skorpion7777 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Parting ways with a best friend		skorpion7777	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 06:39 PM

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2	Best city to learn game? Although I love amsterdam (for different reasons) I wouldnt go there for the girls. First of all everyone is tall. unless you're 6'3+ you're putting yourself at a disadvantage. Secondly, there are so many expats, that locals are pretty reserved including one in their social circle.	/r/seduction	04/02/26 07:47 AM
1	she wasted my time then laughs in my face Even though it is difficult the worst thing is to seem annoyed. Just play it off like nothing happened and if she tries to arrange something new with you play it off in a friendly manner. bonus: if you have her on IG for example at the same time you would have your date, make a post of you doing something else (ride bike, go to a local bar by yourself or with friends, even post a picture of a book your currently reading). those will leave small impressions on her, like „wow, he didnt grief about…	/r/seduction	02/03/22 08:31 AM
15	Creating a new friends group as an adult If you would be " aware of the real dynamics of seduction, social interaction, games of power and so on " you wouldnt be asking that question and instead would have learned from your experience . Sorry to bring bad news, but most likely you havent figured it out (yet)	/r/askTRP	22/03/21 09:19 AM
72	Girl I fucked is a close friends of a hotter girl I'm talking to. What should I do? Some retarded responses in here geeeezzee..... Here is your answer to question 2: Yeah, I'm cool with her. Then switch topics. No need to go into details and no need to lie since she could figure out a lie quite easy just by asking her friend. If you fucked her friend well she has nothing bad to say about you and it wont hinder you meeting up with the Ukrainian	/r/askTRP	21/03/21 01:37 PM
6	Anyone get bored of sex? I think everything has a time and place. So much on trp seems like a rule, you need to lift, you need to spin plates etc. While those rationally speaking are good and logical things, of you don't feel like it don't do it or make a break. If you try to force those things you'll end up destroying your enjoyment you get out of it. Try switching it up once in a while, gym vs other sports, plates vs ltr, fucking vs monk mode. Everything has its time :)	/r/askTRP	15/09/20 10:52 AM
5	How did this happen and why? Nightclubs are a special thing where very weird things can happen. Some girls see it as a rule free zone and use alcohol as justification, hence they don't care about boyfriends. It is their night and they'll do what they want and if you are careless, risky and have high energy they will happily join your frame. (Tbh in my experience depending on the type of nightclub) You can really pull some extreme shit if you just obviously don't give a fuck. But that's also why those girls will not text you…	/r/askTRP	23/08/20 07:17 AM
1	How much do you spend on dates? If it is 2+ drinks each you should split the bill. If it's only one drink I usually just pay everything. Don't be afraid to split the bill, since otherwise as you noticed you'll run out of money quick. Otherwise think of dates outside where you can bring your own drinks/food. I wouldn't recommend coffee since it is a different setting evening vs. Mid-day and evening is always better. I made the same mistake you did and I'll never again spend 20+ regularly on a date since it is just a waste of mo…	/r/seduction	13/08/20 08:07 AM
8	Hinge app. Got her number at 10:30pm after chatting that night. I went to bed early for 6am gym session. How soon should I text to meet up? Sidebar isn’t explicit wrt this question. Relative newb here trying to build some abundance in a pandemic. Texting is mainly for logistics. Check when youre free in the evening and suggest that. E.g. on tuesday you text. Hey, I want to check out ... bar on Thursday, you should join me :) Imo 2 days in advance is usually perfect	/r/askTRP	20/07/20 12:48 PM
93	Should I cut off the boys or am I being dramatic Sound like some horsing around due to your young age. Teenagers sometimes do things without thinking them through. You did well. Just hold frame. No need to break contact. You'll look butthurt. Keep it in mind for the next time and if you worry about such things look that such photos are only locally stored on your own device!	/r/askTRP	20/07/20 12:05 PM
13	tinder and perceived smv No, because it's pretty accepted especially if they themselves are on an app. But there was a survey where they've shown women profiles and they rated 80% of the dudes as under average. Make of that what you want.	/r/askTRP	14/07/20 09:33 PM
