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Models is all you need. Don't pay anyone to learn how to do a "normal" human function. Plus Models works for relationships in general, not just getting laid
/r/seduction14/01/21 03:10 AM
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Nah, it's because sex just gets routine after a while. I still make my gf laugh, etc. all the time, but we don't have sex like every five seconds like during the honeymoon phase. It doesn't feel wrong though, it just seems like the natural progression of things. The problem with this sub is its all about how to get laid, there's no point in thinking about relationship dynamics past the sex part. There are whole different subreddits for that.
/r/seduction04/01/21 06:43 PM
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So is attractive dude
/r/seduction24/09/20 10:04 PM
0

Looks dont even matter either. As long as you arent a troll-looking nasty dude who doesnt shower and dresses like absolute dog shit, you can still get girls. Believe it or not an attractive girl would more likely hook up with a chubby but funny/confident dude than a modelesque but awkward/dickhead type dude.
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:21 PM
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Weed gives me massive social anxiety. I barely even wanna be around my GF when I'm high nevertheless a bar full of people. I pretty much can only handle video games alone or something like working out when I'm high. Alcohol however is my cheat code. I went sober on everything for a few months and realized my sober self is my best self. So my recommendation is to make any drug a very seldom experiencr
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:36 PM
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Idk, my girlfriend and I have similar interests but it doesn't necessarily mean we do them together. She shows interest in the games I play but she doesnt play games herself, things like that. I think having an open mind to learning/trying new things that she/you are into goes farther than you already doing both when you meet
/r/seduction19/08/20 07:02 PM
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I mean assuming you're not a troll face wise or otherwise weird compared to society standards, you can literally just go up to a guy, compliment him on something, make some small talk about a random topic and then get his number. As an 18 year old female who doesnt fit the first two categories, that's all it takes.
/r/seduction13/08/20 08:00 AM
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Sounds like you're just paying a massively high bill just for pussy, dude. You'd be better of just leaving if that's all you're in the world's greatest cities for. Hell, I live upstate here in Albany and I have had no issues getting pussy and the nightlife here was nowhere near NYC levels. Are you just that rich and bored?
/r/seduction22/05/20 05:00 PM
1

Date online, or just go out on weekends. I work a lot and meet a lot of girls online that end up being long term girls or just short little flings
/r/seduction26/12/19 03:08 AM
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Yes but I didnt let it stop me from pursuing and taking action when the moments were right. I think learning how women showed attraction helped a lot, also changing personal habits like clothing and hygiene
/r/seduction26/12/19 03:07 AM
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If it makes you feel better, I didnt start getting consistently laid until senior year of college. Exponential increase in the years after. Now I'm fucking girls I'd never dream of fucking in college. I think having a job and successful life matters more after college. The only reason most of those dudes in college get laid a lot is either social benefits or because they're the best option for ladies at that point in life. But ive fucked more college girls out of college than I did when I was in…
/r/seduction25/12/19 07:30 PM
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I'd gladly give you any other part of the conversation since I doubt you have any girls saying this shit to you
/r/seduction21/12/19 10:15 PM
1

Not sure why you seem so salty buddy. I've been seeing this girl for a while, not every response needs to be some sort of canned DHV or whatever, I honestly didn't know what else to even say. For a so called "manwhore" you must not know how to actually capture a woman's heart
/r/seduction21/12/19 10:14 PM
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I've made it clear from the beginning that I did not want to be in a relationship at this point in my life to focus more on my career and self-happiness. She is basically an unofficial girlfriend it feels, she cooks me dinner, watches my dog time to time, basically a girlfriend except there's no label and I always try to keep the mushy stuff to a minimum. Weird situation to say the least. I think either way she's happy.
/r/seduction20/12/19 10:49 PM
2

