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| 9 | Big shout out for the moderators removing toxic "Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks." post | Fundamentals | sk07ch | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 12:11 AM |
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| 1 | How to look more sexually appealing as a woman.Know how to relax your face muscles or relax in general does a lot. You won’t frown as much and look agitated. People don’t want to deal with problems all the time. Add a smile and you attract more 100%. This might sound plastic and fake, but it’s more about finding ways to do your body and mind sth good so you live a relaxed life. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 02:54 PM |
| 3 | How much the game changes for short guys, when they gain muscles?Conversation skills and charm are way superior. But if it gets you a more relaxed mood around women go for it. | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 09:32 PM |
| 4 | If a woman checks her phone on a first date, do you just end it?Just go on and immerse yourself in playing online chess, that much you forget she’s there. That’ll show her | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?Dating a girl that is more comfortable to go down on my balls than getting cum in her mouth, pretty great workaround | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Simple basics: 4 common characteristics of guys who do well with womenMight be the confidence you gained. Got a friend who is a stick but has a gorgeous gf since a decade | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 02:38 PM |
| 4 | How to practice flirting?Banter and flirting are close cousins. Being more playful with your words, pointing out fascinating , funny aspects of a situation… there are a few ways to practice it non sexually and not with women | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyNah, I get the most matches abroad. | /r/seduction | 19/09/23 08:34 PM |
| 3 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingFurther, it always depends on who you are interacting with. For LTR you should be yourself but show that you have boundaries. | /r/seduction | 12/08/23 01:35 PM |
| 28 | Is it weird that I don't want to sleep around anymoreWhat's weird to want sth meaningful? I had a phase where I didn't fancy hookups. Now, I see a lot of fun and realise how good they are for me currently, so I hook up again... Don't worry. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)That it's planned in a conspiracy is bold, as most likely it's just the side-effect of a system that is created by the means of a free market, taking into account our psychology and how to use it to sell more stuff and run the place. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)u/kathruins You just made me feel and understand sth in another depth than before. While capitalism is the free-est form we have, we still pay with our freedom. So unintuitive yet so real. Thanks. PS: I'm not picking on capitalism as I can't imagine another system where we don't loose freedom one way or another. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 12:53 PM |
| 7 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?PI Squared times e | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 10:22 AM |
| 3 | What’s the oldest woman you’ve slept with or biggest age difference with the woman you hooked up with?42 33 Oldest 19 34 Youngest | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 09:56 AM |
| 29 | What’s wrong with meTherapy sounds like the way here. There will be sth deep down in his subconscious. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 09:32 AM |
| 2 | What is the alternative less direct for “are you single?”Cheers. Did a my PhD for a reason. /s | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What is the alternative less direct for “are you single?”Sometimes I like to straight up ask a girl, after introducing myself, "Do you have a boyfriend". It from the start shows your intention and polarizes. If she's single, she will look at you in detail, wondering if you might be a good candidate. If you pass that, happy dating. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Girl I liked taking interest in my best friendThe playful back and forth of both of you agreeing and stressing the point. I like it. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Girl I liked taking interest in my best friendA true friend. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Girl I liked taking interest in my best friendFurther, his mate could have a blast and potentially a great fwb/ relationship. But nah it's all about me and nobody else in this world. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl I liked taking interest in my best friendI'm just upvoting your cute bit of tennis you two are playing here xx | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:52 PM |
| 37 | Girl I liked taking interest in my best friendOr, you get to a level where you don't take it personally and rather for what it is. Attraction isn't a choice. Well, she was more attracted to your mate, so what. You're not entitled to anything, better to maybe learn sth from the situation. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Going to a rave next weekSo what worked well for me on a festival yesterday was, when a girl that I liked gave some signal, I went up next to her grabbed her shoulder, in a really warm grip, looked deep into her eyes, before I leaned in really close face to face at ear and introduced myself. Quite clear display of intention with a strong frame. But also easy going in a way that she knows it's all playful and you understand the game, won't become annoying. On top, I'm convinced what truly matters there is the "how" and n… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Going to a rave next weekThem feeling comfortable next to you or wanting some male attention, does not mean they want to talk to you. It might, but it does not need to. EDIT: Or your observation "but acting suprised and cold when I say "hi" or make a joke or lightly put a hand on their waist to test the waters" points that you don't open them the way they could be opened by someone that knows. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:33 AM |
