skylightshaded Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
262	I ended my situation ship this morning	MINDSET SHIFT	skylightshaded	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 11:19 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Is marriage always a good idea for a woman with assets? I’d marry another woman, but probably not a man. Even if we both had equal assets, even with a prenup, even with every box ticked and every standard met, I just don’t know that I could trust a man enough to give him legal power over me. Unless it was a matter of securing the position of my own hypothetical children, I guess it’s unlikely. I don’t think it’s something I could entirely mark out at this stage of my life, I could find The One, but even though it’s been a dream of mine since I was yo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 07:50 AM
45	Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of color In my experience as a mixed brown woman, those men will shit on any woman they think they’re better than, which is every woman they come into contact with. Yes, on the surface they put light skin, Asian, Latina, and white women over black women because it’s culturally acceptable to do so, but they don’t actually think they have any more value. They do behave slightly better because they know lighter women do have more options, since colorism doesn’t shut us down the way dark skin black women are…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 04:19 AM
18	Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions. These posts make me scared to have children. I want them, I’ve always known that, but I’ve only ever met one man I would even consider having a child with, and he still turned out to be below my expectations. And then I see these women suffer from a lazy, entitled man and I wonder how on earth I could ever trust a man enough to build a family with him. But it’s a great reminder to never settle and always think things through, divorce is an option if I get it wrong but I’d just rather remain sing…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/21 07:27 AM
5	This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can be Jesus fucking Christ. This reads like an episode of Criminal Minds, I really hope no woman unwittingly ends up with that psycho	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/21 07:20 AM
88	What's happening in Afghanistan at the moment is absolutely terrifying. We can never take our freedoms for granted. Let it be known that there are large groups of terrorist men right here on our own soil who feel the same way about women. If we are not diligent and careful, we will lose what little progress we have made over the last century to extremist religious fanaticism and the predators who latch onto those ideals as a means to their end - seizing power over women and control of social order.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/21 01:16 PM
29	I despise the way the porn industry has made it normal to be abused. I’ve strait up had a man tell me to get therapy because I didn’t want to do a sexual act that he enjoyed. The entitlement of men my age is so astronomical, and there’s never any balance of “im uncomfortable but I’ll try it for you “ and it’s really the hypocrisy that pisses me off the most. Why the hell is it so hard to respect your partner’s boundaries ?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/21 02:34 AM
103	This is our dating pool 😂 The men that make you responsible for their emotional baggage are the worst. My last guy never took emotional responsibility for how he felt, just blamed me for not being what he wanted. So glad I wised up by the third date and cut that off early.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/21 02:31 AM
29	"Division of labor imbalances in marriage are a form of spousal abuse...make him earn his right to stay married or divorce his ass." This is why divorce is always an option to me. I’ve seen too many times where someone becomes a completely different person after they marry, and I refused to fall for that trap.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/21 08:12 AM
3	I ended my situation ship this morning Cheers 🥂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 08:07 PM
5	I ended my situation ship this morning I’ll do that tonight, thanks for the suggestion	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 08:07 PM
2	I ended my situation ship this morning Thank you !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 08:06 PM
3	I ended my situation ship this morning I’ll add those to my reading list , thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 08:06 PM
7	I ended my situation ship this morning Thanks, I will! ✨	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 08:05 PM
2	I ended my situation ship this morning Thank you !!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 08:05 PM
75	Reminder I’ll never understand why misogyny is not considered grounds for a hate crime. I mean I get why, cause of the patriarchy that build our world, but it will never make sense to me. It seems that every time misandry is brought up it’s just to discredit or play down misogyny, just like how most people only bring up male rape victims when we’re discussing sexual violence against women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 03:40 PM