skintwo Archive

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3	Johnny Depp Wins On All Counts and 15 Million Dollars He should insist on the payout and then ACTUALLY DONATE it to where she said she would. Oh my god that would be amazing.	/r/MensRights	02/06/22 03:17 AM
-6	Mike drop! Depp’s team involved a clinical psychologist who used an evaluation test that Heard couldn’t fake her way out of That's not true at all. There are different 'waves' of feminism, but as a gen-xer, all feminism means to me, a woman, is equality of the sexes. That's it.	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/04/22 02:30 PM
0	Apparently, female homelessness is the fault of men. But most of the places women go when this happens ARE homeless shelters - not some magical "abuse" shelters. I wish they DID have those! I've been abused myself, and much later had a boyfriend who was in an abusive marriage (which I helped him get out of). There wasn't any support for EITHER of us. It sucked. I am AGREEING with everyone that it seems to me that there is a real gap for fathers fleeing with children.	/r/MensRights	28/05/18 02:13 PM
0	Apparently, female homelessness is the fault of men. What on earth is wrong with you? I said there were homeless shelters for men - this is true. I said I didn't KNOW if they took children - this is true. Both battered men and women who escape from abusive partners might end up in shelters - this is true. What on earth is your point? Truth is there are poor services, in the US, for most folks (even when there is funding - it's often poorly managed and applied). The needs are great and they are everywhere. What's your issue?	/r/MensRights	27/05/18 03:14 AM
1	Apparently, female homelessness is the fault of men. Homeless men's shelters. Yes, and specifically for men. But I have no idea if there were places for men with children.	/r/MensRights	26/05/18 11:54 PM
1	Apparently, female homelessness is the fault of men. Not enough. There aren't enough for everyone, that's for sure. Every town I have lived in had a shelter specifically for men. But what if you're a man with kids? Not sure I ever saw a kid in those lines.	/r/MensRights	26/05/18 11:29 PM
-3	Apparently, female homelessness is the fault of men. That's a really callous and inaccurate statement. How many are full? How many exist in rural areas? How many are safe? etc.	/r/MensRights	26/05/18 04:35 PM
0	Apparently, female homelessness is the fault of men. Sounds like you've never had anyone threaten your life, your child's life, and their own.	/r/MensRights	26/05/18 04:35 PM
13	Rise of women backing out of divorce as settlements shrink. In Russia is the top form of contraception. It's crazy.	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/05/18 03:35 PM
0	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. Are you one of the people who claims this sub isn't women-hating? Huh? Fucking troll.	/r/MensRights	30/03/18 03:30 AM
-4	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. This thread is a pathetic example and your post is exactly what I'm talking about. I'm AGREEING with the content of these issues and you call me a child and I get hate mail. Yeah, right. The women haters here, like you, are ruining what could be a key resource for men caught in custody crises. But keep complaining and whining. Because that really helps. Or you could own your shit and actually try to fix things.	/r/MensRights	26/03/18 08:18 PM
1	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. I paid a ton of money. But also the whole point of my post is that I AGREED that gender bias is at the heart of this (did you read it?). And I had to be the bigger person, by far, to make things best for the kid. Life isn't fair. But time with your own kid is about the most precious thing there is. My divorce wasn't fair to me. But I got 50/50 custody and that's what I wanted more than anything.	/r/MensRights	26/03/18 03:34 AM
1	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. Or, get divorced. But, you know, actually give a shit about the kid! I think states pushing mediation are a big help. Divorce doesn't need to be expensive. You know who wants it that way? Lawyers. It's an industry. I helped an ex leave his abusive spouse. I saw him be treated extremely unfairly, but he refused to stand up for himself, at all. He had bigger problems, it turns out. And yes, she was a purple haired fetlife "teach classes on poly" type of asshole. I witnessed the abuse. She is proba…	/r/MensRights	26/03/18 03:31 AM
-6	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. "Well, feminists are subhuman garbage, and the cause of a lot of problems in society. They are rightfully bitched about." Just one of the more colorful replies. How very useful. People who want equal rights are subhuman garbage?! (You'd call similar comments those of triggered snowflakes.) If you want meaningful change, you need to stop this bullshit. YOU ALL are giving your own sub a bad name.	/r/MensRights	26/03/18 03:23 AM
