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2

According to your post the only people you need to "defuse". So.. this is a non issue.
/r/seduction17/04/22 12:27 AM
1

I'm 5'6". Have fucked.
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:09 AM
2

Also, this post has nothing to do with logistics.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:41 PM
4

It's unlikely that any information you think you have about a woman's sexual past is accurate but you can assume that any woman of your age you meet has had the option to have sex with many more people than you. If she chooses to not have sex with you it is completely your fault if you take it personally and allow it to affect your self esteem.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:41 PM
24

You respect their choices and perhaps invite them again another time or move on with your life.
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:25 AM
1

Sure why not
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:23 AM
10

Next time you’re alone say “ are you going to kiss me or not”. If he does not, find another boy.
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:21 AM
1

People are curious and visual animals.
/r/seduction10/04/22 08:46 PM
2

Do people often FaceTime with you?
/r/seduction10/04/22 04:43 PM
1

Another thing from the post I mentioned was he chose a meetup location that was very convenient for him and also was a place he would hang out in general.
/r/seduction10/04/22 04:07 PM
3

I guess I would not attempt to schedule a meeting with someone who’s profile was crappy in some way.
/r/seduction10/04/22 04:05 PM
2

Hey, what time you get off? We’re going to (insert fun activity).
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:50 PM
1

Yes, if someone has actually scheduled to meet and doesn’t show, that is shitty.
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:35 PM
2

Yep
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:34 PM
1

I think people who do well with cold approach have developed high end charisma and a very good ability to put out a positive vibe & make people feel comfortable very quickly.
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:31 PM
7

Also the idea about not meeting in less than a week is bad. Measuring commitment is ridiculous unless you’ve been on multiple dates. 4 hours away is too much. It’s not ghosting if you’ve never met. It’s a flake. It is not an issue. It happens. Don’t waste time trying to have relationships over tech.
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:25 PM
11

I think the ideas about talking on the phone, FaceTime & texting are bad, with regards to OLD. Restrict communication to setting up dates only. Move forward with other types of communication only if you’ve met in person.
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:21 PM
2

I recently read a post on here where someone was getting a lot of dates from OLD. He mentioned restricting communication on the apps to scheduling dates. Literally the first message sent was, “let’s meet for drinks”. No witty banter. No communication with anyone who did not respond positively to the suggestion of meeting up. I assumed he would just move on & set up another date with someone else, if someone canceled. You’re getting dates, so that’s good. It’s definitely a waste of time to specul…
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:15 PM
2

You have no idea what the situation is. Flakes happen. The correct response is “no worries “ Hit her up later if you’re busy with all the other girls.
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:34 AM
5

This is a legitimate concern and a question that could never really be answered unfortunately.
/r/seduction07/04/22 03:20 PM
22

I disagree. I think many of your tactics could be used by different folks. Perhaps one could take a photography class or join a group. There’s a hip neighborhood in most towns. But yes, disposable income is a basic requirement of life in general.
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:21 AM
2

I would think the late “node conversion” possible but may be more efficient to simply move forward with adjustments. Also, reducing stable size could equal more sex.
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:15 AM
1

NP
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:50 PM
2

This is all just signal noise. Who cares. You're broke but you can still play soccer and kiss a girl. If she wants sushi so bad, she can buy it for both of you. If she comes at you with some high maintenance bs just ignore it. Your finances are none of here business. You're a cool and creative guy & girls like to hang out with you without needing you to buy them shit.
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:34 PM
1

To get her alone you have to have another location where she will be comfortable going with just you. That could just be taking a walk in the park or stepping outside from the club. You could have a meet up actually at your place before all of this & invite a group, then she might be more comfortable going back there later. These are just ideas. Perhaps it's better to just go to the thing, have fun, be social and simply engage with her while feeling the intention in your mind that you are absolu…
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:30 PM
1

I’ll read between the lines for you: This girl likes you and wants something romantic and / or sexual with you. This is a hard fact. All you have to do is show up and not fuck it up. If you’re scared of “awkward moments” all that will do is increase the chance that nothing will come of this opportunity. If you are interested in lying naked with this girl in your arms at some point, I encourage you to embrace awkward moments. Observe these moments as they pass by and then look into her eyes with …
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:46 PM
2

Gotta risk it for the biscuit.
/r/seduction26/03/22 10:17 PM
1

Ask her out.
/r/seduction26/03/22 08:08 PM
2

I’m not great with rejection. Some seem to have no issue. My friend who is a bit of a natural would get rejected hard, shrug & walk right up to another girl like nothing happened. He once said he “erases them from memory immediately “. I’m not entirely sure what that means and have never been able to put it to use but I think about it a lot. One thing that has helped me is the mantra “what someone thinks of me is none of my business “.
/r/seduction26/03/22 08:03 PM
2

There is no need for further witty banter. No further communication is required on your part.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:52 PM
1

If she is attractive then yes, she has a boyfriend and a couple other dudes hanging around.
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:37 AM
1

Human beings want to spend time with other human beings. If there is a female person out there that may be attracted to you, that person is going to need you to talk to them.
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:09 AM
3

You could always try the classic last minute change to pregame at your place then go out. She gets comfy with your pad first thing.
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:43 PM
1

Were you attracted to them?
/r/seduction17/03/22 10:47 AM
136

You’re a good sport.
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:17 PM
615

He found out you don’t use paragraphs or punctuation and decided to move on.
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:07 PM
1

Just know from here on out you can immediately dismiss a girl from your life if she’s being an asshole.
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:40 PM
1

I don’t believe Tinder is a good idea. Get your band going and go to some shows. Talk to girls in person.
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:10 PM
4

I wouldn’t be sure until she paid for the sushi.
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:48 PM
1

Women are biologically incapable of giving good dating advice to anyone, including each other! :D …. So , No I would say it is not intentional.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:49 PM
1

Investigate the being genuine with yourself thing and stop focusing on how you think you may talking to girls for a while.
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:36 AM
1

Yes, I would most definitely focus on losing weight and more specifically, changing my habits permanently and addressing any issues surrounding physical health and appearance but I would not completely give up working on social skills.
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:13 PM
1

Learn about grammar.
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:59 PM
1

“You’ve got a low self opinion man.” Henry Rollins
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:56 PM
3

I just say my age and immediate transition to another topic because age is a boring subject.
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:30 PM
1

I say fuck it enjoy life.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:00 AM
5

Sounds like she’s playing the crew.
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:44 PM
3

Lived & worked in NOLA a lot. I’ve always loved it but it’s just really bad in many ways now. I don’t know what to tell you. I’m not into garbage people, garbage politicians, garbage in the streets and getting robbed & murdered.
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:40 PM
10

Maybe pre Katrina…. It’s a super shithole now.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:15 PM
10

Also, don’t book travel plans with women who are not beard tested.
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:05 PM
2

No one here can tell you what this girl is feeling or thinking but you can look within yourself and know what YOU are feeling. You can decide what you want. You can put yourself out there and tell the world what you want and what you will accept and if another person is not giving you what you want you can move on.
/r/seduction05/01/22 12:15 AM
1

If you don’t feel comfortable spending so much money then stop doing that. It doesn’t mean you don’t see her anymore…. Unless of course she isn’t into it anymore without the $$$$…. At which point you will have new information.
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:07 PM
14

DM her when you’re going out & suggest she meet you.
/r/seduction01/01/22 04:33 PM
6

FAB is a good idea.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:20 PM
2

If there’s something you want I’m not sure that waiting is power. Power is being able to move forward if you don’t get what you want. If you know you can move forward it will show.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:18 AM
4

Who are these dipshits you’re asking out.
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:09 AM
1

Keep trying low key and if you end up in conversation again ask her out. If not move on. Speculation on her reasons is a huge waste of time. Changing your game to actually trying has to be across the board and not just with one person, one time.
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:02 PM
2

I’ll just say that if a guy does not approach, this has little bearing on his feelings toward you. It’s usually more about him.
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:04 PM
4

It’s a bot that attempts to convert a random post to Shakespearean prose I guess. There are various bots that show up from time to time. Sometimes they are useful or funny.
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:42 AM
19

I’m not sure it worked out this time bot.
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:13 AM
1

Na. Keep her as a cool neighbor that’s into you and fuck other women.
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:57 PM
0

All is fair…. etc
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:20 PM
2

I’m sure you’re the bomb dot com. My assessment is that you are in the friend zone my friend. I suppose it’s possible you have a remote chance. Good luck. Let me know how it turns out.
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:32 PM
2

It’s hard for you because you are not attractive.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:52 PM
2

lol
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:15 PM
1

It’s probably for the best regardless of what your romantic or sexual goals are at this point. Stop being hung up on this particular person. You’re not getting anything positive from it.
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:14 PM
3

You didn’t fuck anything up because their wasn’t a thing for you to fuck up. You have something to fuck up when someone is sexually attracted to you. You were already in the friend zone here. This is also not really a field report because talking to a friend about their relationship problems over the phone is not being in the field.
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:10 PM
1

I care more if they can spell “too” correctly.
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:01 PM
35

It’s not a rejection. Would she say “btw we are having sex later” if she was into you? Nope.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:40 PM
10

It means all I have to do is hang out & be chill and I will be getting laid later.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:38 PM
6

Because he’s a grown man who can admit when he’s said something stupid, own up to it and move forward.
/r/seduction31/10/21 05:58 PM
2

There doesn’t have to be a clever response to everything.
/r/seduction31/10/21 05:33 PM
1

The lines are established by your values, criteria for the relationship and boundaries.
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:34 PM
2

Regardless of what happens stop worrying about what she wants and focus on what you want.
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:51 PM
6

If one of them is getting too serious, stop talking about other girls, talk to her on the phone for a long time and cuddle a lot. She’ll be gone within 24 hours.
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:38 PM
6

I mean, if you actually did this you would attract attention and opportunity for conversation.
/r/seduction25/10/21 01:18 AM
2

Don’t tell me what to do.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:27 AM
1

I agree that women are people…. And people are ANIMALS!!!!! Hahah!
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:19 AM
4

It’s true that women rarely articulate what makes them attracted to a man. I feel it’s simply part of their competitive instinct.
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:46 AM
3

Well, you’re right about getting out there but you’re here commenting too. It’s fun to discuss when we’re not out there trying to meet you wonderful ladies (hopefully ones that don’t lie) (;
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:42 AM
3