5	What do you guys do to unwind? I'm watching the sunset. Every day. I get on a roof nearby and just enjoy the day ending. Think about what has happened and how I want my future to look like. It is also a great place to have some calls. I Call my family and friends from there every couple days and speak with them just about everything as I see the sun going down.	/r/askTRP	14/07/20 09:16 AM
3	Studying abroad or in home town? If you can go abroad to study without taking a loan do that! If you can afford it to spend a couple hundred a month to go to a different city it will give you much much more experience than saving it. Saving is a good and important thing, but especially at such a young age the experience is much more valuable, so it is better to invest in yourself!	/r/askTRP	11/07/20 05:55 PM
2	How do I tell a friend that I'm disappointed in him? Well, if you think about it there is no good answer he can give you why he uninvited you. I mean you can ask him why or just straight up tell him that you are disappointed, if you think that will help you clear your mind. But don't expect he can give you a good reason or you can restore your friendship. But people change and behave unpredictable. Just as the others mentioned, be independent and invest your time in people that actually care about you	/r/askTRP	02/07/20 12:03 PM
1	Soft nexted LTR for the first time Don't listen to this guy. Light-hearted fun is one thing. But no one likes if you joke about their problems. If your gf was already upset, anger her would make things worse. I am not sure why you didn't state what she was doing you wanted her to stop, so I won't comment if you did the right or wrong thing. Just keep in mind what the other guy said. She came to you to forget the trouble with her roommate, so it may have been wise to not touch that subject at all and keep your mouth shut.	/r/askTRP	17/06/20 08:18 PM
3	Is the red pill big right now? Nobody needs exposure. Tbh sounds like an instagram currency. People who are interested will find it. E.g. look at Joe Rogan and Jocko. They definitely teach self improvement and sometimes talk about oneitis and your smv. Still there is no need for them to shout red pill theories like there is no tomorrow. Exposure will bring nothing except pain and reputation damage for the celebritys who go public with it. Try arguing with some people about the most basic stuff like n-count. You'll wanna shoot…	/r/askTRP	16/06/20 12:17 PM
4	How do you love yourself? Thats a very deep question and no one will be able to give you a definite answer. I think the biggest factor is to find some things you enjoy. There is no need in it to be something excessive like social media trys to tell you. It can be just going for a walk or listening to some music. Realize that at the end of the day you are alone and the most important thing is to find an inner peace such that you can be ok with that. Do that often enough, throw in some trp advice and you hopefully become m…	/r/askTRP	16/06/20 11:37 AM
8	Is the red pill big right now? Why would you benefit from big shout-outs? No celebrity in their right mind would go public with those things, since it basically means having all femenists and mainstream media against you with what benefit? You can't force a red pill mindset on people! I am sure most celebritys know about trp since they are the people most exposed to it (hypergamy and divorce rape)	/r/askTRP	16/06/20 10:36 AM
2	in your experience how rare is it to find a women who is "good" in bed? It should be mutual each time. You will rarely find a women who will tell you her exact fetish. Thats because they often don't know themselves. And it is not your job to satisfie those, but more to guide her. You try what you are enjoying, see if she is into it and you both line up well. If not you move on.	/r/askTRP	09/06/20 01:18 PM
1	in your experience how rare is it to find a women who is "good" in bed? Doesn't seem that rare. Most aren't open to everything the first time. But after some times they open up. Also if the first time was good you can usually talk about some light fantasies with her after sex (like slapping, chocking and tying her up which in my experience most like naturally) to get her to open up. With time it will progress. As others pointed out if she is into you there will rarely be a no	/r/askTRP	09/06/20 12:34 PM
1	Parting ways with a best friend Alright. Thanks for your insight. I'll just be vetting better next time, before spending so much time on a person	/r/askTRP	06/02/20 10:43 AM
1	Parting ways with a best friend I didn't force anybody. But Ill make a note for my other friends and starting to handle it like with a "relationship". Just inviting them to healthy activities and if I dont see any interest Ill distance myself.	/r/askTRP	06/02/20 10:42 AM
1	Parting ways with a best friend Cant deny that I have feelings for him (not sexual). Thanks for your advice. He answered that he is not sure if he has time for a meet up. So I just texted "good luck". Time to look elsewhere	/r/askTRP	06/02/20 10:35 AM
