 lbs at 5'10" you are extremely underweight my guy. Even if your body type is naturally of the 'skinny fit' variety you still easily need another 10-15 lbs of beef on you to qualify as such. 125 lbs at your height is 'lost in the woods for 3 weeks subsisting on granola bars' skinny. Start with pushups and squats as your basic exercises and for heaven's sake eat some food! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How do average men with nothing to stand out get beautiful girlfriends?We must live in different parts of the country. I see young fit handsome men with warthogs and hambeasts day in and day out. It's shocking to see how mismatched the vast majority of young couples I see are nowadays (good-looking guy, crap-looking BBW girl). Even 10-12 years ago I don't remember it being this bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | How do average men with nothing to stand out get beautiful girlfriends?Yeah, this. Europe is different in many, many regards to America. I also noticed slimmer, hotter, more all around pleasant-demeanored women in my travels to Europe years ago as well. Especially that unique "ethnic white" look each European nation has. I'll never forget how mutt-white and ugly American women seemed in comparison when I returned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | How do average men with nothing to stand out get beautiful girlfriends?Hahahhaaaahhaa😄😆🤣😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 05:06 AM |
| 12 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeSpot on, great analysis. One of the more sober-eyed posts I've read in a while on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Why is the marriage rate falling?I remember being at the wedding of a friend whose bride had been a notoriously promiscuous girl back in her hey-day. She was absurdly dressed in a flowing white bridal gown signifying her chaste purity or some such shit...I recall thinking that she was as pure and virginal as olive oil and bemoaning internally the sad refusal of my friend to get a reality check on life and see what he was doing to himself. Some guys just can't be saved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 03:20 PM |
| 6 | Do women really care about height as much as PPD claims they do?Short girls are extremely EXTREMELY height conscious and insecure about the fact that they're short. On the flip side, tall girls are surprisingly sweet and open to dating guys of their height or even slightly shorter. This is just a generalization of course but it's been a constant thing in my observations of people and couplings in particular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 10:52 PM |
| 0 | These days, women don't hit the wall until they're 40I'm sorry, but if you're a man who marries any woman over the age of roughly 32-33-34 you're such a lame. Such a lame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Is Male sexuality broken ?Lol you read too much pulp fiction news headlines guy. Honor killings are at about the same rate as that oh-so American variant of it, the murder- suicide, usually when the wife has filed for divorce. It happens, but to think that an average raped woman in a Moslem country will be killed and her violator will walk Scot-free is so divorced from reality that I sometimes wonder if we live on the same planet... If a woman in a Moslem country is raped, the perp better pray that the authorities catch … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Is Male sexuality broken ?And I never made the argument that the West and/or Islamic countries were somehow superior to one or the other. I simply pointed out that in Islamic countries convicted rapists are EXECUTED. Then you got all defensive and went on a long-winded sarcastic tangent of argle-bargle putting words in my mouth and insinuations that I never even made any allusions to. So typical of a Westerner and their means of arguing a point. And no, slavery in the Middle East had nothing, nothing in the league, let a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Is Male sexuality broken ?Ah yes, the mighty enlightened West, paragons of virtue and dispassioned justice for all, lands for the free, of the free, utopias of unimaginable delight forsaken of violent crime, especially gun violence and mass shootings, sexual assault and harassment, where the top echelons of society have no links to transnational sex rings and where their leaders make no vulgar asides towards maidens of outstanding character ("Grab'em by the hems of their pride and honor), where young men of all backgroun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Is Male sexuality broken ?Lol you have no idea what you're talking about. Rapists are sent to the gallows in Islamic countries. Unlike the West, where rape lands you a prison term, in Islamic countries rape is a capital offence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Short Woman with height requirements; how tall is your father and brothers?Your boyfriend is 15 inches taller than you? 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 11:05 PM |