I'd love to have a discussion about this topic with a woman because I find it interesting but I do not believe you are able to be genuine about it.
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:16 AM
1

You're a liar.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:49 AM
1

Indicators of social status.
/r/seduction13/10/21 06:35 PM
-1

Best way to go about what? Having fun seems to be OP’s goal is smack in the middle of success. I guess if he cries when the “tables turn!” you can gloat.
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:20 PM
1

I’m more concerned with someone going off the deep end and the police getting involved.
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:17 PM
89

The first time I had sex did not have a huge impact. I would say the first relationship where I had sex with the same person more than a couple times did.
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:27 PM
1

I only read the title…. sorry.
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:20 PM
1

Just pay. It’s not worth it. Do you want to get laid or solve heteronormative double standards?
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:49 PM
1

Confidence reduces the relevance of inexperience.
/r/seduction19/09/21 03:42 PM
0

Given the context of your report this seems like shit test territory to me. Perhaps your game at this point: "I might have implied that she liked me or something" showed a bit of weakness of frame. But it could have been plain talk and your assessment of her being outgoing and friendly is correct.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:12 PM
1

This perspective can be tempered by keeping a couple things in mind: Women are just people. You can just find someone you like who also likes you. It's fine to get more advanced but for someone with those questions, it's kind of helpful to just get back to middle school hand holding level for a minute.
/r/seduction21/12/20 12:09 AM
0

You want to become more ATTRACTIVE to a potential mate and you do that by valuing yourself.
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:38 PM
2

Who is u?
/r/seduction05/05/20 10:41 PM
1

Seeing the band Impotent Sea Snakes with my girl back in the day, had a similar effect.
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:22 PM
2

There is more to all of this than just porn but it probably would help to kick the habit given how much you do it.
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:01 PM
6

Yea, I get that and appreciate it. It's actually ok to read in little snipits like sitting on the toilet but if I try to take it too seriously or read more than like a page at a time I get annoyed and pissed off. Reminds me too much of my Catholic upbringing I guess. (:
/r/seduction13/02/20 02:41 AM
37

Superior Man has a lot of interesting framing in f concepts but it reads so much like poetic guru bullshit that I just can’t get through it. Ultimately, no one book is all that important.
/r/seduction12/02/20 07:16 PM
1

Your update doesn’t surprise me. I think your instincts could be good on this one. If not, oh well. As far as execution/tactics just internalize your intentions and roll with it. Actually friend zone her yet leave an option to work logistics and escalate physically.
/r/seduction12/02/20 02:57 PM
2

45 year old women are unattractive to most men including those in the 45 year old range. That's true. Including myself. I am 48 and I generally do not find women over say.. 35 to be attractive but.. there are some women over 40 that are hot and when I run across one it almost has more impact. But yea.. I'm not sure the age range thing can be the reason for having a lot of dates. I'm sure it is mostly about taking certain actions and having a social life.
/r/seduction25/01/20 10:05 PM
1

I would want to know how you’re getting so many dates.
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:03 PM
1

It makes things more difficult, I would say but not impossible. I recently dated a Brazilian lady. She was sweet and hugely fun in the sack but conversation was tough. I broke it off primarily because of the language issue but I realized that there could've been a situation with more chemistry or attraction where I would take it upon myself to overcome the language issue.
/r/seduction03/01/20 06:45 PM
1

I think you're leaving out self-improvement.
/r/seduction02/01/20 10:20 PM
18

Well, he's got game enough to get dates or is really good looking. Just needs to bump up the meet to close process.
/r/seduction02/01/20 10:11 PM
138

If you’re having actual dates, to me that is the point where blaming OLD is less viable.
/r/seduction02/01/20 07:16 PM
1

So, this sub is NOT about having more sex?
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:20 PM
7

Or actually BE willing to walk away.
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:14 PM
1

Well, you just described all of the behavior that is most likely the issue. I don’t know that anyone here can tell you “what gives” with regards to the cause of this behavior. What thoughts and emotions are you experiencing when acting this way?
/r/seduction30/12/19 07:11 PM
1

This is the only worthwhile comment.
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:25 AM
1

The move would have been to ask for her phone to put your number in and text yourself.
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:22 AM
2

Yea, I only remember most of those names vaguely now. For me it was just about finding the info & that happened to be the time period I was into it. Anyways.. I definitely got some traction out of that old school pua stuff.
/r/seduction24/12/19 08:29 PM
2

Juggler fan here. (:
/r/seduction24/12/19 07:20 PM
2

My intro was actually the Usenet version. OG. (:
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:42 PM
0

Good ol masf & fastseduction .
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:33 PM
1

In almost every rejection there is a degree of regret and second guessing. It is a spectrum.
/r/seduction23/12/19 05:00 PM
1

What’s a “Chad”?
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:29 PM
3

Send a funny, overly emotional sad gif.
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:28 AM
4

My guess is you are both young and she likes playing with the power of her sexuality. She probably does have a “flirty” personality but also a manipulative one... which is pretty normal for a teenage girl just beginning to discover her power over boys.
/r/seduction28/04/19 01:00 PM
2

You mean you met a surprising amount of liars.
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:36 PM
1

Regarding "how to get there", confidence stems mostly from self-esteem, I believe.
/r/seduction26/04/19 01:14 AM
2

You could write a book on this. Basically it comes down to human behavior that evolutionary in nature. Confidence is probably the most powerful thing that can affect your life period. I suppose it’s interesting to discuss the why & why not but knowing doesn’t necessarily increase confidence.
/r/seduction25/04/19 11:44 AM
2

Confidence is a pretty powerful thing in any endeavor that involves working with other humans.
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:44 PM
1

There are vast resources on this. Books like No More Mr Nice Guy, subs, forums, etc. I would start with the nice guy issues in building your self esteem. It is a lot of stuff and you need somewhere to start and something to focus on. I suggest those things first. A lot of the early work is probably going to be mostly spending time with yourself and taking a break from worrying about making friends with other people.
/r/seduction11/04/19 12:03 PM
0

What was the advice in the female sub?
/r/seduction08/04/19 09:06 PM
46

I just wanted to add that there are a bunch of dip shit comments in this thread. This little bump in the road is extremely normal. It means nothing. I woman can be in the mood one minute and not be in the mood the next. It’s not a big deal. Continue being a cool guy. Possibly continue to make out. Take a break. Try again later.
/r/seduction29/03/19 04:48 PM
1

“I don’t feel cute” pretty much means just that. There is some physical thing she is dealing with that makes her feel unattractive right now. It’s probably not a big deal. Just chill. Try again later.
/r/seduction29/03/19 04:45 PM
1

Did the post you deleted have any solutions to 1 through 7?
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:30 PM
2

Grief counseling is beyond the scope of this sub. These guys might have some interesting suggestions as to which hat to wear at your next nightclub outing! :D
/r/seduction04/01/19 04:51 PM
16

It’s not terrible. “Low energy”isn’t a type of person it’s just a state of being. If she lit up when you said hi then that’s not low energy.
/r/seduction03/01/19 12:47 AM
2

You’ve got the girl, so seduction is used to make the relationship more fun but actual love and giving has to happen now. There’s not a video game move to keep your girlfriend.
/r/seduction25/12/18 03:56 PM
2

The only problem I see here is poor penmanship.
/r/seduction12/12/18 04:35 PM
0

You do not feel healthy and are not healthy. You’re messed up. Having a girlfriend is nice but it’s not the “complete me” scenario that you’re dreaming about. You complete you and women are just icing on the cake. Cake should ideally be great without icing.
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:31 PM
1

Questions don’t require answers that have actual informative content... or even answers. Mostly they just require a certain attitude.
/r/seduction05/12/18 10:49 PM
1

Werd... ok, so it’s more of a physical and/or vibe issue then. Perhaps study up on some of the personal appearance & flirting/ sexual tension tactics then.
/r/seduction24/11/18 07:25 PM
6

Are you disgusting and pathetic? Probably not but the question indicates possible patheticness. Are you aware of what is attractive to women? Are you aware of what behaviors indicate interest from women? It will be difficult to experience any of these behaviors if you’re not putting yourself in the mix.
/r/seduction24/11/18 06:40 PM
4

Your weapon against abusive people is the same in most situations: assertive behavior, being selective, being willing to walk away with extreme prejudice and in extreme situations: legal action.
/r/seduction08/11/18 08:29 PM
1

Also, pivot.
/r/seduction18/08/18 05:36 PM
1

Chasing off other girls? Focus on getting other girls and stop worrying about weirdo.
/r/seduction18/08/18 04:54 PM
2

Don’t tell me what to do.
/r/seduction06/08/18 01:28 PM
1

100% for me. :)
/r/seduction03/08/18 04:26 PM
7

I can’t help but post about this. One time I was out with a girl and we were having a nice time it was sort of a first date situation and I am not kidding she said the we are not having sex thing like four or five times throughout the night and at the end of the night she was throwing herself at me naked and basically pulling my dick into her vagina. I really want to have an experience where I am not in the mood for sex one night so that when this phrase comes up I can tell the girl that literal…
/r/seduction03/08/18 04:23 PM
5

Canceling that many times in a row is grounds for permanent dismissal.
/r/seduction19/07/18 02:29 PM
16

Fuck Dutch chicks when you’re in Amsterdam not sorority chicks from Idaho.
/r/seduction12/07/18 12:19 AM
1

Look into some social circle game.
/r/seduction07/05/18 07:14 PM
1

FTOB
/r/seduction04/04/18 05:03 PM
1

What about making a connection with her instead of trying to be liked? What about getting to know her and revealing yourself? Also, screening her to see if even care if she likes you.
/r/seduction02/03/18 02:18 AM
3

. What am I going to tell my therapist? "I can get laid". Yes, in addition to everything you’ve posted here. A therapist will help you find a way to break down these barriers that you have put up. It takes long term work to get past these things and it’s beyond the scope of this forum.
/r/seduction29/11/17 06:13 PM
1

Sit close, have media down low, converse intimately, look into her eyes , don’t say too much, if she is looking into your eyes expectantly, go in for the kiss.
/r/seduction24/11/17 10:16 PM
0

werd
/r/seduction04/11/17 02:36 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction15/05/17 10:36 PM
-2

So, you're not actually nice. I see.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:38 PM
0

You're a nice guy.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:24 PM
1

he does seem really into me By what evidence?
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:23 PM
-1