She is aware that I've seen other women since we've met. I've told her she can see other guys but she basically refuses to. It's an interesting situation to say the least.
/r/seduction20/12/19 10:47 PM
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It's an interesting situation because I was upfront with her about wanting to just play it cool with her but shes definitely fighting the desire to just be with me solo. Tough choice cause I would date her but I have another girl I'm also talking to, don't want to be in a relationship at all currently and am enjoying the casual but intimate situation.
/r/seduction20/12/19 10:43 PM
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Honestly all you need to do is keep things chill, open and real. Let women win you over by making it clear via your actions and vibe that she could lose you any day now. Not saying be emotionally abusive but having no emotional attachments in life in general helps immensely with this part. You can still like a girl but also like another, and if she doesnt like you, then there are others that will.
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:29 PM
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Its sadly the opposite for me. I have two girls that are in love with me and I'm not sure what to do because I like them equally but the situations for both are quite different. I also don't want to be in a relationship and want to focus on my career and life. I enjoy the "casual" sex and don't want to bring other relationship bullshit into it. Honestly I wish I was you in a way, because no one is expecting anything out of you. I feel like I'm going to be forced to pick one eventually.
/r/seduction19/12/19 05:13 PM
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I honestly stopped caring once I learned how to seduce. Now I'm more focused on my career and life in general than getting laid. I think it's just a part of "growing up" Maybe others have grown up too
/r/seduction19/12/19 04:11 PM
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Cock Ball Torture?
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:46 PM
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If you work together just stay away. Never mix pussy and your career. If you don't mind losing the job potentially, then go for it. Also why the fuck do you care if shes in a relationship? She clearly doesnt. If anything shes doing you a favor and giving you the green light to just fuck her brains out and not have to worry about calling her after because shes already a cheater and just looking to get laid. I still wouldnt do it though, I try to keep my career and my personal life as separate as …
/r/seduction08/10/19 01:56 PM
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By doing nothing. Wait for her to make contact. Or if you do feel the need to reach out, share something cool about your life like something cool youre doing, remind her what shes missing out on
/r/seduction08/10/19 12:35 AM
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Then just match what shes doing. If she wants to see you, she will reach out. She might not ever say she wants to see you, but assume if shes reaching out to you, she wants you to set up a meeting in some form. You said you just met this girl, so shes probably not "sold" on you yet. Best thing you can do is see other girls, keep your options open and keep pursing your purpose in life. She will notice and eventually become more interested. If she doesn't, you won't be bothered because you have ot…
/r/seduction07/10/19 02:21 AM
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I'd say you can text each other as much as you want but when I'm in a relationship, I still seem to maintain the "she texts first" vibe. Always just keep shit lighthearted and slightly sexual. That's what keeps her wanting you to herself. Always gotta be giving her good sexual masculine vibes, take that as you will. Just never be texting about depressing or "real" shit, ya know? Save that for in person where you can balance it with actual physical contact, bonding, etc. Otherwise you're just the…
/r/seduction07/10/19 02:17 AM
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Yep. Like Coach Corey Wayne says, she should always be doing 70-80% of all the talking in any situation. That includes texts. If she wants to blow your phone up, let her do it, it only means shes just chasing you more. But you never blow up her phone. You just push it towards a hangout or something that makes her like you even more.
/r/seduction06/10/19 08:12 PM
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You're supposed to text each other to set up the next date. If you ever feel you're starting to text more than make plans or at least texting stuff that doesnt either increase her attraction or your value, you should probably wait longer between texts or just set the next date. Texting just to chat about random shit is how you become a friend and not a lover. Save the random convos for in person
/r/seduction06/10/19 07:28 PM
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Nah, I'm also messing with a 28 year old woman too who literally made me lunch, did my dishes and gave me $20 after I fucked her the second time so its hit or miss but usually miss with the older ones
/r/seduction03/10/19 05:42 PM
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I don't blame him. I'm 28 and have been messing with a cute 22 year old and shes way more fun/sexy than girls my age
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:11 PM
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I mean when youre Leo, if you have a type, you get to choose your type
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:10 PM
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How did you get a girlfriend if you never even fucked her yet lol, did you not read anything on here
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:37 PM
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I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just plan on all the other girls you might meet during your next month. If she wants to keep you around, she will probably ask when you're coming back or something. Maybe shoot her a text in a week commenting on how your trip is going and see her response
/r/seduction07/07/19 11:02 PM
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It's kind of like how sales jobs work. The customer backs out of an appointment or deal and says this same shit basically. "Okay, hope you feel better. I can meet at X time on X day. Work for you?" If she still doesnt want to set a solid date, she prob wasnt interested in the first place. If she was actually sick and wanted to see you, she would turn down the offer but usually profusely set up other chances to meet. Remember, girls will usually always make time for guys they like or could like. …
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:45 AM
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Why don't you just go for one of the millions of single girls that probably exist around you anyway? Or just befriend her and just subtly flirt with her and truly get to know her, so when/if her and her bf split, you'll pretty much be the next best choice. That is if you can handle getting the seconds, which you'd be getting anyway (technically any non virgin girl is seconds...) Honestly, I've been with quite a few women but never felt the desire to get with another man's girl. Too much to worry…
/r/seduction29/05/19 03:52 AM
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lol
/r/seduction04/05/19 09:20 PM
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I just think the huge surge of feminism in American culture has pushed women away from the feminine ideal and towards more masculine appearances/behavior. Great cause more power to them but not great for men because now you have women with the same challenges when it comes to dating and women being selective but they're all shittier options now. Same attitude, uglier/less desirable women. This is mainly in the cities though, go to the more rural areas of any state and women still want to be pret…
/r/seduction25/04/19 05:10 PM
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I can agree that most American women are gross af but hey, if you wanna get pussy they're certainly easier than European girls. Being attractive and confident is generallt universal. Having money just makes it easier for hotter girls to say yes
/r/seduction25/04/19 02:28 PM
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Imagine you are a tall, attractive, successful white male that has game. You'd feel the same feeling you're feeling now almost anywhere on Earth.
/r/seduction25/04/19 01:26 PM
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Good cringe material here dude. You dated one girl and put a ring on it and now you're trying to give out advice? You should have dated and fucked about maybe 50 more women before wifing one or trying to teach other men how to get laid. Anyone can put a collar on a dog and say its theirs, dont be surprised when your boundaries start getting tested. I have a feeling your lack of experience will leave you very unprepared.
/r/seduction17/04/19 07:24 PM
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I started dating a girl back in Late Sept/Nov. We see each other maybe once-twice a week. It's been great, because I don't get bored of her, and she doesnt get bored of me. She has time to miss me and definitely shows it when we do get together. I totally know that if we hung out 3-4 times a week, it would be really lame. ​ We want to eventually get a place together (it makes sense in our situation but a little too soon yet) bnut I know that I don't have to worry about relationship burnout since…
/r/seduction03/03/19 03:33 PM
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If you're broke, pussy should be the last thing on your mind my dude
/r/seduction28/02/19 04:05 AM
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Once you start looking for beautiful women who are also interesting, you realize that they are a lot rarer than you think. Most hot women these days dont need to be interesting because they can always just get laid cause theyre hot. Men need to be interesting to get laid. Not to say hot women dont prefer men who want them for their personality, its just that most of them dont need to develop much of an intensely interesting personality or lifestyle cause they can just find some chode to fake lau…
/r/seduction21/01/19 08:12 PM
0

