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| 5 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?No, but it makes you confident thinking that it does, and confidence is sexy. | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 07:01 PM |
| 33 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?Actually there is. It's your pectorals. If you have chunky pecs and you wear a nice shirt with the top 3 buttons undone, that should get you a bunch of punani. Especially if you wear a golden necklace with a big bling-y arrow pointing down to your crotch. Trust me with that one. Edit: I'm so glad you guys understood my joke!!! Hahaha | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 07:00 PM |
| 20 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?It's why I keep mine bushy. I don't want women flirting with me just because of my sexy eyebrows. | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Unusual ways to meet womanI'm pretty happy where I am though...! 🤣 | /r/seduction | 01/04/23 03:19 PM |
| 18 | Unusual ways to meet womanMust feel a bit weird to belong to a party that so hated by so many women... wouldn't want to be in your shoes. Not trying to be political here, I'm just reminded of how many women in OLD have some text on their dating profile saying "swipe left if you voted for orange man". | /r/seduction | 01/04/23 04:30 AM |
| 6 | Easily bored by everyone I meetMost women are just not very mature before they hit 25. When I was in my early 20's I had a 36 year old FWB. She totally ruined me because after spending almost a year with her, I was no longer able to tolerate women under 30, and my personal rule was: definitely no women below 25 (even though at the time, I was 22 myself). It's not so much the age as much as life experience. The longer you live, the more crap you have to deal with, and the more experience you have. The experiences make you who … | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexI happen to have a girlfriend who does enjoy being touched with the fingers, but LPT: Not all women are the same, some are EXTREMELY sensitive, and some people also have very rough skin on their fingers. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.Say you identify as a 6’ tall man, and that the inserts are equivalent to silicon implants so many insecure women get? Also maybe you should be honest about it 🤣 | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Got her number, what should I text her?Hi this is Mark and I'd like to talk to you about your car's warranty which is about to expire... | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky?Dated doctors. Still extremely boring. Intelligence does not equate fun. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?If you tell her you prefer a fit body, she may leave you but at least you were honest about it, ideally before you have sex with her. I will tell you though that some of the best sex I’ve ever had was with chubby women, and I’d take great sex over a fit body any day. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Ok guys I need help with dating. Why does no man consider me? Why does no one like me? Why do men cancel on me?No worries, go on a date with me and that will change your energy 180 degrees, and men will start chasing you. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Does causal sex leave you feeling a bit empty?Your hormones are changing, which also changes how you think about women and sex, and is affecting your priorities as a result. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | How to get dates with Hinge and BumbleExactly. I think if you’re after a serious relationship, that plenty of women will date you and try to build something significant with you. However some people don’t want to commit and are just looking for “fun”, and women can sense that a mile away. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 09:18 PM |
| 16 | How to get dates with Hinge and BumbleI did this at 45 and it worked. Don’t be lazy! Haha. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Want to get laid fast? The easiest way to attract your local ladiesIt brings you the trashy women though… not what I’m after. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | (f47) is being "vanilla" a dealbreaker in todays dating world?No. Not for me. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itGo no-contact, improve your skills for a few months, then tell her you’ve gotten much better ;-) | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Can Quiet girls be alluring?You have nothing to worry about. Men are so touch starved, and in general starved of feminine companionship and energy, you'll always be able to find a guy, as long as you keep your expectations in check (meaning, realistic). | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Giving a girl from my hometown a ride back from campus. She’s super hot. How do I not make it awkward and werid?Imagine if she wasn’t a hot girl. Imagine she’s just a human being who just needs a ride. Just be friendly and don’t make it obvious. Just try to relax about this. Ask if there’s a music station she likes, or if you have Spotify connected to your car, let her DJ. It may lead to interesting discussions about the music she likes. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 07:54 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]The strongest thing to do is to remain friendly and talkative. Not all people are this strong though, so don’t beat yourself up! You’re only human, with human emotions. You should however work on accepting the situation because of several reasons: for whatever reason it didn’t work out, she may not be into you, or thinks you’re not her type, or whatever. You may feel rejected by this, but if you really thought about it, it’s actually a good thing! when you truly love someone you want them to be … | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | I sometimes feel like dating women is like playing a video game. I have to do certain things in a certain order at the right time to keep them interestedYou’re dating a child. Not a woman. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 03:51 PM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]I like what she brings to the table. Or the bed. Or on top of the washing machine. Anywhere works for me, really. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Asking out someone from workAvoid. Enjoy what you have now for what it is. It sounds like fun, keep it there. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:55 AM |
| 0 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!The competition is fierce. I can write a 2 page explanation here about why that is, and how it diminishes your chances. Basically, if YOU were a woman living in London, and you knew you’re surrounded by a variety of men, many of them earn ungodly amounts of money, drive nice cars and live in swanky apartments, all of which gives them the kind of confidence that get them all the girls they want, what would YOU do? Would you date you? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:04 PM |
| 0 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!That’s your problem right there | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!Where are you right now? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:50 PM |
| -1 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!You’re in the wrong place. Go travel the world. Go to the Philippines or Thailand. Go to Bulgaria, Morocco, etc. You’ll get laid very quickly. Guaranteed. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Maybe = No, right?Don’t make it awkward. Just ask if she wants to grab a smoothie together after the workout. Gym situations are tricky to begin with because it’s the most cliche thing in the world and everybody approaches everybody. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 04:06 PM |
| 29 | Is a girl resting her hands on a guy's thighs supposed to be a sexual advance?This is the correct answer. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:54 PM |
| 7 | Best dating app?Could also be marketing campaigns | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Best dating app?OkCupid | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 02:19 AM |
| 68 | Still using the same pickup lines 12 years later. And they still workYou guys should do what I do. I have a collection of peacock feathers. On my first date with the lady I raise them all up behind me with my hands and I start shaking them. At first she’s amused then mesmerized as an old animalistic instinct kicks in. I keep shaking them as I approach her face until I’m close enough to kiss her. Except then I avoid kissing her, pack them feathers, and go back to sitting on my chair. It leaves her wondering yet turned on. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 01:51 PM |
| 0 | Advice for cold approach? im struggling, especially really pretty womenThey poop out of their buttholes, too! Also: I found a lot of “pretty” women felt they didn’t have to work hard to get things, which was kind of a turn off. I don’t want to generalize, there are also beautiful women who are extremely smart and hard working, but I think it’s pretty rare. At least in the US. Things change when you go to places like Colombia or Japan, where you can find extremely beautiful women who are down to earth and approachable. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do it | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Getting Attention Without TryingSo you want me to become Elon Musk? | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 10:10 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Change your snacks. That’s what I did. It works! https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/29-healthy-snacks-for-weight-loss | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem?It’s still longer than most women’s fingers. And probably thicker too. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 07:48 PM |
| 15 | Where to find a milf?Not this guy | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Lessons from 15 years of learning seduction: How to be attractive.But did you get laid? 😂 | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 11:56 AM |
| 1 | how to build sexual tension with someone you've been with for a while?YSK it may also be hormonal. This is a known phenomenon called LBD, which you can lookup online. You got other good advice here above me. I just wanted to add the hormonal factor. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night?Think about if the roles were reversed: If a woman finds you hot, that’s a great start, but for her to also want to sleep with you that day, she either has to decide that’s all you are (just sex!), or she exercised poor judgement, or she’s just very care free and won’t care either way (sex is fine, and if a relationship comes out of it, that’s a bonus). I say this because even in this day and age, a lot of women who think you’re relationship material will avoid sleeping with you too early. Take … | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 07:29 PM |