You like to explain shit to chicks and believe what they say instead of what they do.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:22 PM
8

Loner is cheaper.
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:55 PM
1

Might not have. That's not really your problem, is it. You're very focused on outcome here. You do not have to adjust yourself to every other person. Other people can adjust too and if they cannot, perhaps it is not worth your time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI
/r/seduction09/12/16 02:18 PM
2

Learn to approach a group. This is a good opportunity.
/r/seduction09/12/16 11:49 AM
2

You will have to chill and leave more space and time for her to interact if you want the next time to work out. A little mirroring, perhaps.
/r/seduction09/12/16 12:29 AM
1

I have a kid. I don't like them either... but my kid is 19. She has also been a pretty awesome kid for her entire existence. For the most part, I have always been "fuck families".. but, now I get it. The thing is, I had my kid by accident when I was 26. It doesn't work correctly unless you go all in. Your kid isn't cool if you don't treat them excellently the entire time. It is very difficult and I would not advise anyone to wait. I'm so glad I'm not fucking with anything but forking over cash a…
/r/seduction08/12/16 03:42 PM
1

oh god I've gotten old It happens. I'm 45 and I still enjoy sex & women & socializing & all that stuff but I just don't have patience for as much bullshit.. or time. Not to mention, certain issues present themselves, whether you like it or not. I would be careful of putting too much stock in romance but it is definitely smart to start thinking about a lifestyle that lends itself to things that a mature man simply enjoys more... and, not to spook you but.. family has ended up being one of those t…
/r/seduction08/12/16 01:24 PM
1

If you've had some experience with women then you don't have that, "oh my god, I need validation" issue then yea.. it's about time you start looking at the bigger picture and thinking about what kind of life you want to live when you're at the age where chasing pussy is pretty much a hassle.
/r/seduction08/12/16 01:47 AM
0

Straight answer? Stop being a people pleaser and read some books.
/r/seduction19/09/16 06:59 PM
1

Entire books have been written about this.
/r/seduction19/09/16 06:15 PM
6

https://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339
/r/seduction06/09/16 03:47 PM
3

Concentrate on making a kiss happen and don't worry about the quality.
/r/seduction22/07/16 03:56 PM
2

The problem is that bag are designed in a such a way that they do not need to be handed over to another person to watch just because you need to move to another location within a location. (: Also, why do I need another display of trust from the woman I showed up to the party with?
/r/seduction06/07/16 06:19 PM
2

a dick move to refuse Nope. a regular self-respecting adult move.
/r/seduction06/07/16 06:10 PM
16

Stop officially deciding you like a girl.
/r/seduction29/06/16 07:05 PM
-6

No, women will never care how men think because sperm is vastly more abundant than eggs, so stop crying and get some money.
/r/seduction04/05/16 05:51 PM
1

Perhaps you should imagine if this person were an attractive, young, woman and came onto you the same way. Really think about it. Now review how you feel about the scenario. Also, think about how the interaction could have been perfectly authentic, fun and interesting to the bi guy. I think you're right about the interaction being creepy, but mostly because the guy was not attractive to you and he did not assess this about you and just pushed through, doing the same thing.
/r/seduction29/01/16 02:08 PM
1

Sure.. could debate that till the cows come home & not really relevant to the important content of the OP.
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:57 PM
1

"A powerful man" could cover all kinds of things.
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:46 PM
0

Article does not say that but some people don't like hairy pussies. How should they conduct themselves differently, in this case?
/r/seduction14/01/16 06:25 PM
-2

"A woman wants to surrender to a powerful man." Paraphrasing the article.. not quoting. Are you saying women DON'T want this? Because, if you are.. you would be wrong. Don't get hung up on fear of the traditional masculine theme in this one little part of this article, which is an absolutely excellent illustration of how to really work a simple reality in every day life.
/r/seduction14/01/16 06:24 PM
2

Yes
/r/seduction06/01/16 09:44 PM
0

http://bristollair.com/2008/inner-game/nature-reality/secret-society/
/r/seduction05/01/16 07:18 PM
2

Yep
/r/seduction01/01/16 11:22 PM
6

Well, your interpretation sounds more cynical than mine. I just don't think it's cynical to say that someone enjoys validation but is not currently attracted.
/r/seduction01/01/16 11:13 PM
-7

I understand it completely.
/r/seduction01/01/16 11:11 PM
7

Do you think my interpretation is inaccurate? Why is it cynical? What is yours?
/r/seduction01/01/16 11:02 PM
-8

So... What does that mean in the context of the comment I was responding to. It certainly doesn't mean things will be easy, you will always get what you want and never be confused by what a woman says. Not by a long shot.
/r/seduction01/01/16 10:44 PM
-10

Having a girlfriend is great and better than dating in most cases but it is not the end of "playing the game" by any stretch.
/r/seduction01/01/16 10:26 PM
21

Not that confusing. You pretty much got it "Thanks, I enjoyed the validation but I'm not into you." When you're "out of the dating game", you've given up on your sexual agenda.
/r/seduction01/01/16 08:25 PM
1

Nice.
/r/seduction08/12/15 05:18 PM
2

I'm not reading it again and doing the "breaking free" activities,.. That's dumb. http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums
/r/seduction24/11/15 01:44 PM
3

Face the fact that they know what you're up to and be proud that you are doing it.
/r/seduction23/11/15 03:22 PM
1

goodlookingloser is probably more up to date but in a similar vein.
/r/seduction04/11/15 08:17 PM
-8

"My penis feels weird."
/r/seduction03/11/15 05:39 PM
1

..unless she just really wanted to get high.
/r/seduction14/10/15 04:01 AM
1

But my point is really to say that "pull the girl" means she was attracted to you and there's no indication of that here.
/r/seduction13/10/15 08:36 PM
1

smoke
/r/seduction13/10/15 08:35 PM
1

You didn't pull the girl. You just got a girl to come to your house by offering her a gift.
/r/seduction13/10/15 03:36 PM
1

(great game and money) Yes.
/r/seduction12/10/15 07:43 PM
1

I will add that said long term benefits are few and finding a woman who will reliably provide said benefits while minimizing certain risks is REALLY hard to find. (:
/r/seduction08/10/15 08:04 PM
2

Some of my friends suggest this is an unhealthy view towards women and that I will never have a long, fulfilling relationship. How is it unhealthy if a "long, fulfilling relationship" is not something you care about? I wonder if there really are any benefits to a long term relationship. Yes, there are but they don't really have anything to do with sex. I believe your mindset does not require changing until you become interested in the benefits of a long term relationship that do not involve sex.
/r/seduction08/10/15 03:22 PM
1

Congratulations for approaching someone. but... I don't frequent this sub but wtf do they talk about in here? "Hey".. wait for her to acknowledge... "how's it going." ..didn't cross your mind?
/r/seduction06/10/15 08:15 PM
2

He just has some basic traditional dance moves (spin the girl) and the comfort to be able to kind of wing it. Using the moves when he can, not trying to force anything. Flowing with the music. Also.. leading.
/r/seduction16/08/15 09:09 PM
1

Most of it.
/r/seduction08/07/15 02:20 PM
-8

Your face is a horrible suggestion. (:
/r/seduction17/04/15 06:49 PM
-6

"Let's meet at place at 5." Then, an hour before: "Hey.. I'm running behind with this cat flossing. Can you come to my place & we can go from here?" Then when she comes over invite her in and do "stuff".
/r/seduction17/04/15 05:20 PM
2

Nothing feels the same every time.
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:55 PM
1

Dress sexy & go to the bar where people like you hang out. Chat with dudes. Buy dudes drinks. Ask dudes for cigarettes or lights. Ask dudes to help you pick music on the juke box. Ask girls to introduce you to dudes. Ask dudes to play pool or darts... etc. Pick a dude that seems like he could follow through or at least, really likes you (that you also find attractive). Keep talking to this dude. Don't get too drunk. If he leaves or talks to another girl, don't let this effect your mood. He may c…
/r/seduction23/03/15 02:59 PM
1

That is the forum I was talking about. I think some users on that forum have a chat forum of some type. Some of them chat one on one through various mediums.
/r/seduction15/03/15 06:51 PM
2

You still have to talk to them and may have to approach. If there's someone you want to hang out with after the gig, you may have to be direct about this to avoid them leaving when youre packing gear.
/r/seduction14/03/15 04:47 PM
7

There are exercises in those books. You don't change by reading a book, you change by applying the principles, through action, over time. There's also a forum inspired by NMMNG.
/r/seduction14/03/15 04:17 PM
1

Learn to read lips.
/r/seduction07/03/15 04:02 AM
-1

Do all men ONLY want sex? Of course not. I'm glad we could finally come to an understanding about that.
/r/seduction26/02/15 06:23 PM
3

Which is fine, except that saying "all men just want sex" is an untrue statement and kind of insulting and stupid and not something I am willing to validate and I do not feel that this particularly invalidates anyone's personal feelings about past negative experiences.
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:16 PM
2

It's a good response but let's look at why, instead of just calling it a field tested line: "All guys just want sex." is technically, not a shit test. It is a pathological response to her own negative bullshit and emotional victim puking. It's basically something to be dismissed as something you don't have time to listen to and the quoted response addresses that in a slick way. It probably works very well if you actually want to deal with immature women who tend to spout such bs. (:
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:34 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C1pyGAeHN54
/r/seduction24/02/15 09:32 PM
2

Sounds to me like you should work on the issues that are causing you to "feel like a little bitch" regardless of gaming.
/r/seduction13/02/15 03:42 PM
3

For those who have never had the experience of reading anything erotic or anything near it, it was new and they recommended it to friends. It blew up because of that. Exactly.. and this is why no one should hate this book. If you meet a chick and she raves about this or Twilight or Harry Potter then you know she hasn't read much else and this is simply useful information.
/r/seduction12/02/15 03:38 PM
0

I would just wait & text her in a few days.
/r/seduction02/02/15 05:47 PM
1

Social circle game is a thing too.
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:31 PM
1

Do you wear hearing aids?
/r/seduction28/01/15 03:43 PM
18

The deal is not that someone would not want another friend but when a woman says "let's just be friends" that does not mean jack shit about becoming actual friends. Think about your real friends and what it took for those relationships to develop.
/r/seduction26/01/15 04:14 PM
4

So.. kissless neckbeadrs, take op's advice but learn how to escalate too.
/r/seduction23/01/15 09:23 PM
-1