Just fuck other chicks
/r/seduction04/01/19 05:50 PM
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Just break up with her. The relationship is already over.
/r/seduction21/12/18 02:42 AM
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You're only 24, most people your age are inexperienced. Almost every girl that age that ive fucked either back when I was that age or now at age 28, has been a total fraud. They just do what society wants in terms of looking hot and acting like they're sexy and stuff but the second the clothes and makeup is off, its obvious they have no idea what theyre doing in bed.
/r/seduction20/12/18 10:28 PM
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Well first off: youre in a seduction forum. Seduction is the act of ultimately convincing a girl to fuck you, not suck your cock, actually putting your dick inside. So you need to get over the whole penis in vagina act as sole sacred thing thats worth waiting for. Just wear a condom and just do it. Secondly, focus more on your life. Get back on your feet and dont give up. You have no debt, so invest some money into whatever will enhance your personality or lifestyle. Thats what women will eventu…
/r/seduction20/12/18 10:11 PM
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You are actually a fucking loser cause you dont realize how good you actually have it. Go fuck yourself kid, wake up and realize you're the only one fucking up your own life
/r/seduction20/12/18 09:56 PM
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Gross
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:18 PM
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I dont blame you, just tread carefully. "I have a boyfriend" is usually only as valid as her body language and tone is when saying it. If shes giving IOIs and still saying she had a boyfriend, probably just bs. If shes obviously closed off or drops the boyfriend bomb early into the interaction, shes trying to put you in the friendzone quick for whatever reason
/r/seduction15/12/18 09:08 PM
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Just stop being a fuckboi and find single girls. The only reasons girls will say they have a boyfriend is if they dont like you or they actually have one. If a girl really likes you and is taken, she will try real hard to make sure you guys stay friends.
/r/seduction15/12/18 08:34 PM
2

Would you even want to date a supermodel? After a while the constant shit tests, challenges from AMOGs and constant judgments by society would make it hard to actually date her
/r/seduction12/12/18 02:52 PM
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Live a life you love. I play video games and bullshit most of the time but date a pretty cute girl just because she likes the same shit Idk man
/r/seduction12/12/18 10:15 AM
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This is literally the saddest weeb shit Ive ever read. Listen dude, I love Asian chicks as much as most dudes. Hell, I just recently started dating one for the first time in my life (first time with an Asian) and literally the pussy doesnt feel any less diff than any other girl. Yes, there is an extra bonus of her being Asian but the second you let the girl know you have yellow fever, it just makes shit awkward. I treat my girl just like any other woman I like, she just happens to be Asian. My l…
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:57 AM
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Whats the best way to maintain attraction if the first date is a few days away? I find myself torn between having little tidbits of text convo in between, but wonder if radio silence would be better. Wouldnt she just forget about me?
/r/seduction29/11/18 10:36 PM
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I feel you man. I made a big mistake going to school for English and proceeded to not write a single work since I was forced to in college. I cant even mention my degree without getting judgment. Right now I work in retail wireless sales, so I make a decent amount of money, maybe as much as a teacher would make anyway. But I still have not much to show for my college, or life in general. Have never traveles anywhere cool, never published any fancy novels, dont have some big social life. I work a…
/r/seduction28/11/18 06:48 PM
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You'll meet girls when you're making STEM money, bro.
/r/seduction26/11/18 03:26 PM
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"I never flirt with girls" ​ There's your problem. You don't show interest first. Women don't flirt like men do. Women showing interest is mainly just looking at a guy longer than she'd look at an inanimate object, or standing closer than normal. It's still the guy's job to "open" the interaction. We still have to do most of the work. It's just your job to make her laugh and feel good. Women don't like rejection, so they rarely will put themselves out there like that unless you're some celebrity…
/r/seduction24/11/18 11:29 PM
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Because most fully westernized countries have women that have a very high sense of ego/self-value and only bother with the top players around them. I feel women and people in general in those lesser countries don't put as much importance on social status and all that bs that American women, etc care about
/r/seduction21/11/18 05:19 PM
2

Your roommate is a certified cockblocker
/r/seduction17/11/18 07:45 PM
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Just fuck her right in the pussy
/r/seduction12/11/18 05:13 PM
1

Night as in a bar setting not some random woman on the street at night. I thought that was obvious, hah.
/r/seduction11/11/18 07:34 PM
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Dude I'm a short brown dude too and honestly sometimes it's awesome cause when a white dude is confident in himself, no one really cares but when I'm confident in myself, the whole room notices. There are a lot of challenges in terms of immediate physical attraction, yes, but once you stop giving a fuck, you realize that people respect you more than succumbing to social hierarchies
/r/seduction11/11/18 04:17 PM
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Maybe you're looking for women in the wrong places. Most women who go out these days are a particular type of woman who looks for a particular type of guy. I'm the same way, I don't really do well at the bars or parties much because those situations require massive social proof and attractiveness to make you stand out. I like the more low key type of girls, the types you find at the divey bars or cafes. So that's where I usually find more success. I'm not saying you shouldnt go out to bars, but …
/r/seduction11/11/18 04:05 PM
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Maybe find some woman on the street and ask her to give you a total unbiased opinion on your appearance. Make sure she knows that she can be honest. Try doing it at night too, or ask the types of women you want to attract. Once you get a decent opinion from the source, you can get a beginning idea of what you need to work on
/r/seduction11/11/18 02:51 PM
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Stop having expectations. Your friend probably just said the right things to the right girl at the right time. Women are emotional. If you have your physical look as receptive as possible to as many women as possible, and know how to spike emotions, you can get random makeouts in bars too. Your first step is to stop expecting to get success just because you try. You need to be the prize, the one women are supposed to want. You probably come off as needy, expecting something out of women when you…
/r/seduction11/11/18 02:49 PM
2

Yeah sure. Anyway can get laid man. I'm not saying only top guys get laid but you know for a fact that women are often looking for the best guys first and then go for the homeless ones after.
/r/seduction22/10/18 02:13 PM
1

Yeah man the only things you can control are the things you do within your own life and the people you try to put yourself around. Like countless seduction masters say, if you live an attractive life, attractive women tend to appear
/r/seduction21/10/18 09:49 PM
3