| 2 | I'm starting to see a lot of older women who are panicking that they aren't married and don't have children.I've noticed this as well. I can't say that I know a tremendous amount of women like this, but I definitely know a handful of cases (1 of them a close family friend of my sister) of women 35+ who are in panic mode. One of then snagged an Indian guy for marriage at 41 (I guess she settled 🤷♂️). Its definitely a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How important is it for your spouse to be a virgin?Society does shame male virgins, yes. That I agree with. However, I disagree with the idea that society also shames female virgins. I don't believe that's true. Society might portray or stereotype female virgins as naive, gullible, repressed, or something similar, but they're not shamed per se like male virgins. Male virgins are portrayed as out-and-out losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 01:29 AM |
| 2 | How patriarchal are middle east countries compared to the U.S. really?I have more respect for the Egyptian players that's for sure, hijab or not. The American or German or Swiss or whatever female players who dress in g-strings and bikini tops are just sexualizing themselves as typical ego-driven base primitive females are wont to do. Just look at online porn, 95% is Western - usually white - women debasing themselves for the viewing pleasure of the public the world over. And white men wonder why us non-white men enjoy degrading sex with white women so much...it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Tattoos are a cheat code for getting girlsDisagree hard. As some others have noted, tattoos, whether the colorful artsy-fartsy variety or the pseudo-"menacing" blue-greenish "state pen" style will only be appealing to a particular subset of girls who have already piqued interests for guys who've adopted "alternative" lifestyles such as unusual hair, piercings, and attire, with the implication that comes along with it such as anti-social tendencies, mental disorders, propensity for drug use and criminality, and so on and so forth. Plenty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Anti-intellectualism in women is more ridiculous than in menThis is a great point you bring up which I don't recall ever being discussed here at PPD. I've had the misfortune to meet some particularly stupid women in my lifetime - even amongst the middle class - who were completely oblivious to their ditziness and au contraire imagined themselves deep people. They never get knocked down a peg. Their dismal patter is lapped up hungrily and approvingly by their sycophants both male and female. They waltz through life in blissful ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenI've stated nothing but facts and given you some links to peruse if you so wish to enlighten yourself further. If you'd like to remain of the opinion that the Islamic Renaissance was but a fable then that is your decision. Ibn Warraq is dead wrong about this. There are hundreds and hundreds of scholarly books, articles and texts from scholars out of Oxford, Harvard, and Princeton that document the Islamic Renaissance. If you remain steadfast to your view then that's something I can respectfully … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | You are not getting sex because people don't want to have sex with you, the rest is just noiseOk, me make simple for you. You say white men taller more dominant. You say white men at top of hierarchy. I say no true. I say, I see no fundamental difference in dominance and effeminancy between white and Asian. I see basically same same. I believe, other forces at play. I see, Western "soft power" of media brainwashing and last lingering vestiges of white supremacy implying that white men are natural "colonizers' of non-white women and are entitled to penetrate and pair up with them in order… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | You are not getting sex because people don't want to have sex with you, the rest is just noiseThe white dudes you describe get with white chicks. The ones I see paired off with Asian women are for the most part complete doofuses. There is nothing "dominant" about them. The notion that it's their charisma and magnetic swashbuckling swagger and masculine prowess that outperforms Asian masculinity is utterly divorced from the reality I've lived and seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenIbn Warraq has an agenda to push and is not to be taken seriously. No academic and scholar of note from any of the prestigious departments of Islamic/Near Eastern studies at top universities will seriously countenance the argument that the Islamic Renaissance is "overblown." Quite the contrary, it's been stifled and undervalued. Just in the realm of mathematics alone the sheer volume of theoretical advances by Muslim mathematicians was mind-blowing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 05:43 PM |
| 1 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenNonsense. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_scientists_in_medieval_Islamic_world Click on any of the hundreds of entries and you'll see the utter vast majority were Muslim. If anything, not too few seem to come out of the Iranian realm, especially the Persianate societies of Khorasan, fabled land of a thousand courtly cities whose rulers patronized science and the arts to a magnificent degree. In a similar vein to your absurd, ridiculous dissimulation of the facts as stated in the post befor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:50 PM |