Her heart is already broken.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:58 PM
3

Things she didn't Say: Be unpredictable. Make a move. That's what the analogy is about. That article doesn't talk about the dude she takes home.
/r/seduction21/01/15 02:57 PM
1

Because she doesn't want to and she can easily go out with a guy who does. Do you want to go out with her or not?
/r/seduction21/01/15 02:37 PM
1

He botched his metaphor too. The issue is not someone being beneath someone, this issue is the inability of women to communicate the things which can help a man be successful in dating and the inability of men to decipher what women are saying when they try. This particular list was ok.
/r/seduction21/01/15 02:36 PM
1

I don't see where the medium has anything to do with it. I'm just commenting on the way the invitation was phrased. I mean.. I'd still go over to her house, unless I was also texting the chick that usually just says "come over right now I'm fucking horny".
/r/seduction19/01/15 11:56 PM
1

"you can come over, if you want.".. I'm sorry, that sounds like a little kid. I understand the meaning behind it and I know it gets said a lot and yes, I think it's immature. I mean.. it's not that big of a deal but yes, immature.
/r/seduction19/01/15 11:42 PM
1

I hear what you're saying and agree but, to me it's immature behavior.
/r/seduction19/01/15 05:45 PM
0

"You can come over, if you want..." doesn't sound like much of an invitation.
/r/seduction19/01/15 03:56 PM
2

Pick something more interesting than a movie to do and dont tell her till youre ob the way. "Hey, lets go do this instead."
/r/seduction17/01/15 08:42 PM
2

Ejecting is Mark's response to a possible shit test.
/r/seduction15/01/15 05:15 PM
1

Yes, I see that control was an issue for her, in this case... or the comfort of feeling she was more in control.
/r/seduction08/12/14 08:45 PM
1

Yea.. I get that, but .....couldn't she have just walked right up to the guy she wanted & just smiled? I mean.. of course, I understand women rarely do that sort of thing but... she probably could have. In any case, how would you use the technique?
/r/seduction08/12/14 07:31 PM
8

If she was hot Im not sure how that was technique to attract as much as just a fun game for her.
/r/seduction07/12/14 05:40 AM
1

Whoever downvoted this is a dipshit. The statement "I have a boyfriend" does not mean a hell of a lot followed by the action of giving her phone number to a guy. Sure, factually, it means she has a boyfriend. Most attractive women have boyfriends.
/r/seduction22/11/14 09:19 PM
-1

If she gave you her phone number then ask her out and just consider her "boyfriend" as a competing suitor.
/r/seduction20/11/14 09:10 PM
6

I like what is said about rejection there.
/r/seduction20/11/14 06:26 PM
13

werd
/r/seduction06/11/14 05:01 PM
19

-Girls always leave somewhere to go. from the last thing they said. No comprende.
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:51 PM
1

Im an old school pothead and I had a cookie that fucked me up for 3 days earlier this year.
/r/seduction19/10/14 06:53 PM
7

Yea.. and then she'll want me to choke her every time we fuck and pay her bills so she can quit stripping. Nothanks. (:
/r/seduction13/10/14 04:04 PM
13

I would use this, except I'm afraid one of them will go for it and I don't want to pee in anyone's butt.
/r/seduction13/10/14 03:47 PM
4

Having morals kind of precludes dropping them. Having morals means you don't get to drop them. You're kind of victim puking here. You're wrapped up in seeing yourself as a victim instead of solving a problem or achieving a goal.
/r/seduction06/10/14 06:30 PM
1

Having morals kind of precludes dropping them. You're kind of victim puking here.
/r/seduction06/10/14 06:23 PM
1

http://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339
/r/seduction06/10/14 05:51 PM
2

Anyways, I’m just wondering if going out and meeting women requires a completely fucked up moral compass. It kind of does if you want to hit & quit the type of chicks that your 3 friends are.
/r/seduction06/10/14 05:15 PM
1

Morality is defined by Biology I would say "Morality is informed by biology." would be more accurate.
/r/seduction06/10/14 05:12 PM
6

I have it. I use condoms and if things get a bit more serious and we consider not using condoms we talk about it and ask if they have been vaccinated.
/r/seduction24/09/14 03:49 PM
1

Being nice is stupid.
/r/seduction04/09/14 04:17 PM
21

Groom yourself and prepare your mind to not give a fuck.
/r/seduction22/08/14 05:39 PM
1

http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums/index.php
/r/seduction14/08/14 08:26 PM
3

You should go up to a girl and ask her to apply your chapstick for you because you're afraid you'll miss a spot.
/r/seduction11/08/14 08:30 PM
0

I suppose it's technically sound.
/r/seduction04/08/14 08:02 PM
1

I don't know hardly any girls in real life at all. Not to be an ass, but I would start with reviewing some basic grammar and speaking skills.
/r/seduction04/08/14 05:34 PM
1

Ok.. I understand your expanded definition of white night. I just didn't notice anything specifically submissive about anything he was advocating. Certainly his advice on being independent could not be considered submissive. I get the "goddess" thing. To me that's a little new-agey and some of what he said could be considered to be aligned with feminism but I'm not seeing where he is misinterpreting what women are attracted to, which is the primary issue with the "white night" thing. I would hav…
/r/seduction01/08/14 05:41 PM
1

Ok... I get the cultural reference, kind of. Im not sure this guy is trying to "save the girl" in that naive, chivalrous way. What part of his rhetoric is "white nighting" and in what way?
/r/seduction01/08/14 01:02 AM
1

I'm digging your criticism here but what does "white-nighting" even mean?
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:35 PM
0

I don't believe you have to force a girl into her feminine, by "ploughing", or "getting past last minute resistance", "working around obstacles", or any kind of militaristic strategy. I agree but I think that you and Dosaxtic are on a different page with the "dressing in miniskirts" being masculine. I think he is saying that this is a "masculine frame" in the sense that it is an aggressive tactic in response to a sexual market frame and that he sees women as coming from a sexual market frame. As…
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:27 PM
2

Great points about the language but I would love to see a more direct response to what DosaxticPoo wrote about the concept of women being in a masculine frame and pickup culture as a response to that.
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:25 PM
2

Great answer.
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:49 PM
1

Anybody home?
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:41 PM
2

How to you feel about the statement "Don't put the pussy on a pedestal." and how do feel your use of the term "goddess" relates to that?
/r/seduction31/07/14 04:15 PM
1

Unless you're an atheist.
/r/seduction29/07/14 03:56 PM
3

A purpose: career, goals besides getting laid, special talent, creative pursuit, work for a cause.. etc.
/r/seduction22/07/14 02:19 PM
1

Good job. Thankfully you didn't get stabbed by this insane freak.
/r/seduction10/07/14 01:31 PM
1

As with all visual douchebaggery, you'd be surprised how well it works in the right setting (i.e. night clubs).
/r/seduction08/07/14 04:32 PM
4

Excellent! What the hell is a Phelbotomist!? Who cares. Next time order Tullamore Dew (best Irish Whiskey). I too love girls with black hair that love whiskey and Irish Pubs. Can't wait to hear about date 2!
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:27 PM
61

Good job. Good report. I love nurses.
/r/seduction20/06/14 07:45 PM
1

Does it? I guess it depends on the interpretation of the concept of "deserve".
/r/seduction18/06/14 11:39 PM
9

much deserved coitus You can believe you deserve coitus all day long, but ultimately, you have to convince someone else to participate.
/r/seduction17/06/14 02:33 PM
1

Become adequate.
/r/seduction09/06/14 08:42 PM
7

Yes, "No More Mr. Nice Guy" is all about the individual taking responsibility for their own happiness. There is however, a small section that acknowledges feminism's historical role in a social construct that contributes to what Dr. Glover refers to as "Nice Guy Syndrome" but it is not blaming of one specific thing and it doesn't really delve into any political issues beyond that. This is, however, a gender specific program that deals primarily with issues associated with heterosexual men and ma…
/r/seduction09/06/14 07:44 PM
4

It's more about resolving conflicts within yourself that result from an unrewarding outlook on life. I wouldn't call it feminist-friendly, necessarily, but it certainly doesn't "pit various genders against each other." There's a forum inspired by the book: http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums/index.php Reading the book and practicing the exercises within would be much more beneficial to anyone than discussing it without having done so.
/r/seduction09/06/14 07:15 PM
1

The issue for me is that she dictated the evenings events and the money thing was highly secondary, at that point.
/r/seduction05/06/14 01:29 PM
2

What is the problem they need to fix?
/r/seduction02/06/14 02:14 AM
1

It's similar, unless you are adjusting your own behavior based on an assumption of what another person thinks, then it's precisely the same. What you're saying is that it is consideration. That your wife should consider you in her decision making process, in this case, which is fine, but perhaps a bit of nitpicky case, imho. One thing to consider is that it's reaching quite a bit to associate this with shit testing, which indicates that you may be looking for shit tests, which, in turn, indicate…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 05:18 PM
2

Outcome dependence.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 04:34 PM
1

...I had a pre-assumption... etc. ...I even got a second apology via text this morning and she realizes she should have told me. So my method of handling it worked. Well, I guess you win the battle of whether or not your SO needs to read your mind. The question is, will you win the war. (:
/r/askTRP30/05/14 04:07 PM
2

Why even consider whether someone is validated or not. Why gauge the "proportions" of your actions based on another's "approach".
/r/askTRP30/05/14 03:54 PM
1

But your assumption that she should inform you before posting anything on facebook is a covert contract.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 03:50 PM
2

So, are you saying that you SO is not adequately communicating with you about your child's education? Have you addressed this issue with her before? Why not discuss it directly? So, she posted some good news on facebook. Chicks do that. Covert contract.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 03:03 PM
2

I don't think she was ever leaning towards plate. She's just a girl having fun and you ended up in her reality. Why wouldn't you appear into someone if you are. The question is, are you "into" a girl for the right reasons (i.e., she's genuinely attractive to you and interesting, as opposed to just some random chick that seems into YOU).
/r/askTRP30/05/14 02:58 PM
2

I do my best to stay out of any situation where I may end up in a fight. It's stupid.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 05:59 PM
1

Have you ever been hit by woman? I'm 43 years old, been with lots of girls and I've only encountered physical violence from a woman once and she was my girlfriend and did not strike me. I would question why I am considering this question and how I might avoid ever being in that situation.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 04:14 PM
2