| 6 | Going to a rave next weekGirls are high or drunk moving through the crowd and or dancing. Of course they accidentlay hit somebody alongside. It really depends on how they do the things | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:47 PM |
| 75 | Going to a rave next weekEnjoy dancing, don't talk the whole time. Just vibe and get into the groove. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Was I getting hit on and I’m just too dense? I don’t think it’s too late…Next time, say to her you had a great chat the other time and ask her if she'd like to continue that one over drinks. Or say you didn't talk about all irrelevant bands yet as you got more tattoos so you need to continue the chat. Might be next time she's in a different mood or found someone meantime, so don't worry if you fucked it up by not acting spontaneously earlier. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:54 PM |
| 8 | Why do girls do this?It might still feel bad to get "shouted" at in txt. So not taking any risk at all, also not putting in any effort, is an option. Especially, if the guy was way too pushy in person when he chatted her up. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 03:08 PM |
| 18 | Why do girls do this?She might face a risk of this dude not taking it well. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 02:53 PM |
| -2 | Big shout out for the moderators removing toxic "Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks." postHave you been fucked by a massive cock? Where does your vast knowledge of cock come from? | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Big shout out for the moderators removing toxic "Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks." postWhich is actually true for many. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 12:44 PM |
| 0 | Big shout out for the moderators removing toxic "Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks." postThis comparison doesn't make any sense. You're just reading between the lines that every woman prefers huge cocks. How did you incorporate this belief, I guess you got this from porn? | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Big shout out for the moderators removing toxic "Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks." posthttps://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vngcyq/girl\_im\_seeing\_told\_me\_shes\_been\_with\_tons\_of/ie8mm9t/?context=3 | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 09:49 AM |
| -3 | Big shout out for the moderators removing toxic "Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks." postShe literally told the guy that she enjoys average size way more. But backed it up with her anecdote that she's seen the other side to know she doesn't need a massive cock. She did not want to make the dude insecure. But the dude was just insecure by nature. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 08:46 AM |
| -1 | Big shout out for the moderators removing toxic "Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks." postThanks Captain_w00t, it's just such a shame that those people apparently get dopamine from talking out of their asses with 0 perspective. I mean, I kinda feel sorry for them as they don't seem to learn anything. The flooding of subs with armchair warriors seems to be the case when subreddits get too big, I've seen it elsewhere. Your work is much appreciated. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Big shout out for the moderators removing toxic "Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks." postThank you. Isn't more available (good) sex good for all sexes? Why do we shame one of the sexes then and create an incentive to not explore sex for them? I get that it evolutionarily came around, with both women more likely to pick up a transmittable disease as a man is literally inside her, but also that she might unwillingly get pregnant. But it's 2022 now.. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 08:37 AM |
| -1 | Big shout out for the moderators removing toxic "Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks." postThat's the opposite of freedom or the American dream, so in the end you can not become anything/anyone when you work on yourself, no, you are ruled by your past because of small mindedness | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 08:33 AM |
| 0 | Big shout out for the moderators removing toxic "Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks." postIt got deleted. But the bottom line of many comments was. "It was rude for her to tell the dude the truth about her past, and she should be treated badly for it" We don't know how she is now, OP didn't give more information than that she actually prefers average cock size, but regrets that she fucked around in college. (she most likely found that funny but OP didn't) | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 08:32 AM |
| 4 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.What? Why? Is logic going completely overboard in this sub? She prefers average cocks and wanted to check on him whether he fits. Why should that make him a cuck? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Small talk with a milf at elevatorxD | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Small talk with a milf at elevatorHow did the story continue? | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Small talk with a milf at elevatorCheers! | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 06:18 PM |
| 156 | Small talk with a milf at elevatorAnd told me the floor where she lived if i wanted to meet here. Go upstairs and, invite her for diner at yours as you want to get to know your neighbours better. Or go upstairs and say you are missing a cooking ingredient (salt, flour, sth she will have) and you remembered her nicely saying where she stayed. Then invite her to go for drinks or what not. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Why not giving a shit, gets you places.Ah sweet, and I thought I gotta do sth. I better just chill on the sofa then as I don't need to change. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?I also happen to not text back within 24h, might not for days. We're bombarded with information and texts, sometimes we just escape a few threads. I'm male btw. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | A woman is never too busy to text you back. If she doesn't, take the sign.It's funny, once you distance yourself from using absolutes in language life feels so much lighter. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 11:05 PM |
