It took the same amount of effort to post whether or not it was a repost. Is English not your first language? Your grasp of it is weak indeed. Also, Fuck off.
I've been through it in Florida. You have to fill out a bunch of paperwork and then the paperwork goes in front of a judge and they call you with the results. Being male I was denied even though there was an arrest on her. Merica!
I became unemployed after 14 years at the same job. Did I stress? No I spent the whole summer with my awesome 5 year old daughter. (Whom I have 90% custody of) The douche that fired me thought he screwed me. He did me a favor.