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85

Sheesh, when I've explained to other people that women cost money even when you're not directly spending it on them, this is what I mean. Not knocking you OP, but moving to the most expensive area in the whole country while spending ample amounts of money to curate your profile is simply unfathomable to me. Maybe it'd be different if I was a finance bro whose career would inevitably give me the tools to put myself in your shoes.
/r/seduction06/04/22 07:34 PM
2

Are you paying for all of these first dates?
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:47 AM
1

Yes, works super well imo. I don't look at her lips, per se, but if there's a lull in conversation, instead of getting nervous or checking my phone, I'll simply lock eye contact, usually with a little grin. They are always taken aback, in a good way.
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:23 PM
3

Seems like she's open to hanging out with you again
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:20 PM
15

No, this is an L. Learn from it and move on.
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:17 PM
0

Uh, no. OP said he’s not trying to get laid at bars. Most people are, hence why I said he’s better suited to doing this elsewhere.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:01 AM
5

Bro, get off the internet. Only incels use that type of language to describe their facial features. You literally look fine. 220 at 5’9 is still overweight. You’re down 40; you have 40 to go. Halfway there. Losing 40 already is impressive as hell and this is now the perfect time to add muscle while shedding weight. Your life could change dramatically in the next six months to a year but you need to pick your head up and take action.
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:17 PM
2

Yeah but you can do all of that and come back to her an hour later. Bars/clubs are where most people go to hookup, not search for future dates. If it works for you, more power to ya then.
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:33 PM
11

Go to therapy man. Nip these thoughts now, at 18, before waiting any longer. Everyone is looking at your profile video and thinking the same thing: wtf are you so self-defeating about? You’re fat. That’s it. Get in the gym to lose it and get a therapist to lose your mindset and negative self-beliefs. Commit for a year. Come back at 19 and your whole life will have changed.
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:26 PM
165

Uhhh, this is way more applicable to day game. In a bar/club you’re shooting yourself in the foot by not continuing to interact with her since there’s a decent chance she’s out that night to get laid in the first place.
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:02 PM
1

Yea, that’s a better way of putting it
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:50 PM
23

There is some truth to this but it matters way less when you’re out of college and over the age of 25.
/r/seduction04/03/22 10:50 PM
3

I get what you’re saying, but “less of a man” is probably not the right language to describe the feeling. Women are basically Fortune 500 corporations on Tinder. You can do everything right and still not get the job—with no explanation why, to boot.
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:29 PM
2

It’s called polarization and it works a lot better if you’re goodlooking. Prime example of “it’s not what you say, but how you say it.”
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:54 PM
3

Yeah, you see a lot of posts on here where people are so excited about getting laid they conflate their one experience with a valuable lesson. OP got setup by friends and lucked out.
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:45 AM
4

Yea, he looks like exactly what I’d expect for a 6’2 guy that struggles. No offense OP. You could easily turn it around with some muscle and less dorkiness
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:27 AM
7

I can attest to this too. All I did was looksmax and learn to have a conversation with some flirting and everything fell into place.
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:31 AM
36

Go to therapy. You reek of desperation and women have a sixth sense for detecting it.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:07 PM
1

A lot of unrealistic criteria and labels become magnified on the internet
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:08 PM
88

Way easier for me at 30 than any year previously. I take care of myself and can pass for 25 though.
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:55 AM
1

Lower your standards for now. You don’t seem like you’re in the right place to get the hotties everyone wants. People are saying do this, do that, but what will give you the most confidence is getting laid, period.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:41 AM
1

If only like 1 or 2 people were saying you’re attractive, you should take it with a grain of salt…but literally everyone on all your posts are, so the problem is likely in your head.
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:10 AM
22

OP needs to see a therapist. He’s too deep to actively change his self-beliefs by himself.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:16 PM
3

They have 1000s of matches and aren’t likely to go out with one of them unless you were to prove a very high social status.
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:43 PM
1

Best advice I’ve ever seen from a woman on this sub and mirrors pretty much all my successful flirting experiences.
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:52 PM
1

Good for you either way!
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:26 PM
1

I believe you, but I’ve noticed fat guys score 6s-7s thinking they’re scoring 10s.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:16 PM
6

You should build some muscle regardless. A lot of rock climbers train calisthenics for the carry over.
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:37 AM
5

That post is a prime example of “don’t listen to what women say, watch what they do.” All the posts with “nevverrrrrr” as the answer yet there are thousands of examples of women messaging guys on Tinder with a variation of a “dtf” opening just based on the guy’s pictures.
/r/seduction06/02/22 09:36 PM
45

Going to be hilarious if she rejects you
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:14 AM
4

Yeah, spinning plates is good protection against neediness, but hard to do when you’re tight on time.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:41 PM
46

Happens to me all the time, especially online. It’s usually because I care too much. When I could care less about seducing the woman, the margin for error is way wider. Alas, it sets me in the conundrum a lot of men deal with: can’t attract the women they want; always attract the women they don’t.
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:16 PM
3

This question is ripe for Jacob Mooberg
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:37 PM
4

19 is earlier than most
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:00 PM
16

Getting older will help the most. No one on this sub was a stud at 15. Just know that even if you make positive changes, most men keep growing and developing well into their 20s, so don’t beat yourself up if success takes a while. A lot of men naturally fall into it with age.
/r/seduction02/02/22 09:53 PM
1

That imbalance is barely noticeable and balances out anyway even with a barbell
/r/seduction02/02/22 09:51 PM
5

No. Plenty of single girls partying. There are three keys factors: 1. plausible deniability-they’re likely just at the place for vacation, or a short stay; they can also disappear back to their room with a guy and be back with their friends an hour later. 2. Logistics-their room, your room, either way, there’s other people with access, including their friends, casinos are pretty public, so it’s both convenient and safer than going to a random guy’s house. 3. Short term only-they’ll likely never …
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:18 AM
1

This is a good thing. Happens to me too. I take it as a compliment since men are way more likely to approach.
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:59 PM
2

If I’m on it too much they’ll stop showing my profile/showing me right swipes as much. Classic sales tactic to make you think, “what happened, am I know longer good enough?” and pray on that insecure rationale.
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:52 AM
123

Clubs in casinos like Vegas and Atlantic City, where your hotel room is attached to the same building, are notorious for ONS. Most of the women are extremely open to them since the whole scenario is much safer.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:11 PM
4

Average white struggling for the same reasons…they’re average.
/r/seduction29/01/22 03:22 PM
11

Black dudes are always pulling where I’m from. Most of them are hyper-masculine, have bravado and confidence, and are athletically built. All the same things women prefer in short-term, ONS partners of any race.
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:33 PM
19

Showing emotions=weakness. Especially when showing them to your romantic interest. I’d say it entirely depends on context and the intention behind why you’re being vulnerable. I think the key is showing them too early. Every time I have with a woman who already liked me it worked out fine.
/r/seduction28/01/22 05:33 PM
2

The real answer: nothing. Your sense of humor, cleverness, wit, etc. is developed throughout your whole life. Watching some shows isn’t going improve how you react to totally different situations in the moment. If anything, reading a variety of books will help more than a comedian’s heavily revised performance. The best thing you can do is speak with no filter and be yourself. Sometimes you’ll be witty, other times you’ll look like a dolt. Most people don’t do this because of the risk of embarra…
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:01 PM
2

You do not need to be 10-12% BF, more like 15-16, which will get most men lean with slight definition, but no real visible 6 pack. Believe me, that 5-6% will make a huge difference in the freedom you’ll have.
/r/seduction21/01/22 12:10 PM
4

“You’re hot for a fat chick” is a common example
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:49 PM
2

Being sexual is foreign to you, and was to most men raised to be ashamed of their sexual desires, told to prize women and put them on a pedestal. Modern media, societal norms, too much video games/porn/etc. has led to this. I started where you are, learned about game, ditched some of what I learned, yet honed in on other parts. What I’ve found works best for me is teasing a woman. Challenging her by saying things like, “I’m not sure you could pull that off,” based on a story/comment/etc. You’ll …
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:17 PM
2

Yeah, I’ve seen vids like that before, this one just really put things into perspective for me. If anything, I’m more keen to delete my OLD crutch and start approaching.
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:05 PM
7

Oh yeah, there’s no denying the adage “women are the gatekeepers to sex; men are the gatekeepers to relationships.”
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:22 PM
2

Online dating
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:21 PM
9

Truth. My mom is great and I love her to death but living with her my whole life (30 now, about to move out) has been a double-edged sword. She’s a very safe and practical widow and being in that type of environment has led me to be the same way (only reason I saved enough to move out). But the downside is that it coddled me against taking risks and learning how to manage consequences, both good and bad. I became scared of making sacrifices and failing along the way. This safeguard mentality has…
/r/seduction16/01/22 01:14 PM
2

I’ve found that dry humor/sarcasm just does not go over well on OLD and is much better saved for the in person date. I’ve had so many conversations die trying use my natural sense of humor online.
/r/seduction15/01/22 10:59 PM
21

Also, when you boil it down, we’re just animals seeking mates. Most people who have their eyes opened to “game” are shocked to learn how primitive attraction still is between the sexes. Women still prefer strong dominant men because it signals safe children. Knowing you can likely literally beat out your competition, both mentally and physically, helps a lot. A lot of guys lift weights for this reason, and also see their confidence skyrocket. Your confidence reaps the reward of knowing you can s…
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:37 PM
4

Happens to me as well. It could be for whatever reason, though I still find myself curious as to the specific one. The way I see it now, unless I’m fucking her brains out, making her cum, none of the other emotional connection, touching, attraction signals, chemistry, compatibility, etc. matters. The sex is what seals the deal, and women have all the power in choosing who they sleep with, so it could be for a number of reason that they don’t.
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:22 PM
7

A man can cry whenever he wants. You don’t need to cry in front of others; most people don’t.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:41 AM
6

Nashville, Charleston. Both locations attract bridal parties like you wouldn’t believe. Multiple groups of 10+ chicks partying hard and advertising it. Avoid the top cities. NYC and LA are high-maintenance and expensive af.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:08 AM
2

One of those instances where “game” knowledge does more harm than good.
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:42 AM
15

That’s exactly how I’d expect them to be ranked.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:56 PM
1

My last 3 dates bailed with COVID related excuses. Going through it too.
/r/seduction04/01/22 07:20 PM
1

This is what’s worked for me with hard left women. People saying you need to “out masculine” and dominate her frame even more are just regurgitating that from a dating coach. I simply talked to and related to them. They could sense I was a progressive, open-minded thinker who didn’t feed out of her palm and had enough sexual energy to dominate her in the bedroom, which is the only place they want to fall back into traditional roles.
/r/seduction04/01/22 02:26 PM
5

You regained your virginity /s
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:41 AM
34

Lmao nah dude, don’t over-exaggerate what was a healthy, regenerative experience of mind and body…lasted 45 seconds.
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:12 AM
30

I experienced this as well. I was so horny it didn’t matter if I was in my head, my body responded according to what was in front of me. I never walked around with hard-ons but any touch from a woman set me off.
/r/seduction02/01/22 07:50 PM
205

You’re nervous because it’s a ONS and you barely know the woman. Therefore, you see it all as a performance—how could you not? The woman is linking up for sex and if you don’t get erect they will bail, and internally, you may feel rejected or like a failure. There are many mindful methods for changing this self-fulfilling prophecy you’ve found yourself in. YouTube has some good resources, Mark Manson talks about it; here on Reddit it’s been asked a thousand times, so know you’re not the only one…
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:58 PM
9

I don’t do it on purpose, per se, but I’ve been in places where the woman was giving me strong signals and the guy talking/dancing with her was latching on for dear life without realizing he had no shot.
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:01 AM
46

Nothing you can do about it in my experience. I’ve done it to other guys and had it done to me too. It’s just how the club environment is.
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:09 PM
2

Big, natural, lean. Pick 2, you can’t have all 3.
/r/seduction01/01/22 06:04 PM
1

Hostels
/r/seduction01/01/22 12:43 AM
43

Bro use a paragraph, ain’t no one reading that block of text.
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:05 PM
1

Maybe it was just me, but I found not being able to flirt/communicate with someone a turn off.
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:09 PM
5

If you get nervous in the moment, instead of feeling insecure about it, which will probably lead to performance issues, just own up to your inexperience, be honest, and be willing to reciprocate.
/r/seduction31/12/21 01:34 PM
12

The real key is speaking fluent Spanish. I went through all these countries as well as a tall goodlooking white guy and ended up mainly bedding Europeans not locals.
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:36 AM
5

Every time I’ve been open about my performance anxiety the relief in pressure allowed me to get hard soon after.
/r/seduction30/12/21 10:19 PM
6

Reach out and be honest. What’s the worst that can happen?
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:52 PM
1

Go out by yourself. People will be drunk and open to welcoming a random for their NYE celebrations.
/r/seduction29/12/21 10:19 PM
2

Been through this too. It’s hard to accept that what women are actually attracted to can be feigned through what feels like theatrics.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:17 PM
1

Check this https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/rj0wjf/a_dating_guide_for_the_introverted_analytical_man/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Seems like it’s describing what you’re feeling.
/r/seduction28/12/21 06:40 PM
78

You should post this in r/short. That sub be struggling with their security.
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:23 AM
10

I match with some straight hotties on OLD…but rarely get a date. The problem is you’re getting 20-30 matches a day but any woman who’s a 7+ is getting 200-300. Imagine being in their shoes: unless the guy is pushing her turns on buttons with every message she simply has too many options, and might just forget I actually did better on apps before I took better pics/bio and went out with slightly above average women.
/r/seduction26/12/21 03:24 PM
7

If you have resentment over this, you’re probably not the type of guy women would approach anyway
/r/seduction25/12/21 10:45 PM
5

Ah yes, that giggle he wrote about must have revealed everything to yiu
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:03 PM
1

Sarcasm/dry humor rarely works on OLD in my experience.
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:45 AM
2

I have the voice of teenager whose puberty was cut short 1 month in and no woman has ever complained. That being said, a deep husky voice is obviously preferred in most contexts.
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:05 PM
4

Stop jumping to conclusions. My tone of frustration is out of love for my brother and wanting the best for him. You really think Im taking pleasure in the misfortune of my only brother? Get a grip. This teeny internet story was to show OP that life isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:02 PM
14

Nah, y’all are trying way too hard to psychoanalyze my relationship with my brother, that’s 28 years long, over 4 paragraphs I wrote. I love my brother but I’m frustrated in the choices he’s made in life. I’ve been with over 40 women and can remember 8-10 of them—I’m simply sharing a story with OP. Take your moral grandstanding to someone in real life, not a rando like me who you know nothing about.
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:59 PM
18

OP needed to hear it laid out this way without sugarcoating my brother’s experience for what it is.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:45 AM
119