| 2 | A woman is never too busy to text you back. If she doesn't, take the sign.People that use the word "never" to speak about either sex are morons tbh. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How to give a girl the opportunity to challenge me in bedSounds pretty hot tbh | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?How do you think you do? How do you have heard that other people do? What are the differences between you and people that got them? What holds you back changing? Are you engaging in limiting beliefs? Are you having a fixed mindset? | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?This is useless, not actionable, and vague. Thanks man, maybe that's why you struggle with people. I'm trying to help. I'm sorry that things appear vague to you, as you never developed antennas to get signal. So that's what you should focus on. I'd like to give you advice but, you seemingly try to just break it down into your landscape of thoughts, that seemingly is quite different from others. Try to follow more. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?Measurable by whom? You'd need to ask the people you spoke to!! That's why my first ever suggestion was about the ego. The ego is the one thing that makes it so hard to truly listen, to truly be in the moment, to feel the other, to truly connect. The ego mostly just is in the way of perceiving reality as it is. The more objective your perception, the better your life will become. The happier you will become. The scale you should use is related to how you feel and what feedback you got. Was the p… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 07:57 PM |
| 7 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?Goalsetting is very important indeed! So if we are talking chatting up strangers in daylight with the outcome of meeting them again, goals might be: Be comfortable talking to strangers Be charming Be funny or interesting Approach in a way that makes the other comfortable Don't appear to be a problem to deal with, rather some new interesting encounter Have an aura of ease, life is fun if you don't take it too seriously Enjoy talking to new people and making friends Become outcome independent Enjo… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:33 PM |
| 6 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?A good first start is to strip yourself of your ego bit by bit, so you can actually see clearly one day. If that is too deep for you... Why not take paper and pen when at home. Just write about it and see if you can see some underlying patterns. If still no clue where to begin, you can use for example three simple questions and one outcome: What went well What did not go well What can be improved Action points | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:14 PM |
| 10 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?While there is luck involved to kinda make it a numbers game, saying "just do more approaches and it'll fix itself" is a cul de sac. You can learn a lot in 10 approaches, you can learn nothing in a 100. It really depends on your mindset, your presence and how you process what just happened. I like your lifestyle suggestion as it takes away from seeing it as a game. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Is blowjob parties a thing?Maybe rather if you go to a dark room. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 02:08 PM |
| 10 | I think I finally understand relationships with women.Or cats | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 10:18 AM |
| 3 | What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going?Mindset. Acceptance of things I can't change while keeping a positive spin on things. Enjoying life. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 10:30 AM |
| 6 | I went from shy virgin to fuckboyReddit makes you passive through information flux, leading to overthinking and sitting on your ass. Or/ and passive people like spending time on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | "My neighbors hate me"Just send that to my mate Eric as he never told me. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Deez nuts joke to a girlWow. I hope you grow into something more beautiful than that... | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:41 PM |
| 66 | How to flirt? What to say?Flirting is playing. Playing with words, thoughts, pointing at things without saying them. Flirting is like humor but does not necessarily involve joking around. But even more it can be maximizing entering the moment together. Creating an experience. Sharing admiration about a topic together. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 0 | She is rooting for youWhat is he gonna do with all those internet points? Spend it on a holiday? | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women?I didn't downvote you. I can upvote you if that makes you feel better :). Cities that are not predominantly about consumerism, potentially with lots of green spaces and access to nature, they shape more connection to values in people. EDIT: In your writing was no mention of cities. It could've been about anything related to the question of "where". | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 12:45 PM |
| 1 | What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women?Depends where you meet girls. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 11:52 AM |
| 12 | What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women?Kindness can go quite far, kindness takes a good heart and upright posture. Some awesome girls dig that. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 08:59 PM |
| 5 | If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive?Or that he'll get a big bit head.# Fixed that for you | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 02:17 PM |
| 52 | [FIELD REPORT] Rave EditionOh yeah, fucking molly. Hella girls rolling. I don't like to game on girls who are rolling because I don't wanna mess up their trip. Thanks for this. I've been to many raves where it really is about the music and dancing. Folk don't chat much, they fucking dance. I always felt sooo sorry for girls being hit on that actually just wanted to dance. So many douchy guys not understanding or belonging on the dance floor. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 11:21 PM |