| 5 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenSo fundamentalists = all Muslims. Got it. And atheist fundamentalists are just as narrow-minded as religious fundamentalists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 3 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenYour disparaging exaggerations of the level of contribution reveal your bias. Quasicrystalline tilings, honey-combed 3-dimensional vaulted arches, calculations of distances traveled by heavenly bodies and the radius of the earth itself, chemistry, physics, biology, extremely complex and delicate hydrological works of engineering that brought continuous water flow to arid lands, literature, poetry, metaphysics and the relationship between God and the natural world,...all these things are not "pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:32 PM |
| 4 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenIt's a free subreddit. I'll post what I please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:54 PM |
| 8 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenOh yeah, all those gnarly kickboxing skills will stand up strong to a death-seeking burly bearded fanatic with bandoliers of ammunition wrapped around his person and as many guns as he has wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:45 PM |
| 0 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenExcept that your premise is completely incorrect as Islam set the stage for vast advances in science, mathematics, astronomy, agriculture, hydrology, philosophy, medicine, and much, much more, during the "Islamic Renaissance" (termed the "Golden Age" in Western historiography). https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islamic_Golden_Age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:39 PM |
| 3 | "Can't wife a hoe" but, why not?Dare to go...where many a man has gone before. Get with a hoe! Douglas tapped it, as did Brayden, Tanner, Justin, Andrew, Gary, Jordan, Maverick, Drew, Heath, Alain, Jamal, Dane, Martin, Sedrick, Simon, Hassan, Ricky, Idriss, Jonathan, and Hideiko! She'll be a real keeper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | [35-F] Divorced mom is tired of stories that don't go anywhere… she wants a brave man who focus on a relationshipI'm stealing this line. Hilarious | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/07/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Says the woman who complains about dating assholes in all her songs.Rude, loud, obnoxious holier-than-thou way of speaking, laughing out loud when a mutual friend stepped through an unseen deep puddle and damn near broke her hip (I called her out on this and seeing her face twist into rage is one of my better memories), pretending to be a defender of justice and women's rights and then dating, friending, and canoodling with hard-core criminals and blatant misogynists on her downtime, a total slut who had slept with dozens and dozens of men who at social function… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Says the woman who complains about dating assholes in all her songs.I would dispute that. Laters dude. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Says the woman who complains about dating assholes in all her songs.How am I being defensive? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/21 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Says the woman who complains about dating assholes in all her songs.Then let me rephrase that Mr. Pedantic: when did I ever imply that any kind of interest between the two parties - I and her - had anything to do with the content of my initial post? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Says the woman who complains about dating assholes in all her songs.When you said, and I quote, "all we've got is she...wasn't interested in you." | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/21 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Says the woman who complains about dating assholes in all her songs.When did I ever say I was interested in her | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/21 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Says the woman who complains about dating assholes in all her songs.Good Lord, one of the biggest bitches I knew in my life loved to wear this blouse that had "Boss Girl" emblazoned on the front. She was real short too, maybe 5'1"-5'2" and loved to wear heels. Had an attitude that was unholy but was very intelligent, a lawyer who had passed the bar on the 1st try. She refused to date anyone less than 6' tall, muscular, and rich. Oooh just thinking about her makes me filled with negative energy. That fuckin attitude of hers. Oooh | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/07/21 08:58 PM |
| -1 | What are the most important aspects of Female Dating Strategies to those who follow them?Lol these men are everywhere...they're just the extras in the background of the motion picture of each woman's life. They're invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it isMen do indeed lie and manipulate, but those men who conceal their true nature are never (or rarely) so meticulous that there's never a red flag (usually multiples of them) in some way, shape or form. I've known many truly vile manipulative men in my time who were quite successful with women, and in every single one of them there were multiple signs and symptoms of what they truly stood for that I (and some of my more perceptive female friends) locked in on as soon as they were made manifest. You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 08:26 PM |
| – | CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it isNobody put a gun to your and forced you at the point of death to enter into a relationship with those abusive men. You chose poorly. Next time choose wisely. I guess that hallowed personality detector of yours that can supposedly sniff out a misogynist from 100 meters away is a bit faulty at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it isNo, the majority of men are looking for a relationship. Some --> most might take casusl sex on the off chance it rears its hermetic head, but the overwhelming majority of guys want a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 03:53 PM |
| – | CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it isCongratulations you just linked me to a study which clearly shows the majority of men are in a relationship! So now pray tell how do you come up with the notion that "most men just want casual sex?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 03:48 PM |
| – | CMV: sexual abundance for women isn’t as bad as they say it isYou are totally wrong about this and what's really sad is that you're totally oblivious to how ridiculously wrong you sound and come across. Oh, and most men ARE looking for relationships. You have a generalized delusional disorder of the mind where it pertains to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 03:23 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?Just be successful in entertainment and the film industry bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:28 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?Thats true, but it's not a guarantee you'd have to be alone forever. In the context of American dating black women are at the bottom of the social hierarchy of dating desirability for the ladies, just like West/South/East Asian men are the bottom of the totem pole for the gents...it just means you have to try harder than your peers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:26 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Lol yeah, I've known some incels' (back before that label was even in existence) mothers in my time who honestly thought their cast-off sons could get a gf at any time but just chose not to. Never underestimate female self-delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 09:56 PM |
| -1 | Are women actually more attracted to younger men than men their age?Men are exponentially more likely to be the victim of a violent crime than woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 10 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?Yes. I'm not everyone's type, but in my youthful 20s I was too scrawny and baby-faced to have any kind of masculine prescence or vibe...now in my 30s my physique has "filled out" without any extraneous bodyfat and my skin is excellent from lack of exposure to sun in my 20s due to being an omega outcast shut-in with no friends...at 26 I looked 17 (reported to me directly by a peer at the time) and now at 38 I look 27. Weird how life works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 01:40 AM |
| 12 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?Funnily enough, it's the girls who ask me for my number and practically embarrass themselves to get my attention. I don't do much of anything at all. I'm quite the passive paramour truth be told. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 11:44 PM |
| 7 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?That's not my lived experience. I'm in my 30s and all my girlfriends have been in their 20s for the past 5 years. It's definitely a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 11:39 PM |
| 14 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?Lol yeah, this in a nutshell. 18 years ago, as I traipsed across my college campus wondering to myself why my sexless life didn't seemed to match the obvious sexual satiety of my female peers, I recalled seeing some of my female classmates around town (coffeeshops, boba tea cafes, parks, and restaurants)....laughing and joking and having a good time with older-looking gents who I couldn't compete with - in the great game called human sexual competition - if my life depended on it. I was 21 years… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 11:24 PM |
| 0 | Women should never lower their standards. Unless the guy is really cute and has options then degrade yourself.Blah blah blah, this revisionist claptrap all over again... Sure thing dude there's no such thing as Palestinians - you got me there. I didn't see that coming. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/06/21 10:17 PM |
| -3 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?No one put a gun to your head and forced you at the point of death to enter into a relationship with him. You chose poorly. Next time choose wisely! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 01:19 PM |
| 11 | Assuming you are an attractive guy, what are places to look for long lasting relationships?Ah yes, bars and clubs, an untapped goldmine of exemplary specimens of femininity, teeming with maidens of outstanding character and IMPECCABLE moral fiber...chaste, virtuous women who'd make excellent wives and mothers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | What cities have the best dating market in your opinion?Confluence of several factors. San Jose and Frisco have I believe the most lopsided gender ratios that favor women in the country, as the tech-dominated economies of the region attract a predominantly male-centric workforce. This leaves mediocre-calibre women feeling as if their value is much higher than it is, as demand and competition for girls is as fierce as a death match, hence the sobriquet of "49ers girls" (girls who are objective 4s on the female beauty richter scale acting like 9s). Add… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 09:13 PM |