He has a lot of trauma, shame, and self-loathing that prevents us from having a close relationship. It’s sad, really, how he’s had the sex life some men dream of, but it hasn’t come from the right place internally.
/r/seduction23/12/21 03:02 AM
443

My little brother was the same way. Gaming girls like crazy since he was 15, and sometimes I’d be out with him on family vacations and women, even older ones, could sense his swagger. They’d check him out and he always got attention. I was jealous and had no idea why. He was smaller than me, and not much better looking, I thought, if at all. Years later, I learned about all this shit, and have had my own success to the point I’m satisfied. My brother? His number is triple digits. You know what h…
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:07 AM
1

Yeah…after you’re already fucking her. Doing it beforehand will not gain you any favors. You don’t need to say any of that shit. Let your actions lead her to the bedroom.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:20 PM
22

People are getting so butthurt when you’re doing exactly what all attractive men who sleep around do.
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:42 PM
1

Good for you
/r/seduction19/12/21 10:18 PM
1

Go to therapy
/r/seduction19/12/21 09:58 PM
3

I’ve had my most success going out on dates with 10 total messages or less…but usually I try and build some rapport first to filter chicks out and have been getting flaked on.
/r/seduction19/12/21 09:10 PM
2

Then what do you do?
/r/seduction19/12/21 08:36 PM
9

This is a great post and summarizes a lot of the “intellectual introverts” struggles in modern day dating. I myself am a bookworm/writer/teacher/skater that fits in better at the library than a random nightclub. That being said some self-improvement and acceptance has led me to confidently go out as an introvert and participate in our current dating scene. While I’ll never fall for a girl a meet at a bar, I do enjoy socializing, gaming, being sexual in these environments, and am pretty successfu…
/r/seduction18/12/21 10:20 PM
21

I’ve read/heard the opposite about British women from their native countrymen.
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:43 PM
1

Been there man. As soon as they start showing hard feelings I kick my feet up.
/r/seduction17/12/21 07:03 PM
2

Ah, okay, so changed for her. I was just wondering cause I’m guilty myself of letting my purpose fall to the wayside when I get comfortable with a woman.
/r/seduction17/12/21 06:17 PM
7

She’s keeping you around for attention/validation. Probably finds you attractive but not enough to leave her bf. Not worth the time.
/r/seduction17/12/21 06:15 PM
10

She wants to make you an orbiter/plan b.
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:33 PM
8

Californication. Everything else mentioned pales in comparison.
/r/seduction17/12/21 12:25 PM
2

What do you mean got comfortable? Like, you stopped taking her on dates, stopped working out, lost ambition, etc? Or do you mean emotionally?
/r/seduction17/12/21 12:24 PM
-1

Nobody I know that’s good with women is overly active on IG for any reason, business or personal.
/r/seduction17/12/21 01:31 AM
1

One of the biggest turn offs and a sign she’ll probably suck on bed.
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:23 PM
2

Username STILL checks out
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:04 PM
2

Been with 30+ women and never been called sexy once
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:00 PM
4

Most of the women who have called me cute have ended up in my bed.
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:38 PM
-2

That’s the thing though. Any proven or canned lines go directly against OPs advice to freely express yourself and be authentic.
/r/seduction16/12/21 08:08 PM
-2

That’s why he clarified at the end that if you’re being true to who you are, living your life, and expressing yourself freely, push/pull will come into play naturally.
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:52 PM
2

The right amount/timing depends on the woman. If you’re pushing/pulling and she’s not very responsive or seems downtrodden, you could scale back. But if you’re being yourself, it’s more a sign of incompatibility imo. Conversation Example: girl mentions liking musicals You: ugh, I hate musicals. They’re so over the top yet boring. I guess you’re into Disney movies too. Her: explains how Disney feigns diversity rather than truly embraces it (or whatever) You: that’s a smart take. Intelligent and c…
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:42 PM
11

I teach college freshmen and know the effect I have on young woman. Even though they’re 19, I’m not immune to how attractive some of them are. That being said, I would never risk my job for sex that is likely to be disappointing anyway. But if they had already passed my class and weren’t tied to me through the university anymore, then I would consider it.
/r/seduction16/12/21 06:09 PM
1

They said they keep specific details private for anonymity
/r/seduction11/12/21 08:08 PM
1

I tried and they said that I did indeed violate their TOS. I don’t see how someone reported me when I wasn’t even on it.
/r/seduction11/12/21 07:55 PM
1

Yikes, that doesn’t seem worth it. I’ll take this as a sign to finally get into day game.
/r/seduction11/12/21 07:55 PM
7

Also the eponymous No More Mr. Nice Guy
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:47 PM
2

Yeah, a lot of people get to this point, but it’s better to have success and realize it’s “empty” than always wonder if you could have approached and dated more when you’re older. Alternatively, you can sleep with women that you only like. This way the whole experience is enjoyable.
/r/seduction25/10/21 12:14 AM
13

I like you Jacob
/r/seduction22/10/21 09:40 PM
36

Female friends are definitely helpful. Use your college’s social settings to get friends before worrying about slaying women. That means clubs, events, sports, etc. But first thing is to hit the gym. Fat guys that get laid are usually extroverted and have charisma. Their attractiveness comes from their personality, but even then, a lot of college-aged women will see them as the fat funny friend, and not a romantic partner. Getting in shape will make you look and feel better. Do it for yourself w…
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:44 PM
8

Because status is interwoven into attractiveness. It’s usually intangible until you see it happening in front of you. It’s undeniable that a majority (not all) of women are attracted to status. The degree varies so much, as OP explained, that the status in the average person is basically imperceptible.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:55 PM
1

I am in your shoes OP and my reasoning is exactly how JacobMooberg put it. I simply put hot women on a pedestal still.
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:38 PM
7

I never heard a single guy complain about his height until shallow bitches started listing requirements on Tinder.
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:11 PM
1

If you’re not kissing on the first date don’t expect a second
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:01 PM
33

Lol same. Used to have an aversion to condoms when younger, now I never go unwrapped unless it’s worth a trustworthy partner. I got lucky but I know people who haven’t.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:04 PM
3

A doctor
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:03 PM
1

Don’t bother during the semester. Approach her casually after your done in her class.
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:39 AM
1

A week or two ago, someone asked for a profile review of their Tinder over on r/tinder. His profile was already well-tailored and got 1000’s of upvotes and a ton of awards and people preaching the fun, charismatic, openly inviting depth to his pics. He was in a lot of different places doing different things. And you could barely see his face. And from what I could see, guy was like a 6. He had in sunglasses in half his pics and not one straight on face shot. But women were commending him left an…
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:53 PM
8

Used to have the same problem. My sarcasm/corny goofiness didn’t translate over text. I started just getting to the point faster. Most dates I’ve been one through OLD have come from a total of 15 messages or less. Depending on the initial attraction/context/topic, I simply always lead towards asking “we should grab a drink then.” I’ve never been flaked on yet and most of the dates have gone well. It’s low-pressure for women and if your personality shines in person, they’ll be happy they came.
/r/seduction23/09/21 06:07 PM
5

That’s Vegas for you. Either way, gotta have the frame to lead it home.
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:54 AM
5

How is her fucking another dude not on your list of possibilities?
/r/seduction14/09/21 12:10 AM
3

Ah, someone was triggered.
/r/seduction10/09/21 12:44 PM
1

Give up for now. Try again a few months down the line if something particularly viable pops up, like her visiting your favorite venue, or posting about one of your hobbies.
/r/seduction09/09/21 01:08 PM
6

Date 21+. If you find the occasional 18-20 on OLD with their filter set past mid-30s, there’s your young chick.
/r/seduction09/09/21 11:49 AM
1

The real question is what kind of space? I’ve brought many women back to my parent’s place but we had a finished basement with it’s own entrance and a pull-out bed down there. They knew but didn’t pry too much.
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:24 PM
36

Yeah, this whole post had nothing to do with social circle. OP doesn’t have interesting hobbies/lifestyle and it’s showing.
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:10 PM
2

I don’t really watch the guy anymore, but Corey Wayne was a dating coach who focused on relationships/marriages some.
/r/seduction07/09/21 01:01 PM
4

That’s newb gains for you (strength is impressive). 99% of the time, if you see a guy you think is “too big,” he’s on gear.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:29 AM
18

Ah, to be this naive again when it comes to building muscle mass.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:18 AM
4

Yeah, he’s pretty red-pill though. A lot of RP-ers been hurt by a woman and never healed.
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:06 AM
4

At least you’re aware of your behaviors haha. I actually did some searching and found it was Corey Wayne who recommended this. As with any dating coach, take every piece of advice with a grain of salt, but if you’re struggling, check out some of his YouTube vids. You can probably find your issue answered. If you like her, take her on fun dates (activities) and then smash. Make her pay her portion though.
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:45 PM
23

Initiate to hangout. You only want to keep communicating with her over text because you’re being needy, even though you’re succeeding otherwise. If you keep it light, have fun, have good sex, and she still hasn’t warmed up after 3 months, or communicated in some form she likes you more than a fling, she probably never will. 3 months is typically when people’s facade they put on, or their best selves, begins to fade. Can’t remember where I read this but I’ve found it a good threshold for judging …
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:41 PM
8

Yeah, I got dumped by the hottest girl I ever managed to pull because I was insecure and needy. This set me down the path of “game,” including everything from improving my appearance—gym, clothes, hair, skin, teeth—to inner game, becoming outcome independent and confident in the strengths of my personality, while aware and indifferent about my flaws. I went from being overshadowed by my friends and “handsome” to my relatives, to the known ladies man who people assume is well-aware of his attract…
/r/seduction31/08/21 08:05 PM
1

Blur or piccolo
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:21 PM
13

Wasn’t a virgin but had maybe 8 lays after I graduated college at 26. Most of them I fell into because of a program/class. Now I’m 30 and have around 40.
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:21 PM
2

Check out phone app drinking games
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:39 AM
2

There was literally a thread yesterday about a guy wondering why he was so unsuccessful around women when his buddies were killing it. Someone in the thread asked if he was short, and he said he was 6’2 while all his buddies were under 6’.
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:09 AM
3

You don’t want it changed. You just had a 300 comment thread where you disagreed with any claim against your own self-beliefs. You’re living in your head, not reality.
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:01 AM
12

Ah, back again to self-victimize and look for people to validate your depression and loathing. Please see a therapist.
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:48 PM
94

You’re obviously on this thread to justify feeling sorry for yourself. That will never help you in life.
/r/seduction28/08/21 10:05 PM
60

And you ignored mine. Go after women shorter than you. There are plenty.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:48 PM
84

I’m not going to pretend it’s not a factor for women. But you should also be able to find plenty of women under 5’7 as well.
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:44 PM
268

I know shorter guys that kill it. They are all very secure about their height.
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:27 PM
2

There are incel threads for you
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:04 PM
5

Gotcha. Seems like you have the logistics settled to the point where if she agrees to come back to your place, what’s unspoken is also the agreement that something sexual may happen. Your experience has pretty much been my own as far as resistance, navigation, and letting go of any expectations. I don’t live alone so I often try and get women to invite me back to their places, but it’s hard to lead in that direction.
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:58 PM
5

Face will always be more important than height
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:23 PM
18

I have no problems getting dates or being semi-successful on them or flirting, but I typically find escalating pretty hard. I kiss-close 99% of the time but the F-closes I’ve had are pretty out of my hands it seems. Women that wanted to fuck me first date seemed to do so because of something that may be arbitrary to another woman (one said as soon as she found out I was a skater she was going to fuck me; another said watching me parallel park turned her on). Are you inviting them back to your pl…
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:51 PM
1

This is the truth, but not enough men on this sub are successful with women to realize it. If you’ve ever picked up a woman at a crowded bar, and she’s clearly interested in you, suddenly so is just about every other single woman. Your value skyrockets instantly. You’ve been socially, and even better, sexually validated. It’s annoying that this is the truth. But I wouldn’t say you have to actively encourage jealously or competition. Most women that like you will conjure it up regardless and assu…
/r/seduction14/08/21 12:57 AM
2

You’re only talking about men being jealous and said that woman “say” they’re turned off by men who frequently get advanced from women. Yeah, that’s bs. They see you as high value, just as OP described, and find you more desirable. Find themselves lucky and in a precarious place of dread and security and jumping to conclusions. The thing is, you don’t actively need to make her jealous. If you’re an attractive, charming, sociable person, she’ll do it all in her own head. Unless she’s secure. Some…
/r/seduction14/08/21 12:52 AM
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^ If you’re not blowing her back out she’s not going to be your FWB anyway, so might as well do that first.
/r/seduction09/08/21 07:58 PM
2

Bella Canvas and Next Level are cheap, well-fitting t-shirts you can buy in bulk and many colors online.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:27 PM
1

Truth. If you want a healthy LTR, most of the pickup advice goes out of the window.
/r/seduction22/07/21 09:25 PM
1

Every woman I’ve slept with (15-20) since I’ve started lifting has commented on my physique in one way or another, some mentioning it more than something like my smile (which was ironic since I had dental improvements done too). Physique was never the sole reason I got laid, but women have found it to be quite the bonus. Only took about 2 years. That being said, face and personality will always outclass physique.
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:14 AM
4

On my last date, I talked about this with a blunt woman. She confirmed the same sentiment: if he was tall and goodlooking, he could get away with a lot more touch (and way earlier during a conversation, even as a way to start it) than shorter, less attractive men, for who touch would cause immediate rejection. I’d say you’d need to attract her first by making her laugh, flirt, etc. before any touch that can be construed as sexual. I just about never touch a girl on a date (always “get drinks” fo…
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:09 PM
1

Ah, that’s rough. Tbh I find myself in your situation a lot. I have no problem attracting women, just the ones I really want. I’ve been reflective about it and the conclusion I’ve come to is that when I like a girl or find her really attractive, I often give off that “boyfriend” vibe more than I would a woman I just see as a casual fling. The women who want to date me long-term are chasing me; it’s not like I’m artificially creating the chase, I’m just not as interested, and they can sense that.…
/r/seduction26/06/21 02:33 AM
1

If you aren’t fucking after five dates then that’s your answer right there
/r/seduction26/06/21 01:08 AM
7

True, but very unlikely to happen with someone you’ve only known a week from online messaging and already denied you sexually
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:41 AM
16

Lol the girl doesn’t actually want to be friends she’s just letting him down easy
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:37 AM
27

A polite grin or smile, relaxed facial muscles, and actually listening to what she’s saying. Seriously, you can eye-contact a girl into feeling sexual tension and lust without verbally flirting.
/r/seduction21/06/21 10:47 PM
2

Well written and inspirational man! Thank you for the words. Helped open my eyes just a little more.
/r/seduction18/05/21 02:20 AM
3

