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| 8 | How do you guys personally add character to your apartments or living spaces? What can I add? | Lifestyle | skinticket02 | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:47 AM |
| 4 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA! | Conversation | skinticket02 | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | What's the toughest decision you've had to make dating wise? | Lifestyle | skinticket02 | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 10:33 AM |
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| 1 | Born badThat's what makes being a man fun! The low expectations . | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/06/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck do you actually talk about at a bar or club?Glad you understand. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Do girls really like funny guys ? If yes then how to be funnyOh I've heard of squid games. It has all those korean people right? | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 01:29 PM |
| 0 | Do girls really like funny guys ? If yes then how to be funnyI have no clue what that means. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Advice NSFWHow is telling someone not to think during sex bad advice? | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:36 AM |
| 4 | What the fuck do you actually talk about at a bar or club?Asking questions is the worst thing you can do. It feels like an interview. Men make statements. I don't even mean this in a toxic way. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:28 AM |
| 4 | Advice NSFWYou shouldn't think about this. It should be spontaneous. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:24 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Honestly, I haven't . I haven't put a lot of effort into my profile. But I know 3 guys who have. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Love is when you know you can't do better....This is true. You shouldn't compete with a woman emotionally. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Do girls really like funny guys ? If yes then how to be funnyBe funny but Just don't be a clown , know what your intent is. Being funny without expressing intent for intimacy is what gets you a friend zone. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Man fuck, BadBoys/Assholes/Chads/Tyrones/PookiesAndRayRays. you guys get all the pussy!! !! !!Quite a racial element to this post. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:28 AM |
| 3 | How hard of a friend zone is this?Do you want to be her friend? This is what happens when you play with food. None of this would've happened if you stated what you wanted form the beginning. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:26 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]A lot of women like looking away first . They tension baby! Also make sure you have a smirk on your face. It's very easy for men to look scary. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:23 AM |
| 2 | IcebreakersHonestly hyping yourself up is the worst thing you can do because it turns things into a bigger deal than they are. Just focus on things you have to do and stop building them up before hand. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | SextWhat?! | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:18 AM |
| 3 | No one seem to have an interest on me, what am I doing wrong?You may have depression. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:18 AM |
| 3 | How to get a woman to qualify herself to you and what to do when she does?I don't know if I read this correctly. Bit you shouldn't be putting any thought into this. I think you're try to get girls to prove themselves to you , but that honestly happens naturally if they like you enough. You should be putting more thought into setting up your bedroom as a seductive environment than this because it will happen if you're a man. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Hello friendsHello friend. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:12 AM |
| 0 | Don't be this guy (RANT)I've seen askmen actually oppose that stuff a lot. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:11 AM |
| 0 | Don't be this guy (RANT)This mindset only exists on the internet. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:06 AM |
| 3 | Don't be this guy (RANT)I have a nasally voice with a British accent , so it evens out. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:06 AM |
| 0 | What's the toughest decision you've had to make dating wise?It's just a difference in the terminology we use. Relax. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 11:54 AM |
| -1 | What's the toughest decision you've had to make dating wise?This isnt a dating subreddit. Still falls under the same umbrella imo. As for married women , it's completely fine in my opinion. Passion is passion . If you make an offer and a woman accepts , that's part of the game. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | What's the toughest decision you've had to make dating wise?Me too! I had to cut a very cool girl off because she was overstepping boundaries. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Why Daygamers Make Girls CringeNot to be that guy but What source do you have for the 98% thing? | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:28 PM |
| 10 | Why Daygamers Make Girls CringeNone of this matters , talk to women you find attractive whenever you want. We're not mind readers , just talk to women without assuming you'll make then cringe. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | What program has changed your seduction life?Mode one by ARC . It's basically a book preaching honesty. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | At what point is it okay to compliment a girl on her looks?Whenever you feel like . It's about saying them without being needy. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 07:32 AM |
| 0 | Should you let a girl know about the other girls you're dating?She can leave if she doesn't like it . I don't have handcuffs. Looking her dead in her eye and telling her it's none of her business communicates a lot more than I'm fucking other people . It's also saying stay in your place. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 11:19 PM |