I would examine why I may be frequently getting into arguments with feminists in the first place.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 04:08 PM
2

"They say never change who 'you are' ...". No they don't. They say never change who you are for someone else.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 04:06 PM
1

You're hanging in the wrong circles. If you're going to game people that are in a higher income bracket then you need a higher income... (acknowledging the exception of the occasional richer slumming for fun).
/r/askTRP29/05/14 04:03 PM
2

Yea, she's into you, emotional and a has a little bit of sexual shame thing going on. There's nothing in your post that denotes crazy or is out of the ordinary for a young woman. She sounds a bit immature, tho. It's kinds of endearing.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 03:50 PM
1

Every man should take moment to look at his role in "getting fucked over" in a relationship.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 03:42 PM
1

Why not just ask her directly. Look her in the eye and say: "Do want to get coffee with me tomorrow?" Whatever answer she gives, smile, accept it and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 09:22 PM
4

If she "likes that shit" so much, why did she go home with another dude?
/r/askTRP27/05/14 08:38 PM
1

She's not that cool. Just like the sister thing, she would come up with two bullshit obstacles a week.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 03:45 PM
2

Establish what you want from a LTR before hand and stick to your guns. For example, I know right now that I dont want an LTR texting other dudes suggestively & thats all there is to it.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 05:46 PM
19

Tell him everything in this post, just as it is here. Lay it on the line. Regardless if you stay with him or not, give him the truth. It will be your greatest gift to him.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 02:56 PM
4

Check out No More Mr Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 07:05 PM
10

The first rule of Fight Club is dont talk about Fight Club. The second rule of Fight Club is DONT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:11 PM
14

"Hmmm, I don't know.." "Let me get a better look at you." inquisitive face "Ok, now turn around." "Ok, now bend over." etc.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:45 PM
4

There is a forum inspired by No More Mr. Nice Guy. I have found it helpful and enjoyable: http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums/index.php
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:07 PM
1

I like tents and fire and guns so I probably wouldve hung out & talked to the guy for a bit but yea... contextually, she wouldve been nexted.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:01 AM
2

I think there is a place for taking it to the law, especially if an example could be made but that's a delicate call and op asked about frame specifically.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 02:40 AM
2

I see the points but I'm not sure how damaging it is. I think most people are able to be honest with themselves about reality. I see trp as more of a safe haven from political correctness.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:03 PM
4

Humorously cower in fear, play victim of assault.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 08:33 PM
2

I would ask myself why I am living with, contemplating having a family with, supporting financially and contemplating purchasing a depreciating asset for a woman who "needs to lose 25-30 pounds, is not sexually receptive (not attracted enough), and is often lazy around the house."
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:30 PM
0

FYI: It's a quality read. Should be side bar material.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 04:35 PM
2

Hell yes.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:21 PM
1

..or, invent a time machine, go back in time, start lifting, then when you reach the present... keep lifting. (:
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 09:23 PM
2

You can't help this man, unless you simply want to become his friend and lead by example. You can, however, tell your wife to stop hanging around shitty women in fucked up relationships.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:50 PM
2

FTOW - Haven't used that one in a while. (:
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:23 PM
1

Not vicious. Accurate... except we don't know for sure that college girl is cheating. We're sure she's got beta orbiters galore tho.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:45 PM
9

Shouldn't have gone past one or two responses from you.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 05:25 PM
5

The purpose of marriage, for a man, is to secure his influence over his offspring. If society, family courts and the woman cannot offer this guarantee then it's worthless. If you're not interested in having children then marriage seems like beyond dumb.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 03:40 PM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/25owky/askwomen_thread_about_sugar_daddiesredpill_truths/
/r/askTRP17/05/14 09:02 AM
1

You haven't read the sugar daddy thread.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 12:08 AM
4

My friend is married to a Romanian girl. She cooks, keeps house & plays the harp. She wants kids. She's really cool.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 07:00 PM
-5

This content is tired.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 03:27 PM
1

Well.. this is where parenting comes into play. I have a daughter. Her education will be paid for primarily through scholarships, I've been very good to her over the years and taught her many old school values. Primarily though, I provide an example by helping out my own parents.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 03:13 PM
5

I don't know. I think he came of chill, genuine and confident.
/r/seduction14/05/14 09:47 PM
0

The primary purpose of marriage, for a man, is to insure his influence over his offspring. Also, you neckbeards keep forgetting that you can raise your kids to take care of you when you get old.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 08:28 PM
1

It should make you feel that you can get more out of your relationships than before.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 08:25 PM
3

Forget college. Keep working. Practice your axe more. Start writing songs now. Save a shitload of cash and move to L.A. within a year... oh, and don't fuck around with drugs and whores when you get there. Work your ass off at getting a real gig.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 06:10 PM
4

Also.. you might be over emphasizing having plans. Meet at a coffee shop. Take her grocery shopping. Have a picnic. Come over and watch Game of Thrones... whatever. It doesn't have to be cool.. you're cool. Make everywhere you are the coolest place in the universe. "Wow, this fucking grocery store has everything!" exaggerating.
/r/seduction14/05/14 05:43 PM
2

Have plans. Get a life. Your whole life should become a "plan". "Hey, I'm going to (cool event, place, thing) this thurs.. you should come with."
/r/seduction14/05/14 05:41 PM
0

"I'm a Federal Mattress Inspector."
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 04:09 PM
1

The are helping, as is participating in this forum: http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums/index.php
/r/askTRP13/05/14 09:13 PM
1

Workin on them.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 09:12 PM
2

Keep it going.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 09:08 PM
1

I wonder about this myself.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 01:35 AM
1

This is some fascinating shit right here.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:35 PM
1

Fuckit.. try going the other route & see how it works for ya.
/r/seduction12/05/14 06:24 PM
4

-DTF -Wants more sex. -Doesn't give a fuck but is generally polite. (:
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 03:41 PM
-2

It's a little out of date and it's boring to read a woman bitching about her own gender after a couple of pages. The existence of this piece is very interesting in a historical context, however.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 03:20 PM
3

I dig the idea that feminism is attempting to increase the sexual opportunities of feminists but it kind of goes against the idea that women could get as much sex as they want if they just asked for it.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 02:56 PM
2

3/4 finished w the book.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 10:57 PM
1

Ive been doing keto. Tough to get going but it feels good.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 04:27 PM
1

I can wake & bake, work my ass off for 8 hours, attend an hour & a half jiujutsu class, go out and guzzle whiskey all night & I get home & feel like I just drank 10 cups of coffee. I'm sorry about your gears. (:
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:22 PM
1

This shit fucks with my mind hard-core... being a plain spoken man with, historically, no use for politics.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 12:34 PM
0

W/e? For some reason I thought you were talking about dealing with feminists.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 01:04 AM
4

That's an interesting statement. Would you mind expanding, especially on the using that knowledge to your advantage part?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 08:36 PM
-2

Secret Society! Was it Juggler that first coined the term?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 08:06 PM
1

So... nothing I need bother myself about then.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:44 PM
3

How so?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:42 PM
-1

What is SRS?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 02:19 PM
3

You know, there are some quality materials out there and I've read a lot of it but after a while too much info gets in the way. To me, formulating some basic goals and taking the initiative to build skills through real, natural interaction, has worked best. If you're running out of things to say, that is a very specific problem to address. Well, first of all, is it really a problem? Do you really have to be saying a lot of stuff? What is your goal? Your goal is to have an enjoyable and interesti…
/r/seduction07/05/14 04:36 PM
5

That PUA crap is made to make people money and needlessly complicates matters. If you need to become a better conversationalist, simply focus on improving that skill.
/r/seduction07/05/14 03:24 PM
6

That's the whole idea of domestication. Dude gets tied down & he's more productive to the system.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:40 PM
2

LMR is such a "seduction community" term. There's a gazillion reasons why a woman could decide she does not want to have sex or simply enjoy everything, up to that last point. It's kind of a waste of time to worry about it too much. There's not some magic formula that will prevent it from happening and it's not a good idea to over analyze what you are doing, when it gets to that point. Best to simply enjoy yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:40 PM
2

Don't wait. Check out a school near you and join asap. They will throw you on the floor your first day. You will sweat and gasp and feel nauseous and afterwards you will feel like a million fucking dollars.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:36 PM
1

Sounds like the folks giving out Pulitzers don't like men very much.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:34 PM
4

Don't forget that a woman will make out with you & let you put your hand down there and never have any intention of fucking you, whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:25 PM
2

Which is why I just joined a Jiujutsu class.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 02:05 PM
1

I was at work before and checking it out now but thanks for the tips guys!
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 12:33 AM
-12

I Googled Good Looking Loser and there's a website just for that. Would you post a brief description of the community.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 02:35 PM
1

"Is your asshole tight?", really? I'll need to see the youtube on that one.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 09:11 PM
2

I think its funny. Tinder is only an app for hooking up if youre able to hook up with it. All of those lines were pretty fucking ridiculous. Jesus people cmon.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 10:57 PM
2

The status of the relationship need not enter into the convo, in this case. I see this as an opportunity to plainly commicate what is working for you about this person.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 07:25 PM
2

I am very visually attracted to the types of women in the attached pics but I'm a somewhat smaller man and the logistics work better with a smaller woman. Most of TRP's ire for fatness is really about rejecting a culture of acceptance of everything no matter if it's unattractive or unhealthy. Then, of course there's plenty of locker room style chatter that gets kind of intellectually ignored as part of a male-centric background noise thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/14 06:13 PM
2

I read the Tao a lot when I was younger. I remember it having a calming effect. I think it's great for state of mind if not for specific philosophy or values. The Tao doesn't value much of anything, other than peace. I think it's a great reference for frame building.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 01:06 PM
3

Hmm.. well, the pussy wouldn't die off or anything. Indeed if men were more intelligent, in general, that would make the competition more difficult.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 01:00 PM
1

Funny stuff.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 09:46 PM
1

Getting your shit together really can't be emphasized enough and there's no shortcut to it. You just gotta do the work. I should re-read Pook.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 07:25 PM
1

A wedding/party band. I never used to make my bed at all. I thought it was dumb but I started to try and have a neat and clean space to work in or have a nicely decorated home so I had to lose that bad habit. It really hit me when I was doing construction work out of town and sharing a hotel room with my helper who was in a lower station of the trade hierarchy. He was young and untrained in my trade but was ex military and made his bed perfectly every morning and it impressed me. I still can't d…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 07:22 PM
3