Truth brother. I spent my early-mid twenties trying to satisfy my ego with women and learning “game” tactics made me feel like I finally had some power and agency in dating. Now as I’m close to 30 and looking for something more meaningful, I’m floundering terribly in the dating game, as these tactics have left me, as you’ve described, cynical and manipulative. I often confirm my biases against women using “game” related language, saying things like, “oh, I shouldn’t have texted her twice,” or , …
/r/seduction18/05/21 12:31 AM
1

You answered your own question: snapchat=/=texting. Texting are words with no inflection, tone, or nuance to them. Snapchat is face to face, real time snippets that can include everything text is missing.
/r/seduction25/02/21 11:30 PM
2

Impress? Asking a bunch of boring questions straight up kills attraction and is boring for me as well.
/r/seduction28/10/20 01:55 PM
3

You can still ask basic questions. But I’ve straight up seen the attraction fade from a woman’s eyes as I asked them one after another. You gotta mix it up to make it fun.
/r/seduction28/10/20 11:30 AM
2

You’re placing value on something that doesn’t matter at all. Mine is close to 40, but I don’t even know the exact number because I stopped counting once I hit 20. I can’t even remember half of the women. You’re using body count as a way to give yourself validation and self-respect. The sooner you let that go, the easier time you’ll have with women.
/r/seduction28/10/20 02:05 AM
1

Nah, you’re just salty because you want some guide to pussy handed to you on a plate, obvious by your whiny list of requests. All I said was the short-term tactics work, gave an example, and said they’re lame.
/r/seduction19/03/20 04:54 PM
1

Pretty spot on with your intuition. Sleeping with more women won’t fix any of it. I’m 28 and been with around 30, still dealing with the same deeply embedded insecurities and wavering confidence.
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:33 PM
1

Yeah, I agree. After reading it my first time, I had moved on to more PUA centered advice and found that it works for the short-term, just makes me feel uninterested in the woman knowing that tactics won her over instead of my true self. It constantly feels like I’m performing, just like he says.
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:31 PM
1

You’re obviously way too invested if you consider yourself intermediate and care that much about results. One of his first points is that the man more invested in himself than women will be seen as attractive. You’re clearly over-invested considering that list.
/r/seduction18/03/20 05:03 PM
1

Good points
/r/seduction18/03/20 05:00 PM
1

Agreed. I really think anyone looking for a step-by-step guide to picking up women overnight or something is delusion. Every time I used a tactic I feel like a douche sacrificing my integrity. The other night an attractive woman I was talking to beckoned me to the dance floor with her. I pulled back and said “maybe later.” She was disappointed but was trying not to follow her around or chase her. I eventually made my way out there a half hour later, praying she wasn’t with anyone else, and we lo…
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:58 PM
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I do, too, but I’ve seen skepticism over the years in this thread so I was wondering if there was anything specific people disagreed with. I’ve used “game tactics” before—disqualifying, dominance, teasing, dhv, not chasing, acting busier than I am, etc—and it all feels like I’m performing, and a little fake. They’ve worked externally, but internally I don’t feel satisfied at all. He says that these attempts are still needy, and frankly, they feel like it.
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:37 PM
1

He explicitly states it doesn’t happen overnight so there really isn’t any “now”. It’s a process that takes time to cultivate internally. Disagreeing with all of his theories doesn’t make sense considering there’s so much crossover points that all from dating coaches recommend.
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:31 PM
1

I’ve run into this problem too. I’m no amateur and have had pretty good success with women, but I still often run into conversation blocks. Usually this will happen in streaks—I’ll be on fire 3 nights of going out and the next 3 all my attempts will fizzle out. I’ve found the best thing to do is stop asking questions and make assumptions. “You look like you had an emo phase in high school.” It might come off as judgmental, but most women know you’re being playful, and will see it as bold and ass…
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:01 PM
1

I’m in the same boat. Was telling a girl I just met how I have a surprise spot for our second date and she was excited. Now we can’t go and she asked if I have a backup plan, to which I said I do, but really I can’t think of anything. It’s not warm enough where I’m at to be outside and everything’s closed. I’m just going to invite her over and play some board games, or watch a movie. There’s really no other options at this point.
/r/seduction16/03/20 01:59 PM
1

He did, that’s the problem
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:58 AM
1

Good point and probably true. Thanks.
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:13 AM
2

Wow, awesome. Thank you so much for the detailed response. Pretty inspiring. Im pretty judgmental as well. I find I can’t turn it off but be self-aware and not let it affect my actions. I also deal with a lot of internal shame harbored from youth. I’ll have to get on that as well.
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:12 AM
2

Lol I’m doing more than sniffing. But you’re right—I need to focus more on improvement outside the context of women. It’s just easier to see short-term results with them. How did you do it: Meditation, better job, practice being outside your comfort zone, accepting flaws, etc? Just wondering at what point could you look back and realize, “I came a long way.”
/r/seduction07/03/20 12:38 AM
1

Haha attractive women can get away with a lot. The first one I met was a blond sorority type that was drunk and kind of annoying. I didn’t learn anything about who she was on the inside, but she was so pretty I couldn’t say no. The second one was actually pretty cool, but she was testy for sure, so sometimes if felt like a cock fight between me and other suitors. I was confident I’d “win” but it was still uncomfortable and annoying. Problem is, every time I’ve gone down the ladder and been with …
/r/seduction07/03/20 12:34 AM
2

I realized it’s not even the sex I’m thinking about, but all the validation. All my life I was just under these highly sought after girl’s radars and thought it’s what I should try to achieve—for the respect and attention. I’d always had those women on a pedestal and still do. I don’t want to think/notice all the social reactions and implications being with a very attractive woman brings, but it was right there in my face and unavoidable. I agree with you that someone you gel with is most import…
/r/seduction06/03/20 10:19 PM
1

I usually do one an hour. But what do you “what problem?” The problem is my mind is something in my mind is holding me back from getting aroused with these women.
/r/seduction06/03/20 10:12 PM
1

Damn, I gotta adopt that instantly.
/r/seduction06/03/20 10:11 PM
2

Oh, yeah, I’m much more into a woman whose personality I’m also attracted to. It’s also hard to really get to know someone at a bar on a busy night. I prefer actual dates above bar pickups. I think part of it might be a validation thing. Like, look at how many people think I’m cool—including my friends—because I’m with the extremely attractive woman. Basically I am focusing too much on them being 9s than their qualities. This bar is also always has a good ratio of really goodlooking women though…
/r/seduction06/03/20 01:48 AM
2

Ah, I can see how this might affect my perspective. These women have the looks every man desires for a LTR so I automatically assume I need to secure their interest and favor. Then I get nervous/uncomfortable and find myself in a scarcity mindset because I’m not used to getting women of that caliber. Of the few stunners I’ve been with, I’ve always considered them LTR potential even if they have values I would disqualify less attractive women for.
/r/seduction06/03/20 01:32 AM
1

Yeah, teasing them about small things is part of my natural flirting style. Like I said, I don’t have a problem initially talking to and flirting with hot women. But once it gets to the next stage I self-defeat and am too uncomfortable finally having the “hottest girl in the bar” to actually relax and get aroused with them and escalate further. I don’t know how to overcome this.
/r/seduction05/03/20 11:35 PM
12

Bro, you’re talking about a hug, a common greeting one step up from a handshake. You shouldn’t be overthinking it at all. Personally, I don’t hug girls I’m sexually interested in. I see it as a friendly gesture or one creepy guys do for physical validation.
/r/seduction29/02/20 05:03 PM
18

Really depends on her body language and receptivity. I’d probably never do this unless I was 100% sure the girl would be amenable to it.
/r/seduction28/02/20 02:08 AM
20

Aye, the leg/butt part was smooth.
/r/seduction27/02/20 10:39 PM
3

The anticipation is the worst part. I also experience it in other areas of my life and I’ve found that it’s mainly because I’m viewing the interaction as a performance in some way, which makes me nervous and increases anxiety.
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:44 PM
1

If only one girl a month is checking you out then that’s your first problem right there. OLD, nightgame, women at work, and the occasional daygame approach if the signals are there have me plenty satiated and don’t rely on spending 6 hours a day getting rejected.
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:13 PM
1

Sugar daddy
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:39 AM
5

Yeah, this is what I think about I too. I forgot to mention the distinction between daygame and cold approaching. Gaming the girl in the food court who’s been checking you out as you shop is different than purposely going to the mall to hit on as many women as possible.
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:36 AM
6

Lol gotcha. I still feel like daygame is pretty worthless for actual results. What woman wants to get stopped in the middle of her day by some guy obviously hitting on her unless she finds him really attractive? I feel like they’re less reciprocal than after loosening up from a few drinks during the night setting.
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:28 PM
13

This is why I’ll never get daygame. Why not join a co-ed activity, meetup, or class where meeting women with something you have in common would be much less forced? That way you have an immediate purpose that’s not gaming so many women in an inauspicious location and timeframe. Doing it for practice would be fine, but this is obviously a results based post.
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:01 PM
2

Nothing, just like the other guy said. You’re already too emotionally invested after just making out. I had the same situation recently: took a new girl out, had a great time, made out with her a lot, and double texted her later in the week. She made some excuse and I never saw her again. She saw the text. If she wants to reach out, she will. Start pulling back hard for your own mental health.
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:44 PM
2

Corny isn’t bad if you’re joking around in person because you can convey the sarcastic tone and confident body language/eye contact needed. If you were dating exclusively you could also get away with it. But you lose all of that over text with a new girl
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:32 PM
3

You should never text girls about their exes, even if teasing, because it won’t come across that way over text. Also, that’s just kind of corny. I doubt it has anything to do with a common phrase that uses ‘bitch.’
/r/seduction20/02/20 06:47 PM
3

Every time I’ve watched an infield I get second hand embarrassment, because just like you said, they break their own rules and lose all credibility.
/r/seduction15/02/20 04:42 PM
405

Other guy nailed it. The easiest way to be more flirty without sacrificing your natural personality and charisma is to tease women. You should match it to your personal sense of humor, not use canned lines and jokes. It doesn't even need to be sexual at first, but eventually it'll become second nature for you, and the best part is that both parties enjoy teasing. Women always respond well to it and if they don't, you have a pretty clear indication that they're not interested. PUA's will advocate…
/r/seduction15/02/20 03:29 AM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction10/02/20 03:16 PM
46

Cool report. Sounds like being non-needy helped just as much. It’s both humbling and alluring when multiple women are overtly showing interest in you at the same time. You get to experience the sexual power a hot woman has at any given moment.
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:15 PM
1

Ah, basically everything I feel comfortable doing in night game. Flirting during the day just feels different to me for some reason. Sexual tension and suggestion is what I was looking for, though, which I strayed from after my initial opening.
/r/seduction29/01/20 06:51 PM
2

Looking back, I’m realizing the conversation was a little stilted because it probably wasn’t a good match. She didn’t look as good up close, plastered in makeup, fake eyelashes, and a kind of prissy tone. We both made a joke that neither one initially laughed at.
/r/seduction29/01/20 03:14 PM
1

Yeah, I get that much, and I’d never bluntly state my intentions as I know it’s unlikely to be reciprocated until the girl gets to no me more, even though I’ve caught her checking me out a few times before. But, for example, she was watching this Netflix show called Sex Education which was the perfect opportunity to say something like, “oh, are you watching because you need sex education?” or something along those lines, and I basically didn’t have the gall to remain sexual in that context. Inst…
/r/seduction29/01/20 03:12 PM
2

I was aware of her checking me out as I also work there.
/r/seduction29/01/20 03:01 PM
0

What about performance anxiety? (Generally curious of your opinion.) I’ve dealt with it off and on for years—losing erections during sex, not being able to cum, or never getting them in the first place—and what has helped me the most is putting myself first in bed rather than trying to always please and satisfy the woman; so my experiences don’t line up with your presentation.
/r/seduction26/01/20 08:41 PM
4

Seriously. If this guy had read one book on women before running to reddit to cry, he would have come across advice steering him away from the neediness he displayed.
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:33 PM
1

Tips on text game? My game is fine in person, especially 1v1 dates, but I suck at texting.
/r/seduction24/01/20 09:16 PM
11

This guy is such a dweeb
/r/seduction23/01/20 10:17 PM
1

Bowling
/r/seduction16/01/20 01:19 PM
2

It is, but really it doesn’t matter as long as you understand the effect.
/r/seduction15/01/20 11:13 PM
2

I don’t know why you got so much flak in your response to me. I was generally interested on your take about LTRs, because I have seen the behavioral changes you mentioned work in my own dating life, for ONS and fwb dynamics, but I find I get bored of them quickly after the initial lust starts to wear off. I’m very wary of marriage due to the deadbedrooms and divorce rate. Everyone knows the US divorce rate is 50%, and I also read 25% of married couples aren’t happy and feel like they settled, so…
/r/seduction05/01/20 09:01 PM
4

Shit, my friend’s gf left her previous man for him like 2 months after his mom suddenly passed. As much as I don’t want to believe it, I know that emotional weakness plays a part. Sucks man. That being said, it also seems like immaturity on the woman’s part. I think the older people get, the more likely they are to support and empathize after having experienced some hardships of their own.
/r/seduction04/01/20 07:29 PM
13

Gotcha. Again, I’ve seen that same advice from Corey Wayne, and seeking friends and actual therapists instead of your partner about the self-doubt and insecurities, but as you age, most people’s friends aren’t as available as their girlfriend. Sounds like a load of bullshit though, that if your mom dies and you don’t get over it in a short span of time you also lose your girl. I know not all women are like that, but it really makes a woman’s love seem conditional, as red pillers put it. The best…
/r/seduction04/01/20 05:59 PM
52

Yea, this is solid, but it’s game 101, and similar to other posts here. I agree with most of it, and those lifestyle changes really dowork but...it’s exhausting. Even if you’re behaving in all those ways, your thoughts probably won’t be congruent all the time. It’s hard to keep the doubt from creeping up. Most of these posts don’t cover the long-term. I’ve found that they work well short-term but eventually life happens and you want some support from your partner, to open up and emotionally bond…
/r/seduction04/01/20 05:03 PM
1

Get contacts, grow out stubble, hit the gym, less of a my-mom-combs-it haircut, and make sure your clothes fit well. Physical appearance is the easy part of attraction, and yes, it definitely matters. You’re not a bad looking dude but there’s only so much people can do to change their appearance. Max out your natural looks and from there focus on cultivating and developing an attractive lifestyle you’re proud of, as well as flirting/escalation/core confidence.
/r/seduction01/01/20 11:04 PM
3

That whole diatribe aside, it’s simply unrealistic for a woman in her position to publicly date Seth Rogan’s character. That’s why it’s a movie.
/r/seduction01/01/20 06:28 PM
5

Good advice but the Longshot is a really shit example.
/r/seduction01/01/20 05:50 PM
5