| -5 | Girl says she's interested, but takes several hours to respond to my messages.She's using you for attention, she's a timewaster. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 03:01 PM |
| 0 | Should you let a girl know about the other girls you're dating?Say yes , or tell her it's none of her business. Think about how she'd react if you asked her that . You'd be seen as needy and pushy. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Restaurant fetish?My bad , see you later. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 10:42 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Absolutely! I knew a middle eastern guy people didn't even know was middle eastern . Everyone thought he was Mexican. I hung out with him and saw dozens of girls who liked him , but he would always find a way to brush it off . It's like his brain was subconsciously ignoring them. It's fucking crazy. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I've worked in India. The fear of women is real. I never knew where it came from. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 07:14 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]His dating problems are most likely cultural instead of racial. Middle Eastern dudes and Indian dudes have a lot of shame built up around women and sex. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]98% ? That's ridiculous. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:46 PM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]Your pictures are probably just bad , you can change that. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:46 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]"Brown" as in asian or "Brown" ad in anyone with dark skin? | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:44 PM |
| 7 | How to handle situation where girl isn't over her ex?Say bye bye. Respect your time. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Bad hearingIf you have hearing issues wear a hearing aid , people literally don't care. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Bad hearingIf you have hearing issues wear a hearing aid , people literally don't care. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | She seems interested but, I think there's a red flag (23m) (25f)Yeah , you're incredibly judgmental. How candidly someone discusses sex doesn't have any bearing on how good they are as a person. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Hookups without being a ducheI guess it's just upbringing , that's what my brother taught me and I've been saying it since my teenage years. It's OK if you can't say this specifically, but the language should at least be explicit . If a woman acts offended , that's when you know you have a shot. Women who aren't interested will cut it short , but if a woman brings up her morals you're basically in. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I’ve got no gameIt's not about the words , it's about the man that's saying them . The way a simp calls a woman gorgeous and the way I call her gorgeous are completely different. It's completely OK as long as there's no neediness. Many men who kill with women compliment their looks.. There's also an important method to this madness , you call her gorgeous , hand her your number and then leave afterwards, a simp wouldn't do that , they'd stick around to get as much of the woman as they can. In order to avoid gam… | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 07:28 PM |
| -1 | Hookups without being a ducheI literally say that. No need to ĺie and hide my intentions. Women can handle vulgar language. No need to worry about them. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 07:19 PM |
| 0 | I’ve got no gameWhy not? | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Do women like men that’s with another woman?Some. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 01:46 PM |
| -8 | Hookups without being a ducheYou have to be daring. Walking up to a woman you find attractive , tell her she's sexy , tell her to call you if she wants some good penis and then say goodbye and leave. Also make it clear you're not judgemental. Be succinct. I've been doing this for the last few years. I've had a range of responses , but they rarely took offense to it. It's that simple. It won't work on every woman , but you won't know who it works on unless you try. You'd be shocked who gives you a call. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 12:57 PM |
| 4 | What are the keys to seduction/ being a seducer?I agree with all of that except the " Be polite" and "don't be a dick " part . Sometimes the real you is an asshole. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | What are the keys to seduction/ being a seducer?Self expression. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 12:45 PM |
| 6 | I’ve got no gameYou're just scared of failure. I think you should print your number on a bunch of business cards , walk up to women , greet them, say you think they're gorgeous , hand them your card and instruct them to call you. Many of them will call you , many won't. This works pretty well because it doesn't waste your time. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!That's a sentence I could only ever find on reddit. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!Awesome my brother. Long live Africa! 🌍 | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!It's a must see, now with covid it's sad but you'll love it anyway. You're making me want to travel now 🙈 Absolutely! The adventurer spirit! Oh yeah artsy girl ?? Any examples ?😅 Basically girls who do poetry . They are incredibly sexual and sensual . I also go to a lot of nude art classes as a model . You should try it , you Basically just have a bunch of women draw you while you pose nude. It was hard AF, because people were not very welcoming with foreigners. Lots of judgements, etc Kids are … | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Noobie question incoming!Your only option at this point is just to go out and talk to random people. You have to start enjoying talking to random strangers. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Noobie question incoming!Take up bjj. No assholes in bjj | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!Awesome! So you've traveled quite a bit. I'd also kill to visit France right now . Specifically the very popular artist areas . Wherever you go in the world the artsy girls are always the wildest. So how was France for you as a kid? | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!Mauritius Is absolutely gorgeous btw , what's your native language? I'ma zulu speaker. Honestly dude? I think we should give this a second try. I think you mistook the reserved nature for disinterest. I really wish there was a way we could go together . I think you would easily kill it on the second try. My brother went to Denmark and is actually wifed up now. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!Which location in Scandinavia? | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!I'm black . I honestly don't know what you did wrong , but it was heaven for me buddy. Are you also black? | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Buy a guitarI travel a lot so maybe I'll stop by your part of the world sometime. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!Yes I did , they're very sexual . They Basically have sex first and don't really pressure guys in lto a relationship, everything is very organic. Germanic women are the least romantic type You may as well be speaking in tongues because this statement is basically incomprehensible to me . I disagree with this on a philosophical level. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!I left that out on purpose because that wasn't the point , but yes . They basically like to have sex first and then see if a relationship comes out of it. No pressure at all. Also "Cool story bro" seems kinda dismissive , really doesn't sit right with me . I'm gonna have to tell you mom you've been acting up again. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Buy a guitarWow! I never realized that . Time to go live my dreams. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 12:27 PM |
| 10 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!Nope , black. I'm also 5'3. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Deez nuts joke to a girlYou're looking at it the wrong way , what about her chances with him? He should view himself as the opportunity , not her. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 11:31 AM |
| 2 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!You must be loaded if you can book flights on short notice. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 10:26 AM |
| 3 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!My bad. I use Nordic and Scandinavian interchangably. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 10:03 AM |
| 0 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!I lived in china and was a roommate with a guy named Comyn . He was juggling 4 girls on his third month there, he literally couldn't keep up. And there were even more that he rejected. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 10:00 AM |
| 2 | What's the best way to get back at a girl you initially had a shot at, but did not act on it for you own reasons?^ This! | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:34 AM |
| 10 | YOU GUYS ARE MISSING OUT ON SCANDINAVIA!Awesome, hadn't thought about that perspective before . Didn't realize society kept the dude this contrained . I think if you're a white man , you need to get to Asia ASAP! You guys are like gods there! | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Noobie question incoming!This is gonna sound harsh, but I say it because I want you to be great . you're just making excuses. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Noobie question incoming!Awesome , do you live in a major city ? Pretty easy to find a new circle in that case. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Buy a guitarThat's the manliness thing I've ever heard. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Noobie question incoming!Throw that number in the trash . She's basically going to jeep you for emotional stimulation and nothing else. Having a guy who likes her just to boost her ego. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Buy a guitarThat is true , unless you're lemmy. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Buy a guitarI'm more of a bass player. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:59 AM |
| 3 | What's the best way to get back at a girl you initially had a shot at, but did not act on it for you own reasons?That's terrible, I'm really proud of you for getting through it . My OCD got worse when I was 16 and I could even really leave the house . I have a ridiculous amount of empathy for your expirience. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:57 AM |
| 3 | What's the best way to get back at a girl you initially had a shot at, but did not act on it for you own reasons?Well I'd say the right kind of thinking is usually productive and moves you forward in certain aspects Whether it be physically , mentally or emotionally. The thinking that's made men build futures was based off curiosity and not fear or compulsively obsessing over every outcome. If a train of thought keeps you in the same place or regresses you then it's time to pull back. Like wondering if God exists or not , it's a completely pointless question that cripples a lot of people and leads them now… | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:53 AM |
| 9 | What's the best way to get back at a girl you initially had a shot at, but did not act on it for you own reasons?I was non existant. What was going on 35 years ago? | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:39 AM |
| 2 | How the hell does dating work once you get out of highschool?That's called shame. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:34 AM |
| 93 | What's the best way to get back at a girl you initially had a shot at, but did not act on it for you own reasons?Just go to her and ask her out. Don't overcomplicate things . Overthinking is not good for the male mind. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Advice neededStay away from them? | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Buy a guitarNo thanks, all I need are the clothes on my back. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:11 AM |