| 12 | Women should never lower their standards. Unless the guy is really cute and has options then degrade yourself.Exactomundo. I'm also Muslim but generally old-school conservative in my beliefs about politics, economics and social issues and some of the nastiest interactions I've had in my life were with leftists and radical feminists who abhorred my faith and values and who I was basically as a human being. On the other hand conservative people generally like and accept me. It mind sound strange, but leftists and feminists are deep down more racist than they let on. I've experienced this first hand. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/05/21 07:12 PM |
| -11 | Women should never lower their standards. Unless the guy is really cute and has options then degrade yourself.They don't "defend Islam" at all! They might "defend Palestinians" from Israeli assaults (reframed as "defend(sic)ing Islam" in your perception) or "defend American Muslims" from unjust bigotry (again reframed as "defending Islam" in your view) but never once have I read or seen any major radical feminist (Dworkin, Friedan, Faludi, etc) lend doctrinal support or invoke commanlities between articles of faith vis-a-vis Islam itself the professed religion and and the tenets of the modern feminist c… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/05/21 06:11 PM |
| -11 | Women should never lower their standards. Unless the guy is really cute and has options then degrade yourself.They might defend CERTAIN group segments who HAPPEN to be Muslim - say, Palestinians under Israeli occupation - and they might defend American Muslims from hostile abuse and bigotry in the same manner as attacks on black Americans, Asian Americans, Mexican migrants, and so forth, but to call that an "alliance" between Islam and radical feminism is absurd and delusional. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/05/21 05:55 PM |
| -4 | Women should never lower their standards. Unless the guy is really cute and has options then degrade yourself.You're insane. There is no such "alliance" between Muslims and feminists. The only allies hard-core feminists have are with the Hard Left - socialists, anarchists, and eco-insurrectionists/environmentalists - along with social justice warriors like the Black Lives Matter movement and LGBTQ advocates. You're delusional if you perceive Muslims in this motley crue. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/05/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | What cities have the best dating market in your opinion?Both LA and Orange County get a bad rep, but as a lifelong Bay Area native who migrated down here 2 years ago, the dating scene is infinitely better and more relaxed than Nor Cal...San Jose (and Frisco) have the most insane, fucked up, twisted gender dynamics that I've ever experienced (and I've traveled to 8 different countries on 3 different continents). Bay Area women carry on an attitude of barely concealed hate for sub-8 men that's rather terrifying. At least So Cal women (for all their van… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 10:20 PM |
| 39 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”You summed it up beautifully. When I was 25 I had to walk 2 miles, jump the lightrail downtown (all the while keeping a watchful eye to make sure the ticket-checkers weren't boarding at every stop), work 8 hours in a shady warehouse that sold used mechanical and industrial spare parts online, doing shipping and receiving, being paid under the table the minimum wage, with just enough money leftover from making rent to afford bananas, coffee, a burrito, and my daily dope hit...while my childhood f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Is a thin man in the US "above average"Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Seems like a keeper.This deserves more upvotes. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 5 | For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you?I don't believe for a second that women flaunt their curvature, bare their skin, and dress provocatively solely to satisfy some disparate outside abusive control mechanism known as the 'male gaze.' Women objectify themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 01:36 AM |
| 2 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?That was actually pretty funny. Unironically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating StrategyAnd in a similar vein, my gf from college I used to take to fancy restaurants, weekend getaways and cruise trips, operas and symphonies and all kinds of exotic destinations, delighting in being dressed to the nines in suits, collared shirts, and dress pants...with my wife bitch'll best be happy with McDonald's drivethru and me resting on my favorite EZ chair on the weekends....that's how much I value and appreciate her on an unfathomable level in comparison to my college girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Female Dating StrategyAre you serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating StrategyThat "relationship" never even began. THAT'S the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Female Dating StrategyAnd that offer can be revoked, annulled, and terminated at any time if it so pleases us men! Good luck to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyAnd no man owes any woman a relationship in the context of accessed sex! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | What would the affect of another global war or conflict have on PPD-related issues?There is a difference between consensual sex with German military men and the rape of local women by said German military. In many instances, especially in Eastern Europe (Ukraine was notorious in that regard), it was the latter. In the case of French women with their Nazi boyfriends, it was mainly the former. That's why it's the gold standard example of a nation's womenfolk shamelessly lifting their legs to the heavens to make room for the new conquerors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 04:12 AM |