Literally had a girl in her bed the other night and I stopped because she said she was tired, even though she reciprocated all my advances. The next day she said if I would have pushed more she would have went all the way. I never made her feel unsafe or coerced her; just talked for a little whenever we stopped, and tried again. No ones being rapey, fuck out of here with that shit.
/r/seduction30/12/19 02:39 PM
0

Go again. If she’s reciprocal and enjoying it, but stops you when you try and go further without saying much, she wants to have sex but doesn’t want to feel like a slut. Either you try again or do what the other guy said and wait til next time.
/r/seduction30/12/19 02:15 AM
0

You have to push a little more in situations like this. Most of the time the girl wants to but is ashamed at how slutty it’d be to give it up so soon, so it takes some light persistence. Obviously read her tone and body language. You can tell the difference between a playful “haha, stop,” and a firm “no.”
/r/seduction30/12/19 12:46 AM
113

And if you’re being authentic and true to yourself, it’s just a matter of incompatibility between you and the woman.
/r/seduction28/12/19 07:27 PM
1

Imo, if you’re a shorter dude in the club, where height and looks definitely have an advantage, you need to be a shameless dancer. If you’re killing it on the dance floor that’s what people will notice the most.
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:20 PM
10

Didn’t Mark Manson talk about this in Models? His friend went around saying “I’ll pee in your butt” and got rejected 15 times, but didn’t give af, because number 16 went home with him.
/r/seduction23/12/19 11:09 PM
2

Playfully call her out for creeping on you
/r/seduction23/12/19 02:02 AM
5

What kind of shit is this? I’ve never stayed over for a ONS and not had sex again almost immediately after waking up.
/r/seduction21/12/19 08:09 PM
6

Neediness. Best way to combat is stay busy and talk to other women. Hit the skate park, homie.
/r/seduction21/12/19 04:39 PM
1

Sure thing
/r/seduction19/12/19 06:15 PM
1

Yeah, it’s all a comfort/confidence thing really. Just try and meet new women you can “practice” on. Something that really helped me was solo traveling.
/r/seduction19/12/19 06:07 PM
2

You sound completely non-sexual around them. You need to learn to feel comfortable escalating the sexual tension in any situation. There are a number of ways to do it, but if you’re too headstrong, you’re going to fluster and they’ll see you as inauthentic. Start with some light teasing. It’s easy to challenge a girl and tease them on sexual subjects. Girl: I suck at math. You: Are you trying to get me to tutor you? There’s better ways to get me in a room alone. You do this from a place of havin…
/r/seduction19/12/19 05:55 PM
3

Rarely, at all. Maybe like once a month if I haven’t gotten any but I’ve been doing well this year. Not only is the frequency a problem, along with death grip, but I find it hard to abstain from porn, which desensitizes me to regular sexual encounters. One of the best things I did to increase my success with women was stopping porn/frequent masturbation. I’ve had trouble getting hard with new girls as well. It’s really all in your head. Quitting porn will help because you’ll be so horny you won’…
/r/seduction18/12/19 02:40 AM
5

Have had this work for me. That uninhibited laser assurance that there’s nothing the girl can do to not end up with me sexually. It sounds rapey writing it out, but it’s much more related to sexual energy, body language, and dominance. At any second I’d just as easily turn it off if I was rejected. Some people are reading into the predatory undertones too much. Women go nuts for what you’re talking about; they have sensors for your inner game. Much like you though, it comes in waves, because sel…
/r/seduction18/12/19 01:30 AM
1

I would never wear a blazer to a club. Sounds uncomfortable. I usually just wear a button down and dress shoes/sneakers.
/r/seduction16/12/19 02:24 AM
1

Yeah, exactly. It’s all in his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:32 AM
0

Oh, my god, not the short-term, ambiguous anecdotal evidence. That’ll do it every time. Get fucking real. It’s an inch of a half and all in his head because he’s deeply insecure about being of average height. Like I said, women WILL NEVER notice that difference in height. He’s still well under 6 foot. Tall men will still consider him short. He himself said they don’t notice when the shoes come off. The reverse applies as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:53 AM
2

I’m not discrediting the power of height in relation to smv or respectability, but going from 5’8, slight below average, to 5’9.5, average, had more of an impact on OP’s confidence than anyone’s perception of him. If he said he went from 5’8 to 6’1, then I’d believe it was the superficial addition of the lifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:50 PM
0

Lol this is such bs and all in your head. No one is treating you differently because you went from 5’8-5’9.5. Taller guys still tower over you and shorter women still just see you as average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:39 PM
1

Completely too strong. You kind of gave her an ultimatum as you realized she was slipping away because you emotionally invested yourself too early. Sounds like you fell for her halfway through the first date and began pursuing too hard. You never ask the girl out; she has to ask you. And definitely not before you’ve even kissed her. As per Corey Wayne, just hangout, have a good time, keep it light and unserious (no labels) all while having good sex.
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:04 AM
8

You say whatever comes to your mind first. If it’s not that witty off the bat, you trust yourself (and wit) to continue the response, using sarcasm and exaggeration or whatever fits best with your personality, to eventually make it stick. Them : “I just went to the amusement park” “Oh, I’ve never been there before... (this is where you pause and realize you don’t know what to say next)...but you look like a puker (kind of stupid, right?) Them: “Never.” “Oh, next you’re going to tell me you’re on…
/r/seduction03/12/19 02:08 AM
1

In my experience, if you’re Asian in the U.S., you must lift weights. It’s been documented that Asian men give off a feminine vibe to women, so having a muscular/masculine frame helps mitigate that perception. Almost all the Asian guys I’ve seen with hot girls are muscular/athletic looking, regardless of height, though that definitely helps.
/r/seduction03/12/19 01:53 AM
1

He never said he did
/r/seduction30/11/19 05:39 AM
6

Damn, bro, I thought I was the only one. I think it’s a self-esteem thing. Deep inside I don’t feel I deserve them.
/r/seduction25/11/19 05:24 PM
1

Ah, didn’t think of that side of the friend getting laid excuse.
/r/seduction23/11/19 08:33 PM
5

Yup, do this. I don’t don’t go out alone but sometimes I’ll find myself staying at one place while my friends already moved on to the next one. They’re not lost, but that’s what I tell people a version of. Alternatively, you can say your friend took a girl home and left you, which gets the ball rolling as a nice ice breaker.
/r/seduction23/11/19 08:02 PM
7

I don’t think this is solely because of T levels in the morning, but rather your comfort level. You have already broke ice with these women, survived the night, participated in a bonding activity by sleeping in a relatively close space, and woke up to with them as if they were part of your kin. I experienced this same thing when sleeping in hostels while traveling, with both males and females. People I knew for one day felt like good friends the next one because of the shared space and time toge…
/r/seduction21/11/19 11:44 PM
6

Watching Californication right now, on S3. Hank’s charisma is admirable, as he has the ability to laugh at himself and says whatever he wants, but it’s heavily scripted in his favor, and he’s also a rich writer that has a semi-famous social status the average person will never achieve.
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:12 AM
1

I’m all for the message—style is way more important than most guys think, but I think you could have streamlined and condensed most of this. What’s most important is how it fits, and, what you also said, physical appearance (attractiveness), which will always be based on your face more than anything. I have a friend that pretty much only wears no logo t-shirts and jeans, but they fit and match well. He gets laid often mainly due to being 6’2, bearded, and good looking. It sounds like you are a g…
/r/seduction09/11/19 07:09 PM
15

Bro, this post is way too long and preachy. If you show up to a date dressed like a clown, of course you’ll get treated like one. Just wear decent clothes that fit well and you’re good.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:32 PM
17

I keep it this way as well. Maybe a few snaps here and there.
/r/seduction07/11/19 03:03 PM
2

You’re overthinking it. She was willing to come back to your place on the first date, that’s already a good sign regardless of the sexual premise. Lead her there once again as if it’s a natural ending to the date that was previously agreed upon by both of you. If she’s not up for sex again, brush it off and onto the third date. Most women have internalized the three date rule in my experience, some without even realizing it.
/r/seduction26/10/19 01:44 PM
2

Yeah, I know what you mean. I’ve been that guy once or twice (mostly due to logistics, like the girl seeing me in a group of other attractive girls). My friends often get approached by girls under their own SMV, in the 6-7 range, so they are picky in that they know they can get those girls whenever they want, and shoot higher for their standards. Shit, I do okay for myself but I’m probably the only one who has shagged a under a 6 multiple times. I do believe those fuck anything alphas also have …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:23 PM
0

True
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:53 PM
0

All of my friends are 8+ and I consider myself 7-8 (can check my recent comment on PPD picture post request).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:53 PM
2

I don’t know any high SMV men that settle for a girl under a 6-7/10, even if it’s a casual, one time only encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:42 PM
1

Very solid advice, and sparked a realization in my own similar situation.
/r/seduction24/10/19 05:20 PM
9

Go to the party and have fun for yourself. Talk to her as if none of the prior events even happened, but don’t focus on her. You should also be talking to other women as well. Your priority is you, not her.
/r/seduction22/10/19 02:08 AM
2

Oh okay, yeah, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 07:53 PM
2

Aren’t you 18 though? I’ve seen tons of unequal looksmatch relationships fail once the girl peaks at 21 and can legally party.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 06:03 PM
2

Today or tomorrow is fine. If I hangout with a girl on the weekend, I always wait until Monday or Tuesday to arrange something further. It’s not a set waiting period, I’m just busy prioritizing other things on my weekends. Aim for Thursday-Saturday for the date. If you’re not up for drinking (I usually only have 1-3 drinks on a date), suggest a place close enough to yours so you can still lead her there after the initial meetup. Girls want you to show interest in them as individuals (that’s why …
/r/seduction21/10/19 05:14 PM
10

Suggest getting together another night for a drink or event. She’ll know what’s on the table for the end of the night. If she doesn’t want to, you were only a Saturday night hookup. If she does, fuck her good and she’ll stick around. You really don’t need to broach the subject of a label or boundaries until you’ve had sex a few more times. Girls only want to be fuckbuddies if you’re making them cum.
/r/seduction21/10/19 02:20 AM
3

Recent lurker mainly. 27, 6’1. pics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:31 PM
32

You absolutely do not need to suffer through a romance novel to learn seduction and most of the movies/shows always have the guy relentlessly chasing until the girl caves in.
/r/seduction27/09/19 04:19 PM
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Browsing PPD for the last few weeks has almost led me to post something similar. There are way too many men on here complaining and whining instead of living their lives. Most of my friends are top 20% (I’m on the cusp) but I have a few that struggle. Just last weekend one was complaining about getting ‘no pussy’ whenever we go out, yet he has money, plays video games all day, and won’t fix his jacked teeth (with self-proclaimed wealth).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:50 PM
1

r/hyperhidrosis
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:11 PM
3

It’s a layup if they already like you. Even an IOI doubles my level confidence going in for the approach. You don’t even need to assume attraction because it’s already apparent. Just proceed normally and get out of your overthinking, self-sabotaging thoughts.
/r/seduction17/09/19 04:24 PM
6

“It’s so much more basic than that...” Proceeds to write an essay on it.
/r/seduction17/09/19 03:36 PM
1

It could be her favorite movie, but you’re the leader of the interaction. Pause that shit, seduce her if she complains, hookup.
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:33 PM
2

It literally doesn’t matter which one, you should have success at any of them. I noticed that all the hostel workers had hot girls even though most of them were below average looking or out of shape from all the partying. The natives who worked there were pulling white girls left and right that wanted some brown D before going back home. Hostels are social and you working there puts you at the top of the social hierarchy. It’ll help if you run the front desk or bartend, but should be smooth sail…
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:29 PM
6

She’s going with you to hookup, not actually watch the movie. Put on anything and make your move at a certain point.
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:20 PM
2

Do you still hold the view from your last post now that you’ve dipped into that book?
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:12 AM
11

I once read a definition for the friendzone/orbiters that I believed summed it up perfectly: women are naturally more emotionally vulnerable with everyone, not just their female friends, and especially guys who they don’t see as romantic interests. The bluepilled orbiter, who thinks the woman is vulnerable because of his personality, which is all that matters to secure her, believes she DOES have romantic interest for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:31 PM
6

Guy here who mostly agrees. Idk why the onus is being put on women when it comes to avoiding relationships and marriage. By 25-30, almost every guy has heard tales of a relative (or their own parents), friend of a friend, or some relationship where the woman takes half of their resources through divorce. Combine that with even a limited understanding of hypergamy, the 50/50 rate of divorce, an additional 25% of married couples who are unhappy together, and the odds are severely stacked against m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 02:30 PM
5

That’s called common sense.
/r/seduction14/09/19 12:08 AM
2

That guy is a clown
/r/seduction13/09/19 09:14 PM
3

Key: you’d been friends for years. Would you still feel this way if it’s a guy you’d known for less than a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:40 PM
29

Nice, Samsung lineage line was great.
/r/seduction11/09/19 04:42 PM
5

Since she’s already down, all you have to do is lead her to the bedroom. Don’t mention it again, just ask her to hangout after work or whenever and assume it’s going to happen.
/r/seduction08/09/19 11:35 PM
1

Wow, man, that’s quite the revelation. Who would have thought getting laid would be harder than a makeout...
/r/seduction08/09/19 09:52 PM
1

“I’m trying my best and hardest,” but you hate women that speak the language you do? That sounds like some incel shit. Good luck.
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:32 PM
3

Hangout at hostels where other English speaking travelers are.
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:21 PM
-1

👌🏻
/r/seduction05/09/19 04:03 AM
1

Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction05/09/19 04:02 AM
1

That’d be the best option but I have no reason to visit any other university.
/r/seduction05/09/19 01:37 AM
2

I only teach freshmen, and don’t want to hookup with them anyway, so I don’t think that would be a problem. I plan to stay far away from any academic integrity incidents.
/r/seduction05/09/19 01:36 AM
3

The repercussions are moral, not legal. I would never date one of my own students, a student who could potentially take my class, or an ex-student, so it’s really just two consenting adults. The power differential bothers me as it feels like an abuse of status.
/r/seduction05/09/19 01:34 AM
2

I like eating pussy so I don’t hold it over her head as a reward, but I used to be so focused on the girl that I’d get performance anxiety, and it’s really caused me a lot of sexual defeats over the years. I found that the more I focused on my own pleasure, the less this happens. For me, I’ll eat them out for 3-5 min during foreplay (sometimes not at all if I’m not that in to them) as a way to tease and prepare them for sex, and at that point they’re practically begging for my cock anyway. I’m a…
/r/seduction04/09/19 11:13 PM
33

Who is going down on a girl for an hour though? Even after 20 minutes I’ll probably lose my hard-on and it’ll start to feel like a chore rather than foreplay.
/r/seduction04/09/19 09:34 PM
7