| 2 | When cold approaching, why telling a girl that she is cute is a bad idea?You can say whatever you want , it doesn't really matter . You just her hour number and leave. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Takes forever to text back.She's not motivated to respond , move on. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:06 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I fought against my genetics and won. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'll compile my experience and the experience of my friends and then post it. The only reason I haven't done so yet is because I thought you guys already knew😅. How did sweden get the reputation of being difficult? | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Better cough up for these alcohol prices buddy. Are you american? | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 01:30 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]All of the above and more except bars , I never really go to bars in Sweden. They're mostly reserved for people with a lot of money because of how expensive alcohol is. In Sweden, you can meet great women everywhere. Just go up to a girl you find gorgeous and tell her she's gorgeous , carry on from there. They almost never hear compliments so you'll be a shock to the system. I usually also go to the art district in every country I visit because that's where the wildest girls are . | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 01:25 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Of course , Dms are welcome. I only went to Stockholm, but I've heard great stuff about Uppsala. Scandinavia is the best because you basically have very little competition if you just talk to girls. They've got supermodel looking women working at McDonald's, it's crazy. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 12:58 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Who the hell said that? I wanna find that guy. It's basically the exact opposite. Getting girls in Scandanavia is basically incredibly easy . Guys in Scandinavia don't approach girls or even call them attractive, so when you do approach a girl they're incredibly shocked. I wouldn't call them boring , but they're similar to Japanese people in that they aren't really lively but they are genuinely friendly. I reccomend going . Make sure you wear something a little colorful . Girls over there really… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Restaurant fetish?Yes. And it's your fault. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Where do you find al the social events?Which city are you in? | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 11:17 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]You're exotic , so you'd obviously have a lot of attention. I'm black and killed it in Sweden. But It doesn't matter , just worry about yourself. Put more mental energy into your shoes and charisma . | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 11:15 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Move on. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 11:08 AM |
| 2 | No Idea how to get girls.You're either confident or you're not . Just go to an activity that requires you to hang out around a lot of women so you get comfortable. Try going to salsa or Tango class , you have no choice but to get close to the women. Dancing requires you to touch eachother. It gets you out of your head because it's a repetitive activity and also makes you comfortable around women. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 11:07 AM |
| 15 | If your friends with an attractive girl is that good or bad?I have no idea what this question means. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | How to begin developing a relationship with a girl who is in the same friend group?Awesome my friend ❤. Remember ! They don't hate you , they hate themselves. That's why they spend a fortune on makeup hair and nails . They'll take insecurities out on you. Your future is bright , I can tell! | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How to begin developing a relationship with a girl who is in the same friend group?We're in the same boat! My mom was like that to. Never go out of your way to upset women , but don't shy away from it happening either . It's all a balance . Have you ever heard a woman say "I hate and love him at the same time" or " I hate him but I just can't leave him for some reason"? That happens because the guy stands his ground and is unphased by any emotional event she's having. I went to a very liberal college and dated the angriest feminists you could think of , I'm the exact definitio… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How to begin developing a relationship with a girl who is in the same friend group?The truth is , as long as you're not emotionally, psychologically and physically abusing women , they should never have any say in how you behave as a man. If you never take anything else from this , just peep this. Women love emotional stimulation from men , even if it's negative. So if you see women who complains about men all the time , it's because she's emotionally getting something out of it . From this point on , never view it as them hating you , but as them trying to feel something. It … | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How to begin developing a relationship with a girl who is in the same friend group?The issue here is that you've judged her as being more special in your mind than other women when you barely know her. You gave her that power over you without her involvement. The solution here is just to talk to as many other women as possible. You think you won't find another woman to crush on , but that's your mind tricking you . Men are incredibly prone to "shiny object syndrome" when it comes to women . You'll be surprised how quickly you get over it when you do it a couple of times. If yo… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | How to begin developing a relationship with a girl who is in the same friend group?Yeah, being a guy is awesome. I wouldn't give it up for a billion dollars. There are a lot of terrible things men do , but expressing passion towards multiple people isn't one of them. Keep doing your thing king. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | How to begin developing a relationship with a girl who is in the same friend group?Liking people isn't necessarily bad , but don't put all your eggs in one basket until you're sure it's serious. I reccomend having crushes on multiple women . Desensitize yourself to it so you can make rational decisions. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, how do you deal with not being “sexy?”You're not a mind reader, you don't know who finds you attractive. You can never know because most people respond by trying to hide it. You're most likely not ugly , you just don't know how to convey interest to men. Youre just an overthinker. Here's some advice , take some salsa classes because they force you to exude more passion. You have no choice but to change your mindset when taking them. You have to force yourself to not think and just be out of your head. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that only some men can handle casual sex with lots of women?Depends on the man . Everyone is built differently. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How to begin developing a relationship with a girl who is in the same friend group?Honestly, you're too focused on one person. So try inviting her though. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:39 AM |
| 2 | What, if anything, should I do about this heavy work place crush of mineDo you like her ? Go for it . You shouldn't give a shit what policy says. If ahe says yes go out for ice cream . I'm alittle biased because I like discussing ice cream a lot , so I just end up talking the entire time during the Daye. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | being a decent human being?I'm starting from the position of being a good person and not being an asshole . Obviously listen to women who've been abused , but don't internalize their experiences and make yourself go crazy. But my issue with this is that OP seems like a good guy and is beginning to doubt himself based off the experience of this one woman. A lot of men are actually very easily guilted and try to edit themselves to fit a woman's narrative and worldview of what a good man is. I personally think that's what ha… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Getting numbers but still no datesWhy aren't you a fan ? It's objectively better in my honest opinion. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How to be fun without crossing the line to become immature and annoying?Annoying is very subjective. Just be you and don't constantly try to change your personality. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How can I meet women if I feel sad and lonely and I'm just too tired to continue to pretend that I'm not?Sounds like depression dude. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | being a decent human being?Don't let shit women say affect your thought process. I love and respect women , but you shouldn't really take a lot of what they say to heart when it comes to men. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 08:43 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Doesn't matter. Talk about what you care about. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Meeting w girl on 2nd date tomorrow. Questions about physical escalationAnother one I use is , I really need someone to keep me warm this winter or I really like showering with other people. If she she gets put off , she's not very interested. Women are mostly looking for opportunities to grab onto sex , all you have to do is create the environment. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Meeting w girl on 2nd date tomorrow. Questions about physical escalationI see martial arts gear on your avatar , so maybe you could text her "I could teach you how to wrestle sometime , I'm really good at it" .It implies a sexual act but isn't very explicit , so doesn't make her feel judged. Also what timezone are you in? If you don't mind me asking . I went to bed and woke up and you've been here the whole time lol. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Meeting w girl on 2nd date tomorrow. Questions about physical escalationBasically you want to sya sexual etchings without being explicitly sexual. Make her read between the lines. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 07:17 AM |
| 4 | Right Now I don't want a girlfriend but why do I feel the need to have one ?I know that , but that seems like a great way to blow your brains out. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 06:08 AM |
| 6 | Right Now I don't want a girlfriend but why do I feel the need to have one ?I mean an actual jog too , every day . Not that bullshit a where people just stand around . 8 want you to feel a runner's high . I won't give up on you , so don't give up on you. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Am I beginner or intermediateI never said women didn't know when someone was flirting. This isn't a tactic to hide your flirting, it's a way to enhance it . Both you and the woman know that the backhanded compliments aren't genuine, you're just saying them for fun . You ever heard of the "hey big head" phenomenon? Also women never call men out on anything outside twitter , they're very avoidant. If this shit didn't work , you literally would have men who live and breath it , dedicate their whole lives to understanding the a… | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Meeting w girl on 2nd date tomorrow. Questions about physical escalationAll hope I not lost , you could Guage how comfortable during the duration of her stay . You could make a joke about being scared and asking her to hold you hand . Basically talk about sex without being explicit and move on from there (use inniendo). If you move forward and she tenses up , pull back for a sec. Also advice for the future , you should be building up to sex during texting. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Meeting w girl on 2nd date tomorrow. Questions about physical escalationIs it already set up? Or is there time to change ? I'd personally suggest popcorn and Netflix at your place if she's cool with it since you guys have been texting for the past few months. Watch a horror movie . Just spend time without other people around. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Meeting w girl on 2nd date tomorrow. Questions about physical escalationWhere are you meeting up? | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Meeting w girl on 2nd date tomorrow. Questions about physical escalationHave you been texting during this time frame? If so , how are the texts tone wise? Are they friendly? 2 months is a long ass time. I'd say try this out but don't get too attached because it seems like this girl is one heck of a busy bee. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 22 | Right Now I don't want a girlfriend but why do I feel the need to have one ?Honestly dude... it happened to the best of us. It became a lot harder to improve with the isolation. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 09:21 PM |