| 2 | I (21M) feel like a loser because I'm still a virgin.And you will feel like a looser after you're not a virgin. ... since you make yourself feel like a looser. Pretty obvious. Stop doing that. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 08:36 PM |
| 0 | I (21M) feel like a loser because I'm still a virgin.24 for me. I win. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 08:35 PM |
| 61 | For those American's who've been to Europe what's the biggest difference between American and European women?They are not as keen on huge muscles. Athletic or fit? Yes, but not a mountain of muscles. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 09:27 PM |
| 12 | The reward is far greater than the risk when deciding to talk to a beautiful womanYes. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feels whenever a girl is comfortable/very friendly around you, she likely isn’t romantically interested ?Thanks. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | She now puts effort to try to talk to me.? | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | There's really only 1 method that truly works and you don't really need to know anything else.Everybody has to find their zone of growth. This is individual, yet for everyone it'll be out of their comfort zone. If you want to change, you need to change what you do. Now, for some the deep end is too deep and shallow waters are perfect in order to learn how to swim. For others, immersing themselves quickly and throughly is the way. We gotta teach people to get to know themselves while still experimenting. I got the feeling that a big part of the people in this sub need to let go of the fea… | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Well while this is true, advertisement and industry work heavily on making everyone more average, with the intention that the sales and profits are more predictable. We need to be aware of that. Especially fear takes away from committing to be an outlier. So accept your fear and let it go. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Learn to keep moving forwardWhile I appreciate her happiness about it, I'd call that logic. | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Quitting pot until i do a successful pull & get a layQuitting pot until i do a successful pull & get a lay Fixed that for you. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 05:08 PM |
| 4 | How To Stop Worrying About What Other People Think --- Realize They're Not Thinking Anything About YouTruth is: You don't know what the fuck they're thinking. Either you ask, or you stop the fuck worrying about sth you won't know for certain. | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I began meditating in order to move towards banging a ton of women all the time, but now after about 5 months of meditating I am more interested in just finding a girlfriendTo add to this. You are never "cured" you need to maintain habits to stay healthy. Slipping back into an old self is way too easy. | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 11:24 AM |
| 4 | I began meditating in order to move towards banging a ton of women all the time, but now after about 5 months of meditating I am more interested in just finding a girlfriendThere is one concept in the brain that is very, very powerful but enslaves you forever. This is the concept of more is always better and you have to get the best. Truth is, perfection is a philosophical concept and unreachable. Not to say trying per se is bad, but many people get into addictive behaviour. There is always something better, especially when you always seek something better. Peace of mind looks different than wanting to shag 100 women. On the other hand if you found peace of mind, t… | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You.Well if all your expectations are out of HD porn, then surely masturbation is prime anyways. | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You.Why this post is super solid up to 95% it misses sth. -Too fat? Haul your ass down to the gym. Nutrition is the secret. You don't need to spend 30h in the gym if you eat right your performance and recovery shoots through the roof. You can cut down time and even feel way better. Hell even your cum tastes better to the ladies. | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Do hot women get rejected ?Imagine if you had your pick of the litter between 30 different gross fat chicks. I like to compare it more to a guy that is a celeb or rich. He can not be sure if he'll be loved for who he is. Hot chicks have it the same way, people are so focussed on their looks that they can't be sure someone is actually into their true self. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 02:48 AM |
| 14 | First Ever GirlfriendEdit: whoops, was sorting on new and didn't realize what this subreddit was for. Forgive me if my answer is unwanted. Why should you be sorry for a genuine honest answer that does help OP? | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 10:24 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when your date cancels last minute? Go to a cafe anyways and get the number of the girl who works thererolls eyes | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 11:02 PM |
| 8 | Any advice to seduce older women?.Aye. Pretending doesn't work well anyway but even less with mature girls. | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 03:06 PM |
| 54 | Any advice to seduce older women?.Older women often like it if you have a relaxed and centred personality. Don't make things complicated but be rare. | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 01:22 PM |
| 3 | I’m deleting tinder, instagram, bumble etc off my phone for good and learning how to actually socialize with peopleGood for your skin and good for the recovery after working out | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 11:25 AM |
| 2 | These girls are angels. Yall ever pick up anyone like this? I feel like I havent lived up to my potential with women still even tho I have improved tremendously. Do yall ever get that feeling?Glad I checked the comments. Quality video while OPs was rather cringy. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | The best way to approach hot girls (in field)Tbh only one of the two is good looking by nature and the second one had to work quite a bit for it. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 12:28 AM |