32	Girlfriend(28) asking me (27) to marry her You don't owe her anything. But as far as I can see you still want to be with her and want kids together. Imo a good way to go about it is to tell her you don't want to involve a third party (the government) into your relationship. Tell her you're still into her and like to have kids, but it was never your intention to get married (you can be honest in that regard). You'll save your assets and minimize the risk an ugly divorce. If she tries to pressure you into marriage that is a red flag and yo…	/r/askTRP	13/11/19 02:18 PM
2	A girl who used to like me has a boyfriend now. Now, she is acting really bitchy and mean to me (and others too, but to me she is especially poignant). I genuinely do not care, but I want to understand the psychology behind it. I can't really pinpoint why women change their behavior in a friendship after getting into a relationship. Maybe it has to do with them feeling as low value as others stated. Just DGAF and keep it in your head if you try to befriend a female next time. If the girl annoys you and is disrespectful cut contact. That's why Trp is devided about female friendship - dynamic can quickly change, don't expect the same amount of loyalty as with good male friends. It happened multiple times to me, I have "e…	/r/askTRP	13/11/19 01:12 PM
5	Why don’t women leave uncomfortable situations? Wait what? Are you writing that 99% of the time you fucked a girl you didn't kiss her beforehand? Sure in a club you can start with grinding, kino etc. But at home DinViesel is absolutely right, don't get to touchy before making out. Sex is step by step (not necessarily calculated tho)	/r/askTRP	09/11/19 07:58 PM
2	Overcoming LMR/ASD. What did i do wrong? No one can really guess a reason for Lmr. Sometimes push/pull works sometimes it doesn't. Don't let that bother you! Things you could have tried: more dirty talk in the evening trying to really maker her want it. Otherwise there is just some point in the evening where you know you can't change it and it's alright to go to sleep. In the morning it's a shit test if she doesn't even kiss you. Hand her a mouth wash and then withdraw attention for 10-15 minutes. Say youre making breakfast (not for he…	/r/askTRP	02/11/19 01:37 PM
2	Approach in class? Well my approach would have been to throw small compliments and teases each lessen before/after class such that she'll notice me and has a better perception than some kind of random. You blew that chance by not talking to her throughout the semester. Why not? I get you need to leave for another class but there is always some time for 2 min small talk. Also you should not care what others think. Why can't you ask her in private? "Hey (...) can I talk to you in private for a sec?" Sounds like you …	/r/askTRP	02/11/19 01:21 PM
9	How to get the girl back to your place first date and overcome ASD, logistics, etc In the end she got into your apartment so everything played out fine. Just my experience. Don't go to heavy on the makeout and kino at the bar it seems immature and takes away her drive to go home with you (she already got attention) usually I keep it to 10 sec kiss max. Second don't talk at the venue to go to your place, then asd starts to kick on or she gets nervous. You can make some remarks to later use (e.g. I collect....., I have the film...). Just say, hey we should change venues and lead…	/r/askTRP	26/09/19 12:48 PM
1	After having my eyes opened, I’ve become completely disillusioned by women. Do I just give up now? Great reminder!	/r/askTRP	13/09/19 05:30 PM
2	Long game or straightforward? Imho lunch is even a bit to informal, your just sitting there and eating... not very attractive. Be confident about your intentions. If you talk the next time to her, say that its a bummer youre only having quick talks. make a slight compliment (you seem sympathetic) . And say to her she should JOIN you for a drink after work/school. Not if she wants to grab drinks with you, say you would appreciate if she would JOIN you. That way its not really asking her out but just a suggestion she will like…	/r/seduction	13/09/19 05:23 PM
1	Is "I'm glad you're not super jacked" a shit test? Lets assume your stats are right. Then you have an FFMI of 24.3 . Everything over 25 is near impossible to achieve without juice. Just let that sink in. Your probably somewhere in the top 2-3% of fittest people on earth - great job! So there are two options: women cant judge shit, which is true to some extend and/or she wants to get you to slow down because shes scared to lose you (dad bod trap someone already mentioned) Reaction: Laugh about it and ignore her, there is no thing as to muscular…	/r/askTRP	13/09/19 01:32 PM
2	What tips or activities would you recommend to ensure she has a good time when shes over at your place? I don't know why people here make a science out of the question and don't even answer it correct First, your room/flat should be somewhat clean. Second and most importantly have wine at home. Doesn't need to be great or expensive but it is essential. Drink a glass or two with her and make a move	/r/seduction	04/09/19 11:11 AM