You forgot that almost all these dating apps and dating in general is the woman's decision. She's open to fuck, but only the best guys. If you were the best option she'd literally just tell you a time and place to meet to fuck. Women make it real easy when they want you. Once you accept this, yes, it's more depressing but then you stop feeling let down cause you know you wouldn't have had fun with her in the first place. I feel like 1 out of maybe 100+ matches I get ever lead to even an in perso…
/r/seduction21/10/18 09:09 PM
3

Girls do this, not women for the most part
/r/seduction18/09/18 12:55 PM
6

Yeah but did you get laid/even a number?
/r/seduction01/09/18 11:17 PM
1

Get a new gf lol
/r/seduction19/08/18 04:19 PM
1

Looooool
/r/seduction15/08/18 05:37 AM
39

That's also why women like "bad boys" more than wimpy beta nice guys. Because bad boys are predictable. You know how they're gonna act because you already know they're most likely going to whatever has their best interests in mind. With nice guys, like the speaker in the video said, you can't tell because they will just change how they act based on what they can get from other people. The second a girl friendzones him or does something he doesn't want, usually the act drops and he turns into an …
/r/seduction12/08/18 08:32 PM
4

Based on some of the girls I see dudes like this smashing I'd say they are successful
/r/seduction22/07/18 06:22 PM
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This makes sense if you're some clown like 6ix9ine or something but 99 percent of dudes on the streets these days have something about them that's "normal". If you really wanted to subscribe to the normie world, you'd just wear long socks, penny loafers, sweatshorts and a t shirt like almost all college age dudes these days
/r/seduction22/07/18 05:41 PM
1

Sure, practice but I'm just saying I wouldn't get too involved
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:17 PM
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Typical female bullshit dude. Don't fall into her trap, I'd honestly just run cause if she's gonna act like that when you guys first meet, how's she gonna act when you get more involved?
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:39 PM
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The hands usually give it away. Or check for an Adams apple since there's not really many trannies who will go to the lengths of removing that
/r/seduction16/07/18 07:55 PM
7

Nah do coffee first. Gives you a chance to talk and build comfort, then she will like you more in noisy ass Dave and Buster's. Get drunk and make out with her in one of the curtained game booths. Easy bro, c'mon
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:03 PM
4

no shit, obviously women are gonna like a dude who will do shit for women before other men
/r/seduction11/07/18 01:24 AM
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Yeah, I'm at the point where I feel like I get even more negative attention now because I don't give a fuck and I seem to be someone that should give a fuck according to most people around me. It's like people think that you're faking it if you aren't someone who traditionally should be insecure (aka my nerdy short self)
/r/seduction08/07/18 11:59 PM
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Cause women these days don't think like that because of feminism. They see themselves as eternally higher on the sexual market and think no matter who they are or what place in life they are, the guy has to be the one to win them over. Anything else is her being too easy or not respected as a woman. So the smart non brainwashed women get laid more or find fulfilling relationships while the busted feminazi types spend forever trying to get chodes to get their hints and keep beta orbiters constant…
/r/seduction05/07/18 08:01 PM
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I got laid more than my frat brother roommates did. And they were even more popular than me. Don't rely on your frat brothers to get you laid. They don't really care about you like that. You still gotta go out, approach, and make connections on your own. Stick to professional connections with the frat shit
/r/seduction26/06/18 12:10 AM
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I'm not doing things to seek praise. It's just after a while you start you wonder if there's just something wrong with you that pushes people away even when on paper you're not much different than other people who have an abundant social life
/r/seduction24/06/18 10:20 PM
2

I do online dating a lot and it's worked for me in the past but I feel like it's declining over time
/r/seduction24/06/18 08:23 PM
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It's not that I don't realize I'm the one doing work, it's just that I don't seem to have an attractive life no matter what I do. It's like I have a permanent reputation as a loser. Most of the stuff I do for myself, it's just frustrating that I never seem to be rewarded with praise, friends, women or anything for any ssuccess I achieve. But yet every other guy I see around me gets a new job, takes some trip, or just posts some opinion and gets all this praise, attention, love from people. It ju…
/r/seduction24/06/18 08:06 PM
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Cool now you should start actually trying to get laid, set up a date then and there, be sexual, make sure they don't think you're just trying to be friends with them. It's not hard to approach a woman and be friends with her. The challenge is going from stranger to potential love interest.
/r/seduction10/06/18 12:34 AM
1

Just get a dog and a nice girlfriend lol
/r/seduction01/06/18 11:38 PM
1

Then find some meekish type of nice girl. Honestly you can't really tell what kind of woman would make a good wife or mother until you take those steps with her. But my main point is regardless of what you want in a woman, you still gotta live your life. You're already breaching one of the big no-nos of seduction by trying to base your life choices around some woman that doesn't even exist yet. Do the things you like to do and just meet as many women as you can. You're gonna get a lot of rejecti…
/r/seduction01/06/18 08:20 PM
1

Dude, if you live an awesome life, women will want to be a part of it. Children and marriage and that whole bullshit is all just a side effect. But at the end of the day, it's still your life. Enjoy it, that's the great thing about being a man, you can really do almost anything you want in life with no attachments. Despite what women think these days, I still feel that it's not in their heads to go through life without becoming attached to some sort of man in some form. (Real unpopular opinions,…
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:38 PM
1

It's not passive aggressive, it's the truth...lol
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:19 PM
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Stop doing boyfriend like things. Stop going on dates that don't lead to sex, stop being romantic. Just keep it super fun and sexual, if it starts venturing into talking about feelings, personal history, etc, then just switch the subject to sex or something. Bring up other girls you've fucked or you think are cute. Let her catch you checking out other girls. You get the idea.
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:56 AM
1