6	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. I think there is a natural correlation between those parents seeking anything BUT equal custody and bad parents (except in the rare cases where one parent really is a total disaster - and if so, that shit better be documented.) Good parents WANT their kid to have both of them in their life and realize the divorce is about them, not about their kids. I think that's one of the core issues here. They are more likely to use a mediator, too. Thus, if one parent is trying to say that the other is unsa…	/r/MensRights	25/03/18 07:23 PM
-8	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. Woman here - I had to pay for the lawyer to get divorced, get us both equal custody, and I lost a ton of money. It does happen the other way around on the money side. I think there are clearly still biases on the custody side, and I think men need to figure out how to be proactive to protect their rights in that area. I see so many guys putting their heads in the sand when marriages aren't going well, not admitting it, not willing to go to counselling... well, that's when you should be pragmatic…	/r/MensRights	25/03/18 07:18 PM
-14	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. Look at the comments. How much is useful information for legal resources, and ways current fathers can protect themselves, vs bitching about "third wave feminazis"?! You'll never get anywhere with that bullshit. MRA DOES bitch about women, ALL THE TIME. Fathers need equal custody rights. Stop being immature assholes and start pushing for real resources to actually help fathers. I'd be all about helping with that. And I am a feminist who uses that term as it was meant in the '80s - equal rights, …	/r/MensRights	25/03/18 07:15 PM
2	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. Everyone does this - I've had multiple guys do this to me, one post-engagement when I uprooted my whole life to move to where he was. This is a human thing, not a woman thing. And it SUCKS.	/r/MensRights	25/03/18 07:11 PM
-5	FACT CHECK: Was an All-Female Construction Company Responsible for the FIU-Sweetwater Bridge Collapse? What the fuck? So much for this not being a woman hating sub.	/r/MensRights	20/03/18 04:05 PM
-2	Google Manager to Employees: "Next time you get invited to speak at a conference, especially if you’re a white male – ask the organizer to confirm you’re the only white male on the panel / in the speaker lineup. If not, say you are honored, but must decline, and give the reason." Of course not. But you can get off your ass and try. As a woman in probably the most male-centric field there is, who has seen my peers leave because they were treated like /shit/, there is a real problem here. If you're not /like/ someone, it's very easy for them to overlook you when putting something like this together. That natural tendency really needs to be overcome. And I have sat my way through plenty of SHIT presentations/content/speakers because someone was a friend of a friend and, let…	/r/MensRights	04/02/18 09:56 PM
-1	Google Manager to Employees: "Next time you get invited to speak at a conference, especially if you’re a white male – ask the organizer to confirm you’re the only white male on the panel / in the speaker lineup. If not, say you are honored, but must decline, and give the reason." It's not fair or ethical to not even TRY to consider it when putting panels together, though. You end up having lazy bro-culture where like promotes like - only. A natural human trait. I agree about the quality of speakers. And maybe it's a hard thing to try and get those high quality diverse speakers to add to your non diverse speakers. it is worth a freaking try. It's goddamn lazy not to, and it means you AREN'T getting the /best/ speakers, because you didn't go beyond you own first neighbor n…	/r/MensRights	04/02/18 09:54 PM
0	Google Manager to Employees: "Next time you get invited to speak at a conference, especially if you’re a white male – ask the organizer to confirm you’re the only white male on the panel / in the speaker lineup. If not, say you are honored, but must decline, and give the reason." I agree that REQUIRING "false" diversity isn't helpful, at all. I do think that requiring someone to at least TRY to go outside their existing networks is useful. Sometimes finding us isn't the easiest thing, but when I had a guy once ask me - truly befuddled- about how he could possibly find a woman to speak in a panel that I would have been perfect for, I roll my eyes. We're so invisible when guys are thinking of who to ask, and that "invisibility" is a really subtle thing. I've put panels tog…	/r/MensRights	04/02/18 09:52 PM
-6	Google Manager to Employees: "Next time you get invited to speak at a conference, especially if you’re a white male – ask the organizer to confirm you’re the only white male on the panel / in the speaker lineup. If not, say you are honored, but must decline, and give the reason." It's not just kids they need it. Folks at all levels need to break themselves out of their current network loops and think about how to make things better. As a manager it's good to see this - as a SVP even better.	/r/MensRights	04/02/18 05:53 PM