They’re not everything, but I agree and have seen it in practice. A guy who is a 8+ can be operating at 50% of his potential and will pull the girl over the 5/6 at 99%. I’ve done this to other guys and had it happen to me as well. That being said, in the same scenario, the 5/6 at 99% will probably pull if the 8+ has little to no game or is a complete douchebag. The real problem arises when the 5/6 internalizes this rejection as a reflection of their self-worth instead of chalking it up to the gi…
/r/seduction03/09/19 05:21 PM
1

Check edit in original post
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:31 PM
6

I almost put as a disclaimer: except anything with computers.
/r/seduction01/09/19 11:03 PM
12

Haha it’s crazy what’ll do it, right? One time I was telling my friend a story about how I’d got way too drunk on beer and sleepwalk-peed in the hallway closet. I noticed his female friend giving me that slow down-up look of appraisal and couldn’t believe that story was her, “yeah, I’d fuck him,” moment.
/r/seduction01/09/19 11:03 PM
7

Haha nah, her place.
/r/seduction01/09/19 08:24 PM
1

Yup, I’ve been there plenty of times, even to the point where Ive picked up a girl I could probably go all the way with on the first night if I jump through the logistical hoops and lead her, but don’t care enough to bother. My friends have also gone home with girls and didn’t close by their own volition. I often catch myself “off” when dancing solo. Some nights I don’t give a fuck who’s watching, other nights I’m pretty self-conscious. The one thing I remind myself is that we often focus on our…
/r/seduction01/09/19 05:35 PM
7

Yeah, once you scroll through all affectionate things there’s some decent nuggets like the car one.
/r/seduction01/09/19 05:11 PM
30

Lol, honestly, she looked worse in person than her pics, so that made me care less about the outcome of the date, which definitely helped.
/r/seduction01/09/19 04:23 PM
35

Makes sense. Another top-rated answer was seeing guys do something skilled that they’re passionate about.
/r/seduction01/09/19 02:53 PM
1

Wedding Crashers aside: a funeral.
/r/seduction01/09/19 02:12 PM
172

Button down shirt and rolled up sleeves is up there (I’ve asked women about this before and they all agree unanimously). Also, guys doing anything handy, like changing a tire or fixing a pipe under the sink, but I guess that one applies more to LTRs. I’ve seen the question multiple times, you should be able to find it by searching.
/r/seduction01/09/19 01:57 PM
120

Yeah, just one of those triggers I guess, like rolled up sleeves.
/r/seduction01/09/19 01:19 PM
1

Girls also defend their gay friends who do all of that silly nonsense to make them laugh—and they sure as hell aren’t fucking them, same as the first guy. The second guy is just a natural. When you grow up bigger and better looking than most, the world treats you differently—the halo effect—and in return, most people like that have a heightened sense of self-worth, ego, and security, not that they don’t deserve to feel this way. There’s also no denying that attractive people get treated differen…
/r/seduction31/08/19 07:50 PM
1

There are tons of studies of Dark Triad Traits (involving psychopathy, which this guy seems to display) being appealing to others, mostly women. The fact that he’s not good looking is the mitigating factor. If he was, girls would flock to his bed, especially college aged girls. Since he’s not, they sense they’re attracted to his personality, but not enough his looks to compensate for being an asshole.
/r/seduction31/08/19 05:35 PM
4

You said it yourself. It’s because he literally doesn’t give a fuck about other’s perception of him. We’ve all met people like this that seem like they can naturally flourish in any social setting, even the ones that you’d call “weird, but in a cool way.” That uninhibited brashness is something I believe everyone has inside of them, but many won’t ignite due to fear of rejection and giving offense. I also notice in all people like this that they’re kind of a dick.
/r/seduction31/08/19 02:26 AM
3

-Never falter your confidence. -Flirt and tease. Should be easy to use previous conversations and topics of interest to do this. -Break the physical touch barrier. -Don't focus on her the whole time. Go with the purpose of socializing and having fun for you above all. -Lead every interaction with her.
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:05 PM
4

Well, the obvious answer is to go out with friends instead of your sister, but due to your logistics, that might not be possible. Your sister is a terrible wingwoman if she's leaving you alone when the goal is to help you have a good time. If you really want to stand out immediately, dress sluttier. It's that simple. There was a girl at the bar the other night with her ass hanging out of her too-short romper. Everyone there knew she was trashy and had makeup caked on, but the sex appeal was unde…
/r/seduction29/08/19 04:55 PM
1

Those are ten general dating tips, not ways to break awkward silence.
/r/seduction26/08/19 11:33 PM
5

She’s not interested
/r/seduction26/08/19 09:57 PM
9

You’re overthinking. 40k students is a fuck ton and any reputation you gain while gaming girls (player, sleaze, fuckboi) will probably behoove you more than anything.
/r/seduction26/08/19 09:33 PM
2

Only you know the answer to that
/r/seduction22/08/19 11:42 AM
1

Eh, what if a guy you were attracted to said that to you (irl) in a sarcastic, playful tone? I didn’t realize I was suggestive of text only, as I’ve seen this work for me plenty of times in person.
/r/seduction20/08/19 01:21 PM
1

Ah, okay, I assumed these wouldn’t be read at texting tone, which they’re not meant for, but a playful sarcastic tone aloud. It’s funny because I’ve seen that same advice get tons of upvotes for the other people that gave it.
/r/seduction20/08/19 01:17 PM
3

Disqualifying. I find it very effective but it has to come about naturally in my experience. Other lines mentioned here are to tell a girl “okay, that’s strike 1” about something she said, and, “yeah, I don’t think you’re my type anyway.”
/r/seduction20/08/19 01:11 AM
1

I used to be like you and I had a girl that loved anal. After I stopped watching porn I realized the effect of anal kind of wore off and my interest in it waned for the most part. I still like it but it’s more a bonus than anything. It’s not hard to stop porn when you understand that all porn is fake and you’re living in a fantasy world instead of reality.
/r/seduction19/08/19 12:30 PM
8

Stop watching porn
/r/seduction18/08/19 10:38 PM
2

If you’re worried about “stats” then you’re going about it wrong, and you’ll end up like some of the subs on here that track their approaches and lays on excel spreadsheets instead of enjoying themselves and staying on actual goals.
/r/seduction14/08/19 06:27 PM
2

Yeah, I wait two-three days usually. I like Corey Wayne too but that’s the one thing I’ve found most people disagree with him on.
/r/seduction14/08/19 04:10 PM
2

Happens, man. She probably would have went with you all the way on the first date, based on your descriptions of her behavior, but obviously if she’s setting alarms for the next morning you’re going to be hesitant to push for her staying out. But that’s what she wants. You to push and lead and make her submit regardless of time constraints. It’s annoying and illogical but she’s playing hard to get without even realizing it because she’s just basing the night on her emotions. The more fun she had…
/r/seduction14/08/19 02:14 PM
1

I can relate and agree. My success has grown as I’ve learned to “turn on” being social and charismatic. I’m introverted as well and have no desire to be social all the time, as I find it tiresome and daunting. But being able to comfortably slip into a more social presence makes all the difference.
/r/seduction14/08/19 01:41 PM
5

So you talked to almost 100 girls and didn't go further with any of them? Getting out there is great and hooking up might have not been your end goal, but if you're playing the numbers game that much, I bet there were some (especially drunk or rolling) who wanted more than a quick conversation.
/r/seduction07/08/19 03:11 AM
1

Great content, but seems incongruent with some of the advice on your channel.
/r/seduction04/08/19 10:39 PM
1

It's not overrated nor is a trip the equlivalent to therapy. Just the other day my friends and myself admitted to one another that we'd all been to therapy at some point in out lives and how much it helped. It's still stimatized for men, but I especially think it's great after a breakup. Finding the right therapist isn't easy though. You might have to go through a few, but once you do click with someone, you'll at least enjoy and appreciate an enviroment to vent.
/r/seduction04/08/19 09:35 PM
46

What was your passion that you turned into a career?
/r/seduction31/07/19 09:49 PM
1

Where are you posting on reddit to meet women? I’ve actually had this happen on some subs, which led to texting and nudes, but nothing in person. Are you meeting up with these girls?
/r/seduction31/07/19 01:33 AM
1

Post on what platform, IG?
/r/seduction31/07/19 01:01 AM
2

Dom toretto in fast and furious, Don Draper in madmen, and billy butcher in that new popular show, the boys. All leaders with serious flaws.
/r/seduction30/07/19 11:49 PM
1

Yeah, I honestly couldn’t think of a good comparison with female singers. Maybe Meghan Trainor. I guess Adele would fit, but she also has a relatively attractive face. My point was just that women seem to idolize status more than men for the reasons in the article, that predate modern society, like status really equaling power.
/r/seduction29/07/19 12:00 PM
1

True, gotcha.
/r/seduction29/07/19 11:53 AM
1

Eh, I don’t know about the one on being selfish. Women seem to love when you show compassion and kindness for others. I’d insert “self-respect” over “selfish”.
/r/seduction28/07/19 06:45 PM
2

I still have the same problem, man. I can pull 6-8s no problem, but for the 9s and 10s, I also have trouble thinking I’m attractive or good enough, because my whole life I put them on a pedestal as well.
/r/seduction28/07/19 04:06 PM
2

Doesn’t sound like it’s related to your appearance. What I’m pulling from behind the lines of text is that you’re trying to impress these girls in some way so they see you as worthy, instead of you challenging them. You don’t mention any attempts at witty banter, leading dominantly, flirting, or physical touch. Honestly, it’s hard to not go into interview mode at least some of the time, just make sure you create some sexual tension through assumptions and branch off to flirting/teasing. Girls wa…
/r/seduction28/07/19 02:50 PM
11

This was well written and structured. Status affects a woman’s perception of a man more than the other way around. Celebrities are exemplary of this. Plenty of women would sleep with Ed Sheeran, but the same can not be said for men desiring Rebel Wilson.
/r/seduction28/07/19 11:26 AM
5

What’s with all the hate? So what if the girl is younger—if the guy is gaming a younger girl they’re obviously not looking for a girlfriend. The girl probably doesn’t see it as a potential relationship either. No one bats an eye when celebrities in their 30s bang young supermodels. As for the lack of connection, sure that’ll be there, but you go in expecting that, not trying to force one, same as any interaction. I think it’s hit or miss to bring up the age gap and depends entirely on the girl a…
/r/seduction27/07/19 03:42 AM
5

The main focus of your first date should be to have fun while remaining non-needy. Add in some flirting, escalation, logistics (place to get laid), and the girl might sleep with you on the first date. You could also do all of that perfectly and not get laid. Women really are the gatekeepers to sex and need to feel comfortable to have it. First thing you should do is make assumptions to create sexual tension. Making assumptions allows you to be bold, respond by teasing, and give the girl an emoti…
/r/seduction27/07/19 02:04 AM
8

Nice. I couldn’t help but picture Todd the whole time though.
/r/seduction24/07/19 12:15 PM
1

Women don't want to date down. Lower your standards or increase your value. Learn how to tailor essentials of game to your own natural personality, don't validate your ego with women, don't be needy, and stop whining about it.
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:25 PM
1

Yeah, I was debating on taking that part out. I’ve found that unless you’re really high value in the girl’s eyes—in which case she’ll chase you for the validation more than anything—then it’s hard to get someone to chase before sex, as they have so many options.
/r/seduction23/07/19 07:16 PM
24

Yes. Actions speak louder than words, especially texts. Next time, pull back completely and go no contact. If she contacts you, she’s still mildly interested, and then her chasing you kicks off. If she doesn’t, you move on. You should pretty much only use text to setup hangouts in person, not convey your feelings. That text comes off as childish and needy, regardless of how much she’d been playing you around. You say that stuff in person or not at all.
/r/seduction23/07/19 01:43 PM
8

She has a crush on you
/r/seduction23/07/19 04:48 AM
5

Lol r/whoosh I’ll just take these downvotes dutifully
/r/seduction23/07/19 01:00 AM
2

Don’t flirt over text until you’ve gone all the way with a girl
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:23 AM
2

Actually, check out r/seduction for a way more interactive and popular community on the same subjects.
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:18 AM
1

I have plenty of success on bumble
/r/seduction21/07/19 05:32 PM
2

3 strikes is a way to disqualify a girl. If she says something dumb, or something you disagree with, you playfully say “uh oh, that’s strike one, you only get 3”. She’ll probably ask what happens when she gets to 3 and you can tell her no girl has ever gotten to 3 before while staring deeply into her eyes. Not going to lie, that shit works well for me, but it started canned and I added the last part, which makes it more naturally attuned to my personality. The general idea is that you’re challen…
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:42 PM
1

Sounds like he’s interested if he asked you for coffee. I wouldn’t worry about mentioning it until the right opportunity presents itself. Just be fun and flirty and if he doesn’t catch on, bring it up at the end.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:29 PM
1

What kind of answers are you looking for here? The only one to give is “let him know how you feel”.
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:25 PM
7

Just from this paragraph I’m catching whiffs of neediness and desperation. I bet girls can tell in person.
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:16 PM
1

Sucker punched, instead of pushed aggressively.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:49 AM
2

You did everything perfectly except ask for her number. In the first encounter, people might think that following her was a bad sign, but sometimes if you don't stick around for a little, your shot is completely blown. Be careful though, bro. My one friend has been snuck 3 times in similar situations as the group one.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:23 AM
3

I had a feeling you were because of the 03 in your username. Honestly, there's not much you can do but bide your time. You don't need to be doing any "high value" or rotation game when you're in high school. It has a better chance to backfire than anything, and if you like the girl, you're better off not risking it. At 16, a lot of girls aren't comfortable enough with the idea of sex. You should be steadily moving down the bases until you get to sex. Could take awhile but sounds like she's worth…
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:08 AM
2

No problem man. I still deal with being in my head too, especially in front of really hot girls or bosses. Holding eye contact helps a lot as well as actively listening to what the other person is saying, and basing your responses off of that. I used to feel the need to chime in to "impress" and stand out, but there's a difference between being assertive and needing attention/validation. Making girls laugh is one thing, but being charming, flirty, and seductive is another. If girls are approachi…
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:05 AM
1

How old are you? Also, there's no easy way to do it. If you pry, you could come off as needy and controlling. You want her to feel safe and feminine enough to open up to you. On the other hand, everyone wants to be desried sexually by their partner. If she's a virgin you're playing in a whole different field. You definitely messed up by committing so early. I honestly would never agree to a relationship, or "go all in" before having sex.
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:58 AM
2

We don't know enough about your interactions with the girl. If she says she wants to take it slow and is exclusive with you, there's no reason to not believe her. Two and half months is pretty damn slow though.
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:45 AM
9

It's hard to say as you really don't seem to be doing anything wrong other than the Sanpchatting before the date. Even with that, if they're still going on the first date then it's not like you're turning them off by snapping. We might need a more detailed playthrough of a solid date where you were rejected afterwards. There's no point in asking why girls reject you, you'll never get the real reason, as most girls aren't out to hurt your feelings. They'll literally never admit that it's because …
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:38 AM
13