2	Why does this girl do this? Lets try to answer (as a german): She is/was bored and probably texted a bunch of people to get some validation (yes this happens). The key is here to not be boring. E.g. she is asking what your upto if say some lame shit (home netflix) she'll disengage and will take long to response. German girls get bored quickly. Even if its not true think of some random shit she would also enjoy. Tell her you've been climbing, skating, hiking everything that sparks her attraction. And go for plans to include…	/r/seduction	25/08/19 07:10 PM
1	The Uncontrollable Growth of The Red Pill Basic points of trp are dealing with competition, elevating yourself (aka becomming a better version of yourself) and dealing with other peoples shit without it affecting you. The number of "red pilled men" is not rising, if so due to social media the ammount of orbiters (blue pill) is rising. You just seem not to been seen as high enough value at your school. Others have more success and you blame it on trp growing. Look into the Book extreme ownership. If you would be fat I can tell you the se…	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/19 07:04 PM
17	Why do normal women dislike me after I became muscular and lean? You're on juice, if you are training hard, the line of an asthetic body (what most people not into bodybuilding think of) is crossed quick. Sadi Hadzovic made a great statement about it. He said his peak with girls was at 175lbs (around 80kg) and he is 1.83m. I think thats around the natural max you can achieve natural with around 12-14% bodyfat at this height. So yes girls are attracted to muscles, just not anything out of the natural limits (at least most of them). Here is the interview: https…	/r/askTRP	30/07/19 11:21 AM
19	Old Female-friends hate me after raising SMV Yep! There are no female friends. As soon as they get a boyfriend your friendship is over, so its just not worth it to get invested as you would with male friends	/r/askTRP	02/07/19 08:31 PM
3	What's the perfect photos that project high SMV? Can you pm it to me please? would be interesting and maybe I can give you some recommendations. As of violent pics... I guess what you want to project is masculinity. So for showing muscles go on a beach and take pictures there, preferably take some female friends with you. Other places to show muscles: Go hiking, the gym (in front of an accomplishment e.g. 150kg deadlift) or halfnaked in the snow because its "funny". As for violence, take pics during martial art training although thats difficul…	/r/askTRP	01/07/19 03:43 PM
2	Female Fantasy Feminism will be on the hunt to stop it	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/19 05:31 PM
30	Female Fantasy Sometimes it is just a shit show. When you go out eating and order a salad or dont drink alcohol... Whaaattt?? Your on a diet??? How/Why.... I just want a guy I can lay in bed with all day and eat ben and jerrys. Ohh but he needs to be fit af. Sometimes I think some dont even subconsciously understand it. Probably till their metabolism starts to get slower in the late 20ies. But you’re absolutely right: Never bitch about it	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/19 05:29 PM
5	Questions about compliments, exes See it as a compliment. Maybe not directly as an IOI. Just say "Thanks" smile and continue with the interaction as if nothing happend. Try to shut it down by making fun of her. Especially if she talks non stop about it. Don't validate her by saying shit like " your ex sounds terrible" don't ever do that. Call her out for seeming incapable of a lasting relationship in a obviously sarcastic way. Be fun about it. Depends on the situation. If the topic matches and you exchange crazy stories about th…	/r/seduction	19/05/19 12:43 PM
1	I need help with style. Yes but imo it's a fashion brand and I am not a big fan of it since quality is often not worth the price. I would recommend something from Seiko or Hamilton. Both have good options for under 500$ and models that are suited for daily use	/r/seduction	18/05/19 09:38 PM
1	I need help with style. For basic convinient good style I recommend Alex Costa. Also Teachingmansfashion (TMF) does the trick, but is full of advertising that's why I prefer Costa. If you get more experience and get the essential things like fit and color coordination right some channels to make your style pop and unique are: Daniel Simmons and Sangiev. But TBH if you stick to the basics Costa teaches youll be better dressed than 90% of other men. To sum up my favorite pieces for this summer season for you: -White Snea…	/r/seduction	18/05/19 08:09 PM