-16	Google Manager to Employees: "Next time you get invited to speak at a conference, especially if you’re a white male – ask the organizer to confirm you’re the only white male on the panel / in the speaker lineup. If not, say you are honored, but must decline, and give the reason." You can absolutely help influence the current and future ones. Geez.	/r/MensRights	04/02/18 05:03 PM
1	Woman tries to divorce her boyfriend of 22 years, forgets that she lives in a state that doesn't recognise Common Law marriage. They are NOT gender biased anymore in the US - but they are biased against the working parent. The fact that there is a gender imbalance in the parent who usually works vs not is a different issue. Look at the laws.	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 02:08 AM
-1	Woman tries to divorce her boyfriend of 22 years, forgets that she lives in a state that doesn't recognise Common Law marriage. Not in the US. The laws in most states are gender neutral now. The problem is that since the women have the babies and breastfeed them, they are usually the ones that take a career break, it's hard to justify paying so much for daycare when you might make enough to just break even.. and all that adds up to really hurting your career. This comes from many issues, but the main one is the biological difference. This is why consistent, enforceable maternity AND paternity leave that is reasonable hel…	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/11/17 10:30 PM
-10	Woman tries to divorce her boyfriend of 22 years, forgets that she lives in a state that doesn't recognise Common Law marriage. Bullshit. I am a woman who was raked over the coals in a divorce. It's an insurance policy for the non working spouse. Gender has fuck all to do with it and I'm fucking sick of hearing that. I got fleeced because he's too lazy to look for a job after getting laid off (we both were, but I tried harder). And there is a kid. The laws are not gender biased.	/r/PussyPassDenied	25/11/17 01:46 PM
0	Court rules man pay $65,000 of child support to the mother of a teenage girl he's only met once even though he is NOT the father How is it wrong? How about, you take the kid and give her zero, or take the kid and ask her for child support. See how hard it is to raise a kid on your own. You're paying for how it was made - this is a risk you take when you have intercourse. The kid didn't ask for any of this, and that's who the money is for. Or you could go 50/50. It's YOUR decision not to be in the kid's life, which is why you are paying so much support. So you did have a choice.	/r/MensRights	26/07/17 08:47 PM
5	Court rules man pay $65,000 of child support to the mother of a teenage girl he's only met once even though he is NOT the father I hope people read this and realize they shouldn't have unprotected sex - especially in cases like this. It does all sound quite fair in this case. Could have been worse. I feel really bad for the kid.	/r/MensRights	22/07/17 11:18 PM
1	Court rules man pay $65,000 of child support to the mother of a teenage girl he's only met once even though he is NOT the father Seemingly! And: agreed. Also: he probably should have seen a lawyer before meeting the girl, and requested a pat test before he did ANYthing.	/r/MensRights	22/07/17 11:15 PM
0	No Sperm No Opinion - Financial Abortion Is The Issue. It's her body, her choice? She can keep it! Im'a guess you've never been pregnant. You don't get off scott-free physically, emotionally, or financially.	/r/MensRights	06/05/17 03:48 PM
3	No Sperm No Opinion - Financial Abortion Is The Issue. It's her body, her choice? She can keep it! That is exactly what it is. Biology. Risk. Want your risk to be zero? Don't have sexual activities where the woman could get pregnant. Where the hell is the acceptance of responsibility in this sub?!	/r/MensRights	06/05/17 03:45 PM
1	No Sperm No Opinion - Financial Abortion Is The Issue. It's her body, her choice? She can keep it! Boy I hope you don't have sex. Somehow I feel that's probably the case.	/r/MensRights	06/05/17 03:42 PM
1	No Sperm No Opinion - Financial Abortion Is The Issue. It's her body, her choice? She can keep it! That is true. How many guys try to get custody of an unwanted pregnancy baby? You have a whole forum on here trying to evade just the financial consequences, never mind the mental /emotional ones (to both father and baby). I'd be very interested to see cases where this did happen.	/r/MensRights	06/05/17 03:41 PM
0	No Sperm No Opinion - Financial Abortion Is The Issue. It's her body, her choice? She can keep it! Child support is for the child. The kid didn't ask for a condom to break. Don't want kids? Don't have intercourse or get a vasectomy that is post tested... And bug the hell of of your congresspeople for vasagel to become legal. If you have sex you are sharing in the risk of having a baby. You chose that, right there.	/r/MensRights	06/05/17 03:37 PM
-7	No Sperm No Opinion - Financial Abortion Is The Issue. It's her body, her choice? She can keep it! Cause you put your dick in her. Don't want to take the risk? Don't put your penis in her.	/r/MensRights	06/05/17 03:33 PM