| 113 | Right Now I don't want a girlfriend but why do I feel the need to have one ?I mean a long jog , get lost. It's a great way to notice the stuff around you . It has a way of building you up afterwards. I'm not kidding , jogs are underrated. Try to talk to strangers when you take a break , just because. My OCD , has really calmed down afterwards. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 09:15 PM |
| 274 | Right Now I don't want a girlfriend but why do I feel the need to have one ?You're not happy with yourself. Just jog to clear your mind. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 8 | Do you order food on 1st date at the bar?Don't but food , Go for ice cream or feeding ducks . Dates are for building trust , not feeding strangers. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Am I beginner or intermediateI dunno bro , this is literally something that's been popular since the days of Casanova. Literally just under 300 years .You're either a special case , or you don't realize that it works on you. Im not gonna make any judgements on you because I don't know you, but one thing about people is that they all tend to think they're special. I say this with the utmost respect. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this woman’s behavior? Seems like she wants me to reach out, but has a boyfriend that she seems private about.Yeah that works fine as an ice breaker. We live in 2022 , make sure you incorporate some audio and video in your communication. It separates you form the herd. Go forth my dude! | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Am I beginner or intermediateIt's Basically an emotional roller coaster sort of thing. You playfully bring jer in close and then push her away . | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:18 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on this woman’s behavior? Seems like she wants me to reach out, but has a boyfriend that she seems private about.Her having a boyfriend is none of your business, don't even bring that shit up . Pretend you never saw it. Proceed as normal. Just keep on Truckin like Grateful Dead. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Got two girls numbers at the club last night and not sure what to do nextSet up a coffee/tea date as soon as possible. Or you could go feed ducks. Don't let them waste your time , move on if they're playing games. Also in future, don't take a girl's number . Just print out some business cards and hand them out to women. This is a lot better. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Should I use word "date"?I feel like you know the answer. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Going to clubs, bars but no success with women. (No enough courage)Your problem is that you put women above yourself . You judge them as being better tha an you are , which is why you're afraid. Is a person who spends thousands of dollars to hide their face with makeup really worth being scared of? These people are much more insecure than you are , stop letting them control your actions because of the judgment you've placed. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:05 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about coffee dates?Very good . Never buy food for people you don't know unless they're homeless. Food dates are terrible. I only take my friends out to eat. With girls it's ice cream or tea/coffee. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 0 | How to be persistent in a non needy way?Just say you've run out of things to say and joke about it . They can tell shen you do , so don't try to scramble. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Am I beginner or intermediateI don't think you need to label everything. Just progress everyday. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I usually build up to sex over a week , I only go on one date . | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 02:06 PM |
| 0 | I'm a 19 yo girl and I have the biggest , largest , hugest imaginable crush on this one dude and idk how to approach him.Anyway just walk up to him , tell him you like him and that he's not obligated to do anything with that information and then walk away and just act normal afterwards. This is how most of my interactions with women go. Give them space to make a choice. Boom! Here's some free game ! | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 02:04 PM |
| 6 | How to stop being intimated by hot girls?They aren't special , you're literally letting a person who wakes up and paints their face every morning control the way you act. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 01:57 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Skidrow | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Getting numbers but still no datesYou shouldn't ask for women's numbers. Just give them your number , it separates you from people who play games because the ones who are actually interested will call you. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 01:54 PM |
| 3 | AdviceHonestly dude , you need someone who's going to hold you accountable , either you or a friend. If you don't have anyone around you at the moment, I could DM you my Skype. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Meeting w girl on 2nd date tomorrow. Questions about physical escalationBefore we go any further, how did she feel about you on the first date? | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Headphones how to navagateYes , let me put you onto some game real quick. Get a bunch of business cards with your name and number on them and just hand them to women you find attractive and leave . Go over there , state your intent , give them a card , tell them to call you and leave. Leaving gives her space to make a conscious choice and ensures that she won't waste your time. Business cards are pretty cheap , have fun! | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Should you ask this to a woman?Nope , you shouldn't even be asking. Just move on . You should be giving this much mental energy to this. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Headphones how to navagateDon't listen to anyone here , just do it it. You don't know what that specif situation will bring . Sometimes I put on headphones just because I wanna listen to some music, but wouldn't mind talking to people. women aren't monolithic , they do the same behaviors for different reasons. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Am I bad if I just want sex?Just good fun is all. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:43 PM |