If they inspire respect, sure... but you don't have to ask advice from them, just hang out with them. Just spend time with men who you notice people look up to and respect. Become their friends, provide them with service, observe and absorb.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 07:18 PM
1

I found that one and Way of the Superior Man to be a little poetic for my tastes. The stuff that is a little more matter of fact based worked better for me.. although, the Tao is highly poetic. I think the poetic stuff can help but starting out, one needs to really understand what's going on and be able to analyze their behaviors and thought patterns.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:47 PM
27

If dudes would stop being dipshits, bitches wouldnt get their jack.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:36 PM
2

First do some reading. Side bar and some quality books. I would suggest No More Mr. Nice Guy and Models. Keep in mind that a lot of this stuff is written by people that are selling books and ads but concentrate on the basic theories. You really have to train yourself to be in a place where you know you can walk away from anything. You can let go of anything and move on with your life if it is not aligned with your ideals. Another reading suggestion: Tao Te Ching <--- this is just to get your hea…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:08 PM
2

You will be busy but, of course, all of those things are awesome. Swimming was the only competitive sport I was ever good at. Right now I am doing habit building. I take one very specific thing and do it like a robot until I feel I have a real habit. My first was making my bed every morning no matter what. I got that down. Now I'm tweaking my getting quality sleep ritual. This mostly involves crafting a bedtime ritual and consistent scheduling. I'm still tweaking it. Also, I have a side business…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:02 PM
6

Equality is not only a luxury but a completely artificial construct. That is not to say that is isn't good and that we shouldn't have it. Actually, as a society, we long ago decided that we should have it. The problem is that the elite simply use the fight for equality as another tool for control and profit. The one's who get screwed will always change and the ones who feel like they are winning the fight for equality are just helping the elite fuck everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/14 05:35 PM
10

Actually, he passed the shit test in a rather cool and affectionate manner. As long as your frame is an impenetrable monolith, you don't need the snarky retorts... unless you are actually bored.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:09 PM
16

Sounds like fun.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 03:27 PM
19

Shit test.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:57 PM
3

"pussy-whipped male Sonderkommandos".... :D
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:24 PM
2

The comments are ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 01:09 PM
0

This is important. I don't know if people realize how much our freedom of thought is impacted by worrying about being politically correct. Yes. I find the fact that someone felt the need to post an entire thread about being offended by something that is mildly humorous, at worst, to be ridiculous... but hey, I'm bored at work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/14 12:58 PM
0

Well, he's provided a topic for people to bitch about on purplepill, so he's an entertainer. I think it can be good for people to be uncomfortable at times. Anything to break the sad politically correct pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 10:45 PM
0

I can see how the anti-feminist tone of the "black knighting" trp post in question could be off-putting but none of the actual dialogue he suggests using seems very hurtful and telling a woman she's a woman, using metaphors and subversively disqualifying seems innocuous at worst. Most of it sounds like my Dad joking with my Mom... who are still married at 67.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 09:20 PM
3

Well, I have a daughter and I've treated her really well. The best I can hope for is that she will take care of me when I'm old. Being old is going to suck for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 08:44 PM
1

Absolute and unquestionable loyalty, friendship, consideration, affection, romance, experience, intelligence, strength, resolve, creativity, talent, technical skills, comfort, protection, fun and serenity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 08:16 PM
2

"Women are machiavellian in nature, this means they are comparatively proficient at being manipulative versus the typical male." I'm not sure the two parts of that sentence should be connected. The second part makes the point that women have the potential to be better at manipulation than men. The first part really goes with the rest of that paragraph, with the thing about women developing Machiavellian-ism as a weapon out of their lack of physical strength. This is definitely separate from the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 04:18 PM
1

What part of the sidebar, specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 03:50 PM
1

I'm not sure Machiavellian would be the proper term for the redpill ideas about women. Solipsistic is the term often used and that's a lot different. The difference would be a level of awareness and determination.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 03:44 PM
1

He should stick to writing awesome science fiction. His blog is mostly annoying.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:13 PM
1

I mean that the imperative "I want to live." can be thought of and discussed philosophically even while it may be biologically driven. You have a point that is logical to adhere to this imperative but I still think it's a unique situation in which it may be thought of and discussed in a philosophical way... but I may not have a clear definition of philosophical. I'm just thinking it means to delve deeper into the idea in a way that may not strictly be logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 06:27 PM
2

Maybe.. unless we talk it in a circle for an hour. Then it's philosophical. (:
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 05:07 PM
1

I'm sure this wouldn't work in every situation but there's got to be a proper "scorched earth" divorce defense guide out there. If there isn't.. there should be.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:40 PM
1

I'm sure it is. I'm not sure how important that fact is. If something that is manifesting itself as a conscious and philosophical thought in our brain then its IS a conscious and philosophical thought to us. Next we'll be going over the thing where the neurons causing the decision to take a sip of coffee fired 2 seconds before the thought occurred to us consciously. So what.. as far as we're concerned we decided to take a sip of coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 04:28 PM
2

No one deserves to be cheated on but if you roll around in shit you're going to smell bad.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:10 PM
2

Perhaps, but I feel like the situation manifests itself in such a way that we perceive the two simultaneous threads and therefore, for all intents and purposes they exist. I'm sure I could've explained all of this better. I've never studied philosophy or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 04:09 PM
1

yep.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 03:36 PM
3

I wonder what would happen if you posted this in a women's sub.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 03:32 PM
2

Perhaps one could say that there is a biological imperative and a completely separate philosophical one, in operation simultaneously, in the case of "I want to live".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 03:29 PM
8

I haven't really perused it but I've heard lots of good things about the various resources on this site: http://marriedmansexlife.com/
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 03:15 PM
1

I have to admit that I have not had a similar experience as those above (or below?). I have a lot of friends and several women who would probably call me their friends but to me, they're acquaintances. There are a couple that I know very well but the only time I hear from them is when they need something and I could never count on them to bail me out or even listen if I wanted to talk. I have a mother and a sister, however and I could count on either of them for anything... same with several of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 01:24 PM
1

specific facet of AWALT I'm not sure if I'm aware of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 06:58 PM
19

"Shamelessness is the lube that greases the asshole of a civilization about to get rammed into obliteration." Holy shit that's a quote right there.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 06:21 PM
5

He meant you need to talk to a lot of girls.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:57 PM
5

So, does this mean I don't have sit next to any stinking rug rats on my flight.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 04:15 PM
2

(:
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 04:12 PM
-1

I feel the major issue that is not outwardly communicated in TRP but is likely fueling much of the rhetoric that op is referencing has to do with the feeling that female friends tend to pull away from friendships with male friends when they enter into serious relationships, in a way that fundamentally changes the friendship and that male to male friendships are held to a standard in which "pulling away" happens with the basic tenets of the friendship remaining intact. Much of the anger and blami…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 03:27 PM
2

My question for any man claiming to have many female "friends" is, do you invest as much in these friendships as you do in your male friendships, how long have these relationships lasted compared to those with your male friends and do you feel as much loyalty and reliability coming from these relationships? Also, do you have close male friends? Do you have a friend that would bail you out of jail? do you have a friend that would drive an hour in the rain to jump your car off? Do you have a femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 03:20 PM
1

I agree but that doesn't really impact the decision for a man to invest in a friendship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 03:09 PM
1

TRPers don't always express themselves very well, on this subject. The deeper issue is not that female friends are not quality friends, it's that they inevitably leave the friendship for a relationship, which is a major problem considering the importance most men place on loyalty within their friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 02:40 PM
0

AWALT isn't so much concerned with intelligence and culture but with behavior towards the opposite sex in the context of a heterosexual dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 02:36 PM
5

abstruse I learned a new word.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 02:30 PM
6

Some techniques apply, some don't. The best thing to do with men is just accentuate your physical assets, be nice and communicate your intentions very plainly.
/r/seduction28/04/14 02:16 PM
1

Everyone is.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 09:41 AM
1

Anyone's opinion is more valid to them than an opposite I suppose. I'm not sure the bias on the specific qualities you suggested really exists on the sub. I do think the sub is populated with a lot of angry young men and that anger comes from an experience. I think to say that these experiences are limited, is probably true, but it's a bit of a stretch to specify what those experiences are limited to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 09:29 AM
3

Any selection bias observed has to do with the demographic of active users. TRP theories could be applied to any and all social situations. Intellectual interests in the opposite sex is a preference like blonde hair or sense of humor so perhaps doesnt come up often in discussions of sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/14 07:20 PM
1

So basically concentrate on what you want and either she adapts or she doesnt, right?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 06:59 PM
2

Cool. So what parts of a frame are more sustainable or not.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 04:14 PM
6

Neither you or her will be happy in her unrealistic frame, create a sustainable frame and let her imagination adapt. Would you expand on this one a bit?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 03:19 PM
1

This is tough to quantify with my folks. They are two unicorns that found each other in a different time. Mom and Dad come from traditional religious backgrounds. Dad is a war veteran, married Mom when he got out. They were virgins. My folks never drank or smoked. They're still married in their 60s and are pretty much still in love with each other. Dad is a carpenter who once had a thriving business and then worked in a high position in corporate construction. Mom is an xray tech and she worked …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 02:31 PM
2

I'm 43. Guitar isn't as cool as it once was overall. Local culture plays into it as well. I live in a whitebread conservative town. Women here like what women all over the world like: status and security, but they have less room to brach out into eclectic shit. It's not cool here, except in certain circles. I got play with my guitar all the way to about 36 but I look young and they were younger women. Guitar players seem cool when you're still trying to break away from Daddy. They're no longer c…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:38 PM
6

In short: The problem is being butthurt about reality. Don't be butthurt.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:10 PM
1

Yea... I always thought they had cool lyrical imagery.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:57 PM
1

The goals are opposing but the idea is to recognize that reality and accept it as good.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:46 PM
1

I used to do mountain biking a lot. I got tired of always having to spend money on the bike and plus, there are no mountains here. (:
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:08 PM
1

bouldering What is that?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:05 PM
1

This is what I want to get back into. I crashed a bunch of hot rods when I was younger.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:03 PM
2

That opening scene freaks me out every time.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:02 PM
1

That's cool. My brother used to grow muscadines and make wine.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:01 PM
2