| 4 | What would the affect of another global war or conflict have on PPD-related issues?How was sleeping with the Nazi conquerors "simply surviving?" All the accounts of elderly French women who recounted getting Nazi boyfriends during the German occupation made it quite clear that there was no force involved; they did it purely out of desire. Hell, a famous scene in the old Humphrey Bogart classic "Casablanca" portrays a Nazi officer with a trophy French girlfriend at his side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 04:03 AM |
| 3 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"Lol this is so true. It definitely is a winner take-all game these days. I know one childhood platonic female friend who's 38 years old, never found the Mr. Gray Biggingston she just assumed would fall in her lap, and while professionally she's successful and well-off, her personal life...yikes. She's also battling breast cancer now to top it off. I actually feel really bad for her; she was sold this bill of goods that just took for granted that life was smooth sailing all the way. Life happens.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:11 PM |
| 3 | What's the average body count for men and women?There's a lot of women like that still around I have no doubt about that, but marriage rates are declining across the board and even friends from Montana (of which I have several) and Georgia have bodycounts that mirror their coastal co-nationals. I know this for a fact because this very topic comes up in conversation a lot these days, as us guys are constantly bemoaning the lack of marriageable women in this day and age as harlotry has spread its tentacles to every nook and cranny of the countr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | What's the average body count for men and women?Southern CA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:39 PM |
| 9 | What's the average body count for men and women?This seems self-explanatory to me as well. I'm well into my 30s and I have a bodycount of about 20 (if we're being pedantic about it) despite never having set foot in a nightclub my entire life, never having been much of a bar-hopper, having gone through multiple years'-long dry spells of no intimacy, having been a late-bloomer (had my first sexual experience at 19, didn't lose my virginity until 21), not even trying to be a man-hoe at all, never having been on an online dating app/site, etc etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:38 AM |
| 2 | What's the average body count for men and women?Is it though? Out of all the cumulative people that I've known since childhood, the percentage who are married is rather low. I don't want to seem dogmatic about this, but it seems that low-count people (both females and males) are the outliers these days. But I'm open to differing opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:22 AM |
| 3 | What's the average body count for men and women?Most are social drinkers nowadays (my age cohort is 30-40, give or take a few years), practically all went through a party phase at some point, for some it was a short stint, others it was some years before they moved on from that lifestyle...yes they're all attractive, some wear fairly modest but tasteful attire these days, some continue to flaunt a little too much skin and curvature, all are unmarried though some have had the same partner for a number of years... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:01 AM |
| 13 | What's the average body count for men and women?The stats are off, can't put my finger on what exactly but the numbers just don't add up. Among all my female friends and acquaintances, all of them without exception have bodycounts ranging from a dozen to several dozen, and these are the normal well-adjusted ones...my most recent ex has a degree in mechanical engineering from cal poly and she had lost track of her number, "over 20" was what she told me. I suspect 1.5-2x that to be her real number. The most virtuous, modest girl I know (from a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Hot Take: Men are More Compassionate and Less Shallow Than WomenI don't know about animal rescues, but men provide the staffing - both volunteer and workplace - at all the homeless shelters and soup kitchens I've ever been to. The one food pantry i can recall was evenly split roughly in terms of gender, but take a look at your nearest Salvation Army to see which gender does the bulk of volunteering... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Do women want to be sexualised and why/why not?Uh, the models are on those billboards precisely BECAUSE the advertising executives want others to gawk and stare...ya know, marketing and such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What's with the stigma against tattoos and coloured hair?Ironically, what was once considered "alternative" in yesteryear is now the default mainstream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many men feel resentful to single mothers?Nobody put a gun to her head and forced her at point of death to enter into a relationship with a 'trash man.' She's a loser precisely because she HERSELF is a loser attracted to other losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many men feel resentful to single mothers?Sure, play the game...just don't expect the taxpayers to foot a dime for handout services due to bad decisions made. But do accept that times have changed, online hooking up and associated acts like checklist profiles have really jarred and awoken most mens' eyes, even the weenie/wimpy/wussy guys usually oblivious to such things, and accept that marriage is in its terminal decline and it's a jungle out there...I hope you're strapped tight, the next few decades will be some "interesting times" in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many men feel resentful to single mothers?It's all about adopting a female mindset, the minority 'winners' who modern females yearn and lust after and the majority 'losers' (who can fill out applications for Her Majesty's good graces once she's "tired of the games" and "not like that anymore," likely with some bastard cast-off ankle biters in tow). Modern men are allowed to dichotomize (is that a word?) between the minority female 'winners' as well as the majority 'losers' (single moms, hoes, entitled princesses, etc etc.) Btw, my mom w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Why do so many men feel resentful to single mothers?That post you referred to is about a 41 year old SINGLE MOM who can't fix crap around the house and needs a man to step up to the plate (ie play the role of 'jack of all trades' handyman) and 'make her laugh' as well...she doesn't describe anything she brings to this hypothetical future coupling, but in her entitled delusion believes that a middle-aged single mother with her best years behind her should have access to satisfactory men, when she herself is a nobody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many men feel resentful to single mothers?Reflexive hand-waving on your part aside, it's women like those shown on that sub who turn men into anti-handout social conservatives with a particular contempt for single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 05:56 PM |
| 12 | Why do so many men feel resentful to single mothers?r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Can you break down your enjoyment of sex or lack of such?No one put a gun to your head and made you be with those "trashy manipulative men" by force of arms. Learn how to take personal accountability for your actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average manAnd far, far more men work physically-demanding jobs percentage-wise than women...take a glance at a construction crew next time for visual confirmation. And athletics are overwhelmingly a male activity, not taking away anything from women who play sports and are successful at it...but it's mainly a men thing. Sorry but I'm not convinced at all that women are more physically engaged into life, whether by profession or recreation, than men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average manI'm not sold on the idea that "women exercise more" than men...I've had memberships at many different gyms over the years, and men gym attendees vastly outnumbered women in all of them by a great margin. Also, as others have said, female obesity rates mirror male obesity rates (specifically referring to the States). OP's argument doesn't hold any weight or water in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Sassy Sister Says: There is a shortage of black marriageable bachelors because...wait for it...they're all in prison.Lol | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/10/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"I believe in your statement, but the flip side of that is just as true as well - men who use online dating throw up just as jarring a red flag to their character as their female counterparts....if you use online dating, regardless of gender/gender identity, that's tantamount in my eyes of admitting you're a romantic/sexual loser who couldn't find a suitable partner for your emotional/romantic/sexual needs in real life. I look down on anybody who uses those hookup apps in the same fashion as men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Does effortless dating work?Of course, the arachnid-like xenomorph hatchling will glue itself to the face of its terrified host (victim) which it will later disembowel while in the process of birthing its offspring, while....uh...the human male ejaculates inside the female with her blessing and permission (unless it's rape).... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 8 | Why *shouldn't* we objectify people who dress sexily/skimpily?Many will say that "our primitive ape-like ancestors" were exactly the ones who perished the thoughts of modesty, humility, and dressing in such a way that didn't overtly sexualize themselves. Primitive tribes in the Amazon, Sentinel islands, and African regions all dress basically in the nude.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 04:28 PM |
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