| 14 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)Nicely put. To add to this, being not truthful to yourself will really mess with your character and in the end, brain. It may seem negligible at start, but after a few years you will develop weird behavioural patterns that stay with you also outside the dating life. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 02:07 PM |
| 24 | "If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present. " - Lao TzuEveryone is butt-hurt nowadays. How can there be honest discussion? | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 01:19 PM |
| 9 | "If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present. " - Lao TzuAnd translated from mandarin by some guy that puts in his 2cents. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Too Attractive?It happens way more often than you think that they're like "he'd never go for me" also you find them attractive. I also had many women assume I'm an asshole just because I look good. | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling down about my height?Know a Sicilian guy with that height. He get's plenty of girls but yeah he is funny as hell and doesn't give a shit. Two qualities that compensate it. Edit: To add to it he is bold at under 30 and his voice isn't deep neither. Just very charismatic guy that doesn't worry much. | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 04:01 PM |
| 11 | Not being a "nice guy" doesn't mean you can't be nice.Women like confidence. There is often a correlation between confidence and people that aren't nice. But that doesn't mean that you can't be honestly nice and confident and attract women. | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you overcome limiting beliefs?Awesome. Thanks for that. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you overcome limiting beliefs?Can you give a brief recap? | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 11:19 AM |
| 4 | What does Mark Manson mean by saying "Be honest"?The fact that you lost your virginity to a hooker is not the most important fact and you should get around it but semi-lying saying she was a random girl and you were drunk. Some girls don't take it well that you fucked a hooker. Back to Mark he is talking about honest intention and showing your true self, that does not mean that you can't leave that fact out. But the general trend of your actions should be honest. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 12:17 AM |
| 3 | gaming a girl vs talking to herThe answer lies in the intend in my opinion. A charming guy as seen from the outside may seem to run game on a woman, yet when you knew him better you'd know it's his default to interact with women. He might run game in terms of arousing a woman although he is not running it himself consciously. So defining wether he is lies in the eye of the observer. If you go further it also depends in which culture or setting you are operating. | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Let It Go....Well a little introductory sentence to hook someone back into your topic can do wonders. If it was interesting and you find some decent transition it will be still interesting. To dismiss poor transitions and instead move on from your idea is where it's at. | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | As a female, how do I encourage seduction?Actually smiling and looking someone in the eye will already do a lot. Most girls don't and that is the one indicator for me to see a woman is interested. Most women's guard is so high up they never smile at anyone. | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 11:06 AM |
| 0 | Instead of Canned Openers, Try ThisBy using the same emotional tone with her than with a friend you create more connection than with a blank hi. Seems logical. | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 01:22 PM |
| 0 | 28 years old female virginHow will a therapist help? I am not depressed at all. That answer is actually rather shocking and shows how little education on therapy is present. You got a behavioural problem that is mostly based in your subconscious? Of course the right therapist can help a lot! How to find the right or a sufficiently suitable therapist is another question. | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 12:50 AM |
| 4 | 28 years old female virginI'd suggest dancing classes to just get used to be touched by the opposite sex in a way that is supposed to be respectful yet often gets on the border to being slightly sexual. Further most men that are willing to go to dancing classes are rather the respectful kind. If after many sessions you feel comfortable getting touched. A very important psychological border is overcome. Next step is to get more on dates obviously and get more comfortable. Obviously it's a hit and miss with the guys as the… | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 09:15 PM |
| 20 | Five Tips to Start a Conversation with a Girl You're Interested In.You Sir got a black belt. Motivating! | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 09:07 PM |
| 20 | No more click bait vids pleaseWell it's that far that I never watch any videos from this sub. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 10:09 PM |
| 3 | What hobbies attract the most girls?Something that trains body and mind. Not necessarily together. Dancing is obviously a great way to meet girls since in close proximity people automatically exchange signals through body language and chemistry you already get good indications if she's interessted. | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 07:29 PM |
| 2 | How to get the girl and stop being a beta. (EXPLICIT)Nothing wrong w playing in a marching band. The rest is just teenage bullshit. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 06:51 PM |
| 2 | How to get the girl and stop being a beta. (EXPLICIT)Thank you. Self improved and content beings is what everyone wants in the end. What does it help to be an ignorant cunt because you think that's how you're alpha because someone told you so? | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 06:48 PM |