I play gigs like that too. I used to do that exclusively. I rode around in a shitty van, sleeping on crusty floors playing punk shows back in the day. I love to write songs. Most of them I don't even perform. Sometimes I just do it for my own amusement. There are 4 bands that I'm working with now. 3 of them are all original music. One of them doesn't even do gigs. We might eventually but it's mostly for the fun of hanging out & drinking beers. I have a cover band that is specifically for making …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:58 PM
6

Girl's my age aren't much into it. The most attention I get from a woman for my guitar playing is when the bride at a wedding gig complains that we're too loud or asks us to play some "rap music". I did get some attention back in the day, though. In general it's good for just being out and meeting new people.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:26 PM
13

I play the guitar. I do so semi-professionally so, technically, it's not a hobby but there is so much that one can do with music, it is a hobby, as well. I play bar gigs for money but I sit around and learn songs I like, make up tunes & record them and play in indie bands for fun.. so it's a hobby too. I basically grew up with it and got serious about it when I was a teen. Fitness is a bit of a hobby, as well. I would like to get into it more but there's only so many hours in a day.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:42 PM
8

That is an astute observation.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:25 PM
8

I wish there was tag that let you know if a post involves any dudes under 25.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 08:19 PM
1

I noticed Patrick Bateman showed up in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 08:12 PM
7

This is the most important political issue in the western world.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 09:16 PM
1

Which is funny because... starving children in Africa. Same thing when my Dad said I better clean my plate, but he's saying it to grown ups who forgot that shit. ..but yes, again.. politically he is a feminist apologist and sprinkles that into his act, which is probably part of what has really brought him the mainstream dough.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 09:13 PM
2

His TV show employs a lot of sadness. It's all very existential and what not. It's fairly landmark content for a mainstream show. Comedy employs sadness. "Everything human is pathetic. The secret source of Humor itself is not joy but sorrow. There is no humor in heaven." ~Mark Twain
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 09:01 PM
1

...and he wrote it.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 07:44 PM
5

Louis CK is a skilled writer, filmmaker and a badass stand-up comedian and yes... one of the leading feminist apologists of our time. ...and.. he's fat a bald and makes jokes about racism. ..and.. he also makes bank and is probably getting laid by hot young actress tail as we speak. ..again.. yes, I agree, he is a feminist. His show is still very entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 07:41 PM
3

If you acquiesce your loyalty before they've earned it, it's a huge turn off. Of course. Giving loyalty anything that is unworthy is beyond beta and into the realm of extinction level stupidity and a woman's attraction is built to prevent extinction.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 07:09 PM
1

This should probably be in the top 10.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 05:00 PM
2

It is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 02:59 PM
14

I can never remember how that movie goes.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 10:42 PM
13

Even if you dont have the bucks, your strategy basically still applies in a longer game. Have yr shit tight, document like memento and wait. The bitch WILL fuck up. Consistent logic wins in the end.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 08:08 PM
9

Borrow some money from Dad and start a business.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 03:53 PM
114

It took ...... tens of thousands of dollars...etc. Congrats on beating the system. Everything OP says is great advice. I just wanted to add that if you don't have the financial requirement, you need to be very realistic about your plan. You can't win if you can't make the lawyers richer. It's a sad reality.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 03:08 PM
1

You're mistaking a couple of things. The first is that we don't hate CC riders, we just do not believe they make good LTR material. Just like women tell each other that they shouldn't marry "bad boys" or "players". The second, is that most RPers are not looking for LTRs, so dating and hooking up with a CC rider is not hypocritical, because the drawback that they make poor LTR material is irrelevant. Then there is no need to bitch about women riding the cock carousel, which is the exact point the…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 02:02 PM
3

I imagine it's tougher if you have no experience as a parent. I have a kid myself, so there are advantages to dating another single parent, for me. The fact is, if she has a kid, a woman in an ltr is looking for her partner to be willing to do the Dad thing and be good at it. It's part of life.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:59 PM
1

A lot of bitching, in genera,l on this sub... a lot.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:49 PM
3

..but did he get laid?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:16 PM
3

There are several links in that article that a very important. Quality blog.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:08 PM
-6

Extreme examples aren't very effective IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:56 PM
3

Even now I'm not sure if it was the most alpha display of behaviour or the most beta. But anyway, it worked. Because it was the most intelligent display of behavior.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 12:40 PM
0

Dude makes a living selling ads on his blog & rights controversial shit to finance traveling around getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 09:13 PM
4

Divorce rape.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 06:59 PM
2

AKA, a tease.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 05:34 PM
2

There's probably a small faction of highly intellectual, radical feminist aligned males who simply believe that gender differences are a complete fabrication or simply a useless way to exist. There are probably some that genuinely do not have the same emotional make-up and gender based social pressures do not affect them... even some that do not have a typical male sex drive. For these types, I would imagine that many of the issues that have driven men to investigate TRP type theories, the manos…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 10:45 PM
2

Pretty sure my middle school debunks 85% of that list.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:20 PM
1

I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing now but I'll be sure to watch out for the acronyms.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 08:07 PM
1

"A fish needs a bicycle like a construction/rehab subcontractor needs an unskilled sociology graduate." Well, that is a damn snappy comeback. Snappy comebacks are art for their own sake. I'm not saying that it's COMPLETELY useless to discuss things with women, or anything. I'd say the most satisfying response to a difference of opinion would be one that had her thinking about it for a couple of days. Perhaps this type of response doesn't usually sound as snappily satisfying to our own inner conn…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:10 PM
1

As your new belief system becomes better integrated you will be able to maintain your boundaries and stand up for yourself without bein ugly to yo Momma.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 05:14 PM
8

Also.. women are largely unable to empathize with the male experience, at all, so it's not much use to discuss things with them in this way.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:10 PM
3

"it's easy to be a slut and hard to be a player" This statement kind of becomes a bit insignificant as the issue of the difference in consequences between being a slut or a player is of overwhelming concern to the woman. It is so overwhelming that any other issue is basically a non-issue. Sure, it may indeed be easier, logically, to be a slut than it is to be a player but issues that are of no consequence to woman basically cease to exist altogether. What a mindfuck, right? (:
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:08 PM
1

Being ready with snappy comebacks taken from actual feminist sources helps me maintain frame. Does it, really? Do you often find yourself engaging with someone who is "spewing manhate"? I've never found it to be useful but I've also never been the snappy comeback kind of person. Perhaps it works in the context of that kind of personality. I find that maintaining frame is comes first, through mental clarity, and that snappy comebacks flow from this.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 02:25 PM
1

The topics in question can be useful or interesting but I think it's a good idea to question the relevancy or usefulness of any of these types of post, especially when they're coming from the pop-culture bs type source. I don't really know what concern trolling is but I simply find the issue of millennial feminists attacking a fashion magazine article to be fairly uninteresting. ..but.. then again, I find a good 40% of TRP posts to be fairly butthurt beta, as I like to call it. How is someone sa…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 02:17 PM
1

It was intense for me, for that reason but, a great documentary that points to a movement for change.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 12:45 AM
1

Actually it reminds me a lot of nursing school (another female dominated arena) and reminds me why I dropped a higher paying job for EMS... That's an interesting observation. I don't know much about the nursing thing but my sister is a nurse, so I could ask her about it. I always assumed it was mostly technically based, as in the rules and system would naturally evolve according the information and skills required.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 12:42 AM
1

That blows man. I would never ask a woman if she loved me.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 05:22 PM
16

Perhaps, at some point in your player career, when this kind of behavior doesn't really mess with the butthurt beta that you still carry around, you can just friendzone a girl like this and pivot her. Till then, keep moving, nothing to see here.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 11:54 AM
10

...or... go on the group date and game the other girls.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 11:50 AM
1

Why even speculate.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 11:49 AM
0

Yours. (:
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 08:40 PM
13

I think, for the most part, they're saying that a woman not being punished for crushing her own child's skull is "bullshit".
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:39 PM
-2

Eloquent response. I'm just saying, get some grammar and maybe you won't have to fuck Tranny's. Not that fucking trannys is bad, if you're (<- note correct usage) into that. It doesn't seem to be a popular choice on TRP, however. Perhaps OP was being funny. I give him points for formatting.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:17 PM
1

Baby steps. The best method for getting over approach anxiety is to push the comfort zone slowly. Start by simply making conversation with strangers. In the club, train your feet to take you to the girl immediately. So what if you just say hi.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 02:45 PM
-5

Tranny's? Great. I hate to do this: your vs. you're, google it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 01:36 PM
2

He does very well at pointing out how feminism can victimize women as much as anything: "(Ironically, these “manosphere” blogs tacitly but undeniably grant women as individuals full agency—something which feminism surreptitiously but quite adamantly does not. Feminism, in order to succeed as a theoretical framework, requires that individual women be reduced to the role of passive, paralyzed victims of men and society; each individual woman of necessity must be just one more victim, suffering in …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 01:31 PM
2

Dude is a gifted explainer. Might check out his financial musings. Could be profitable.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 02:54 AM
3

My daughter is doing so well. She is dedicated to school and her extra-curricular activities and helps with her little brother. It's the one thing I now know I did right.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 01:45 AM
8

Your old man was a boss.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 01:41 AM
1

I agree it's something to think about. Taking responsibility for things is the first step of leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/13 01:43 PM
3

It's not that no one wants the world to be better, it's that approaching things from wanting to "save the world" is ridiculous. Every man must judge his own actions and influence the things that he can. Choose your battles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/13 12:26 AM
1

I read it and enjoyed it. Skimmed over a couple of the relationship stories and skipped to the end , though. Great job. I liked your conclusions.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 11:25 PM
3

...> why not just imagine girls shaving their legs, clipping their toenails or squeezing their pimples, or something? That's not a bad idea, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/13 08:05 PM
4

Legal issues are your primary concern, if you want to maintain a relationship with a child that she has custody of you have to play the game. My strategy is a long game where I realize she will have irrational, short term demands and all I have to do is let her think she is winning, in the short term, and she will quickly move on to something else. Being unflappable, legal representation, diligent documentation, financial solvency and being cool to your kid are the only real tools you have in th…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 07:38 PM
2

Also men cheat more often then women, not by much but still more often. That's kind of a bold claim. I'm not sure it could really ever be substantiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/13 06:19 PM
2