| 6 | Am I bad if I just want sex?This is a bizzare response . I never once stated that consent wasn't involved , only that the want for sex isn't stated explicitly. Just because some thing isn't explicit, that doesn't mean it isn't there . That's like saying your penis disappears just because you're wearing pants . If you actually knew anything about women you'd actually realize that bringing up sex explicitly makes them feel shamed or judged . They face the reality of them wanting sex and that's too much for them most of the t… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Am I bad if I just want sex?How do you know it doesn't work? | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Am I bad if I just want sex?You're judging women based on your own preconceptions , you don't know how they'll react. Some will be upset , some won't that's life. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Am I bad if I just want sex?I agree with most of this but breaking tension is a terrible idea. You really won't get anywhere by avoiding tension especially if you're a dude. It's very good to communicate intent , but stating it explicitly makes the situation much more real and explicit , the woman is then unable to say the sex "just happened" because you sated it out in the open instead of using innuendo. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Am I bad if I just want sex?That title gives me heavy Mormon energy . No you're not bad if you just sex. With every women you meet , you're basically going to have to communicate that you're looking for sex openly and honestly. This doesn't mean that you say this explicitly though , just make sure your intentions are known without describing the act of sex itself through the use of innuendo. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Get gender reasignment surgery and go to a lesbian bar. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys personally add character to your apartments or living spaces? What can I add?That's fair , I just can't imagine having nu metal memorabilia in my apartment. Just didn't age that well. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 06:05 AM |
| 0 | How do you guys personally add character to your apartments or living spaces? What can I add?Maybe the whips and chains but not the Manson photo. It's not 2002 anymore. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 05:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys personally add character to your apartments or living spaces? What can I add?I'm actually prdering one of those steel painting art pieces because of this . Thanks! Plants are also a big thing. My family has a Christmas cactus that's been in the family for ~100 years and I took a clipping of it that I've been growing, bloomed for the first time this year. Also planning on grabbing a bird of paradise and a few others. This is pretty epic! | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys personally add character to your apartments or living spaces? What can I add?Awesome ! Very detailed . I'm gonna challenge myself and get the most fickle plants possible! | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You need a new environment to shift your perspective. It could just be that you're very boring in your current environment. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:49 AM |
| 5 | I want to approach girls but i couldn't coz of..Nothing wrong with that , don't shame yourself for being a virgin. I think you'll just have to move bro. Your city is pretty vicious🤣. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 02:24 PM |
| 3 | I want to approach girls but i couldn't coz of..Oh ! I was in Mumbai . Are those 2 cities drastically different? | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 02:23 PM |
| 8 | I want to approach girls but i couldn't coz of..Never happened to me personally, what part of India are you from? | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 02:19 PM |
| -5 | I want to approach girls but i couldn't coz of..Just do it! I was in India for surgery and I talked to girls all the time . They're very friendly. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 01:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I have a one night stand without anxiety crippling me?Lighter than heroin that's for sure. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Some good ways to surprise your girl and make her day?Buy her her favorite pastry. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 01:52 PM |
| 0 | How do I have a one night stand without anxiety crippling me?Do light drugs. Shrooms or weed baby. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This is gonna seem like a huge leap but if you can afford it , travel to Asia. It's a great shortcut for getting better with women and socializing if you're white. People will literally just be enamored by you. You get to leave your comfort zone and be in a friendly environment. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.Day one stuff , but very nessessary. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 01:28 PM |
| 0 | I had two dates with this girl and all she talks about are her exesMove on. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 07:53 AM |