This is why marriage seems stupid. So you lose the constant sex from being single and in the field, the financial freedom, the lack of emotional stress from a spouse...for what? Sex once a week from someone who doesn't even want it, maybe some tax perks and constant emotional support (if you're lucky, you could get the same from a normal gf or just male friends). So tell me again, why even bother getting married? Other than having a better environment for childraising, it seems like a terrible d…
/r/seduction05/05/18 10:43 PM
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I just say "how about you get the next round and then I'll get the one after?" If she doesn't agree to this then she purely just wants a free drink
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:07 PM
2

I usually use taking my dog out as an excuse. In reality, it's because I actually need to take him out, plus girls love cute dogs so they get the bonus of being in my place, and the comfort of a cute pupper to make it feel less "just you and me now..." But in the example you stated, I would make the second meeting a quick drink and then back to your place so it's less "we had one date and now we are gonna fuck" type of vibe on her end.
/r/seduction24/04/18 10:38 PM
1

He doesn't realize this is the part where he's supposed to keep treating her like any other girl
/r/seduction24/04/18 10:35 PM
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You do the drinks and fucking on the first date. The trick is to just build the attraction a little over text but really amp it up on the date. The hardest part is getting her to a place to have sex without it being too obvious, but sometimes it's just on between you and that's not an issue. Also the problem is that she may get buyer's remorse if shes a particularly romantic type cause fucking on the first date is not what most women logically do.
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:54 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction07/04/18 04:04 PM
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Go for the lay. Amp up the flirting and push/pull but don't forget to build up some comfort at the beginning with getting to know you questions/games. But be sure to make it clear that your ultimate goal is sex, or you'll get friend zoned. Just make sure you are trying to touch her as well, just start small and work your way up to stuff like holding her hand, touching her leg, the small of her back, the stuff that turns women on and makes them feel like you're a confident guy. As for bringing he…
/r/seduction29/03/18 11:39 PM
7

You could have that same experience with many girls that aren't disappearing. Just chalk it up as a fun memory and find someone that you can do that stuff with all the time
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:15 PM
2

Well honestly if you show too much interest you might push her away. It's her job to find you super special
/r/seduction21/03/18 09:18 PM
8

Just give her some space and talk to other girls. You need to talk less and spend more time gaming her in person. If you aren't setting up solid dates, you're wasting your time if you aren't talking to other girls. It's all about just maximizing your options. College is the time when you should have a shit ton of girls in your "rotation"
/r/seduction21/03/18 07:15 PM
3

This is the critical moment where you need to reflect back on yourself and make sure that your frame is air tight. The more you stay the same, the more she will like you, until it gets to the point where as the other dude said, you have way more room to fuck up. But you want at least maybe a solid month of her loving who you said you are until you can start acting a little bit more vulnerable and real. Or just do what I do and act that way from the start.
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:17 PM
2

Wow this is actually pretty gay, congrats. Though I'm sure some girls would dig it, but they'd probably dig anything you did at that point
/r/seduction14/03/18 12:40 AM
1

I'm 5'5" and almost every girl I've dated or hooked up with was my height or taller
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:07 PM
1

Just have to stay a little more confident than the average height dudes, especially around your girl of course. But other than that, just do what any other guy would do...I personally love dating/hanging with girls taller than me
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:59 PM
1

We do other things too, normal things that couples do. I suppose she's just the low maintenance type. I don't feel like I need to bring her on amazing adventures to gain her affection. Just the fact that I exist is good enough for her. That's what my point is
/r/seduction18/04/17 04:35 PM
20

Just do what I did and find a girl that's both nerdy as fuck but attractive enough to be seen in public with. Rare but so much stress off my shoulders having to pretend I'm some super amazing guy. We just watch YouTube videos some nights, shit that other girls would think is lame
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:05 PM
1

I guess you need to appeal more to your target audience. If you don't want to get chased by ugly fat women or old women, try not being such a nice looking pussy type of guy. Be the kind of guy who does badass things, someone thats a little rough around the edges but not crossing the line of weirdo or dangerous. That's what most younger women want, but it really depends. Honestly, just having social proof is enough to get laid these days.
/r/seduction06/02/17 05:46 AM
1

Armani Code Profumo is by far my favorite. It's a very masculine spiced smell that women seem to love, I get lots of compliments and sniffs from mah ladies
/r/seduction06/02/17 03:17 AM
3

Yeah, I mean when you're in the range of 9s and 10s, you absolutely need to have the whole financial, physical, and personality thing down tight, but for a majority of women, they just want a guy who's at least a 6-7 who makes them laugh and isn't a total scrub
/r/seduction05/02/17 05:46 AM
6

Shit man, I'm 26 and I still seem to only date women in the 21-23 age range. Helps living in a college town but for being someone who makes decent money (broke as hell lately) and doesn't do much but play video games and shit, I somehow get laid by 7-8's. I do the online thing and flirt in real life if I meet a girl I dig. It's just about being confident. Girls right away will be able to tell if you're the sexual potential lover type or the good friend type. Heavy eye contact, and just general c…
/r/seduction05/02/17 05:43 AM
65

I realized that women weren't these magical creatures that only fuck guys with looks or money and anyone else was wasting their time. I just realized you have to make them laugh and feel good and be good in bed and most girls will stick around even if you're broke and ugly
/r/seduction04/02/17 09:50 PM
1

You just need to work on your game bro. I literally do nothing other than work, play video games, and hang with my dog. I work out every so often, and still get laid. Not by 9s and 10s of course, but girls attractive enough to be proud of.
/r/seduction22/11/16 02:20 PM
8

Plus a lot of those popular girls are only popular because they are fun to be around at parties and bring hot girls with them. Outside of that scene, they're usually just run of the mill basic bitches, some might be cool, but most are usually just meh.
/r/seduction24/08/16 04:13 PM
11