1	Kissing a girl too early Once I meet up with a girl. I tried kissing her I think 3 or 4 times (she rejected) and only on the second date the kiss happened. Also it should be your goal not to come off as needy so she doesnt get the impression you want to fuck within 10min. Thats why you push pull. I agree with going for the kiss directly on the first date. Ideally within the date, not at the end. But there are also other signs to take into consideration.	/r/seduction	03/04/19 03:23 PM
3	Want to smash. That's a good one. Also make sure you have something at home to once, spark her attraction when you ask her to come by, and let her loosen up. Best is some good wine or good cocktails. The rest is just kino and escalation	/r/seduction	03/04/19 01:36 PM
4	Kissing a girl too early Ill try to keep it short. If you felt weird she 99% felt the same. Usually what makes you feel this way is not the kiss itself, but the moment afterwards. If there is awkward silence thats bad. Either continue your conversation as if nothing happened or make a bit of a joke (e.g. "you taste like trouble" and kiss her again). Important is that you project confidence and dont make it a big deal! In the scenario where she kissed you on the cheek you should have stayed close, whispered something in …	/r/seduction	03/04/19 01:32 PM
1	Gaming Cute Bartender I think you made a great move not asking directly for her number. If you build enough attraction over common interest you should be able to get her number the next time but here is an alternative. Sure she gets hit on a lot as a bartender, also probably often in a dumb or rude way. So her mindset is dont sh*t where you eat and she is not into dating customers. Try to get her out of that place, e.g. come in late and stay till the place shuts down and ask her if she wants to grab a late night snac…	/r/seduction	16/02/19 02:44 PM
2	Second date no kiss? Don't wait till the end! But otherwise, don't contact her and don't ask for a third date. Otherwise you'll run a risk of getting oneitis and coming off as needy. See it that way: if she is really into you she will ask for the next date. If she isn't/unsure: you have common friends and will probably soon run into each other. You can try building her attention then, but for now, let it rest unless she explicitly text you for another romantic date	/r/seduction	14/02/19 02:38 PM
2	HOMEWORK She already asked you to help her and she is ok with it happening at a private place, not a library etc. So she already feels comfortable with you which is great. But don't rush things, because the mindset is you are teaching her. Go slow, if she writes something down touch her arm and hand from time to time. If she doesn't shy away keep your hand on hers a bit longer (so it also becomes kind of obvious to her). Look how she reacts and escalate from there. Make some flirty jokes (teacher student…	/r/seduction	13/02/19 12:21 PM
7	HOMEWORK Terrible advice. She asked for help with her school work. Not if he's into chilling with her	/r/seduction	13/02/19 12:14 PM
5	Walking Dates Make them interesting through your talks. I don't really get your question, can you be more specific? I don't rely on the environment to give me something interesting to talk about so it's the usual smalltalk till a common topic is found you can focus on	/r/seduction	10/02/19 04:33 PM
2	Making a habit out of it Greet people and remember their names (write them down if you need to). No matter the gender, no matter if you've only met them once for a short time. If you see familiar faces, greet them	/r/seduction	05/02/19 10:16 PM
2	How do you deal with the post approach shame? First of all: Like the others said no shame in trying Second: If you get a rejection respect it and move on, but be polite and direct. If she hits you with something like, let's be friends. Say no, I don't think I could be (normal) friends with you. Be confident about what you want. but if you see her around still greet, not hard feelings involved for getting a no	/r/seduction	05/02/19 02:19 PM
1	Ugh, i feel oike i cant get a good read. Although i may just be a dense mofo. I second that opinion. Probably a large part of her attraction comes from the age difference maturity. And thats not long term attraction. Try making plans for something way more casual then dinner at V-Day. Like grab a drink after work or idk go swimming on the weekend together (ideally something you can still do and enjoy even if she says no)	/r/seduction	05/02/19 12:26 PM
27	Have any if you ever gotten the "as friends" text and still ended up hooking up/dating the girl who sent it? When you're out with her and not 1 on 1 e.g. out drinking with friends you'll constantly drop small hints. "You're such a bro to me" "I really enjoy you as a friend" and so on	/r/seduction	03/02/19 07:31 PM
1	Is this a complete no? I think she was legit busy over the weekend or maybe just wanted to see your reaction. The other guy was right, your answer probably appeared gamy. Here is my advice: When you see her the next time in a quite environment. No co-workers around. Look her in the eyes! Stand confident and say that you enjoy her companionship at work and would like to get to know her outside of work. invite her to grab a coffee/beer with you off-work, maybe even directly after work. Don't seem nervous or insecure abo…	/r/seduction	01/02/19 01:04 PM