You simply care too much, which is why you over-analyze. If you didn't care, things would probably slip your mind. You need to stop taking yourself so seriously and focus on having fun with a woman. Doing fun things and making them laugh is in fact emotional. Add some flirting and charm and that's really all you need. It's almost impossible to do this when you're being too analytical, because that will impune your natural personality, which is where true humor/wit/charm is created, and isn't lea…
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:21 AM
1

Sidenote: you will fail at this if you need the woman's validation, especially when opening up on deeper levels.
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:01 AM
3

Don’t worry about simultaneously coming on your first time. Just fuck her good and if you come too fast go another round in an hour.
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:06 PM
30

First step: delete Instagram
/r/seduction04/07/19 08:05 PM
1

There’s no point overthinking it. The signs are there. Just go for it.
/r/seduction02/07/19 02:39 PM
3

Yes, dude, she likes you, how many signs do you need?
/r/seduction02/07/19 04:09 AM
5

You didn’t make a move when the time was right. Brush it off and forget about her.
/r/seduction02/07/19 12:06 AM
3

Sounds like you need to focus on some other issues first, and would benefit from cultivating your self-esteem and confidence (inner game) to the point where you are okay going out alone, which will help you make new friends. Think about solo traveling, too if you want to experience being thrusted into social independence. As for the dancing, I was literally the worst dancer at 21. I could manage in a packed college basement party, but my friends all made fun of me and called me “the bobblehead”.…
/r/seduction30/06/19 04:04 PM
7

27 Flirting at 17 is hard, but these techniques still apply and are important to recognize. When I was 17, the only guys I knew getting multiple girls either lied to them, were naturally very attractive, or had attained status through sports—high school qb always got girls regardless of looks. You’re better off learning and practicing for college.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:45 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:02 PM
3

I am lol But used to walk around this same place with my tail between my legs never getting any
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:02 PM
1

You have to go no contact and let her reach out first.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:00 AM
228

Without going into specific game techniques, I think the easiest way to flirt is to ask open ended questions/make assumptions, actively listen, and use the information/topics girls give you to either tease them or make them laugh. This keeps you a mystery, let's girls talk about themselves, shows non-neediness (not trying to impress them), and actually listening to them as individuals (comfort). Recent example that also shows other qualifiers: A girl I was talking to at a bar said something abou…
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:56 AM
3

On the edge?
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:35 PM
1

It happens way more than you’d think.
/r/seduction29/06/19 01:19 AM
10

The word “alpha” is really just an umbrella label for the qualities you listed. Shy, nerdy people would still do well to adapt them because it will make you a stronger person regardless of women. There’s also a difference between ONS and relationships. I rarely see the shy, nerdy types pull at bars and bed the girl in the same night.
/r/seduction26/06/19 06:09 PM
1

You’re delusional if you think anyone wants to go near her
/r/seduction23/06/19 09:43 PM
1

Fuck the small talk, go for it. You can include the opener as you logistically lead.
/r/seduction23/06/19 04:09 PM
5

Sounds like you friend zone yourself. Search this sub and other resources on being more sexual, escalation, and dominance. Girls at the club aren’t there to have deep conversations. They want to dance and hookup with guys who are ruling the room using their looks, body language, and overall sexual presence.
/r/seduction23/06/19 04:07 PM
2

Wut
/r/seduction23/06/19 02:48 PM
1

Dan Bacon and Corey Wayne
/r/seduction22/06/19 08:49 PM
1

YouTube
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:15 AM
3

Haha, I was going to cross over the same post to this sub after I read it! I think there actually are some nuggets of wisdom which correlate with the seduction theory here: Attention-almost all the women said the guy was attentive to them, listened, asking questions, kept the conversation flowing smoothly. Sexual attention-They also said that it didn't seem like the guy was only interested in seducing them to use as a warm hole for the night, but actually wanted to get to know them. They didn't …
/r/seduction21/06/19 05:20 PM
1

Pretty easy to read and understand
/r/seduction21/06/19 01:48 AM
1

Two things: For girls, remember that you are the prize. You challenge them, disqualify them, screen them out. Every girl is already doing that, so beat them at their own game. I really hate prepared lines but saying, "well, that's strike one," to a girl about something almost always lights a fire in their eyes because now they're trying to impress you. For groups, it sounds as though you're outcome dependent, that you're worried about fitting in, being the life of the party, having people think,…
/r/seduction19/06/19 11:20 PM
1

He’s a beginner, and taking the edge off by indulging in a few drinks at the party will help settle his nerves and bolster his courage. No one said rely on it.
/r/seduction16/06/19 01:31 AM
-1

Getting a buzz will help tremendously.
/r/seduction16/06/19 12:42 AM
3

Dude, she wants to fuck you. Why else would her friend, who you already dicked down, set her up for a 1 v 1 romantic weekend getaway with you? The sex with her 1 month boyfriend was probably terrible and somehow you got brought up. "Please hang out with her" translates to "I know and trust you as both a previous sexual partner and current friend". She probably thinks you're a decent guy/lay, which is better than her friend seeking a potentially dangerous and unsatisfying ONS from a club. If you …
/r/seduction16/06/19 12:36 AM
3

Yes, she likes you, even after you botched asking her out by simulating a text message irl, lol. "Seeing someone" does not mean boyfriend.
/r/seduction15/06/19 03:08 AM
1

Totally agree, man. I've seen results just like you, which is why I can't just discredit all his advice. Simply put, it works. And I feel better about myself being in my masculine, indifferent and not outcome obsessed, making myself and my life a priority. The only thing I think Corey glosses over is going from the aloof, cocky man who the girl is pursuing, to transitioning into a relationship. How do you give while still remaining the dominant one in a relationship? Or is the listening, communi…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/19 02:55 AM
9

Please see a therapist. You're taking insecurity to a dangerous level.
/r/seduction15/06/19 01:05 AM
1

Last line. Either she rejects you or doesn't. What do you have to lose, another girl from the same friend group?
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:39 AM
1

Purpose/mission is the most common and impossible to deny life quality I'm seeing popular PUA and dating coaches promote, and is the foundation for inner game, imo. I completely agree with your post. However, if finding your purpose and mission in life was easy, I believe many guys would opt in for that. If given the choice of women vs life's purpose, almost everyone will choose purpose. Deep down we know the numbers won't matter like an established legacy. It's difficult, even painstaking at ti…
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:38 AM
2

^
/r/seduction13/06/19 11:57 PM
1

If you’re a guy who’s a 5 in looks, there’s only so much you can do without money and status. Too many people on this sub act like looks don’t matter. I’ve never seen a guy who’s a 5 land a 9 or 10 by having confidence.
/r/seduction13/06/19 02:22 PM
8

Objectively better in what ways? Better looks, more money, assets, career, status. Most of the guys here won’t admit it, but I think there’s a cutoff for the type of girl you can get with confidence alone.
/r/seduction12/06/19 05:24 PM
1

Yeah, and it sounds like you’re ready for that.
/r/seduction11/06/19 01:30 PM
0

Yet, OP pm'ed me for advice. We're not talking about a 10-minute heavy make-out session, but a 5-10 second kiss. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being confident enough to make a move in front of other people, and not caring what they think, which is a core value of this sub. With the way people dance in a club, the dance floor is the most physically intimate place there. Of course kissing is going to happen--get over it.
/r/seduction11/06/19 01:47 AM
0

Yup, because you’re on a seduction forum thinking that making out with girls in place designed for it is trashy.
/r/seduction11/06/19 12:43 AM
-1

Cause I care what the wallflowers in the club think about me? Stop being a pussy.
/r/seduction10/06/19 11:21 PM
1

Only you can answer this, and considering the tone of your post, you already know the answer.
/r/seduction10/06/19 11:14 PM
-1

How many girls do you really think are going to give you herpes from a random kiss? That's very unlikely. I've made out with plenty of girls on the dance floor. You just have to gauge the sexual rapport and use eye contact. If she's wrapped in your arms and staring at your eyes/lips, she wants to kiss then and there.
/r/seduction10/06/19 11:10 PM
4

Yeah, that’s a guarantee, but the upvoted ones at the top speak oppositional to everything the average man would assume about cold approach. You will never in your life hear a woman complain about the attractive, confident man who cold approached her and made her laugh. They only complain when the guy is creepy.
/r/seduction09/06/19 06:12 PM
2

Haha right? Literally every answer is 'zero', proving that women will happily accept your cold approach as long as it's done the right way.
/r/seduction09/06/19 02:44 PM
5

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/bhvnog/how_many_guys_approach_you_per_day_on_average/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:52 AM
1

Lmao I remember this guy from before
/r/seduction08/06/19 11:51 PM
1

Light makeup. Most guys will admit they like the enhancement light eye makeup provides, but hate foundation. Talk about your interests. Understand that this guy is probably nervous too and would like for you to contribute conversation topics. I find that jeans/shorts and a cute top looks fine on a girl on the first date, as long as it fits well, like the other poster said. Anything fancier is out of context. Just have a good time. Joke. Laugh. Relate. If those things don’t happen somewhat natura…
/r/seduction08/06/19 11:45 PM
2

Yeah I can see that, was just making a joke
/r/seduction08/06/19 05:13 PM
7

You know this sub is primarily for straight men so what are you doing dropping these passive aggressive comments that add absolutely nothing to the discourse?
/r/seduction08/06/19 02:45 AM
6

username does not check out
/r/seduction08/06/19 02:40 AM
2

This reads like a woman's Tinder bio.
/r/seduction07/06/19 10:09 PM
1

You can only do so much
/r/seduction07/06/19 09:36 PM
1

This is it. You're inviting them to do something you already plan on doing, which will come off as non-needy, and pique their interest. I too struggle with having girls all over me in the bar/club and then no response a few days later.
/r/seduction04/06/19 01:52 AM
1

Nah, you got burned in the past and you're using it as an excuse. I'm 6", same girth and have never received a complaint. Why? I fuck their brains out.
/r/seduction04/06/19 01:47 AM
5

Buy him a copy of No More Mr. Nice Guy and ask him to read it and see if he finds himself represented in the examples. It'll be easier for him to reflect on his behavior while reading rather than hearing it from you, no matter how well-intended you come off.
/r/seduction04/06/19 01:32 AM
2

Looks fun
/r/seduction04/06/19 01:29 AM
1

I was you before--learning about game but not emotionally ready. Seeing a therapist for awhile definitely helped.
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:32 AM
4

Yeah, if you go out solo, you really need to be able to dance by yourself. It makes you stand out so much in comparison to other guys. I've almost always had a girl approach when I'm just doing my thing, dancing like with no cares. The only downside is I usually need a good buzz to not feel a little self-conscious.
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:29 AM
25

It sounds like he's still insecure to me as well. He learned an unnamed skill to woo other people and gain their validation, almost like the class clown, which has made him more confident. Instead of learning social skills, he replaced it with showmanship, then used his girlfriend to attract others.
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:22 AM
2

The problem is that the girls who like to take charge marry a pushover guy and then 5 years into the marriage lose sexual attraction to their husband. Read any r/deadbedroom post from a guy and 90% of the time he will have displayed the core qualities opposite to this post.
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:02 AM
3

Your comment should be pinned to the top as closing statements. It's really not bad advice, but the presentation and tone seems to have angered people. Add in that OP said he's only 19 and hasn't been rejected, you can tell there's a lot of eye rolling and jealousy in the comments. Most of this still works on older woman, but like you said, you'll need to tone it down, and re-acclimate for age. The core information can be broken down to caring more about yourself (why wouldn't you if you're not …
/r/seduction31/05/19 11:59 PM
2

Yeah, agreed, but that's an advanced form of increasing sexual tension similar to kissing her thighs while deliberately avoiding her pussy--in the end, you know you're going to get it, so prolonging the inevitable has the girl emotionally intoxicated. What he did definitely made her feel unwanted and probably blew his chance. To the back of the list he goes, oh well.
/r/seduction30/05/19 09:20 PM
47

Someone last night was wondering why no one posted vids like this and I told them it's because the content makers are trying to sell a vision of success and the linked product. Then you post exactly what he asked for, showing vulnerability and proving me wrong. Props to you.
/r/seduction30/05/19 09:16 PM
12

Yeah but I wanted him to re-explain it since denying a girl's sexual advances to play hard to get is the dumbest fucking thing ever.
/r/seduction30/05/19 02:35 AM
3

There is so much information about approaching here and on Youtube that you're better off searching for what's already available than waiting for replies.
/r/seduction30/05/19 01:20 AM
7

Those videos are meant to sell you a vision of yourself succeeding in those situations, so that you visit the channel, then buy whatever product is linked to it. You can sell using examples of failure, but most of the content makers of those videos aren't skilled enough to do that.
/r/seduction30/05/19 12:36 AM
11

Why the fuck did you turn the kiss down?
/r/seduction30/05/19 12:24 AM
2

Seeing a therapist would probably help
/r/seduction29/05/19 10:48 PM
2

No, I don't see you as qualified based on your experience of one high school relationship. Do you know how many girls I've seen in your position ditch their high school boyfriends once they turn 21 and start hitting the bars? You may be different than those girls and break that mold, but that means you're even less qualified to speak on what other women want. I don't care about your inherent experience as a woman--everyone on this sub knows you don't take advice about picking up women from other…
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:31 PM
1

Lol if the girl is physically attracted to me, teasing always works, even if we just met. It's not weird and is the backbone of flirting. I don't want to neg, and just found out that was a thing, which is why I posted this. You're 19 and have been with your boyfriend since you were 15, probably your only relationship, so I don't really see you as qualified.
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:18 AM
5

Ah, man, this is very well-put, and took me so long to learn myself. I always shouldered all the blame without realizing how much the girl was responsible, especially since I'm pretty upfront.
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:55 AM
1

Since it seems you're traveling, keep in mind that you're never going to see them again after the approach if it goes badly. This gives you immunity to embarrassment.
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:22 AM
1

Dude, what? That's not how it works unless you let her control you.
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:02 AM
1

I can attest to this. I always got nervous and intimidated (which made me lose my hard on half the time) because I wanted something more from these girls, even if it was just to continue hooking up as FWBs, or for them to validate my sexual prowess. Then I went traveling and met girls I knew I would never see again, who I owed nothing to. I was very direct and really didn't care what happened, which led to ONSs that I felt fine about. I was in a selfish mind state, there for my pleasure only, wh…
/r/seduction25/05/19 12:57 AM
2

Time and time again I've seen this one piece of advice promoted by dating coaches: the woman cannot be your purpose in life. If you're following your purpose, that's where your true inner game comes from, because you will always have that purpose even if you take the woman away. Also, the more adroit and masterful you become at succeeding in your purpose, the more confident you are as a person--being an expert at something does wonders for confidence, so I've heard. Went down your path as well, …
/r/seduction22/05/19 09:29 PM
2