-5	Surgeon who cut off four-year-old's penis while carrying out circumcision as the boy's father took photographs is CLEARED of negligence FGM is illegal (and different in scope). Male circumcision is not illegal, so I don't think that there is a legal argument here to be enraged about what happened. I am very against any kind of circumcision, and certainly believe male circumcision should be illegal. It's almost unbelievable to me how difficult this issue has been to make progress on. I feel a big part of it is that men want their sons to look like them - they don't want to admit that something was done to them that changed them t…	/r/MensRights	19/04/17 06:46 PM
0	More Amy Schumer! Blames "subreddits" for her bad reviews of her Netflix Special. It's because everyone in comedy does material that is duplicative of others', often not consciously, as there are a lot of smart folks doing it, and humans tend to have similar experiences. Amy gets destroyed for it (and I don't like her comedy, fwiw), but Burr, who I love, does it just as much and no one is putting up videos of him doing it. I actually got sad at his last show because I saw him do material I had heard someone else do before. That's the difference, and the other comedians know i…	/r/PussyPassDenied	16/03/17 01:28 PM
-1	Sadistic gang who carved 'paedo' in a man's leg with a machete during a WEEK-long campaign of torture after wrongly thinking he was a sex offender are jailed for 78 years ... so my free speech to say what I did, that isn't allowed, but someone making insane ridiculous generalizations is totally cool? got it. I don't think anyone should be banned unless they doxx, etc. I don't recall saying anything about r/feminism (why bring THAT sub up??). I recall saying something like someone writing like a fucking moron doesn't bring good credit to the argument, and to this sub.	/r/MensRights	03/03/17 03:06 AM
-11	Sadistic gang who carved 'paedo' in a man's leg with a machete during a WEEK-long campaign of torture after wrongly thinking he was a sex offender are jailed for 78 years Hyperbole might be fun but it degrades your entire sub.	/r/MensRights	02/03/17 02:21 PM
2	Saw this at my school today The sign is perfect. Project much? This is exactly the right message to send!!	/r/MensRights	17/02/17 02:51 AM
2	'Reliable honest' husband who handed his wife, 51, all of his ready cash in a divorce 15 years ago is told he must up her maintenance after she blows the lot on 'unwise property investments'. Never Get Married. No, it's advantageous to the non working spouse. (It's just that more women are the non working spouse). Custody, on the other hand, still has a way to come, but also has dramatically improved in many states. People forget how much state law can vary.	/r/MensRights	07/02/17 05:34 PM
2	'Reliable honest' husband who handed his wife, 51, all of his ready cash in a divorce 15 years ago is told he must up her maintenance after she blows the lot on 'unwise property investments'. Never Get Married. What does that even mean? Of course the article is a beyond horrible situation. My point is that in US these types of stories are mostly impossible now. I'm curious as to who the lagging states are, divorce-law-wise. Anyone know? I think FL might be one...	/r/MensRights	07/02/17 01:29 AM
6	'Reliable honest' husband who handed his wife, 51, all of his ready cash in a divorce 15 years ago is told he must up her maintenance after she blows the lot on 'unwise property investments'. Never Get Married. a) laws in many states have been revised - for example, MA, MI I know specific examples with numbers. The nightmares that were once common have really been stubbed out. I know someone in MI who was aggregiously cheated on and he divorced her - and his income was OVER 500K BASE, probably pulled in over 1M a year, and hers was 78K or less, I think? She got - as support for their kid and herself - no more than 1400/month, which stops when he goes to college. The wage differential phases out really …	/r/MensRights	07/02/17 01:28 AM
6	'Reliable honest' husband who handed his wife, 51, all of his ready cash in a divorce 15 years ago is told he must up her maintenance after she blows the lot on 'unwise property investments'. Never Get Married. Nooooope. I had to pay for my ex husband. It's a scam for the lazy one to get money from the non lazy one. I will say raising young children counts as full time work until they go to school. Note this article would not happen in the US- laws are different here.	/r/MensRights	07/02/17 12:13 AM
2	Can someone in the comments explain how this works? How 'bout we go back and use these again? http://imgur.com/a/YKIv0	/r/MensRights	13/01/17 12:35 AM
3	"Texas man...currently dating a 17-year-old. Their relationship is technically legal—but after she sent him nude selfies, he was charged with possession of child pornography" and she was not. Christ, he was over 50 and her teacher. Throw whatever book at him you can. And same if the genders were reversed.	/r/MensRights	17/11/16 04:27 AM