| 2 | If you're a girl who likes a guy, ask him out. Please!I don't wanna butter you up but as long as I can think of, growing up I was absolutely impressed by women that did break those old, dusty and unnecessary conventions to not ask a guy out. It might have been influenced that my first love actually did quite a few of the important steps. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Make out music playlist?Tribal and deep. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 10:50 PM |
| 2 | First online hookup ever. It was weirdIt's a joke c'mon man. | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 10:52 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardAbsolutely! The science of seduction I guess. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 12:30 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardPeople dance there and don't get too wasted. But yeah I don't have more data to back it up. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 05:14 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThere are things deeper than our thoughts. Sounds like hippy shit but from my experience it's 100% real. Btw. had a women approach and just kiss me in a club and it was precisely what you say. I was just feeling free and totally in my element, I didn't care a minute about approaching girls. On top of that I haven't seen a girl in months. So it was definitely my aura. Hard to grasp. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 12:54 AM |
| 5 | So a girl actually checked me out today..What makes it harder is that people try to hide that they are checking someone out, especially to the one checked out. The not-checked out friend has a higher chance to catch them doing so. | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | I want to sleep with beautiful women because I was bullied in high schoolNo one is. Just silly definitions. | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 10:49 PM |
| 12 | Every time I approach a girl, my friend clock blocks me. What do I do?What a question. If it's a "good" friend of yours you have a chat about and solve problems. Thats how good friends deal with shit like that. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessActually yes. With some exceptions. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Her sex rating and her level of attractivenessI think it is more a factor of how much a woman can let go and be in the moment of passion. If all she think's about is "how do I look good" she can't be a grenade in bed. But it is not necessarily always true for hot girls. Some found the trigger to relax some not. On the other hand girls less attractive can be very insecure and that affects them letting go. | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 10:53 PM |
| 6 | Picking up girls at concerts/raves?As a notice. Girls on raves are mostly harder to approach, especially when high! They are so much into the music and dancing that they often find guys approaching just annoying and distracting from experiencing the rave entirely and don't open the slightest. Don't take it personal. Just go for the responsive ones otherwise you waste everyones time. | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 11:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The coffee shop girlCool motivating post! That you didn't go for it after the shit test stokes the fire likely even more. | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 10:04 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, how do you deal with other women who try to lower your value?Normally I wouldn't write this but that town seems to be a hard place to be in. What holds you there? I hope there are some pros but how you wrote it I'd consider moving. | /r/seduction | 06/11/16 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Why Does This Work? [Online Dating]I think it's a weird "I'm in charge and not a slut"-game they play with themselves. When they're on the date they can say I wanted it myself it's not that I'm that easy. | /r/seduction | 01/11/16 11:13 PM |
| 2 | I'm good looking, can chat to women, and I have ZERO game :(I'm quite like you. I have a brilliant education, am very athletic and good looking... The thing I found out that helps me is too not take things and outcomes too serious. See talking to attractive girls more like sth fun and exciting. Don't think about the outcome. | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 04:40 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things I've learned about being around girls.I really want to get into that habbit as well. But kinda hard when you come home most days at 7 or 9pm. It would be amazing to read my thoughts and would I experienced in 10years or so. What's your routine? | /r/seduction | 19/10/16 12:13 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things I've learned about being around girls.In my opinion this is super important. There lies a lot of magic in time when no one speaks. Listening to what is going on without spamming some (mostly) random chat around is very powerful. It is ok that there are pauses in a conversation. We're not interviewing someone on BBC. Learning to be ok with silence when alone is also super important to truly learn who you are. If there's always some music or tv your brainpower is always devided. | /r/seduction | 19/10/16 10:14 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things I've learned about being around girls.Breathing is quite important to get deeper. | /r/seduction | 19/10/16 10:07 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things I've learned about being around girls.bluetech works pretty good. | /r/seduction | 19/10/16 10:06 AM |
| 35 | LMR in the middle of sex? wtf, how to handle this?Exactly what had to be said. Impressive. | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 01:43 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How a dumb bimbo almost set my place on fireCan't remember when touring the US but in Germany /UK it's quite common to bind oil spills. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Women are about to lose their life purpose when the female robots come outOur ecological footprint is more than ten times larger per person than of those in the third world. Blaming others is always easier. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 08:39 AM |
