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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | You know you're not ok when...I think the experience for most people is to have good days and bad days | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How to protect myself in the future (wife is low income)Keep her happy. If she leaves your ass, she's gonna leave with half. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/23 05:58 PM |
| 3 | She is struggling.You can help her after the fact if you feel inclined to, but protect yourself and finalize that divorce first. Hire a good lawyer, and get it done. Prioritize yourself first though | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Talk this through with me-If this behavior was reversed, is there any doubt the guy would be in jail? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/22 05:36 PM |
| 2 | I couldn’t make it to work todayIt is kind of like the grieving process for most people. Youll feel happy and excited at times, but sometimes these waves will hit you HARD. Be kind to yourself, it is really devastating event for most men. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/22 04:42 AM |
| 2 | ConfusionI'd say something. If she is dragging you online, i feel like you could say something to her. Along the lines of, "i saw your Instagram story, i was just making conversation, and if you weren't interested, a simple, no thanks, or im focusing on my workout would gotten me to move along." Im curious what her response would be. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 05:01 PM |
| 20 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…Yeah that was my experience as well. My spouse bailed on couples counseling when she realized there was going to be more than my faults being discussed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Ex husband got me flowers for Mother’s DayI would assume he meant "Happy Mothers' Day!" And was trying to be nice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/22 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Gender role reversal and divorceSounds like she is trying to justify her bad behavior by critizing your character Im sure she'll find a different issue with this dude down the (he doesnt help around the house!!!). Focus on your kids and yourself, and a better partner will come around for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/22 04:13 PM |
| 5 | “She got the goldmine… I got the shaft! … They split it right down the middle And then they gave her the better half.” -Jerry ReedI feel like someone posted a while back about what is the best songs re: divorce. This was my reply. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/22 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Shame and deathThis is a good response. Suicide is not the answer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/22 08:38 PM |
| 3 | "Is that your uncle?"They could have said, "Is that your grandpa?" to really twist the knife. Only thing you can do, is be as good as parent as you can be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/22 10:35 PM |
| 23 | 16 days into itI would highly suggest talking with a therapist. Having a hired professional who is dedicated to listening to you, is a huge help in tough times like these. Even a great friend or family member would be worth talking to. Jumping into dating app seems to soon given the pain you are in. Resorting to violence to her or your self isnt going cause any less pain to everyone involved. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Best Breakup Songs (Just a Few) Some NSFWShe Got The Goldmine, i got the shaft. By jerry reed | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/22 12:30 PM |
| -1 | Any man here who has claimed spousal support or husband maintenance? what was the outcome?Does any guy want that? Just keep what you got, ill keep what i got, seems to be all we are looking for. Maybe you need to get a hold of kelly clarkson's ex husband. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/22 01:43 AM |
| 8 | Couples therapyI hate to say it, but this was exactly my experience. My wife was there to talk about my faults, but any mentions of her shortcomings, was an unmentionable. I got yelled at by my spouse afterwards for bringing things up i shouldn't have. I liked the process, i finally felt like i could bring up things that were bothering me, but my spouse hated that. But yes, make sure you are BOTH willing to make it work. It will take some constructive criticism and change to help. It can be helpful if you are … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Music to cope withWHY DIDNT I LEARN HOW TO COOK?!?! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/22 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Music to cope withBest song that applies to this entire subreddit, "She Got the Goldmine, (i got the shaft)", by the late great Jerry Reed. Even if you ain't a fan of country, you have to laugh and love this song. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/22 11:31 PM |
| 5 | My first big date post-divorce.....with her boyfriend.Be a perfect gentleman all night, dont say anything negative. Then give him a wink at the end of the night. It will drive them insane. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Books to help with emotional side of things?I feel like a decent therapist will help more than any book. Just being able to talk things out with a trained professional, has really helped me. Can do a lot via phone and zoom, so geography is less of a factor than it was. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/21 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Saw this in another sub, thought I’d have the folks here weight in. IMO, a doll wouldn’t help much around the house, but at least it wouldn’t sit on its phone while I take care of everything.Can a woman come with an off button? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/21 04:03 PM |
| 3 | My Journey Thus Far......... It really does get better gentlemen......Couldnt agreee more on several points. The 5:2 fasting has been working for me as well. Therapy is really helpful, and getting out meeting people. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/21 04:35 PM |
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