| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | From r/AmITheAsshole... Father Vs NV BF | DISCUSSION | skiesarebluetoday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Considering breaking up because of a mediocre Christmas? | RED FLAG 🚨 | skiesarebluetoday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Are some women are better than others? | DISCUSSION | skiesarebluetoday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:56 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Is my friend considered a pick me or naive?Oof. That’s awful. Good on you for leaving your cheating ex. That’s the only right move. Pick - me’s rarely value their friendships because the guy is the priority. Boyfriends should never be your priority. Honestly, distance is your best bet. Because let’s say the crappy bf starts hitting you up- she’s not going to blame him, she’s going to come after you! Ick! | /r/askFDS | 01/01/21 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Is my friend considered a pick me or naive?Yeah because she didn’t take the time to vet, and then fell super hard for him... and doesn’t matter how trashy he is, she’s going to make excuses for him. People only change when they choose to do so themselves, but in reality it usually takes something pretty traumatic to motivate a person to actually change something... like being cheated on and feeling betrayed. She says she would be “okay” with it, but she’s going to feel horrible if and when it actually happens. You can always be supportiv… | /r/askFDS | 01/01/21 09:33 PM |
| 8 | Is my friend considered a pick me or naive?Absolutely. But also we deserve the best! You know what you’re doing, so just be careful to only spend your time and energy with those who are deserving of it. | /r/askFDS | 01/01/21 09:21 PM |
| 13 | Is my friend considered a pick me or naive?Please do not take this as a jab, as I was in your shoes not too long ago. Do not use tinder, or talking to low quality men because you’re bored. Find a hobby. Find a second job. Something. Because there is no need to put your energy on that, and it’s not going to fill any void either. And also, before you know it, some guy you were just talking to and seeking validation from, you’ve suddenly developed feelings for. And it’s not really boredom, it’s seeking validation. If you want to talk to peo… | /r/askFDS | 01/01/21 09:06 PM |
| 19 | Is my friend considered a pick me or naive?100% pick me. But you are boarding it too by going on Tinder. There’s very few HVM on Tinder of all places. She’s a man pleaser, and that never turns out well- they ignore your boundaries and act as bad as they want because all they need is to shed a few crocodile tears and she will forgive them. She also might be saying the thing about “all men cheat”, and it’s their “instinct”, because either her bf is already cheating, or she knows he’s going to do. Just because every low value man you’ve dat… | /r/askFDS | 01/01/21 08:49 PM |
| 25 | And this is why men and woman CANNOT be friends. Ever. They're just in the cut waitingYes thank you! I believe that it does exist (friendships between men and women)... but only when they’re HV! That is the difference! I’ve been the pick-me flirt, and my male friends were LV! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:14 PM |
| 58 | Her scrote bf told her she doesn't "look" anorexic, told her to lose more weight. Comment section say CoMmUnIcAtEOmg that is thin as it is! That was my goal weight when I was a “pro ana butterfly” as a young teen. Trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 25 | Boyfriend of 5 years told me he cheated on meWell here’s what you need to remember: • he knew what he was doing, and he just didn’t care • Back in my pick me days, I cheated on my low value bf, and guess what, I knew what I was doing the whole time. Also one more thing, he told you this now, not for you- but to clear his own guilty conscience. If it was truly a one time thing, he would have kept it to the grave, over the possibility of knowing he could lose you. Congratulations on being a strong woman, and your journey to happiness in thes… | /r/askFDS | 31/12/20 06:55 PM |
| 43 | Tik tok + FDSI’m sorry this is off topic, but I very much stay clear of tiktok- so many pickme behavior. I saw this video recently where the women got her bf like 25 pairs of expensive shoes (like for 25 days of Christmas type thing)... everyday this man has some new fancy gift. Wonder what he got her 🤡 anyway, if anyone knows any good tiktok’s to follow let me know too :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:44 AM |
| 43 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.Reading this absolutely broke my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 27 | I broke up with him! Please laugh at his clownery with me.Thank you so much :) sad, but that’s the first thing I promised myself not to do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:30 AM |
| 68 | I broke up with him! Please laugh at his clownery with me.Lmfao! I am actually studying to become a software engineer. For the money though, not porn! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:22 AM |
| 107 | I broke up with him! Please laugh at his clownery with me.Yes. My computer engineer ex was a serial cheater, and jerked off 4x a day minimum- including at work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:05 AM |
| 45 | Discussion: Green flags for making presentsThank you for posting. My man was showing green flags, but boom - and no Christmas gift. He also went on a rant about how he doesn’t care about Christmas and that it’s “nOt a BiG dEaL”, and how he doesn’t get gifts so he doesn’t give. Little did he know I was planning on giving him something special, but I’m sure I’ll enjoy my vintage flannel myself. Anyway, I canceled plans with him to spend quality time with myself, and maybe I’ll be canceling this relationship if he doesn’t correct asap. happ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:41 AM |
| 7 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesWell they always do come back :/ thing is at least you’re not a total pick-me when you walk away and do your own thing. Or you know, drop him forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:03 AM |
| 5 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesOmg yes! Now I’m wondering how Alex really is.! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:59 AM |
| 18 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesUgh yes. I’m perfectly horny when I’m alone, but not around guys because I’m already dreading it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:46 PM |
| 27 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesHow awful! He seems so trustworthy too. Ridiculous people even watch his videos anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:17 PM |
| 0 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesYes on Tony Gaskins. Long and informative, nice voice to listen to too. Seems like he retired from the low value life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:15 PM |
| 7 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesThe dude back tracks way too much and it’s annoying to listen to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:14 PM |
| 10 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesHow about a good one! I love Greta Bereisaite! She helps you work on yourself first! I don’t like SheraSeven(?), I remember a video from her where she talked about taking a married man? No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:12 PM |
| 3 | To the pickmeishas who want to steal my man: Thank you!Beautifully said.! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 02:57 AM |
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