Dude, the nerdy but cute girls are the best kind. The vapid party sluts eventually get all used out and whack, the nerdy cute girls are the ones that still fuck wildly, are smart enough to succeed, and usually are decent girlfriend material. But it's personal opinion, I've had a lot of different type of girls in college, but the nerdy/hipstery type girls always worked out better.
/r/seduction24/08/16 04:12 PM
1

Yeah probably, if you just met
/r/seduction29/06/16 03:02 AM
2

Just tell her straight up you were hoping to just hang out with her. Don't be afraid to frame it as a date because your intentions are such. If she won't even hang out with you alone in public she probably doesn't see you as a sexual partner or romantic potential
/r/seduction29/06/16 12:30 AM
1

Nah man. I'm 5'5" and while I'm not pulling 10s probably because lack of social circle, I get laid often becau se of my funny personality, good career, intelligence and sex game. Of course my actual total game has been sealed pretty tight overtime too. A lot of girls look at me and probably don't think of me as a potential mate but most often I am good at polarizing girls in my favor. Just gotta create an undeniable presence around yourself
/r/seduction27/06/16 09:20 PM
1

Go with friends. That way you kinda have a "home base" when no one else is around. If you're solo, try to find a group quickly to be that home base. Just socialize in some form so you aren't that one dude just wandering. If all else fails just be crazy and outgoing and talk to everyone cause then even if you don't get laid or whatever, you made friends and at least had fun
/r/seduction21/02/16 08:03 PM
2

Girls like nerds but nerds that aren't basement dwelling fatasses. Basically just wearing glasses these days makes you a nerd so take the term lightly. I dress well and work out and wear "cool" glasses and play a lot of video games and I've gotten laid lots of times. It's more just knowing how to handle women. It sucks cause I'm in a relationship now and I'm losing my game but idk, might see what happens cause I'm starting to wonder if things could be better with some decisions
/r/seduction05/02/16 07:00 PM
3

For real, sometimes you just gotta start swinging. I'd rather it go down as me getting my ass kicked while defending my girl than me getting my ass kicked because he took it too far and I meekly tried to defend the situation.
/r/seduction31/01/16 05:10 PM
1

I find that it's good to take the core elements f gme home with you: be confident, unafraid of rejection, willing to go out of your comfort zone and start caring more about your health/appearance. Learning how most women work is good but if you don't have a solid foundation for yourself, you will either just get laid but never have a relationship or get stuck in a relationship with someone you don't really want long term because you're too afraid to just go solo and find girls you want.
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:36 AM
1

It sounds like she likes you but you should probably stop caring as much. College girls these days are pretty flaky because of their environments and being an older guy you should have the frame of someone who is more independent and busy. Try being less available and make her feel like she's wining you over. If she doesn't put any effort in the dates then it's clear you're probably just her source of entertainment/sex with someone better than a college guy. I would try gettin to know her more. …
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:32 AM
3

Just put on the XXYYXX self tilted album. It's kinda trippy at some parts but it's all slow intimate beats that is almost hypnotic
/r/seduction17/01/16 11:55 PM
2

Yeah I've had girls literally say that exact thing and I just laughed in their face and walked away
/r/seduction19/12/15 02:33 PM
2

I honestly just start talking and if we seem to vibe, I'll ask her to get the first round. If she's cool she usually will. If she's all like "you're supposed to buy me one" then I know she's not my type.
/r/seduction19/12/15 04:34 AM
124

That's when you just play their game. Treat women like you have high standards too. Don't bother falling into their hairflip/youlookatthem/theylookoffended game. Don't buy girls drinks. Talk to them like they're friends, not targets. Eventually women will just get the vibe that you truly don't care and have something to value. If they don't, who cares, because you're a valuable guy and you can find someone who actually cares eventually. I used to get all upset about who I was and how women saw m…
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:20 PM
1

Yeah, it's honestly mainly this. You don't have to try to meet hot girls in college because they live five minutes from you and do the same things in the same places. In the real world, you have to find reasons to be in the place where those same girls go. Just like joining a club in school, try to find some social group that does something you like. Chances are you'll meet at least one attractive girl worth talking to, even if it's fucking Magic the Gathering or some shit (who knows)
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:39 AM
1

Make something of yourself. I notice its easy to fuck girls in college because you're all in the same breeding grounds for success. A lot of times you get lucky because you're that music major who can play guitar really well, or you're the sexy guy who is in for some really hard STEM degree. If you end up becoming someone special, then you instantly stick out from most guys who kinda fade into nonexistence after their 4 years of fame. What's better though is that it's easier to find girls who ar…
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:34 AM
2

Because most girls are boring once they drop the whole act of being hard to get. Same with guys but it's just annoying to hve a girl blow you off and then when she's out of options, decides you're the one. It's kinda insulting
/r/seduction11/12/15 10:48 PM
2

Exactly. Any self respecting dude doesn't wait for girls to "decide" it's a good time to like him. She either does or she doesn't. This isn't the Middle Ages or the 50s, there's no reason why we should be spending weeks or even months courting girls when you can just meet and be dating others just as easily. Same goes for women though, if a guy doesn't like you, just move on. Don't wait and suffer until he decides he suddenly wants you.
/r/seduction11/12/15 10:47 PM
5

Because then the game has been won and it's boring because the conclusion is already known.
/r/seduction11/12/15 06:43 PM
1

You face the problem that millions of women have with guys. We don't get subtle hints. We don't work like that. We think more logically. If a woman is saying "let's fuck" then there's no issue of what she means to us. If she is like "hey I would really be down to do this one thing one day" then we normally assume you mean actually trying that one thing some day, not right now. I wish my girlfriend would just understand that if she wants to initiate sex, just start kissing me or touching me or ju…
/r/seduction30/11/15 10:24 PM
2