1	Jesus, when my paycheck is $2700 and $2676 goes to my ex, there is something seriously fucking wrong That is an insane amount of alimony. Someone I know gets that; her ex made over 400k.	/r/MensRights	29/10/16 03:52 PM
1	Feminists want to get rid of statutes of limitations for rape Oh, the next people he raped were a mother and her 8 year old child. They ended up leaving the country (she was a grad student at the school studying). Yeah, I'm sure there was consent /there/. I think there is more of an argument about what should be called rape vs what SOL there should be for rape.	/r/MensRights	18/09/16 07:47 PM
0	Feminists want to get rid of statutes of limitations for rape You don't understand SOL. It's not if it was reported (she reported it that very day, immediately, after, when she ran bleeding and crying to the student health center). It's the amount of time they have to find the asshole. Looks like SOL has changed in NY since then. Thank GOD. BTW the info I got here was all from the state police.	/r/MensRights	18/09/16 07:45 PM
1	Feminists want to get rid of statutes of limitations for rape Looks like it changed in 2006, thank god. Not that long ago.	/r/MensRights	18/09/16 07:43 PM
0	Feminists want to get rid of statutes of limitations for rape That is utterly, utterly not true. Why are you all just thinking of cases where it is "he said, she said"?! There are violent rape cases that leave plenty of evidence that are close to murder. I think you're all really blind due to what makes the news - and forgetting about these cases.	/r/MensRights	14/09/16 06:52 PM
-3	Feminists want to get rid of statutes of limitations for rape DNA. Photos. Knife marks. Teeth marks. There is a TON of evidence for a lot of rape cases. Not all rape is "date rape" or "he said, she said". There ARE ABSOLUTELY provable, prosecuitable rape cases farther out than two years. If there is fucking CAMERA EVIDENCE, doesn't matter - if they can't find the guy in two years, doesn't matter.	/r/MensRights	14/09/16 06:50 PM
-6	Feminists want to get rid of statutes of limitations for rape The statue of limitations on rape is insane. TWO YEARS in NY. Arson? No statute. There was a serial rapist where I went to undergrad who, the MONTH after two years, went out and violently raped another woman jogging through the woods at knifepoint again. Every two years + one month. (The college had everyone on the track team jogging on the path - and they never disclosed what happened.) My sister got raped by this fucking waste of a person when she went to the same school, several years after m…	/r/MensRights	14/09/16 06:48 PM
1	Ellen Pao Officially Found Liable For Roughly $276,000 In Court Fees From Kleiner Perkins And that is misogyny. It's so much easier to hate women, isn't it. (Also, I hate Pao. But the dickpass is real.)	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/09/16 09:30 PM
41	A male professor said this women-only study lounge is sexist and illegal. The school shut it down It should be gender neutral, but labeled and proctored as a quiet-only study area, including not propositioning other students. I completely understand the need for space where you're not bugged, and it is absolutely true that there is unequal gender unwanted pressure to being pestered in these situations. Separating genders isnt legal. Having a quiet only study area is, and men who prefer that atmosphere to study deserve it too.	/r/MensRights	21/08/16 06:45 PM
1	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death Leave. her.	/r/MensRights	05/07/16 02:03 PM
1	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death \| Life and style Hate to break it to you... but you can have kids without getting married. I'm no fan of marriage. I also think, if people really want to do it, they should work on a prenup together - mostly to make sure they are communicating about what the expectations are and what they are each gaining and giving up. EDIT: perhaps the most gender equitable country on earth is Iceland. And there, they also I think have the highest percentage of childbearing couples who are NOT married. Marriage is getting more…	/r/MensRights	04/07/16 01:47 AM
1	‘Our worst nightmare’: New legal filings detail reporting of Rolling Stone’s U-Va. gang rape story I think the biggest problem here stems from: "“After much internal debate we ultimately decided not to push her any farther, in order to protect her mental health, and honor her bravery for coming forward.” They ASSUMED she was telling the truth because of her gender. And I think that is the crux of the problem. I have had more than one friend, and a family member, been brutally raped by strangers. A drunk guy tried to have unprotected sex with me when I was crazy drunk in undergrad and basicall…	/r/MensRights	04/07/16 01:42 AM
1	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death \| Life and style No they don't - and that's bad to say, because it puts more fear into people who should leave. I did NOT say to hide assets or cover them up. I know someone (two, actually) who tried to leave a horrible marriage where the woman would not even give them the PASSWORDS to their financial accounts - they had no idea how much money they had. One was a man, one was a woman (who's husband earned over 400K). My point is that you are responsible for your own life. If you have no idea or control over the …	/r/MensRights	04/07/16 01:26 AM