1	Dating at college [Specific Question] Why not? She's looking good and was easy to talk to. I approached her because the situation was beneficial, why let that slip because of some numbers. Age difference is like 3 years or smth so could be worse. Would you complain if you hooked up randomly with a 19 year old and you are 22? I guess not	/r/seduction	31/01/19 02:47 PM
1	Dating at college [Specific Question] Well, tbh I am not really looking for friendship with her. I already have multiple female friends and since she is new in the city my own network is way better. I know some of her friends and even if it sounds rude it is probably not worth it. I just thought I already have the connection so I could try to arrange something with her, since I can imagine that she is still attracted to me. I have no clue if she is still dating the other dude or not. I didn't hold a grudge and I responded rational (…	/r/seduction	31/01/19 12:28 PM
1	Advancing Thats very important and to answer your question this infos are necessary. It is very hard if not nearly impossible to build attraction via text. So if you only had a 1 min talk its unlikely she will text you back, no matter how interesting the text is. Some people recommend to exchange Instagram if you only have a chance for a quick conversation so the girl can get more inside through your feed and build attraction indirect.	/r/seduction	31/01/19 09:50 AM
3	Girl gone cold and becoming very rude suddenly Bullshit. He was talking to other girls. Not making out with someone else in front of her. He shouldn't apologize for that.	/r/seduction	28/01/19 06:12 PM
1	Girl gone cold and becoming very rude suddenly It's often easier said than done but don't pic a girl or in general person to spend time with only because a lack of options. You seem to be handy with the other girls in class. Focus on them even if not GF material try to build a bigger social circle and youll have loads of options	/r/seduction	28/01/19 06:10 PM
8	Soul is pretty much dead From time to time I have the same feeling as you and can totally get you. What helps me then is to talk to someone"in the same situation". Some singles and hear their stories and thoughts. Married people only can be hard since they come from a total different standpoint than you do	/r/seduction	18/01/19 07:22 PM
6	Reapproaching a girl? Shouldn't be your primary goal. Best case is if she sees you talking to some other girls and ignore her for some time (still greet her but don't run after her). Then later talk casually to her (30min at least) if shes still there listens to you and laughs. Start escalating (touch her arm, shoulder... ) If she reacts positive and doesn't shy away. Talk 10min more, say you need some fresh air, grab her hand, go outside where it is quite and you can - probably - kiss her. BUT ONLY if she reacts wel…	/r/seduction	14/01/19 05:22 PM
1	Has anyone here genuinely improved their state of mind from the advice given in this sub? That sounds awesome. What books do you recommend and what skillsets are you talking about in specific (public speaking, body language etc.)?	/r/seduction	14/01/19 09:21 AM
3	What are you supposed to do / talk about with the girl when you're on the way from the bar to your place to hookup? Thats it! Keep it fun! Never give her the feeling of doing something wrong/bad or socially judged. Tell her an embarrassing story laugh about it, tell her how you seen a child throw candy at a cashier because he was pissed and how everybody at the store laughed because he missed all the shots. Just as an example, light and fun stuff!	/r/seduction	14/01/19 09:19 AM
1	What are you supposed to do / talk about with the girl when you're on the way from the bar to your place to hookup? Thats it! Keep it fun! Never give her the feeling of doing something wrong/bad or socially judged. Tell her an embarrassing story laugh about it, tell her how you seen a child throw candy at a cashier because he was pissed and how everybody at the store laughed because he missed all the shots. Just as an example, light and fun stuff!	/r/seduction	14/01/19 09:19 AM
3	Is it wise to mention to girls the dates you are having with other girls? It depends on the type of girl. If you meet someone who is very open about her relationships and likes to talk about her ex's you can swing in with some of your stories. But for me personally thats not the time of conversation I would want to have the whole date. For the other type of girl, the most ones. Dont mention that topic. Especially dont mention that you are dating multiple women! Also don't tell them if you have a date lined up. Just tell them you are meeting with a girlfriend (friend o…	/r/seduction	14/01/19 09:13 AM