The fact you remembered and recorded this much of the night, and beat yourself up about it, means you're way too focused on the outcome of it. -Drinking is not bad unless you overdo it. When I go out, I always have a few shots to loosen up and then pace myself so I don't go overboard. I never get super drunk and try to remain at a nice level of tipsy. Just learn to drink socially and responsibly. -If you have a problem with lying, that's something completely different that you need to absolutely…
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:48 PM
2

You're in your head way too much and it shows in your reflections of the night here. Also, there's not much for us to analyze, as you describe the logistics and your thoughts/feelings, not any detailed review of what you've said or your particular actions. People were super open, but you were the one who held back. That's good to know. Did you drink at all? This should have loosened you up. Next time take a shot or two before going and pace yourself thereon out. Also, there's no reason to get do…
/r/seduction19/05/19 05:03 PM
2

Same thing just happened to me. I was at a club/bar in Atlantic City on a nearby college's senior night. It was fucking packed and I was on, flirting like crazy, getting ioi's from at least 50% of the girls there. My wingman is also a stud and for the most part girls were coming up to us. But we both went back to our one bed hotel room by ourselves having kissed some girls--no closes. I just chalk it up to some girls wanting to go out, make out with dudes, and then return to their group of girlf…
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:08 PM
2

I do think it's better to go for it, as long as you create attraction without being creepy. I think a natural way to go into is to treat her like you already know her and to not be outcome dependent. Engage in the conversation without caring too much about the endgame, similar to what the other poster said. I'm almost certain women don't give out ioi's because of the creeps. If you've ever been in a busy convenience store/gas station and seen an attractive girl walk in, every guy in there is goi…
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:34 PM
1

I think there's a big difference in going to the grocery store/mall/public place with the intent to hit on women, and going there for your own purpose, then coming across a woman you find attractive and wanting to hit on her. If you're also shopping and chat a woman up in the produce section while you both pick out avocados, that's comes off way less creepy than directly approaching her out of nowhere. She knows you're a man of purpose (shopping) but go for what you want when you see it (her). Y…
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:07 PM
1

You could try solo traveling for a bit
/r/seduction18/05/19 01:43 PM
1

3 She needs to reach out at this point, in which time she will hopefully have her feelings sorted. Right now, she's stringing you along as a backup option while she gets fucked by another dude and thinks about her ex.
/r/seduction18/05/19 03:02 AM
1

3 She needs to reach out at this point, in which time she will hopefully have her feelings sorted. Right now, she's stringing you along as a backup option while she gets fucked by another dude and thinks about her ex.
/r/seduction18/05/19 03:02 AM
1

3 She needs to reach out at this point, in which time she will hopefully have her feelings sorted. Right now, she's stringing you along as a backup option while she gets fucked by another dude and thinks about her ex.
/r/seduction18/05/19 03:01 AM
8

Coworker was blatantly disrespecting him so he stood up for himself and told her to call him by his name or don't talk to him. There is literally nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:34 AM
1

in her in a friendly way, meaning that you do not judge her Ah, okay this makes a lot of sense. I always try and make it friendly, which is why I couldn't believe how negatively these women were responding to negging, as if a playful backhanded compliment was the most offensive thing a man could do to them, and not literally the backbone of flirting. It's not like I'm overtly insulting them. I think what happens is that I sometimes come off as c/f too early on in the interaction without establis…
/r/seduction18/05/19 01:23 AM
1

This is awesome. It's very interesting how reflective you are in pinpointing the origins of your growth from self, dad, and mom.
/r/seduction18/05/19 12:59 AM
2

This seems like an improper example for the point you were trying to make, and you shouldn't feel embarrassed or hurt about it. The guy was still in love with his ex, what's that have to do with you? Yeah, his standoffish, distant behavior wasn't cool, but probably didn't tell you about his ex because of his own mixed feelings on her and was embarrassed over them.
/r/seduction18/05/19 12:01 AM
7

What is wrong with FR #1?
/r/seduction17/05/19 11:43 PM
1

Ah, okay, I think I saw in one of your comments further down that you said you treat your girl amazing, but you don't need to have her around. I guess the deeper issue was neediness.
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:27 AM
1

What were those "deeper" issues when it came to relationships?
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:17 AM
1

You give us no details about the relationships but want us to tell you why they failed?
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:09 AM
1

What's the issue here? You said both girls you like and don't like are into you?
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:04 AM
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Even understanding the nature of how a woman's attraction generally works is a godsend for someone looking to improve. You don't even need to have other options, but women need to think you do. I hooked up with the "hottest girl in the group" recently when I was traveling in another country. All the other guys were fawning over her, but when we came across a bunch of prostitutes (Costa Rica), I was arrogantly fawning over them instead of her, and not hiding my interest. Even having prostitutes a…
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:38 PM
7

Another thing is that you should treat her like you already know her This is the most important takeaway imo. It sets you in a frame of mind to act natural and confident.
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:25 PM
3

And if you cling to her everywhere she goes, it's just as bad. IMO, it's better to plant the seed of intrigue, talk to other girls, and come back later, not line up like the other 10 guys trying to be her butler.
/r/seduction13/05/19 05:59 PM
1

I noticed that RP's were so focused on themselves it was borderline, if not fully, narcissistic, but I don't think caring about your own life more than others is a bad thing unless you're a total dick and unkind to people. Especially when you're not at a place, financially or mentally, to be helping other people anyway. I've never looked into the other personality disorders that are usually maintained by women. I know men can have BPD, but it's mostly women that do. A narcissist and histrionic P…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/19 02:14 PM
1

It's crazy how dancing by yourself puts you above having money. I didn't consider it inner game but that's exactly what it is.
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:51 PM
2

And you got a second date? This woman is literally saying, "you didn't meet my qualifications but I still might want to fuck you," otherwise, why would she see you again? Most women have options. All you have to do is lead her to the bedroom in a sexually confident and dominant manner. No woman is that sexual on the first date unless they're trying to fuck. Don't say, "let's go to my house and make out for awhile and see what happens." That's too straightforward. Sure, it might cut to the chase …
/r/seduction12/05/19 05:11 PM
2

Doomed from the start with that approach. How many guys do you think have said that to her? Never ask if she's single. If you're attracting her, she'll probably reciprocate the flirting whether she's single or not, then if at the end she says, well I have a boyfriend, got to go, at least you had the charisma to keep this hot girl with a bf intrigued. That's still a success.
/r/seduction12/05/19 04:47 PM
1

It'd be great to see her at a party or something, where you could tease her about stalking you in person, and you approaching her seems natural and almost an afterthought. Doing that through text without having met her first won't work. It sounds like she's interested. Wait until she posts a story or new pic and make a pithy assumption about her based on it, then gauge her interest from her response.
/r/seduction12/05/19 04:29 PM
1

The fact you have experiences to compare is a lot better than most 18-year olds are doing. The numbers contest will do nothing but stoke your ego and create false respect from men who don't actually like you.
/r/seduction12/05/19 04:25 PM
2

That reference probably went right over her head
/r/seduction12/05/19 04:23 PM
1

Why don't you approach her in person?
/r/seduction12/05/19 04:19 PM
2

You could have easily fucked her that night, but she threw you off with her screening. Also, it seems you were way too open during the first date. Why are you bringing up sex with your ex-wife? Way too revealing and not a turn-on. And before you think, "Am I not supposed to relate and tell her the truth?" The answer is yes, not on the first date. You should be ramping up the sexual tension like she was with the heroin comment. The cumming on her face stuff and other kinks can wait until you're a…
/r/seduction12/05/19 02:51 PM
2

"The clothes don't make the man, the man makes the clothes." A lot of this has to do with how they fit. I'm 6'1 and XL's fit in length, but are too baggy in the arms. That's not a good fit for me. Just buy clothes you like. How they fit, and how you make them look is more important. Some guys can totally rock a floral-printed button down while it completely feminizes others. Basic nightclub clothes anyone can pull off are: black button down, dark-wash jeans, sleek black sneakers/dress shoes. Eve…
/r/seduction12/05/19 02:32 PM
5

What I find disturbing in the RP, etc., is the "othering" of women and the deliberate attempt to manipulate the "other," with little to no empathy for the actual human being; all their emphasis is on the fact that she possesses a vagina, and that is her only attribute of worth--provided the RPer can control her. Yeah, I think it's funny how Corey's perspectives in his book do an almost 180 once the relationship is committed. Those practices go from surface level to unmanageable, though he does a…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/19 02:16 PM
2

Is it really that manipulative, though? Most of it is having more respect for your own life and a screening process for a suitable match. All women have a screening process and have been screening men since the beginning of time. I mean, why would you seek a woman's validation and put her on a pedestal? That is irrational. Some of it--distance, aloofness, not being too available--really comes down being more focused on goals rather than the girl, and not over-investing. The idea is to have other…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/19 01:40 PM
1

LOL
/r/ExRedPill12/05/19 12:35 PM
2

TBH I wouldn't believe a word he says See, that's the problem I'm having. I think some RP theories do have merit: women usually are attracted to the masculine (confident, assertive, leader) frame, not putting them on a pedestal, and not seeking their validation--Corey teaches this stuff too. These are also qualities all men should strive for to better their own lives, regardless of women. It's the undertone of anger and pain that creates the misogynistic generalizations of women I don't like in …
/r/ExRedPill12/05/19 12:29 PM
2

Yeah, agreed. Part of being a leader is taking risks and guiding. And by make her leave, I meant see her out, tactically, as you put it. "Hey, I have a lot to do today, I'm going to need you to get going soon." She'll know why you're saying that, and even if you don't have much to do, it's more about invalidating and not condoning her actions. Whether she's anxious about losing you, or angry you'd do such a thing, you're in power either way, and she'll have to chase you, increasing your attracti…
/r/seduction11/05/19 03:29 AM
3

You should take into account the other guy's comment as well. It's no wonder she didn't want to give you head, you basically forced her into it, instead of turning her on first. The best thing you could have done was make her leave immediately after waking up to show her you're displeased and aren't interested in abstinence three dates in. Again, she would have gotten the message through your actions.
/r/seduction11/05/19 03:10 AM
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You already answered all your own questions. You're trying way too hard and they can tell, probably come off as over-invested and needy, and ultimately scare them away through text. You're deep in the rabbit hole. Start watching Corey Wayne on Youtube.
/r/seduction11/05/19 03:05 AM
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Ask her out. If she declines or makes an excuse, leave her on read and respond blandly. Right now she's using you for attention. Don't try to sexually escalate over snap/text unless you're already fucking.
/r/seduction11/05/19 02:58 AM
4

Why would you want to relate to girls? This is going to make you seem like their friend, not potential lover.
/r/seduction11/05/19 02:57 AM
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My advice is to always wait for a moment to genuinely give a compliment and expect nothing in return for it. Never start with one, because women can tell you already had it planned and constructed in your head. Honestly, with girls you just met, you shouldn't even compliment them at all, and if you do, compliment something you like about her personality. For example, if 15 minutes into the conversation, she mentions she dislikes her job, you could say something like, "you could be a waitress, yo…
/r/seduction11/05/19 02:51 AM
1

Just internalize the last line you wrote over and over
/r/seduction11/05/19 02:43 AM
5

No. No. No. The ultimatum should be perceived from your actions, not words. You need to take back all the power. The fact that she blew you for 10 seconds and got up is some nasty, manipulative shit on her part. Who the fuck does that unless it's in a blatantly sexy, teasing manner? Honestly, you should cut her off for that--it's clearly a power ploy on her end. But at the very least, you need to pull back hard, show less interest, and make it seem like you could care less about fucking her now.…
/r/seduction11/05/19 02:39 AM
10

You can still do those things and not let it override your life. That's more of a self-discipline issue than anything else.
/r/seduction11/05/19 02:29 AM
1

Get a car
/r/seduction10/05/19 02:56 AM
5

It's easy to escalate physically while playing pool because girls aren't good at it. Like he said, you can coach them, and you can also tease them when they mess up. Both of these can involve light touching, which is subtly pulled off as you're focused on the game, and not being a creep about brushing her arm. It's really one of the best activities to do with a girl. Most of them don't want to play, so by making them, you're leading and they're thinking, "oh, this guy does what he wants." Disqua…
/r/seduction10/05/19 02:52 AM
2

Nah, bro. The best alternative plan I've heard--from AMS--is to prompt the girl with your nastiest sexual kinks and fantasies. If she's not into it, there's a mutual split, and if she is, you'll have her doing shit most girls won't. There will eventually be something the girl doesn't want to do.
/r/seduction10/05/19 02:29 AM
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So true. I make up random shit for answers to anything serious. I've internalized the mantra, "agree and amplify," which I picked up from someone else. This works for shit tests and saying whatever I want. Pale redhead girl's last name is Spanish. "Oh, so you're Spanish and a redhead. I should just leave now; you must be crazy with that combination." Logical response: "Oh, what's your heritage look like for that combination?" "Are you seeing anyone else?" "Yeah, 17 other women, but I hate prime …
/r/seduction07/05/19 01:10 AM
1

I mean, women are more attracted to the 45-year old man for other reasons than his looks. Also, there's literally nothing an older woman can do to make her body look like a 20-year old's. It will never have that ripeness.
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:20 PM
1

Yeah, man, I'm in the same boat as you. I'm meeting some cool girls but they all want relationships and that's not my focus right now. I'm also not trying to overthink the hypotheticals about my future. To piggyback off that other comment, I was that asshole last year. I strung this girl along for 1.8 years, never really sure of my feelings for her, as they sometimes were very intimate and other times lacking. I loved her but wasn't in love with her, all of that. At the end of the day, I was rea…
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:02 PM
1

Well, no one actually looks better with age, but oftentimes women's looks start decreasing beyond 25, know as the attraction "wall" and for men they can easily look good into their 30's because they develop and mature later in life.
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:46 PM
2

You're in a scarcity mindset and it sounds like your ambivalence is due to her abundance--she has plenty of options lined up. She's denying these other guys because they're chasing her and you're not, which makes you most attractive to her. If there's ever a time you become the chaser, the whole dynamic will change, as she has those options, and you basically agreed to do what she wants, giving her all the power. Why does she even want to exclusively date you but not be in a relationship? She pr…
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:37 PM
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You look fine, man--better than your friends--and you should easily be pulling the most out of your group. If you think you look different in the mirror every time it's because you're looking in it too much. This can cause a dysmorphia of sorts, the same way girls with the slightest bit of chub compare and obsess over it in mirrors and think they're gross and fat. Also, you look young. Men look better with age. Give yourself until at least 21-23 before fully developing.
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:16 PM
1