| 5 | [FR] How a dumb bimbo almost set my place on fireAt a good gas station there is a sand bucket right next to the station. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Women are about to lose their life purpose when the female robots come outBeing German I can confirm that | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are about to lose their life purpose when the female robots come outThat's inherent in the main form of capitalism present. Everyone is too afraid to acknowledge that we as well, not only women over 30, will hit a wall. The question is how fast and with how much damage. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 09:01 PM |
| 3 | My experience with the crab bucket mentalityRent a shared flat &-or get hobbies where you meet people who have less shit in their heads. Pulling achieving people down just to not have the feeling they should work on themselves is one of the ugliest traits I can think of. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Women are about to lose their life purpose when the female robots come outTBH we're living on an overcrowded planet. Not the worst outlook if there's less offspring. Kinda sustainable. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 12:16 PM |
| 1 | The state of Hypergamy in Germany straight out of my German language textbook.Yeah props on the trump comparison. Works actually just fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 10:04 PM |
| 2 | The state of Hypergamy in Germany straight out of my German language textbook.Well the AFD officially states that there is no human made climate change. That doesn't mean you are allowed to use the "Nazikeule" on them but it still means they have some pretty damn stupid people writing their party program. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 09:46 PM |
| 4 | The state of Hypergamy in Germany straight out of my German language textbook.To add one thing. Men smell that dating a high achiever woman is a lot more demanding. Enough stress at work so don't buy yourself into stress at home. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 09:33 PM |
| 4 | My biggest problem with this sub and seduction advice in general is that people have this "one size fits all" mentality.Public places where you meet women is not clubbing necessarily. | /r/seduction | 19/08/16 09:42 AM |
| 1 | 3 Reasons Most Men Have Disappointing Dating Lives (And What to Do Instead)Nah mate money is the most important thing in live. Fuck the poor and btw who needs friends and women that are not gold diggers? | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Why no women are attracted to me ?I'd advice you to start a hobby that increases your overall happiness and your facial expressions will adapt to a happier level as well. Martial arts or dancing are both very great to meet people and increase confidence and therefor relax you overall. Dancing has the benefit that you meet and get comfortable with women right away. | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Suck it upForgiving is so alpha. Thanks for sharing. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 03:00 PM |
| 1 | The Nice Guy: A form of disrespect?I dated a girl that payed more often than I did she I wanted to interfere she was saying "you're a student" although I've a salary as s PhD student. That's true emancipation. | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 10:37 AM |
| 4 | Why the asshole just gets it more often than not, but the Alpha male will beat him every single time.Absolutely on point man! People have to learn this. We've more than enough douchebags already! | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Moment on DateDon't wanna brag but in Europe it is really common and natural that you split 50/50. I can't remember a date when the women didn't want to split. The level and way of expression of emancipation (or feminism) seems to be quite different in the old and new world. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/16 11:34 AM |
| 2 | the dog whispererPeople working in TV get gold digger a lot more, might be a reason to fall for a woman that is actually faking it... | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 02:55 PM |
| 1 | The Challenged Mind: Paradoxes Of LifeNumber 3 might be true in the US but in Europe Feminism is not that extremist stuff reddit keeps informing me about. It's the same misconception as in Muslim != Islamist. A small subgroup rides everything into the dirt, as always. If people say feminism in general is bad, it's far off from the definition because of some extremists. In fact feminism helped us to be able to fuck around more and break monogamy open. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 12:12 PM |
| 4 | [Meta] What to do if you're approached by a reporter for an interview about The Red PillI agree with 90% of what you're saying. But left wing? I don't see more left ideology in the media than right one tbh. Probably we live on different sides of the planet. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Things That Keep You Beta: Revenge FantasiesWhole fucking reddit shames people with memes of all kinds like that would help anyone. Pathetic blue pill shit. Learn and move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Monk Mode is the end game. (On Consumerism Part 2)It is part of the red pill that consumerisms gets us addicted and on the chain. But in a classical sense I'm addicted to coffee and alcohol since I consume both regularly one daily the other weekly. But as you said one can be quite happy with that. A huge part of society though get's crazy and nearly loses their mind with never-ending hunger. So there is some in between. If one os happy though then it's good. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 08:13 AM |
| 15 | Monk Mode is the end game. (On Consumerism Part 2)That's how I exactly find most comments here. People trying to just maximise consumerism. Like using a hack. More more more. Thanks for the Cypher analogy! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/16 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Red pill gold comment about Tinder, posted on ROK.Seems like hand waving arguements. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/16 10:18 PM |
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