| 0 | Is it creepy to go out to a college bar by myselfNo. Not at all. Unless you're Trd Bundy or something. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 07:52 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I give them my business card, I they contact me I set up a date. It's that simple. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 07:51 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I know , but a lot of guys on this sub don't believe that it's possible for a woman to lust after a man for whatever reason. Thats why I specifically focused on that part.They doubt themselves, which is a shame. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 07:37 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You clearly don't understand women. The approval of men is ALL many women have. Every male personal trainer can attest to this. You'd be surprised how many good women would risk their marriage lusting over a man . It's ridiculous how all their beliefs and core values can go out the window when a man makes them feel "high". | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just try to act like your friends do as an expiriment . Tell me what you find. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That may actually attract more girls than you think. A lot of gay/bi women like girls that seem aggressive. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That may be it lol🤣. Did you come off as harsh? | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I guess you'd have to ask a person this question in real life. They might notice if there's something off. How would your friends describe you? | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Go to places that have a lot of guys . Like a Basketball court or something. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do you at least live in a big city? | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Where do you live ? Even the butchiest girls get hit on by guy where I'm from. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:58 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]self limiting beliefs. I heavily agree. A lot of guys just don't believe they deserve women. Once you get through that, it's a lot of the battle won. A lot of men will let a fear of losing rule their lives and its just sad. It hurts to see a man waste his time instead of going for what he wants. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:56 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]You know what's crazy? A lot of guys will see the evidence right in front of their faces and still deny it instead of using to their advantage. I've made peace with the fact that some guys will just never listen. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:42 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]What you don't realize is that women don't view all men the same way . They don't think like us. Men care a lot more about physical aspects while women gravitate more towards your behavior . Mens compliments are common , but they aren't equal. Validation? Why would they need something like that when they have their job and their friends for validation. Those things don't really offer sexual validation do they? No matter how satisfying your job is , it can't make you feel sexually wanted. The sam… | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | how many of you actually have a rotation ?China is a very skin tone based society, lighter skin tone means you're more attractive. Even native Chinese with darker skin face discrimination. It's been like that before colonization. It's been in the culture since before white people arrived. Sweden is a lot more different though, I got ridiculous attention in Sweden. Every black guy should go to Sweden. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Not me , but one of the gym teachers at my school was having sex with 1 of the female teachers and some parents . | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Hello people, I have this sort of negative self thinkingYou're putting to much pressure on yourself. If rejection hurts , feel it . You should get a notebook and record each step you took towards bettering your dating life every night. The compound interest will add up if you do it everyday and build your confidence. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | How to disclose that I never had a girlfriend when asked?You yourself said that the girls don't react negatively . They're neutral .You're overthinking this my friend. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:15 PM |
| 2 | how many of you actually have a rotation ?Yeah , now that you mention it a Chinese girl I was fooling around with for 8 months sent me a "don't contact me again, I'm getting married" text out of the blue and then blocked me. She was 28 and rushing to get married. (she was crazy flexible) Kinda jealous now. White guys have an insanely ridiculous success rate in China . I recommend it to any white guy when I get the chance. My friend Hans had 6 girlfriends while living there after not getting a whole lot in Belgium. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:13 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Well, the thing is that women do gain something. They gain validation from a man they like . Having a guy you respect call your body beautiful is like a drug to women . It takes a lot of the insecurities away , which is why they do it. Similar to how makeup and handbags do. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The truth is inside you my friend. I get the feeling you know what to do. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | how many of you actually have a rotation ?I've moved out of China unfortunately, so I have to start all over again . It was 3 when I lived in Beijing. Getting girls there is super challenging when you're black because it's very homogeneous . Lotta blood sweat and tears into that 3 🤣 | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Baby steps are king my man . If you're having a hard time with nudes , you should probably go a few steps back. Get comfortable being around women you're attracted to first. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting to give up (threesome game)I think it can be very fruitful both ways. If done right it can actually make the relationship stronger . He beeds to fund a way to make her less insecure , which is probably the toughest challenge ever! | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting to give up (threesome game)Make her think it was her idea. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 06:25 PM |
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