Ah, that's a huge grey area, but I'd say that you're growing comfortable enough around each other to not worry too much about coming off as rapey. And like before, assure her of your intentions. Whether you go all the way or not, be indifferent about it. She's not a girl you just met at the bar 2 hours ago so I'm sure some level of trust has cemented between you both. As far as dominance, you don't necessarily have to be physically, aggressively dominant like a Spartan warrior, but just lead the…
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:56 PM
2

If you're going to compliment her, make it something about her personality that's different from other girls, not her looks. Never do a movie at first--that's two hours of not talking and flirting, and while coffee is better for actually getting to know someone, it usually does not extend over an hour, or two max. She already likes you, but make all the decisions here, regardless if you're new to town. Your best bet is to find out something you'd like to other than dinner, and then have her tag …
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:31 PM
1

ply Give Award share report There are two ways I think you can go about it. Next time something like this happens, pull your dick out and gently guide her hand towards it while making out, or if you'd like the subtler route... This line works for me 80% of the time in those situations: "Look, if you don't feel comfortable doing something, I'll respect whatever your decision is," then pull back a little before trying again. The key is to be genuine about it, meaning that you won't get butthurt if…
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:21 PM
1

She wants to fuck you but not feel like a slut about it. It's a huge grey area because a lot of girls are like this--their bodies want it but somewhere in their minds they're a little ashamed. She knew that if you started fingering/eating her out she would succumb. I've seen this happen a lot in my life, and every time I get down their pants it goes all the way. What I've found to work is be genuine, as in making it known that you will stop if they really want to, but read their body language an…
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:52 AM
1

It's definitely green. What's your idea?
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:32 AM
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There's really nothing you can do about it; you're probably attracted to other people too. She's 18, young but exploring new paths of life, and meeting older guys who are attracted to her or vice versa will happen for many years to come. What you can do is flirt with other girls in front of her, mention other girls, increase her jealously and confusion over your own feelings about her. This will make you more attractive to her because she will know you have options just like she does.
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:18 AM
1

Well, yeah, I realize when I’m actually being rude, and always try to keep it lighthearted.
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:07 AM
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Yeah, I smile when I say them and try to make it obviously a joke
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:06 AM
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Man, hotels are the shit, right? So easy to meet new people and have a take it or leave attitude. I’ve been hopping around them for the last month and I love the atmosphere.
/r/seduction20/03/19 05:02 PM
2

Ethical responsibility? No. My challenge of getting better at seducing women is purely a selfish undertaking, but it’s the transferable social skills acquired that make it so worthy. Learning to overcome fear, confidence, rejection, self-assurance, abundance, purpose, comfort in social settings—all those things are paired to being successful with women and life in general. Almost every woman values a sense of humor and social acuity. Just those two attributes alone can take you far.
/r/seduction28/02/19 01:50 AM
1

D & B is a great date venue. You can use the games as a catalyst for teasing and challenging her.
/r/seduction26/02/19 03:23 AM
3

Yeah, you’re gay.
/r/seduction25/02/19 12:59 AM
6

It’s the same for me. When I was a teenager smoking “regs” I could talk to anyone. These days, I couldn’t even find regs, everyone smokes the strong stuff. If I take more than 2 hits I turn into a hyper-conscious, self-loathing paranoid shell of myself.
/r/seduction21/02/19 03:58 PM
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Does weed not make you anxious around her? I would barely being able to talk to a girl without stuttering after that many joints.
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:44 AM
2

I, too, will soon be traveling for a month. Central America. You already answered your question in your other post about day game—go there to have fun. Being foreign will make you stand out as rarer and attractive anyway. What makes it easiest is that your purpose isn’t to pick up women. It’s to engage in and experience a new country. Go with this mindset and they’ll be throwing themselves at you. When I went to Europe it was that easy. Try to meet others that speak your native language to hango…
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:02 PM
4

Yes, they do
/r/seduction19/02/19 01:19 AM
1

Ah, okay. I’ve just seen this scenario with other guys, where the girl automatically shifts her focus to the more attractive guy, regardless of who has the most game. If you truly think it’s a test, you definitely need to talk to other women and turn the tables like you said in another comment.
/r/seduction18/02/19 04:44 PM
2

Honestly, it doesn’t sound like she’s that into you. Someone had to say it.
/r/seduction17/02/19 10:22 PM
1

Yeah, 3-5 clients a week that are straight hot women in high demand, successful positions. That’s highly embellished at the least. Any woman of that caliber can find a fuck buddy for free, not pay $400 an hour. That being said, a lot of celebrities use female escorts when they could fuck almost any girl.
/r/seduction17/02/19 02:15 AM
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You’re insecure and overthought the shit out of that situation. Either they thought you were cute and were interested or goofy and were still somewhat interested. Reflect, digest, move past it and don’t get so bent out of shape.
/r/seduction16/02/19 02:27 PM
1

What is a Shad?
/r/seduction16/02/19 02:02 AM
1

The answer to 1 is 5. I definitely try to have it both ways. 2 and 3 are true and make a lot of sense from the woman's standpoint. 4, she asked me to come over on Christmas Eve and I suggested a different day to which she flaked. I guess she was only in the mood that night. Thanks for the detailed analysis.
/r/seduction15/02/19 10:55 PM
1

Yeah, I didn't consider it like that. These "types" almost always had to get approval from their friends before they agreed to split from them, so the external validation part seems true and fair enough.
/r/seduction15/02/19 02:03 AM
1

I'd rather establish the chemistry and rapport too, as I feel it increases comfort levels and attraction. My thing is that this only takes one night sometimes lol. It's good to know that the no hookup statements are more for the girl's safety than anything else. I'm completely cool with that. I guess I just need to put in a little more effort if I want first dates to go all the way. Thanks.
/r/seduction15/02/19 02:01 AM
1

That list is a giant red flag lol. We seem kind of similar. I'm also nice in general but my humor and bluntness is often perceived as tactless and labeled "asshole". I'm right there with you on the dress comments.
/r/seduction15/02/19 01:58 AM
1

Ah, okay, I should have known better than to read into that literally. I've often found these girls are the "wait until the 3rd date" types--they definitely still want dick.
/r/seduction14/02/19 11:27 PM
4

Okay, this is spot on. In dating advice videos, I’ve often heard, “you attract what you are,” but I never applied that to myself. I’ve definitely noticed that girls see me as the “wounded warrior” type they want to open up and help, or more accordingly, nurture. My whole last relationship was predicated on this. I’ve been on the mend emotionally for years since I had a family tragedy, and maybe I’ve been subconsciously seeking women to nurture me emotionally without even realizing it. I know for…
/r/seduction14/02/19 10:33 PM
2

There’s some videos about this on YT, but I think the general rule of thumb is to only use text to setup dates.
/r/seduction14/02/19 06:33 PM
1

Dan Bacon has a good YT video on it iirc
/r/seduction14/02/19 01:41 PM
1

Yeah, man, you haven’t even met the girl in person yet.
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:02 PM
7

Don’t even mention it, behave confidently while flirting with her as if it didn’t happen, and prepare for some shit tests.
/r/seduction10/02/19 05:45 PM
3

You’re giving yourself like a 10% chance of success by hitting on girls at the gym. They’re surrounded by thirsty dudes checking them out and usually just want to get their workouts done, so their guard is up. Don’t bother.
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:54 PM
7

Oh cmon, if you’re not satisfied sexually and things don’t change, it’s the beginning of the end.
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:25 AM
1

I mean, it's Las Vegas. You have some pretty immediate options to losing your virginity.
/r/seduction08/02/19 10:56 PM
2

Be a man?
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:58 AM
75

This whole post is lame
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:41 PM
3

Can’t you just wait until it heals to get back to it with the women? We’re talking like 6-8 weeks, right?
/r/seduction05/02/19 12:18 AM
9

Go out and meet other women. It will help take your mind off of her while simultaneously making her more attracted to you. At least you recognized the oneitis early on.
/r/seduction04/02/19 11:04 PM
2

If you keep telling yourself that then they won’t
/r/seduction04/02/19 10:55 PM
2

Yeah, it works as an overall mindset to have and the constant reassurance you are valuable is part of actually seeing yourself that way. The only problem is if a woman senses or intuits you are faking it, which they have a sixth sense for. If you’re all high value and confident but can’t pass a shit test, things will start to go downhill.
/r/seduction04/02/19 05:57 AM
1

Wow, that’s awesome. I’ve been sitting on an eighth for a few months, just waiting for the right time to take them. Hope my trip is as revealing as yours was!
/r/seduction03/02/19 05:27 PM
11

Shit, I love shrooms, but I haven’t experienced anything like that. I’ve only ever taken a half-eighth.
/r/seduction02/02/19 06:42 PM
18

Yeah, there’s a big difference between pretending you’re high value and knowing deep down you are.
/r/seduction02/02/19 06:31 PM
0

Yeah, sounds like she definitely wanted you to make a move and you didn’t pull the trigger. You should read the recent post about oneitis in this sub.
/r/seduction02/02/19 03:39 PM
1

That “it was a great night...” makes it sound like you went all the way. But after reading your replies it seems you didn’t even kiss her. It sounds like you didn’t escalate sexually on the first date. You should have been more physically playful. Also, we have no details of how she acted on that date. Did you pick up on any cues she was physically interested?
/r/seduction02/02/19 01:11 PM
11

If you can’t help it what makes you think we can?
/r/seduction31/01/19 05:18 PM
4

Do not pay 3k for a dating coach. There is plenty of free/cheaper advice on YouTube and the books recommended in this sub.
/r/seduction31/01/19 02:42 PM
1

I never get morning wood either. Thanks for the tips!
/r/seduction26/01/19 01:09 AM
2

Thanks for the tips. I think I’ll try the maca powder before any rx meds, as I am pretty sure it’s all nerves/discomfort/anxiety for me. I pretty much only get it on one night stands or the first time with a girl. Once I’m more comfortable with them it almost never happens. I really feel like taking Cialis is giving up on rectifying the root of the problem (anxiety), but I guess even just having some around would be nice for insurance.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:04 PM
3

And how did you get past that?
/r/seduction25/01/19 02:24 AM
1

Man, just remembering all those situations is enough to point out something being wrong inside, not outside. Can you seriously not rate your own looks at least somewhat objectively? For myself, I tend to also remember the experiences where I felt like a failure with heightened detail, like someone telling me they hate me, or a girl telling others they think I’m gay, or someone mocking my voice. It’s all related to having low confidence, self-esteem, and caring too much what others think. You can…
/r/seduction24/01/19 09:15 PM
1

I agree but that clip was a little ridiculous as a representation lol
/r/seduction21/01/19 04:36 AM
1

Hmm, that would seem obvious but I guess I lost myself at some point and forgot. I was co-dependent and needy from the aforementioned ex and then tried to force emotional connections with women that weren’t compatible, thus driving them away sexually as well.
/r/seduction20/01/19 07:54 PM
2

I didn’t mean replace bodybuilding, just have some other things going on as well, but it sounds like you don’t have time for anything else.
/r/seduction20/01/19 12:04 PM
1

Oh, I agree and have one. I can also see how the whining I do in therapy would potentially turn a woman off. Still a double standard that women falsely encourage though.
/r/seduction20/01/19 11:18 AM
1

Get some more interesting hobbies? Bodybuilding says a lot about your ethic, but most guys lift and it’s pretty generic and not really conversational.
/r/seduction20/01/19 02:18 AM
3

Holy shit dude, until you said you were in high school, I thought it was a post from someone 30+. It sucks your parents aren’t more supportive. I highly recommend talking to a school counselor or psychologist. You don’t need love from another woman. You could possibly set yourself up for disaster if a woman gave you the love you seek and then broke up with you at some point. Take some of the other commenters advice and learn to love yourself, even if it’s as a way to prevent future heartbreak.
/r/seduction20/01/19 01:31 AM
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Yeah, man, the double standard is crazy. I had a girl all over me because I said I wasn’t afraid of emotional intimacy in a dominant way. She thought it was mature and confident. When it came time for me to actually open up about doubts and weakness she wasn’t as receptive or turned on at all. All these dating coaches say, “talk to a male friend,” and to “be a rock like your grandfather was.” I don’t know anyone in their late 20’s with male friends who have time for baggage and my grandfathers w…
/r/seduction19/01/19 11:49 PM
6

Women operate on feelings and emotions more than men. I learned the hard way that most of the time they don’t want you to give them advice, try to fix them, or solve their problems. Especially not with logic. No matter the rationale, women want their feelings to be acknowledged and heard, not dismissed as insignificant, as trivial as they can be. They mainly just want you to listen and hear them out even if inside you know they’re complaining and expressing emotions over something of minimal ove…
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:58 PM
6

Yeah, I think emotional connection and trust coincide with LTR’s. That being said, I had a deep emotional connection with a girl that I found subpar in the looks department, even though she wasn’t ugly. I started sleeping with her out of convenience/low effort and we became best friends. The lack of initial attraction never really changed over time though and I ended up breaking her heart. It was terrible. Maybe I’m shallow and immature, but I want to have a woman I like to look at, both in face…
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:50 PM
5

I'm interested in hearing other's opinions on emotional connection. Without it, I'm usually bored in 3-6 months unless the sex is consistently improving. There's also a fine line with being emotionally available and sensitive to **her** emotions versus opening up about your own. If you search through r/askwomen about emotional availability almost none of them even realize that they're asking for men to be more open to helping them with their own emotions, not the other way around. It's hard to b…
/r/seduction19/01/19 08:57 PM
1

At least I’m not the only one who does that
/r/seduction12/01/19 11:56 PM
2

Oh, yeah, terrible phrasing. Move on, see other women, but know in the back of your head you’re high enough value to re-attract her again and make her miss you, because you’re focused on yourself and improvement. I didn’t actually mean wait around in wallowing lol, poor wording and little explanation on my part.
/r/seduction10/01/19 12:15 PM
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She’s not a possession. If she’s leaving because “the grass is greener” there’s little you can do to stop her. Better off having enough self-worth and respect to wait it out. She’ll most likely come back.
/r/seduction10/01/19 01:56 AM
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So you don’t agree with having success, self-worth and self-respect, and a purpose in life?
/r/seduction10/01/19 01:53 AM
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Based on my knowledge—but not inherent experience—you need to have a successful life (not necessarily money, but it comes with success), where you have a driving purpose/passion to focus on, self-worth and self-respect, so that in the event the girl leaves you, you will bounce back. I’ve also heard that most women who break up over insignificant reasons like boredom and “the grass is greener” syndrome are breaking up as a test to stir up drama and check your confidence/resolve. Always value your…
/r/seduction09/01/19 11:12 PM
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Eh, wrong guy to make that assumption about. I like the line mainly because I used a less polished version of it already on NYE.
/r/seduction08/01/19 09:58 PM
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Holy shit that double line that ends with you feeling her pussy and saying she’s wet is fucking gold.
/r/seduction08/01/19 07:46 PM
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