skylinesay_bahhh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I LOVE men! I think men are great !!		skylinesay_bahhh	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 04:20 PM

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1	Fuckboys and players: how do you do it? The best approach in my experience has been transparency (a notch up from honesty). You might be surprised how many girls out there also want something along the lines of fwb, ONS or NSA (I am one of those). I sympathise with the struggle to not develop feelings, but what reaaally helps more than anything else is when both of you are on the same page about wanting it to stay casual and that you actively communicate about it, at least at the start. Speaking from the perspective of a girl who has …	/r/seduction	16/03/21 12:16 PM
2	Is it ok to not get verbal consent for a kiss? If you misread a signal and kiss someone by mistake because you thought they wanted too does that automatically make it sexual assault, even if it was an accident? 21F here. I wouldn’t expect a guy to ask for consent to kiss me, although depending on how he went about it it wouldn’t be a turnoff if he did ask. If he went in for a kiss and I didn’t want it, he would be able to tell I just wasn’t in it and it would feel awkward. I might say something like “hahah wasn’t expecting that” at the very least. If I DID want it you would know, because I would follow your initial move and would be enthusiastic about it. And beaming lol. So my personal feelings about …	/r/seduction	09/03/21 12:41 PM
1	How do you deal with the fact that different girls will respond completely differently to the same approach? No worries, it’s funny bc I’ve caught myself wanting to approach guys in this same way but I reaaaaally hold back from doing it, for the same reasons as anyone would really. I wonder if guys would experience being approached in the same way a girl would, or not? What do you think? Like, would it be offputting and seem desperate? I just notice so many good looking guys and I’m like dang, there’s a chance they might have checked me out too and I’d never know, wish I had the balls to approach them.…	/r/seduction	26/01/21 06:18 PM
1	How do I talk dirty without sounding too cliche?!? It’s HILAAAAArious how everyone is assuming you’re a dude 🤣🤣 don’t mean this in a condescending way at all, it genuinely cracks me up, I made a similar type post where everyone assumed I was a dude and it’s so funny to have people telling you to “slap that fat ass” etc, I’m like okay, will do x)) On a more serious note, I really relate. I like being talked dirty to in small to medium doses, but as well as enjoying it I then feel this pressure to respond with dirty talk and I’m just terribly at i…	/r/seduction	26/01/21 05:51 PM
2	How do you deal with the fact that different girls will respond completely differently to the same approach? As a girl, I don’t think it’s inherently wrong or creepy to approach someone in the street. BUT I do think it’s difficult to do it in such a way that it doesn’t seem desperate, and also isn’t too imposing (most people usually just want to mind their own business.) There is some nuance which I think may make a difference. (And this only applies for these instances when you’re literally out and about and see an attractive girl in passing, not it you’re at a bar or something where it’s more sociall…	/r/seduction	26/01/21 05:39 PM
1	You’re not Obligated to Have Sex with Someone This is BRILLIANT !! I’m a gal and really needed to read this at exactly this moment. I’m terrified of turning guys down, terrified they’ll think I’ve been leading them on. Or at least I was, I’ve gotten a bit more comfortable with it the past couple months since dating around and having to send that awkward “had a lovely time but didn’t feel the chemistry” message. Right now I’m in a bit of an awkward place because I saw this guy about five times, we slept together and went on wholesome dates a…	/r/seduction	26/01/21 05:06 PM
1	Even if men admit that they over-prioritize sexual attraction and promiscuity, they don't recognize the consequences of doing that. Sorry to hear that. I think it depends entirely on the person but to me someone’s job title doesn’t mean shit unless they’re passionate about it, and if they’re not and they’re kinda just stuck in that for the time being I would empathise with that. What you’re describing was exactly the situation with my ex. He had a great musical side gig, but hated his day job because it was so demanding and didn’t having much “status”. Never an issue at all for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/21 06:14 AM
2	Even if men admit that they over-prioritize sexual attraction and promiscuity, they don't recognize the consequences of doing that. 😂 it’s amazing how people are so quick to attack. I do happen to have other things I’m passionate about and actively pursue, aside from shelf stacking, just so happens that I haven’t got a job out of any of them. And even if I couldn’t say that for myself, and stacking shelves in a supermarket WAS my only occupation and I had no other professional goals, and I was dating a guy who IS lucky enough to have a job he’s passionate about. why attack that fact?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 09:58 PM
0	Even if men admit that they over-prioritize sexual attraction and promiscuity, they don't recognize the consequences of doing that. I think my point is more so that a guy can have as interesting a job as possible, but that by itself will not make me any more interested if he’s not passionate about it. I get your point about office jobs. I’m between things rn and working in a supermarket and it’s truly difficult to frame it in any interesting kind of way, I mean who the fuck enjoys stacking shelves, amirite? i just mean though that it’s not about the status of the job, but the passion you have for it which will make you attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 10:15 AM
5	Even if men admit that they over-prioritize sexual attraction and promiscuity, they don't recognize the consequences of doing that. I would disagree, current guy I’m dating is trained in mechanical engineering and has made an electric skateboard with a chainsaw motor. How cool is that!! I think the distinction between someone who has a boring job and an interesting one largely lies on how passionate THEY are about it. If you’re an airline pilot and are just like “yeah. I’m an airline pilot.” and don’t seem to have that much passion for it, VS a mechanic who is really passionate about what he does and tries to teach me about …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 09:59 AM
2	What do you feel/think is "CONFIDENCE" To me, confidence is being at peace with yourself and your place in the world. I couldn’t really give examples of what a confident guy might do that an insecure one wouldn’t and visa versa, because I think it manifests very differently in different people. Also, being confident doesn’t mean you don’t have insecurities and quirks of neurosis. Like I wouldn’t say that a guy who is soft-spoken and shy is therefore NOT confident. In some contexts he is, but he can have a general inner peace. I guess…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/21 07:57 PM
2	If you can't get commitment, stop blaming others and take a serious look at yourself Hm... i kind of agree with this post in the sense that 1. You shouldn’t feel entitled to receive anyone’s attention (sexual, romantic or other), and shouldn’t respond to rejection by resenting that person. It’s just part of life. 2. If you’re getting constantly rejected and never approached by people you’re attracted to, you should maybe take a look at your expectations. Is there maybe a large gap between what you have to offer vs what your desired person has to offer? For example, are you cripp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 03:36 PM