This. I was a "nerd" in school. Basically spent most of my free time playing video games or doing schoolwork. I managed to get laid a good amount of times without having an extensive social network. Graduated and have a gf now, but after school things became easier with women. Had more free time, more money, more opportunities. All the cool bro/jocks don't gain more credit after college. If anything, they lose credit. Once you leave college, your social network doesn't really matter much anymore…
/r/seduction18/11/15 07:06 PM
1

This is what people seem to be avoiding. Maybe the dude just isn't the best looking. Girls these days are ruthless when it comes to appearance because of all the media influence of what they should be attracted to. If you aren't the stereotypical idea of what an attractive guy is, they more often than not will just assume you're not worth talking to. It's the terrible truth.
/r/seduction07/11/15 07:36 PM
5

Of course if you want to learn the answer to OP's title, you gotta sign up for shit.
/r/seduction20/10/15 05:47 PM
2

As sad as it is, just don't be ugly or overly aggressive. If you're fat and awkward, getting laid will be a monumental effort unless the girl is equal to your fat/ugliness. The "league" really does exist, as in, girls want guys that are equal or better than them in terms of looks and social status. Moving up the ladder takes serious game or being rich. It's sad and there's exceptions, but it stands as a general rule.
/r/seduction20/10/15 05:26 PM
-3

Wait til around dinner time, text her asking her what trouble she's getting into. If she doesn't give a solid answer, just be like "yo lets get dinner and chill after" something along those lines. Maybe just get food and then go do shots, that why you'll already have been with her a few places and she will feel more invested. Once you get back to your place, I'm pretty sure the same thing will happen but better if you don't fuck up ;D
/r/seduction12/09/15 05:03 PM
1

Fencing, writing, playing video games, guitar, men's fashion, weightlifting, swimming.
/r/seduction09/09/15 10:44 PM
4

You need to just realize that you've gotten that far (shes naked in your bed) so what do you really need to be afraid of? You're obviously used to fucking girls you're totally comfortable with, just realize that you'll spend more time with these girls and if you fuck them right, you won't worry about it again.
/r/seduction06/10/14 03:32 PM
1

Uh, no dude. If you're already meeting in a public place, why the fuck would she bring a roommate? It's because she isn't attracted to you enough to fuck you. If she thought you were fuckable, she wouldn't bring along some girl to have to be accountable for. On almost every date I've gone on, I've never had a girl bring a friend, especially a first date.
/r/seduction04/10/14 03:32 PM
1

Lol.
/r/seduction02/09/14 05:43 PM
1

I've given up on types. I just look for girls that have my personality type rather than her appearance. Some hot girls are actually pretty chill and some ugly girls are just bitches so you can't determine type until you get to know someone.
/r/seduction30/08/14 08:46 PM
1

The only way you can create a social circle around you is to also start something. Throw a party, organize a party, start a club, or even a weekly meeting or something. Anything that people have to go to you to confide in, and anything in which you are the source of fun for other people always works for attraction
/r/seduction30/08/14 12:09 AM
1

Yes, and yes. Join clubs definitely. It gives you a reason to be on campus when class isn't happening, and gives you a reason to meet other people. Try to join ones that are "cool" and have high girl-to-guy ratios. Don't do something you;ll totally loathe but chess club or Warhammer club isn't exactly going to net you a lot of potential girls. Try MMA club or something political. Depending on what kind of girls you go for, the club you join matters. So, sporty girls = sports clubs nerdy girls = …
/r/seduction30/08/14 12:07 AM
1

Best advice I can get is make as many contacts as possible. That way, you'll have so many friends constantly inviting you out, it won't seem that hard to have plans on/near campus. For example, I'm going to a party in a few hours thats definitely a college party, but I graduated last year. But because of being friends with people, I get invited to parties I wouldn't know about otherwise.
/r/seduction29/08/14 11:45 PM
5

You should have been like "Yes, those are important, hands off." or something funny and then gotten to know them. When they said lets get food, then you could have had a reason to go with them, or at least get a number for future food outings. You need to learn to take opportunities when they appear. That's mostly what college is. If you see a chance to improve your life in any way, be it spending more time with someone, or joining a club, or exploring new subjects, then by all means do it. Obvi…
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:11 AM
2

My ED is mainly just anxiety. I fucked a girl last night in her own house and was hard as a rock forever. Bring a girl to my pad and it's shame city. I think when I have sex unexpectedly, I perform better. If things go to plan and I get a girl home, it seems like my dick doesn't want to help.
/r/seduction22/08/14 07:05 PM
3

Oh man if I could redo college in my 18 year old body, shit would be literally epic. I was such a weirdo only until about junior year when I started dressing nicer and working out and actually talking to women right. Downside was I started to neglect school itself.
/r/seduction29/07/14 06:21 PM
3

The long-term game thing is right. Like I said in my post, spend a good time during the beginning building a solid social group. The popular kids with all the hot girls are usually just all friends fucking each other. You see those "college" videos on porn sites with crazy parties with girls getting fucked everywhere? They aren't fake. The "secret society" is real, be the one who starts it.
/r/seduction29/07/14 07:22 AM
25

If I could only be a freshman again... 1.) Approach all the fucking time. All those things that seemed sacrilegious in high school becomes okay in college. Which means going up to a girl and saying those openers won't make you a nerd, it will make you a "mature" guy. Because only seniors or older guys would have the balls, so it makes you seem higher value. 2.) Freshman girls especially have been dreaming of all the hot college guys that will talk to them. You'll realize most guys in college don…
/r/seduction29/07/14 07:15 AM
3