| 10 | If you have a 4 to 5 inches length junk you are perfectly fine don't worry about it!Mine does! | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Change your habits a bit, and your goals a bit: Go take dancing lessons. Try Salsa. You need to learn to touch women for reasons other than getting laid. That contact with female dance partners will help you realize women are just human beings who have wants and needs and dreams and goals, just like you. Don’t put women on a pedestal. Do you want just sex? Because you can always just masturbate, right? So you want a woman just because you want to get laid? Or do you want a woman for the fun of b… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 04:28 AM |
| 13 | When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation.Here’s how I see it: you want your date to be extremely attracted to you. Not just a little, and definitely not “maybe”. For them, something you did or said, caused them to lose their shit over you (at least internally, if not externally shown). I mean lose their shit in a good way of course. Anything less than this is basically a waste of time. You could wonder and analyze and try things like earlier escalation and what not but in the end, you started at a disadvantage and you’ll always be figh… | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 07:20 AM |
| 13 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?Bring ice cream | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Ugh. Girl curious about my size.You need to accept the fact that some girls have massive vaginas and need horse cocks, and some girls will barely be able to accommodate a less than average penis. It’s worse yet: some girls have numb clits and take an hour to orgasm. Some are unable to orgasm, entirely. Some can and some can’t orgasm from g-spot stimulation (PIV sex), and suddenly CAN after giving birth (nerves suddenly move closer to the skin). Some women can orgasm from anal sex! Point is, If you find out you’re not compatibl… | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Your clothes play a huge role in seducing women!It’s really that your attitude in general is causing you to realize you need to take care of yourself and dress well. That same attitude impacts other areas of your life. People notice this about you and it’s attractive. | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Is It Normal For Some Women To Be Mean When You Approach?Not only is it normal, I’m highly suspicious when they aren’t. | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be?I appreciate intelligence, humor, zero drama, a cool and “I got this” type of personality. Bonus points if a lady is educated and loves reading books, and loves discovering new music, new art, etc. | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 01:18 AM |
| 2 | I had a girl walk away from me tonight mid set to talk to another guyIt happens and it's fine. What you should work on is embracing it and even loving it. Maybe she thinks the other guy is more interesting. I've had a girl once tell me that she likes guys with "thick" wrists. My wrists were not "girthy" enough for her. Another girl once told me I have too much hair, when I asked her what she meant, she said she is attracted to bald men with a dad bod, and at the time I was too "fit" for her, and my hair was too fabulous and not thinning anywhere. Point is, if a g… | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.Unless it's me. I am genuinely NOT interested in copulating with ANY female. Not until I know for sure she's not insane, is actually intelligent (not just acting intelligent), and can give me a brain boner. So far, I have only met two women who did this for me (out of hundreds). | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Couldn't get hard - again - with a wonderful girlThe mechanisms between Tadalafil and Sildenafil are different. I recommend you try a Viagra first, with a new women you’re still getting to know. After a few encounters you can stop taking them, and your erections will be fine. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Probably the best cheat code I've ever foundI'm pretty sure you meant Cactus and not Caucus. Right? Right???! | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 12:08 AM |
| -4 | How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached?You’re being tested, and if you survive then you’re worthy. You survive by not giving a crap. | /r/seduction | 03/10/20 07:36 PM |
| 4 | How to get more comfortable with physical touch in general?Great answer | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 06:22 AM |
| 1 | If a girl takes you home on the first date, does she expect you to initiate physically?The top answer is relevant and correct. I just want to add that there are some cultural exceptions. In some cultures women will communicate their expectations more freely, and you won’t be left hanging or wondering what’s going on. An example conversation I had: “you have protection on you just in case?” Granted this is not the norm, but it exists out there. Either way, don’t beat yourself up over it! It’s not about getting laid anyway. It’s about doing what’s natural and enjoying it as it comes… | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go to first date idea that isn’t dinner and/or a movie ?Swimming in the ocean in the middle of the night! with sharks! | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 02:29 AM |
| 12 | How to really stop putting women on a pedestal?Wow dude you’re a piece of work hahaha | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 05:24 AM |