2	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death \| Life and style Honestly I totally agree with you. I just hate when a broad brush is used; this is an issue that hits everyone. It is true that it's seen more with women being at home - but in part that really is a function of women bearing the biological burden of having children. Believe me, I counsel my male friends to GTFO with women who sound like those in this article. I DESPISE entitlement philosophies. I helped a serious past boyfriend escape his abusive marriage where his wife was one of those people. …	/r/MensRights	04/07/16 01:21 AM
2	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death \| Life and style I agree. People need to take charge of their lives and stop fearing change. He should take leave from work and stop making money for a bit (after he protects half of what's in the bank). See what she does then. Seriously, if there is one thing I've learned as the non lazy earning spouse (and a female) is to not be employed BEFORE getting divorced, if at all possible.	/r/MensRights	02/07/16 11:12 PM
2	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death \| Life and style The exact same thing happened to me. I'm the earner, and I'm the woman. I got fucked by divorce. It goes both ways.	/r/MensRights	02/07/16 11:07 PM
1	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death \| Life and style What a huge load of bullshit.	/r/MensRights	02/07/16 11:05 PM
3	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death \| Life and style Breastfeeding? I pumped for two years. On the plane. In restrooms during job interviews. In my office. At 11pm and 4am every night for 11 months. It sucked but I did it (I had a very difficult time with nursing). That's not a reason. If a couple decides to split labor a certain way that's fine. Just be clear about expectations over time, on both sides. I despise lazy people. Being a woman, threads like this enrage me. As do lazy stay at home parents. Or lazy working people. Either way. But this …	/r/MensRights	02/07/16 11:04 PM
3	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death \| Life and style I'm having a fucking awesome single life in my 40s after getting divorced. Don't let that stop you! Hit the gym, improve yourself, date a lot. If you want. Some people just don't care, I guess. "Stability" at any price...	/r/MensRights	02/07/16 10:57 PM
2	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death \| Life and style Um... Unless we /are/ that person.	/r/MensRights	02/07/16 10:54 PM
5	A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to death \| Life and style This is a human problem, not a gender problem. I'm a woman, divorced, husband was laid off and super cavalier about looking. We have the same advanced degrees. He got half of my pay for three years of chilling, half my hiring bonuses, and half my bank account. I've never gotten anything from ANYBODY. I have paid for our child myself. I have worked myself to shreds. I have two female friends in similar situations but they didn't get divorced. Yet. It goes both ways, guys. At least I got divorced …	/r/MensRights	02/07/16 10:53 PM
2	NJ girl made $12,000 a month asking for abortion money. Fucked with 30 men per month without condom. Um, no. Come on, no one is that stupid. If you wore one and it didn't break, you'd not question being shaken down for abortion money? That's also no argument for not wearing one. Condom failure is noticeable.	/r/MensRights	17/07/15 02:52 PM
1	NJ girl made $12,000 a month asking for abortion money. Fucked with 30 men per month without condom. It's NOT victim blaming to say how a very easily available, widely used, should have been used item could have protected someone from this, from pregnancy, and from STIs.	/r/MensRights	17/07/15 02:48 PM
6	NJ girl made $12,000 a month asking for abortion money. Fucked with 30 men per month without condom. Nope. He's to blame as much as she is, there is no excuse to not use one. I'm blown away that she found so many guys who would do that. Ugh. I hope someone in here asks the question why the guys didn't protect themselves, and maybe this horrible story will help them. I mean, they could've been sued for child support if it went a different way...	/r/MensRights	17/07/15 02:47 PM
-10	The male Pill is coming - and it's going to change everything. New forms of male contraception are estimated to hit the market in two years and - unlike women's options - most won't contain hormones. That's a lie. Time to stop feeding the trolls I suppose.	/r/MensRights	18/06/15 11:39 PM