I think the "Woman from MTV" example is week as far as women using their sexuality in a manipulative way but it was pretty hilarious how the blogger pointed out that MTV's behavior was similar to what the alleged show was supposed to be criticizing. You could say that it was MTV and not the woman representing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/13 06:05 PM
3

If every person would behave in a way that was consistent with seeing sex and dating as mutual aid then perhaps the world would achieve some kind of utopia. Unfortunately, it is pretty rare for humans to be that way, in general. Competition is a huge part of human interaction. Having a competitive strategy for dating doesn't necessarily mean one cannot achieve a positive outcome for both people involved. My view of healthy is knowing myself and what I want, understanding the realities of the sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/13 05:52 PM
1

TRP posits that most of our modern western culture is bent towards feminine imperatives, and usually also posits that this has always been the case: society has always been structured to benefit women. Why? The popular TRP reasoning would have to do with the egg being more rare and vulnerable than the sperm and the overall importance of reproduction to the human race. TRP also frequently describes women as inferior in mental capacity and virtue. So how did these people who are divinely stupid an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/13 05:36 PM
2

I read some of The Manipulate Man. I agree with a lot of TRP concepts but that pamphlet seems really outdated and Villar seems more pissed off at women for her own reasons than championing any masculine cause. It's difficult to take serious because of the vitriolic prose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/13 05:16 PM
2

On the one hand, I don't think browsing r/gonewild is healthy for anyone. On the other hand, it is an aspect of reality. It's something to be aware of. As far as using that as a method of regulating your state of mind, it's pretty cynical but I'd imagine it could be somewhat effective. Kind of like looking at a picture of a WWI battlefield before you head out on mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/13 04:57 PM
11

I got downvoted to hell & deleted from the Shroedenger's Rapist thread in AskMan yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 04:00 PM
1

Fixing my diet is my primary goal right now. Unfortunately, it's a bit of a struggle for me. I tried cooking red beans & rice a couple days ago and it was edible but nothing like what I was hoping for.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 03:58 PM
0

If you have strong convictions you're bound to get banned from something on reddit. Hasn't happened to me yet but I certainly get downvoted to hell and back enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/13 03:02 PM
1

I misunderstood your comment but yea, there are some butt hurt comments in red pill.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 01:41 PM
0

fag comments
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 01:38 PM
6

Henry Rollins comes to mind for me. I know he kind of exists in that ultra leftist world but he's a pretty masculine dude that comes from an urban background. Playing in a rock band is something that could be done well by a masculine man in an urban setting. I would think that guys like Warren Buffet or Elon Musk could apply.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 08:19 PM
4

You're somewhat correct about much seduction literature focusing on a younger crowd but many of the underlying techniques can be modified. Look deeper into concepts on calibration, individual seduction style and demographics. Mark Manson has done some quality writings on the subject of demographics. Social circle game may be more applicable to a mature audience, as well. I'm in a similar demographic to you, btw; although, I've had some success in the past. I imagine this helps me a great deal. I…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 06:15 PM
3

She's not a good girl; she's broken. That's pretty much what she's saying in her blog.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 02:06 PM
1

Well, over-all, the article is trying to discourage the use of the term unicorn, as used in the article she's describing. She's not really claiming to be a unicorn and pretty much making the same point that you are.. that she's just as crazy as all the "sluts". There are some dumb remarks in her blog but basically she's agreeing with redpill: "Don't call me a unicorn, you're putting the pussy on a pedestal." I can see where some here will disagree with her stance on sexual morals, however.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 02:05 PM
1

When have you met someone and not recognized that they've had work done? More stupidity. Ok, let's just rant about how the world is full of dumb people all day. Maybe I should go back to r/seduction. At least they talk about getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 01:53 PM
1

More posts about people who simply dumbasses? This is not really educational or anecdotal about anything accept human beings being stupid. Yea man, let's go tase each other! Stupid.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 01:48 PM
12

It's more about attention than being sexual. Why would you subscribe to something that is a complete waste of time. Let's get lives here.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 01:46 PM
0

That is my impression. It seems like he's giving advice to a Man, is he not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/13 06:00 AM
-1

well shux. (:
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/13 03:03 AM
-1

meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/13 11:35 PM
0

Good question. I'm sure one could conduct a whole study on this and write several books about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/13 10:51 PM
2

I don't think a dominant woman/supplicant male relationship works exactly the same way that a traditional alpha male/supplicant woman one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/13 10:08 PM
2

ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/13 08:25 PM
0

Enjoy amazing but... it's not "special".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/13 06:50 PM
2

Even beyond the personal ramifications of owning one, the existence of the thing demands respect alone. A Ferrari is an an artifact of human achievement and artistry. Indeed, a person simply relating it only within their own pathetic paradigm of self worth is almost sacrilege and could certainly be deemed "Blue Pill". Similarly you could be an anarchist railing against the military-industrial complex yet the achievement of an F-22 fighter can't be ignored.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 04:51 PM
0

It's tough for the sheer awesomeness of a Ferrari to not simply put everything into perspective. Context is certainly important but I imagine if I was driving a Berlinetta, issues of child support or even concepts concerning what women want would cease to enter my mind.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 04:34 PM
3

"Spending my money on a Ferrari would be blue pill, though." Unless you just really like Ferraris. I'm a classic American muscle and British Racer fan, myself.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 04:05 PM
1

I want to say one important thing about the relationship between Mark Manson and The Red Pill. First of all, I dig his writings and particularly the advice in this article is pretty good but Manson travels the world, dates a hot Brazillian and makes a living from blogging. I think you'll find that a lot of subscribers of TRP are living in conservative suburbia, working in an office filled with fat, bitter secretaries and constantly fielding attempts from their ex wives to have alimony payments i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/13 04:00 PM
1

Interesting analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/13 02:45 PM
1

Manson doesn't advocate honest communication (in this context) because he believes men and women will understand each other better. He advocates it because it works for the man. Why would Conan the Barbarian ever need to lie to a woman? TRP is all about context. It is simply men who feel more comfortable with traditional roles trying to get what they want and exist in a way that allows them to feel good about themselves within the context of an environment that is hostile towards masculinity and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/13 02:39 PM
1

I work for an electric sign company and there are welders and fabricators in our shop. Their job is pretty gravy compared to petrochem or shipfitting but I suspect the money is less too. It's a good company and there are benefits, tho.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 02:05 PM
1

I wanted to post about my friend because I think this is a lucrative and growing field that not many are aware of: My friend is a high rigger in the entertainment and event production industry. Basically it is the guy that climbs to attach the rigging that hangs structural, lighting and sound gear for entertainment and corporate events. He has also kind of moved up in the field and is generally a supervisor or consultant and rarely does the hardcore climbing any more. He has worked in Las Vegas,…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 02:00 PM
1

Well, you can be that, you just can't use or have used anything that you don't have a prescription for for a year. Plus, follicle screens are getting better. Most companies have a six month policy in writing but they usually just nix you if anything at all comes up. It's getting really aggressive. This is the primary reason (other than I hate the environments) that I no longer work in petrochem.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 01:50 PM
2

It's interesting to hear these issues expressed by someone who is essentially experiencing them from the outside despite putting themselves in the masculine point of view. Your observations are mostly correct but I would say for most of us, it doesn't seem as pronounced or acute as you seem to have described it. I suppose that has to do with things being internalized throughout a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/13 10:11 PM
13

Makes me want to have a son.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 09:20 PM
22

If the kid had any game he'd know that was a total in.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 08:44 PM
6

Appreciate you.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:41 PM
3

Thank you. I found those entertaining and informative.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:41 PM
7

Dread game?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 06:22 PM
2

Keep in mind that petrochem work and the like is getting stricter on drug screening. They're going to hair follicle exams and some facilities have instituted a lifetime ban policy.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 02:43 PM
1

Process technology is running a chemical plant or refinery. There are many positions, most entail sitting in a chair for 12 hours a day but the money, job security & benefits are great. If you're a certified pipe welder (tig), you will have options and good pay but its tough and dangerous and maybe not steady. Good money. Instrumentation is a great medium ground. You get outside but the work is way less back breaking. Good demand for the more technical stuff. Basically, anything technical in pet…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 01:56 PM
2

An argument he is going to lose.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 12:52 PM
0

Female heros: Esther Villar, Margaret Thatcher.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 12:43 PM
3

I agree that the trp sidebar could be improved. The meat of the info is found in the links and there are many.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/13 03:39 AM
3

In the required reading section: Women in Love & Men in Love
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 10:55 PM
6

This quote from the article is interesting: "But instead of matching my selfishness, Kim did something beyond wonderful -- she showed an outpouring of love. Laying aside all of the pain and anguish I had caused her, she lovingly took me in her arms and soothed my soul." I feel like it relates to the "a place to rest" idea mentioned in some of the sidebar items.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 04:46 PM
1

It's not a bad idea to run some technique, as a beginner.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 08:07 PM
2

Your post kind of contradicts itself. Do you need to "just fuck" or look at porn with your wife to find out what kind of new things she'd like to try?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 02:54 PM
1

*snicker
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 11:22 PM
2

First I'll say that what I think may make me similar to others here is that I want to figure out why all the women in my life get what they want and I do not. What could possibly make me different is that I don't necessarily care about political ramifications, feel that a lot of this stuff is just a reason for people to blog endlessly ( a similarly phenomena in many social movements) and am mainly interested in figuring out how to get what I want.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 11:10 PM
3

How could it be an alpha move. If he's alpha he has options and doesn't need to pull his roommate's reject. I suppose it could be considered a tough love move but that seems a bit excessive.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 05:00 PM
6

It actually seems more like something an American girl would do.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 04:46 AM
5

Yea.. I hear what he's saying but a smart European or Australian woman would've told that Russian chick that she could've worn some trail shoes and some nice outdoor spec and still looked nice for the pics.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 09:28 PM
1

It's not bad but she's already into on the thurs morning text. Time to close.. but you know, keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 08:06 PM
0

I've been going to PF for 3 months and it was good to get back into fitness but there's no real barbell gear so I'm going to put one together in my back yard. The place is too crowded as well.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 07:05 PM
1

Its a great film. Really hits home.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:30 PM
2

Well articulated.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 06:30 PM
4

I feel this guy's pain about the whole reactionary feminist thing but I'm not so sure about lumping it all in with anti-capitalism and I don't really jive with the whole nationalistic patriotic bs but that's just me.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 06:10 PM
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