My thoughts are pretty much: "Who gives a fuck? They say no, and you just go about what you were doing. They say yes, and you get a convo and maybe a date. If they talk shit about you for approaching, then they're just stupid because who the fuck really makes fun of someone for approaching a girl? Just do it." Almost 99% of the girls I've ended up talking to, going on dates with, or having sex with were because I just didn't give a fuck and said something to them. It also helps that I work at a …
/r/seduction28/07/14 08:26 AM
2

Just meet people who throw parties. You're on a big team right? So you're already going to be the "basketball house" right? If so, throw bangers and you'll have floods of pussy coming at you. At that point, once you have the social proof and assuming you know how to attract a girl, you can pretty much just have your pick. Just be cool and kind of the strong, quiet type and fuck girls really well. Try to act like you care about school more than partying so you don't come off as just some burnout.…
/r/seduction27/07/14 07:25 AM
2

Because most women have the option of getting laid on a whim. That's why they can go without sex because it will be waiting there for them whenever. Men have to make sex happen
/r/seduction18/07/14 08:23 PM
2

Do you live near a college campus and look like you belong there? If so, hang around the publicly accessible areas. Bring a book so it seems like you're studying. Bonus points if it's a really weird book for that "class" you're taking. But yeah, you're not gonna find a place with such a high density of single attractive young females looking to meet people besides a college campus.
/r/seduction05/07/14 07:09 PM
1

I always just end up back at my apartment on the first date. I almost do it without thinking, and while it's gotten me many hookups, it definitely decreases the chances of building some sort of relationship. So, if you just want to hookup, by all means get her back to your place when it's clear she wants you, but if you're looking for a girlfriend, definitely don't be closing that hard.
/r/seduction20/06/14 05:12 PM
1

Thanks! And I'm not saying totally drop her, I'm just saying start doing your thing, you know? You're starting to do boyfriend stuff for her and she's clearly not doing girlfriend stuff. It's all about the balance of effort, make sure she's giving more. :P But honestly, the fact that she acts like she doesn't even know you in public makes it sound like you were just a prom date. Prom can make girls do weird things, like its a mini fairy tale so of course she would kiss you and be all cute and sh…
/r/seduction05/06/14 08:52 PM
1

Sounds like she doesn't want people to know that you have/had a thing which is a huge red flag. Honestly, I would start pursuing other girls, don't waste your time on a girl that can't even show that she appreciates your company in front of others. I'm sort of dealing with the same thing, kind of involved with a girl that likes me but she's super distant and hard to get a hold of. Really annoying but then I realized I could just fuck other girls, so I did that and I think she realized eventually…
/r/seduction05/06/14 08:37 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. I'm just tired of getting flaked on and having these week long relationships so it's nice to know I'm not totally worthleaa
/r/seduction01/05/14 12:01 AM
1

You're thinking of astrology. Aquarius.
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:13 AM
4

The title of my post was more creative than anything. I would have went for a date, trust me, just trying to kind of say something inspiring.
/r/seduction30/04/14 01:47 AM
2

Yeah, you're right. I should have made it more concrete but I was trying to get the number before talking to her more. She had to run though, so it wasn't exactly my fault. She lingered for a bit before awkwardly dropping something and leaving. She definitely seemed distracted by me, haha.
/r/seduction30/04/14 01:44 AM
7

I know numbers aren't much, but this can also be a lesson in rebuilding inner state. By realizing how easy it was to get more numbers/possible dates, it really took my mind off that "one" girl, you know? You can do the same. Abundance is never an option.
/r/seduction30/04/14 12:17 AM
2

Sex with women is a gamble as well. There are a myriad of things that could go wrong with an attractive girl. She could either be attractive but not actually sexually experienced, be totally unresponsive in bed, have terrible hygiene, etc. Just having a pretty face or a nice body rarely translates into sexual performance. I've had sex with girls that were probably a 5-6, who were AMAZING in bed and not fat or anything either, but have had sex with girls that would be considered an 8+, that were …
/r/seduction13/03/14 07:59 PM
2

The best advice I can give for college bars and parties is to game the whole room. Be the guy that's introducing himself to everyone, the one everyone knows by the end of the night. The social proof will allow you to do many things you normally wouldn't be able to do like steal girls away from guys when they're dancing and have the girls love it every second, like I did. I took home a HB8 that every guy at the party was trying to snag but since everyone knew me, I let all these guys talk to her …
/r/seduction18/01/14 06:18 PM
1

I'm sorry, I'm from the northeast so the word like is just something I say. Like I type as if I'm talking, so it can seem like I'm unsure of the number.
/r/seduction11/01/14 06:46 PM
-4

How would you know or not either way? Sounds like you're just bitter.
/r/seduction11/01/14 02:51 PM
-7

Really, because I'm pretty sure I did.
/r/seduction11/01/14 02:35 PM
-5

That's strange, because I'm some broke 23 year old guy without a car and barely any furniture, struggling through college, and I'm also short and don't go to the gym often but I've been using this line and got more positive responses than not. The trick is to tailor the message to the girl. Not all girls will respond to "Why haven't we had sex yet" but some will respond to "Why haven't we ripped each other's clothes off yet?" or "Why haven't we made out furiously yet?" or if shes really conserva…
/r/seduction11/01/14 02:23 PM
-5

Dis nigga mad cause he can't get even one girl to kiss him on a date
/r/seduction05/12/13 12:29 AM
2

Yesterday I hooked up with a girl who has a boyfriend. I sort of used a boyfriend destroyer and she didn't seem to stop me. All we did was make out and some touching. But now the day after, she's not responding. I assume it's buyers remorse and guilt. Her boyfriend doesn't live in the area and she didn't seem too into him. What can I do to get her back, or at least not feel guilty about it? Thanks
/r/seduction20/11/13 06:15 PM
1

My text game could use some work. Any tips for that besides not overtexting?
/r/seduction07/11/13 06:32 AM
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