-5	The male Pill is coming - and it's going to change everything. New forms of male contraception are estimated to hit the market in two years and - unlike women's options - most won't contain hormones. This is the stupidest statement I've ever seen. Seriously. Women have been clamoring for male birth control, and the lack of progress in that area is seen as misogynistic - women were expected to bear the brunt of responsibility and side effects (and cost). Just like men who won't even consider vasectomy but have no problem having their partners get the much more invasive and risky tubal ligations. It's the opposite of feminism. Bullshit.	/r/MensRights	18/06/15 11:38 PM
5	Damseling Rachel Dolezal sued Howard University Why am I not surprised.	/r/MensRights	16/06/15 03:29 AM
0	Do Husbands/Men Have An Obligation to Get A Vasectomy? Do they owe it to anyone? Yes, this. A COUPLE needs to decide on BC together. If they are done having kids, they need to come to a consensus on what to do. Vasectomies are vastly cheaper and safer than tubal ligations. Some women can't use hormonal BC especially when they get older (side effects esp clotting/heart problems get much more frequent), and not everyone can use an IUD, either (and they have complications too). Outside of condoms, the burden of BC has been totally on the woman up to the end of childbearing. Thi…	/r/MensRights	16/06/15 03:28 AM
3	No, You Can’t Get a Fucking Neck Tattoo, Jane Marie. - Inked Magazine This woman sounds like one of the most irritating, entitled, and classless beings on the planet. Ugh. My tattoo artist friends are appalled by this. Like, "yeah, we're just monkeys doing whatever you tell us", as opposed to artists whos reputations live on on someone else's body. And also the tattoo she wanted to get SUCKED. And this argument has zero, nothing, to do with gender. The fact that she tried to whip that out is just gross.	/r/MensRights	16/06/15 03:17 AM
1	Nobel Prize-winning scientist says he was forced to resign Oh, barf. Really? Jesus, read your own message there. The end.. that's just disgusting. How about, noone be an asshole, gender should not matter in science? Which is what I said. GENDER BLIND. How is that a problem??? HOW can you argue with that? And he did not lose all his professional statuses. Let's stick with the facts, please. It wasn't just one comment, wasn't a joke, and in his "apology/explanation" he really seemed to be coming from a personal place where he was talking about his relatio…	/r/MensRights	16/06/15 03:14 AM
-1	Nobel Prize-winning scientist says he was forced to resign Are you kidding?! Thanks for making my point for me. I work and thrive in an almost all-male environment. Didn't realize I should react poorly to criticism, cry, and develop crushes on my cow-workers (ugh). How about we treat people as individuals?? Just a thought.	/r/MensRights	15/06/15 07:19 PM
1	Nobel Prize-winning scientist says he was forced to resign "every position"?! Hardly. It's hard to listen to you if you're going to mis-state the facts.	/r/MensRights	15/06/15 06:26 PM
1	Nobel Prize-winning scientist says he was forced to resign Um, I'm just saying we don't know what else may or may not have happened. Press releases don't exactly give the whole story, positive or negative. My point is if someone is this blatant/unthinking about what they say publicly, it's likely there are other behaviors afoot. Of course that shouldn't dictate any actions/repercussions, other than maybe looking into the situation a bit more.	/r/MensRights	15/06/15 06:19 PM
-2	Nobel Prize-winning scientist says he was forced to resign Quite a few? I saw one quote from one person - not exactly a huge data set. And I think others have covered very well that this wasn't just a lame joke - he defended what he said again. There was a way to apologize the right way, and he didn't take it. Does that mean he should have his career destroyed? Of course not, and in my note I even said I thought the impact was too severe. But lose a few non-paid honorary positions where the POINT was to advocate for diversity in STEM? Sure. I really lik…	/r/MensRights	15/06/15 04:53 PM
9	Nobel Prize-winning scientist says he was forced to resign This is silly. He's FREE to say what he wants. Sometimes what you say has consequences, especially professionally. Sheesh. He didn't get arrested, he lost some honorary positions.	/r/MensRights	15/06/15 01:25 PM
2	Nobel Prize-winning scientist says he was forced to resign It wasn't innocuous. I do think the backlash in terms of his positions is too severe if this is the only thing he did. Maybe it's the final straw, on the other hand. There is a lot we don't know, and as a female PhD in the tech field I really was upset by these statements. Having a Nobel means nothing. Some very successful male scientists were complete assholes to women in science (your beloved Feynman, for example.) There is of course no comparison to the other situation, which is batshit crazy…	/r/MensRights	15/06/15 01:19 PM
4	Dad didn't know ex-wife put daughter in foster care. He spent 16 years trying to find her. Ordered to pay $8000 for foster care services. You can get a maternal blood DNA test throughout most of the pregnancy. You don't need to wait for birth.	/r/MensRights	01/06/15 10:11 PM