| 4 | How to really stop putting women on a pedestal?Wow dude not all women are like that. I’m sorry that has been your experience, and I agree a lot of women do this, but there are women out there who are amazingly clean and organized and on top of things. You just need to learn to filter for the right ones. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Close to making girlfriend c*m but cantConsidering she doesn't know what an orgasm feels like, it's very likely. It might not even have been actual squirting. Maybe he over stimulated her and she lost all sensation and that caused her to urinate (urinating and squirting are not the same thing). I hate to tell you this, but you should know that most women know how to get themselves off by the age of 18. You may be dealing with an issue where it's not really physical, it may be mostly a mental issue. She may have some hangups. I'm tell… | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Close to making girlfriend c*m but cantWhat you're doing wrong is that this isn't your responsibility. It's hers. She needs to buy some sex toy and practice and figure out what gets her off. Once she knows what gets her off, she can help you get there. If she doesn't know how to get there herself, how can YOU possibly get there?! Imagine if your roles were reversed. Imagine you never came, and you don't know how to even get it to happen. How likely is it that SHE will somehow get it right?! | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop taking virtual rejection (getting left on read, getting left on delivered, getting ghosted...) so personally?You need to understand the problem is with them, not with you. You also need to thank them because they are helping you dodge a bullet. They are choosing to shoot someone else in the heart. Those people are the kind of people you need to avoid anyway, so when it happens naturally it saves you tons of energy. I used to write to ladies who swiped right on me that they sound lovely, but that unless we have a meaningful discussion in the next 48 hours I’m un-matching them. And you know what? Tinder … | /r/seduction | 23/05/20 01:48 AM |
| -1 | How To Be An Attractive Man (4 Key Tips)Just replace all of that with “Be rich”. | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 01:39 AM |
| 13 | Guys Who Made A Significant Change In Their Social/Dating Life, What Were The Main Changes You Made?I love the comment you got from the other guy :-) My hobbies: playing the piano, reading interesting books, riding my bike (it’s just a city bike), learning new DevOps techniques (an IT thing), playing video games (I’m playing Zelda BOTW right now), inventing new tech products in my free time, singing karaoke (this, and reading, were the first ones I got back into in a big way), and studying esoteric subjects that expand our consciousness and self awareness (I did an OM course as the first step)… | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 04:36 AM |
| 134 | Guys Who Made A Significant Change In Their Social/Dating Life, What Were The Main Changes You Made?Lost weight, got back to my hobbies, bought new clothes, fixed my hair nice, bought a new pair of glasses that look sexier, went out more, and focused on making a higher salary. The ladies came raining down. | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | virtually flirting with a guy during quarantine & THEN he describes a past partners vagina as — *read disturbing texts in image* — this is an example of how NOT to seduce a woman. THOUGHTS? 🤦🏽♀️Proof? | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 04:07 PM |
| 1 | virtually flirting with a guy during quarantine & THEN he describes a past partners vagina as — *read disturbing texts in image* — this is an example of how NOT to seduce a woman. THOUGHTS? 🤦🏽♀️There is no such thing as an unattractive vagina | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Can I ask a girl straight up, that I want to screw?It’s more powerful if you say it to her face. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 6 | How do you keep someone interested in you?You do this by finding your love, in the form of a hobby or a job, and then becoming successful at it (and remaining passionate about it). For example if you're an artist and you've become good at it, and you sell your art (online or offline), and you're passionate about art and you can talk forever about art, and it keeps you busy, then that's very hot. Being in the place I'm describing automatically fixes the situation you're in. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?I didn’t say she would sleep with him, but she’d probably let him get away with it. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?Absolutely not. Believe me after what I’ve seen there’s no such thing as Ugly. Women are attracted to all kinds of looks. I’ve known women who wanted their men bald and with a tummy... | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 04:14 PM |
| 33 | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?No, she reacted like this because she wasn't attracted to you. If you looked like Brad Pitt she'd just smile and wink at you. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 05:59 AM |
| 0 | Families and ChildrenThere actually IS a magic technique to having children without any women in the picture: Adoption. Assuming you got your shit together, you can adopt children without being married. It's still expensive and time consuming, but it is possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 11:31 PM |
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