4	Husband sends wife 'sex rejection' spreadsheet Respectfully disagree. I have seen this from the other way around, and the feelings were the same. He wouldn't (couldn't?) have sex with her because she was turning into a horrible unpleasant jerkface. She tries to shame/complain him into doing it anyway (aka like the spreadsheet), she gets seen as the horrible manipulating selfish asshole she was - immediately with no pity. If anything, in this recent spreadsheet example, I think the man is getting a pass and sympathy that "his wife cut him off…	/r/MensRights	26/07/14 04:23 PM
1	Husband sends wife 'sex rejection' spreadsheet I don't see this as a gender issue. Whoever makes a spreadsheet like that comes across as a petulant asshole who is basically trying to ensure they never get laid again, no matter if it is the man or woman. Ugh, oh ugh. This makes me think of the argument: "our marriage broke up because the (wife) wouldn't sleep with the (husband)" when, really, the (wife) stopped sleeping with the (husband) because (he) was an unhelpful, mean, selfish baby jerk, and cemented the deal by complaining about sex. T…	/r/MensRights	26/07/14 02:04 AM
1	How to get banned from r/feminism: "if feminism actually is an egalitarian movement it would focus on the victims of both genders." ... that got REMOVED??? I'm a feminist, I've gotten in arguments on the MRA board here. And I'm really horrified that would get removed. What, is the feminist discussion so FRAGILE it can't handle an opinion like that? Really?? Not cool.	/r/MensRights	11/12/12 03:18 AM
5	Men's Rights are important, but please don't let it take over your life. It makes me so sad that so many people on here use such inflammatory language. Sure there are some nutcases out there. But in what universe does feminist (i.e. women should have equal rights to men) equate to NAZI? Stop listening to AM radio, perhaps, and educate yourself about where the feminist movement came from, and what it was like to be a woman back then. People like you make me worry for MRA - you are equivalent to that "nazi-feminist" you see on the other side. It's just really sad. It's…	/r/MensRights	25/11/12 01:19 AM
6	Men's Rights are important, but please don't let it take over your life. I want us all to fight for ALL rights. THIS. Hatred towards "feminists"- you know what that sounds like? It sounds exactly like the people you claim you hate. There isn't any need for that. How about we stick to facts, information, rational ways in which we can make a difference, support for those who are going through hell due to gender inequalities, etc. I find those way on one side- female OR male - generally have a hard time admitting the other side has anything negative they have to face du…	/r/MensRights	25/11/12 01:14 AM
5	Men's Rights are important, but please don't let it take over your life. What on earth could she do to put your dad in jail? Is there stuff you don't know about here? Arguing against child support doesn't throw you in jail. Maybe calm down and talk to his lawyer. He needs a good one, and if he doesn't have one, needs to upgrade pronto. I think Divorce is one of the places where men's right suffer the most. The reason for it is ironic- in the 50's and before, women were destroyed by divorce. But the law went way in the other direction, and now assumes women are stay-a…	/r/MensRights	25/11/12 01:08 AM
45	"How can a girl rape a boy" You were date raped. I mean, you don't think unprotected sex without consent is ok? You could have gotten STDs, gotten her pregnant, etc. The ability to make those choices was taken away from you. Bad situation.	/r/MensRights	24/11/12 03:00 AM
7	"How can a girl rape a boy" THIS is what a lot of people don't understand, and it's behind the "how can a woman rape a guy?" question. You described it very well. The issue of force is different: there could be blunt force, or mental force, or blackmail, or... list goes on and on. As some others have said, these involuntary bodily reactions can happen for women too, and also for children when they are abused. Understanding how your body can "betray" you during the most horrifying time of your life is crucial for healing fr…	/r/MensRights	24/11/12 02:57 AM
6	Tired of being called a "rapist" for supporting r/mensrights The only thing that bothers me about any of this is the use of the word "feminist" like it is something bad. I'm a feminist. I think men and women are equal. Thus, i also support men's rights and see many places where men are treated poorly vs. women (see: DIVORCE). I'm a woman, I'm a feminist, and I support men's rights. Saying that being male has several benefits over being female is true; it does not negate that there are several areas in which they suffer negative inequalities. These two phi…	/r/MensRights	22/11/12 03:23 AM
9	Was surprised to see these above the urinals in the men's restroom. Well done, Auburn. It creeps me out that multiple links you've put there are showing up purple since I had previously sent them to my bf, who was in an abusive marriage when we met. It DOES happen, had happened to him for years, he still struggles w.r.t. realizing it. He had no help - zero - and had to pay out the ass to get divorced (no kids). It was ridiculous.	/r/MensRights	29/10/12 11:28 PM